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(E14) Trudie Davies: always inquisitive
Episode 144th March 2024 • Leaders with impact • Lee Griffith
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What struck me about today’s guest was how comfortable she is in the type of leader she shows up to be. As she’ll admit, it’s been a work in progress over a varied career in the NHS, but a strong sense of her values and a clear purpose to make a difference has helped to guide her in even the most challenging of times.

Today I am talking with Trudie Davies, CEO of Gateshead Health NHS Foundation Trust. We discuss:

  • moving from clinical to operational roles
  • the importance of asking questions
  • transitioning to CEO
  • staying motivated in a 30 year career
  • determining the type of leader you want to show up as
  • gaining organisational agreement and alignment for an ‘upside down’ approach to management (inspired by Timpsons)
  • responding to external factors whilst maintaining a focus on your vision
  • being an NHS leader in the face of relentless challenge, including industrial action
  • what happens if you don't lead by your values
  • how coaching and mentoring helped to navigate situations and relationships whilst finding who you want to be as a leader
  • showing up authentically
  • why her dogs are a famous face amongst colleagues
  • dealing with isolation and managing a relocation
  • advice for aspiring CEOs

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Lee Griffith:

What struck me about today's guest was how

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comfortable she is in the type of leader she shows up to be. I

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shall admit it's been a work in progress over a varied career in

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the NHS, with a strong sense of values and a clear purpose to

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make a difference has helped guide in even the most

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challenging times. I'm Lee Griffith at communication

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To find out more. Today I'm talking about Terry Davis, CEO

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of Gateshead health NHS Foundation Trust, Judy shares

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how she stayed motivated over a 30 year career, how she's got

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organizational alignment in taken an upside down approach to

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management, how she copes with being an NHS leader in the face

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of relentless challenge, and why her dog is a famous face amongst

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colleagues enjoy.

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So I'm delighted to welcome Judy Davis to the leaders of impact

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podcast. Thank you so much for joining me today. I'm going to

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jump straight in with my first question, which is what does

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impactful leadership mean to

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you? That's a really broad question, isn't it, Lee,

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because I think the impactful leadership is very much

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dependent on where you're working and what you're doing.

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And for me, as a chief executive in the NHS, impactful leadership

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is making a difference to the people I serve, whether that be

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patients or our staff, and I choose my words around who I

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serve quite carefully, because I believe that as a chief

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executive officer within the NHS, you are actually in a very

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privileged position, and that you do serve the people who work

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with you in an organization because they are the people that

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look after our patients. So an impact for me is that when I

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make a difference for them, the impactful leadership element of

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it is how I can create a culture, an environment where

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they feel able to make a difference for our patients.

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Brilliant,

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thank you. So I always like to go right back to

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the beginning of a person's kind of career and what shaped them

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as the person that they are. For you.

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Tell me a little bit about yourself, and how you've, I

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suppose, become the person that you are today. I

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currently live in the north of England, as you know,

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but that it didn't start out like that I lived as born in

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Devon, right. I was in a fairly small town in North Devon, and I

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probably had a fairly poor childhood. I learned very early

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in my childhood, that working hard, gave you results. And I

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wanted to work hard. But I came probably from a background where

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ambition wasn't really high on the agenda. I didn't have

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ambition. Nobody in my family had been to university. I just

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wanted to live a happy life really, I started to gain

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ambition when I wanted to be a nurse at the local hospital. And

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I worked hard to be a nurse. And that does indicate that there

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was some ambition. But I didn't see that as particularly

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ambitious. I saw it as something I really wanted to do. And from

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the very minute that I set foot in that hospital on the ward,

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North Devon district hospital, I found a place where I was

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immediately happy. I found that I was working with people who I

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wanted to be with who wanted to be with me. And we shared a

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common purpose, a common goal. And my ambition, that spark

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started in me then. And my ambition then started making I

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want to be a stiffness, I want to be stiffness on this ward.

