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Reclaiming Our Attention with Menka Sanghvi
Episode 15927th November 2025 • The Art Engager • Claire Bown
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In this episode, host Claire Bown is joined by Menka Sanghvi, researcher, writer, guide and founder of Just Looking. Menka’s work explores attention through science, culture and creativity, and encourages us to slow down and notice more in our everyday lives.

Together, we talk about why ordinary moments matter, how our attentional filters shape what we see and the social dimension of noticing. We also explore the pull of digital technology, the difference between algorithmic seeing and intentional looking, and how small shifts can help us reclaim our attention.

Whether you work with visitors in museums, guide groups through artworks or simply want to nurture a more spacious way of looking, this conversation offers practical ideas you can apply directly to your facilitation practice (and to your life!).

The Art Engager is written and presented by Claire Bown. Editing is by Matt Jacobs and Claire Bown. Music by Richard Bown. Support on Patreon

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Menka is the founder of Just Looking, a global community of people looking at everyday life with slowness and curiosity. She is also the co-author of Your Best Digital Life. Her work invites people to notice more, reflect more and reconnect with both the digital and physical worlds.

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Claire Bown:

Hello and welcome to The Art Engager podcast with me, Claire Bown.

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I'm here to share techniques and tools to help you engage with your audience

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and bring art objects and ideas to life.

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So let's dive into this week's show.

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Hello, and welcome to a new episode of The Art Engager.

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I'm Claire Bown, and today I'm speaking with Menka Sanghvi, a researcher,

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writer, and guide who specializes in one of our most precious resources.

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Attention.

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Thank you.

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Now let me introduce today's guest.

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Menka Sovi is the founder of just looking a global community

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project, celebrating slowness and curiosity in how we see the world.

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With a background that spans physics, social change, and mindfulness.

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Menka brings a unique multidisciplinary perspective to the question of

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attention, how we use it, how we lose it, and how we can reclaim it.

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Menka is the co-author of your Best Digital Life and the founder of Just

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Looking a global Community project that encourages people to stay

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curious about the world around them.

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Drawing on over two decades of experience in behavioral change design

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and wellbeing science Mecca's work invites us to slow down, notice more,

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and reflect on how we relate to both the digital and physical worlds.

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In today's conversation, we explore why focusing on ordinary moments matters,

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the science behind attentional filters and what we unconsciously miss, and the

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social dimension of noticing how looking together changes what individuals see.

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We discuss algorithmic seeing versus intentional looking, practical strategies

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for rewilding our attention and why.

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Menka insists that slowing down isn't about duration, but attitude.

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This episode is essential listening.

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If you work in museums and want to help visitors engage more deeply with what

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they're seeing, if you're interested in slow looking practices or if you're simply

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curious about reclaiming your attention in our technology saturated world, enjoy.

Claire Bown:

Hi Menka and welcome to The Art Engager Podcast.

Claire Bown:

Hi, Claire.

Claire Bown:

Nice to be here.

Claire Bown:

So could you tell us who you are and what you do?

Menka Sanghvi:

Sure.

Menka Sanghvi:

I am a researcher, writer, and guide.

Menka Sanghvi:

I specialize in the subject of attention, and I come to this from a scientific,

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cultural, and a creative perspective.

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I am also the founder of a global community project called Just Looking,

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which is dedicated to slowness and curiosity in how we look at the world.

Menka Sanghvi:

I am really concerned about how technology is impacting our minds and our attention,

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which is why I co-authored a book all about it called Your Best Digital Life.

Menka Sanghvi:

It came out a few months ago, and yeah, outside of that, I'm also a trustee and

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champion advisor to several innovative organizations in the areas of mindfulness

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and wellbeing, and so I end up working with a wide range of people from

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business leaders and politicians to.

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Musicians a few weeks ago and children too.

Claire Bown:

Amazing.

Claire Bown:

Um, your work caught my attention quite a few years ago now.

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I think we've been emailing on and off for a number of years, but I'd

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love to hear the story about how you ended up with this very varied

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portfolio career that you seem to have.

Menka Sanghvi:

Yeah, sure.

Menka Sanghvi:

And that's a nice way of putting it.

Menka Sanghvi:

My background is fairly multidisciplinary, but in a nutshell, I. Started off working

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in social change and climate change, the external environmental social problems of

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the world, and then became more and more fascinated with behavioral change and how.

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Environments influence by design, our behavior, and how

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we can regain control over it.

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Over that, and then I moved progressively into the world of interchange.

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So mindfulness and wellbeing, and I guess attention is that.

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Is that touchstone between all of it.

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At one point I just realized that everything starts with

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attention and perception and how you see yourself in the world.

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What we attend to shapes, our feelings, our ideas, beliefs,

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actions, habits, basically everything.

Claire Bown:

I love that.

Claire Bown:

And you are just looking now, I don't know whether to call

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it a project or a community.

