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Hello listeners.

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Welcome back to The Science of Self.

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Thanks for joining us today.

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I'm happy to introduce to you

our guest, Debbie Dobbins,

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author of Your Inner Billionaire.

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Debbie Dobbins: I'm calling

myself the barefoot thought leader

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because I love being barefoot.

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Like I've spent a lot of time in Dale,

Carmen, Mexico, on the Caribbean.

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Which is where I wrote my

book, your Inner Billionaire.

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And I've had people say to me

quite often that actually I don't

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really wanna be a billionaire.

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And I realize that I don't wanna

be a billionaire either in my bank

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account, but I wanna be a billionaire

inside so that I enjoy life from the

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same perspective that billionaires

do, which is the sense of freedom.

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So my primary, clients are women,

and I help women awaken their inner

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billionaire because it isn't a journey

of finding and discovering yourself.

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It's about revealing yourself.

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So my mission in life, is to have everyone

reveal their inner billionaire, it's

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just about uncovering who you truly are.

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Russell Newton: A real billionaire,

if we're talking in terms of dollars,

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obviously has none of those worries that

the rest of us have about day-to-day

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paying bills and keeping food on

the table or paying for the house

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keeping the roof fixed and so forth.

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the inner billionaire.

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If the roof is leaking, what do they do?

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Debbie Dobbins: Well, first of all,

I approached this from a holistic,

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place because when I wrote the

book, I was telling my story.

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I wrote this as a love letter to myself,

that I've been an abundance teacher for

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probably 30 years, and I did approach

it of how to make money and how to have

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a mindset, which is really fantastic.

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We need all of that.

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And yet, I was diagnosed with cancer

about six years ago, and what I

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found was I didn't have medical

insurance, even though that seems to

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be a popular thing to get these days.

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I didn't have it and I ended up being.

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Flat broke, so it was flat

on my back and flat broke.

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And I often say in this book, it's

about those moments when you have these

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critical problems show up in your life.

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Literally, I was on food stamps,

I know what that feeling is like.

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It's not as if I really understand

being an inner billionaire from the

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perspective that I've had all these

opportunities in my life, I actually

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have been where that person would be

without the ability to pay for the roof.

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And the fact is, is that you can focus

on the poverty of not being able to fix

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the roof, because the more you focus

on that, the more the roof won't be

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fixed, or you can begin to adopt some

of the principles I share in the book.

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Which begins with gratitude, which I

have two chapters on gratitude, because

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gratitude is the gateway to everything.

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I can't say that enough.

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So even if the roof is falling down and

you don't have the money, the first thing

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you have to do, and this is probably

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gonna, everybody's gonna go,

oh, that's impossible, is

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You have to be grateful.

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This is the situation that I'm in.

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What do I do next?

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here's the thing is that

we can always build a story

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however we wanna build a story.

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That's the thing about our brains, and

that's why I do love neuroplasticity

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so much, is because you can shift

and morph that you can create new

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grooves in your brain anytime you want.

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And yet you still have to start with

this body by feeling that emotionally

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because it's the frequency of our

emotions in our body that actually

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project what we're seeing on the outside.

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So just to use the roof example.

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If I'm sitting in the middle of my

living room and I have a leaky roof,

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and I see that I have no money,

and if I start to focus on all the

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negative, I'm gonna see more of that.

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So it really is so important for us

as a human species to stop blaming

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and pointing fingers and complaining,

and start really operating at a very

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high vibration, which is gratitude and

giving, and loving and communication and

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connection, and all these good, happy

qualities, but they truly do build a life

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around you that is absolutely sensational.

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Russell Newton: So to

cultivate the gratitude, do you

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recommend a gratitude journal?

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As you might read a lot of places,

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Debbie Dobbins: any type of

gratitude is good more you can

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resonate in your body with it.

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So everyone is.

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Well, a lot of people, I

wouldn't say everybody.

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I have a family member that

doesn't understand how to,

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tap into their feelings.

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But we do have these emotions and the

emotions are the things that cause

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the chemical reactions in our body

that then charge up the frequency.

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I call our brains our little now because

the AI is connected to the nervous system.

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So it really is about

slowing down, number one.

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So whether you're gonna do a

journal, you're gonna do it through

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meditation or you're gonna do it

just by being out in the world.

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I'll drive in my car and I

can bring myself to tears.

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Literally because I am so grateful.

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I've always appreciated my body

and I think I really began to

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appreciate it even more when

you're staring death in the face.

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You just have a different appreciation.

