Courageous Destiny delves into the transformative journey of building a life and business that truly resonates with one's inner desires. Kristin Crockett, the host, passionately emphasizes the importance of defining and articulating what we truly want in various areas of our lives.

Drawing from her experiences and insights, she introduces the Courageous Destiny "Be" program, encouraging listeners to adopt a conscious approach to their goals.

The episode highlights the necessity of being specific when setting objectives, steering away from vague aspirations like 'being happy' or 'being free' towards concrete, actionable outcomes. Kristin shares her personal journey of growth and the evolution of her program, illustrating how clarity in one's goals can lead to meaningful results.

With practical advice, she urges listeners to write down their desires, leveraging the power of intention and action to manifest their dreams. This engaging narrative encourages self-exploration and emphasizes that the key to success lies in understanding and pursuing one's unique courageous destiny.

Takeaways:

• Courageous Destiny encourages individuals to define what they truly desire in life.
• Writing down your goals increases the likelihood of achieving them by 80%.
• To live consciously, one must align thoughts and actions with desired outcomes.
• Identifying personal values is crucial in designing a fulfilling and purposeful life.
• Becoming the master creator of your own "Courageous Destiny" requires conscious awareness and actions.
• Taking inspired aligned action consistently can transform your aspirations into reality.

Foreign and welcome to the Courageous Destiny build a business and life you love podcast.

I am your hostess, Kristen Crockett, and I am elated to come on today and have a conversation about something that I have been creating in Courageous Destiny.

And the program and series of programs is Courageous Destiny B.

And the premise is to be your courageous destiny.

Now, be it through action, be it through thoughts, be it through the decisions that you make, be it in all kinds of ways that you create to get those things in, in life that you want.

So Courageous destiny, for those of you who's like, okay, that's, that's cool, it sounds fun, but really what Courageous destiny is is what you want in your business and in your life.

So when you look out at your life and you look out at your business, what are those courageous things that you really want to bring into the world that are important to you?

And once you're able.

One of the first steps that I have with incoming clients, with people that I talk to at my events and all those things is this inability many times to not be able to articulate what they want in various areas of life.

I remember going to a Jack Canfield event years ago, and I remember Jack saying, jack, please don't quote me on this, but I'm pretty sure this is exactly what you said.

And it was, if you write it down, it's 80% more likely to happen than if you don't.

And so what really became and how Courageous Destiny evolved is I was very much in my life the type of person that would find something and just do it.

I'm a doer by nature, which is actually some really great qualities to have.

But I wasn't that great of a planner.

And over the years, I've learned that in order for me to do and really have the results that I want, I have to do in a specific direction.

I have to do an act toward those things in life that I want.

Otherwise, my results are random.

Now, there's nothing wrong with random results.

You can live your life randomly and, and live a happy, go lucky life.

And you don't have to decide that you want to live consciously, let's call it living consciously.

You can decide that whatever happens, happens, and that's it.

Again, there's nothing wrong with that.

But if you are wanting something more in your life, if you're wanting higher, more meaningful results, elevated results in your life, then you need to add consciousness to the way that you think and add consciousness to the way that you dream.

Add consciousness to the way that you design Your life.

So in courageous destiny, the first step, and really without this first step, it can be very difficult.

But it is to define those areas of life that are important to you.

And I say important to you because not all areas of life are important to everybody else.

I've seen people that cars are really important to them and they live about cars.

They love Ferraris and they love all these really high end vehicles that might not be important to somebody else, but for that person and that having being one of their passions, then that's part of what I would create in their courageous destiny.

What car do you want?

What cars do you want to see in your garage?

When you open up the garage door?

What kind of garage do you want?

You know, all of those kinds of things.

So for example, for me, God is a very important part of my life.

It always has to start at the top.

And that's what I feel is most important for me.

Now I'm not here to have a religious conversation or debate.

It certainly, you know, is a personal preference.

But I will say having a higher power in God has been one of the things in my life that has allowed me to be my courageous destiny.

Because when otherwise I.

It really does help me trust.

So I'll plant that seed for who, whoever needs to hear that.

So it could be your spirituality and whatever that means to you.

It could be your area of life, could be your family, right?

The relationships in your family, your relationship with yourself, right.

Your, your element.

You know, there's always an element of self love.

And to me self love is an area, one area of life to me that's so, so important is full self expression.

