Racing thoughts.
Harsh judgements.
I'm too this.
He is too that.
She certainly is too ..... ETC.
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Is it you ??
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Unknown:out there who are under stress. And yeah, who just need a little
Unknown:bit of goodness in their life a little bit more goodness and
Unknown:lightness.
Unknown:I want to talk about thoughts. Today. i Your thoughts, ruling
Unknown:your life.
Unknown:Now you can come and say what Aurora
Unknown:scores, my thoughts are guiding every action? And yeah,
Unknown:my thoughts are
Unknown:of utmost importance. And I follow any every order that
Unknown:comes from that instance.
Unknown:Do you say instance, from that level of consciousness? From
Unknown:that level of awareness? Whatever you think your thoughts
Unknown:are, I made a video today and posted it on Facebook. And there
Unknown:already I said that there is a millions, billions, trillions of
Unknown:opinions out there of what thoughts are and where they come
Unknown:from. And I'm going to share with you what I think thoughts
Unknown:are? And yeah, hopefully I can help you out in solving some
Unknown:problems, or making you feel better about yourself. That is
Unknown:always my, my ultimate intention.
Unknown:So
Unknown:what are thoughts? And how do they get into our mind? And
Unknown:yeah, what produces those thoughts? I believe that
Unknown:thoughts are a reaction to an emotion, or reaction to a
Unknown:memory, which can also be tightly bound to an emotion. So
Unknown:our brain, our being, and especially our mind is always
Unknown:there to serve us
Unknown:and to support our well being. And when it comes to our mind,
Unknown:I believe that our mind is most of the time trying to protect
Unknown:us. You don't get up in the morning and think I'm going to
Unknown:be an asshole today I'm going to be mean to people.
Unknown:No, I think we are all inherently good. But some of us
Unknown:have made a couple of experiences that we don't want
Unknown:to relive. And our mind is then our biggest ally and trying to
Unknown:not reproduce shitty situations that we have gone through in the
Unknown:past already.
Unknown:So when it comes to memories,
Unknown:you can feel triggered by an event that is happening right
Unknown:now. But it is connected to some memory that you don't want to
Unknown:relive. Of course, your mind is going to come up with judgmental
Unknown:and negative thoughts when it comes to what is happening in
Unknown:front of your eye right now. So you have kind of a pre made
Unknown:filter that will kind of distort your reality. Now you know how
Unknown:some people say one accident happened and there were five
Unknown:people watching that accident and you will hear five different
Unknown:stories of what happened. People sometimes even confused or
Unknown:interchange the gender of people who were present at the moment
Unknown:at when that accident happened. So this is how subjective your
Unknown:reality is.
Unknown:Now whenever
Unknown:As to your physical body.
Unknown:If your body is feeling healthy and good, and it really gets
Unknown:everything that it needs, then you will most likely have
Unknown:positive thoughts. A body that is in distress so dehydrated or
Unknown:in pain, or under fad over a fad
Unknown:will produce hormones that will signal to your brain that
Unknown:something is off, something has to change. And now sometimes we
Unknown:decide to ignore these signals so long that it will affect us
Unknown:we will get sick, we will get very negative in our mind. And
Unknown:we will not even connected back to our physical health, because
Unknown:we become experts in not listening to the pain signals of
Unknown:our body because it's inconvenient in the moment, or
Unknown:because we are so numbed out already.
Unknown:When it comes to your self image, the way you look at
Unknown:yourself, the way you feel about yourself is going to dictate on
Unknown:how positive and good and well intended your thoughts are. You
Unknown:can imagine a person who is feeling miserable and sick and
Unknown:feels ugly, and bad. How can they have a positive outlook on
Unknown:life, if they feel socially about themselves already, so the
Unknown:better you feel about yourself, the better.
Unknown:Like, the more confident you are in what you do, maybe you found
Unknown:your purpose. Maybe you work in a job that brings you lots of
Unknown:joy, maybe you have children that are healthy and fit.