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And then I wanted to be a sister on this ward. I've never thought

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far ahead. But I've always wanted to be better than what I

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am from that point onwards because I learned very quickly

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that you can do that in the NHS you can you're surrounded very

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often by people who want you to be the best that you can be

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because that gives patients a better outcome. And so my career

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started way back then. So my nurse training started in 1992.

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It was like a very long time ago.

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You've obviously stuck around in the NHS since

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then. What's kept you there?

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Oh, everything. I wouldn't work anywhere else. I

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love him. I love working in the NHS. I love working with people.

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I love the diversity of the people I work with. I love the

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diversity of the jobs that I do. I love the opportunities. I like

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the X experiences, I learned something new every day I'm

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challenged every day. I'm often annoyed every day as well. But

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you know that that's, that's the way it goes. I just feel that I

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work with people in the NHS who share a common set of values.

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And I haven't realized that till later in my career that that is

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what motivates me. Because quite often is when you work with

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people who don't share your values, that you realize what

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actually does make a difference to you in life. And actually,

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I've feel very, very attached to the NHS, and very, very proud of

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what the NHS does, in very difficult circumstances.

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And you made that shift from nursing frontline, as

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they've learned, say, into operational management, and

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you've had a really varied career. Why did you make that

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shift, I

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suppose, was unintentional, really, I think

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it comes with having curiosity. I remember as a sister on a

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stroke unit in Leeds, which is another great job, I love that,

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we would really try very hard to get the patients directly to the

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stroke unit, because their outcomes are better. Of course,

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they are, you know, these days, I know all about getting expert

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care to the right place early. But in those days, I just knew

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that the patients did better when they got to us. And I

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wanted to understand more about that process and how patients

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got their bed, handle apps through how everything happened.

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And to do that, I couldn't do that from the Ward environment

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where I was, and needed to do that by branching out a little

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bit. So I moved into service improvement. And I worked with

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the modernization agency through Leeds teaching hospitals to

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learn a lot of service improvement techniques. And as

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well as learning a lot, I also realized there was a lot I

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didn't know, which is why I realized I had no idea about how

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the hospital actually ran other than the clinical parts. I

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didn't know about waiting lists. I didn't know about booking I

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didn't know about anything like that. So I went and worked in

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trauma and Orthopaedics as a business manager and rapidly

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learned on the job. And every time I found something I didn't

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know I got another job to do it. Like that's how I worked around

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the hospital. And what's that taught

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you? I suppose you've moved into more senior

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roles. As you say, you didn't know what you didn't know,

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whilst you were moving into these roles. How's that helped

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shape you now, as the leader

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that you are? Always be inquisitive? Always ask

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questions. People will tell you people like to talk about

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themselves. People like to tell you what they know, they like to

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share their knowledge. And if you're prepared to listen, you

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will learn. And the more you ask, the more you learn, and the

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more rounded individual you are as a manager, and you begin to

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make much more informed decisions, have more informed

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conversations. But it's respectful of the people that do

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the job, who are experts already in that job that you're learning

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from them. And I learned that very, very quickly. As soon as

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you're out of your comfort zone, it's easy to feel stressed, feel

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worried, feel anxious. But in the NHS, there are experts all

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around you. There's always someone cleverer than you always

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we work with very clever people across the NHS and experts, why

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not use their expertise? And I learned that very, very early.

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Yeah,

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yeah. So over a course of about 30 years, you've

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slowly been working your way up the country. You're now in

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Gateshead. Yeah.

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Much further north.

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And you've been chief exec there for almost a

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year, is it? Yeah, almost a year, what's what's been your

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biggest learning in that transition into the chief

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executive role having been, you know, clinician into operational

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management, it must feel very different. Once again,

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it feels different, but it feels very natural. The

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differences the level of responsibility I feel for our

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staff and our patients and the drive to get that right. And

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that lives with me, but I've always had a sense of

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responsibility in the jobs that I've had, but it is particularly

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tough as chief executive, it does feel quite isolated in

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terms of that responsibility. There's also a lot that's

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familiar because it is the NHS is a hospital, I am comfortable

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in that environment, taking what I am comfortable with and making

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the effort to learn the culture here and the culture in the

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Northeast because I've come from the West Yorkshire region. So to

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move into the northeast, it's a new region as well. So it's not

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just the hospital I've moved is the region. And actually the

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networks as a chief executive are quite different. You're

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working with other chief executives and other providers,

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you're working across system in place. So all those people are

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new to me. So the hospital is really my comfort zone, I guess.

