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Color Me Bad
Episode 314th July 2022 • Blacktivities • Shannon Chatmon, Talisa Hale, and Karen Roberts
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Is light-skinned privilege still a thing? Thandie Newton was recently criticized for some comments she made about colorism in film and TV industry. We know the history of the house and field n-word, but what is colorism and does colorism still affect us in today's society? Listen to Shannon and Lisa's take on this topic on episode 3.

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Shannon:

I'm Shannon

Lisa:

and I'm Lisa and you're listening to Blacktivities, a

Lisa:

celebration of all things black,

Shannon:

black culture, black history,

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black perspectives, and black panache

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everybody's invited, but you gotta come in and have a seat.

Lisa:

So let the Blacktivities begin.

Shannon:

Hey, my poddy people, and welcome to Blacktivities.

Shannon:

I'm Shannon.

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And she is Lisa...

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Mona Lisa, if you nasty

Lisa:

aye, aye, aye

Shannon:

Today, we're talking about light-skinned privilege.

Shannon:

Is it a thing or have we moved past it as a community?

Shannon:

So my personal opinion is that it does still exist, but I am light-skinned.

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And I'm probably like oblivious to all the ways that I may have

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benefited from my light skin.

Shannon:

So I asked a few people what they thought and here's what they said.

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Yes.

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I think light-skinned privilege still exists just depending on what part

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of the black community we're looking.

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Um, I think with the changes that's going on right now with the new Supreme

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court justice with her skin complexion, as well as some others that probably

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will help the playing field a little bit better, but I do believe there's still

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some people that do the paper bag tests.

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I would have to say no.

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And I say that only because before personally speaking, I

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would get mad seeing a lot of light skinned people everywhere.

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Cause I felt like a lot of dark skins would not want to be seen,

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like, especially on billboards and stuff you, you used to see

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a lot of light, lighter people.

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But I feel like now, especially what's been happening in the

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last five years with blacks and whites or just anybody of color.

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I felt like we've been sticking together a lot more, whereas before, whereas I

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was more jealous now, I'm just like, I'm glad to see my people up there.

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Light skin privilege does exist.

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Uh, I don't think it's gonna go away anytime soon.

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The reason why I think it will not, um, go away anytime soon.

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Uh, it's so pervasive in what we are, um, bombarded with in images

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on TV, especially like music videos, the stars that we usually see on TV.

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Usually light skin or light brown, but I will say that there have been changes

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where we see a more diverse group of people of color that are darker shades

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or have, um, different textures of hair.

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But.

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At the same time, majority of the people who get notoriety are

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light skinned with silky hair.

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So a lot of women, especially they'll, they'll get weaves to emulate that.

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Um, so I think it has gotten somewhat better, but I don't

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think it's gonna go away.

Lisa:

So I also asked a couple people, their thoughts.

Lisa:

What I try to do is try to ask more people that are light-skinned

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versus the dark skinned people.

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Cause you know, generally anyone that is of darker complexion

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gonna say, of course it exists.

Lisa:

And that's what I got.

Lisa:

Of course it exists.

Lisa:

But from people that are light skinned, it's like they were unsure

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or they would say, yes, it is.

Lisa:

But when I say, Hey, okay, well, let's elaborate on it.

Lisa:

They really didn't know where to start, which I mean, it's expected.

Lisa:

So a majority of the people I asked, they say, yes, yes.

Lisa:

I even had one person and hopefully you can help me with this.

Lisa:

Well, he was light skinned.

Lisa:

He said, well, light skin privilege don't exist, but colorism does.

Lisa:

And I was thinking on the aspect that, that it was the same thing.

Shannon:

Yeah.

Shannon:

That's my understanding.

Lisa:

Yeah.

Lisa:

So I was just like, can you elaborate on that?

Lisa:

And then it was just like, he didn't know how to, so I got to looking it up and as

Lisa:

I was looking up and reading, I was okay, but like I thought it's the same thing.

Lisa:

So it's like, I couldn't get exactly like what he meant by that.

Lisa:

Um, I also tried to go in a different direction and instead of me asking

Lisa:

adults, I asked the kid, (Hmm).

Lisa:

I asked a 12 year old kid, their thoughts on light skin privilege.

