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Quick Tips to Encourage You to Homeschool
Episode 12 • 18th May 2023 • Grace in Homeschool • AmyElizSmith
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12 : Quick Tips to Encourage You to Homeschool

I want to encourage you to jump into your home education journey.


  • Ask for help & find a community of women who can encourage you!
  • Take care of yourself!
  • Have fun with learning!
  • Take days off!
  • Compliment your children!
  • You will learn from mistakes, expect imperfection!
  • The question is not did you cover everything, but instead should be, does the child know or care!
  • What your child needs to know is up to you! 
  • Homeschool does not look like public or private school, so don’t feel that you have to make it look that way!

“And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ.” (Philippians 1:6)

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Well done, parent of a homeschooled child.

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It's not easy.

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Hi friends, and welcome.

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I'm your host AmyElizSmith.

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I'm a homeschool mom of three and have homeschooled each from the start.

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While I have a master's in elementary ed, I want to teach other mamas that you

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don't need a fancy degree to have the passion and knowledge to successfully

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educate your children from home.

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I hope to bring you encouragement to jump in and start your homeschool journey and

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provide my absolute best recommendations to help you begin your homeschool journey.

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Thanks for joining us along for this crazy, messy grace-filled homeschool ride.

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Hi everyone and welcome back.

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I am so thrilled to be giving you some quick tips to encourage

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you to start homeschool today.

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So let's start with asking for help and finding a community

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of women who can encourage you.

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This is vital.

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We talked a little bit during our series of 10 Reasons Why You Can

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Homeschool that sometimes your family or friends might not necessarily agree or

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understand your decision to homeschool.

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So finding a group of women who have gone before you and can become

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your peer group can be so vital in supporting your choices, you can ask

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them questions, get some answers, just get support and community.

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It can be such a wonderful time.

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So this is when a group can transfer from a playgroup that you've maybe used

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for your babies and toddlers and early preschoolers into a homeschool peer group.

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And I've experienced this in my own journey that we had playgroups, many

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friends, some of those friends have chosen to homeschool and we continue

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to homeschool alongside them today.

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But some went off to government school and we don't see them as much.

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And that's, and that's sad for us.

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But those playgroup, that time was so wonderful and I am a huge advocate

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for play before six years old.

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Not pressuring our children into academics, but having some

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time, and it doesn't have to be weekly, it could be monthly.

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Maybe you gather together for coffee or an evening out.

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I love having evenings out with the girls, but also if you're not ready to

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have a group, if it takes too much of your time, if it becomes a stressful

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thing, know that you're able to say no.

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Don't overcommit yourself just yet, or ever.

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And it truly is empowering to be able to say no, because every time

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you say yes to something, you're saying no to something else.

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And that thing that you might be saying no to might be much more important

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than the thing you said yes to.

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Having a community or having an older woman who has walked before

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you just on a quick phone call or a text, can be so, so important.

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I do encourage you to at some point, and in some way, get in

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touch with that type of person.

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Next for another tip on starting homeschool today, and just some things

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you should do is taking care of yourself.

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You want to make sure that you're getting enough rest, make sure

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that you're eating healthy.

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These things can sometimes be forgotten.

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As moms, our children get all of us, and then there's nothing left for ourselves.

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But I just encourage you to, while sleeping and eating is number one,

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taking that outdoor time that you're giving your own kids, sitting outside

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and opening up a book, having those reading breaks can be so, so vital.

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Those reading breaks can be done in the middle of your

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kitchen or your living room.

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I always like to have several books.

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And those times when I maybe wanna reach for my phone, I like

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to have my book there instead.

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And even if I only get through one sentence or half a page, that was better

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than the scroll, the dreaded scroll.

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But that's a way I've been able to take care of myself and adapted that mother

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culture that Charlotte Mason talked about.

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That can be so, so important.

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Billy Graham has a great quote.

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He said "Mothers should cultivate their souls that in turn they may

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cultivate the souls of their children."

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That is so true.

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If you are not being edified by something beautiful and wise and good, then it's

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going to be hard for you to give that to your children and give your all to your

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children in whatever you're learning.

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Now, I should also say that if you're homeschooling and hopefully you're

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homeschooling with beautiful living books and stories, then you're going

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to be enriched by all of those things.

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And that's another reason why to homeschool is that you

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learn alongside your children.

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But apart from the learning with the children, and Karen Andreola talks

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about this in depth in her amazing book, The Charlotte Mason Companion.

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She said, "Besides my Bible, I always keep three books going that are just

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a stiff book, a moderately easy book, and a novel, and I always

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take up the one that I feel fit for."

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And that is kind of what I've done.

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I like to have a so-called stiff book, whether that's Jane Air

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or Men of Iron by Howard Pile.