Claire Bown:

I'm sure you have a way of describing it, but you started.

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2017. I think I discovered it pretty soon afterwards with the community.

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I think maybe you are trying to bring people together with similar

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interests, thinking about how we explore the world, how we look at the

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world, curiosities involved there.

Claire Bown:

Perhaps you could explain in a nutshell what just looking is.

Menka Sanghvi:

Yeah, I describe it usually as a kind of a community

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led or community powered.

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Project celebrating slowness and curiosity, and I can

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tell you how it started.

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Might explain it a bit more clearly, which is I was experiencing, I guess

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maybe like a numbness, overwhelmed by the news and looking at screens all the time.

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And I was working in humanitarian emergency response at the time.

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It's pretty intense.

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And at the same time I had a meditation practice.

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I have a meditation practice, which is it just focused on curiosity.

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And I just wanted to expand that to the rest of my day.

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I already had a passion for photography, so I thought that

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would be a good place to start.

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So I started to do these photography walks and my idea was to host a

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series of playful kinda photo walks around the city of London where I

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live, and we'd meet in places that are not exactly well known for photo.

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So like for example, I remember one of the first ones we did at rush hour focusing on

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the beauty of strangers in the financial district with everyone walking at high

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speed and looking very stressed and tired.

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And then on another walk on a Sunday morning, we were looking at

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the play of light in a cemetery.

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Another time we were walking across a bridge, but the whole one hour

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walk was just, it was a small bridge, like a hundred meters the whole time.

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We were just on that one bridge.

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And we still do these walks, but the project has evolved in several ways.

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So I have a love hate relationship with social media, but I do curate and that's

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guess how you must have found the project.

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I curate photography on Instagram and Blue Sky as well now purely with the

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intention of disrupting people's feeds with moments of alertness and presence.

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So that's a kind of key part of the project, but there's also

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a monthly community newsletter and there's a different.

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A theme about looking about attention each time.

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So last month was about artificial intelligence and being hungry for

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the human, which I think is more than the flavor of the month.

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So I think there's gonna be more of that.

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But looking ahead, I want it to be a platform for creating more tools and

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books, and the idea is to recreate the experience of the photo walk

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of the conversations that happen.

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In between and after the walk, but in a way that people can do

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it for themselves or with their family or with their communities.

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So yeah, if anyone listening is interested in the project, I would

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recommend signing up for the newsletter.

Menka Sanghvi:

It's a lot of fun for me to write.

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It's a labor of love and hopefully inspiring for others to read too.

Claire Bown:

I love your newsletter.

Claire Bown:

I really look forward to it landing in my inbox, and I can tell you

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enjoy putting it together too.

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As from one newsletter writer to another, you can see the care and

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attention that goes into it and.

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Thinking about just looking itself.

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When I was looking around on your website and looking at some of the

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things you've written about it and talk about it being the slow, mindful

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and creative observation of ordinary moments, and I think it was those

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words, ordinary moments, stuck with me.

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I do a lot of work with slow looking, mainly in the museum, but we have a lot

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of crossover into everyday life as well.

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So quite often as museum educators, we are thinking about how we can

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develop the practice first in ourselves before we then go and try

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and teach others to use it in a museum.

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So we might take slow looking into our everyday life and use it to

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pay attention to those ordinary moments or things we overlook.

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But I'd love to hear from you what drew you to focus on the

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everyday, these ordinary moments.

Menka Sanghvi:

Can I just respond to one thing you said about how we need to

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embody this slowness of looking ourselves before trying to share it with others?

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There's been a lot of research about teaching mindfulness, and one of the

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key insights has been that it's not effective unless the person doing

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the teaching practices themselves.

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So that's quite different from a lot of different subjects

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where it's less important.

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But yeah, so this particular study I'm thinking about was a long term

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study that was done at scale in schools, and one of the conclusions

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was it's not really working.

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And that was because the study itself required this kinda scaling

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up and recruiting of teachers that weren't necessarily into

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it and hadn't had much practice.

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So, makes a huge difference.

Menka Sanghvi:

But yeah, to answer your other question about ordinary moments.

Menka Sanghvi:

Yeah.

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Why ordinary moments?

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Well, the everyday is important to me because.

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That's where we live.

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Yes.

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Feeling connected, inspired and in awe is not just for special occasions

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when we make that big trip to see the waterfall or the pyramids or whatever.

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It's every day that we need to feel alive.

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And so that's one of the reasons.

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But the other is that we have this kind of evolutionary negativity bias for the

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everyday, which helps us to survive.

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It's important to be able to see.

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Threats and danger and things that aren't quite good enough.

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But this can be, to use that word, uh, used before quite numbing.

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And I think it's important to counter that with taking in the

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goodness to everyday wonders the taste of a peach at breakfast time.

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The laughter of a child across the street, some rubbish on the floor that happens to.

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Looked like a ballerina dancing.

