Mari's husband Trey is back on the podcast to address assumptions that other people have about their life and marriage, debunking myths and sharing personal insights. They discuss their travel-filled schedule, the reality of their relationship dynamics, including how they handle fights and their efforts towards holistic living. The couple also talks about their financial situation and their work-life balance, emphasizing their entrepreneurial journey. Additionally, Mari and Trey delve into their cooking habits, family dynamics, personal tastes, and social activities, aiming to provide listeners with a genuine glimpse into who they are beyond social media.

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Here we go.

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Another Wednesday.

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Another week.

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Another week.

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Another pod episode.

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What's what am I doing today, Mari?

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You pulled me on.

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I pulled you on.

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We are doing assumptions about us,

addressing assumptions about us,

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whether they are true or false.

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Okay.

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I have only briefly glanced at these.

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I asked this on my story a few

weeks ago and I don't believe I

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have shared them with you yet.

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So this will be a pretty fresh take.

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I think you shared like one

or two with me, but yeah.

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But before we jump in, how are you doing?

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Oh my goodness.

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Let's have a heart to heart.

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Um, I'm joking.

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It doesn't, I'm joking.

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It doesn't have to be a heart

to heart, but, um, we've had a

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kind of a crazy past few weeks.

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Yeah.

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Let's see.

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For starters, we're recording this.

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Tuesday night and it's going out

Wednesday morning and I usually like to

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be a little bit more on top of things.

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It looks like, but we

have been on the road.

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Um, I love to count the number

of days we spent in our home

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traveling, not on the road.

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We're not like road tripping, but

like we've been out of the house.

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I mean, it's, it all started in August

3rd, like very, very beginning of

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August or was it the end of June?

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It was before that.

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It was, it was like.

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It was before that.

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Before the NEC Congress.

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Yeah, before Nationally

Encrusted Congress.

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So it's like.

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It's been since then that

it's been super back to back.

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Since like July 12th.

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Maybe we've spent like.

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That makes me want to cry.

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Two weeks combined at our house.

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Maybe 30 weeks combined in

our house since July 12th.

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No wonder we feel so frazzled, dude.

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Yeah, we're all over the place.

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July 12th?

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We are all over the place.

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That's been a long time.

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Yeah.

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Is that two months?

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August?

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September?

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I think it's two months.

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Feels like it could be six.

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Yeah, it feels like six.

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Um, but yeah, we just got home.

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We got home on Sunday

night from New Sheraton.

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Yeah, we were visiting your

family, which was great.

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In Washington.

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In Washington.

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The state.

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But you were gone for like three weeks.

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You had a friend's trip before that.

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I was gone for like three weeks.

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Yeah.

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And then we met in Washington and then

we had another friend's trip and then

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we just both got sick and stayed an

extra week that we weren't expecting.

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Which was nice.

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Yeah, it was kind of nice.

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With your family.

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Yeah.

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Got a little behind on work, but.

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Yeah.

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Super, super behind.

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But here we are.

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But that doesn't matter.

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No, it matters.

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It matters, but it's fine.

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We're going to ignore that.

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Okay.

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But I am kind of excited to get

into this convo today because I

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love these combos with you when

it's just kind of like on a whim and

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just talking about real life stuff.

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So I'm going to read out some assumptions.

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Basically how I framed this was like,

I mean, I don't know that I really

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have to explain what assumptions

are, but like things that you.

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AKA the people that follow me on

Instagram, I'm assuming also listeners

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like perceive about Trey and I and

our relationship and our life and

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either what we're like or what we

love or things that we do or whatever.

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And we're going to talk about them, see if

they resonate, see if they're true or not.

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Um, and just kind of like spill the truth.

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About who we really are.

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Alright, great.

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You wanna read some?

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Yes.

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Number one.

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You never get into fights.

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Uh, they must not be married.

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Whoever.

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You must not know what marriage is like.

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Of course we fight.

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Yeah, so that is false.

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Yes.

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We do get into fights.

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I would say that like one thing about

us is that we don't, I mean, not that

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anybody likes fighting, but we like hate.

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Fighting with each other like we

hate being upset with each other.

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I think that's everybody.

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I think that's everybody but also We

also hate holding on to the fight.

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Yeah, no one likes fighting Yeah, no

one likes fighting But I think it's

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very common for people to just be like

so mad that they're just like well I'm

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going to, you know, hold his grudge.

