Join us in this powerful episode as we explore Brenda Asterino's soul journey, which has led her to become a voice against ethnic persecution and discrimination through her poetry. Drawing on her past lives and epigenetic memories, Brenda sheds light on humanity's struggle with judgment and persecution based on religion and ethnicity. Her poetry acts as a witness to our collective journey and brings awareness to the importance of acceptance and inclusivity. Through Brenda's story, we are reminded of the power of using our voices to create positive change in the world.
Our guest this episode is:Brenda Asterino
Brenda Asterino is a poet who has many years of training in Energy work and Body Work including classes from various academic institutions, churches, mystery school organizations and non-organizations (1979 - 2021). I love being with family and grandchildren. I was a private and public educator in Ohio, USA, and elsewhere for about 20 years until a car accident took me out of my career. Presently volunteer with KLOI-LP 102.9 FM, American Red Cross, and other. Making culture and our world a better place for our children and grandchildren is a main concern. Poetry: Pathways, Walking Through Creation can be found at amazon, B&N, Village Books https://www.sidekickpress.com/project/pathways/ http://brendaasterino.com/ Purchase Brenda's book Pathways: Walking Through Creation Amazon here https://amzn.to/3K5YyXT (affiliate link)
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Welcome to
Katische Haberfield:the Infinite Life Podcast, and this
Katische Haberfield:week we have a very special guest
Katische Haberfield:with us and her name is Brenda.
Katische Haberfield:Brenda Asino.
Katische Haberfield:Brenda, welcome to the show.
Brenda Asterino:Thank
Brenda Asterino:you very much, Katische.
Katische Haberfield:Thank you.
Katische Haberfield:Thank you for coming.
Katische Haberfield:Now Brenda and I had a chat
Katische Haberfield:because she left me a message.
Katische Haberfield:She's one of the brave souls.
Katische Haberfield:There's only been a few who have
Katische Haberfield:so far contacted me and left me a
Katische Haberfield:message on the podcast recorder, and
Katische Haberfield:you will have heard Brenda's voice.
Katische Haberfield:Leaving a message about a past life
Katische Haberfield:experience that she had as a result of
Katische Haberfield:some, um, horrible nightmares that she
Katische Haberfield:had in a couple of episodes aga ago.
Katische Haberfield:So I think it was around, uh, not
Katische Haberfield:quite sure of the exact episode number
Katische Haberfield:from the top of my head right now,
Katische Haberfield:but you can go back and you'll see,
Katische Haberfield:um, and listen to Brenda's voice.
Katische Haberfield:So thank you Brenda, for being
Katische Haberfield:brave and leaving me a, a
Katische Haberfield:message on the podcast recorder.
Katische Haberfield:I know it can be confronting to leave
Katische Haberfield:a message on a microphone to somebody
Katische Haberfield:out there somewhere in the internet,
Katische Haberfield:but I appreciate your bravery.
Katische Haberfield:Um, the whole point of this podcast is
Katische Haberfield:to help others consider the notion that
Katische Haberfield:their soul is eternal and to consider
Katische Haberfield:that we do get dreams and messages.
Katische Haberfield:As well as from participating in
Katische Haberfield:past life regression so you can get
Katische Haberfield:insights and breakthroughs that help
Katische Haberfield:you in your everyday life, um, through.
Katische Haberfield:All parts and all facets of your
Katische Haberfield:life if you are open to messages that
Katische Haberfield:you receive and, and can be given.
Katische Haberfield:So Brenda, you've got quite an
Katische Haberfield:interesting background, and I'll let
Katische Haberfield:you put it in your, in your own voice.
Katische Haberfield:But, um, on your profile it says that
Katische Haberfield:you've had many years of training
Katische Haberfield:in energy work and body work.
Katische Haberfield:Uh, you've been involved in mystery
Katische Haberfield:school organizations, you've been an
Katische Haberfield:educator, and you're also a poet as well.
Katische Haberfield:? Brenda Asterino: Yes.
Katische Haberfield:I'm.
Katische Haberfield:Very grateful for the
Katische Haberfield:many facets of my life.
Katische Haberfield:Yes.
Katische Haberfield:Beautiful.
Katische Haberfield:And tell, tell us a little bit
Katische Haberfield:about, um, what drew you to poetry?
Brenda Asterino:I've always been involved
Brenda Asterino:in poetry, uh, when my father passed away.
Brenda Asterino:And we were going through things
Brenda Asterino:like where his jewelry was and stuff.
Brenda Asterino:There was a poem I had written, I
Brenda Asterino:must have been six or seven years old.
Brenda Asterino:So, um, I've just always been into poetry.
Brenda Asterino:I've always admired and liked rhyming.
Brenda Asterino:I do less rhyming now than I used to.
Brenda Asterino:Um, I try different forms of poetry, but.
Brenda Asterino:It seems like a intuitive way to bring
Brenda Asterino:out your feelings as well as your thoughts
Brenda Asterino:and, uh, to find patterns within them.
Brenda Asterino:Sometimes I even get a rhythm and a beat
Brenda Asterino:with the words, which is kind of cool.
Brenda Asterino:So it's just something
Brenda Asterino:that's always been a part of.
Katische Haberfield:And do you
Katische Haberfield:find for, say, a comparison that
Katische Haberfield:you go into a meditative like
Katische Haberfield:stance, a trance-like stance when
Katische Haberfield:you're actually writing your poetry?
Brenda Asterino:I write better
Brenda Asterino:poetry if I am, I don't like to
Brenda Asterino:call it a trance because people kind
Brenda Asterino:of associate that with woo woo or
Brenda Asterino:being out of control or something.
Brenda Asterino:Sure.
Brenda Asterino:Mm-hmm.
Brenda Asterino:, um, I usually say I'm
Brenda Asterino:accessing my right brain.
Brenda Asterino:Okay.
Brenda Asterino:I'm letting go of the judgment stuff.
Brenda Asterino:Mm-hmm.
Brenda Asterino:of the stuff that makes you be detailed
Brenda Asterino:and um, like accounting type mode.
Brenda Asterino:Mm-hmm.
Brenda Asterino:. . Yes.
Brenda Asterino:So I let.
