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In this episode, Carrie-Ann Wade and Mary Whenman discuss Mary's career highlights and her advice and insight for aspiring communications directors.

Mary is Director, Group Communications at the British Business Bank, the UK’s economic development bank. Before moving in-house, Mary had a 25-year global agency career. She is a Fellow of the CIPR, has featured in the PR Week Powerbook since 2015 and was President of Women in PR 2015-2018.

The conversation ranges from holiday camps to high end diamonds, with everything in between. And Mary shares her experience of moving from agency to in-house. With advice on speaking truth to power when you are a communications leader, there are plenty of gems in this episode.

Behind the Bob, Diary of a Comms Director

Welcome to Behind the Bob, Diary of a Comms Director with Carrie-Ann Wade.

This podcast is all about developing communications leaders of the future and supporting you to grow and thrive in your comms career. You’ll hear from Carrie-Ann about her own personal experiences and insights and there might even be a special guest or two popping up.

The first series focused on diversity in the communications profession and how to create more opportunities for people to see communications as a profession they would like to work in. The second series explores the lives of communications directors to help inspire and support communications leaders of the future.

Behind the Bob gives you a sneak peek into life as a comms director and provides you with all the "behind the scenes" knowledge to help you thrive as a communications leader.


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Carrie-Ann Wade: Welcome to Behind the Bob, Diary of a Comms Director with

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me, Carrie-Ann Wade.

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This

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Carrie-Ann Wade: podcast is all about developing communications leaders

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of the future and supporting you to grow and thrive in your comms career.

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You'll hear from me about my experiences and insights, and there might even

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be a special guest or two popping up.

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So I hope you enjoy.

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Welcome to this episode of Behind the Bob with me, Carrie-Ann, and I'm delighted

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to be here today with Mary Whenman, who is the Director of Group Communications

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with the British Business Bank.

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And I'm really excited that Mary's agreed to have this conversation with me today.

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So welcome, Mary.

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Thank you, Carrie-Ann.

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Delighted to be here.

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Carrie-Ann Wade: Brilliant.

Mary Whenman:

Thank you.

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As listeners will know in this series of Behind the Bob, we are talking

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to some brilliant communications directors to find out a little bit

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more, mostly because I'm nosy, but in the hope that it helps our listeners

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about those comms director's careers today, what's been the highs, lows, and

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advice that communications would give.

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give communications directors would give to people who are looking to take the

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next step in their leadership careers.

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So I'm really pleased that you're here, Mary, because I've followed you from

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afar and I know our paths have crossed through the PRCA and CIPR before, but

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I'm always excited to see your updates, mostly on LinkedIn, because I happen

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To say at this point you are also the leader of a multi award winning team.

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Not that there's any FOMO or jealousy over here, but it's brilliant to have you here.

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So I wondered if you wouldn't mind by starting off, Mary, just telling

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us a little bit about your career to date and why you decided that

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communications was the profession for you.

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Okay.

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Thank you, Carrie-Ann.

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I think my career is really fallen into two parts.

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I've had an agency career and I've had an in house career, but how did

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I actually get into public relations and communications in the first place?

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I'm actually one of those rare people who took an active decision that they wanted

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to go into a career in public relations.

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I think when you talk to many people, they've fallen into

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it or found it along the way.

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I actually became very interested in advertising when I was a teenager and I

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really thought that I wanted to go into a career in advertising and through a family

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friend, I knew somebody who was working at Leo Burnett, and I went in to talk to

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him about what a career in advertising was like when I was about 16 years old.

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And I don't know how I worked this out, but I somehow.

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decided after that meeting that advertising actually wasn't for me,

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because I, he talked me through the different roles of the strategist,

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the creative and the account handler.

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And I thought I don't want to narrow myself into one of those.

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I want to be all of those things.

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And then I found public relations through the CIPR and realized that if you work

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in communications you can actually do a combination of all those things and that

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seemed a lot more interesting to me.

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So when I was in the sixth form I actually went along to a CIPR careers day

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which was entirely geared at graduates.

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I'm not quite sure how I got into the careers day at such

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a young age but spent the day.

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learning all about public relations.