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It's feeling alive in the everyday by paying closer attention to those

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things that we would otherwise have kinda rushed past and linked to that, I

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think it is a sense of caring as well.

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So one of, one of my mantras is noticing is a first step to caring as

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a society we're currently experiencing.

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And what's being described as a epidemic of loneliness.

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We all live in our filter bubbles and, and we're so easily polarized

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as well as a result of that.

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But once we start noticing things in the everyday, we see the elderly neighbors,

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the immigrants running the local shop, the pigeons who share our streets.

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We feel connected to them, and we take them in.

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We care about them.

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It shifts us from this individualistic perspective too.

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Being part of something bigger.

Menka Sanghvi:

So I think that can happen every day.

Claire Bown:

I totally agree.

Claire Bown:

And I think when we take those moments to notice on our own, certainly

Claire Bown:

there's a shift there with the awe and the wonder that we can experience.

Claire Bown:

We can feel more alive.

Claire Bown:

But I also think when we have those moments of noticing together,

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so when we are doing this.

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Practice with other people, as we might do in the museum, but I've seen you

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do in workshops that you lead as well.

Claire Bown:

There's something really special about discovering newness in the ordinary,

Claire Bown:

in the everyday looking for things in familiar places with other people.

Claire Bown:

There's a kind of social aspect to this connectedness as well.

Menka Sanghvi:

Yeah, definitely.

Menka Sanghvi:

I think that.

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Attention is a social practice.

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We miss that part of it because it's like so intimate in our minds, isn't it?

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When you're a baby, how do you learn what to look at and someone points at something

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and says, look, and that's how we develop.

Menka Sanghvi:

Maybe we can talk a little bit about attentional filters, because this is

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where the social aspect comes in, so.

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The way attention works is through filters.

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If someone in a busy room calls your name, you're having a conversation

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with someone, there's like a hundred other things going on, but you will

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still hear that name being called out across the room because it's your name.

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So we have a priority that we place on certain information, right?

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That's how filters work.

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They filter out some things.

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And they allow us to notice some things.

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And it's not just names.

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There's lots of things that we've developed filters for.

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And as a result, there's things that we miss completely, like

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we can't even believe afterwards if someone shows us a video.

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Have you seen that guerrilla video?

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Yeah.

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The, yeah.

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It's like, where was that guerrilla?

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It's just a shock, isn't it?

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And the first time you see it, and it's a phenomenon called

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in Inattentional blindness.

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You know, we are literally blind to it.

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And, and the funny thing is that the information is being processed somewhere.

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There was an experiment, which you were looking at one thing, but in the

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corner of the screen, in the corner of what you can see, things pop up.

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And if it's your name, you'll see it.

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If it's someone else's name, you won't see it.

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So like clearly both names yours and someone else's, that information

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was getting processed somewhere.

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But it's at quite a late stage of processing that the brain

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actually determines whether the stimulus ought to be noticed,

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like perceived consciously or not.

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And so to go back to the social thing, this is where people can easily nudge

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our filters 'cause we place a lot of importance on what other people say.

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So.

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If I'm running a mindful photography walk and I'm walking past a tree,

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but there's someone standing there looking at it intensely.

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I'm gonna stop and have a look at it too, even if they don't say anything.

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But if I get chatting to that person and they say, yeah, actually, I, I

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love trees and I've been studying, this particular is a London Planet

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Tree and this one is 170 years old.

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And so it would've been here with World War I, world War ii,

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it would've survived the fires.

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And I, it's gonna shift how I see this tree, right.

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And it's because of that social importance and also the stories that we hear from

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others, that our attentional filters can be influenced quite easily, more easily

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than other ways of trying to do it.

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And so, yeah, that's why I love getting people together and

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pointing things out to you.

Menka Sanghvi:

It's just always fascinates me what people notice and things

Menka Sanghvi:

that I have completely missed.

Claire Bown:

Yeah, and it shows you how many different

Claire Bown:

literal perspectives there are.

Claire Bown:

When you see, you have a group of say, 15 or so, people looking at the

Claire Bown:

same thing and they're all noticing slightly different things, perhaps

Claire Bown:

based on where they're literally standing or just their own experiences,

Claire Bown:

their own thoughts, their ideas.

Claire Bown:

They're bringing everything.

Claire Bown:

To that looking, I think you say as well, that it needs practice that

Claire Bown:

we need to rewild our attention, retrain our attention to be able

Claire Bown:

to focus on the things that we're unconsciously filtering out.

Claire Bown:

So can you talk a little bit about that?

Claire Bown:

How do we strengthen our attention muscles?

Menka Sanghvi:

Yeah.

Menka Sanghvi:

I, I sometimes talk about like the freedom of attention and it's because attention

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is rooted in habitual tendencies, filters.

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And so it is a practice because we've practiced it so many times before.

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So we will notice the things that we've always noticed, and therefore

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we will feel and believe and act in ways that we've done before,

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and it keeps us in a repertoire.