Brenda Asterino:You let go.
Katische Haberfield:Yeah.
Katische Haberfield:Yeah.
Katische Haberfield:And, uh, do you find that you
Katische Haberfield:get a sense that you are like,
Katische Haberfield:connecting with your inner spirit,
Katische Haberfield:your higher self, the source?
Katische Haberfield:What, what words would
Katische Haberfield:you use to describe?
Brenda Asterino:I think that describes it
Brenda Asterino:very well because sometimes I don't know
Brenda Asterino:what I've written as to what it means.
Brenda Asterino:It takes me a while to work
Brenda Asterino:through it and sometimes.
Brenda Asterino:What comes out, or I find patterns.
Brenda Asterino:In subsequent poems or poems over many
Brenda Asterino:years that reveal more of me to me and
Brenda Asterino:kind of help me understand my journey.
Brenda Asterino:Mm.
Katische Haberfield:I think that,
Katische Haberfield:uh, there's a lot of modern day
Katische Haberfield:Instagram poets, and what I find
Katische Haberfield:interesting about them is that.
Katische Haberfield:They share very freely the emotions that
Katische Haberfield:they're going through and which is why
Katische Haberfield:they resonate so with so many people.
Katische Haberfield:And when you look back across their
Katische Haberfield:poetry, over time, you can see the
Katische Haberfield:emotional patterns that they have
Katische Haberfield:gone through because their words have
Katische Haberfield:very clearly and sharply, uh, focused.
Katische Haberfield:Those emotions onto a page so
Katische Haberfield:that they resonate with you.
Katische Haberfield:If you are going through that same
Katische Haberfield:sort of situation and you're like,
Katische Haberfield:I can feel that, I understand that.
Katische Haberfield:That's not just you going through that,
Katische Haberfield:that's me going through that as well.
Katische Haberfield:It's like a, a connection of oneness.
Brenda Asterino:Yes, definitely.
Brenda Asterino:There's a universal universality, um,
Brenda Asterino:however I would pronounce that better,
Brenda Asterino:um, of humanity and we're all connected.
Brenda Asterino:Um, that's how it seems to me.
Brenda Asterino:I'm, I'm not a teacher of any of this.
Brenda Asterino:I don't have a curriculum or anything,
Brenda Asterino:but it seems like I've felt and
Brenda Asterino:journeyed through patterns in my life.
Brenda Asterino:Tell me that, that oneness
Brenda Asterino:is a healthy place to
Katische Haberfield:be.
Katische Haberfield:Absolutely.
Katische Haberfield:Yes.
Katische Haberfield:Absolutely.
Katische Haberfield:And, um, this poem that you wrote, wrote,
Katische Haberfield:um, that you found after your father died,
Katische Haberfield:um, was your father a, a poet as well?
Katische Haberfield:Like was there any
Katische Haberfield:connection that way or No.
Katische Haberfield:, no, but
Brenda Asterino:he seemed
Brenda Asterino:to be very proud of me for.
Brenda Asterino:Either because I did it or, um, because
Brenda Asterino:he would've liked to have done it.
Brenda Asterino:My father was tone deaf, so he
Brenda Asterino:did not, he had trouble being on
Brenda Asterino:a functional level with music.
Brenda Asterino:But he appreciated what he
Brenda Asterino:was told was good music.
Brenda Asterino:Okay?
Brenda Asterino:Yep.
Brenda Asterino:Yes.
Brenda Asterino:. So it's, it's kind of like that.
Brenda Asterino:I think he appreciated that I was
Brenda Asterino:producing art and I, I know from
Brenda Asterino:friends of his who were artists in
Brenda Asterino:the, in the, uh, campus world, that
Brenda Asterino:he appreciated what they produced.
Brenda Asterino:He was first generation,
Brenda Asterino:um, Italian American.
Brenda Asterino:Okay.
Brenda Asterino:And I suspect that art
Brenda Asterino:is related to freedom.
Brenda Asterino:Mm-hmm.
Brenda Asterino:, so I suspect that that's a part of it too.
Katische Haberfield:Mm.
Katische Haberfield:Yes.
Katische Haberfield:Producing art is very freeing as well
Katische Haberfield:as viewing art because I, I mean, I
Katische Haberfield:find when you connect with an artist,
Katische Haberfield:um, who's expressed themselves in their
Katische Haberfield:artwork, rather than producing what they
Katische Haberfield:think they should produce, it is like
Katische Haberfield:a direct connection to them because you
Katische Haberfield:feel an emotional, a visceral reaction
Katische Haberfield:to whatever piece of, of art they have
Katische Haberfield:created, irrespective of the media.
Brenda Asterino:So I wanna take this
Brenda Asterino:a a little bit different direction.
Brenda Asterino:Cause truth and justice have
Brenda Asterino:always been important to me.
Brenda Asterino:And I think any expression
Brenda Asterino:of art is about truth.
Brenda Asterino:Mm-hmm.
Brenda Asterino:. And you can't have justice without truth.
Brenda Asterino:And kind of what I was getting.
Brenda Asterino:Two with my, um, comments about my father
Brenda Asterino:and art also involves, um, if you, if
Brenda Asterino:your parents were escaping a country
Brenda Asterino:where freedoms were being lost, most
Brenda Asterino:of the time, art and intellectuals,
Brenda Asterino:freedom of speech, freedom of
Brenda Asterino:expression, are the first things to go.
Katische Haberfield:Mm.
Katische Haberfield:Absolutely.
Katische Haberfield:So.
Katische Haberfield:Mm-hmm.
Katische Haberfield:. Yeah, for sure.
Katische Haberfield:And, and, uh, I guess most of us,
Katische Haberfield:uh, well, sorry, I'll put it for me.
Katische Haberfield:Not I, I don't represent Clem to
Katische Haberfield:represent anybody else, but, so I live
Katische Haberfield:in Australia and we are, uh, pretty
Katische Haberfield:much have had, uh, A lot of freedoms.
Katische Haberfield:You know, there are, there are people in
Katische Haberfield:any country and nation of all different
Katische Haberfield:backgrounds that don't have freedoms.
Katische Haberfield:But, um, for somebody like me, I
Katische Haberfield:have had, um, a lot of freedom.