Lisa:

She, she kind of put her head down for a minute and she thought, and

Lisa:

she said, yeah, like it does exist.

Lisa:

And I was like, well, can you share with me what you mean?

Lisa:

And she said, well, I'm I see other kids lighter than me get

Lisa:

to do things that I don't get to.

Lisa:

And I was like, okay, that that's fine.

Lisa:

She said, even at school, she said, even with people that I know, they basically

Lisa:

like treat maybe a family member, they treat them a little bit better.

Lisa:

Or so another thing that kind of drew my attention to her top or her reply was

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with this whole light skin privilege.

Lisa:

, we should pay more attention to our children, cuz I know we try to protect

Lisa:

them from everything, but what about those people that's out there that are possibly,

Lisa:

you know, mistreating our children who are darker skin that we're not aware of it.

Lisa:

So, but I thought that was so fascinating to see like the

Lisa:

emotion from a 12 year old.

Lisa:

Say yes.

Lisa:

And this is my reason because, and to share different experiences

Lisa:

this 12 year old has experience because of light skin privilege.

Shannon:

Well, let's talk about the facts.

Shannon:

We're gonna take it to SAC's Facts.

Lisa:

Ooh, let's get it.

Shannon:

Colorism goes all the way back to slavery.

Shannon:

When slaves with darker skin had to work in the fields and the lighter

Shannon:

skin slaves, oftentimes children that resulted from Massa raping his

Shannon:

slave, worked in the owner's home.

Shannon:

During the antebellum years, light skinned black people could be more

Shannon:

educated and own more property.

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And.

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Light skinned people, light skinned, black people actually formed exclusive

Shannon:

clubs called blue vein societies.

Shannon:

(Oh).

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And to become a member, you had to be able to see the blue veins through your skin.

Shannon:

I think I would've passed that test.

Lisa:

I can see one.

Shannon:

There was also the paper bag test where being lighter than

Shannon:

a brown paper bag granted you entrance into certain facilities.

Shannon:

Um, and the test was also used to determine who would get certain jobs, who

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would go to certain colleges who would have access to certain social events.

Lisa:

Wait a minute.

Lisa:

Ain't no way in the world you finna tell me what I am and what I ain't gonna do.

Lisa:

And you holding a brown paper bag.

Lisa:

I wish somebody would.

Lisa:

I wish they would.

Lisa:

You betta get that damn bag out my face.

Shannon:

Well, the test that I wouldn't pass is the comb test.

Shannon:

The comb test, they used to run a comb through your hair if it was too nappy

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and they couldn't get it through, then, you know, you wouldn't have access to

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certain stuff .During Jim Crow, some light skinned people passed for white

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so that they could get the benefits of whiteness and lighter skin in society

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that other black people were not afforded.

Shannon:

But I'm not gonna get too deep into that because that episode's coming.

Shannon:

So that's SAC's Facts.

Lisa:

You know what, I, I don't want to upset anyone.

Lisa:

I want everyone to feel like, you know, whatever they identify

Lisa:

as it's, whatever they identify as this is a general question.

Lisa:

Okay.

Lisa:

It has nothing to do with anything else, but you know, what, what if

Lisa:

we just all woke up one day and say, you know what we want, we identify

Lisa:

as being Caucasian, what would they.

Shannon:

Lose their minds.

Lisa:

I thought about doing that at work.

Lisa:

Cause I'm so petty.

Lisa:

I, I thought about that.

Lisa:

Say I identify as being Caucasian.

Lisa:

You think?

Lisa:

I think they'd get rid of me though.

Shannon:

Yeah, you might get canceled.

Lisa:

See, I can't do it by myself.

Lisa:

I need a whole bunch of people.

Shannon:

Cause they, they, they canceled, uh, homegirl, Rachel Dolezal,

Shannon:

when she says she identified as black.

Shannon:

So you probably can't identify as white either.

Lisa:

You gotta admit she pulled it off though.

Shannon:

She sure did.

Lisa:

I was on the verge of asking, who does her hair?

Lisa:

Who like, who did her hair?

Lisa:

Cause whoever did her hair did a good ass job.

Shannon:

So Lisa

Lisa:

mm-hmm.

Shannon:

Do you think colorism still exist?

