Tense and release, a countdown from ten, then a slow walk by a river where you throw the day in.
About 25 minutes, tense and release first. Only listen where it is safe to sleep.
Write down anything pressing before you start. The mind treats a written thing as handled. Then tense and release through the body, which is the part that actually gets you to sleep, then the countdown, then the bench by the river. Every thought that no longer serves you goes in the water. If you miss the instructions, that is it working.
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My name is Steven Webb and welcome to my sleep meditation.
Steven Webb:Before we begin, please make sure you are in a position you can safely fall asleep. This meditation is not
Steven Webb:designed to be listened to while driving or doing anything that needs your attention.
Steven Webb:If you have anything on your mind that you need to do, now is a good time to write it
Steven Webb:down. Your mind will then know you have taken care of it. Certainly make sure the room is not
Steven Webb:too hot and ideally you are nicely hydrated with water for the night ahead.
Steven Webb:I'll give you a few minutes to get comfortable. This means in a position you are happy to fall asleep.
Steven Webb:It doesn't matter if you hear every word I say or you miss some.
Steven Webb:Just the same, it doesn't matter if you follow these instructions exactly. The idea is to fall asleep.
Steven Webb:To
Steven Webb:allow your conscious mind to let go.
Steven Webb:Your subconscious mind will still continue to listen to me as you gently drift off to sleep.
Steven Webb:Let's do some stretches.
Steven Webb:Let's start with your feet and your legs.
Steven Webb:Stretch them out and hold them.
Steven Webb:Hold them and relax.
Steven Webb:Now let's stretch your arms and your hands and
Steven Webb:hold them.
Steven Webb:Hold them and
Steven Webb:relax.
Steven Webb:Now let's stretch your back and your shoulders.
Steven Webb:Hold it. Hold
Steven Webb:it. And relax.
Steven Webb:Now let's stretch your neck.
Steven Webb:Hold It
Steven Webb:Hold it. And
Steven Webb:relax.
Steven Webb:Now we'll stretch everything.
Steven Webb:And hold it. Hold
Steven Webb:it. And
Steven Webb:relax.
Steven Webb:Now you should be able to settle back into your position.
Steven Webb:The muscles should be more relaxed than before.
Steven Webb:Now gently scan through your body, searching for any muscles that are still tense.
Steven Webb:Starting from your feet, working up through your legs.
Steven Webb:It doesn't matter how you scan through your body.
Steven Webb:Don't forget to relax your eyes and your face muscles.
Steven Webb:In a moment we're going to start taking notice of your breathing.
Steven Webb:Just breathe normally.
Steven Webb:And on the in breath you will breathe in calmness
Steven Webb:And when you breathe out,
Steven Webb:breathe out relaxing.
Steven Webb:So in your mind, just think calm when you breathe in and
Steven Webb:relax when you breathe out.
Steven Webb:Now slow your breathing down.
Steven Webb:Try to make it as deep as you can.
Steven Webb:When we are asleep, we breathe from the base of our abdomen.
Steven Webb:We breathe with our diaphragm.
Steven Webb:The slower and deeper you breathe now,
Steven Webb:you will start the process off before going sleep.
Steven Webb:This will help your mind to
Steven Webb:realise What
Steven Webb:you want to do.
Steven Webb:Every time you breathe out,
Steven Webb:relax more muscles.
Steven Webb:Your mind might keep wandering.
Steven Webb:That's okay. That's perfectly normal.
Steven Webb:Whenever you notice it wander, just give it a gentle smile and bring it back to the breathing.
Steven Webb:Remember, breathe in calmness and breathe out to relax.
Steven Webb:When your mind starts slowly closing down,
Steven Webb:we'll start the journey into a deep sleep.
Steven Webb:If you are already drifting off, that's good.
Steven Webb:Don't fight it. Don't try to stay awake. And don't fight trying
Steven Webb:to relax. Just
Steven Webb:allow it to naturally occur.
Steven Webb:It doesn't matter if you miss any of my instructions.
Steven Webb:The idea is to close the mind down.
Steven Webb:You see, in deep sleep your conscious mind is turned off.
Steven Webb:Your subconscious mind takes over. And
Steven Webb:that's fine.