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Yeah, I hadn't thought of

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it in that way that it's not just about going

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into the new organization. You're You're the new girl in

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your part. Yeah. So what reserves have you had to pull on

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I suppose as as the new girl I've

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always got a lot of energy and enthusiasm. It

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doesn't take a lot to keep me motivated. And I get my energy

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from the familiar. I do worry, and I do have bad days. And I do

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say anything, I'll cry, kick, butt on the right thing. And you

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can get into a little bit of a negative cycle Can't you have

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anxiety and worrying if you if you just sit too much, and you

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look at a screen and rehearse the email that you maybe

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shouldn't have sent, or you should have sent, but it takes

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about five minutes to just walk across the road and go up to the

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hospital or into our community services, and have a chat with a

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few people and answer a few questions and have a cup of tea

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in the canteen. And then you feel a lot better about life.

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help people find their way around, feel really proud that

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actually you can help people find that clinic because you

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know, 10 months ago, nearly a year ago, I had no idea where

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anything was, I feel incredibly proud of myself and I can help

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people out just in getting somewhere and my energy is

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restored Instantly. Instantly. Yeah. So it's fairly easy to re

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Energize.

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And how do you think your approach to

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leadership's changed as you've grown, I suppose in the

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different roles for different organizations? Yeah,

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I guess when I was younger, when I was, you know,

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Ward sister, or a fairly Junior manager, I used to think

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probably more along the lines that leadership was about

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authority and management. And it's not at all leadership's

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about influencing and culture, and taking people with you on a

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journey, or you going with them on their journey and helping to

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steer that journey. And it's a privilege that's changed over

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the years. And I know that my behaviors have changed. But it

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was only really when I did my masters, which I did quite late

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in life. So not long ago, that I tried to apply some real

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academic thinking into what I wanted my leadership style to

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be, and why and what leadership style is needed to have a

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positive impact on patient outcomes. And I challenged

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myself on that on my dissertation, what did I need to

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do to create a positive outcome for patients and make a material

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difference in their outcomes. And I spent a lot of time

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recognizing that if you believe and academia supports that an

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engaged workforce and a happy workforce, deliver better

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outcomes, because we have psychological safety amongst the

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workforce, which allows them to innovate and allows them to do

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the right thing, that my job is to make sure that we've got a

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happy and safe workforce that allows them to be the best that

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they can be. And that true belief that the person who's

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doing the job knows best how to do the job. And if you recognize

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and believe that, you recognize that that allows for some

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differences in that people do do things differently. And we'd

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we'd had a brief chat before Lee about the the timpson's model,

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which I found so simple, and so inspiring, you know, that that

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true belief that they call it upside down management, that the

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people who do the job know best how to do the job, so let them

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do the job. Don't write a policy of how you think the job should

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be done. Don't write standard operating procedure that says

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this is how the job should be done. Write the standard

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operating procedure and the way it is done. And the people who

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are doing the job, tell you how that is and then best practice

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rolls out. So you're not trying to impose you're trying to

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evolve and the timpson's model with their very simple rules

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we've tried to adapt and adopt here at Gates had to say if you

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have the privilege of giving frontline care, your job is

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quite simple. You do whatever you can, in the within your

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means to give the best experience to our patients. And

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if you don't give frontline care, you're just as important.

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But your job is to make sure the people who do get frontline care

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can give the patients the best experience whether that's

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through making sure we train, we educate we support, we pay we

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recruit, we do everything in a way. That's right, that allows

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our staff to be the best that they can be. Yeah. And it's when

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you connect to that, that actually your job profile

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changes. It's no longer about setting the rules. It's

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understanding what the rules are, and guiding the culture to

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where we collectively want it to be. And

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did you have to do any work with the board and your

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executive team to get them on that page with you or with them?