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You're like, I'm going to stick it

to him until he knows how bad it was.

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And I think like, I mean, you stick it.

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It's just, it's just short and sweet.

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It's short.

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I stick it.

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It's just quick and painful.

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And then it's over.

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Um, but this is, this

is what's funny, Trey.

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And I feel like I've said

this to you before, but.

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What's funny is like you're my best friend

and you are like the number one person I

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like process my emotions with You being

my husband, of course and so like when i'm

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mad at you or when you've made me sad like

You are the first person I want to go to.

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Like, I want to still function.

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Well, no, no.

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And it's like, I'm mad at you,

but like, I want you to hug me

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because I'm comforted by your hug,

but you're the person I'm mad at.

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And so I'm just like, if we just get

over the mad part as quick as possible,

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we can get to the comforting part and

then we can go back to the happy part.

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Yeah.

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Well, so our fights are very quick.

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We definitely fight.

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Yeah.

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But our, but our fights are very quick.

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Usually.

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Pretty quick.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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We're not weeks on end.

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Yeah.

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And it's not like we

fight big all the time.

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I would say like, we don't have a

problem with confrontation to like, sure,

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we'll bicker here and there a little

bit to just kind of be like, whatever,

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just your classic mirrored stuff.

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That's not how I worded it.

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That's not what I, this is what I meant.

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Well, you didn't, I, blah, blah,

you know, listen to my words,

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listen to what I'm saying.

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Yeah.

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That's not what I meant.

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Yeah, just, just miscommunication,

just stupid stuff, nothing big

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really, but we're best friends.

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So we get over it.

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Okay.

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Number two, you never shop on Timu.

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That is 1000 percent true.

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I have never shopped on Timu before.

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I don't think I knew what Timu

was until like, he didn't know

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it maybe a couple months ago.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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I've, I don't feel like

I've ever had a need for it.

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I mean, I have Amazon.

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And Timu, if you like,

is sketchier, so, nope.

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No comment.

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No Timu.

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Oh, there's the next one.

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This is the one that actually fits here.

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Let me cover this up.

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Trevor, Trevor treats you like a princess.

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I hope Trevor doesn't

treat you like a princess.

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Trevor does treat me like a princess.

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Um, I'm assuming this person meant Trey

treats you like a princess, um, and.

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That would be true, in my opinion.

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Yeah, I try.

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I try.

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Um, so newsflash, my husband's

name is Trey, not Trevor.

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But yeah, I mean, I feel so taken

care of and pampered in the best way.

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In so many ways by Trey,

he makes my life easy and

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yeah, I mean I couldn't not be married.

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I'm glad I try.

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Uh, okay.

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Next you live a perfectly holistic life.

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Nah, no, that's false.

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I mean, I mean, yeah, I would say

like, there's definitely efforts,

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but like a perfectly holistic life.

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No, I mean, we just started learning.

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I started learning about all this like

three years ago and really started

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implementing just the different

things that I've learned in the

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past like year, year and a half.

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So there's a long ways to go.

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And I think when it comes to holistic

living, clean living, um, There's a

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range there are those people and I'm not

saying either is bad but like they're the

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people who are gonna go to one extreme

of just like the full extent the full

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full full extent of like worrying about

every single like Ingredient in any item

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in their home or any sort of thing that

could possibly cause cancer which at

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this point is like everything and and

sometimes You know, the emotional stress

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that comes with that is almost worse

than the products you're encountering.

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And so there's, there's

always that extent.

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Um, and I know that was more about

like toxins and stuff, but, you

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know, holistic of just like, have

your cow, your homestead, you know.

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Swallowing the raw beef liver.

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I don't think I could get there.

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Yeah.

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We do a lot of things that

aren't to the extreme.

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Yeah.

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But like we try and implement

things into our day to day life.

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Just the basics.

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Yeah.

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Just like natural things,

natural, um, habits.

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I don't know what to call it.

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Like natural living habits.

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I feel like the word holistic has

become such a buzzword where it's like,

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I don't even know what that means.

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It means.

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Yeah.

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And I feel like it means so much.

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And that's why I feel

like holistic and crunchy.

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Yes.

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Like people like, yeah, people like

bundle so many terms into holistic.

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Right.

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Because even clean living and holistic

living can be different things.

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Right.

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Whereas clean living talks a

little bit more about toxins.

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Holistic living is a

little bit more about that.

