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28: Merging Life Coaching with a Love of Horses with Mary Burg
Episode 285th July 2023 • Mystical Sisterhood • Maureen Spielman
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Mary Burg is a seasoned Life Coach and Equine guide. Today we take a peek into Mary’s upbringing and life story. Mary’s perspective is joyful, fresh and relatable. She learned early about ‘thoughts becoming things’ and the power of our mind and intention. Mary initially worked in the field of Ecology Wetlands and later shifted into the field of life coaching. She blends her passion for guiding others with her love of being with horses. Mary educates us on the heart centered nature of horses and how she works with them in a coaching session. Mary will always be your biggest cheerleader and believes that if you can dream it, you can become it!

EPISODE TAKEAWAYS (what you’ll learn):

  • The power of speaking your own voice
  • Pivoting in midlife
  • How powerful our thoughts and beliefs are
  • The importance of aligning your dreams with action
  • The magic of horses and how they communicate with us
  • How horses are utilized in the field of coaching

About the Guest:

Mary Burg is a Certified Professional Life & Leadership Coach specializing in career happiness, a Skyhorse Academy Certified Equine Guided Educator, Certified 3 Vital Questions (3VQ) Trainer, and founder and creator of Authentic Path coaching programs. Mary is a transformational coach who believes that each of us is on a divine soul journey, and that part of that journey is to discover our infinite creative power – the power to create our reality. She sees her role as an ally, guiding her clients to discover their soul’s essence, wisdom, and purpose, to hone their creative abilities, and design and create the lives they came here to live. Mary delights in working one-on-one with mid-career professionals who are feeling stuck, burned-out, and unfulfilled to follow their heart’s calling and create livelihoods filled with heart, meaning, prosperity, and fulfillment.

Find Mary Here:

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References Within Podcast:

Mike Dooley: www.tut.com

www.skyhorseacademy.com

About the Host:

Maureen Spielman is the Founder of Mystical Sisterhood, a podcast dedicated to bringing more joy, healing and expansion to the world. She is a seasoned life coach who supports individuals through one-on-one coaching, groups and workshops.

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Hello and welcome back to mystical sisterhood. This is

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your host, Maureen Spielman. Today I'm really excited to sit

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down with Mary Berg. She is a seasoned life coach. I met her

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through my sister Kelly. And she's very well rounded and well

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respected within the field of life coaching. She is here to

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tell us her family of origin story, her life's path with

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regard to career. And also I was fascinated by the fact that Mary

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has worked for a number of years with horses. She has brought

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them into her coaching. And she has gotten to know these animals

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up close and personal. So she shares with us stories about the

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horses, the intelligence and soul that these animals just

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embody. So I hope that you love the episode as much as I did. I

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learned a lot about her equine work. And there's just a lot

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here for all of us. Please join me in welcoming Mary and here we

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go.

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Hey there, welcome to mystical sisterhood. This is your host,

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Maureen Spielman. I started the show to highlight the intuitives

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healers and other courageous women that I've met along my

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journey and continue to meet. Through amazing interviews, I

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seek to ask insightful questions to uncover ways in which you the

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listener can apply the wisdom and knowledge to your own life.

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I believe that we're all in this together. So sharing healing and

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joy, and bringing community together is both my passion and

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purpose. If you'd like to learn more about the mystical

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sisterhood community I'm building, please visit www

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mystical sisterhood.com See you in the episode.

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Okay, welcome back to mystical sisterhood. This is Maureen

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Spielman, your host. I'm back today with Mary Berg. I don't

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even have a bio to read on Mary, because I know her fairly well,

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I'd say, Mary, I met you through my sister, Kelly Sanders, and

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the two of you live out in Denver. And I think one morning

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when I was visiting Kelly, a few years back, I had a curiosity

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about you. And so Kelly, put together it was like a 6am

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coffee. And we met back by her firepit. And it was just a

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lovely morning, a couple hours, just a juicy conversation right

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off the bat. And then I went and did, I may have been doing at

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the time by coach training. But when I finished it, just want to

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welcome you as a seasoned life coach. And there's other reasons

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you're here today. But I hired you to guide me through the

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process of setting up my business, and worked with you

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for quite a few months to really dig deep dive deep, because I

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was taking it so seriously, I didn't want to leave many stones

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on turned in that process. But I'll say thank you today for

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helping me launch my career and coaching and where I find myself

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today. Wow. Well, thank you and what a wonderful gift. It's been

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to just be able to be with you on that journey. And that was a

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wonderful morning. And

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you and Kelly have such an amazing sisterhood that

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it seems studying that that's how we met. Yeah. Oh,

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definitely. Yeah. And I also Marine, just want to thank you

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for creating the mystical sisterhood. I feel like it's all

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these people that you've invited to the table have come together.

