Each of us has multiple events, choices and people that define our life. According to Dr Phil, there are 10 defining moments, 7 critical choices, and 5 pivotal people in each person's life.
Many people simply allow these things to "happen to them". But for someone who want to live a truly impactful life of liberty, you MUST consciously choose those moments, choices, and people from this point forward.
In the past you simply allowed your circumstances to dictate your life, from now on you will intentionally make the choices in life to create the circumstances you desire.