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We did

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it together as part of my dissertation, we were really

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clear that the ambition that we've got is to be the best

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place to work in the NHS. So they supported my dissertation,

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and we undertook a thematic review to make sure we

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understood the culture that was here. So we ran focus groups. We

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looked at reports external reports surveys, understood what

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people were saying, played that back to people and created a

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review, which identified nine themes of where we wanted to be

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And then as a board, we went through those themes and said,

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Is this right? Is that what we agree, and we call it our

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thematic review. And we use that to drive some of the changes, we

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took that to our governors, we took that to staff, our clinical

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leaders group through board, and the actions are still being

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done. Now we're still working on that. And we check back to that

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review, to say, Are we where we need to be, and there are

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practical things in there. But there are developmental things

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in there. So one of the clear outcomes was goal congruence

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amongst the board team, that unitary board, when we are all

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signed up to the same vision and the same goals, and we pull

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together, sharing corporate responsibility, then we will be

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successful. But how do you do that? And that unitary board

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function? How do you share those? How do you work together?

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How do you create that same vision and drive so we've worked

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hard on our relationships. So that unity board function is a

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work in progress or where we are learning to work with each other

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and steer and give the same messages. And then trying to

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roll that through the organization so that all of the

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teams that we work with, share that level of shared vision and

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understanding so that, that we're all pulling in the same

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direction, which is a direction that's set by the people who do

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the job in this organization. And our patients, says, a lot of

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hard work gone into it. So I'm sure we'll be at it for a long

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time. Sure. It's eternal, usually. But it's very

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satisfying. Yeah,

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I as you were talking, one thing that sprung

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to mind is the fact that you you're not operating in

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isolation, you're part of a wider system, you've obviously

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got the broader political influence and impact on the

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stuff that you do. How does that work when you've got an

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approach, which is let the experts do what they need to do?

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And then perhaps externally, you're being told what to do by

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people who aren't experts? Or maybe I'm being a bit blunt

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isn't saying?

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Yeah, well, I mean, in locally, all I do, and that the

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Gateshead place, we have a really great working

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relationship with people across our system, because, again, they

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are experts in what they do. So that mutual respect comes into

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play, we do a lot of work with our local authority in our

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voluntary sector who are experts in their own right. And we work

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together bringing our expertise together, we are given targets,

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we are given standards to hit. Let's assume that those

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standards are all there to try and make the patient outcome

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better. What I say and what we say here is let's not hit the

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target and miss the point, let's do both. So if the target is

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about waiting lists size, the way to manage the waiting lists

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size that are there multiple, that the thing that we want to

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do is treat more patients, we want to treat more patients

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because we want to reduce the waiting list size by giving

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better care by treating more people by getting the well

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getting them back to work. That's what our clinical staff

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wants to do. They're not interested in management

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techniques to manage a waiting list. They want the weight and

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the size to be reduced. Because we're treating more patients.

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What we do together is we say, actually, to get that weight in

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this size down, there is an element of validating that we're

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waiting lists, which is an admin function. But that means we

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offer appointments to the right patients at the right time. So

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if collectively we take every goal that we're given in the

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organization, and we turn it into what is the benefit for

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patients, and say, actually, if we achieve this, we will, we

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will make a difference to our patients, you can actually work

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through 90% of the things that you're asked to do and maintain

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your vision and goal to be the best place to work most place to

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offer care in the NHS. So it's a glass half full approach. I

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could spend time moaning and thinking about why that's not

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right. It's wasted energy I need to get on and we need to do the

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right thing for our our population. Yeah,

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I definitely agree with that. That's my year of the

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reframe is what can I control and what can't I and that's

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absolutely, you know, let's do what's right. And let's

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hope that when you live by the right values, and you do the

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right thing, you get the right outcome, and you will get

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recognized accordingly. And let's live by that belief. Yeah,

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you're here.

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So we're recording this interview on the back of

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what's been really lengthy industrial action. public demand

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services is higher than it's ever been. What does that feel

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like to be an NHS leader at the moment?