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And it's like we're at a party solving a giant jigsaw puzzle.

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And only it's not one of those jigsaw puzzles where you can

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start with the flat edge and start to build the boundaries.

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And then every thing fell in. It's like this infinite jigsaw

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puzzle of the mysteries of the universe. And it expands to

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infinity in every direction and in multi dimensions. And we're

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all just coming and saying, here's some pieces that I have,

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that I could share, you know, and I don't know if it's true or

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not, but this is what I've experienced. This is what I

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think might be true and just all building this picture together

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and it's just such a delightful oh my gosh, thank you for the

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visual the vision of that and it's true. Because it's pulling

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in everybody has their different kind of specialty their

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experiences what like you're saying what they're bringing in

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and it feels like it's as I've watched it grow, it's pulling in

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some mystic it's it's pulling in a

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Healing, then it's got the application to our lives,

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whether it's in parenting, or, you know, all these different

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uncovering of the spaces that we can actually use these tools,

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like it's, and I was saying to you before we started, I rarely,

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I rarely record two in one day, and I met with a yoga instructor

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this morning. But that's what was coming together in my mind.

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Because as I go through the process of this podcast,

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bringing it into the world, I I don't see a lot before it

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happens, I almost as it occurs, it's coming together, and then

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I'll see. And it's so similar to the puzzle pieces that you're

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saying. And I was just saying to Betsy, who I interviewed this

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morning, that it is by, by bringing in people to talk about

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the different ways, they not only use it in your life, or use

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it in their life, but maybe also teach it in their life, it could

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be just utilize it in their life. But the more times we hear

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it, it allows it to go deeper into one, maybe one particular

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person, or just, it's just amplified in different ways.

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It's just it's like a ping that goes out into the universe. And

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it's sometimes it gets absorbed. I mean, I know that, yeah, a big

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study of the universe and energy and all of that so.

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And well. And you know, the other thing that I think is so

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valuable about what you're doing is that, and you and I've talked

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about this many times before, that there may be hundreds of

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people out there who are delivering essentially the same

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message. But for each one of us, there's one voice that we can,

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you know, that will will really hear the message. And so you

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bring all these voices makes it that much more available to

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everybody, all of us out here to, to come in contact with the

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voice that resonates in our being, and really gets the

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message across. So it's just lovely. Yeah, I love that. I

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love it. It makes me think of, well, I'm thinking already

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thinking of a question like, have you found that in your

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business, but it's really your business and life, that for you,

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if we're just focused on you, that that message or that that

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friendship or that, that it, it just, it gets to the right

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people, they come to you. And I know you're a big believer in

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the trust of the universe? Is that? Yes, I feel like that's

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one of the principles you kind of live by. It is and you know,

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it's also something that comes up in my work with clients a

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lot. And again, it's something that you and I talked about a

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lot that

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when when people are starting their own businesses, especially

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entrepreneurs, and they're they're thinking about how to

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market. And, you know, one of the things I I always encourage

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people is just speak your own voice, because there's someone

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out there who's looking for the morning channel, they're dialing

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their radio, and it's all static until they hit Maureen's voice.

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And those are your ideal clients, your ideal clients are

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going to resonate with your message, you don't have to worry

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about how to find them. They're looking for you. And when they

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hear your message in your authentic voice, they'll be

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there. And and I absolutely trust that and I've seen it time

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and time and time again that I it's no longer a leap of faith.

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It's just something I know.

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Right? It feels like vibration. Yeah, like vibration. It is I

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really truly believe that. Yeah, yeah.

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Well, I we had set out questions we're going to today, I'll say

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to the listeners, we're going to touch upon a bit of Mary's

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background and, and coaching and just life principles that but

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also go into your work with the horses and equine

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therapy. I don't know if that's right therapy. But just for the

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listener, we're going to we're going to dance in both areas

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today. And they're both really fascinating to me.