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And so just now moving through science,

and I've really loved understanding

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neuroscience and just put it in context

with this physical body that has all of

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these stored emotions and chemicals, and

then it's connected with a vagus nerve and

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it's just a big, beautiful, had a friend

that went to, Scientology years ago, and

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he calls, and I find myself saying this

every once in a while, this meat stick

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that we walk around in, I mean, it's

just a, it's an amazing vessel, right?

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It's got all these different looks

to it, but in the reality, we're a

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meat stick with an AI on top of it,

and we're just navigating the world.

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Everything is not matter, it's energy.

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So this has a frequency, this

piece of paper has a frequency.

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This book has a frequency.

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We have a frequency, and our frequency

is predicated on a couple of those

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factors that you just shared.

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And it is the brainwave

frequencies, the theta, the delta.

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And so I became a hypnotherapist.

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Oh gosh, I was telling this to

somebody else the other day.

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can't believe it's over 30 years

ago, like: 1995

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And that's when I really began to

learn about the brain frequency.

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So like everything is now, you

can have an E, K, G, and they

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can measure those frequencies.

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And so the slower the frequency in

your brain, we'll just use that one for

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the first part of this conversation.

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Beta is where we're in beta,

most of our, waking life, beta

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is like very, it's like staccato.

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the higher your stress

level is, the more beta is.

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we wanna do is get into the

alpha, which is a slower brainwave

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pattern, if you've ever seen it.

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It's, you know, it's just

like looking at a sound graph.

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Once you get down to alpha and

then beta and theta, those are the

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receptivity brainwave patterns.

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So that's why hypnosis or meditation

allows you to begin to implant things

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that bypass your unconscious gateway,

because that's really what keeps us stuck.

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We're in beta, we're just repetitive.

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We're doing what the AI tells

us and we keep going forward.

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But the fact is, is that between

age one and seven, our brains

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are in that alpha pattern.

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Which is the receptive pattern.

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This is when we're taking all the,

imagine, I always call this our ai.

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So if we program AI and we give

it the right information, it's

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always gonna be able to share

back what questions we're asking.

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That's why I love AI so much and it's

just moving us in a different direction.

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But the fact is when we're one to eight,

we're downloading information we're

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making our judgements then and building

our stories about what life looks like.

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Then once you hit past day eight-ish,

you close the window, right?

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Then we go into that beta.

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So now what we do is we take all

the information and we begin to

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project, these are my beliefs.

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This is how the world operates.

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Now I'm going to create it

because we are the great creators.

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Easiest way to describe a binaural

beat is a frequency going in one ear.

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You have two headphones with it.

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One ear say it's at four, beats per

second, and this one's at three.

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What happens is your brain has to

reconcile it, and while it's doing that,

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it takes you, and the first time I ever

heard about binaural beats, it said

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it takes you immediately to that same

state of mind that Tibetan monks get in.

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And I went, well, I'm all on that program.

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Please sign me up.

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And what I discovered is that

it works and it is absolutely

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phenomenal how deeply you can get

into meditation if you use bin beats.

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But there's so much of it on the YouTube

and the internet now that sometimes

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I question whether or not they're

really truly, I've created my own.

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But it is so fascinating how we can

just allow the brain to more or less

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just center and link into what is

that true, receptive energy, which

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is Alpha Theta and Delta waves.

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I'll just say religion is dogmatic.

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spirituality is consciousness

the way I perceive spirituality.

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we're all conscious, my version of

spirituality is that we're all one.

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the end of the story.

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So if we're all one, then we're

all, you know, seeing each other as

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godliness, walking around the planet.

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And religion is very much, and I have some

amazing friends and I've studied religion,

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that there are some beautiful essences of,

most religions, probably all I should say.

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And they all have this common

golden thread that run through

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them, which is spirituality.

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It's the dogma that sandwiches

them together that sometimes

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can be off putting to people.

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But I know people in every religion

That are as spiritual as all get out.

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Because when you begin to

really dive into the essence of

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spirituality, it is consciousness.

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And that's what I believe

we're all headed for.

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Ultimately, wherever consciousness is,

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I believe that there needs

to be an owner's manual for

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how we as humans operate.

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That's given to us in the delivery room.

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Like we don't have any idea, we're

just trying to figure it out.

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And so now there's a lot of

information, but those stories,

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whether they're cognitive, the way

you describe them, or I call 'em a

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money story, they're just stories.

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That's all they are.

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And I use this example, there was a

gentleman on a documentary I was watching

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not too long ago, and it was about

people having traumatic experiences.

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Literally a lady was completely

burned from head to toe.

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And you know, we can all come

through these horrific experiences.