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And I was doing a business studies A level at the time and I decided that I wanted to

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go and do a business studies degree and I wanted to go to a university that offered

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a sandwich course so that in your third year you could go and work for a year.

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And out of my degree course of 180 people, I was the only person at

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the time who went and found their placement year with a PR agency.

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And that's how my career in PR started because I was then

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fortunate enough after securing that placement to go back to them.

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Into a permanent role after I graduated.

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So that's how I got into the industry.

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Carrie-Ann Wade: Brilliant.

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I feel like clearly lots of big aspirations, but also lots of clarity

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in terms of direction of travel, which as you say, might sound quite unusual

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to some of our listeners who may be a finding communications and a career in

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PR and comms through a different route.

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So I'm really, yeah, I'm really impressed at how much clarity you had at such a

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young age that's where you wanted to head.

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So that experience, going into the PR agency was what made you feel like.

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Then an entire career in comms was the right profession for you?

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Or did you wiggle off into different areas through your career?

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Have you stayed true to that comms path?

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No, I'm communications through and through.

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There's, a silver thread or a red thread going through me.

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That's all I've ever done.

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I was really lucky actually, because I started with a husband and wife

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team who ran a very small agency.

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And that was a fantastic training ground because it.

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taught me a number of things.

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It really taught me how a business is run.

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When you are, a very small team, you're very aware of the cash flow.

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And that is absolutely critical as anyone knows who, who sets up a small business.

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And also client service is absolutely critical because you're not going to

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get that cash flow if the client service and the delivery isn't impeccable.

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I was, I really learned that early on, and also one of the agency founders

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was a former journalist, and he's the one that really taught me how to write.

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So I think there's two critical skills you need in the early stages

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of your career that will then see you through writing and client service,

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whether it's in an agency or in house, and it's a stakeholder engagement.

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Though, that was the bedrock for that was established in that particular agency.

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And I worked for them for about two years after I graduated.

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And then I think having done three years with them by that point I

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needed to go and spread my wings.

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And spent a few months looking for a role in a much bigger agency

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where I could go and learn from new people and work on bigger brands.

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Carrie-Ann Wade: I love that.

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And I'm sure we'll touch on this as the conversation continues, Mary, but you

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mentioned that move from agency to in house and the fact that you've got, that

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experience on both sides, as it were.

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I just wondered if you did want to just touch on kind of, How you made

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that decision to move from agency to in house and what that felt like for you.

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Yes I made that decision quite late in my career,

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actually and I'd been in agency for about 20 to 25 years at that point.

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I'd got to a senior role as a managing director of the corporate

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financial and public affairs practice working at Weber Shamwick.

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And Weber Shalman at the time was the second largest global agency.

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I was running a 60 person team with a 9 million P& L in terms of revenue.

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So it was a really big business unit.

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We were the second largest business unit in EMEA after the German office.

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And I was reporting to the EMEA CEO.

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So I think I was also one of the only female leaders of a corporate practice

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in London at the time and it's great to see that there have been other women

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come through over the, over recent years to start to lead corporate and

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financial practices, because they just tend to be more the world for men.

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I was there in what I thought would be my dream job.

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And actually it's always a case of be careful what you wish for, isn't it?

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Because it ended up that it wasn't my dream job.

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And when you get to that level and you're running a 9 million P& L,

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you're spending a huge amount of time with your finance business

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partner pouring over spreadsheets.

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And you're up financial reporting.

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You're also delivering a lot of new business.

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And you might occasionally be able to do some client work.

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So the balance was just not right for me.

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And I wanted to get back to doing a lot more client work.

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And actually doing.

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the profession that I actually was trained to do, but wasn't really

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doing anymore because essentially I, I had got to this senior leadership

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role when I wasn't doing the practice or the craft of communications.

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So that was really what drove me to wanting to move in house.

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And one might think it would have been easy being the MD of one of the largest

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corporate financial practices in London to do that, but it really wasn't.

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And it was a huge challenge.

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So I think my, First piece of advice to people would be if you do want

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to make that move from agency to in house, you need to think very

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carefully about the timing of that.

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And I would say go earlier in your career than later.

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Carrie-Ann Wade: I love that.

