Nick Trenton explains how interpreting neutral sensations as dangerous can fuel anxiety. Learn about anxiety sensitivity, breaking the fear loop, and practicing micro tolerance to regain control over your reactions. Discover a powerful technique that prevents anxiety disorders by changing how you perceive bodily sensations.

⏱ CHAPTERS

0:00 Intro

2:12 Anxiety Sensitivity Explained

5:20 Controlling Physiological Sensations

6:24 Fear of Heart Attack and Stroke

9:31 Reducing Anxiety Through Awareness

11:41 Psychological Reactivity in Anxiety Disorders

14:24 Tolerating Uncomfortable Physical Feelings

17:29 Acceptance Over Control in Anxious Experiences

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You ever felt a racing heart or sweaty palms and immediately jumped to the worst possible conclusion about what those mean?

What if I told you the real danger might not be in the sensation itself, but in how we interpret it?

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In today's episode, we're going to talk about anxiety sensitivity and how it leads us to misinterpret certain sensations, how to break that cycle through changing our interpretation, the process of naming the fear loop, and practicing what Nick Trenton calls micro tolerance.

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Reduce the “anxious sensations are dangerous” response

"He who fears he will suffer, already suffers because he fears."

• Michel de Montaigne

Anxiety sensitivity is the tendency to interpret neutral sensations as dangerous, and it can set up vicious cycles of anxiety.

Breaking that cycle isn’t about stopping the sensation.

It’s about changing the interpretation.

So… what’s making you anxious?

• Other people?

• Ambiguous situations?

• Awkward social scenarios?

• Pressures and triggers?

• Uncertainty?

In this first chapter, we’ll consider things from another angle-that the real cause of your anxiety might nothing to do with these things.

Rather, your anxiety might stem from the reaction you are having to anxiety-related sensations.

“Anxiety sensitivity” is often called a “fear of fear”.

But this is not entirely accurate.

Anxiety sensitivity is really a reaction to a belief we have about certain sensations.

Consider the sensation of a racing heart:

• The belief about that sensation - “Something dangerous is happening to me physically.”

• The result - MORE FEAR

Or, consider the experience of sweating and blushing:

• The meaning ascribed to that sensation - “People will see and judge me.”

• The result - MORE FEAR

Or the feeling of dizziness or light-headedness:

• The interpretation given to that sensation - “I must be losing my mind.

I’m going crazy.”

• The result - MORE FEAR

In each case, the sensation is certainly real, but it’s neutral.

The sensation itself isn’t causing the reaction.

The story we tell ourselves about the sensation is what’s causing the reaction.

Anxiety sensitivity acts like a magnifying glass-or a fun house mirror!

It takes genuine sensations and amplifies and distorts them into something that isn’t genuine.

And what happens then?

More fear.

Unsurprisingly, anxiety sensitivity plays a big role in the development of anxiety disorders like panic attacks, PTSD, and OCD.

While most people understand that this pattern is a symptom of anxiety, what’s more important is to understand that it’s also a cause of that anxiety.

Anxiety sensitivity is thus a cause and an effect.

• You feel a sensation

• You tell yourself, “This sensation is dangerous”

• You feel afraid

• That fear produces heightened sensations

• You experience that sensation even more strongly

• You tell yourself, “The danger is increasing”

• And on and on…

Looking through the magnifying glass of anxiety sensitivity, even the smallest sensation can be blown into catastrophic proportions.

So how do we break this vicious cycle?

• One answer that anxiety-sufferers sometimes give is: “I have to stop myself from blushing/slow down my heart rate/stop feeling dizzy.”

But this line of reasoning is a trap.

Why?

Because it confirms the belief that the sensation is dangerous in the first place.

And it isn’t!

The actual problem:

The interpretation of the sensation.

The beliefs about that sensation.

The meaning we give to the sensation.

The truth is that we are not always in control of our physiological sensations.

• Sometimes, we’ll feel dizzy, blush, or become aware of our hearts racing.

