Susan Polgar’s father believed geniuses weren’t born, they were made. So when his three-year-old daughter found an old chess set in their Budapest apartment, he saw an opportunity to prove it. Susan quickly learned the game, but soon realized the real challenge: convincing the world that girls could play just as well as boys - which she did by becoming the first woman to earn the Grandmaster title under the same standards as men. In this episode, she shares how she rewrote the gender norms of chess, overcame deeply rooted sexism, and helped redefine what young girls believe they can achieve.

"You need to set a goal. And in this case, you need to set the highest goal possible. So even if we fall short somewhat, we still get further than if we set a lower goal."

Hear Susan talk about:

• How, at six, she decided to specialize in chess (and not math)
• The sexism she faced as a young girl rising in a male-dominated field
• Why her grandmother's words shaped her sense of perseverance
• What came after winning world championships
• The lessons chess teaches about focus, decision-making, and resilience

Mentioned in this episode:

• Rebel Queen: The Cold War, Misogyny, and the Making of a Grandmaster by Susan Polgar
• The Susan Polgar Foundation - scholarships, training, and outreach for young chess players
• Introduction: Learn Chess in 30 Minutes (first instructional video for beginners)

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