Katische Haberfield:Uh, probably the most freedom that anybody
Katische Haberfield:in the world would have in if you wanted
Katische Haberfield:to compare my life with other people at
Katische Haberfield:the same time in history all around life.
Katische Haberfield:So it's not until you have that
Katische Haberfield:freedom taken away from you that I
Katische Haberfield:think you could really appreciate.
Katische Haberfield:The beauty of the freedom that
Katische Haberfield:is gained and given by being
Katische Haberfield:allowed to express yourself.
Katische Haberfield:And I
Brenda Asterino:think that also takes
Brenda Asterino:us into spirituality because through
Brenda Asterino:those freedom of expressions, that's how
Brenda Asterino:I connect more to my spirituality and.
Brenda Asterino:over my lifetime, I've come to
Brenda Asterino:believe, hold the belief that
Brenda Asterino:that, um, truth and justice is
Brenda Asterino:supposed to be on a spiritual level.
Brenda Asterino:It's about sacredness.
Brenda Asterino:Mm-hmm.
Brenda Asterino:and mm-hmm.
Brenda Asterino:. And that connects with spirituality
Katische Haberfield:too.
Katische Haberfield:Yeah.
Katische Haberfield:Okay.
Katische Haberfield:And, um, are there any sorts of
Katische Haberfield:experiences that you've had that
Katische Haberfield:have really clarified that for you?
Katische Haberfield:Like what, how, how has that been
Katische Haberfield:that you've come to know that?
Katische Haberfield:In
Brenda Asterino:my, um, Supporting my
Brenda Asterino:cousins who did genealogical research,
Brenda Asterino:and then being sure that we had lineages
Brenda Asterino:that were not definitely found in the,
Brenda Asterino:uh, genealogical research, but in pursuing
Brenda Asterino:it and then finding that it was true.
Brenda Asterino:Some part of me was
Brenda Asterino:telling me to keep looking.
Brenda Asterino:Mm-hmm.
Brenda Asterino:, some part of me was telling me it's true.
Brenda Asterino:I do have that lineage in my background.
Brenda Asterino:And, um, I guess that that was
Brenda Asterino:my truth, that I kept expressing.
Brenda Asterino:It took 70 years to find out.
Brenda Asterino:But, um, some part of that truth
Brenda Asterino:in me kept me reaching for that.
Brenda Asterino:Mm.
Brenda Asterino:And, um, I kind of feel like
Brenda Asterino:that's a connection to both my
Brenda Asterino:spirituality and my lineage.
Katische Haberfield:Mm-hmm.
Katische Haberfield:, you did leave him.
Katische Haberfield:Uh, part of that, part of a hint about
Katische Haberfield:that in the, on the podcast recorder
Katische Haberfield:message, and I was wondering because, um,
Katische Haberfield:my understanding is that, um, you know, we
Katische Haberfield:carry genetic codes and memories through
Katische Haberfield:our DNA from our ancestors, but also
Katische Haberfield:that, you know, we choose which family to.
Katische Haberfield:Um, incarnate into.
Katische Haberfield:And so you do that for
Katische Haberfield:a very specific reason.
Katische Haberfield:So if you very specifically chose your
Katische Haberfield:family and this lineage that needed
Katische Haberfield:to be discovered over a very, very
Katische Haberfield:long time, 70 years of research and
Katische Haberfield:following that trust and that intuition,
Katische Haberfield:uh, what insight did it give to you?
Katische Haberfield:Like, what was the message?
Katische Haberfield:Why did, why did you need to
Katische Haberfield:spend all this time looking?
Katische Haberfield:Because obviously it was
Katische Haberfield:very important for your soul.
Katische Haberfield:So what was that message?
Brenda Asterino:I can
Brenda Asterino:see a couple of messages.
Brenda Asterino:Mm-hmm.
Brenda Asterino:, at first I thought it, it was,
Brenda Asterino:and, and I'm relating it to
Brenda Asterino:other similar events in my life.
Brenda Asterino:At first, I thought it was to
Brenda Asterino:prepare me for the times that we're
Brenda Asterino:in now, where the world is in this
Brenda Asterino:big upheaval and very much divisive.
Brenda Asterino:and we're unsure and
Brenda Asterino:unstable of what's next.
Brenda Asterino:Mm-hmm.
Brenda Asterino:. Another part is it gave me strength.
Brenda Asterino:It let me know that on both sides
Brenda Asterino:of my family, I have people who were
Brenda Asterino:persecuted, who were, and probably a
Brenda Asterino:lot of us do, and we don't know it.
Brenda Asterino:Mm-hmm.
Brenda Asterino:, but I.
Brenda Asterino:And those people were survivors.
Brenda Asterino:Mm-hmm.
Brenda Asterino:. So I have people who survived
Brenda Asterino:long enough and I believe these
Brenda Asterino:are more likely genetic memories.
Brenda Asterino:They survived long enough to
Brenda Asterino:produce many generations down me.
Brenda Asterino:So that's a lot of strength.
Brenda Asterino:That's that's a great deal of survival.
Brenda Asterino:Instinct, the ability to keep on
Brenda Asterino:tracking on the, um, and there's
Brenda Asterino:something, uh, there's something really
Brenda Asterino:that makes me feel good to know that
Brenda Asterino:I have the strength in my background.
Brenda Asterino:Mm-hmm.
Brenda Asterino:, it's like I don't have to doubt that
Brenda Asterino:it's there and that it's in my family.
Brenda Asterino:Mm-hmm.
Brenda Asterino:. That that is, um, that's a piece
Brenda Asterino:of security that's inside of me.
Brenda Asterino:Mm-hmm.
Brenda Asterino:. Yeah.
Katische Haberfield:Which
Katische Haberfield:is, it's important, isn't it?
Katische Haberfield:Because we're so used to reaching
Katische Haberfield:out to others for strength.
Brenda Asterino:And having others
Brenda Asterino:tell us what we need to think or feel.
Brenda Asterino:Mm-hmm.
Brenda Asterino:, I mean, marketing does that for us all the
Brenda Asterino:time, . So it's nice to, um, stand in your
Brenda Asterino:own power, stand in your own thoughts.
