Nearly 46,000 Americans died by suicide in 2020. That’s one death every 11 minutes.
Coping with the loss of a loved one is challenging. It can also be difficult for people around them to know how to best support them. DBSA Young Adult Council members Olivia Eiler and Jamie Vaughn spoke with two co-facilitators from the Survivors of Suicide (SOS) bereavement support group at UMPC Western Psychiatric Hospital’s STAR-Center in Pittsburgh. They share their personal experiences with suicide loss, offer practical tips for supporting survivors, and discuss resources for survivors.
For Immediate Help:
National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline
Call or text 988
Online Resources:
American Association of Suicidology
https://suicidology.org/
American Foundation for Suicide Prevention
https://afsp.org/
Survivors of Suicide bereavement support group
https://www.starcenter.pitt.edu/clinical-services/survivors-suicide
Jamey Covaleski
412-864-3346
covaleskijj@upmc.edu
The Dougy Center for Grieving Children & Families
https://www.dougy.org/
The Child Mind Institute
https://childmind.org/topics/suicide-self-harm/
Books for Adults:
After Suicide Loss: Coping with Your Grief by Bob Baugher and Jack Jordan
No Time to Say Goodbye: Surviving the Suicide of a Loved One by Carla Fine
When Bad Things Happen to Good People by Harold S. Kushner
Why People Die by Suicide by Thomas Joiner
History of a Suicide: My Sister’s Unfinished Life by Jill Bialosky
I’m Sorry For Your Loss: Hope and Guidance in Managing Your Grief by Lillian L. Meyers, Ph.D.
My Son…My Son: A Guide to Healing After Death, Loss, or Suicide by Iris Bolton
Voices of Healing and Hope: Conversations on Grief after Suicide by Iris Bolton
Cracked, Not Broken: Surviving and Thriving After a Suicide Attempt by Kevin Hines
It’s OK That You’re Not OK: Meeting grief and loss in a culture that doesn’t understand by Megan Devine
Grief One Day at a Time: 365 Meditations to Help You Heal After Loss by Alan Wolfelt, Ph.D.
A Time to Grieve: Meditations for Healing After the Death of a Loved One by Carol Staudacher
Shattered: Surviving the Loss of a Child by Gary Roe
Signs by Laura Lynne Jackson
Books for Children:
Suicide Loss: What Teens Need to Know by Terri Erbacher, Ph.D. & Tony Salvatore, MA
But I Didn't Get to Say Goodbye: For Parents and Professionals Helping Child Suicide Survivors by Barbara Rubel
My Uncle Keith Died by Carol Ann Loehr, Julianne Costentino & James Mojonnier