That might not be somebody else's area of life, but that's one of my areas of life.

Because to me everything happens with my voice and my ability to create with the power of my words.

So you know, other areas of life I'll just go through.

Ones that I've worked with.

People on are certainly having money, you know, having money, making money.

So wealth is different than generating income, you know, so in making money, that might be sales.

And those of you who know me know I have a gigantic background and has been very successful in sales, but I would also say very successful in authentic loving sales.

I believe that.

I believe that sales comes from the heart or it can come from the heart and it can be very powerful and can help lots and lots of people.

So to me, my full self expression helps me with a lot of those things.

So I'm going to encourage you to don't Take it from me.

What areas of life are important to me?

But one really great place to start might be with ChatGPT even, right?

What are the areas of life?

You'll see a whole bunch come up.

Which ones are important to me.

So that's a pro tip for you today.

I also have many different worksheets and things that I coach from, but it also works to just chatgpt it and start that way.

You can also Google it.

You can find many different things that people of spirituality and great consciousness have put together to help elevate the way that you think about your life.

And certainly if you're thinking about areas of life and you're a little stuck, you can also reach out to me.

So it starts with being able to design your life.

So one of the things I do in courageous destiny is I dare you to live your courageous destiny.

And D.A.R.E.

is an acronym.

So the first step is to design.

The second step is, once you have the design, is to be able to understand what aligns, what actions and thoughts align with that design and which ones don't.

So to create an element of discernment.

And then I will always say rewire, rewiring those programs, those thoughts, those decisions that are conscious and unconscious, that don't move us forward toward the design.

And then keep expanding, keep expanding.

Your courageous destiny.

One of my favorite things when I'm talking about courageous destiny is to to say is from the heart, rage destiny.

Because core is French for from the heart rage destiny.

So in order to be your courageous destiny, to go back to that concept of be courageous destiny, be, you need to know what your design is.

You need to know where you're going, and you don't need to spend a lot of time on it.

It could be sitting down and writing down a few things that you want, and that's the start of the design.

You don't have to make it elaborate.

You don't have to go out and buy a fancy journal, though I love fanc fancy journals.

You don't have to put any obstacles in your way.

You can just choose even one thing courageously that you want in your life.

So when I sit down at an event and with new clients and with new people that I'm talking to about courageous destiny, one of the most difficult things is to quantify and put in a metrics those things that they want.

And I like to say, please put arms and legs on the things that you want any way you can.

So many times I will hear, I want to be happy.

I want to Be courageous.

I want to be free in my life.

Those are beautiful, beautiful things.

Absolutely beautiful, beautiful things.

But what I wanted to take it a step farther and go, okay, well, those are really beautiful things.

But if I take this a step farther, what do an expanded amount of courage, an expanded amount of happiness and expanded amount of fulfillment bring to me in my life?

Does it bring to me a new job position, A promotion?

Does it bring to me better relationships?

Does it bring to me mended relationships?

Does it bring to me my purpose in life?

Does it bring to me my, you know, my ability to make more money and relate to people on a higher level?

So you want to try to get really, really specific.

We've all heard about smart goals.

Again, you can Google smart goals.

It's a great way to write goals.

I just like to people to tune into their heart and make the goals courageous and make.

Make what they want in life really come from them and what's important to them without having to look at the rest of the world.

And this is the second part of B.

How do you tune into you?

We have distractions all over the place.

And if you're anything like me, they start from the second you open your eyes and your puppy or your dog or an animal says, I have to go outside.

That used to be my kids, right?

I want bottle, I want breakfast.

I want this, I want that.

And many times in my life, I'll hit the ground running from the time I wake up and, you know, and sometimes the best laid plan, so then I go to wake up maybe an hour earlier, and then the distraction could be my phone, you know, oh, what happened overnight?

Instead of, can it wait an hour?

Right.

It'll be what happened overnight.

So finding ways to tune into you and the things that you really want, the things that are really important to you, which is not always the easiest thing, because when you start, if you say the things that you want are an onion, you start peeling back the layers.

Sometimes there are things that you think you should do or you should want.

Are they things you really want?

You know, I've talked to millionaires who really just want to live on their own private island and be done.

I've talked to millionaires who want to become billionaires.

I've talked to people who really want to have an amazing, you know, amazing bonds with their family and boundaries, and that would make their life very different.