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I talk about the repertoire of noticing, and I guess I, I like the

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word rewilding because it's just.

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If we start noticing things that we don't usually, that we normally

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walk past, then we're strengthening our ability to place our attention

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somewhere new and also to place our attention where we want it to be.

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Aligned to what matters to us in that moment.

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And that's freedom.

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Like that's the ultimate freedom, right?

Menka Sanghvi:

To shape our experience of life.

Claire Bown:

And you created a set of 60 cards to help us with

Claire Bown:

these experiments in looking.

Claire Bown:

So can you tell us a little bit about the cards?

Claire Bown:

I have my own set here in front of me that I absolutely love.

Claire Bown:

How can they give us this freedom of attention?

Menka Sanghvi:

So the 60 experiments in looking are a toolkit that I developed in

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collaboration with a designer called Anna.

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She had come to one of my photo walks and as usual, I had these prompts

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and cards that I was handing out.

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And at the end she was like, this needs to be a thing.

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We need to create this into something which people can do on their own,

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or as I said, with their groups.

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And so they're, yeah, 60 beautifully printed cards,

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and they come in a black tin.

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And there are series of prompts, and the reason I describe them as experiments

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rather than prompts is because you don't have to believe them, like their

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ideas or stories or suggestions, but you don't have to believe in them.

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You just have to give them a go.

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Entertain that perspective and then see, evaluate what it does to your looking.

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So for example, one of the cards is called Sun.

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It reads there's a massive ball of fire in the sky.

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Its light has traveled more than eight minutes.

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To reach your eyes.

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I think that's an interesting example because you read that and then right

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now I'm looking out of the window and it makes me feel differently about the

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light, and I notice how it's bouncing off these orange leaves and making

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them look more orange in some places, a little bit more Bown than others.

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And that's because of a story that's playing in my mind right now about.

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The light and that particular fact is happens to be a true story.

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It does take eight minutes and 20 seconds, I think, because it sounds

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like 150 million kilometers away, which probably doesn't mean anything.

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It's a number that's roughly three and a half, 4,000 times going round the earth.

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That's a long way away and.

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It makes you appreciate the light more to know that it's traveled all the way,

Claire Bown:

don't you think?

Claire Bown:

Absolutely.

Claire Bown:

And when it's not there as well, when we get to the darker months

Claire Bown:

of the year, but I think there were quite a few that stood out to me.

Claire Bown:

I've got the boring card on top because I also really love the idea of really

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paying attention to things that we would find uninteresting at first glance, and

Claire Bown:

then going back to see if we can find something interesting them about them.

Claire Bown:

So.

Claire Bown:

I love, choose something uninteresting to observe.

Claire Bown:

Notice how slippery this is, as new details begin to reveal themselves.

Claire Bown:

And that's such a wonderful prompt because quite often when I'm

Claire Bown:

working with groups in the museum as well, we have our favorites.

Claire Bown:

We will work with certain objects or artworks that we are drawn to in some way.

Claire Bown:

We can't explain why.

Claire Bown:

Maybe it's knowledge or maybe it's an aesthetic or a technical or some kind of.

Claire Bown:

Appeal from that particular object, and we will leave others by the wayside.

Claire Bown:

So the fact that we can perhaps focus our attention on something that we might find

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uninteresting at first, and see perhaps what new details we can find, see if we

Claire Bown:

can see it in a completely different way.

Claire Bown:

So I absolutely love that one.

Menka Sanghvi:

The definition for boredom is really interesting.

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I mean, there's a lot of debate about it in psychology, but the

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growing consensus is that it's.

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An emotion of feeling unable to engage meaningfully in

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whatever it is you're doing.

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Like you want to be doing something meaningful and you wanna be engaged in

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that, but you're just not able to be.

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So it's interesting because the minute I give you that prompt, or the card gives

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you the prompt being bored, you are.

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Now meaningfully engaged in an exercise and unable to feel bored.

Menka Sanghvi:

And so it's always really funny when people do that and then they come

Menka Sanghvi:

back and say, that was really hard.

Menka Sanghvi:

Like I just, I was trying to be bored and just look at something that normally

Menka Sanghvi:

would bore me, but I just found it really fascinating in these layers of detail

Menka Sanghvi:

or started reveal themselves and it's just so much fun to get that feedback.

Menka Sanghvi:

So

Claire Bown:

tell me how you kind of imagine people might use these cards.

Claire Bown:

You do give a few tips for guidance.

Claire Bown:

There are some rules that I thought were super interesting as well.

Claire Bown:

The first rule being to slow down and what I loved.

Claire Bown:

Was that you said slowing down doesn't always take more time.

Claire Bown:

It is an attitude of not rushing to reach the end, and I think

Claire Bown:

that's super interesting as well.

Claire Bown:

I often think about slow looking and I get lots of questions from people

Claire Bown:

saying, oh, it takes a lot of time.