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Thank you.

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I brilliant first piece of advice for this conversation.

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And I'm sure we'll come on to more shortly.

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And I will be asking you about even making that step up into a director

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kind of position, how that felt and how you knew that was right for you.

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But before we get to that, and I know we've We will come on to some challenges

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as well, but I'd be really keen to hear from you, Mary, about what you might

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consider some of the highlights of your comms career, and I'm sure there are

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absolutely loads, but if there are a couple that really stand out for you,

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it'd be brilliant to hear about them.

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It

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all of us have got clients or situations on our CV that we feel

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really propelled our career forward.

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I've got five of those.

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I won't go through all of them in detail or we won't get to the end of the podcast.

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But I think the first one was the launch of Orange, which was the first, the fourth

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mobile phone network to launch in the UK.

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And for All the youngsters out there, that's now what is known as ee.

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But orange was really revolutionary as a brand.

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And the orange launch, I would say, was equivalent in scale and media awareness

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as the launch of a new iPhone stay.

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And, I was working at Paragon Communications that is now an agency that

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doesn't exist anymore, but became Golan.

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And I was working there, it was a hundred person agency.

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We'd been appointed to Lord Chorringe about six years ago.

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Six weeks before launch and it was the best training ground on brand

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and also on integrated marketing communications, because we were working

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alongside the ad agency who was WCRS, we were working alongside the brand

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agency, which was more failings.

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And then there was, the direct marketing agency and multiple internal stakeholders.

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That was a fantastic grounding on how to work on a really big

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brand launch in an integrated way.

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When I left Paragon, I went through I went on to work at BIS Lancaster,

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that is now known as Euro RSCG.

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And there I worked on Butlins.

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And Butlins was one of my favourite pieces of business that I've

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ever worked on in my career.

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I Absolutely loved it.

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And it was at the time when Butlin's was going through a

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lot of challenges as a brand.

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They were appearing on the consumer affairs program watchdog

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on an almost weekly basis.

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They just lost a million pounds of bookings in one weekend due to

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a drug scandal that was splashed all over the Sunday Red Tops.

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We were brought in about a month after that.

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And I worked for the chief executive.

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There was a man called Tony Marshall.

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And Tony was one of those characters that you meet once or twice in your career.

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And he previously worked with Eric Morley on the Miss World contest.

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He was a hospitality and entertainment CEO through and through.

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He was from Leeds, and I remember in the pitch, He just turned to us and

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said who's doing the crisis management?

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Who's doing the sex drugs and alcohol?

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And I remember I shot back at him and I said, that would be me, but do you mean

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on a personal or professional basis?

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And my CEO shot me a death stare.

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And I wanted the room to, to just open up and swallow me and Tony,

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the CEO looked at me and he said, you are the woman for the job.

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You're hired.

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Still obviously had a stern talking to in the taxi after the

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pitch from my agency boss was very pleased that we won the account.

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I still can't believe I said that, and

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Carrie-Ann Wade: was a lesson in, yeah, a lesson in reading

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the room though and knowing

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I obviously for some way clicked with him and then I worked three.

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Went around the country and did three years of crisis management and brand

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protection and brand building for Butlin's and it was probably the most fun piece of

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business that I've worked on in my career.

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There are other clients that I've worked on.

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I then went from Butlin's.

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to the other extreme and worked on to beers the diamond mining company.

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And that was fascinating because that was really where I came in touch with

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management consultants for the first time and the beers at the time had been the

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management consultancy and they needed to completely change their business strategy.

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So we worked alongside Bain.

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I was working at Hill Knowlton at the time.

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And we did a huge global strategy change for De Beers.

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And the role that Hill Knowlton fulfilled, and I was a core member

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of the team, was delivering all the communications for that global strategy

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change, both internally and externally.

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And of course, the whole diamond industry, which is probably one of the most

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complex industries I've ever worked with.

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So I think those are some of my highlights in the sort of first part of my career.

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Carrie-Ann Wade: Brilliant.

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I love them.

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It's from holiday camps to high end diamonds and everything in between,

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it sounds like so brilliant and some great lessons in reading the

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room and knowing your audience.