Brenda Asterino:Stand in what you think is
Brenda Asterino:right and go forward with
Katische Haberfield:it.
Katische Haberfield:Yes, absolutely.
Katische Haberfield:And it's a, it's a great feeling that
Katische Haberfield:you can access and tap into that.
Katische Haberfield:So you have your own inner wisdom
Katische Haberfield:plus your ancestral wisdom at any one
Katische Haberfield:time if you need that strength and
Katische Haberfield:courages, is that what you're saying?
Katische Haberfield:Yes.
Brenda Asterino:Yes, yes.
Katische Haberfield:And now, um, Brenda,
Katische Haberfield:there's two questions I wanna ask you.
Katische Haberfield:So we.
Katische Haberfield:See which one you wanna
Katische Haberfield:answer first, or both.
Katische Haberfield:Somebody who doesn't know you at all.
Katische Haberfield:Brenda sees you on screen right now.
Katische Haberfield:For those who are listening to this
Katische Haberfield:on the podcast, you can have a look
Katische Haberfield:over at YouTube and watch this video.
Katische Haberfield:You look like a pretty
Katische Haberfield:ordinary, normal person to me.
Katische Haberfield:Tell us about what it is that in your
Katische Haberfield:journey that is need, needed you, or
Katische Haberfield:required you to tap into that strength.
Katische Haberfield:Why did you feel like your
Katische Haberfield:soul needed you to access that
Katische Haberfield:ancestral wisdom to help you?
Katische Haberfield:What, what has happened in your past that
Katische Haberfield:was a challenge that you had to overcome?
Katische Haberfield:I think that's
Brenda Asterino:a really good
Brenda Asterino:question, and I think I can
Brenda Asterino:answer it on multiple levels.
Katische Haberfield:Okay.
Brenda Asterino:Um, well,
Brenda Asterino:I'm a woman . Mm-hmm.
Brenda Asterino:, that's number one.
Brenda Asterino:Women have, it seems to me that
Brenda Asterino:women have the challenge and it's
Brenda Asterino:now, it's now we have to meet that
Brenda Asterino:challenge to stand in our own power.
Brenda Asterino:Mm-hmm.
Brenda Asterino:number two, I grew up
Brenda Asterino:realizing that some people.
Brenda Asterino:Loved my family and some
Brenda Asterino:people hated my family.
Brenda Asterino:And I thought, yeah, and I, and that's
Brenda Asterino:mostly on my father's side, and I thought
Brenda Asterino:it was because I grew up Italian American,
Brenda Asterino:and so I thought it was the Italian
Brenda Asterino:stuff and I didn't care because I don't
Brenda Asterino:know, I had so many cousins, I had so
Brenda Asterino:much love that, you know, I didn't care.
Brenda Asterino:Um, As I got older, I had experiences
Brenda Asterino:that made me realize I am very
Brenda Asterino:multiethnic in my background.
Brenda Asterino:And that led me, uh, that and some, um,
Brenda Asterino:multiple health conditions in the family
Brenda Asterino:led me to do the DNA tests, and I found
Brenda Asterino:out that I'm extremely multiethnic and.
Brenda Asterino:That some people, I guess people who, um,
Brenda Asterino:want to be prejudiced against others, they
Brenda Asterino:know the, the typical signs to look for.
Brenda Asterino:So, um, I have shoveled teeth,
Brenda Asterino:which indicates a certain
Brenda Asterino:kind of ethnic background.
Brenda Asterino:Okay.
Brenda Asterino:And, um,
Brenda Asterino:I hadn't been married very long.
Brenda Asterino:I had a child a couple of years.
Brenda Asterino:This was a couple of
Brenda Asterino:years into the marriage.
Brenda Asterino:Um, I needed dental work like lots of
Brenda Asterino:women need after they've had a child.
Brenda Asterino:So I went to a dentist.
Brenda Asterino:We were living in a different part of
Brenda Asterino:the state away from all my relatives.
Brenda Asterino:I just picked a dentist that
Brenda Asterino:was close and I went in and.
Brenda Asterino:I thought accidentally hit my
Brenda Asterino:gum when he was drilling for
Brenda Asterino:a filling to make a filling.
Brenda Asterino:I went back to him and it
Brenda Asterino:wasn't, I feel very naive.
Brenda Asterino:I went back to him for the
Brenda Asterino:follow up and realize then,
Brenda Asterino:That he had meant to do that.
Brenda Asterino:And here I am in this chair
Brenda Asterino:with this, uh, very Anglo man.
Brenda Asterino:Um, intense.
Brenda Asterino:Intense.
Brenda Asterino:And I can tell that it's like he's
Brenda Asterino:trying to build up the will and
Brenda Asterino:he's breaking out in a sweat and.
Brenda Asterino:drills directly into my gum.
Brenda Asterino:He does not want me in his chair.
Brenda Asterino:He does not want me for a customer.
Brenda Asterino:He wants me out of his office.
Brenda Asterino:Wow.
Brenda Asterino:Because he had labeled
Brenda Asterino:me because of my teeth.
Brenda Asterino:I haven't run that into that.
Brenda Asterino:It's funny because.
Brenda Asterino:When I realized what was going on
Brenda Asterino:and he wanted me out of his, and I
Brenda Asterino:said something and he validated that,
Brenda Asterino:so I knew what was really going on.
Brenda Asterino:It's funny because it bothered me that
Brenda Asterino:he would hate me for the kind of teeth I.
Brenda Asterino:For a characteristic phenotype
Brenda Asterino:of teeth that I have.
Brenda Asterino:Um, at the same time when I reflected
Brenda Asterino:back on it, I could see how hard
Brenda Asterino:he was working up to do this.
Brenda Asterino:Like he really didn't want to do
Brenda Asterino:it, but he forced himself to do
Brenda Asterino:it, to drive me from his office.
Brenda Asterino:That level of hatred.
Brenda Asterino:And I had never experienced
Katische Haberfield:that
Brenda Asterino:cultish
Brenda Asterino:type of thinking before.
Brenda Asterino:Um, and over the years, I would
Brenda Asterino:have similar experiences not to.