Claire Bown:

And quite often it's about thinking about the process of looking and

Claire Bown:

it takes as long as it takes.

Claire Bown:

It's not about the duration, it's about the process of.

Claire Bown:

Finding more beyond the first glance.

Claire Bown:

So can you talk a little bit about some of the rules behind the cards?

Menka Sanghvi:

Yeah, and that's probably the most important

Menka Sanghvi:

one that you just picked out.

Menka Sanghvi:

I think there's a feeling of never having enough time, isn't there?

Menka Sanghvi:

And so reminding people that it's just an attitude.

Menka Sanghvi:

'cause I don't know if you can tell, but I'm a physicist by background, but, so

Menka Sanghvi:

I, I studied physics at Cambridge and I've always had love for physics, but

Menka Sanghvi:

time literally is, you know, stretchy.

Menka Sanghvi:

And so a minute of looking at.

Menka Sanghvi:

A leaf or a painting can feel really different depending on

Menka Sanghvi:

the presence you bring to it.

Menka Sanghvi:

So if you give yourself permission to, to slow down and you just assume

Menka Sanghvi:

that there's gonna be something really interesting, I mean, it is

Menka Sanghvi:

like you are in a treasure hunt now, and that one minute can feel really.

Menka Sanghvi:

Luxurious.

Menka Sanghvi:

And so, yeah, I think that's an important rule.

Menka Sanghvi:

And the other really important one is about kindness.

Menka Sanghvi:

So I, I feel like there's these two wings of practice, curiosity and

Menka Sanghvi:

kindness that I, I try to practice every day all the time, and it's

Menka Sanghvi:

easier to weigh in on curiosity.

Menka Sanghvi:

But if I'm having a tough day, the curiosity comes with

Menka Sanghvi:

like negativity and judgment.

Menka Sanghvi:

And so be kind to yourself like every time our attention goes somewhere

Menka Sanghvi:

where we don't want it to, and we bring it back like we are strengthening

Menka Sanghvi:

those muscles and it takes time.

Menka Sanghvi:

So just to keep bringing it back again and again, and

Menka Sanghvi:

congratulate yourself for having.

Menka Sanghvi:

Strengthened and exercised your muscles of attention in the process.

Menka Sanghvi:

So I just wanted to say in terms of how to use them, as I mentioned the

Menka Sanghvi:

cards, they come in a a metal black tin.

Menka Sanghvi:

The idea being that you can take them with you on a walk

Menka Sanghvi:

and not worry about the rain.

Menka Sanghvi:

And also there's the guidance for how you can do it by

Menka Sanghvi:

yourself, but also with a group.

Menka Sanghvi:

And we've offered them to our community through our newsletter.

Menka Sanghvi:

And now they're available in our online shop, but we're just about

Menka Sanghvi:

to release a version for retailers.

Menka Sanghvi:

So physical shops and, yeah.

Menka Sanghvi:

I thought this would be interesting to your listeners 'cause hopefully

Menka Sanghvi:

museum shops and art galleries.

Menka Sanghvi:

Would like to stop them and so do get in touch if that's you.

Claire Bown:

Absolutely.

Claire Bown:

And these cards, I must say, I collect a lot of museum cards.

Claire Bown:

I'm a bit of a collector with these things, and they are beautifully packaged,

Claire Bown:

and as you say, they're in a really sturdy box so that you can take them with

Claire Bown:

you because you don't want your cards being in a cardboard box and getting

Claire Bown:

wet if you're stuck in the rain as well.

Claire Bown:

I have one more question for you about the cards, which would be you advise

Claire Bown:

people to take a card and stick with it.

Claire Bown:

What happens if you feel you cannot use that card or you

Claire Bown:

can't do anything with it?

Claire Bown:

What would your advice be?

Menka Sanghvi:

Yeah, so we have this situation in photo walks and

Menka Sanghvi:

we usually encourage people to swap.

Menka Sanghvi:

So you, if you're done with a card, then you swap with someone

Menka Sanghvi:

else if you're in a group.

Menka Sanghvi:

But before doing so, as you say, I really encourage people to just.

Menka Sanghvi:

Let go of some assumptions around what's interesting and what's not,

Menka Sanghvi:

what's worthy of your attention and what's not, and give it a go.

Menka Sanghvi:

Like I say, it's an experiment.

Menka Sanghvi:

You can't really get it wrong, and you're definitely gonna learn something

Menka Sanghvi:

about yourself and about the world.

Menka Sanghvi:

So that's the kind of, it's a nudge, but I feel like it's also just a permission for

Menka Sanghvi:

people to, to linger with whatever it is that they're being encouraged to look at.

Menka Sanghvi:

Yeah, and I think we need that permission, don't we?

Menka Sanghvi:

It's like if you're a parent, you're used to giving your child instructions in terms

Menka Sanghvi:

of what to do rather than what not to do.

Menka Sanghvi:

Like it's always easier to say.