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So even though you've got that stern talking to, I'm talking to and clearly at

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work say, well done you, that's brilliant.

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Thank you.

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I guess I'd like to move us on and I could hear about your highlights for the rest of

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the podcast, but I know our listeners will want me to ask some more questions of you.

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But I guess I was interested to understand Mary.

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How did you decide that taking that step up to become a director and work

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at a director level in your comms career was the right choice for you?

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I think I'm quite an ambitious person.

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And so it was it's always been something for me that I always

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want to move up to the next level.

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And so it just felt like a natural progression.

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When I was going through my agency career and, I think the first really

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big milestone in your agency career is to get to account director.

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That really is the golden ticket, isn't it?

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And you feel you're on your way.

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And then from there, you're moving up to associate director.

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And I got my directorship in agency when I was at Hill Knowlton.

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And going onto the board and I remember my chair sitting down with me and giving

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me a whole induction around what it meant and my fiduciary responsibilities.

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And it felt like a really big moment for me.

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And I think once I got to that level.

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It was ensuring that I stayed at that level and I was able to maintain being a

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director and then moving to in my, my next role as a director and consolidating that.

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And then I think I definitely knew that I wanted to become an MD but the

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challenge I had at the time was when I was a director in agency that's

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when I my husband and I chose to have our family and we had three children.

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So during that period, I actually worked as an interim because I

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knew that I couldn't and didn't want to work five days a week.

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So I chose to work three days a week for six years, but I set myself up as

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an interim doing sort of senior level assignments largely for former clients

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or people I knew in the industry.

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And I was continuously employed in that period, working on projects

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that would last anywhere between three and sort of 12 months.

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And so it was when I got to the point at which I knew I wanted

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to go back into a permanent role.

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That's when I was able to step up to managing director in an agency.

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And at that point I had three directors reporting to me.

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And that was I think.

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The key thing is what is the difference between an MD and I think as the MD

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you've got to have that, a far broader outlook and, the buck really does stop

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with you in an agency environment.

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In terms of being a director in in house role.

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I think it, what Director of Communications means in different size

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organizations can be quite different.

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So I think if you were in a FTSE 100 and you're a Director of Communications, you

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actually might be working in a single line business unit with a group corporate

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affairs director to whom you report.

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In my organization, which is a medium sized organization as director of

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communications, I'm working right across the entire group across internal

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communications, external communications, and then you get involved in so many

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things that you never imagined that communications director gets involved in.

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And then at the other end you could be a startup business of five people

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and it's really important to look bigger than you are, and you need to

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hire a director of communications.

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So it means different things, I think, in different sized organizations.

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But for me I always wanted that sort of achievement that came with it.

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Carrie-Ann Wade: I love that.

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I think that's a really good point for listeners to consider if they're

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thinking about moving up in their communications career to that next level.

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That point about actually what does being a director of communications

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mean will be different depending on maybe the sector or like you say, the

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size of organization that you're in.

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So definitely something for people to think about as they're

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making choices about which step they take next in their career.

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I think so a great point made there, Mary.

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You touched on earlier a little bit, you started to talk about

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challenges within your career.

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So I wondered if you could share with us what you feel like your biggest challenge

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has been as a communications director.

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So once you've made that step up into directorship, what do

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you feel has been maybe one of your biggest challenges there?

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I think one of the biggest challenges for any communications

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director is speaking truth to power and knowing how you need to deliver

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that and when you need to deliver that.

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There's a former communications director who some listeners might know, a guy

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called Mike Love and Mike has held many senior roles in his career and he's

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now retired, but I always remember.

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listening to him at a conference or reading something he'd written and he gave

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a very good and pertinent piece of advice.

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And he said if you work in agency and give a client some bad advice,

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there aren't any real consequences.

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But if you work in house, there are.

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you could lose your job.

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And I remember in my very first in house role in the first difficult

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situation I was having to deal with, thinking of that piece, not really

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advice, just a statement, isn't it?

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And that was resonating in my head.

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And I think when you work in house, if you're in a particularly small team and

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you might There might not be any other communications professionals around you,

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other than the team reporting to you.

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It can feel a very lonely and isolating place.

