Purpose isn’t something you’re meant to figure out.

It’s not a job title, it's not a five-year plan and it’s definitely not something you can control from your mind.

In this episode, Kate shares the truth about purpose - what it actually is, why so many women feel disconnected from it and how we’ve been conditioned to search for it in all the wrong places.

You will learn....

1. Why chasing purpose often leaves us feeling more lost, not more fulfilled
2. The subtle ways we abandon ourselves in the name of “success” or doing what we should do
3. How purpose is revealed through truth, aliveness, and self-trust -not pressure or control
4. What it really means to live on purpose in this chapter of your life

If you’ve ever thought, “There has to be more than this”, you’ve built a life that looks good but doesn’t quite feel right, if you know there’s something deeply meaningful for you to experience in this lifetime.

This episode is to stop tolerating a job you hate - and an invitation to dive a little deeper into yourself and the magic of your own soul.

Your purpose isn’t out there - it's already alive inside of you.

About the Host:

Kate Harlow is the founder of The Unscriptd Woman, the creator of The Expanded Love Coaching Method, and host of The New Truth podcast - ranked in the top 1.5% globally. With over 15 years of experience teaching, coaching and facilitating transformational retreats worldwide, Kate has helped hundreds of thousands of women break free from outdated relational patterns, old patriarchal ways of thinking and unspoken rules to live by. 

Her infallible methods guide women to release the deeply ingrained scripts that keep them stuck- empowering women to step into their highest, most magnetic, and fully expressed selves. Through her coaching, retreats, podcast and upcoming book The Unscriptd Woman, Kate is redefining what it means to be an empowered woman in today's world, showing women how to stop waiting for permission and start creating a life and love that aligns with their deepest truth. 

Known for her rare ability to see exactly where women are out of alignment with themselves, Kate offers a path back to unwavering self- trust, meaningful joy and true fulfillment. Her work is a revolution - one that liberates women from societal expectations and invites them into a life of radical authenticity, thriving relationships and unshakable self-worth.  

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My purpose is to continue to peel off those fear

based masks and those layers of who I'm not, and to keep being

who I am in the world, and to keep magnetizing women to me,

who I can help remind them of who they are. Your purpose is so

it's not going to look the same as mine, by any means. But what

sparks your heart. The more you live in alignment with who you

really are, the more the universe, divine matrix life,

can lead you where you're meant to go. So discover your magic.

Number one. Number two, follow your inner nudges. Say yes, even

when it's frickin scary, know that that's exactly the

direction you need to go in. And number three is trust that you

are being guided.

Hello, beautiful. Happy New Year. 2026 Oh, my goodness. Do

you remember being a kid and being like, what will the world

look like in 2026 I bet you didn't guess it would look how

it looks. I think that, I mean, I maybe imagine the Jetsons,

like cars would be flying themselves by now, they're

certainly driving themselves, aren't they, so I'm sure cars

will be flying in no time. That's an interesting thought.

So I hope that you are having a beautiful start to the new year.

I hope you got some rest over the holidays that you took

amazing, exquisite care of yourself and that you brought

your heroine to all the parties and all the events and

everything that you went to and touched and experienced. So

let's have 2026 your year of magic, the year of your heroine,

of becoming fully becoming the heroine of your life. What does

that mean? That means you being the leading lady, not the extra,

right? The leading lady of your story being the co author, the

CO writer, the CO creator, with the universe. Because, of

course, you are always being guided. You are always being

supported. And if you are afraid that you are not if you are

afraid that you are going to fail, if you are afraid that

you're never going to make anything of yourself, that

you're going to be stuck in this job. You hate forever. You are

disconnected from the truth of who you are, which is divine,

because the reality is we are all plugged into the same divine

matrix. And I am using that word very intentionally. There was a

movie, movie produced, I don't know when the matrix came out,

maybe early, 2000s

and people in spiritual, spiritual places use the the

metaphor of the matrix A lot, as the thing that is disconnecting

us from the truth of who we are and from our source. But the

reality is the matrix. In Latin, means the womb. It means the

feminine. It means Mother Earth. So the divine, the matrix is

actually what's divine, and it is the system that we're all

plugged into when, when you experience synchronicity in your

life, when you experience magic in your life, when you have a

thought about someone and then you see them or that thing comes

true. It is the matrix is the unseen quantum field that is

everywhere that birds are connected to, that the bees are

connected to that, the trees are connected to that the animals

are connected to. There is this quantum field of energy that we

can't see that is orchestrating everything that's happening in

our lives. That's the divine matrix. And yet, Hollywood made

us think that the matrix is the thing that's dumbing us down and

disconnecting us from our truth. This happens a lot in Hollywood.

They flip things so that we then get confused about what truth

is. So I certainly believe there are a lot of systems that have

been set up to disconnect us from our magic, to disconnect us

from our power. However, we're not going to go down the

conspiracy theory route today, but even the school system

right? It's the punishment system. It's a system that

teaches us about good and bad and right and wrong, and it

disconnects us from our hearts. It disconnects us from our

individuality, from our souls, from the essence of who we are.

So today, I'm excited to talk about purpose with you, because

this part that I'm talking about right now is everything when it

comes to purpose, your purpose. And this episode has been a long

time coming. There's been so many requests, and it's

sandwiched in between two episodes that are so related

that if you have not heard the New Year's episode with Farhad

100% you need to go back and listen to that episode. It is so

amazing. It's, I mean, we had so much fun recording it. It's like

90 minutes long of pure magic. He shares the most incredible

stories. And this man has been one of my best friends since I

was 19 years old. He's like a soul mate, and he has everything

he touches turns to gold. He's created so much magic in his

life, he couldn't be more on purpose. And His purpose is

never ending. Like often people think of purpose like a like a

career path. It's like you just arrive one day and you're the

CEO of a Fortune 500 company. Your purpose is not a career

path. Your purpose is something that's alive and living and

breathing. Breathing. And as you evolve as a soul, your purpose

will evolve alongside you. And so and so many women have been

asking for an episode on purpose. I'm really excited to

dive in. So this one is sandwiched between your year of

magic with Farhad, and that one is so purpose related. That

whole episode, and it's a next the next episode is about living

your dreams with an amazing woman who I'm really, really

excited to share you with next week that comes out next week.