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Those are some of the things I'm picking up right now.

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I'd like to read fun and fast novels, but I also like to read

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books that help me in other ways.

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I'm reading Own Your Life by Sally Clarkson.

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Or Overcoming Oppositional Defiant Disorder has been

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a reread for me constantly.

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I read a page of it every morning, giving myself some notes for how I

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can improve my parenting, and that's been a challenge in my own life.

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But, A way that I've been able to overcome is to cultivate

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this mother culture for myself.

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Also, of course, reading our Bible.

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I also have a book called Prayers of an Excellent Wife, which I highly recommend.

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In addition to having loads of books on Audible or Hoopla.

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Hoopla is an amazing app that I discovered way too late.

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I wish I had known about it sooner.

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Probably many of you know about it, but it's attached to my local

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library and I'm able to rent out books for three weeks at a time.

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And many of those books that I would've wanted to maybe purchase on

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Audible, I'm able to get for free now.

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So I'm thrilled about that.

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And reading a lot of great, great books, and I always have a book going.

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Again, a better way to spend our time than scrolling at our phones, and that can give

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us a break in taking care of ourselves.

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Another quick tip is to have fun with learning and to go places fun.

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This can be museums in your community.

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It can be nature walks.

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It can be some of the places that you may never have thought of or sought out.

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Many community parks put on programs, or they'll do special

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programs for homeschool groups.

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Even if you'd only have two families, two or three families

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involved, you can make history come alive with some of these things.

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But I do wanna encourage you that you don't need to do too much.

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Being home for your walks, walking around your backyard, walking around

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your neighborhood is valuable.

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So don't feel like in order for your child to have this amazing

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educational experience, they have to do all the things every day.

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Make sure to take those days off.

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So this is another tip-- take days off.

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The grocery trip can be learning, your days of no planning can

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actually just produce so much fruit.

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Our family is reading The Wing Feather Saga via Audible, and Andrew Peterson

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does such an amazing job with narration.

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My girls are doing painting or creating beautiful art projects or

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my daughter is knitting right now.

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My son can listen and it's just a wonderful time.

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Sometimes if we get done with schoolwork early, we often try to

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do our schoolwork in the morning.

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We will just listen to a book all afternoon and it's

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just a great, great time.

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We don't have to go somewhere to have a really highly

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educational and fulfilling day.

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Having fun with learning can also include a fun picnic or having a spontaneous trip.

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All learning is not just seat work.

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Also I should add that boredom is fine and it is good, and it is so important

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for children to have that masterly inactivity so that they can rule their

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own lives sometimes, and embrace the boredom, embrace good choices while

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they're young, while you are helping them cultivate those decisions.

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Another quick tip is to compliment your children.

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Tell them how much you love them.

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Tell them how much you enjoy spending your days with them,

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that you wanna be there with them.

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And sometimes I will admit this has been hard but I've been wanting to do this

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more and more to compliment my kids.

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Even having a gratitude journal, writing those things down that we're grateful for

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and saying them aloud can be so valuable.

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My high needs child needs constant compliments and working with

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that child is every single day.

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Cultivating that relationship of fighting for that relationship, fighting

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for that child has been so important.

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Also just shaped me as a person and not only as a mother.

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Sitting down with our kids, playing with them.

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That's not my strong suit, but that is so valuable and those memories will be

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brought with them into their adulthood.

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So next tip is just a reminder.

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You will mess up, but you will learn and you will keep going.

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You will make big mistakes.

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Guaranteed.

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I have made big mistakes.

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But you can walk in knowing, that you will overcome those battles and

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you as a family, as a knit family, are stronger for those mistakes.

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Jump into homeschooling.

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Do not feel like everything can be perfect or will be perfect.

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It never will be.

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You will make mistakes.

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Your kids will make mistakes, but you are walking alongside together

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and that truly is so, so beautiful.

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You can be proud of that and our God in heaven is proud of that too.

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Next tip is that all education does have so-called gaps.

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So please do not question everything that you're not gonna cover,

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everything that your child might need to know with this said or the other.

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Now, math, math is important and it's black and white.

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It's a, it's a subject that they need to know, but other

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things, you don't need to worry.

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Okay.

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Don't let the naysayers point out that your child won't know everything

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that they'll learn in public school.

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Well, that's the point.

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That's why my kids aren't in government school because I don't

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want them to learn everything they would've learned in public school.

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But they will learn the great wisdom of old, they will have a liberal arts

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education that will be a foundation for the people they'll become into adulthood.

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For example, reading biographies and history learning for our Charlotte Mason

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curriculum has really built them up and will be just that strong foundation.

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Again, all education has so-called gaps.

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You don't need to fit your state's content level expectations.