• Sometimes, we’ll feel anxious, panicked, or get that weird queasy feeling in the pit of our stomachs.

• Sometimes we’ll be in a social situation and realize that our hands are shaking or our voice is quivering.

While we can’t necessarily control these things, we can control the interpretations, beliefs, and meaning we attach to each experience.

Anxiety sensitivity is the “fear of anxiety-related sensations” (McNally, 2002).

The anxious mind takes a seed of truth and blows it up into a catastrophic lie.

That means that anxiety sensitivity is not “all in your head.” The sensation you feel is real.

You really are sweating, and your heart really is beating faster.

But what does it all mean?

• “I’m lightheaded, so I must be having a stroke.”

• “I’m blushing, so that means public shame and humiliation.”

• “I’m shaking, so I must be having nervous breakdown.”

The sensations are real… but the interpretation is pretty warped.

Psychologists term these sensations “arousal.”

Arousal simply means a whole-body state of activation.

It’s a condition of physiological stimulation, and psychological awareness and readiness.

Importantly, arousal sensations are neither good nor bad.

They’re just something your body is doing.

Consider:

• “I’m lightheaded because I’m trying something new and I’m a little nervous.”

• “I’m blushing because I’m feeling some social discomfort, but I’m not in any danger.”

• “I’m shaking because I’m excited and alert.”

The fascinating thing is that this principle applies to any sensation-including mental and psychological ones.

We can learn to re-interpret any experience, whether psychological, cognitive, or physical:

• “My thoughts are not dangerous.”

• “My feelings are not dangerous.”

• “My physical sensations and perceptions are not dangerous.”

In a 2007 study in the Journal of Anxiety Disorders, (Schmidt, N. B., et al., 2007), researchers were interested in finding out whether people could be trained to change the way they interpreted their own bodily sensations.

In other words, could people learn to lower their anxiety sensitivity?

The encouraging answer is that yes, they could!

First, the researchers picked around 400 participants they knew had high anxiety sensitivity by getting them to complete a test (the Anxiety Sensitivity Index-ASI).

• Some of these they assigned to a group that would take part in a training program.

• Some of these they assigned to a control group-they would not complete any training.

After completing the computer-based Anxiety Sensitivity Amelioration Training, there was a follow-up at 24 months to see if their results had stuck.

The training group showed promising reductions in anxiety sensitivity-reductions that the control group didn’t show.

Overall, the authors concluded that directly targeting anxiety sensitivity was a powerful way to prevent the development of anxiety disorders and other Axis I pathology (episodic or acute disorders).

The verdict is simple: By reducing anxiety sensitivity, we lower our risk of experiencing episodic mental conditions.

Though we do not have access to the computer-based training program the researchers used in their study, the good news is that we don’t need to-there are several DIY techniques that anyone can use in their everyday lives.

One especially useful one is outlined below.

How to dial down reactivity

Name the loop + name the normal cause

First, notice when things suddenly feel urgent, panicky, or intense.

Notice the spike in emotion, the flutters of physiological arousal, the sudden increase in mental activity.

Then just pause.

Take a moment, aware and present.

At this point, you can choose: Let the vicious cycle run through again and again, or decide not to board that ride.

Instead:

1.

Name the loop

2.

Name the “normal cause”

You don’t have to gaslight yourself into thinking that you are not really experiencing what you’re experiencing.

You are.

And that’s OK.

Your work will take place in the meaning you assign.

Try to get curious about the story you’re telling, and if there is a healthier, more reasonable story you could tell instead.

• Physical reactivity

◦ Name the loop: “I can feel my heartbeat.

I’m worried that means something is wrong with me.

That scary thought is making my heart beat even faster.”

◦ Name the normal cause: “My heartbeat is responding to what it thinks is a genuine alarm and is trying to help keep me safe.”

 The sensation is uncomfortable, but not dangerous.

• Psychological reactivity

◦ Name the loop: “I am aware of some very big, confusing emotions right now.

I feel like this means I’m going crazy.