So right in the middle, I decided to put the truth about

purpose so that we can really get you on purpose. I know that

this is something that so many women are starving for right

now, so many women I'm working with, and that my friends are

working with and that I keep hearing and meeting, are at a

crossroads, are really at that that place in their lives. Are

like, Okay, I'm no longer willing to do this thing that

sucks the life out of me. I'm no longer willing to go to this job

where someone else tells me what's wrong with me and how I

need to be better and how who, who I need to be, and how I need

to show up and how much time I need to work every day, there's

this deep call, and I think it's part of the age of Aquarian I

talk about that a lot, and I'm not an astrologer, but I just

like see so much change happening right now. How do you

deny it? You can't deny it. Old systems are no longer working,

and people are being called to be more entrepreneurial in the

modern world, more innovative, more creative. So this is

happening so organically right now, and the call to to rise

into something greater and to connect with something more

meaningful is inside of every woman I talk to right now, if

they're not already on the path of doing something meaningful,

and even for someone like me, I'm already many years down the

path of doing my aligned purpose, and it keeps evolving.

I have, you know, I'm working on the book, which I'm feeling

really excited about. I'm, I'm at olapenge farm right now as I

record this, and the book is starting to take shape. I'm, I'm

working with a book writing coach coming up in the new year.

You might meet her next week. And I am so inspired right now

to get the book out there into as many hands as of as many

women on planet Earth, learning how to be unscripted and how to

live a life aligned with their souls. So that's something new

that I'm working on. And then I have all these extraordinarily

massive projects that keep dropping into my field of new

possibilities of taking this work out in even more creative

and fun and innovative ways, and getting as impacting as many

women on planet Earth with the unscripted message of you get to

go your own way. You get to follow your own heart, and you

get to live a life that feels good. So this message is so

important. Anyways, that's my purpose. But I feel the change

with everyone, even people I know that are on purpose.

There's so much more coming and so much more that we're here to

do and create. And I really feel like human beings when we're

connected to our creativity and our inspiration and that divine

channel we all have access to when we are connected to this

part of ourselves, we are so much more joyful. We walk

through the world so much more grounded and aligned and in our

power. And, you know, looking for not looking for approval

like your purpose is so connected. You know, I kind of

want to change the narrative. I'm just realizing this as I'm

saying it out loud. It's like I used to be in fantasy for, you

know, my whole life, till I was 30, that some guy was the thing,

right? And I was gonna this grandiose love was the thing.

And there's gonna be some arrival point, and I was gonna

just go arrive one day and this, meet this guy, and I would feel

amazing forever, and I would feel worthy and lovable and good

enough. And of course, that's the biggest setup, because what

part of you is choosing love is the part that doesn't feel

worthy, lovable and good enough, and then it's a lifelong roller

coaster ride of trying to get love from someone outside of

yourself. But when we become the love, when we deepen into the

love when we reconnect with the truth of who we are. That's when

our purpose becomes like. That's when we get to express our

purpose in the world, whatever that might be. And you know,

when you're fully living on purpose in every sense of the

word, you don't like, I don't feel the need to have a partner

right now, I'm I'm not closed to a partner coming when the time

is right, but I don't need one because I'm so satiated in my

life and my purpose is so deep and so prevalent. And it's not

like, it's not the same as being a workaholic, right? You know,

like, that's the old paradigm is, like, obsessed with like not

most people that are workaholics aren't even obsessed with their

jobs. They don't even like it necessarily. They're just over

functioning trying to prove something. You know, it's it's

coming from that wounded place that not good enough, not

lovable, not worthy, not smart enough. So they're over

functioning to try and prove something. And May. Or they're

over functioning to avoid feeling whatever they're feeling

underneath, and it stops them, or it keeps them in this life

that is, you know, busy and maybe looks important on paper,

but they're usually quite disconnected from themselves in

it. So that's not what I'm talking about. Purpose is being

connected to your magic. And personally, you know, I know

this is up. This is definitely up for debate, because I've

heard other teachers in this in this space, disagree with this

point that I'm about to make, but I personally believe that we

all have a deeper purpose, and that it can be connected to how

you earn, how you I want to find a better word how you create and

attract abundance in your life. I believe we all have

magic to be shared that can be connected to your career and

what you're here to do in the world. And the reason I believe

that is because I just think that most people are so far away

from their their own magic, their own essence, their natural

gifts. Most people are very far away from that because we were

programmed to be right in those systems that I talked about in

the beginning. This is not a conspiracy. We were programmed

as children to like the school system doesn't sit you down and

say like, oh, who are you, and what are your gifts? And what

are we? What do we? What can we cultivate for you? What are you

really naturally gifted at? What does your Soul love? Can you

imagine if that's what the school system did? No, it

doesn't do that. What does it do? It sits us down and says,

Okay, this is what you need to learn. This is who you need to

be. Most people leave the school system feeling stupid. I left

the school system feeling like absolutely the dumbest person on

planet Earth. I did relatively well, like B, like B's. I got

mostly in school, occasionally C is usually in math, but B's. So

I managed to get by with tutors, with help, but it was so fucking

hard for me, and I left school feeling like an idiot. And it

actually wasn't until I met my mentor, who I've talked a lot

about in different episodes. I mean, this woman totally changed

my life. And when I met her, she I went to a few of her events.

This is who I was a business coach for, and I first attended

a few of her events and got to know her audience and connected

with her. I volunteered and like, got to know the the vibe

of it, and I fell in love with this company and these very

personal development based business seminars. They were all

about marketing and sales and stage presence, but they were so

deep and meaningful. And I fell in love with her, and I fell in

love with all of her clients, and she one day on stage, it was

the most meaningful moment to me. Like that moment completely

changed my life. She said, from stage, she was teaching about

multiple intelligences, because she was teaching curriculum

design, and she was teaching our audience, who were business

owners that led retreats, seminars and workshops. She was

teaching them how to actually design program curriculum that

really changes lives, because most people that teach retreats

and seminars and and talks and workshops don't actually know

how to teach. So this was one of her geniuses. So she was

teaching, teaching basically, and I was at the back of the

room as her head coach, and I was coaching all of her clients.

And she said, she said, How many of you have met Kate this

weekend? And at the time, like my loves, if you could only see

me, this was okay, 1515, years ago, at least, probably 18 years

ago, maybe not that long, 15 years ago. This was about 15

years ago. She said, How many of you have met Kate this weekend?

It was like a marketing workshop, and every single

person in the room put up their hand. I think there was maybe 50

people in the room. And she said, how many like, what? What

words would you describe her? And people were like, warm,

connected, loving, present, whatever they would say, really

nice things. And she said, Kate left the school system feeling

stupid and and yet, the first time I met this woman, I My

first thought was this, she isn't this woman is an

interpersonal genius. She said, I've never met someone who is so

good at connecting with people in my life and instantly

connecting in a really meaningful, deep way and staying

connected. And she said this, and I'm sobbing at the back of

the room. Honestly, my friends, until that moment, I felt

stupid. I thought I wasn't good at anything. I had studied

coaching. I had studied counseling. I had immersed

myself in holistic wellness and healing, and I trained in all

these different methodologies, because I was already on the

beginning of my path. At this point, I was a few years into my

path when I met Callan, and I was so insecure still, even

though I was studying coaching, like I was divinely led to study

coaching, even that part of my purpose I literally had never

heard of a coach in my life, other than a basketball coach

and a soccer coach. And the moment that I heard about

coaching was like a dinner party with it was like a office dinner

party, and the owner was in town, and he was like, blah,

blah, blah, my life coach. And I was like, what? What's a life

coach? And something lit up inside me, and I went home that

night and I searched life coaching. I called my parents,

and I was like, I think I want to be a life coach. This is when

I was 25 years old, and this was the beginning of my journey, and

in that decision to become a life coach, even after two years

of life coaching school, that was so or it was a year and a

half, it was so intense. It was like full time self help school,

and it was so deep. And we were working everything. We were

learning. We were working on our we were learning on ourselves.