Lisa:

Yes, I do.

Lisa:

I feel like there are many different situations where it does exist.

Lisa:

Um, most importantly, yes, our home life, but in the workplace, I feel

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like because I am who I am and I'm not like dark, dark, but let see.

Lisa:

If I had to do my skin color, I would say it's kinda like a milk

Lisa:

chocolate with a little toffee in the middle, you know what I mean?

Lisa:

If I had to break it down, but I have seen it to where I'm not gonna

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disclose where I work at, but we get majority of Hispanic customers.

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um, when they come in, they want someone that is Hispanic to assist them.

Lisa:

If there's no available.

Lisa:

Most of the time, some choose to ask for someone Caucasian to assist

Lisa:

them, rather than having me to help.

Lisa:

Here it is.

Lisa:

I'm like, this is crazy.

Lisa:

I feel like, you know, we've battled the same thing.

Lisa:

So why is it that you turn and you look for them for, you know

Lisa:

what I'm saying the assistance?

Lisa:

Like I'm here too.

Lisa:

Like if, if don't nobody understand, I understand what's going on.

Lisa:

Let me help.

Shannon:

You know what I think that.

Shannon:

We are so conditioned from our history that we actually kind of do

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like a paper bag test in our minds.

Shannon:

I think now it's not an actual thing.

Shannon:

It's like a subconscious thing.

Lisa:

Yes.

Shannon:

Cause I think people still look at who they think is smarter or

Shannon:

who they think is safer or whatever it is, and they do that paper bag test

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in their head subconsciously, and they may not even be aware that they do it.

Lisa:

So I feel like African Americans do it to other black

Lisa:

people, you know, especially when it comes to them, making a decision.

Lisa:

Yeah.

Lisa:

So it, it, it is crazy how, how we go about things and

Lisa:

how we treat other people.

Lisa:

Um, but I think we should pay attention more again, how we are raising our.

Lisa:

And I don't wanna sit over here like I'm a hypocrite because, um,

Lisa:

I have three children and all of them look like they done been in the

Lisa:

house, their whole life, okay, when it comes to the color they skin.

Lisa:

But because of the experiences that I experienced, when I was little, I made

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sure to still talk to them about color.

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Talk to them like, yeah, just because you yellow don't mean you're not going

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to experience racism because they did, but also be aware of, sometimes it may

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be somebody that had to fight a little harder for, you know, what they did, but

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don't let that take away from who you are.

Lisa:

It, it starts at home.

Shannon:

Now, can it go both ways?

Shannon:

Cause we've talked about, you know, lighter skin people having privilege

Shannon:

(mm-hmm) but can it go the other way?

Lisa:

It can, but I don't think it's it's of an issue as the way it would be with

Lisa:

light skin privilege, because I mean, how many folks are you out here like I

Lisa:

prefer dark only, you know what I mean?

Lisa:

Like it's.

Lisa:

I don't think it's a, it is as of a big deal as it would be

Lisa:

for the light skin privilege.

Lisa:

That's just my opinion.

Shannon:

I guess it goes back to the history too.

Lisa:

Yeah.

Lisa:

Like, what situation would it be to where it's the, the, where the roles have

Lisa:

reversed and a light-skinned person was offended because they didn't get picked

Lisa:

for a role in a movie, or they the teacher didn't pick them to feed the class

Lisa:

pet because they were too light-skinned.

Lisa:

You know what I mean?

Lisa:

Like what it's it's not common.

Lisa:

It's not that.

Shannon:

That's what I was wondering.

Shannon:

Like I know some women prefer to date, darker skin men and vice versa, but

Shannon:

that's the only thing I can kind of see.

Lisa:

Let me tell you, I don't remember exactly what I was watching, but I heard

Lisa:

a man say I don't date black women, but if I did, she had to be real light skinned.

Lisa:

And I sat there and I was like, wait, what, what?

Shannon:

Oh yeah.

Lisa:

After my divorce, um, when I did, you know, finally start dating, I would

Lisa:

in a roundabout way talk about preference.

Lisa:

I feel like that's important to put all of that out there and.

Lisa:

In my opinion.

