This week Gillian meets Aaron, A Trans Man. They discuss Aaron's personal journey with testosterone and the physical and emotional changes he experienced during his transition to transmasculinity. They also explored the challenges faced by trans men, including the biological effects of menopause, the use of binders, and the complexities of female physiology. Lastly, they discussed the potential for a support group for trans men going through pregnancy, the options and potential complications of lower surgery.

Aaron shares his experiences transitioning and the physical and mental changes he noticed over time. He discusses the development of a deeper voice, increased body hair, and changes in his genitalia. He also mentions gaining more strength and muscle mass, and feeling more energetic. Aaron additionally shares his experiences with social changes, such as feeling more comfortable expressing his masculinity and noticing a shift in how others perceive him.

They introduce the topic of the biological challenges experienced by trans men during menopause, acknowledging the lack of discussion around this issue. Aaron/ explains that his body is fighting against itself due to the opposing hormonal changes of puberty and menopause occurring simultaneously. He states that he may continue experiencing menopause for decades unless he undergoes a hysterectomy or reaches the natural age for menopause.

Aaron shares his personal experiences with binding, highlighting the physical toll it took on his body and the dangers of using non-safe materials with Aaron emphasising the importance of finding breathable options.

Aaron will be establishing a support group for trans men going through pregnancy, which could also include those experiencing adoption and surrogacy. Aaron expressed his hope to have the group up and running by September - you can find out more by email Gillian below.

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