We were going through our family system, studying our childhood,

studying our traumas, studying everything, and really like it

was ripping our hearts open and putting them back together. That

was the training that I did. It was so experiential, incredibly

profound and really, really deep. And I left that program

still so insecure, like still feeling stupid, still

questioning whether or not I should be a coach. I remember a

moment where I, my friend gave me a psychic reading for my

birthday, and I at the time, I called my parents and I was

like, okay, it'd been, like, couple years since I took

coaching school, tried to start my own business. Was too

insecure. Called my parents and was like, I think I'm going to

be a wine wrap. I think I'd be really good at it. I'm really

good at selling and I love wine. At the time, I was like, and my

parents were like, what? Like, they were devastated, because

they were so happy that I'd finally found my thing. And

everyone that everyone in my life knew the coaching path was

my path. Even though coaching was such a new thing, they all

could see that this was where I was meant to go, and this is

back way before Instagram and Facebook. Like coaching wasn't a

thing when I studied coaching so but I was still so insecure, and

thankfully, the psychic said you're at a crossroads. She

didn't ask me any questions. She said, you're at a crossroads.

You're going back to school, and you are not meant to you. She

said you were meant to be a healer and a helper of humanity.

And so I was like, okay, great, that's so I went back and did

more, more studies in the coaching, counseling, healing

realm, rather than going down the wine rep path. But it was,

you see how every single thing was divided. And then the next

program, I signed up for this counselors training program at

this beautiful program. It was called the Clear Mind Institute.

I met so many amazing, lifelong friends there. And really, the

program was deeply life changing. And I'd already done a

year and a half program, and this was another one. And I was

like, Okay, maybe I'm I'm still insecure. Maybe I just need to

go back to school and do more. So I did, and I'm so glad I did,

because it was my divine path. That's where I met Callen, who

ended up being my mentor for the next 10 years, and she saw me so

deeply. So she's the one who said, you're an interpersonal

genius, and I've never met someone who's connected with

people as deep as you so then she kept inviting me to be her

coach, to be her head trainer, to grow with her, and she

mentored me and lit I mean, gosh, that woman will always

hold the specialist place in my heart, because I would not be

who I am today without her. Now, I didn't plan to share any of

these stories. It's just coming through right now, but what I'm

realizing as I'm sharing them, is that the thing you need to

the most important thing you need to know about purpose, is

that it is guided. It comes from life, guiding you. The universe,

God, the divine, the divine matrix, whatever you want to

call it, is guiding you on the path that is designed for you.

You do not have to find purpose now, before I discovered

coaching, before that dropped in my lap and that divine moment

where my body responded so strongly to this man saying my

life coach, life coaching wasn't known. So that's why I didn't

know what it was when I first heard the term, but my body knew

it. My soul knew it. My soul responded in that moment to that

statement, but before that time, because I felt stupid, and maybe

on a deeper level, because I knew I had a big life purpose,

on a soul level, not a mind level, but on some deep level,

perhaps I knew that there was a big purpose that was coming. I

was on the hunt for my career path and my so called purpose.

Maybe I didn't call it that. I don't think I called it purpose

back then, because I didn't. I wasn't really familiar with the

term, but I was looking for my thing. I remember everyone I

went to school with was really good at something, and it felt

like everyone knew their path, and I didn't know my path, and I

was always searching. I studied youth in film. I consider being

a film. I did. I remember going on, what was that show? It was

like not Star Trek. Was like Star Trek, though it was filmed

in Vancouver, and. I went on set for three days and, like,

shadowed the special effects makeup artists and shadowed,

maybe it was Star Trek petite, a new version, I don't know

something anyways, I thought it was gonna get in the film

industry. My friend's brother was like, Oh my gosh, you would

be amazing at public relations. You got to get into PR. And I

was like, What's PR? And I looked it up, and I took a

course. I like studied it at night school for, like, I don't

know, two years PR and marketing and all these things that that

just because someone else told me I'd be good at it, I was

constantly looking for the thing and constantly meeting up

against walls, constantly bumping up against, like, just

nothing, nothing unfolded and and I

just want to speak to the fact that I'm a projector. So for

those manifestors out there, typically manifestors go their

own way, and they innovate and they create, but projectors and

generators and manifesting generators, I'm speaking of

human design right now, and I will have a human design

practitioner on very soon, but we need guidance. And so I would

say for the most part, regardless of your type, the

universe is guiding you, and there is a path that is meant

for you. So here's your job. If it's guided and it can't be

found, you might be asking, Well, Kate, why is it? Why

haven't I been guided yet, if you are living in your saboteur

okay, if you are living in your survival patterns, if you're

following your if you're saying yes to what's a NO and NO to

what's a yes, if you're relying to yourself deep down, if you

are sacrificing and over functioning and staying in a job

you hate just because you think there's no other option, staying

in a relationship that's out of alignment, Just because you're

afraid. You know, if you are still trapped by the helm of

your saboteur, then you my love will not uncover your purpose.

The reason my purpose kept unfolding is I because I started

to listen. I left a I was going to say 30 year relationship. No,

wasn't 30 years I was 30 years old. I left a five year

relationship that was so perfect on paper at a time in my life

where everybody I was friends with was getting married and

having kids, and I had the courage to leave that

relationship because there was a feeling so strongly inside of me

that there was more for me that I needed to experience. And then

I needed to experience it on my own. I needed to be a woman in

the world on my own, not forever just, but like for an indefinite

period of time. And then I spent three years devoting myself to

getting to know my own soul, my own heart, and as I shifted

gears, so obviously every new truth episode is supportive of

you living this way. But as I shifted gears, and I stopped

doing what everyone else thought I should do, and I stopped

saying yes to everything that actually didn't feel good in my

body, and I started saying no to those things and yes to the

things that lit me up like a Christmas tree or expanded my

heart, or were so clear that this was something I was meant

to do, even though it felt scary when I had the courage and I

made choices like that over and over and over again, that was me

getting into alignment with my heart and the truth of who I Am,

and from that place, the magic started to unfold. That's when I

could actually hear and see the guides from the universe. Right

prior to that, I couldn't see them. I was missing the signals

because I was so far away from the truth of who I am. I

remember having astrology readings back in the day. And I

was like,

none of these things they're saying are true. Like this woman

said, You're not going to be able to work for someone else

for very long. You are. You are absolutely meant to have your

own thing, and you are going to make a huge impact, and your

purpose is to be who you are. And I'm like, wow, at the time,

it made no sense, but now it's like, literally, my life is

being who I am and showing other women how to be who they are,

and fully aligning with truth and not buying into any of the

bullshit that I'm living my life wrong or I'm doing things wrong.