Steven Webb:We just need to let the subconscious mind know
Steven Webb:not to interrupt the conscious mind
Steven Webb:And to allow the conscious mind to drift into a deep sleep.
Steven Webb:In a few moments, we're going to count back from 10
Steven Webb:And each time we are going to relax even more
Steven Webb:And allow the muscles to become very
Steven Webb:heavy and
Steven Webb:you'll sink into the bed in a really deep and relaxing manner.
Steven Webb:So that's on your next deep breath, as
Steven Webb:you breathe out,
Steven Webb:relax deeper.
Steven Webb:Let's start at number 10.
Steven Webb:And with this breath, we're going to hold it for a few seconds. And
Steven Webb:let's breathe in deep.
Steven Webb:And now relax as you take. Slowly breathe out.
Steven Webb:Nine. The
Steven Webb:whole body will go heavier and sink even deeper in the bed as you breathe out.
Steven Webb:Number Eight. This is where the tension in your face starts falling away.
Steven Webb:Number Seven.
Steven Webb:Parts of your mind are now closing down and getting ready to sleep for the night.
Steven Webb:You can imagine them turning off.
Steven Webb:If you feel uncomfortable or you have an itch, just
Steven Webb:gently sort it.
Steven Webb:There's no need to suffer. This is about naturally relaxing.
Steven Webb:Number Six. Remember
Steven Webb:to keep your breathing slow and deep.
Steven Webb:Breathing in calm. Breathing out relaxed.
Steven Webb:Number five.
Steven Webb:Remember we are breathing from my diaphragm
Steven Webb:right in the pit of our tummy
Steven Webb:before Our arms and legs are gonna sink deeper into the bed.
Steven Webb:Number three. You are now part of the bed.
Steven Webb:The pillow and the bed. It
Steven Webb:is holding you comfortably and securely for the night ahead.
Steven Webb:Number three. You are now at one with the bed.
Steven Webb:Number two. You are now so deeply relaxed it is almost impossible
Steven Webb:to move. Every
Steven Webb:muscle, every thought is slow and relaxed.
Steven Webb:Number one. You
Steven Webb:should now feel more relaxed and secure and comfortable than you ever have.
Steven Webb:Parts of your mind are now shut down. Your body is now ready for a
Steven Webb:deep sleep.
Steven Webb:I'm going to take your subconscious mind on a small journey so
Steven Webb:it allows your conscious mind to carry on in a deep sleep.
Steven Webb:This journey requires nothing more but your awareness. No muscles. No thoughts. Just
Steven Webb:really slow breathing. And just your subconscious mind being aware of this deep mindless journey.
Steven Webb:While your conscious mind is switched off and in deep sleep, your subconscious mind sorts
Steven Webb:out the day's thoughts and feelings. And that is what we're going to start to do now. We're
Steven Webb:going to take a walk along a nice relaxing river.
Steven Webb:It's flowing slowly down our left side.
Steven Webb:You can hear the birds, but
Steven Webb:it's just you, the gentle noise of the stream and the wildlife around.
Steven Webb:After a while, you find a bench just on the bank facing the river.
Steven Webb:As you approach the bench, you feel the need to sit down and relax.
Steven Webb:You're feeling very tired.
Steven Webb:You've had a long day
Steven Webb:And your conscious mind needs a rest
Steven Webb:While your subconscious mind
Steven Webb:sorts everything out ready for a great day tomorrow.
Steven Webb:This is your opportunity to remove all those negative and destructive thoughts by
Steven Webb:throwing each one in the river as it arises.
Steven Webb:Every single time you throw a thought that does not agree with a happy positive self,
Steven Webb:it changes your mind colour from a bright yellow red To a nice blue
Steven Webb:relaxing colour.
Steven Webb:You're giving your subconscious mind permission to throw these things out.
Steven Webb:They no longer serve your purpose.
Steven Webb:They don't have to be part of your thinking.
Steven Webb:Your mind is now almost totally turned off.
Steven Webb:Apart from a few little blue specks of
Steven Webb:awareness.
Steven Webb:These are just there to keep you safe while you're in a deep sleep.
Steven Webb:Nothing will happen to you.
Steven Webb:You are perfectly safe and secure.