Unknown:And you thank it because you are a great parent, then you will
Unknown:most likely have positive thoughts, then, the general your
Unknown:general view on the world like is the world a very scary place,
Unknown:and you have to look right and left and be careful not to be
Unknown:stabbed in the back all the time. Or are you very at peace
Unknown:with everything that's happening, and you are content
Unknown:with your surroundings, you are happy with the people that you
Unknown:interact with, you have a safe home with running water heating
Unknown:system or air conditioning, your environment is also going to
Unknown:dictate on how positive you feel in your body, but also in your
Unknown:mind. So it is really, really important to observe your
Unknown:thoughts and sometimes even sit down and silence and notice what
Unknown:is repetitive Do you have repeating thoughts kind of a
Unknown:broken tape that that comes back on a loop and you can really
Unknown:make sense of then it is wise to play little detective. And to
Unknown:find out what might have triggered these thoughts. Again,
Unknown:it can be memories from the past that you have to learn to let go
Unknown:it can be your physical health, it can be your environment, it
Unknown:can be your housing situation, it can be the people that you
Unknown:surround yourself. And last but not least, it is what you
Unknown:consume over your eyes, and your ears. And of course, all your
Unknown:other senses from the environment that is going to
Unknown:dictate how and what kind of thoughts you have roaming around
Unknown:in your brain. So now then, you know where these thoughts can be
Unknown:stimulated from. If we were to sit down and silence now and to
Unknown:observe these thoughts like you know, observing the sky and the
Unknown:clouds floating by, we can start to detach ourselves a little bit
Unknown:from these thoughts and know that we are the entity watching
Unknown:these thoughts. We are not our thoughts, because as I explained
Unknown:earlier in a nutshell, it is our environment that kind of
Unknown:stimulates certain thoughts, but we don't have to engage in every
Unknown:thought that we have. We can just watch it first.
Unknown:So next time you feel triggered by a person or you have weird
Unknown:thoughts coming up out of nowhere. What's your surround
Unknown:things first and see if there's any of the points that you can
Unknown:kind of check before you react. And then the next point is to
Unknown:see, okay, do I want to give that sod any further attention?
Unknown:Or am I just gonna let it float by and not give it any
Unknown:importance at all? It is you who makes the choice, you will be
Unknown:the person who engages in those thoughts and act upon them, or
Unknown:who just drops them and decides to engage in a different
Unknown:thinking pattern. So what I'm trying to do here is to empower
Unknown:you that yeah, you are not a victim of your mind, you're not
Unknown:a victim of your thoughts. And if you have weird thoughts that
Unknown:keep coming up, it is very sweet to go down that road and, and to
Unknown:find out what it is with a coach or a counselor
Unknown:to help you out because your mind can really drive you crazy
Unknown:if it is constantly negative. But on an empowered level, you
Unknown:can decide how you treat your mind, what you feed it, how you
Unknown:treat your body, and who you're interacting with. Because those
Unknown:are things that you can control, and change. So I hope this all
Unknown:made sense. I know that I was not able to cover everything
Unknown:when it comes to solids. Please know that yeah, I'm not hovering
Unknown:above you and have it all together and think that I need
Unknown:to teach you
Unknown:how to heal yourself if you have weird thoughts, because I have
Unknown:those weird thoughts too. And I'm learning every day to
Unknown:select them to see okay, which sought is worth my while. And
Unknown:which thought am I going to drop right away, because it is not
Unknown:going to serve me on the long run, it is not going to create a
Unknown:better connection to person. It is more destructive. It is more.
Unknown:I don't know.
Unknown:It is not? Yes, serving me in any way. So I want to make a
Unknown:wise decision here for myself. And it's an everyday thing. And
Unknown:every morning, I get up and know that I want to do better than
Unknown:the last day. Even though I did great the last day, I'm not
Unknown:going to measure it by that I'm going to go and start from zero
Unknown:every day and try again. It is a good path to be on. It is very
Unknown:healing and it heals your relationships. It heals your
Unknown:relationship to yourself. And it really helped me to have a more
Unknown:positive outlook on life. on everything that's going on right
Unknown:now. And yeah, I highly recommend watching your thoughts
Unknown:and deciding do I want to engage them? Yes or no? I would burn to
Unknown:know your opinion about this. Do you agree? Do you disagree? hop
Unknown:onto Facebook and comment below my live video that I posted here
Unknown:today
Unknown:about this topic and yeah, I'd be more than excited to read
Unknown:what you think. take really good care of yourself. I will be out
Unknown:there on Monday again. And until then drink lots of water. Get
Unknown:out into nature for a walk and yeah, be present with the people
Unknown:that you love. Bye bye