Menka Sanghvi:

I wonder if there'll be any squirrels out in the woods today.

Menka Sanghvi:

Let's go check rather than no more bluey for you today.

Menka Sanghvi:

And it's the same for adults, and we just need to be told what to do.

Menka Sanghvi:

And sometimes, because it gives us permission to do that thing for

Menka Sanghvi:

longer than we would if we were just.

Menka Sanghvi:

On our own.

Claire Bown:

Absolutely.

Claire Bown:

I think it takes us back a little bit to the boring card that I put

Claire Bown:

at the top of the pile as well.

Claire Bown:

Sometimes that can feel a little bit uncomfortable to sit with something

Claire Bown:

that you don't always immediately see a way through or how that might work.

Claire Bown:

But sticking with it and really thinking about how we can perhaps sit with.

Claire Bown:

That feeling of discomfort for a little bit and push past

Claire Bown:

that instinctive reaction.

Claire Bown:

And I feel we sometimes do that very much in the museum as well.

Claire Bown:

If we're looking at something, particularly art that perhaps we

Claire Bown:

don't have an immediate reaction to or something that we have a cold reaction

Claire Bown:

to, then we can push past it by taking a little bit of time to sit with it and

Claire Bown:

seeing what happens, what comes up if we spend a little bit more time with it.

Claire Bown:

So, exactly.

Claire Bown:

Yeah.

Menka Sanghvi:

The one card, for example, called shatter.

Menka Sanghvi:

And the prompt is find a moving shadow and it's really clear, really specific.

Menka Sanghvi:

And uh, the other day someone had that card and they said,

Menka Sanghvi:

it just is nothing moving.

Menka Sanghvi:

And then they realized that they were moving and they became really

Menka Sanghvi:

fascinated with their own shadow.

Menka Sanghvi:

It was like that Peter Pan situation where they started photographing

Menka Sanghvi:

and leaning into their own shadow.

Menka Sanghvi:

But yeah, it's that permission and that encouragement to go a little bit longer.

Menka Sanghvi:

Go past that.

Menka Sanghvi:

Point of discomfort and just ease into it, not take yourself too seriously.

Claire Bown:

Yeah.

Claire Bown:

And see what happens as well.

Claire Bown:

What happens.

Claire Bown:

I love that phrase.

Claire Bown:

You've been extremely busy in the past year or so.

Claire Bown:

You've also released a book, your Best Digital Life, and I loved reading

Claire Bown:

about how our digital habits, how our phone use, particularly our being

Claire Bown:

online all the time, can really affect the way we see and pay attention.

Claire Bown:

So can you perhaps.

Claire Bown:

Talk a little bit about this idea of algorithmic seeing versus

Claire Bown:

the more slow offline looking that we were just talking about.

Menka Sanghvi:

Yes.

Menka Sanghvi:

Yeah, so we were talking about filters earlier, attentional filters, and

Menka Sanghvi:

at the moment, because we spend a third of our waking lives in digital

Menka Sanghvi:

environments, and these days our filters come from those digital environments

Menka Sanghvi:

and the information presented to us.

Menka Sanghvi:

It is very compelling.

Menka Sanghvi:

It appeals to our sense of urgency or social connection, or fear of missing

Menka Sanghvi:

out our need for companionship.

Menka Sanghvi:

This is where social media and AI comes in and meets our human needs, and it's

Menka Sanghvi:

important to remember that this is happening to us because we're human.

Menka Sanghvi:

And to be kind to ourself when we're wondering why is it that my

Menka Sanghvi:

attention is so easily manipulated by these apps, these feeds, and I think

Menka Sanghvi:

it's very easy to trade our agency over our attention for convenience.

Menka Sanghvi:

So any practice that helps us to slow down, reclaim that control, that

Menka Sanghvi:

agency, our capacity to make a choice.

Menka Sanghvi:

Is really important in these times.

Menka Sanghvi:

And so this book, your Best Digital Life is all about aligning your

Menka Sanghvi:

attention with your intention.

Menka Sanghvi:

So I sometimes say algorithms amplify our least intentional

Menka Sanghvi:

selves because everything is so slippery and convenient that we end

Menka Sanghvi:

up in a behavioral patterns that.

Menka Sanghvi:

Are kinda designed for us rather than doing what we think

Menka Sanghvi:

is important in the moment.

Menka Sanghvi:

And to take an example from the book, like you can just pick up your phone

Menka Sanghvi:

to check what time it is and then.

Menka Sanghvi:

20 minutes later, you're wondering why you are posting a story on

Menka Sanghvi:

Instagram, like, what happened?

Menka Sanghvi:

And it's because it's designed to do that to us.

Menka Sanghvi:

And so to just take a moment to slow down before picking it up, knowing that

Menka Sanghvi:

it's a very slippery and manipulative environment that we're entering into.

Menka Sanghvi:

So what is it that we wanted look at right now when we're picking up the phone?