Brenda Asterino:Degree of pain , but um, where
Brenda Asterino:people would turn away because they
Brenda Asterino:would see some phenotypically thing.
Brenda Asterino:So on both sides of the family,
Brenda Asterino:um, from the research in the DNA
Brenda Asterino:testing, um, I've had persecution
Brenda Asterino:on both sides of my lineage.
Brenda Asterino:For these kinds of reasons,
Brenda Asterino:and I suspect we all have them.
Brenda Asterino:Most Americans or many
Brenda Asterino:Americans, it may have changed.
Brenda Asterino:Now the DNA testing is so prevalent,
Brenda Asterino:but when I was growing up, many
Brenda Asterino:Americans didn't know more than
Brenda Asterino:two or three generations back.
Katische Haberfield:Um, but I
Brenda Asterino:suspect I have
Brenda Asterino:come, I I've developed my own theory,
Brenda Asterino:These are my own thoughts.
Brenda Asterino:Um, and I don't teach it or anything.
Brenda Asterino:When you grow up in an
Brenda Asterino:ethnically persecuted family
Brenda Asterino:that people are hushing you.
Brenda Asterino:So if they think they can pass
Brenda Asterino:or get to the point where their
Brenda Asterino:ethnicity isn't recognized, so if
Brenda Asterino:you say something, they hush you.
Brenda Asterino:You grow up thinking that people
Brenda Asterino:related to what you were doing must
Brenda Asterino:be bad because you were hushed.
Brenda Asterino:So you learn to hate those
Brenda Asterino:people when actually you've
Brenda Asterino:got that in your background.
Brenda Asterino:Hmm.
Brenda Asterino:It explains the level of racism to me.
Brenda Asterino:That's how.
Brenda Asterino:Explain it to
Katische Haberfield:myself.
Katische Haberfield:But, um, of
Brenda Asterino:course there's
Brenda Asterino:just, there's all kinds of
Brenda Asterino:reasons for hatred in the world.
Brenda Asterino:Um, what it has brought me to at
Brenda Asterino:my age is now I'm more outspoken
Brenda Asterino:about my different lineages.
Brenda Asterino:It's gotta stop.
Brenda Asterino:It's time for it to be over with.
Brenda Asterino:And if I treat it like, like I
Brenda Asterino:treat what I eat for breakfast
Brenda Asterino:or what I hang in my closet, then
Brenda Asterino:it's just another piece of life.
Brenda Asterino:And so what then maybe
Brenda Asterino:other people will be.
Brenda Asterino:Easier about proclaiming their
Brenda Asterino:backgrounds and it will become
Brenda Asterino:the norm to be multiethnic or to
Brenda Asterino:have diversity in your background.
Brenda Asterino:And maybe some of this stuff will
Brenda Asterino:stop cuz we have so many things
Brenda Asterino:coming down the road at us to worry
Brenda Asterino:about for our children's future.
Brenda Asterino:Let's get over this . Let's get over
Katische Haberfield:it.
Katische Haberfield:. Yeah, I'm, I mean, I'm
Katische Haberfield:sorry that happened to you.
Katische Haberfield:Um, I'm sure you're not the only
Katische Haberfield:person, but I'm kind of a bit mind
Katische Haberfield:blown that, uh, that did happen.
Katische Haberfield:But one of the things that, um, I
Katische Haberfield:guess the, one of the things I'm trying
Katische Haberfield:to show through all the different
Katische Haberfield:interviews and the the client sessions
Katische Haberfield:that I portray on the podcast is that
Katische Haberfield:if you understand that, um, not just
Katische Haberfield:at a, uh, mental level and a logical
Katische Haberfield:level, that we have all lived many times
Katische Haberfield:before and therefore we have all been.
Katische Haberfield:Many different nationalities.
Katische Haberfield:We've both been male and female.
Katische Haberfield:We have been, you know,
Katische Haberfield:every possible combination.
Katische Haberfield:When you understand that not at an
Katische Haberfield:intellectual level, but you physically
Katische Haberfield:experience that by going through a
Katische Haberfield:regression or having a deep dream
Katische Haberfield:like you, you have or whatever, then
Katische Haberfield:I think you get this insight and
Katische Haberfield:one of my other podcasts get get
Katische Haberfield:said about the stupidity of any kind
Katische Haberfield:of, Ethnic or racial discrimination
Katische Haberfield:because you have been that before.
Katische Haberfield:Yeah.
Katische Haberfield:And what I was really, when you
Katische Haberfield:were talking about that, what I was
Katische Haberfield:really drawn to was the fact that
Katische Haberfield:in your dream right, you said that,
Katische Haberfield:um, this was the message that left
Katische Haberfield:on the podcast recorder, that during
Katische Haberfield:your divorce you had experienced
Katische Haberfield:horrible nightmares of memories of
Katische Haberfield:being in a German concentration camp.
Katische Haberfield:Mm-hmm.
Katische Haberfield:. And so that is a life of persecution.
Brenda Asterino:Yes.
Brenda Asterino:Yes.
Brenda Asterino:Um, and I think that whatever makes
Brenda Asterino:me connect easily to do the poems,
Brenda Asterino:especially when I get down beats and
Brenda Asterino:upbeats and those kinds of things
Brenda Asterino:with the poem, I think makes it
Brenda Asterino:easier for me to have empathy for.
Brenda Asterino:The people who are being persecuted
Brenda Asterino:in my country right now, and I don't
Brenda Asterino:want to, I'm not a wilting flower
Brenda Asterino:over things like that, and I don't
Brenda Asterino:want to be, I think we need to be
Brenda Asterino:strong and know our backbones are and
Brenda Asterino:stand beside each other and, um, yes.
Brenda Asterino:What, what I do with this life
Brenda Asterino:is important in some ways.
Brenda Asterino:I'm a good watcher.
Brenda Asterino:Some of my poems are, are based on,
Brenda Asterino:um, my watching what humanity is doing
Brenda Asterino:and reflecting that through the poem.
Brenda Asterino:And some of the poems are
Brenda Asterino:about things I've experienced.
Brenda Asterino:But I think we can all be more empathetic
Brenda Asterino:with each other if we slow ourselves down
Brenda Asterino:and just take time to look and listen.