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Fortunately, the role I'm in now, whilst I am, the most senior person in

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communications working across the whole group, I know that there are plenty of

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people internally I can go to if I want a second opinion or a sounding board.

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And also it's really important to establish those relationships with

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your external agency so that you can check in with them when you're ready.

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difficult or challenging situation.

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But I think without doubt the most challenging professional period

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for me and also for my team was the pandemic as it probably was

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for many communications directors.

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Just a bit of background, the British Business Bank is the

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UK's economic development bank.

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And so when the pandemic happened, we were called in by government to

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deliver the government's response.

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to support small businesses through the pandemic.

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And what that meant was that on the 11th of March in 2020, the Chancellor

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stood up in Parliament and announced a business support programme that was

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going to be delivered to small businesses that would launch 12 the 23rd of March.

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It was the bank who was having to deliver that.

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And it was my team who were having to do a whole product launch to get millions

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of pounds of funding out into the market for small businesses in 12 days flat.

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Now obviously we were part of a team of a few hundred people doing this.

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And we launched that scheme.

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And we, it sounds very naive now.

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That's really what we thought we were doing.

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We were just launching a scheme.

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And everyone would think this is marvellous and aren't we wonderful,

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saving all these small businesses.

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But literally within days, the scheme started to receive

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criticism from the media.

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And then we were asked to launch another programme.

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And we launched another program a few weeks later and then we were asked

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to launch something called the Bounce Back Loan Scheme, which I'm sure most

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people listening to this have heard of and it's received a lot of media

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attention and public scrutiny since it was launched four years ago now.

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And finally we launched something called the Future Fund in the May,

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so in the space of eight weeks.

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The bank had launched four huge business support programs.

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So we were all working 24 hours a day, seven days a week to get all of this

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up and out into the market, but then also dealing with a very intense level.

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Of public scrutiny, media scrutiny scrutiny from parliamentarians.

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And that actually went on for about two years.

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We were in, in that state and we went through numerous select committees

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National Audit Office reports were written about these different programs.

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And so to be in the middle of that for a two year period was very intense.

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And it was one Christmas I was reflecting and I was re I read a

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blog by an Australian firefighter who is a specialist in something

Mary Whenman:

called long term incident management and the impact that has on teens.

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And I read it and I thought, my goodness, This is the situation we are in.

Mary Whenman:

And I then contacted Amanda Coleman from the industry, who many listeners

Mary Whenman:

will have heard of, who's worked in high profile incidents, and is now a trainer.

Mary Whenman:

And I said, I need you to come in and help my team because we need to

Mary Whenman:

get ourselves out of this situation and out of this permanent state of

Mary Whenman:

operating in a crisis environment.

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We need to get back to operating in business as usual.

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And so she, she ran some sessions with us and it was absolutely what

Mary Whenman:

we needed and that really enabled us.

Mary Whenman:

to get out of that state that we've been in for two years and

Mary Whenman:

to go back to business as usual.

Mary Whenman:

Carrie-Ann Wade: Thank you.

Mary Whenman:

And as you're talking about the pandemic, it's given me flashbacks as to what it

Mary Whenman:

was like in my own communications team at the time, but we definitely weren't

Mary Whenman:

launching four major programs like that in, in the space of eight weeks.

Mary Whenman:

I guess there are a couple of things I just wanted to touch on that you said.

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And one, you talked there a bit about resilience and kind of the

Mary Whenman:

impact on teams, but I guess.

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I was interested to hear from you about, your thoughts as a communications

Mary Whenman:

director about how you manage your own wellbeing and where you seek support.

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And you talked about how relationships are key to that support, when

Mary Whenman:

you're working at that really senior level as a leader and you are.

Mary Whenman:

day in day out, maybe facing that public scrutiny or dealing with lots of media.

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I was just interested to know how you look after yourself as a comms director.

Mary Whenman:

I don't think I'm particularly good at looking after myself.

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I think my father ran his own business.

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Looking back on my childhood, my father was an absolute workaholic and

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he worked six days a week and we, I'd occasionally see him on a Sunday even

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though we lived in the same house.

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And I've definitely got that trait.

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I am a, bit of a workaholic.