Claire Bown:

And I think you also wrote that even having your phone.

Claire Bown:

I'm looking at my phone now and uh, even though it's face down on

Claire Bown:

the desk, it's still attracting our attention in some way.

Claire Bown:

Even it's mere presence.

Claire Bown:

Even if I can't see the screen or there's no notifications going off, it's

Claire Bown:

doing something to us at the same time.

Menka Sanghvi:

Yes.

Menka Sanghvi:

Yeah.

Menka Sanghvi:

The phone has taken a very high position in our attentional filters.

Menka Sanghvi:

Like it's up there with our name and our sense of home.

Menka Sanghvi:

And so because of that, the phone has a tug on your attention.

Menka Sanghvi:

If it's on your desk, if it's face down, if it's in a bag under

Menka Sanghvi:

your desk, if it's switched off.

Menka Sanghvi:

But if it's out of the room and it's switched off, then you start getting

Menka Sanghvi:

back to your normal cognitive functions.

Menka Sanghvi:

So

Claire Bown:

if we're using our phone as a camera, when we're out and about, does

Claire Bown:

it have the same kind of pull for us?

Claire Bown:

'cause I'm just thinking, sometimes I'm using my camera to zoom in on

Claire Bown:

things, to look at things, and then I might get distracted by something

Claire Bown:

else and having to pull myself back to what I was originally doing.

Claire Bown:

I've opened it up and I feel then that there's this kind of Pandora's box effect

Claire Bown:

where you kind of, you try not to get dragged into your phone at the same time.

Menka Sanghvi:

Yeah.

Menka Sanghvi:

Yeah.

Menka Sanghvi:

I am a big proponent of single purpose devices generally, so it just makes it

Menka Sanghvi:

easier for my brain to know what I'm doing if the tool itself is telling me.

Menka Sanghvi:

Right now you're taking photographs.

Menka Sanghvi:

Right now you're listening to music.

Menka Sanghvi:

Right now you're reading a book, and right now you're connecting with an

Menka Sanghvi:

old friend or I was talking to my.

Menka Sanghvi:

Teenage niece the other day about her phone relationship.

Menka Sanghvi:

But one counterintuitive piece of advice I gave her was maybe you need another phone,

Menka Sanghvi:

like, because there's so many things that you need to do on your phone, but

Menka Sanghvi:

there's other things that you only wanna do once in a while, maybe once a day.

Menka Sanghvi:

Like checking your socials or reading your substack or like just

Menka Sanghvi:

to be really intentional about what you're doing, basically.

Menka Sanghvi:

It sometimes is easier if your physical environment is giving

Menka Sanghvi:

you some support in that.

Claire Bown:

And I think there's a real through line with your work here as well,

Claire Bown:

because it's thinking about intention and attention, which is always how I

Claire Bown:

describe slow looking and thinking about intentional phone use and where we place

Claire Bown:

our attention is incredibly important.

Claire Bown:

Something you talk about in this book.

Menka Sanghvi:

Yeah, we talked about algorithmic looking.

Menka Sanghvi:

Yeah.

Menka Sanghvi:

Versus this intentional looking.

Menka Sanghvi:

And the main difference is that when you are being kinda guided by algorithms as

Menka Sanghvi:

to what to look at, you are in a passive mode, you're consuming information.

Menka Sanghvi:

Whereas when you are out looking, whether you are just being curious

Menka Sanghvi:

or taking photographs or in a museum, you are in an active mindset.

Menka Sanghvi:

You're curating information so you, you're much more aware on

Menka Sanghvi:

a kind of metacognitive level.

Menka Sanghvi:

You're noticing what you're noticing, and so you realize like, oh, I find

Menka Sanghvi:

this painting really interesting.

Menka Sanghvi:

I wonder why.

Menka Sanghvi:

And you're curious about your own attention at that point.

Menka Sanghvi:

So that keeps you really active and engaged.

Menka Sanghvi:

So I think that's the main difference, is kinda the passive scrolling and consuming

Menka Sanghvi:

versus the active curating of information and deciding what you wanna lean in.

Menka Sanghvi:

On and pay more attention to.

Claire Bown:

And do you have any other practical tips for kind of bringing that

Claire Bown:

freshness back to our way of looking?

Claire Bown:

Is there perhaps one piece of advice you would give to listeners to do when they

Claire Bown:

finish listening to this conversation?

Menka Sanghvi:

So one piece of advice is to really think carefully

Menka Sanghvi:

about what you wanna notice more of in your life at any one moment.

Menka Sanghvi:

So for example, today I'm going for a walk at lunchtime and I

Menka Sanghvi:

want to notice my neighborhood.

Menka Sanghvi:

I'm probably gonna leave my phone at home, but yesterday I really wanted to enjoy the

Menka Sanghvi:

birds and so I took my phone along with me and I have this thing called Merlin.

Menka Sanghvi:

It's an app.