What does that look like?

Does it look like you talking to a certain member of the family?

Does it look like making a certain dollar amount?

Right.

Really, really Honoring ourselves to understand what we really, really want and getting rid and spending some quiet time with ourselves is really critical.

And then the other thing to be is once you really get clear on what you want, how do you be it?

How do you embody the actions that generate those things that you want?

So, for example, one of the things that I really want is to take this podcast to the next level, to engage maybe first thousands and then millions of people.

And for I have things that are in my heart that I think could make really big impact from the journey that I've had and the work that I've done with thousands of people.

And I want to get out there.

So how do I be it?

Well, one of the ways I decided to be it was recording my first solo podcast and my own podcast in a while.

So that's one of the ways that I.

I really chose was an aligned action to what I want, which is that podcast that gets elevated and shared with people around the world because they really resonate with it.

And.

And they.

They know and they can feel my authenticity and my heart in the podcast.

So that's one way I can be it.

You know, one of the things that I want is I want to be on stage.

And I have this image of myself this year doing nights of courageous destiny and really moving around freely on stage without pain and with flexibility and fun.

And so how do I embody that?

How do I be that now?

Well, to be that now would be to start to work on my flexibility.

So I started to work on this fun project of.

I call it the heel stretch project, because I used to be a dancer, and I loved doing.

I always loved how I felt when I did a heel stretch.

I always felt like I was doing something maybe a lot of people couldn't do that made me feel powerful and flexible, like I had accomplished something.

So I'm starting to practice heel stretches again.

I want a strong core.

So I started practicing planks again.

And it's not coming from necessarily.

It doesn't look pretty at first.

It feels a lot like I'm a toddler again, relearning all these things that I once knew in a new body.

I'm 50 years old, and it's not that I believe that there are no limits with age, and there's a different set of experiments and different ways to have our body do the things we want it to do.

So I'm experimenting, and in that experimenting is the way that I am choosing to be my courageous destiny.

And my ultimate target, again, is to Be free.

Free on stage, dancing around, pain free in a way that I feel good about.

So I want you to notice that these are things that I'm creating in becoming my courageous destiny.

And we can create and be the master creators of our own courageous destiny.

It's one of my very favorite, what I call conscious choices that I make.

Right.

It's a decision, it's an affirmation that I make.

I am the master creator of my own courageous destiny.

And I always empower my clients to also take that on in their own way.

And when people understand that they are the master creator, they step into that more and more and they embody that idea.

Everything on their want list is possible.

One step, one aligned action, one inspired aligned action at a time.

And the only time they have to be the master creator of their own courageous destiny is right now.

So who's.

Who's ever listening this and choose to listen to this today.

I want to create that possibility in your life.

I want you, I want you to consider creating that possibility in your life that you are the master creator of your own courageous destiny.

I want to inspire you to write down a couple of things that you really want that might be courageous.

That might be one of those things that you're afraid to put down because if you put down and you don't do it, you're going to be disappointed in yourself.

Is that just.

That's one of those decisions that get to be rewired.

Remember the DARE design?

Align, rewire and expand.

You get to put down whatever you want.

Whatever you want is 80% more likely to happen if you write it down.

Thank you, Jen Canfield, for that.

So consider writing something down.

And then I want you to consider what would be aligned action to that.

How could I be my courageous destiny right now?

How could I be that thing that I want?

What is the energy of that thing that I want?

How does it make me feel when I think about celebrating that thing that I want in my life?

Are there actions that can generate that feeling of me celebrating that thing that I want?

Can I be it now?

See, many times we're creating our life from the past and what's possible and who we think we are and the way the world works?

I can't tell you how many times I hear things like, well, I'm not a salesperson.

I'm not that type of person who does those things.

And in my mind, I think you are the master creator of your own courageous destiny.

If you want that thing that you say that you want, watch who you say you are, because that gets in the way.

That gets in the way and slows you down.

So you.

You have the opportunity to take whatever it is that you think about it and train your unconscious mind through aligned actions toward those things that you want.

And one aligned action is going to be to think about what you want all the time, on purpose.

I want to leave you guys with this.

And I really want you to consider 95% of the way that you think is not conscious.

To you, that means to be a conscious creator, to be the master creator of your own courageous destiny, you need to bring yourself awake and aware of where your thoughts and your actions are guiding you.