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Like literally holistic, which means

like all encompassing, like everything.

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Um, I feel like it's usually

attributed more to like, Okay.

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Like I said, like homesteading

and like making all your own stuff

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from scratch and, um, nose to tail

eating and all this kind of stuff.

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And I would say there's a lot that I'm

so attracted to and that we incorporate.

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I mean, I cook almost

everything from scratch.

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We literally have, like, almost nothing.

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That's like freezer or

packaged in our house.

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But I'm also, and I, and I

try to be careful of and seed

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oils and everything, but like.

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If a snack that we buy has a seed

oil, it's okay for the one time.

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Yeah.

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And we eat out and it's not

like the end of the world.

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We try and, you know, we try and do things

as healthy as possible with like the

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way that our lifestyle allows right now.

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And if we're able to incorporate more

in some seasons and less than other

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seasons, we're not stressing about it.

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So definitely not perfect.

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Um, but always.

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Loving being in that growth mindset

and doing as much as we can.

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And Trey's really like jumping on board,

which is just like, you're the best.

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What's next?

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Uh, together you own 20 plus rosaries.

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Um, I, I don't, I don't

think I could count.

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I mean, I have like two.

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Well, no.

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Okay.

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You may be, I have, I

have one in my truck.

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And one that I like keep in my

briefcase and kind of with me.

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I mean, if you count the number of

rosaries we have in the house, yes, we

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have every single West coast Catholic

rosary in the house and probably more

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that we've been gifted over the years.

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So yeah.

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I mean, we definitely have more than 20.

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There's definitely more than 20 for sure.

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And, and I actually use at least

half of West Coast Catholics designs.

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Like I have, I have one in my purse.

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I have one in my car.

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I have one under my, I have

like two in my bed, one under

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my pillow, one on my nightstand.

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Like I have a bunch, I love them all.

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So I use them all the time.

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That's true.

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Um, oh, cute.

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Not an assumption.

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Just truth.

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Y'all are relationship

role models for so many.

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Thank you so much.

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Oh, thanks.

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So sweet.

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Oh, another 1 for you

never have big fights.

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We already answered that.

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Oh, my gosh.

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Another 1.

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You guys don't have

fights or disagreements.

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Wow.

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I mean, one thing is like, we're not

going to publicly fight on Instagram.

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True.

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True.

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You're not ever going to see our fights,

but that doesn't mean we don't fight.

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Yes.

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Just a reminder that Instagram

is a highlight reel sometimes.

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Um, okay.

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You guys are really well off economically.

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This is an interesting one.

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I feel like I've gotten this one before.

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Okay.

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There's another one here.

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You and your business are pretty rich.

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So there was a few, I think when

it comes to family finances.

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Yeah, and uh, I definitely don't

consider us rich I think most

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of my friends make more than me.

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Yeah, like I don't consider us rich

I would say like our business does

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really well We're really proud of the

work that we do and our work is so

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unconventional to where like we're

not dependent on a Regular salary

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job, like anybody else would be.

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And so when, especially with the

content creator side, when you're

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an entrepreneur and when you're a

content creator, you have so much more

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control of the income that's coming in.

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Whereas like you can do an extra push

for another sale for the business, or

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I can choose to become an affiliate

for another company and start promoting

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something that I'm, I've been using and

loving and make some commission there.

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So it can be a little bit more flexible.

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Um, but.

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No, we're not.

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We're not rich.

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I would say we're pretty average.

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Yeah.

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And honest, like, if

we're being honest, right.

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About like, what the economic

state is and what people make.

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Yeah, we're pretty average.

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However, I would say like, I'm really

happy with, you Yeah, how we were doing.

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And I feel like we're able to do so much

still with what comes in financially.

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We're still able to travel a lot.

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Like I still buy clothes when

the new season comes around,

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like you go golfing all the time.

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We're extremely blessed.

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Um, and so, Yeah, I mean, we're not

like not doing well, but like in

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real terms of like, are you rich?

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Do we, are we just floating in money?

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No, we're not.

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And I think the other thing too is

we, both Mara and I are more on the

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spender side instead of the saver

side of the spectrum, I would say.

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So, I mean, we spend a lot, so it

might look, because we spend more,

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maybe, than we save, like, I don't

know, like, it's not like some, I

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feel like different couples have

different mindsets about money.

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Like, some are, like, very heavily

saving, and so they might not

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look on the outside as being rich.