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And I will do whatever the situation demands of me.

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But I think the reason we got through it is we're a very strong team.

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We all supported one another.

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And also everybody within the bank.

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because we were all collectively in this situation, whether you

Mary Whenman:

worked in an investment team or the legal team or you were in one

Mary Whenman:

of the product teams, we were all collectively in this situation together.

Mary Whenman:

So everybody was naturally supportive of one another.

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Although we were working very long hours.

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It was important to understand when people needed a break.

Mary Whenman:

So in the sort of that first six month period that was incredibly intense,

Mary Whenman:

people did have to work through weekends.

Mary Whenman:

I remember taking, I think, two days off over the Easter weekend and thinking

Mary Whenman:

it was the most fantastic thing.

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And then, when it came to the sort of the Maybank holidays,

Mary Whenman:

other team members got to work.

Mary Whenman:

took that time off.

Mary Whenman:

So we weren't unfortunately a large enough team at the time to operate

Mary Whenman:

a rotor system, which I know a lot of, large in house teams and

Mary Whenman:

government departments are able to do.

Mary Whenman:

We just didn't have the luxury of that.

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I was able to bring in some additional interim support which was really helpful.

Mary Whenman:

And I think key is also You know, we were all in the middle

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of the pandemic at the time.

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And I think key for me was, making sure that I did focus on my children

Mary Whenman:

and my family and that really helped.

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But I think that I was very fortunate because that was a very different

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situation to a lot of the members of my team were either living on their own in a

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flat or they were living in a house share.

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And it might've been that some of their You know, the housemates were

Mary Whenman:

for loads and they were the only one working and that was very challenging.

Mary Whenman:

So it was ensuring that people could take the time out for the things they wanted.

Mary Whenman:

One member of my team it was really important to her that she

Mary Whenman:

was able to go and play tennis.

Mary Whenman:

In a socially distance way, obviously, and do online yoga.

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And she'd just say I need to go to my online yoga class now.

Mary Whenman:

And so it was respecting people's the way people needed to decompress and relax.

Mary Whenman:

And that was really important.

Mary Whenman:

I think I'm personally not particularly good , as I said at finding the downtime.

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But I think.

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It is ensuring that everyone does get that downtime that they need in the

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way in which they personally need it, which is different for every person.

Mary Whenman:

Carrie-Ann Wade: Yeah, I think that's really helpful, isn't it?

Mary Whenman:

To consider what a person needs to help their wellbeing and to support them

Mary Whenman:

at challenging times in the workplace.

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And like you say, that's not going to be the same for everybody.

Mary Whenman:

So I think you've done a brilliant job in managing your

Mary Whenman:

way through that with your team.

Mary Whenman:

So thanks for sharing.

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On the flip side of the biggest challenge you've talked it.

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about a few of your highlights from your agency career already.

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I wondered if you would like to talk about what you might consider to be your biggest

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success as a communications director, if there is one that springs to mind,

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or it might be, I don't know, something in terms of the way that you've worked

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as a comms director through your career.

Mary Whenman:

I think probably the work I've done at the bank, I would

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like to say is my biggest success.

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When I joined the bank, the communications team was a team of four.

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And pretty much everything was done off the side of a desk.

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And I've, built a far bigger team.

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I've established the internal communications function from scratch.

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I've established the social media capability from scratch.

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And also I think, Before the pandemic, the communications team was probably

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considered the good news department.

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And once we'd launched the first of the business support programs in the pandemic

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and started to track the media coverage immediately the day, the following

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day, we have a seat at the table.

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And what I went about doing was demonstrating the strategic importance

Mary Whenman:

of communications, particularly in management decision making.

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And we had some criticism around some operational issues.

Mary Whenman:

And so I was ensuring that in the daily media report.

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That was all included, this, and also including who are the stakeholders

Mary Whenman:

who are commenting on that because you, that's, it's a fantastic way

Mary Whenman:

to do your stakeholder mapping.

Mary Whenman:

And it became a daily agenda item on the standard every morning.

Mary Whenman:

giving an update on that and that really established the function

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as a strategic capability.

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And as a result I and my team, we now manage also, the chief executives.