I certainly felt that way in the beginning, when I left that five

year relationship with Charlie, my beloved at the time, who was,

he's the greatest guy. He's such a love, and he's such a pure

heart, amazing human being. We had a nice relationship, we had

a sweet relationship, but I had the call so deep that I needed

to live. I remember even just like, this craving to have my

own space, my own home, my own place that was just mine, and to

like it was almost like dating myself. I certainly didn't call

it that at the time, but like, I had this desire to date myself,

to get to know what was in there, and I listened to it,

and. Even though everyone in my life told me not to leave

Charlie, everyone in my life was like, You're fucking crazy.

People said the same thing when I changed my name, like, what

are you doing? That's weird. When I talked about that on the

last episode, when I left Charlie, people were like, Oh my

God, you're never going to find a man as good as this who loves

you as much as he does, he's literally perfect. Why would you

leave? And everyone else is getting married and, quote,

unquote, settling down. But there was a call in my body, in

my heart and my soul, that I could not ignore, and thank God

I didn't ignore it. We wouldn't even be here, right? So that was

such a huge part of my purpose journey, because I had the

courage to follow my heart. And every time you have the courage

to follow your heart, and remember, there will always be a

million fearful stories as to why you shouldn't. And that's

your saboteur. You got to get to know your saboteur, and you got

to get to know her as your roommate, not as the one in

charge. She she needs to be in the backseat with your little

Wounded Child, and you and your heroine driving the car, because

your Saboteurs job is to keep you small, because she believes,

on some level that that is safe, because when you were little,

being big and wild and bold and express was not safe, right? So

she is working on overtime trying to keep you safe. She has

to be in the backseat if you are not inside of the reclamation,

and this is something you need support with. Join us in the

reclamation. It's a place where you can step into and reclaim

your purpose with an amazing group of heroines who have

already done it and are doing it and are so devoted to themselves

and so devoted to going their own way and living their life

differently, from the heart, from the soul. So join me. I'll

link it below this episode. I've been talking about a lot in last

month. We just started the beginning of January, and it

runs till the end of March, and then you have the online modules

for life. But that, I mean the reclamation is an amazing place

to reclaim all of those parts of your shutdown, but that's the

first step. Is you must discover your own magic, and you cannot

discover your own magic. If you are going against your inner

compass, if you are ignoring those calls that are coming from

deep within your heart and soul, if you are letting fear make

your decision instead of following your truth, you will

not discover your magic, right? So many women are like, Oh, I'm

just not good at anything. I don't have gifts. And like, Oh,

I'm like, I'm just here to work really hard. You have the most

extraordinary gifts you could ever imagine. And here's the

thing, when you are living from your magic, it's not, it's not

this fantasy. I think a lot of people are like, I just want to

spring out of bed every morning and be so passionate about what

I do. It's like, I don't feel that way that it that's a

fantasy, actually. And I think it's good to talk about it how

it feels. And this is when you're in your heroine, period,

but especially connected to purpose and love, same thing. It

feels neutral. Actually. It's quite grounded. It's just like,

maybe not neutral, isn't the word, but it's like, grounded.

And it's, it's very like when I'm doing it. So I'm when I'm

doing a podcast, I'm expanded to a certain degree. When do a

podcast with another person, I'm even more expanded because I'm,

like, having a connection when I'm when I'm on stage teaching,

like at a live event, I'm even more expanded or don't have to

be on stage. It maybe it's just an intimate setting, like the

immersion, but I would say that's when I'm the most

expanded, because I'm in person and, you know, getting to go

deep with women and do what I love in such a playful, fun way,

like that is where the greatest magic occurs for me, in my

purpose. But all of them, I feel expanded by all of them, but

it's not in a fantasy way. I don't jump out of bed like I

can't wait to do what I'm gonna do today. It's more just like

very say I feel satiated, is the word. There's a contentment,

there's a there's a grounded satiation, like I my cup is

full, and I feel so grateful for that. So you know, and look

where my purpose led me. I had no idea creating all these

online things during covid Were going to support me to be able

to have a business that I could live from anywhere in the world.

I live in Greece. I live in Kenya. Like, how amazing is that

that my like because I followed the divine guidance of covid and

not being able to do live talks and having to move more online.

Because I moved more online, that's when I created the

reclamation and the expanded love masterclass, that the

podcast was birthed right before covid. So all of these online

things then set me up for the next step. So it's all divine,

even me being a business coach before, people kept saying to me

at the time, Kate, you are so gifted, you need to have your

own thing. And I was like, my own thing. What's my own thing?

I have nothing to offer. Like, I'm a business coach. And I was

teaching their methodologies, which were amazing, and I was so

good at teaching their methodologies when I became

their head trainer. But I didn't think I had my own thing from my

mind, right? Fear based mind. I thought. No, I'm just going to

do this for other people. Why would I want the stress of

having my own thing? But life led me one moment at a time. I

was burnt out. I had to quit working for that company because

I was so exhausted I couldn't do it anymore. I was traveling too

much and working wild hours, and was just like way too much for a

projector. So I ended my relationship, or my business

relationship with them, and I shifted gears, and I took a

break, and then a friend of mine was like, hey, like, when are

you going to start your own thing? And I'm like, What's my

own thing? I don't know what it is. And she said, What do you

care about? And then I just went on a rant, and she's like,

great, do a video. And I got online, and I just spontaneously

did a video on Facebook. And this is before Facebook Live

even existed. It's so wild. I feel like a dinosaur. I've been

doing this a long time, but, but Facebook Live didn't even exist.

I just recorded a video on my phone and uploaded it to YouTube

and uploaded it to Facebook, live or to not live to Facebook,

and it got massive responses. And then I did it. I did a pilot

program, and I invited people on Facebook, and I said I was

looking for five women and 14 signed up. And it was because I

was in alignment. When we're in alignment and doing something

for our own pleasure and our own joy and our own passion, we

become magnetic. Right? I never had to work hard to fill events

or to get clients. I just had to show up. I used to do live talks

around Vancouver before covid, or I did them in Toronto. I did

them. I did one in Washington, DC. I did one Sydney, Australia.