Brenda Asterino:Yeah,
Katische Haberfield:it, it, it's
Katische Haberfield:coming through very strong to me that,
Katische Haberfield:you know, the persecution that you've
Katische Haberfield:experienced in your own lifetime right
Katische Haberfield:now is very, and it's hard to say this
Katische Haberfield:because, you know, you can say, well,
Katische Haberfield:that's very high and lofty thing to say,
Katische Haberfield:but you know, is very specific because
Katische Haberfield:it links in with a DNA persecution
Katische Haberfield:and then also past life persecution.
Katische Haberfield:It's like this lifetime has hard coded
Katische Haberfield:you in all aspects to be a voice for.
Brenda Asterino:That's,
Brenda Asterino:and that's fine with me.
Brenda Asterino:And at my age, um, I mean, I wear
Brenda Asterino:out a little easier, but at my
Brenda Asterino:age, what do I have to worry about?
Brenda Asterino:Nobody's gonna take my job away from me.
Brenda Asterino:Um, right.
Brenda Asterino:Those kinds of things, um,
Brenda Asterino:are less impacting on me.
Brenda Asterino:If somebody wants to slander me, well,
Katische Haberfield:you know.
Brenda Asterino:Yeah.
Brenda Asterino:, it's you.
Brenda Asterino:You reach a point in your life where
Brenda Asterino:certain things aren't so important
Brenda Asterino:because you don't have to be out there
Brenda Asterino:putting yourself out there for other
Brenda Asterino:reasons to make a living or whatever.
Brenda Asterino:Mm-hmm.
Brenda Asterino:. Katische Haberfield: So, yeah.
Brenda Asterino:I.
Brenda Asterino:And, uh, you're giving the
Brenda Asterino:voice to others as well.
Brenda Asterino:So you're expressing your voice
Brenda Asterino:of your ancestors, your voice of
Brenda Asterino:your past self, as well as the
Brenda Asterino:voice of those who are unheard.
Brenda Asterino:So that's really powerful.
Brenda Asterino:So Brenda, I'll give you a moment to
Brenda Asterino:think about it, but is there a poem in the
Brenda Asterino:book there that you'd like to read to us?
Brenda Asterino:That is just one example of perhaps a time
Brenda Asterino:where you've been reflecting and watching.
Brenda Asterino:Hmm.
Brenda Asterino:Oh, this is interesting.
Brenda Asterino:Your cats just come in
Brenda Asterino:the room and so is mine.
Brenda Asterino:, Brenda Asterino: they hurt each other.
Brenda Asterino:That's what it is.
Brenda Asterino:That's right.
Brenda Asterino:Um, I have one here that is called
Brenda Asterino:The Long Gaze, and I'm going to
Brenda Asterino:change the title to the Longer Gaze
Brenda Asterino:and write a memoir of some of my
Brenda Asterino:ancient memories and um, dreams and.
Brenda Asterino:So why don't I read that because it
Brenda Asterino:kinda refers to the trans like state
Brenda Asterino:a little bit to you were talking
Brenda Asterino:about, I sit on the beach and look
Brenda Asterino:out upon the bay and farther at rest
Brenda Asterino:and still lingering, wondering at
Brenda Asterino:the distance marveling at the vast.
Brenda Asterino:The long gaze out beyond the
Brenda Asterino:next island goes on for miles.
Brenda Asterino:Sparking an inspiration fills my lungs.
Brenda Asterino:It takes me to places between
Brenda Asterino:the space of this lifetime and
Brenda Asterino:others felt without thought.
Brenda Asterino:Sensed with scenes and stray
Brenda Asterino:feelings within growing awareness.
Brenda Asterino:Is all time in the same place.
Brenda Asterino:I turn a degree to left or to right.
Brenda Asterino:And other worlds await.
Katische Haberfield:Mm.
Katische Haberfield:That's a perfect one.
Katische Haberfield:Share.
Katische Haberfield:Okay, good.
Katische Haberfield:Beautiful.
Katische Haberfield:Thank you.
Katische Haberfield:I'm so pleased you're gonna
Katische Haberfield:turn that into a book.
Brenda Asterino:Thank you.
Brenda Asterino:Thank you.
Brenda Asterino:I, I think it will be good for me
Brenda Asterino:too, as I sort through them and
Brenda Asterino:start, uh, putting them together.
Brenda Asterino:And because I've lived over 70 years, I
Brenda Asterino:can see relationships from 20 years ago
Brenda Asterino:to, uh, something that's happened now or.
Brenda Asterino:That kind of thing, a memory that
Brenda Asterino:has come back and the relationship
Brenda Asterino:to another memory and, um, it is
Brenda Asterino:more unifying and it's integrating.
Brenda Asterino:There's a great sense of integration
Brenda Asterino:when you get to that point and feel it
Brenda Asterino:as well as get it going intellectually.
Brenda Asterino:So, yes.
Katische Haberfield:Absolutely.
Katische Haberfield:I think, and that's one of the privileges
Katische Haberfield:that I have, uh, with my job is
Katische Haberfield:that for some of my clients, um, you
Katische Haberfield:know, they come back from multiple,
Katische Haberfield:multiple goes at different sessions.
Katische Haberfield:And what what happens is that
Katische Haberfield:when they look at multiple lives,
Katische Haberfield:they can see all the contrast.
Katische Haberfield:So in this one, I did this and here,
Katische Haberfield:because of that, I then had to go see
Katische Haberfield:the other side of it, and then they can
Katische Haberfield:see, you know, All of the themes that
Katische Haberfield:run through multiple lifetimes, and it
Katische Haberfield:gives them great relief to go, right.
Katische Haberfield:That is why.
Katische Haberfield:And then they can then look that
Katische Haberfield:back into their lifetime that they're
Katische Haberfield:visiting they're in right now, and
Katische Haberfield:say, well, because of that, that I've
Katische Haberfield:just experienced and seen the pattern I
Katische Haberfield:needed to have that relationship issue
Katische Haberfield:or needed that friend to do that to me.
Katische Haberfield:I needed to have that good experience
Katische Haberfield:and then I needed to have that
Katische Haberfield:bad experience, and then suddenly
Katische Haberfield:they're like, Oh, I'm not insane.
