Shownotes
In this podcast, we have examined a lot of issues relating to the credibility of Mormon doctrines and history. This might leave you wondering: why would anybody join the LDS Church? And does anyone ever leave it?
Why People Join
- LDS Church has 16 million members at present, roughly doubled in the past 25 years
- LDS Ch grows by birth of children AND baptizing converts
- About 30% of church members are converts
- About 4 in 10 converts were raised Protestant / same raised Catholic
- Growth rate has decreased = from 5% per year in late 1980s → 1.5% per year in 2017
- People join LDS Church for a myriad of reasons
- Many → testimony experience received while studying Mo’ism
- Some, M provides satisfying answers re: meaning of life
- Some like emphasis on righteousness & achievement
- Others like idea → everyone goes to some form of heaven
- Or that there is 2nd chance for salvation after this life
- Many find that LDS Church makes God comprehensible
- Compared to the biblical doctrine of the Trinity
- For others, emotional reasons play a role
- The appeal that families can be united forever
- Or a dead loved one has 2nd chance for salvation
- People find security in the structure & authority of Mo’ism
- Some encounter LDS Church when searching spiritually
- Or while looking to fill a void in their hearts
- Others find a welcoming, supportive community
- When going through tough times emotionally
- LDS Ch → safe haven from society’s evils for families
- Some join for relational reasons
- Young ppl growing up in LDS majority → join to fit in
- Others join through a romantic relationship with a Mo
- Some join during a time of material need
- After Church provided practical or financial help
- But MOST LDS are members bc they were raised in Mo’ism
- Officially → church members at age 8, when baptized
- The majority stay in the Church
- Though probably experience periods of increased/decreased activity
- Regardless of why people join…
- M provides a positive way of life & caring community
- Gives sense → bldg something significant in this life & next
- ALL LDS are urged to experience a personal conversion
- Both those who grew up in it and those who join it
- Conversion is not moment of spiritual regeneration as in traditional Xianty
- But the moment they come to know with divinely-inspired certainty
- That JS is a prophet, the BOM is true
- The LDS Church is the only true church
- Church membership is important, but faith journey starts at this point of conversion
- By gaining assurance / testimony of truth of LDS Church
- Application: to those outside, the LDS Church may seem irrational or strange
- Might have a hard time understand why ppl believe it
- Let’s have some empathy due to the powerful forces at work that confirm the LDS identity and commitment in ppl
The Role of Missionaries
- Serving a mission is a vital rite of passage that strengthens the commitment of young Mos
- In 2022, ~ 90,000 missionaries worldwide, from many countries
- Serving in 407 different geographical missions.
- Seen as an expectation / duty for young men
- As an opportunity but not obligation for young women
- On the “mission field”
- Go in pairs: junior & senior companion
- Frequently transferred - every few months
- A day in the life
- Rise at 6:30 am → 1 hour to pray, exercise, prepare for the day
- Personal & companion Study - 2.5 hours of scriptures, lessons, manual, language, etc.
- Teaching People - begins at 10:00 am
- Referrals from members, knock on doors, pass out tracts, speak to anyone
- Follow-up visits → formal lessons / push toward baptism as an LDS member
- Work with members → activate inactives / help members reach out
- Return to lodging at 9:00 pm → planning, journaling, prayer = until 10:30
- Everyone who joins the LDS Church will go through the missionary lessons
- Designed to convince them of LDS truth claims
- Also: to prepare them for the commitments involved in living as a Mormon
- Application: being an LDS missionary is a tough gig
- Long hours, far from home, lots of rejection
- Treat them with kindness
- But don’t be afraid to engage in open, truthful but loving conversations
Why People Leave
- In spite of positive elements of LDS life, ppl are leaving Mo’ism in unprecedented numbers
- Up to 50% of converts in the US drop out after a year
- When it comes to lifelong members → retention rate in adulthood is about 5 in 8
- Of those who leave, only ⅓ find a home in a new religion → ½ of those in some form of Protestant faith
- Many factors that contribute to LDS deconversion
- Some don’t want to live demanding LDS lifestyle
- Constant busyness, time & money pressure
- Tire of stress of living up to high expectations / pressure to be worthy
- Pressure to be worthy
- Discover unsavory episodes in Church’s history → cast a bad light on LDS prophets
- Or contradict official Church accounts
- Converts uncover info they were unaware of when baptized
- Such as temple practices / the idea of becoming gods
- Honest Qs go unanswered / discouragement sets in → people told not to question the faith
- Some leave bc they discover that LDS truth claims can’t stand up to intellectual scrutiny
- Others decide that Mormon doctrines don’t stack up to BIble
- More & more → leave due to LDS conservative stand on social issues
- Patriarchal vs feminism / traditional marriage vs. LGBT inclusion
- Some leave bc LDS Church feels like big business to them
- Others find Church too monolithically white and American
- Many leave because they never fit in culturally
- Some are poorly treated and don’t come back
- As many LDS have their faith confirmed by warm spiritual experiences
- Some also leave because of an experience → a dream or spiritual feeling caused them to doubt
- Application: don’t think your LDS friend is impervious to the gospel, or even to deeper friendship
- But realize → they have to trust you a lot to open up about their doubts / questions / concerns
- Closet doubters: some Mos reject claims & teachings of LDS Church
- But choose to stay in the church → quiet about their doubts
- Disaffected Mos stay in the Church for various reasons
- May appreciate some, if not all, Mo teachings & practices
- Marriage compels some to stay for family stability / to avoid divorce
- Some stay because of their family history / traditions
- Job security is an issue for many, esp in Utah
- One’s boss and co-workers may be LDS
- Many → no idea where to go / what to do w/o Mormonism
- Some hope to influence the church to change
- Others → church still seen as a safe place to raise kids w/values
- Application: your LDS friend might not be as convinced or loyal as it seems on the surface
Leaving Is Difficult
- For those raised LDS, leaving Mormonism is hard
- Going vs. tide of deep roots & strong group identity
- When a person rejects authority & truth claims of Mo’ism…
- Considered apostate → a very negative label
- LDS are taught to fear apostasy
- Warned that if they leave the Church...
- Abandon safe umbrella of priesthood care & authority
- LDS sources claim → ppl leave the church out of pride, sin, or pettiness
- Or because they were deceived by Satan
- When people do finally leave, they do so at a cost
- Ex-Mo may suffer sense of anguish over loss of ID
- Family life and personal relationships are disrupted
- Those who leave are often stereotyped & slandered
- A doubting Mormon may go through agonizing transition period - perhaps years long
- Marked by insecurity, alienation, anger, and confusion
- Before ultimately accepting a decision to leave Ch
- Application: have compassion on ppl as they navigate a difficult faith transition
- Patience / kindness
- Give them space to sort things out
- Empathize with the emotional disequilibrium & relational challenges
- It’s not like going from Baptist to Presbyterian church