In this episode of The D Shift, Mardi Winder speaks with mediator, speaker, and host of the Amicable Divorce Expert podcast, Judith Weigle, about what it really takes to navigate an amicable divorce and why communication and timing play a critical role in the process.
Judith shares her journey into mediation and offers a grounded perspective on what “amicable” truly means. Rather than agreeing on everything, an amicable divorce is about the ability to have productive conversations, even in the midst of emotional stress and uncertainty.
Mardi and Judith explore how communication breakdown is often at the core of relationship challenges and how those same patterns can show up in mediation. With the right guidance and support, however, couples can learn to communicate more effectively, leading to better outcomes during divorce and beyond.
This episode highlights:
• What an amicable divorce really means
• Why communication is the foundation of successful mediation
• How timing impacts the divorce process from start to finish
• Common challenges people face when navigating divorce discussions
• How professionals can support better outcomes without increasing conflict
The conversation also highlights the importance of allowing both parties the time they need to process the emotional aspects of divorce before moving too quickly into legal decisions. Judith explains how rushing the process can create resistance, while thoughtful pacing can lead to more balanced and sustainable agreements.
About the Guest:
JUDITH M. WEIGLE, Mediator, Podcast Host, Professional Speaker Her company, Divorce Resource, Inc., provides both mediation and filing services in family law. Judith is one of those rare individuals who can make you laugh while you’re going through a painful experience. Her ability to see through the complexities of emotion in order to help people think through and reach a negotiated settlement is unparalleled in the field of divorce mediation.
Her TEDx talk "Secrets to an Amicable Divorce" displays these traits. Host of THE Amicable Divorce Expert podcast Judith promotes amicable divorces. Weigle is also author of the Internet sensation My Office Is a 3-Ring Circus! Must I Take Orders From Clowns, a business development book. Judith’s Philosophy: Be Honest and Authentic, Speak from the Heart, and Take Responsibility for Your Actions
Judith’s gift: A free one-hour communication coaching, www.DivorceResourceInc.com
To connect with Judith:
LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/judith-weigle-divorce-expert/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JudithMWeigle/
Instagram: @theamicabledivorceexpert
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=78KSKbCP5D4 Secrets to an Amicable Divorce TEDx talk
THE Amicable Divorce Expert podcast www.TheAmicableDivorceExpert.com
About the Host
Mardi Winder is a Strategic Divorce Consultant and High-Conflict Divorce Coach who helps high-achieving individuals navigate divorce with clarity, confidence, and control. Drawing on more than 30 years of experience in mediation, divorce coaching and conflict resolution, she supports clients in making smart decisions while reducing emotional and financial fallout, particularly in high-conflict, high-asset and complex divorces. Mardi is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and the Strategic Divorce Directory, LLC.
For Mardi’s gift: The Resilience Building Blueprint: A 28-Day Journey To A Stronger You https://www.divorcecoach4women.com/rbb
Connect with Mardi on Social Media:
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women
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