Lisa:

I thought they were a little bit more intriguing when they told me they

Lisa:

prefer a woman that is natural or, you know, black women like to hear

Lisa:

men say, man, I love black women.

Lisa:

I love black women.

Lisa:

And then to see how they treat them too.

Lisa:

Mm-hmm oh my God.

Lisa:

Put a ring on it.

Lisa:

Thighs open.

Lisa:

Let's go.

Lisa:

Did I push?

Lisa:

I pushed that envelope.

Lisa:

Okay.

Lisa:

My bad, but it's just something that's intriguing about that because it's

Lisa:

like, it takes away from that one black man who puts down his, you know,

Lisa:

the, the woman that put him in the world and say that he'd rather put,

Lisa:

you know, someone lighter or youknow.

Lisa:

Possibly a Caucasian woman.

Lisa:

That's that's the preference and don't get me wrong.

Lisa:

Your preference is your preference, but you can have your preference without

Lisa:

being disrespectful to someone else.

Shannon:

Agreed, but you do see it.

Shannon:

I think a lot in Hollywood.

Lisa:

Mm-hmm oh yeah.

Shannon:

It seems to have changed a little bit.

Shannon:

It has.

Shannon:

Over the past few years I was talking to my husband, like this is the

Shannon:

most black people I've ever seen on TV in commercials and everything.

Lisa:

No.

Lisa:

Let me tell you something.

Lisa:

It's like Hollywood HR department, they hired more people for

Lisa:

diversity and inclusion.

Lisa:

And they like, Nope, we gotta get with the times people we,

Lisa:

we gotta get with the times.

Lisa:

And the thing is though, it's just like, just like everything that black people

Lisa:

do, we're trending mm-hmm and, and that's the thing we're we're trending.

Lisa:

Yeah.

Lisa:

So if one person do this and they see if they make some money off of it,

Lisa:

especially they're like, well, shoot, we can throw some black people over here.

Shannon:

Oh, now that's facts.

Lisa:

Yeah.

Lisa:

We can let's throw some black people, even with places that you work.

Lisa:

they have a quarter that they gotta meet.

Lisa:

So to hush the people up, let's hire some people.

Lisa:

Mm-hmm we gonna say it's open to everybody, but let's see how many

Lisa:

black applicants we going to get.

Lisa:

You know what I'm saying?

Lisa:

Then go from there and that's not everybody, but just saying,

Lisa:

I just wanna say this real quick.

Lisa:

I just want my job to know.

Lisa:

I love y'all and that's it.

Lisa:

Just in case

Shannon:

Have you ever heard people say that they don't wanna go outside in the

Shannon:

sun cuz they don't wanna get darker?

Lisa:

You know what?

Lisa:

I got a funny story for that.

Lisa:

When we were little, my mama would put us outside.

Lisa:

She like go outside and play.

Lisa:

And everybody can relate, there ain't no running in and out mm-hmm and if you

Lisa:

thirsty, you drink from the hose outside.

Lisa:

Mm-hmm I didn't have to hear it as much, but as I had children, and this is

Lisa:

when we were living, uh, we were living in New York and I came home to visit.

Lisa:

And my grandmother was at my mom's house and I looked at my girls

Lisa:

cuz they just kept walking around, talking about they were bored and

Lisa:

I was like, well, y'all go outside.

Lisa:

We in Georgia.

Lisa:

It's kids out there.

Lisa:

Y'all go outside,

Lisa:

My granny came down that hallway.

Lisa:

She said, uh uh...

Lisa:

you betta not put them babies outside.

Lisa:

It's too hot!

Lisa:

And I'm sitting here looking like what the hell?

Lisa:

Like who she talking to?

Lisa:

She said, Uhuh, they too light skinned.

Lisa:

They gonna burn up out there and I'm like, wait, who, too light skin.

Lisa:

Like what you mean?

Lisa:

These kids can't go outside and they're right there.

Lisa:

Like I say, eternally colorism treat them children like you treated me

Lisa:

and my brother, when we were little.

Lisa:

Put their ass outside.

Shannon:

I bet she said it just like that too.

Lisa:

She did.

Lisa:

Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.

Lisa:

She did.

Lisa:

She said they too light-skinned.