I'd travel around do these live talks or and if I was going

farther, I would do a weekend. And I loved them. I love live

talks and empowering women around fantasy love. It was

really the message of the podcast and in a live format,

and that was so fun for me, so satiating for me, so because I

was so expanded in that and in my own joy and in my own humor

and excitement, I would naturally magnetize the women

who are meant to work with me and meant to come to the

immersion, and meant to go deeper, right? So it's it's not

the thing itself. It's the magnetism, like if your path, if

you are meant to do something similar to what I do, when

you're doing it, and when you're so rooted in yourself, and

you're doing it because you love it, like I chose a podcast

because I love to talk and also because the universe guided me,

right? I think I've shared this story several times before, but

I was doing a talk. It was my last talk ever. Was in Toronto,

2019 right before covid happened, and I had a bunch of

women come to the back of the room at the end, and they were

like, Kate Harlow, we need you to do a podcast. And I was like,

what? Okay, what's a podcast? Like? I'd heard it before.

Chris, my soul healer, who I had on recently, was the first

person to plant that seed. Maybe Jeff, my ex boyfriend, was the

first, first person, my former partner, and then that. But I

couldn't hear it. I wasn't ready at the time with them. But then

these women said that to me, and they were like, this information

is so important, and women need to hear it all over the world,

and we need to hear it. To hear it over and over again. So

please do a podcast and that, for some reason, it's stuck.

Next thing you know, I called Catherine, and I was like, we we

booked a zoom. We didn't really know each other. We'd, we'd

collaborated a couple times on little things because we'd seen

each other's work. We met for 10 minutes at a rooftop party.

Catherine, if you don't know, she's my old podcast partner, if

you go back,

if you if you're new to the new truth, but that's how I met

Katherine and at a rooftop party. And, like, we really

didn't know each other, but I intuitively, in one conversation

with Jeff, I was like, I'm meant to do a podcast. And he said,

Well, I've been telling you that for a long time. Why don't you

start? And I was like, Well, I don't want to do it alone. And

he's like, great. Who would you do it with? And Catherine

Danieli was the first person that popped to mind, so I

reached out to her. She cried on the spot when I asked her to do

a podcast with me, and that's how the new truth was born. So

you see how the universe sends angels to ask to guide us,

right? We get told, I've had so many women say this, you need a

book. You need a book. I just want a manual. I want something

I can read over and over again. And so that's what led me to

doing the book now. And you know, even Elizabeth invited me

to come do the artist in residence. She's the owner of

Ola pangi farm, where I am right now doing the artist in

residence program. So life is guiding you, but if you're

living a lie, and if you're in your saboteur all the time, and

you're disconnected from the heroine inside, from the

sovereign woman, you're disconnected from your divinity

and the divine matrix that is always guiding us to where we're

meant to go, you will miss all of the nudges, like I my loves.

I honestly, I could. I don't even know how long I've been

talking right now, but I could. I could do 10 I could share 10

million stories of my purpose unfolding. There's so many tiny

moments from my journey that were divinely guided, and my

only job was to keep feeding my heart, feeding my soul, caring

for. Myself getting into energetic alignment with who I

am, and listening to the invitations, listening to the

responses from the universe. When the universe sends the

nudge. Do I listen? Do I say yes? If something is a yes, and

that is your practice. So number one is discover your magic.

You've got to be on the journey of your heroine if you in order

to discover your magic. So, and I don't just mean with me the

hair becoming the heroine of your life, becoming the

sovereign woman. So you have to be on a devoted journey in order

to even discover your magic. And then life will share your magic

with you. We are all magical, and then we forget. It's like

everyone has amnesia. And we think we are, oh, I'm a

perfectionist. Oh, I'm a, you know, I'm a workaholic. It's

like, you are none of those things you I'm a people pleaser.

It's like, No, those are your patterns. That's how you learn

to be to survive your life. You are not that. You are not that

there's something so magical in your soul you just haven't

uncovered it yet. So that's number one. Number two is follow

the inner nudges, which I've said, like, it's a combination

of life leading you like Kate, do a podcast. Kate, I wasn't

ready to follow the inner nudges the first couple times, but then

that third time it was like, All right, I get it. The memo is

clear doing a podcast, so follow the inner nudges and and have

the willingness in 2026 to say yes to those things that feel

scary, because they're supposed to. If they feel scary, that is

a good thing if you feel terrified. Ding, ding, ding,

that is exactly the direction you're meant to go in. It's so

funny. I've literally lived in this tent at Ola pangi for like,

I mean, if I add up, last year I lived in the tent for four

months, and this year, I'm, I mean, it's gonna be like five,

six months in a tent in Kenya. I mean, it's a glamping tent. It's

not fancy, but it's like king size bed. It has electricity

bedside tables. There's a, you know, shower and toilet on the

platform. But I was so freaking terrified, if you go back and

listen to my app, my episodes from last year, before I did the

artist program, I was so terrified of this experience,

like as if I was going to get eaten by a lion, which is so

funny. Now there's no lions walking around my tent. I hear

them in the night. It's just amazing. Like I could honestly

think live out my days in this tent. I love living in the tent.

I find I sleep way deeper, and I love waking up at five to the

birds, and then I meditate and I go for a walk, and it's just

like the most beautiful circadian rhythm reset being in

the tent here. But it's so funny to think how scared I was before

that I was only the and it's really always a young part of us

that's afraid and the saboteur that's feeding the stories to

the young girl, like, don't do this thing. It's scary, right?

The saboteur is like scaring that little girl inside. If you

ever feel scared, know that there is a young version of

yourself in that moment. Tune in. Feel your feet. Put your

hands on your heart. Sit a little bit taller, take a breath

and and speak from your heroine to the little girl. You are

safe. I've got you. You don't have to be in charge of this. I

have got you. I will protect you. I've got you, and that's

part of the trusting life, right? But, but building that

relationship with the little girl, rather than letting the

little girl in your saboteur make your decisions, you are not

going to have an expanded life if your saboteur or an aligned

life that is meant for you, if your saboteur and the little

girl are making your decisions rooted in fear, so what have you

been afraid? What decision Have you been afraid to make that

you've been staying stuck in forever like call on that

heroine to mentor and guide that little girl and let her know

that she is safe and there is a sovereign woman inside who's

going to take charge now and let that part make the decision.