That makes everything feel more overwhelming and terrifying.”

◦ Name the normal cause: “My emotions are spinning out of control because they’re trying to help me make sense of the situation.”

 The situation is confusing and uncertain, but not dangerous.

• Cognitive reactivity

◦ Name the loop: “I keep coming back to the same stressful thought, but the more I think of it, the more stressed I’m getting.”

◦ Name the normal cause: “This is my brain searching for certainty or closure.”

 This situation is unpleasant and unresolved, but not dangerous.

The point here is not to run away from your sensations, fix them, or come up with a clever-sounding explanation for them.

In fact, the first thing you want to do is simply normalize them.

It’s NOT the end of the world.

It’s NOT proof that something is going wrong.

It’s NOT a sign that something dangerous is happening.

You may be feeling hot and nervous because you’re in a sauna.

Or maybe it’s because your mind is lingering on an embarrassing memory.

Whatever it is, you don’t have to argue away the existence of this horrible sensation-you just have to accept that that’s all it is-a sensation.

Not a danger, not a serious and genuine threat to your survival, not an emergency.

Does it feel good?

Nope!

In fact, it can feel really awkward and uncomfortable and weird.

But it’s not dangerous.

Remind yourself of that.

That’s the first step.

Practice a little micro-tolerance

The next step is to set a timer for two minutes and let the overthinking loop run without fixing it.

How did you feel when you read that sentence?

“Let the loop just run?

Why would I do that!

?”

It feels like a dangerous thing to do.

And that’s exactly why step 2 is so important-because it teaches you that, well, it isn’t a dangerous thing to do at all.

It’s an uncomfortable thing… but a thing you can learn to comfortably tolerate.

Practicing tolerance isn’t meant to be a big grueling punishment.

Just start small and practice “sitting with” your discomfort for a little while.

That’s all.

Keep telling yourself, “I’m still here.”

Then what happens?

• You learn that you can have repetitive thoughts without obeying them or reacting automatically or impulsively to them.

• You learn that you can endure uncomfortable or unpleasant physical sensations without anything bad happening.

• You learn that you can experience emotions-even big ones-without needing to escape.

In the moment, that might not feel like much.

But the next time that this feeling comes around, you might feel a little different about it.

Like it’s not quite so urgent as it used to be.

Like it’s not quite as big a deal as you thought previously.

And that’s real progress.

It means that you’ve loosened the grip that anxiety has over you.

The wonderful thing is that you don’t need to force positivity, pretend, or rush in to try and push any experience to be something it isn’t.

You just have to gently shift your perception around that experience.

• Old interpretation: “My anxious experience is dangerous.”

• New interpretation: “I can have anxious experiences without it being unsafe.”

Talk kindly to yourself:

• “I don’t like experiencing anxiety, but it’s OK that I am experiencing it.”

• “These sensations are normal.

I don’t have to react.”

• “I’m safe, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now.”

• “This experience is temporary.”

This episode of Path to Calm delved into the intricate relationship between neutral body sensations and the anxiety they can provoke through our interpretations.

Nick's insights challenge us to reframe how we perceive these experiences, encouraging a shift from fear towards acceptance and calm.

Let's take a look at quickly at the takeaways from this episode.

Anxious?

It's not the sensation.

It's your story about it.

We challenge the common belief that anxiety stems from external triggers or the sensations themselves.

Instead, it highlights how our interpretation of these sensations as dangerous creates more fear and anxiety.

you feel a sensation, you interpret it as dangerous, causing more fear.

For example, feeling dizzy might lead to thoughts like, I'm having a stroke, escalating the panic.

Recognizing that dizziness can be simply an arousal response helps shift from fearing the worst.

Accept your sensations without labeling them as dangerous.

Training yourself to accept these sensations without reacting impulsively teaches you that you're safe, even if it doesn't feel like it.

Realize your anxious experience isn't inherently unsafe and it is just temporary.

We'll leave you with this quote from Donald Robertson.

Anxiety is often the result of treating a temporary situation as permanent.