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But they are making a lot

and they just save a lot.

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Yeah, we, you know, we, I think we

spend a lot or like we're more on

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the spendy side than the saving side.

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Yeah.

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I mean, we definitely saved every month.

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We, we have different, we're not going

to go into our budgeting plans, but like.

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Like we have savings, we have different

buckets for different purposes, and

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then we have our regular account.

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And once we have saved the amount

that we have allotted to save,

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then we're like, okay, great.

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Do you want to go on a trip?

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Like, do you want to go golfing?

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Do you want to, yeah, do a home project.

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Like we buy gifts for our

family every birthday.

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Like, so there's just different

things that we spend money on.

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And the other thing I'd say with

our business, uh, with West Coast

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Catholic, we've prioritized our time.

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Instead of like our paychecks.

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And so we've, uh, like when we were

able to, we've been able to hire on team

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members to reduce the amount of time

that is required of us for the business.

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Uh, and that's been our, up to this

point, like that's how we've prioritized

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our business finances is buying back

our time and investing in employees

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and team members, uh, instead of

just giving us bigger paychecks.

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Right?

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Like we have, Four to

six people on our team.

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Right.

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And four of 'em are full-time salaries.

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We could be paying ourselves

a much bigger salary.

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Yeah.

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But we're choosing to invest in

the business and our employees

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and our team and so, and get

some our time back and Yeah.

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Which is worth everything.

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Yep.

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Um.

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Okay.

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Next question.

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Not a question.

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Okay.

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Next assumption.

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Assumption.

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You guys didn't wait for

marriage as a couple.

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I'm assuming that means sex.

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Yes.

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I'm assuming Mari and I,

we did wait until marriage.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Honestly, we did it.

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And honestly, it's the best thing ever.

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Like hands down.

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Did we struggle in chastity at times?

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Yes.

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But were we able to save sex for marriage?

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Yes.

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And that's something I'm so proud of.

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And three years later,

it's the best thing ever.

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So highly recommend, um, games together.

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Yeah.

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I mean, yeah, not that like we do it

all the time, we really like to play

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Catan with our friends and our family

and we have a few like two person games.

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Yeah, we have some card

games that we like to.

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I wouldn't say we're like

huge board game fanatics.

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But we love Catan, and we

like a few card games, so.

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Mm hmm.

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Okay, next, you have a

very healthy marriage.

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I think so.

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I think so.

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We were just talking about this.

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Was it today?

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I think we were just I

don't Was that today?

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I think we were talking about I don't

even know what you're about to say, so.

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Okay.

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I think we were talking about this

today, or yesterday, or something,

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about how like, We know we're

not perfect and we know that we

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don't have a perfect marriage,

but like, of course we're biased.

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We feel like we just have

the best marriage ever.

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Like, we just like, are best friends.

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We love each other so much.

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We're like, So on the same page all

the time, like we support each other.

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We, like we said earlier, like when

we argue, like the bottom line is we

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just like, want to reconcile again.

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We like try and do everything we can,

I feel like to love each other in

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the best way that we can genuinely.

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And I feel like that brings a lot of joy.

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And.

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Beauty and trust and like just

like goodness to our marriage.

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Yeah, I agree.

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I think we have the best marriage So true

Another one on purity during dating we

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kind of already answered that one also

if anybody's struggling with chastity I

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have a really great highlight on Instagram

if you look through my Instagram story

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highlights They're kind of a mess, but

find the one that's called chastity.

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I have so many Pieces of advice

and like practical tips on

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boundaries and everything.

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I know that that's always a tough

topic Okay, this one's interesting.

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Y'all secretly know

several languages JK JK.

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Love y'all's whole love story.

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I Don't I don't really know what this

whole thing means but If we're going

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to focus on the languages, I mean, it's

not a secret, but I do know Spanish,

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but and Trey and Trey's learning.

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I'm trying to learn.

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Yeah.

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Mari's bilingual.

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She's Colombian.

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Yeah.

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100 percent Colombian born in Bogota

and her whole family speaks Spanish.

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So when I'm like, when we're

visiting them and home with them,

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they're all speaking Spanish.

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Um, so I've, I'm getting better.

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We'd like to raise our children bilingual.

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So I got to learn.

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So he's got to learn or else we're just

going to talk about you behind your back.

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Yeah.

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Um, you do most of the cooking,

but Trey can make a mean brunch.