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There are many emotions because the passion that

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everybody has, whether they are taking industrial action or not

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to work in the NHS is to look after people and treat more

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people and people choose to take industrial action. There's an

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internal struggle for each and every one of us, and everybody

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will make their own choice about the action that they take and

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that's not mine to judge. My job is to keep the whole hospitals

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safe while that happens, and maintain the premise that all of

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our staff want to do the right thing. And I feel very worried

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quite a lot of the time about getting that balance, right,

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making sure that we do support people to take industrial action

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where they feel the need to, but protecting the services that we

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give, and protecting the ambition that we have for this

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organization. And every time we have industrial action, we slip

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back a bit in the ambition that we're trying to deliver, trying

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to keep a team motivated, when we've done huge amounts of good

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work, and then suddenly, you can see it being eroded in front of

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you. And you know, sometimes the disappointment that you're

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causing people who've worked so hard, it's frustrating. It's

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hard work, but it's just part of the reality of which we're

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living in. Yeah, and we can't give up and we're not going to

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we are going to make things better. So the effort is that

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level of motivation, and we've just done some feedback at

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Gateshead over the, you know, this financial year, what we've

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achieved, and some of our performance has improved hugely,

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we've really made good progress into our responsiveness, our

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quality, our waiting lists, etc. The teams here have done a

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fabulous job on productivity. And we will need to reflect

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that. And it's quite hard to say, look, look how fabulous

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things are. Men respect that the fact that they're really hard,

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people are working really hard to keep that connection. You

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know, I don't live in cloud cuckoo land, I know, this is

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really difficult. But he was still able to achieve and

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getting that balance, right from a leadership perspective is

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difficult in the messaging, and that communication so that you

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don't appear disconnected from the organization.

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That was what was going through my mind as you

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were talking, you've got that push and pull, haven't you of

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trying to keep people's morale up whilst recognizing where

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they're at trying to focus and deal with the here and now

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pressure whilst having an eye to the future? Obviously, there's

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this constant, kind of back and forth that must be going on? Are

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there any practical things that you're doing and putting in

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place that's helping you to stay present, but be mindful of where

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you're going? There

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are practical things in terms of how we look at the

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structures of our communication, what we communicate, when we

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communicate, who communicates so that we can try and get that

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balance, right, and getting the feedback, right. And I think

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that's something that we will be working on forever, we can

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always improve how we do that. But it is really dependent on us

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getting the feedback of the teams in the organization,

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you're getting feedback from people about how did that land?

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How did that feel? Was it okay? Is it all right out there? You

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know, where is there a problem and where there's not a problem?

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Let's not pretend that it's all okay, let's let's call that out

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and then say, actually, this happened, it really wasn't

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great. We're going to try making this better and how that works.

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And his people believe that you then do know what's going on. I

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don't always but I try really hard. Those practical elements

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of staying connected, being visible being out and about

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helped me to keep the balance, right, because the direction is

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only set from where we are and where people want to go. So the

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aim

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of this podcast is to prove that it's possible that

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you can lead in a different way and that you don't have to

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conform to all the old stereotypes. And I'm sure you

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probably have seen this in your career. I know when I've worked

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in the NHS, and we're friends and family, you still work

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there, there is still an element of some leaders with outdated

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approaches, perhaps is not not what we would see as the modern

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view of leadership. And I know, obviously, you're you're on this

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show that you see leadership in a different way. And everything

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you've been talking about is demonstrated that, but I'm

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interested in maybe the challenges that you faced over

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your career and how you overcame tackling some of the outdated

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stereotypes of what a leader should be. If

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I'm really honest, when I have tried to work as I

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thought a leader might need to work, and I have tried possibly

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to be something that doesn't sit naturally with me. I've not done

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well, and I've been unhappy. I think I probably earlier in my

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career, didn't actually handle that very well, that there's a

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particular period I can think about where I thought I'm quite

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senior now. I need to be like this. This is how I will behave

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what I'll do. And I tried it and and I wasn't getting the results

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and I wasn't successful. I got into a cycle where I wasn't able

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to deliver what I wanted to deliver. So I tried harder to do