Mary Whenman:

Media engagement and profile and the chairs media engagement profile

Mary Whenman:

that wasn't happening when I first joined the bank six years ago.

Mary Whenman:

So I think that's probably the biggest success in terms of, if I

Mary Whenman:

were to leave tomorrow what have you left behind and I've left behind, a

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well respected team that is in the meeting room when decisions are made.

Mary Whenman:

I'd also look back and say I'm very proud of the work that we did with De Beers.

Mary Whenman:

I've it was a real moment for that organization and to be involved in

Mary Whenman:

the change of strategy for a business that is the global market leader.

Mary Whenman:

means you're actually changing an entire industry.

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And I think once you've worked on a project like that, not a lot phases you

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after that, when you're presented with a substantial project to deliver for

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either your own company or a client.

Mary Whenman:

Carrie-Ann Wade: Brilliant.

Mary Whenman:

And I'm hearing lots in there about as well as that importance of your

Mary Whenman:

role in helping to position the function as a strategic function.

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There's something about how you're demonstrating the value add from

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communications at that strategic level.

Mary Whenman:

And I think it's something that lots of communicators talk about in different

Mary Whenman:

spaces around how important that sort of evaluation and demonstrating

Mary Whenman:

the impact that you're having is.

Mary Whenman:

So I think some real life examples from you about why that's important

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in terms of supporting the function and yourself as a comms director.

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So the final bit that I wanted to talk about with you Mary is probably the reason

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why a lot of our listeners are here.

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So now we've got the context about all of your amazing

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experience in your career to date.

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I really wanted to ask you what advice you might give to aspiring

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communications directors and leaders.

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So I work a lot with people who are just thinking about whether they

Mary Whenman:

want to take that next step and step up into that leadership space, or

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they've maybe been comms point of view and are now on wondering whether

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or not to make that break for it and go for a director level role.

Mary Whenman:

I would be interested to hear from you, Mary, based on your own experience, what

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advice you might give to those listeners.

Mary Whenman:

Okay, thank you.

Mary Whenman:

I think one benefit that your listeners have that probably wasn't there,

Mary Whenman:

or I certainly wasn't cognizant of earlier in my career, is I think

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there's far more focus now on actually proactively managing your career.

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And although people might think having listened to this podcast and

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might look at my LinkedIn and think that's a very well managed career.

Mary Whenman:

I would say most of my job moves were not accidental, but they weren't that planned.

Mary Whenman:

It was just like, Oh, I like the look of that.

Mary Whenman:

I'll go and do that.

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Whereas I think nowadays people are far more strategic and thoughtful.

Mary Whenman:

Thoughtful and they plan their careers.

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And I really didn't do that.

Mary Whenman:

And so I think the fact that people are thinking about that and planning

Mary Whenman:

their careers is a real step forward.

Mary Whenman:

I think I touched on it earlier, I think if you do want to move from

Mary Whenman:

agency to in-house or you do want to move in an in-house role up.

Mary Whenman:

to a director level or a head of level.

Mary Whenman:

I think it's all about timing and working out when the timing is right

Mary Whenman:

for you and when you are ready to take on that extra responsibility.

Mary Whenman:

I got some very good advice.

Mary Whenman:

from the CEO of the second agency I worked in and she she was a female

Mary Whenman:

chief executive, which was quite rare at the time and very successful.

Mary Whenman:

And she said always act and behave for the job you want to

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do, not the job you are doing.

Mary Whenman:

So it's always being that step ahead.

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So if you do want to take that step up.

Mary Whenman:

It's starting to look at the people in the level above you.

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How do they behave?

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What sort of projects are they taking on?

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Wait, where you can really demonstrate your value.

Mary Whenman:

And I think there's a number of traits people need.

Mary Whenman:

And then a really good communicator brings the outside world in.

Mary Whenman:

And you need to be read might sound like a a slightly old fashioned expression,

Mary Whenman:

but what I mean is you need to be across all your social media news feeds,

Mary Whenman:

really understand what's going on.

Mary Whenman:

You need to be listening to the right news commentators.