Lisa:

And then when I, when she seen, I wasn't letting up about them going

Lisa:

outside, she went and bought them like little mermaid ball caps, and then

Lisa:

they had a matching cup to go with it.

Lisa:

We didn't get that when we were little.

Lisa:

We had to drink out the hose.

Shannon:

But you know, that's grandkids too.

Shannon:

They always get special treatment.

Lisa:

Mama.

Lisa:

I ain't trying to say I ain't trying to pull your, you pull

Lisa:

your card about colorism.

Lisa:

Like it just, it just, it just threw me in that direction.

Lisa:

I just thought about it.

Lisa:

That's it.

Lisa:

They can still go outside though.

Shannon:

All right.

Shannon:

I got a game for you.

Lisa:

Okay, let's go.

Shannon:

All right.

Shannon:

So...

Shannon:

my game is called.

Lisa:

Who you with?

Lisa:

Who you wi aye who you with?

Shannon:

I'm gonna give you two names.

Shannon:

Okay.

Shannon:

And you gotta tell me who you with.

Shannon:

Okay.

Shannon:

All right.

Shannon:

So the first one is Michael Ealey.

Shannon:

Mm-hmm you know him mm-hmm or Morris Chestnut.

Shannon:

Mm, who you with?

Lisa:

Who am I with?

Lisa:

See, this is hard, cause yeah, I mean, light skinned, dark skinned.

Lisa:

But I look at more than that.

Lisa:

Like Morris Chestnut is sexy.

Lisa:

Michael Ealy, he's cute and all like with the eyes and stuff, but he got

Lisa:

a forehead like he head butt people.

Lisa:

Every time I see him in movies, it's like he finna head butt somebody.

Lisa:

Morris Chestnut.

Lisa:

He is very, he's a very attractive man, but he got big old teeth.

Lisa:

Like he can bite people.

Shannon:

Like he can bite people.

Lisa:

Yeah.

Lisa:

So I'm trying to figure out if shit go down, do I wanna get head butt or bit.

Lisa:

Okay.

Lisa:

I'll take Morris Chestnut.

Lisa:

Okay.

Lisa:

Morris Chestnut for 200 Alex.

Shannon:

Okay.

Shannon:

Coco Jones or Yara Shahidi?

Lisa:

Ah, that's not fair.

Lisa:

She, she graduated from Harvard.

Lisa:

Coco fire though.

Lisa:

She was in Bel Aire, right?

Lisa:

Yeah.

Lisa:

That's yeah.

Shannon:

I tried to make it hard.

Lisa:

Yeah, you sure did.

Lisa:

You did a good job.

Lisa:

Um, but you see, Yara her mama.

Lisa:

You see how she's a splitting image of her mom?

Shannon:

I don't think I've seen her mama.

Lisa:

Have you seen her mom?

Lisa:

If you have not seen it go look at her mom, like she looks exactly like her mom.

Lisa:

Same smile , nose like the way it, it is amazing.

Shannon:

Both.

Lisa:

I like both.

Lisa:

I'm gonna go with Yardi because I don't know.

Lisa:

It's like...

Shannon:

both are stunning young ladies.

Lisa:

Yes they are.

Lisa:

Yes they are.

Lisa:

But Yardi her mom.

Lisa:

Has is the same skin complexion as Coco.

Lisa:

I don't know if you know that.

Lisa:

Yeah.

Lisa:

Beautiful.

Lisa:

Yeah.

Lisa:

So, and see, this is hard.

Lisa:

I can't go off for that.

Lisa:

Like I'm, I'm thinking about their work and like.

Shannon:

Yeah.

Shannon:

That's what you supposed to do.

Lisa:

Yeah.

Lisa:

Right.

Lisa:

Like what other movies and stuff has said?

Lisa:

I ain't seen Coco and some,

Shannon:

um, some kind of Disney something.

Lisa:

See, I ain't seen that.

Lisa:

But that girl dressed her butt off and she can act.

Lisa:

I'm gonna go with Yardi already on this one final answer.

Shannon:

Okay.

Shannon:

Meg thee stallion or Doja Cat.

Lisa:

Mm.

Lisa:

It's hard.

Lisa:

Cuz I don't like listen to their music like that.

Lisa:

Like my kids being so say yeah, y'all whatever Megan, me doing.