You have the ability to create your courageous destiny right now.

Wherever you've been, you get a fresh start.

The only time you can do it is right now.

So anything that would stop you from the mind from moving forward or judging yourself as the type of person that would do something, you know, do an action or not do an action, those kinds of things, that's all in the past.

It's just all in the past.

Anything that you would think about that would be likely to create your courageous, like, this is the action that's going to generate this result.

That's in the future.

The only time you have is right now.

Well, I think this is a great aligned action.

Let me do it.

Let me do it now.

Let me do it now.

Let me do it now.

And that is what courageous destiny B is all about.

It's taking inspired aligned action, now having inspired aligned thoughts, now having inspired aligned awareness about where you're leading yourself and being that master creator of your own courageous destiny.

Now, with that said, I'm going to ask myself the two questions that I ask everybody on my podcast.

What is the most courageous thing I've ever done?

And I can honestly say it is.

Without any of this work, without any consciousness or awareness or mindset awareness.

Having triplets.

Having triplets is the most courageous thing that I've ever done.

And going through seven years of infertility, if anybody's ever been on that journey, it's an emotional one.

And I can't imagine how things would have been different.

But I will tell you, the last time I went through in vitro, I.

That was my first introduction.

I had a neighbor friend of mine who was a very colorful person.

She was so much fun.

And she brought over the secret.

And that was my first step into the law of attraction.

And I can't say that everything resonated with me in that movie, but the one Thing that did was I decided that day that I was going to be a mom.

And I went through my fourth in vitro fertilization knowing I was going to be a mom.

And I believed it.

I found ways to think about it.

I thought about it all the time.

I thought about it in my heart, all of those things.

And at the end of the day, I'm very clear.

It's always God's will.

But I know that it got me through emotionally.

So I would say that was definitely creating that mindset that I was going to be a mom.

After several miscarriages, after, you know, that whole seven years of infertility and always wanting to be a mom, that was probably the most courageous thing I've ever done.

And then I would say the most courageous thing on my bucket list is, is to get up on a stage full of thousands of people.

Maybe it's streamed and it's millions of people.

Maybe it's getting up on a Netflix show.

I don't even know.

But it's going to be being my courageous destiny.

Be my courageous destiny with the full on courageous outfit that's gorgeous and beautiful and really has that inner glow that.

That is me stand out and feel just so amazing.

And maybe I really like the way Pink looks in the Trust Fall video.

So if you guys ever listen to that, that song Trust Fall, which I'm going to highly recommend, music as a tool to live your courageous destiny and a way that you can help practice the feeling of arriving at your courageous destiny and a way for you to keep your spirits up and keep your energy elevated.

But if you look at that Trust Ball video, she's in this, like, pink outfit.

It's her hair.

It's everything.

My version of that.

That's what I want.

And that would be really courageous for me.

So with that said, I want again, inspire you to live your courageous destiny now to know that this is the only time you have to be it.

You don't have tomorrow.

It's not promised.

One of the biggest.

The biggest lies we tell ourselves is that we know, you know, we've got till tomorrow.

We can do it tomorrow.

We can do it tomorrow.

Or I can't do that because this happened before, right?

No, you have right now.

You have right now to take action right now to take inspired action right now to generate new results in your life.

And it can start with something as simple as writing down what you want.

All right?

With that, if anybody is interested in Courageous Destiny B, this is a private program and it is also a group coaching program.

The group coaching program launches early February and I'm going to have my my first cohort after 12 years of being a coach and creating different programs for people.

This is the one.

This is the one where you get to be your courageous destiny right now.

Right from the jump.

Right from the jump.

So if this is a concept that inspires you, I will tell you that people who have, you know, worked with me have done things like write the book, done the TEDx talk, elevate the business, start the passion based business, write their life's purpose, lose hundreds of pounds, all of it.

Right?

That's courageous destiny.

It's everything that you want.

And I've helped thousands at this point and been a courageous stand for everybody that I mean that whatever they want in life is important.

And what's most important when you know what you want, is to be it.

With that said, I love you all.

Live courageously.

And until next time.

Oh, and if you're interested in be, feel free to PM me.

PM me at Kristen Michelle on Facebook or you can certainly add into the comments of this podcast and I will reach out to you.

All right, with that said, live courageously.