Mary Whenman:

I'm obviously talking here, if you work in the world of corporate communications,

Mary Whenman:

if you work in brand communications, you'll be listening to influencers

Mary Whenman:

and different people, but the people within the orbit in which you work

Mary Whenman:

in, you need to be absolutely sucking that information in so that when

Mary Whenman:

you're in meetings with senior people.

Mary Whenman:

You can use these anecdotes.

Mary Whenman:

You can say, oh I, I read in the Financial Times, or I was just in the Today program

Mary Whenman:

this morning, they make this really relevant point that it's important to our

Mary Whenman:

organization, or there's new trend data that's coming out from different polling

Mary Whenman:

organizations or research organizations.

Mary Whenman:

So it's really being that outside in and having that very big

Mary Whenman:

picture view that is really valued.

Mary Whenman:

It's also ensuring that you're talking the language of the C suite.

Mary Whenman:

So although I went into a career in public relations when I was 21 years

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old, I don't consider myself as having a career in public relations now.

Mary Whenman:

I work in communications and I've ensured that I've established myself as a

Mary Whenman:

strategic communicator as, and my function as a strategic communications function.

Mary Whenman:

And so I talk in the language of the board, which is about reputational

Mary Whenman:

risk, reputation management.

Mary Whenman:

And that's really important.

Mary Whenman:

If you want to be considered for a senior role, you need to talk the language You

Mary Whenman:

also need to understand the basics like what's the difference between a mission,

Mary Whenman:

a vision, values and objectives and what's the difference between a business

Mary Whenman:

objective and a strategic objective.

Mary Whenman:

Because this will become your everyday common parlance when

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you get into a senior role.

Mary Whenman:

I think it's also a final bit of advice.

Mary Whenman:

So I could go on forever with advice is, it's being that

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person that gets things done.

Mary Whenman:

It's the whole Barack Obama approach, isn't it?

Mary Whenman:

Be that person who gets stuff done.

Mary Whenman:

Say yes, take on that project and deliver the project without having to be chased.

Mary Whenman:

Go and ask your line manager for support and questions when you need it.

Mary Whenman:

But if you then build a reputation for being that trustworthy

Mary Whenman:

person that can get stuff done, you'll get given more projects.

Mary Whenman:

And those projects will become high profile projects within your organization.

Mary Whenman:

And that's the sort of thing that leads to promotions and for you to

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be considered for a leadership role.

Mary Whenman:

Carrie-Ann Wade: I love it.

Mary Whenman:

Some real nuggets in there, Mary, for our listeners in terms of how they might want

Mary Whenman:

to start thinking, how they might want to.

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start operating.

Mary Whenman:

And I would definitely say for listeners who for some of this is resonated, but

Mary Whenman:

maybe feels a bit scary, especially that step up into the C suite, which

Mary Whenman:

like you say, is a whole new language sometimes for you to learn that there

Mary Whenman:

will definitely be opportunities for people to maybe shadow others that

Mary Whenman:

are already in that space or seek some mentoring from people who've already.

Mary Whenman:

walked the walk so that they can really get used to speak in that language and

Mary Whenman:

having those types of conversations.

Mary Whenman:

So I think some really brilliant advice in there, Mary.

Mary Whenman:

Thank you so much.

Mary Whenman:

I'm really grateful that you've been on the podcast today

Mary Whenman:

sharing a bit more about you.

Mary Whenman:

And I feel like I've learned lots about your career to date.

Mary Whenman:

And I'm excited to see maybe what happens next.

Mary Whenman:

Because you're always, your team's always there winning awards or leading the way.

Mary Whenman:

So it feels like you're doing plenty of trailblazing for the profession.

Mary Whenman:

So thank you so much for that, Mary.

Mary Whenman:

And I've really appreciated talking to you today.

Mary Whenman:

Thank you on behalf of the listeners.

Mary Whenman:

Thank you so much, Carrie-Ann.

Mary Whenman:

It's been a real pleasure talking to you.

Mary Whenman:

Carrie-Ann Wade: Thank you for listening to this episode of Behind the Bob.

Mary Whenman:

I'd love for you to subscribe on your favorite podcast platform

Mary Whenman:

and leave a rating or a review.

Mary Whenman:

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Mary Whenman:

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