Lisa:

They listen to Doja Cat too.

Lisa:

This is hard.

Lisa:

Why are you doing me like this, B?

Shannon:

It's who you with.

Lisa:

I'm gonna go with Meg Thee Stallion because I'm hood.

Lisa:

I can, well, okay.

Lisa:

I'm not all a hundred percent hood I gotta remember.

Lisa:

Um, I'm I'm some of the stuff she be saying, like, it'd be a confident

Lisa:

boost, even though I don't do the stuff she'd be saying in her lyrics,

Lisa:

but it's like, when I'm getting dressed, like I don't see myself

Lisa:

getting dressed, getting ready to go.

Lisa:

Listening to Doja cat compared to like Meg Thee Stallion.

Lisa:

So I'm gonna go with Meg, but I don't even listen to her stuff a whole lot though.

Lisa:

But go ahead.

Lisa:

I'm gonna go with Meg final answer.

Shannon:

Okay.

Shannon:

H.E.R.

Shannon:

or SZA?

Lisa:

See this ain't fair.

Lisa:

This one.

Lisa:

Ain't fair.

Lisa:

I'm not answering cuz they're both amazing.

Lisa:

they're both amazing.

Lisa:

I purchased H.E.R.'S like the actual record, the album, like when I went

Lisa:

over like a serious breakup, I listened to like the first, her first album,

Lisa:

like over and over, like it was on repeat like six months to where I went

Lisa:

and bought it on a record player to find a different way to listen to it.

Lisa:

I don't think this is fair because I'm, I'm, I'm

Shannon:

H.E.R.

Shannon:

Can play all those instruments and stuff too, though.

Lisa:

Yes.

Lisa:

Yes.

Lisa:

SZA's fire though.

Lisa:

Her music, her voice,

Shannon:

um, Chris brown or Usher?

Lisa:

All right.

Lisa:

See, this is tough.

Lisa:

Cause Usher's from the home team.

Lisa:

He from Chat, right.

Lisa:

And he done came out with some fire mm-hmm okay.

Lisa:

Some straight fire.

Shannon:

He the OG.

Lisa:

He the OG.

Lisa:

If a dude came to me talking about some, he wanna be my superstar Usher song.

Lisa:

He play that.

Lisa:

I'm gonna just faint.

Lisa:

But it's something about Chris Brown.

Lisa:

He's very creative.

Lisa:

He dance, he you know do his Michael Jackson stuff, but that

Lisa:

song he had got called "Poppin'".

Lisa:

If you a Chris Brown fan, you know, the song "Poppin'."

Shannon:

That used to be my favorite Chris Brown song.

Lisa:

Really girl, I listened to it on the way to work this morning.

Lisa:

That is so funny.

Lisa:

But yes, I'm gonna go with Usher.

Lisa:

He, from the home team, he always put out like, I mean, they both are

Lisa:

amazing, but I'm gonna go with Usher..

Shannon:

All right.

Shannon:

Drake or future?

Lisa:

So when Drake came out "Best I Ever Had" was like on repeat.

Lisa:

But he done turned into like this certified lover boy right now.

Lisa:

When future first came out, future had this miss mix tape.

Lisa:

This is when I came home.

Lisa:

I came to Georgia, and it was a dude in Atlanta.

Lisa:

This was many years ago.

Lisa:

This dude in Atlanta was standing outside a gas station and he had bootleg mix

Lisa:

tapes that he had bootleged on CDs.

Lisa:

So he was like, Hey, you wanna buy this?

Lisa:

I got, you know, the new Future.

Lisa:

This came out.

Lisa:

I was like, who hell is Future?

Lisa:

Like, whatever.

Lisa:

So we wind up buying it and this mix tape was amazing and he had

Lisa:

this one song called unconditional Love, and it is totally different

Lisa:

from the stuff he's putting out now.

Lisa:

And I highly re recommend y'all to go check it out.

Lisa:

I think it's called Unconditional Love with Future.

Lisa:

Man.

Lisa:

This is the, this feel like the same as the, H.E.R.

Lisa:

and SZA thing.

Lisa:

This ain't fair.

Lisa:

I'm gonna go with Drake.

Shannon:

Okay.

Shannon:

I'm not a huge Future fan.