Katische Haberfield:I'm perfectly okay.
Katische Haberfield:. Brenda Asterino: I think the good and
Katische Haberfield:the bad is an important thing because
Katische Haberfield:we're in a material world and, um,
Katische Haberfield:I've got some poems about that too.
Katische Haberfield:Um, you.
Katische Haberfield:In the material world, things
Katische Haberfield:decay and things change, and
Katische Haberfield:that's the pattern of life.
Katische Haberfield:That's what life is about.
Katische Haberfield:And to get over your fear of that
Katische Haberfield:seems to be very important too.
Katische Haberfield:I think.
Katische Haberfield:And, uh,
Katische Haberfield:specifically right now, you know,
Katische Haberfield:over the last two years we have
Katische Haberfield:had, uh, a global fear of death.
Katische Haberfield:Yes.
Katische Haberfield:Because of, um, our famous virus.
Katische Haberfield:And it's the number one thing that
Katische Haberfield:people have had to confront is death at
Katische Haberfield:a huge scale and grief and, um, without
Katische Haberfield:diminishing their experience, it's brought
Katische Haberfield:the whole topic of death to the forefront.
Katische Haberfield:And so it is really important to,
Katische Haberfield:to understand and contemplate.
Katische Haberfield:You know, how do I cope with that as
Katische Haberfield:I get older and am I stepping into
Katische Haberfield:the void of fear around death or am
Katische Haberfield:I, uh, allowing myself to perhaps
Katische Haberfield:contemplate some other alternatives
Katische Haberfield:and, uh, reducing the fear for myself.
Katische Haberfield:Mm-hmm.
Katische Haberfield:. So, um, with that, as you get
Katische Haberfield:older, how are you personally
Katische Haberfield:dealing with, you know, the.
Katische Haberfield:The transition of your lifetime and
Katische Haberfield:the knowledge that at some point,
Katische Haberfield:just like me, or you know, at any
Katische Haberfield:point, it could be over, it could
Katische Haberfield:be tomorrow, it could be next week,
Katische Haberfield:could be in 10, 20, 30, 40 years.
Katische Haberfield:But have any of your insights, um, your
Katische Haberfield:dreams, your experiences from other
Katische Haberfield:lifetimes, you know, can you even identify
Katische Haberfield:a moment where you thought, oh, it's okay.
Katische Haberfield:I go on.
Katische Haberfield:I'm not just Brenda.
Brenda Asterino:Yes, and I've been
Brenda Asterino:fortunate to have some mystical
Brenda Asterino:like experiences where I felt
Brenda Asterino:loved, where I felt loved, like
Brenda Asterino:to my cells, down into my cells.
Brenda Asterino:And I, I was married once,
Brenda Asterino:after 11 years, I was divorced.
Brenda Asterino:Um, I have not remarried.
Brenda Asterino:There were a few times I was hoping
Brenda Asterino:to, but then I realized that I
Brenda Asterino:really wasn't picking men for
Brenda Asterino:healthy relationships and, um, that I
Brenda Asterino:probably would not get married again.
Brenda Asterino:I probably would not find that person and.
Brenda Asterino:I had a couple of dreams and a
Brenda Asterino:couple of mystical experiences
Brenda Asterino:that made it all right.
Brenda Asterino:I remembered a lifetime where
Brenda Asterino:I had that, where I had where
Brenda Asterino:we cherished each other and.
Brenda Asterino:And loved each other on the
Brenda Asterino:level that we think about.
Brenda Asterino:We want love, and it made it okay if I
Brenda Asterino:did not find that person in this lifetime.
Brenda Asterino:And the knowing that the spiritual is
Brenda Asterino:with me and having those experiences of
Brenda Asterino:feeling love to a depth of cellular level.
Brenda Asterino:I'm okay.
Brenda Asterino:I'm okay with it.
Brenda Asterino:Yeah.
Katische Haberfield:Hmm.
Katische Haberfield:It's, it's quite something
Katische Haberfield:to experience, isn't it?
Katische Haberfield:That, that cellular level love.
Katische Haberfield:It's, it's non indescribable.
Katische Haberfield:It, it is,
Brenda Asterino:it's, you're right.
Brenda Asterino:It's not easily, it's not easy to
Brenda Asterino:describe and it's not something
Brenda Asterino:I can give to anyone else.
Brenda Asterino:It's, but I wish it for everyone.
Brenda Asterino:And I think we each probably
Brenda Asterino:find our own way to get to it.
Brenda Asterino:I'm suspecting that some
Brenda Asterino:people have it right before
Katische Haberfield:they die.
Katische Haberfield:Mm, absolutely.
Katische Haberfield:Yeah.
Katische Haberfield:I was about to, I was thinking
Katische Haberfield:exactly as you were saying that.
Katische Haberfield:I know for certain, because I've walked
Katische Haberfield:people through it, that when you follow
Katische Haberfield:the light, you do experience that, and
Katische Haberfield:then you realize that everything is okay
Katische Haberfield:and you feel the true cellular style love
Katische Haberfield:because I, I, I watch it by the other
Katische Haberfield:side of the screen and I can see people's
Katische Haberfield:faces as they're like, Oh my goodness.
Katische Haberfield:Like really this is it?
Katische Haberfield:And it fundamentally, you
Katische Haberfield:know, to have that feeling.
Katische Haberfield:Um, but for some people it's
Katische Haberfield:not their journey to experience
Katische Haberfield:that until, until afterwards.
Katische Haberfield:Um, you can feel it in your heart.
Katische Haberfield:Like, I feel it in my heart right
Katische Haberfield:now, but, and I can send out that
Katische Haberfield:energy, but you have to be open
Katische Haberfield:to be receiving of it, you know?
Katische Haberfield:Right.
Katische Haberfield:So, so, um, And, you know, different,
Katische Haberfield:different experiences mean that this might
Katische Haberfield:not be the, the walk around the block.
Katische Haberfield:That is the time that you're here
Katische Haberfield:to receive that or to give that out,
Katische Haberfield:and there's nothing wrong with that.