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But this one gentleman was hit by

a semi-truck, I think he might've

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been on a bike he was devastated.

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he almost did die.

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And he resented the person

that hit him for years.

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we get to the point in the story

where he's talking to a therapist

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and he says, got hit by a truck.

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and I almost died.

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And the therapist said,

you got hit by a truck.

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And he says, and I almost died.

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And he said, but you're

sitting right here.

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to say that cancer saved my life

sounds really incongruent on so

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many levels yet that really is

truly, I've never been happier.

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I've never been healthier, I've never

been wealthier than since that time.

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And it truly began with the

incubation of just being me.

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Like there wasn't any, I lived by myself.

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California when this was going on,

and I also was able to see how amazing

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manifestation, if that's the word

that we wanna use, so that people can

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understand it, is available to all of us.

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I had the best doctors,

I had the best surgeons.

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I had the best medical treatment

that just came out of nowhere.

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Literally, when I was diagnosed, I went.

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Okay, I don't have insurance.

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What am I gonna do?

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they just started coming.

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People were showing up to give me food.

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People were showing up to take

care of my, cat when I had to go

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into the hospital for surgeries.

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I had the most amazing nurses.

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And so it was just this blend of really

being, once again, going back to the

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whole gratitude thing, that I could be

so grateful for a time in my life that

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so many people would've said, wow, I

don't want to be in this experience.

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And yet I just blessed

it every step of the way.

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I've got a time vendor process that

helps you create more time for yourself.

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Because what we do is we live in this

world of stress and overwhelm and all

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of that is keeping us from our good.

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So now with all this AI help, we should

be having these lives that are much

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more expansive and I still, people still

see people working harder and longer.

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So to find out more about anything,

you can put the debbie dobbins.com,

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that's my website, and it'll

lead you to some of the programs.

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But I would say the best thing

you can do right now is opt in

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for the divine wealth activator.

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Just type in divine wealth activator.com.

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It'll and it's a great jumpstart

to begin to start building that

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consciousness for wealth building.

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Yeah, so one of the things I start

out in the course with the Ignite, I

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call it Ignite your Inner Billionaire.

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So we take the book and do it in

a course, and anybody can do this

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just by this simple instruction.

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I call it future journaling, but

there's not a journal involved.

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Imagine that you're talking

to a friend about your future.

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So I woke up today and you can't

believe the deal that I got.

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Oh my gosh, everybody is so

excited to be working with me.

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So future journaling is just about

being in the present moment as if it's

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happening right now, but letting that

energetic, feeling come up into your body.

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You can do it anywhere, anytime, and

even if people are listening to you,

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they don't know who you're talking to.

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So that's one little wonderful

trick and tip that I can share.

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Gratitude is the gateway.

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100%.

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We talked about that enough, but

gratitude just begin right now.

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Practicing gratitude and then giving.

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Giving is really an important

ingredient to building.

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Abundance, whatever you're giving.

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So when I talk about abundance,

it's a holistic approach.

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So it's abundance of relationships, it's

abundance of wealth, it's abundance of

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health, it's abundance of spirituality.

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So we do a wheel and we talk

about all areas of your life.

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If you want more of whatever you

say you want more of, give it away.

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So let's say you want more

love, give more love away.

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You want more money.

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And I'm not talking about it from

the perspective of obligation.

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'cause I have a lot of times people

share with me, oh, I give 20% and

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they're doing it out of obligation

because they've learned it.

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That's part of their money story.

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I like to give a new technique

of giving from the perspective

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of your right hand does not know

what your left hand is doing.

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Because when you give, you have to give

freely and without anybody knowing it.

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Stephen Covey, says, seek first to

understand, then to be understood.

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I think in the world that we live in

today, if we could just practice that

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then that would make a better world.

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And then one of the other things

that I often share with people And

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ask myself when I'm in a challenging

situation or somebody's pushing

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my buttons, is what would love do?

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And if you ask yourself when

you're in the middle of customer

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service, people are always the ones

that get me a little triggered.

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I have to stop and go, what would love do?

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Love wouldn't yell at them.

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So I think those two things seek first

to understand and then to be understood.

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And then what would love

do in this circumstance?

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And if you haven't read Stephen Covey's

book, then go read the story where

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he talks about that with the it makes

me cry every time I think about it.

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The guy on the train with the kids, right?

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We never know.

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We never know what someone else is going

through and we judge it as if we do.

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And so if we seek to understand,

if we just begin to practice that

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one thing, life will become better.

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And my book is available on Amazon if you

want to go check it out there as well.