That's the part that even though the fear is there, she feels it,

she breathes into it, she maybe creates with it, she writes

about it, she makes art with it, and then she walks through the

door anyways, because that door is the door to your purpose, and

your purpose is not an arrival point. Like, I've said, mine has

evolved so much since I started. Like, I can't even believe how

much mine has evolved since I started, and it's going to

continue to evolve. I have no idea what the future holds. And

every time my mind gets attached to it being a certain way, or me

doing something particular in my purpose. I give it to the

universe and the angels, and I'm like, I know that there's a

divine plan where this is meant to go. And my mind might think

it knows the best way, but actually I know it doesn't, so I

surrender this to you. Keep showing me the way. Keep guiding

me. So when you get in fear, talk to the universe, talk to

your angels. Keep guiding me. This is the sage aspect of the

heroine. So in the reclamation, we unlock all of the aspects of

the heroine that help you feel fully rooted in yourself. And

the sage is about living from your inner compass, not anyone

else's, but yours, listening to the nudges for. Following your

heart expansions, saying yes to your yeses and no to your nose

no matter what. And the sage is also being interconnected to

that divine matrix, to the divine intelligence of this

planet that all of the animals and all of the other ecosystems

are so effortlessly connected to, we just forgot, because

we're the only species on planet Earth with an ego, right? Nobody

else has a saboteur. So everyone they're all connected to the

Divine interconnectedness. And here we are suffering and

struggling and arguing with reality and trying to control

our futures and trying to create a life that somebody else told

us we were supposed to have, rather than connect with the

magic of the life that you are meant to have that is only

unique to your soul. My path is so unique, and, you know, it's

interesting too. What I do for a living, like so many people, are

coaches and teachers and and mentors and have podcasts, but I

didn't do this because I was like, oh, everyone else's

account, I want to be a coach. Like, look, everyone on

Instagram is a coach. Maybe I should be a coach. Like, wasn't

my mind choosing this? I didn't even know what freaking coaching

was. It wasn't even a thing, right? Wasn't my mind choosing

the podcast again. I didn't know what it was. Life led me here,

and that's why it's been magnetic. That's why I've had

relative success and ease in my from the very beginning of my

work in the world, because it was divinely LED. It wasn't my

ego being like, oh, I need to be known. I gotta go, you know, get

a bunch of followers. I don't care about followers. I don't

care about Instagram. I care about you. I care about

awakening women to the magic of who they are. So when you're

leading from that place, when you're choosing what your

purpose, like I have right now, actually, it's extraordinary. So

many of the women I'm working with have a deep, deep

connection and love for animals. And I keep saying like, I feel

like there's going to be a heroin business coming out of

this immersion, because the next immersion in April 2026, is sold

out. If you want to get on the waiting list for next year, I

highly encourage it. But so many of them are deeply in love with

animals, and I believe have a deeper purpose connected to

animals in some way, some sacred you know, animal, animal Animal

Rescue, animal love place. It's so interesting. So and it

they're all being brought together at the immersion,

right? They haven't even been on the journey yet, but it's like,

so beautiful to see. That's what happens. So it's, it's your

like, your purpose is where your heart intersects with what the

universe is calling you to be, and it is calling you, and if

you can't hear or feel or experience, don't experience the

call. It's because you're far away from yourself. You're in

your mind, you're in your idea of who you think you are, and

you're disconnected from who you really are, because your heart

intersects with the the divine guidance and with the expression

of the magic of you, that's your purpose. Your purpose is like

breathing. Like this, for me, is like breathing. Now, was it

always like breathing?

No, I developed a huge fear of public speaking. So again,

before, like before, I met my mentor, Callen. I was terrified

of being on stage. In fact, when I met her, she was like, You are

meant to be on stage. I see it so clearly. And she she's a soul

seer. And I was like, No way. I hate public speaking, even in

front of five people. Like, no, that's like death to me. And she

was like, No, you're meant to be on stage. I want you to do my

intro tonight. We would do these live talks, which is where I

learned to do live talks, and she asked me to do her intro,

and I did it maybe four times, and I was so bad, I can't even

tell you, I couldn't even make eye contact with the audience.

It was like a wall went up, and I just, like, recited the thing

the paper in my head of what I was supposed to say about her.

And I like, didn't breathe the whole time, like it was

horrible, and I would be sick before and after. I would

literally be running to the bathroom after so sick, like, Oh

my God. And then I would be in a shame spiral after doing it. And

so that I'm sharing this story, because if your mind is like,

Well, I'm not meant to do that thing because I'm terrified of

it, it's like, probably that's exactly what you're meant to do.

I don't meant to do. I don't think we have that level of

fear. So if, like yours is public speaking, dig into it,

because I don't think that I would have had that level of

fear if it wasn't exactly where I was meant to go. The stronger

the fear, in fact, the more usually it's the more that's

your path, and your saboteur feels like it's going to die.

Because for me, I was shut down from being in the spotlight,

from taking up too much attention. I was I was because I

naturally have a Leo rising. So I'm naturally very bubbly and

very charismatic, and I would, you know, love to talk. I have a

defined throat in human design, so that was really easy for me

to express. And yet I was shut down from from it so many times

when I was young. So I developed a fear of public speaking and of

attention. Now it fear led my life. I we would not be here,

right? None of this work would have been created because I

would be too afraid, because I wouldn't have become the head

trainer, like none of this would be here. So that's the thing.

It's like, Don't the fear is the indicator. The fear isn't the

barrier. The fear isn't the thing that is like, you're not

supposed to go in that direction because you're afraid, if you're

afraid to have your own business. Oh, my God, if I can

have my own business, you can say that to my brother. I'm

like, seriously. I'm like, not good at detail, not good at that

kind of stuff, business stuff. So I thought like, there was no

way in hell I could have a business. But again, saga, saga

po le poli, one day at a time, one moment at a time, it

unfolds. Purpose doesn't happen overnight. It's a lifelong

unfolding, and mine's still unfolding, because it's a life

long unfolding. So that fear of public speaking, okay, here's

another I told you I have endless stories, so I told my

mentor, like, No, do not put me on stage again. I hate it. I

meant to be at the back of the room. I'm the support person.

She was like, Fine, okay, and she let me have it. About a

month later, I was at a meetup group, and I had a woman

approach me who had never met in my life. She comes up to me and

she says, I've been guided to work with you, and I want to

gift you with three sessions of EFT, Emotional Freedom

Technique, which is a thing that helps the subconscious heal

patterns and beliefs that are not serving us anymore. And I

said, Well, what do you do? And she said, I do EFT, and I

specifically work with people who have a fear of public

speaking. And I'm, I've been called by My angels and your

angels that I meant to help you. And I was like, What the How

does she know? Like, oh, my God, this is crazy. So I went home,

and of course, I signed up for those three sessions, and then

we worked together beyond that, but she helped me heal the fear

of public speaking. And then all of a sudden, Callen, like, think

she got sick or something. She couldn't come to event. There

was, like, all these, the occurrences that happened that

had me have to rise. There was no other option. I had to. I

remember I had to teach a Pilates class. Like, I'm not a

Pilates teacher, but one of our retreats, the Pilates teacher

didn't show up. And I, at the time, was doing a lot of

Pilates. I still am, and so she asked me to teach a Pilates

class. So I did, and I wasn't afraid at all. And then she

asked me to do this thing, and then to do that thing, and I

just kept getting all these invitations again, once I had

healed that fear and I started to step into my purpose, right?