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I want to know who said that.

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Is that one of my friends?

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No, it's not.

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Um, this is a false.

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We actually probably do the cooking 50 50.

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I would say most of the time

we do the cooking 50 50.

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Yeah.

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And I, yeah.

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I'm such a proud wife being able to say

that my husband does half the cooking

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and it is Just as good as when I cook

and vice versa like we are at the same

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Cooking level like he is so amazing Oh,

thank you and it's funny we talk about

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this all the time like It's not that

we're chefs and it's not that trey's a

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chef Although actually trey's probably

more of a chef than I am like you make

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stuff up more than I do but like if

you Just know how to follow a recipe

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like you too can make delicious food.

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They cook.

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Yeah.

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Just follow the steps.

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Yeah, like Ratatouille

said, anyone can cook.

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You just follow the recipe.

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So we really feel like it's not that hard.

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So sometimes I'm confusing

people like, Oh no, I can't cook.

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I'm like, well, can you read?

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Yes, because if you can read

and you know how to use a knife

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you can cook you can do it.

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So Yeah, yeah, I mean like love

hate relationship with the recipes.

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I always use them because I need

them Yeah, but I have to reread the

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same freaking step like six times.

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I know every single time I cook Yeah,

I read it I go grab the teaspoon and

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then I go back and I'm like, teaspoon

or tablespoon, teaspoon or tablespoon.

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Then I go grab the spice and I

reread it for the third time.

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And then I like dip the spice

into the container and then I

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rerouted it like a fifth time.

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Just be like, teaspoon, tablespoon, which

spice, which bowl am I putting this in?

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Yeah.

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And it's just, it always takes me.

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Like I'm a slow cooker.

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I will say I'm a very slow cooker.

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It's hilarious though.

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It's kind of like when you're

boarding a plane, you look at your

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boarding pass 500 times to make

sure you know what seat you're on.

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And your brain like instantly

forgets what it reads.

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And it's the same thing

when you're cooking.

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It's like one tablespoon and you go

and you're like, was it one teaspoon?

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Was it one tablespoon?

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And it's like, you literally just read it.

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So that happens to me all the time too.

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And I don't know why our brains do that.

507

And it definitely makes cooking a

little bit slower, but in my opinion,

508

I feel like the recipes just let go

of so much, like mental load for me.

509

I don't like genuinely know how

to like make stuff up like that.

510

Like sure.

511

I could make rice and broccoli and

chicken, but like, that's not fun.

512

Yeah.

513

So we like to eat fun things.

514

Yeah.

515

With that, the kind of fun fact, Mari

and I don't repeat recipes hardly ever.

516

People are appalled

when we tell them this.

517

So we have a few cookbooks, but then we

just find stuff online and on Instagram.

518

And in our three and a half years of

marriage, this is what I was going to say.

519

If you want to say like in our

three and a half years of marriage.

520

We've repeated a handful of meals, maybe

like five recipes, maybe five to 10.

521

Yeah.

522

10 max, but like consistently repeat

maybe like five meals in our three

523

and a half years of being married.

524

And we eat three meals a day.

525

People.

526

Yeah.

527

That's a lot of meals.

528

I would say a lot of them

are like home cooked too.

529

Yeah.

530

Yeah.

531

Okay.

532

Let's exclude breakfast because that's

like eggs and toast and you can have that

533

a bajillion times a year, but like, Yeah.

534

But like lunches and dinners

and everything, we switch it

535

up pretty much every week.

536

So if you ever need a

recipe rec, shoot me a DM.

537

I got them.

538

Yes, we do.

539

Um, one of your best friends said

something, well, they were going to

540

say something, but then they didn't say

something, which I'm kind of upset about,

541

uh, Tyler goes, should I expose wags?

542

And I'm still waiting

for him to expose you.

543

So, um, by the way, choice.

544

Yeah.

545

Yeah.

546

Trey used to be called wax in high school.

547

So I still, still, yeah.

548

Okay.

549

Um, another one, you guys would be

such a fun couple to double date with.

550

You're right.

551

We absolutely, we absolutely would be.

552

So let's make that happen.

553

Um, someone says that you are super

Catholic and aren't secular at all.

554

You don't part, you

don't party or have fun.

555

Well, I am so sorry you get

this, this, uh, What's it called?

556

Assumption.

557

No, not Assumption.

558

Impression.