Shannon:

I just like some of his songs.

Shannon:

All right.

Shannon:

So let's take it to young black actors.

Shannon:

Jabari Banks, the new Fresh Prince or Damson Idris.

Shannon:

You watch Snowfall?

Lisa:

Yes.

Lisa:

Damson Idris.

Lisa:

Sorry.

Lisa:

I, I , let's go.

Lisa:

Have you heard him talk?

Shannon:

Yes.

Lisa:

That is amazing.

Lisa:

When they can cover up.

Lisa:

I watched the whole first season of Snowfall before I

Lisa:

even realized he had an accent.

Lisa:

The same with, um, um, um, Idris Elba.

Lisa:

I didn't know he had an accent.

Shannon:

And the dude off of, um, all American.

Shannon:

What's his name?

Shannon:

I forgot his name.

Lisa:

He has an accent too?

Shannon:

Yeah.

Lisa:

Wow.

Lisa:

I'm I'm blown away.

Shannon:

All right.

Shannon:

Here's the last one.

Lisa:

Okay.

Shannon:

LeBron or Steph?

Lisa:

I have to go with LeBron.

Lisa:

And the reason why I'm doing that is because, I mean, I see

Lisa:

him out here a little bit more like, yes, Steph's cool family.

Lisa:

Cool.

Lisa:

Whatever.

Lisa:

But I have to go with LeBron.

Lisa:

I look at the overall picture.

Lisa:

I know somebody probably dispute that.

Lisa:

I gotta go with LeBron.

Shannon:

Okay.

Shannon:

All right.

Shannon:

Well, Lisa, are you ready for your piece?

Shannon:

Lisa's pieces?

Lisa:

Lisa's pieces.

Lisa:

Yes.

Lisa:

This one is titled, It Starts at Home.

Lisa:

And I tell you, open your eyes a little wider.

Lisa:

Acknowledge the pride of light skin privilege, special pedestal taught

Lisa:

to be provided a brown skin, baby, not understanding why mama's titty

Lisa:

feeding Winston, Theodore them.

Lisa:

Why at an early age were taught mathematical theories.

Lisa:

Like please, excuse my dare Aunt Shaneika.

Lisa:

As she yank and pull your 4c hair and you get rewarded with a pop on a arm, just

Lisa:

for the expression of your discomfort.

Lisa:

A tear, roll down your coffee colored skin, and you become

Lisa:

enraged fueled by your confusion.

Lisa:

Confusion of a cousin whose daddy, they dare not speak of gets praised because

Lisa:

her hair blows in the wind, extra kisses, extra hugs, and pretty sure she isn't

Lisa:

sure what being popped feels like.

Lisa:

All she knows is she's accepted by all because her skin number one, screams safe.

Lisa:

Number two, it screams second because we all know who goes first.

Lisa:

Number three, it yells better opportunity.

Lisa:

When we refer to her back to number one, safe with all the madness in the world,

Lisa:

we must open our eyes a little wider.

Lisa:

It starts at home.

Lisa:

How do we address the spectrum of colorism?

Lisa:

The gray, bright Ray of internal racism.

Lisa:

Some feel darkest skin work harder.

Lisa:

Some feel the house Negro no longer exists, but are actively martyrs

Lisa:

open your eyes a little wider.

Lisa:

It starts at home.

Lisa:

Now think about it.

Shannon:

Okay.

Shannon:

Okay.

Shannon:

I do wanna stress that our Blacktivity today was not to

Shannon:

put dark skin versus light skin.

Shannon:

It's to show how dope we all are as black people.

Shannon:

We can't fit everything into 30 minutes, and this is a deep topic.

Shannon:

So we hope to hear your thoughts when you follow us on IG @blacktivitiespod.

Shannon:

Now Lisa will roast you if you come on there talking crazy.

Shannon:

So...

Lisa:

I won't go too hard.

Shannon:

Be respectful now.

Lisa:

I'm roasting that ass.

Shannon:

On the next episode, we're gonna talk about black business.

Shannon:

Like what are the benefits and the drawbacks of supporting them?

Shannon:

Hmm.

Shannon:

But until then, Kings and Queens keep doing.

Shannon:

Big.

Shannon:

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