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this. And it didn't work for me. It genuinely made me feel sad

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and unhappy. And I remember having a look at myself and

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thinking do you know what this is? Begin into effect my home

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life. I'm not happy at work. I'm trying all the things I think I

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should be doing. And someone very wise a coach to me said,

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You're not living your values, you're trying to live somebody

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else's values. You're trying to be something you're not. If the

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job requires you to do that, do you want that job? It? No, I

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thought I had word on myself. And I thought that yeah, no, I

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don't want this. I am who I am at the heart, I just want to do

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a good job. I'm I was a nurse, when I started out, I'm from a

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small town in Devon. I'm not a natural political networker. I'm

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never going to be I am, who I am, like working with people.

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And as soon as I switched my head back on, and thought, just

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be who you are, I realized that that was the most important

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thing for me. And that's, that's not arrogance. It's not

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arrogance, in that, who I am, is better than anybody else, who I

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am as who I am, and who I am, works for where I am now in my

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career. And at the minute, Gates said, and I have a great working

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relationship, I need them, they need me, we work really well

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together. And the making come a time when they need something

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else. Or I do, I hope it's not for a long time. But we'll find

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our way together, because we're all trying to do the same thing.

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So that lesson for me about authenticity came hard.

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I don't know about you, but I had a similar

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epiphany in my career as well. And, and it can be hard as you

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try to find refined your feet of who you were, because people

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around you have expects you to be something else. And you get a

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bit of pushback from that. And that can be a challenge in and

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of itself, you

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find that, to some extent, yeah. Because people

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watch you. And when you're in a senior position, people learn

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from you. And I don't think it's always obvious just how much

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impact a leader can have on those around them. And one of

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the things that as a leader, you need to be as fairly consistent.

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And when you are having these internal struggles, bad days,

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good days, and that local epiphany, as we've just

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described it, people are looking, watch how much you're

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gonna come out with next, you know, it's probably a bit

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disconcerting, but I did have a proper word on myself and

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getting some good coaching and some mentoring and taking wise

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words from wise people who you trust helps you to do that, and

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being honest. And actually, if you get things wrong, at those

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times, just say, actually, I'm really trying, I'm really trying

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to be different. I'm really trying to achieve this or

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whatever it is, and actually, the people that matter will

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support you. The people that don't matter won't, so don't

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worry about it. Yeah. Back

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to that what's in your control? Yeah. You've

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touched on authenticity. And one of the things that I loved when

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I saw you speak at an event last year, was how prominent your dog

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was in your life as a leader.

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Yeah, I've got two of them. I've got two dogs. They're

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both precious, baby.

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I mean, I've got a Labrador too. So I completely

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understand why they become such a big part of your life. But the

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fact that it caught my attention shows how connecting it can be I

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suppose to learn more about the human behind the leader that you

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see every day. And yeah, my question is around your decision

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making sure to share that part and other bits of your life with

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your organization or you're on Twitter. So you know the world

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almost you're sharing, because so many leaders can be hesitant

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about talking about their personal life, they can feel

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quite vulnerable about sharing anything that's personal about

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themselves. And, and some tried to put this complete separation

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in between what they see work is and life. Was it a really

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conscious decision on your part to to bring your whole self or

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is it been an evolution?

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I think it's been an evolution, but to be honest,

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they are part of me, my family, my life is part of me. And if

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I've come into this organization, you know, what a

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privilege is to come here and be the chief executive at Gates

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said, half the organization didn't choose me. They don't

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know me. They work in an organization where I'm setting

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the tone. And I'm asking them to follow me. Well, quite frankly,

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it's rude if you don't give something of yourself back. And

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you know, when I go out on the wards, and I chat to people, I

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would always start by saying, how are you? How's things? Are

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you all right? Just chats. I've recently went to our orthopedic

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ward to find out we've got a member of staff who's 60. Soon

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we're going to have a party on the ward that took up probably

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half of the time that I was on the ward for I actually got to

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the reason why I was there. And that wasn't me thinking I'm

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going to have a false conversation and find out a bit.