And it's not one thing. It's not public speaking, it's not a

podcast, it's not a it's not a thing like my purpose is to

continue to peel off those fear based masks and those layers of

who I'm not and to keep being who I am in the world, and to

keep magnetizing women to me who I can help remind them of who

they are. Your purpose is. So it's not going to look the same

as mine, by any means. But what sparks your heart the more you

live in alignment with who you really are, the more the

universe, divine matrix, life, can lead you where you're meant

to go. So discover your magic. Number one, number two, follow

your inner nudges. Say yes, even when it's freaking scary, know

that that's exactly the direction you need to go in. And

number three is trust your guidance. Trust that you are

being guided. If you do not believe in in the divine

orchestration of this planet. If you don't believe in the

universe, in gut, you can call it whatever you want. Source

Energy, God, the quantum field, whatever. Go study Joe Dispenza

and Dr Bruce Lipton. If you're scientific and you don't believe

in spirituality, because you were traumatized by a religion

as a child that was forced down your throat and you, or you're

just you, or you grew up in an atheist home, and you just don't

believe in anything. You cannot live a life of purpose if you

don't believe. But once you believe, and once you get into

alignment, you can't not believe. I mean, we're at the

immersion, and literally, magic is happening every five seconds.

And every single five seconds, everyone's like, I can't believe

that just happened. I can't believe that, like, it's so

magical. That is my life all the time, like this synchronicity,

that synchronicity, this, that is what the world is. We've just

been brainwashed to believe it's something else. And the more you

watch the news and the media and all the horrible things that

happen in the world, the more you watch and consume and spend

all your time watching scary movies and watching like

programming your mind to believe that the world is a horrible

place and that we are not divine, like we just forget, and

we're being programmed every single day to forget and to

forget and to forget. Why? Because then we're in fear, and

then we're easily controllable, but you're. Path that is meant

for you. You are not meant to live here and just work a job

you hate. That's why I believe we all have a purpose, you know,

and it might not be your own business. It might be working

for someone else, or for an organization that's deeply

meaningful to you or collaborating with friends. It

could, it could be. It could look many different ways. But I

do believe that every single one of us has something that will

light up our soul and that we're not meant to just do a job, we

hate to pay bills, to survive, and then we die like what that's

not why we're here. There's so much available and possible for

you, and every single one of us has magic inside, if you, if you

have not touched the magic inside, join me in the

reclamation. Join another program this year. Invest in

yourself. Start investing in having someone see your magic

and reflect your magic if you don't know your magic, and the

more you live from your aligned magic, the easier it is to

believe how supported you are. And we remember and forget,

right? I still say, oh my god, that's so crazy. I can't believe

that synchronicity just happened. And it's like, what's

not crazy at all. Synchronicities happen

constantly. But a part of me is still in awe and still shocked

by the synchronicities, even though they're happening

constantly. So there is a magical, divine matrix that we

all can plug into, that will lead you to the purpose that's

meaningful to you a life. Imagine that's why I feel so

satiated, because everything I do is so meaningful to me, and

it's so aligned with who I am. So learn about your astrology,

learn about your your human design, even if at the time you

don't believe what they say, like, when that woman told me I

was going to have a business one day, I didn't believe her. I was

like, yeah, right, clearly she doesn't know me. Like, have my

own business, no way. Like, I just absolutely my mind was

like, that's not remotely a possibility, but my soul knew,

and so she got to plug that for my subconscious mind. So even if

you don't believe what the astrologers or human design

practitioners say at the time, just know they're planting seeds

for the future, and it's all written in there. And I mean,

your purpose is in there. You have, like, a whole go down the

rabbit hole, and your purpose is in there. But the last thing in

the world you want to do is try and control it, right? You don't

want to. So if had I had that reading and then been like,

Okay, I got to work for myself now. I got to start my own

business, that would be my mind trying to control this magical

thing, versus her just planting a seed and me being like, maybe,

oh yeah, another moment of my purpose. I feel like I shared

this story,

at least in the last year about I was in went to a retreat in

the south of France, and it was a little journey into Mary

magdalene's world. In the south of France, they revere Mary

Magdalene, and she was a teacher of love. And it's these

beautiful, beautiful teachings and sacred, sacred places that

apparently Mary Magdalene was. And so I got divinely led there.

I mean, how I signed up for that? It was like two weeks

before it started, and I was doing a business sales call for

a woman who was applying for a program with my mentor, and I

was interviewing her to see if she was a fit for his program.

And on that call, she told me about her business model and

told me about this retreat in the south of France. And this is

a woman I knew already, I already had a relationship with,

because she'd been in our other business programs. And I was

like, Oh, my God, can I come on on the call when she was telling

me about this retreat in the south of France, it was in Paris

and the south of France. And she was like, Yeah, of course. And I

went on this retreat. Like the perfect. I didn't have the

money, but like, all my commissions from this thing I

had just done showed up the exact literally, like, right? As

I said, Yes, then I found out how much I was making in

commissions for selling this really high ticket business

course for my mentor. And that paid for my trip. The entire

thing. It was so perfect. It was so divine. And I go on this

journey I know nothing about Mary Magdalene, like I grew up

in a Christian united, so liberal Christian, but Christian

home. And I only heard that Mary Magdalene was a prostitute. I

didn't know the true story of her. And so I wasn't even going

for that reason. It was just a yes in my body. So I went on

this journey, and it I tell you this, I mean, I'm still very

connected to the five women who are on this trip. There was a

woman from every decade, 40s, third, no 30s. I was in my 30s,

30s, 40s, 50s, 60s and 70s, or five of us. It was the perfect

group. We're still really deeply connected. And it was like

almost at the end of the trip, we went to these Mary Magdalene

caves, and we couldn't find them at first. And the very first

trail we walked down, I saw these heart rocks. And I thought

to myself, like, this has got to be the Mary Magdalene caves.

There's heart rocks everywhere. And it's like they were not

placed there. They were nature, just nature, heart rocks. But I

kept seeing rocks in the shapes of heart hearts. And then we

spent the whole day looking for these caves. We went down this

trail and that trail, and it was so hot out. I was like. 38

degrees or something Celsius. It was very, very hot. And we

finally, at the end of the day, the woman who was the oldest,

said, You know, I feel like we should go back to the first one.

I feel like that was the first trail. And I didn't have the

courage at the time to speak up. I was 33 and I agreed with her.

I was like, Yeah, I think so too. I kept seeing heart rocks

on that trail. Sure enough, we go down that trail, and we go a

little bit further than we did the time before, and we found

the caves, and they were so beautiful. They were like

limestone, green and pink, and all nature just so beautiful.

