In this conversation, relationship therapist Rebecca Wong guides us through an essential truth about relationships: Happy couples fight.

Fighting actually enables people to show one another that they matter. You can learn how to fight well and how to create a container of belonging in your partnership. In the face of disagreements, you can create a practice of commitment that enables you to tolerate occasional divisions.

Much of this conversation is about marriage and romantic relationships, but it will shed some light on all of your relationships as we discuss mirror neurons, the power of eye contact, and reading nonverbal cues. And, you’ll learn why it’s great news that 69% of the conflicts in your relationship are unresolvable.