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I was genuinely interested in what was going on the ward and

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what made them tick. And if I'm asking them questions, they've

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got a right to ask me questions. So I'm coming into their life.

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I'm running this organization, why can't they know about me and

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who I am and the fact that I love my family and my dogs more

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than anything, and I miss them terribly because I'm currently

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in Gateshead in the week, and then it leads in the weekend

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until we move up. So we're in the process of moving. So part

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of my connecting and staying with my family is to share that

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with people here. So behind me, you might see there's a calendar

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on the wall. That's the Gateshead pet calendar, my pets

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in there, the pet calendar come out, and we all share our pets

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as an example. But also, because I write a weekly message, I keep

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people updated on my move, fun, lots of help and advice as to

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what we try and trying to have a conversation. We're all living

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here. We're all working there. We're all life. We're all

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people. Yeah, you know, I didn't know where to get my shopping. I

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didn't know which taxi service to use. I don't know how to get

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to places. But if you ask people, they'll tell you. Yeah,

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and life becomes a lot easier when you've got some friends.

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Yeah,

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I want a copy of this calendar. Brilliant.

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Brilliant. There's dogs, cats, hamsters, all sorts

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in there. If I thought I've got two tortoises as well, Barbara

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and Jeff. But I didn't

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Harper edge. And we can't forget the tortoises.

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You know, I know the Hibernate at the minute, we're

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just gonna hope they survive. It's always an anxiety provoking

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time. But Barbara and Jeff on in it. But Alan and Sofia,

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I hadn't realized that you're you're obviously

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doing this commute, then between Yeah, quite a distance between

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places. And you mentioned earlier about it can be really

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isolating. Yeah, being chief exec, I can imagine it's even

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more. So when you've got that distance. And you haven't got

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the people to go home to at the end of the year, for example,

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How are you coping with that?

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I'm working too much, actually. Because it becomes

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easy to just work all the time. But I've made a real effort to

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try and make some friends. So I got for dinner with people, the

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Northeast is a really welcoming place. So the other chief

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executives on patch, a hugely supportive, hugely supportive of

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me, hugely helpful to me great allies in terms of helping me to

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integrate into the area very supportive of helping me find my

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feet in the political arena, and socially as well, helping me to

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just find myself in the Northeast, and I've joined a

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yoga class, myself, and the Chief Operating Officer and the

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director of people go to Hot Yoga, we're really bad. But we

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do it, and we go, you know, and it's just that sort of thing to

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try and not work all the time. But the fact that my family have

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agreed to move up with me, which is brilliant, means soon, we'll

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all be back together again. So that'd be great.

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Yeah, lovely. Well, I wish you all the best

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with French when you do that. So my final question is, what's the

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one piece of advice you would give someone aspiring into a

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chief executive role,

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be comfortable with who you are, you will be tested at

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every stage in your journey to becoming a chief executive, and

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the pressure is huge. But if you're comfortable with

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yourself, and you're comfortable with your decision making, and

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you're comfortable with your framework of decision making,

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and you are able to sleep at night, because you have done the

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best that you can do, and you've tried your hardest and you have

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supported people, then everything will be okay, one way

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or another. It doesn't mean that everything will work. But you

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will be able to rationalize your decisions. Because it's that

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pressure of have I done the right thing, you need a set of

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guiding principles that gets you somewhere. And keeping that set

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of principles close to you, allows you to be successful and

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navigate the journey. And that will help you to get to either

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be a chief executive, or to be a good chief executive. I think

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you know, I'm not yet in the arena where you'd say I'm a good

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chief executive. I've not even been here a year yet. I think

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time will tell but I'm gonna stick to those principles. And

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love that.

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Well, thank you so much for your time. If people

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want to reach out and connect with you your online how can

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they find you?

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Probably the best ways on Twitter or on X. Wherever

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this week today. Yeah, yeah. So so I'm on Twitter. That's the

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easiest, easiest way to find me. Perfect.

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And I will add all your details in the show notes

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for anyone that's interested. Well, thank you again for your

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time. I'm really appreciate it. Thank you. If you enjoyed this

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