And we were meditating inside of the Mary Magdalene cave, and I

was deep in meditation, and all of a sudden my arms went up like

wings, and I couldn't put them down. I literally, my arms were

out. You can't see me right now, but my arms are out, as I'm

telling this. I couldn't put them down. It was like someone

put fish hooks in my wrists, and they were they were holding them

up. And I started laughing. And I was just like, what the can't

put my arms down. And there's a woman in the group who is a is a

really extraordinary healer. Actually, I'll have her on the

podcast at some point. She's amazing. And she was doing

healing on all of us while we were meditating inside of these

caves, and she saw me and knew what was happening, and she had

this big smile on her face. And I closed my eyes again, and I

was like, what is happening? And then I heard a voice that said,

it's time to spread your wings. It was actually a man's voice.

So in my mind, I was like, Okay, maybe it's Jesus, but he said,

It's time to spread your wings. You are. You are a teacher of

love. And at the time, I was a business coach, and I was like,

a teacher of love. Like, what do I know about love? I don't know

anything about love. What? And then again, like, it was a

beautiful, magical moment, and I let it go. If I had gone home

and started studying love and relationships, that would be my

saboteur. So you see these nudges come, and we don't need

to react instantly to them, that they're seeds that are planted,

and you will know the moment they're meant to unfold. So that

happened when I was 33 so 43 I'm 44 business, nine years. So two

years before I started my business,

and I forgot that that happened. I only remembered that happened

later. I only remembered that that happened way later on my

journey where I was like, Oh, my God, I am a teacher of love. But

at the time, it made no sense. I was a business coach, and I had

I, but I am love, right? In my mind, it was like, What do I

know about relationships? Like, I'm not an expert. Who am I? You

know, all my small self responded to that, but I was

just like, okay, that just went in and out like it, but, but

again, planted seeds in the garden, right? The garden

doesn't bloom right away. You plant seeds, and you take care

of the soil, and you nurture the soil and tend to it, make sure

it has the right conditions. And then one day, what happens? One

day you look outside and you're like, holy shit, the garden's

bloomed. That's where I am. Now, my garden is bloomed, and it's

going to keep blooming even more and more and more. But that

moment, I didn't know what that meant, but that was the divine

guiding me. So, I mean, I didn't used to believe in any of this.

So if you are like, well, I don't believe it's like, you

just have to get into alignment. I promise you, my the women I

work with on this journey, most women I work with on this

journey are super logical, very in their heads, very

disconnected from their divinity and from their sensuality and

from their power and from all the all the things inside and

just living from logic and practicality. And most of them

are numb when they meet me or like repressed or shut down and

hurting, hurting deeply underneath that those masks, and

they come to me because their soul feels something, even in

listening to this podcast, their soul feels a resonance. Their

heart feels something and is like there is something here for

me. I don't know what it is. I mean, if that's you, get on the

phone with me and let's explore. Maybe it's the reclamation,

maybe it's going deeper, or maybe it's even just connecting.

And I have a resource that I can provide you with, but basically,

life is always leading you, and if you don't tend to your heart,

if you don't care for yourself, if you don't make time and space

for yourself, if you keep lying to yourself and contorting

yourself and hurting yourself and living in a fantasy world

rather than really connecting with your own heart and your own

being and your own soul, you will miss the nudges right. The

nudges will come. I know so many people who've had nudges and

done nothing with them, and I've done something over and over and

over and over again, and I meet people that I knew 15 years ago,

and they're like, Wow, it's amazing how you what you've

done, and how much you kept going. But it's only because I

can't not now. Like, the more, the more you live from the

heroine, the more harder it becomes to not right? It's like,

that's the. Part of me that I'm in devotion to now that's a part

of me that's leading my life and every choice I make, and there

is a little girl inside of me still, and I do still get

afraid, and my saboteur does still tell me stories like

you're not a writer. Why are you writing a book or whatever? But

it's like she's not in charge. Too bad. AC ain't in charge no

more. It's my favorite line from home alone. Actually, I have

many lines. I watched home alone the other night, and realized I

know almost every word to that whole movie. I had two brothers

growing up, so we watched it a lot. Anyways, your saboteur is

not in charge anymore. If you don't know home alone, you

didn't get the reference, but if you know it really well, you

probably got it. But your saboteur is not in charge. No

more. Too bad. Too bad. Regina ain't in charge. No more. She is

not in charge of my life, and that's why my life is so full,

and my heart is so full and my work is so meaningful to me, and

I love what I do, and I love who I work with. And, you know,

it's, it's pretty profound living a life of purpose. I

think purpose is the antidote. And when women are on purpose,

they stop being in fantasy about love. We stop being so addicted

to getting a hit from some guy or some person, some woman, that

you, that you're that you're obsessed with those obsessions

only come when we're disconnected from ourselves, but

when you're on purpose, a life of purpose is so full and again,

it's it's not one thing, and it's only going to be ever

unfolding and ever unfolding, but it starts with you. Discover

your magic, follow your inner nudges, and trust the divine

guidance that is always leading you. So again, if this is

foreign to you and you're like, What the heck, Kate, I don't

know how join me in the reclamation. I would love to

meet you. I would love to go deeper with you. Again, I don't

usually the reclamation live doesn't happen anymore. It's now

a self study program that you can invest in on my website, but

we're doing it live this year, at the beginning of the year, to

get all the women who are coming to the immersion ready to go,

and all the women in the community love to do it over and

over again. So might happen again live next year, I don't

know, but this year, it's live, and it's going to be amazing,

off the charts. So much purpose. This is so up for so many people

right now. We can no longer lie to ourselves. So join the

community, join the sisterhood, join the reclamation, and let's

go. Let's change your life. Let's create the most expansive

2026, you can imagine this is time. 2025 was all about

shedding old skin, shedding old layers, letting go. 2026 is

about new beginnings and creativity and expansion and

expression. This is your opportunity to do it

differently. So we'd love to see you there. Send me a message if

you have any questions. Share this episode with every woman

you need you know who is ready to unlock her purpose. And

again, I'll say, I know I shared so many stories today, but your

purpose isn't going to look like mine, or is it supposed to? Just

because you listen to the new truth you're not meant doesn't

mean you're meant to be a healer or a coach or anything. Even in

my industry, there's infinite possibilities to purpose. But if

you don't know your own soul, if you don't know your own magic,

if you don't know what lights you up, and you haven't

uncovered your gifts and the gift of who you are, you will

miss the guidance. You will miss the divine matrix that is

leading you to the purpose that is meant for you. But you get to

have a life you love, and that's what purpose has done for me, so

I wish that for you too, in 2026 creating a life that you love.

Would love to do it alongside you. Share this episode with

every woman you know who needs to be a little more on purpose

this year, I love you, and I'll see you next week. You.