559

I am so sorry you get this impression

that I am not fun in any way.

560

Trey, would you like

to answer that, please?

561

I think you need to show more

of your fun side on the gram.

562

I think you do.

563

Okay.

564

I think we need a little

bit more unhinged Mari.

565

Unhinged Mari.

566

Unhinged Mari, I feel like

doesn't happen anymore.

567

She's so fun.

568

She is fun.

569

Um.

570

Yeah, well, I mean, do

you want to answer this?

571

Um, you know me best.

572

Where was it?

573

They are that you're super catholic.

574

Yes.

575

You are very catholic.

576

You aren't secular I would say there is

definitely secularism in you for sure.

577

Yeah.

578

Absolutely.

579

And I mean, like, this isn't, I mean,

I'm trying to like, this isn't something

580

that I'm like praising or condoning,

you know, like, like, do I like fashion?

581

Yes.

582

Do I listen to secular music?

583

Yes.

584

Like, do I watch some secular shows?

585

Yes.

586

Like, we're not going to

just only watch saint movies.

587

Right.

588

But am I careful about

the shows that I watch?

589

Like, do I watch Bridgerton?

590

No.

591

That's not good for you

592

And then aren't secular and

don't party slash don't have fun.

593

I have a lot of fun.

594

Thank you very much fun And I am

commonly described as zesty full of

595

life full of life life of the party Yes.

596

Yeah, I think That's something that,

I mean, that's what I was really

597

attracted to when I first met you was

just how fun and full of life you were.

598

Thanks.

599

So I would say that's definitely false.

600

Yeah.

601

And I mean, specifically,

yes, I love to party.

602

So let's clarify that because

while in my college days,

603

obviously I was not living a life.

604

Well, not obviously, but I

wasn't partying virtuously.

605

Right.

606

But once you learn how to do that

virtually, AKA, like you learn that,

607

like drink drunkenness is a sin.

608

And you just view like partying as like

social time with friends and drinking as

609

like, in addition to that, an enhancement,

not as like a crutch, you don't have

610

to be drunk in social situations.

611

So I love that.

612

Being social.

613

I love spending time with friends.

614

Love.

615

I love hosting a party.

616

I love going dancing.

617

I love going to parties and

celebrations and whatever, and

618

playing bangers on the Yes ox.

619

I love being on ox and you

just won't catch me drunk.

620

And you might be like, wow,

how is she having so much fun?

621

, you wish, man.

622

I don't know.

623

But you, you wish you were too.

624

Yeah.

625

Okay.

626

Two more that you have perfect

hashtag not hashtag that you have

627

perfect slash nontoxic family members.

628

Very interesting.

629

I don't even understand what

that's in like our family.

630

Is non tox?

631

Yeah, no, and I don't think they mean

non toxic as in like ingredients.

632

I think they mean like toxic family

dynamics or toxic families, like that you

633

have like perfect, beautiful families.

634

Gosh, man, no.

635

I would say like, again, like,

Obviously nobody is perfect.

636

Our families are not perfect.

637

Our family members are not

perfect and we're not perfect.

638

And we're probably inheriting some

of the things that we don't love

639

about our parents and our siblings

and all this stuff too, but we

640

have really healthy families.

641

That's the truth.

642

We talk about this often.

643

Like we feel really blessed

to have parents that are still

644

married to each other, that

love each other, that have had.

645

long, beautiful marriages that have

prioritized family first, that pour

646

everything that they have into their

children and want to create a healthy,

647

loving, supportive family environment that

we grew up in and still experience today.

648

Raised us in the faith and still

practice the faith themselves.

649

Um, our families.

650

Like, it's so fun to be with them.

651

Yeah.

652

We go on family vacations.

653

At least we try to every

year with our family.

654

Like whole family vacations, so.

655

We live 20 minutes from my family, we

see them at least once a week probably,

656

at least some family member of mine.

657

If not more, yeah.

658

At least once a week.

659

So, we love them.

660

Yeah.

661

We love our families, full, healthy

families, not perfect, but very blessed.

662

Yeah.

663

And then the last one I

realized we already answered.

664

It said that you both never

fight, which we already addressed.

665

So there you have it guys,

all your assumptions answered

666

with some context and more.

667

I hope that you got to know

us a little bit better.

668

Yeah.

669

I hope that was fun for you

guys to listen to on that.

670

And, uh, we'll be back

with Mari next week.

671

See ya.