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Now, different states do have different laws, so you do wanna look

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into those, but you get to decide what your child will be learning.

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Next tip is what your child needs to know is up to you.

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Like what I just said.

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They do need to learn other things that aren't taught in

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government schools right now.

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That solid math curriculum is so important, but the things of old that

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have been tossed to the wayside, like proper penmanship and cursive is so

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foundational to actually brain development and those neurons being formed.

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You get to decide the importance of each of those things.

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All education will be different, but now know that that's actually up to you.

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I love this.

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I love that I get to decide and there was a time when I thought I could get

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through so, so much and that I thought I could read every single book on

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every topic that we were going through.

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But instead, we've gotten and we've learned to go slower in our

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journey and savor things more.

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Read less books, but read more of them.

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And I'm gonna go through that more with our educational philosophies and

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some things that we've chosen, which is primarily the tenants and the core

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philosophies that Charlotte Mason put out.

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But truly, you get to decide, please take counsel.

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What I mentioned firstly, is to talk to someone about it, whether you

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have questions, but learning along the way is fine and that's normal.

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And know that, if any mentor that you take on, she has gone before, she's

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made those mistakes, but yet even knowing that there have been gaps she's

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been able to choose and her children were certainly probably grateful for.

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Next quick tip is to know homeschool does not look like public or private school, so

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do not feel like it has to look that way.

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Your school can look any way you want.

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I always like to recommend to jump into lessons first thing in the morning

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because we are fresher in the morning.

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Our brains work, and this is scientific.

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I don't have a study to quote for you, but our brains work best in the morning.

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So have that morning meeting, have their lessons in front of them.

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However they work.

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For my children, I put their workout at night so when they wake up, they're fresh

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and they're able to choose that work.

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And they know that when they finish their work, they're able to go

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on to their own personal choices and what their interests are.

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We also have a morning meeting.

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We also have our Bible time and history and science that we do all together.

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And I love that multi-age learning, but again, it doesn't look like school

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because they're not sitting in desks.

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I'm not in front of a chalkboard or a whiteboard telling them

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what to do or write or think.

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You don't have to recreate a school vibe because your child isn't in a classroom

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with 30 peers, so that's impossible.

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Now, some educational philosophies that are more traditional, they will have more

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desk style workbook style textbooks, but I would argue, and it's fine to do those.

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But I would argue that education can be more than just sitting down at a textbook.

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I would argue living books and narrating things rather than question answer

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could be more valuable than just answering workbooks and textbooks.

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But we're gonna go over more educational philosophies in more detail.

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But again, you don't need to create public school at home.

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Second to last quick tip.

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Your child is being homeschooled perhaps because you don't want that influence

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of a belief system that is not your own and that is secular humanism.

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You want them to learn the core subjects.

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You want to be that primary spiritual influence in your child's life.

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You want to give them time to move, time to eat.

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All of these things are reasons why you don't want them in the government schools,

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and you can be proud of that fact.

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Again, we're going back to being confident about our choices and just

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really having that mindset of this is what's right for our family, and being

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able to not only defend it, but to be proactive and when we're talking about it.

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Lastly, if you are letting the Holy Spirit guide you and ultimately

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be your child's teacher, then that is what homeschool is all about.

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Charlotte Mason said, "God, the Holy Spirit is Himself, the

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supreme educator of mankind."

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And this according to Charlotte Mason, is what she called the great recognition.

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She goes on, "We as parents and teachers find ourselves in divine

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cooperation with the Holy Spirit in the direction teaching and training

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of the child, and when practiced, our feet are set in a large room.

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There is space for free development in all directions,

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and this free and joyous develop.

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Whether of intellect or heart is recognized as godward movement."

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Charlotte Mason stated that we do not merely give a religious education

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because that would seem to imply the possibility of some other education,

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a secular education, for example, but we hold that all education is

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divine, that every good gift of knowledge and insight comes from above.

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That the culmination of all education is that personal knowledge of and

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intimacy with God in which our being finds its fullest perfection.

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Charlotte Mason expressed that a liberal arts and classical education

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was all true knowledge, and that's from the Holy Spirit, regardless of

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whether or not the person recognizes it.

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This is from divine inspiration.

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She quotes Isaiah 28:26 which says "His God doth instruct him and doth teach him."

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Philippians 1:6 states, "and I am sure of this, that he who began a

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good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ."

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And Matthew 25:21 says, "oh, that one day we may hear our Lord Christ say,

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well done by good and faithful servant."

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Well done parent of a homeschooled child.

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It's not easy, but hopefully these quick tips, these quick encouragements

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were helpful to you today for you to start homeschool, for you to make

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that decision, and for you to keep going because you can do this friend.

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