Menka Sanghvi:

Oh yeah.

Menka Sanghvi:

Which tells me which birds I can hear and.

Menka Sanghvi:

It just made me feel so much more connected to the wildlife

Menka Sanghvi:

and so there's no one right way.

Menka Sanghvi:

And the challenge is making sure that we're really staying aligned

Menka Sanghvi:

to our, so one thing that I've really learned from studying

Menka Sanghvi:

technology and how easily influenced we are is that there's something.

Menka Sanghvi:

In the human nature, which is resistant to friction.

Menka Sanghvi:

You know, we always lean towards convenience, which makes sense, like why

Menka Sanghvi:

would we wanna do the inconvenient thing?

Menka Sanghvi:

But the challenge is that sometimes having convenience defined for us

Menka Sanghvi:

isn't aligned with our intention.

Menka Sanghvi:

And so I started playing with this idea of like adding

Menka Sanghvi:

strategic friction into my life.

Menka Sanghvi:

And so, for example, having devices that only allow me to do one thing on them

Menka Sanghvi:

makes it harder for me to do those other.

Menka Sanghvi:

You described as a Pandora's box of options of things to do.

Menka Sanghvi:

So the prompts, the 60 experiments and looking are similar in the sense

Menka Sanghvi:

that they're adding friction to what you would normally want to look at.

Menka Sanghvi:

And they're saying, Hey Ashley, why don't you go look at a shadow

Menka Sanghvi:

or go look at the light or go look at strangers walking past.

Menka Sanghvi:

It's not always comfortable.

Menka Sanghvi:

It's not always what you want to do, convenient in the moment,

Menka Sanghvi:

but it gives you that meaningful friction, which takes you to a new

Menka Sanghvi:

place and opens up your perspective.

Menka Sanghvi:

So I think that the design world and the tech world's aim to create

Menka Sanghvi:

a completely frictionless experience of life is a little bit scary because

Menka Sanghvi:

it's what differentiates us from.

Menka Sanghvi:

Being a machine, if everything that we do is predictable and we're always

Menka Sanghvi:

taking the path of least resistance, which is what makes us predictable,

Menka Sanghvi:

and there's a quote by Wendell Berry, which I love, which is that it's easy

Menka Sanghvi:

for me to imagine that the next great division of the world will be between

Menka Sanghvi:

people who wish to live as creatures.

Menka Sanghvi:

And people who wish to live as machines creature, please.

Menka Sanghvi:

That's what I would say.

Claire Bown:

Thank you for sharing that.

Claire Bown:

I'd love, uh, to ask you a couple of final questions.

Claire Bown:

The first one is always looking to the future.

Claire Bown:

What's next for you?

Claire Bown:

What have you got coming up?

Claire Bown:

And the last question is, how can people find out more about you and get in touch?

Menka Sanghvi:

Thanks for asking.

Menka Sanghvi:

I'm growing.

Menka Sanghvi:

Just looking at the moment and working on a series of books, each one's focused

Menka Sanghvi:

on an aspect of everyday life that is so easy to overlook, but it can be a source

Menka Sanghvi:

of wonder and meaning and connection.

Menka Sanghvi:

So lots of opportunities to collaborate with photographers, with experts, with the

Menka Sanghvi:

people who are really passionate about.

Menka Sanghvi:

Different ordinary sightings.

Menka Sanghvi:

And so yeah, we're looking at pigeons and the London Planetree

Menka Sanghvi:

and Moss and all kinds of stuff.

Menka Sanghvi:

Call to action would be to join the just Looking newsletter noticing,

Menka Sanghvi:

and email me if you're interested in stocking the 60 experiments and looking.

Menka Sanghvi:

And yeah, come and hang out with us on Instagram or Blue Sky, but

Menka Sanghvi:

obviously do it intentionally.

Claire Bown:

Thank you so much for sharing those.

Claire Bown:

We will put links in the show notes and thank you Menka for

Claire Bown:

coming on the podcast today.

Menka Sanghvi:

You're very welcome.

Menka Sanghvi:

It was a pleasure to speak to you.

Claire Bown:

So a huge thank you to Menka for being on the show today.

Claire Bown:

You can find out more about Menka and her work by signing up for

Claire Bown:

the Just Looking newsletter at We are Just looking.org or follow the

Claire Bown:

project on Instagram and Blue Sky.

Claire Bown:

If you are interested in stocking the 60 experiments in looking cards

Claire Bown:

in your museum shop, you can reach Menka on her email address, which

Claire Bown:

I've listed in the show notes.

Claire Bown:

Also go to the show notes for all the relevant links for today's episode.

Claire Bown:

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Claire Bown:

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Claire Bown:

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Claire Bown:

That's it for today and for 2025, I'll be taking December off and The

Claire Bown:

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Claire Bown:

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Claire Bown:

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Claire Bown:

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Claire Bown:

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Claire Bown:

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