Katische Haberfield:I guess that the thing that I want to,
Katische Haberfield:um, share through the podcast is that
Katische Haberfield:it doesn't matter what journey you
Katische Haberfield:are going through this time around,
Katische Haberfield:uh, there's nothing wrong with you.
Katische Haberfield:And it's all a learning experience,
Katische Haberfield:but if you feel like you want to change
Katische Haberfield:things, then there are lots of different
Katische Haberfield:ways you can reach out so that you
Katische Haberfield:can, with all sorts of ways, receive
Katische Haberfield:inspiration and receive that love.
Katische Haberfield:And for some people like you, it's
Katische Haberfield:through the poetry and being a
Katische Haberfield:witness and observing and going into
Katische Haberfield:DNA and ancestry, and getting the
Katische Haberfield:insights and connecting that way.
Katische Haberfield:Other people, they have
Katische Haberfield:different ways that they do that.
Katische Haberfield:Maybe it's through the love of
Katische Haberfield:animals or being an artist or being
Katische Haberfield:a historian or, or whatever it is.
Katische Haberfield:It doesn't, we all don't have to say
Katische Haberfield:the same, follow the same path, but
Katische Haberfield:we can get similar insights by being
Katische Haberfield:unique and honoring our uniqueness
Brenda Asterino:and the diversity.
Brenda Asterino:Isn't it wonderful?
Brenda Asterino:Mm, that there's such a diversity
Brenda Asterino:of ways that people can get there?
Brenda Asterino:I mean, it's.
Brenda Asterino:The total of creation wants
Brenda Asterino:us to get there and will give
Brenda Asterino:us any pathway we choose.
Katische Haberfield:That's right.
Katische Haberfield:Yeah.
Katische Haberfield:Yeah.
Katische Haberfield:And and I think that's really important
Katische Haberfield:because the thing is that you can't
Katische Haberfield:make a wrong decision in life.
Katische Haberfield:They're all just choices.
Katische Haberfield:And we are so conditioned to Chas
Katische Haberfield:eyes or shame or blame ourselves
Katische Haberfield:for making wrong decisions.
Katische Haberfield:And actually there is no wrong decision.
Katische Haberfield:It's just a decision you made.
Katische Haberfield:The universe is recalibrated around
Katische Haberfield:you to accept that decision because
Katische Haberfield:you're a human with free will and.
Katische Haberfield:Go and have that adventure.
Katische Haberfield:You can change your mind anytime.
Katische Haberfield:You know, every time you boil the
Katische Haberfield:kettle, you're making a decision.
Katische Haberfield:And we have to take the fear out of
Katische Haberfield:the decision making and just say,
Katische Haberfield:it doesn't matter whether I choose
Katische Haberfield:tea or coffee, I'm just gonna have
Katische Haberfield:a beverage and let be what we'll be.
Katische Haberfield:But we are so taught to overanalyze
Katische Haberfield:and over, uh, reason, and we get so,
Katische Haberfield:um, Tense in the decision that we don't
Katische Haberfield:allow ourselves the ability to just
Katische Haberfield:be with the fact that it's gonna be.
Katische Haberfield:Yeah.
Katische Haberfield:Well, Brenda, it's been fabulous.
Katische Haberfield:I'm so excited to, um, you'll have to send
Katische Haberfield:me an email and let me know when that book
Katische Haberfield:is out, but hold up this book that you've,
Katische Haberfield:um, got so that, and then let us know
Katische Haberfield:for the people who are also listening.
Katische Haberfield:So it's Pathways walking
Katische Haberfield:through Creation, correct.
Katische Haberfield:And it's on, um,
Brenda Asterino:Amazon
Brenda Asterino:Yes.
Brenda Asterino:I don't know where to hold it.
Brenda Asterino:It's on Amazon, Barnes and Noble.
Brenda Asterino:Uh, you can get it through the
Brenda Asterino:publisher, which is Sidekick Press.
Brenda Asterino:There's a couple of local little stores
Brenda Asterino:too, but the main ones are, yeah.
Katische Haberfield:All right.
Katische Haberfield:And bef, before we, before
Katische Haberfield:we go, do you have one last
Katische Haberfield:poem that you'd like to share?
Katische Haberfield:As, uh, just a lasting, it can be.
Katische Haberfield:It doesn't have to be related to anything.
Katische Haberfield:We talked today, just a lasting
Katische Haberfield:poem to, to close the show with.
Katische Haberfield:Give
Brenda Asterino:myself
Brenda Asterino:a little more light here.
Brenda Asterino:This is conversation between
Brenda Asterino:our lady and our Lord.
Brenda Asterino:Sweet Lord, the light cannot
Brenda Asterino:be seen without the dark.
Brenda Asterino:I can only bring the light to our
Brenda Asterino:children by showing the darkness.
Brenda Asterino:Beautiful lady, then bring on the
Brenda Asterino:darkness without truth, there can be no
Brenda Asterino:justice without light is their truth.
Brenda Asterino:If they cannot see the light,
Brenda Asterino:then bring on the darkness.
Brenda Asterino:Blessed be my Lord.
Brenda Asterino:We are unified for our children.
Brenda Asterino:Together we will do this with love.
Brenda Asterino:They will need all the support we
Brenda Asterino:can give them to survive what they
Brenda Asterino:must go through to see the light.
Brenda Asterino:Yes, sweet and dearest heart
Brenda Asterino:show our children our compassion.
Brenda Asterino:Our compassion will support
Brenda Asterino:them to love each and the.
Brenda Asterino:They will learn the power of their own
Brenda Asterino:kindness and the circle will break their
Brenda Asterino:hearts open and grow and become a spiral.
Brenda Asterino:We'll salute our children
Brenda Asterino:with the dance, shall we?
Brenda Asterino:Oh yes.
Brenda Asterino:My love with the dance of life.
Katische Haberfield:Oh, perfect.
Katische Haberfield:Brilliant.
Katische Haberfield:That was exactly the right poem.
Katische Haberfield:Thank you so much.
Katische Haberfield:Thank you Brenda, for joining me
Katische Haberfield:and take care and, uh, do let us
Katische Haberfield:know when your next book comes out.
Brenda Asterino:Thank you so much.
Brenda Asterino:It was great.