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I have a question for you.
Speaker B:Yes.
Speaker A:What's your stance on twin flames?
Speaker B:That's a good question.
Speaker B:I, I think, I think just in terms of like, I'm gonna be nice.
Speaker B:So I think that we all have sole con.
Speaker B:I think we have soul contracts.
Speaker B:Right.
Speaker A:Well, is it.
Speaker A:Okay, there's a dip.
Speaker A:So there's a difference between soul contract, so twin flame and a soul mate.
Speaker B:Well, you know, it depends on what the definition you're using for like a twin flame soulmate.
Speaker B:But I just.
Speaker A:I'm going, I'm rolling with you.
Speaker B:So for me, broadly, I would just say that we have sold contracts with people and some of us were meant to be, you know, in long term relationships.
Speaker B:And then some of.
Speaker B:Some people are just meant to come in for.
Speaker B:To be cliche, a reason and a season, you know, and then they leave and.
Speaker B:But it's the, the whole point of it is to advance our soul.
Speaker B:Our.
Speaker B:You know, I think we, we reincarnate and with each incarnation we're here to just grow our.
Speaker B:Grow and advance our soul until we don't incarnate anymore.
Speaker B:That's just my belief.
Speaker A:So yes or no on twin flame?
Speaker B:I mean, I don't believe in twin flames.
Speaker B:You're just gonna press me on it?
Speaker B:I mean, I think that of course he's a, he's a Virgo.
Speaker C:He needs that technicality.
Speaker B:Coming up.
Speaker B:I just think that we have sole contracts with each other.
Speaker B:You know, we, we travel in, in soul pairs.
Speaker B:I think, you know, in a.
Speaker B:In past lives, we've all the three of us have been something to one another in some form of fashion.
Speaker C:I could go with that.
Speaker B:Yeah.
Speaker B:Tangentially, there's a book that I read that has had a huge impact on that perspective is Many Lives and Many masters by, by Dr. Brian Wise.
Speaker C:I love that book.
Speaker C:A great, great book.
Speaker B:Yes, yes.
Speaker C:And, and, and, and there's a follow up.
Speaker B:Real.
Speaker B:Yeah.
Speaker B:Well, only Love is real.
Speaker B:Or, or there was another one that I had that I had that didn't have that title, but.
Speaker B:So he must have more than two books.
Speaker C:I recommend Only Love is Real.
Speaker C:You'll like it.
Speaker B:Okay.
Speaker B:Okay.
Speaker B:I have to get it on audio.
Speaker A:I do have down here that each relationship brings you.
Speaker A:Brings a different experience out of yourself.
Speaker B:Absolutely, absolutely.
Speaker B:Some to.
Speaker B:You know what, it's all, it's all about perspective because you can look at things as good or bad, but it's all to grow us.
Speaker B:And whether we like it or not.
Speaker B:You know, there's a lot of times we have to just get uncomfortable with being uncomfortable and being uncomfortable, which is like those squares and oppositions, those.
Speaker B:You know, they're there for a purpose.
Speaker B:You know, obviously the oppositions, we have to strike a balance between them.
Speaker B:Right.
Speaker B:And then the squares, it's just like those.
Speaker B:Those squares.
Speaker B:Oh my gosh.
Speaker C:You know, I agree exactly with what you're saying because I have actually often found myself in relationships or have had people around me where there's a lot of oppositions and squares.
Speaker B:And.
Speaker C:And this isn't in any sort of relationship.
Speaker C:I mean, Paul and I have a lot of oppositions.
Speaker B:Right.
Speaker C:But you know, we're not in an intimate relationship.
Speaker C:But in the intimate relationships, I think it takes a little bit of extra effort from both parties to really want to be uncomfortable in the uncomfortable Uncomfortability.
Speaker B:Yes.
Speaker B:You have to push through it, push past it.
Speaker B:Yeah.
Speaker B:And it always feels, a lot of times just feels tense or it.
Speaker B:I think it pushes you to advance, to figure out like, to really kind of go deep, like what is going on here.
Speaker A:Yeah, I actually have down here.
Speaker A:Some of our highest highs have been connected to some relationships as well as our lowest lows, but we keep coming back for more.
Speaker A:Why.