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Before we when we met last week, we talked about touching upon,

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that that truth that you grew up with, I think you call them

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metaphysical healers around you, and would you say a bit more

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about that store? And actually, I was listening to the podcasts

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that you did with Dina Wiggins, and I loved her phrase about

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rearview mirror wisdom. Because I've lived for a long time with

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this question.

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If I chose this life, if I chose my family, what was it that I

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was seeking? Why did I choose them and and this life

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And, you know, it's only really, through the decades being able

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to look back on the decades and what my choices were, what my

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influences were, and how it all fits together and makes perfect

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sense and, and led me to finding my path my purpose. And, and it

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did I, I really do believe that if I, if I chose my family, and

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I think I did,

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it was because that was a family of generations of

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just very powerful, masterful spiritual, metaphysical healers,

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wow. And especially my dad, and probably the most influential

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person in my life was my great aunt. Grace.

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She was probably my best friend growing up, I was the youngest

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in the family. And so when I was growing up, everybody else was

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off at school, my mom had gone back to work, my dad was already

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working. And so I spent a lot of time alone. And we we had three

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generations in our household and Grace was sort of my caretaker.

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And so I spent hours and hours and hours with her and she was

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just an amazing

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spiritual healer. And so, you know, so much of what I still

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believe today, I really learned from from her in terms of

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learning about the divine, giving me a definition of the

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Divine that truly resonates with me, which is that, you know, the

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universe, the divine God help what however you want to refer

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to it is, is loving, and forgiving, and

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for us, and that we are, in fact, a reflection of that we

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are divine, and we are powerful creators. And the other thing so

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ironic to me all these many years later was how powerful our

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thoughts are, this is what my parents said she taught me is

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that our thoughts and beliefs that then are manifested in our

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actions create our reality. And that we need to, I probably

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would have said, guard our thoughts, not in a hyper

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vigilant way, but in being aware of what our thoughts are, and

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not attaching to and believing everything we think. Yeah, wow,

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and really cultivating

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an awareness of our thoughts, because

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they really do create our reality. And we get to choose

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our thoughts. And that choice, you know, is also so

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foundational to coaching. So it's just as I look back, it's

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ironic and wonderful that this was sort of my grounding in life

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from the time I can remember. It's astounding, it's I'm

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sitting here, you know, I knew some of this, I don't think I've

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ever known about your Aunt Grace.

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It's super impactful. I don't think that many people can say

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that. And so the fact that that became your foundation, and it

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ended up being really the foundation of your life's work

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is incredible. Isn't it? Amazing? Yeah. It's amazing. So

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I can only really see that in the rear view, like Dina said,

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you know, I wasn't aware of it. Sure. At the time, it was just

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my life. It was just my environment was the water that I

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swam in. And, and, you know, fast forward 40 years, and the

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lineage of Coach Training that I was in is saying, We're all

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divine beings, and our thoughts create our reality.

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You know, it's like, wow, okay. This is like a homecoming. Yes,

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I imagine. I know, because you had spent years that's one of

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the things I was wondering if you would talk about today, but

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you had spent years in the ecology field. And, you know,

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how many years did you spend in that? And did you find, were

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there? Were there qualities of this coming through? Even in

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that work? Yeah, in fact, that's another sort of pattern that I

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see in my path was starting with the medical, metaphysical, and

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then going into the world of science. And

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I worked in that field for 30 years, 20 years in my career, in

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ecology, and at the Department of Ecology in the state of

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Washington. But,

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and so many people in my world wanted to make it either or you

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either believe in science and you live by science or

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You are a spiritual person. And that's your truth. And the thing

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is, I never saw that as a dichotomy. And in fact, and I

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love science. And, to me,

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science has a very particular function. And its to its a

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gatekeeper, it says we're only gonna admit, as fact, those

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things that we can measure and test and prove, before we allow

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it into, you know, this little fenced in area that we say is,

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is, is fact. And so many people want to say that until it's

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proven, it's not real, it's woowoo. It's whatever. Well, you

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know, think about it. 20 or 30 years ago, acupuncture was on

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the you we will fringe you know, it was like, oh, right, yeah.

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meridians, chakras. You right? Yeah. Uh huh. Well, now

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insurance companies pay for it. Yes. And it's just because, you

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know, science only goes as far as our technology and our

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ability to measure our environment. And so just because

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we can't yet measure, there was a time when we couldn't, when we

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didn't have microscopes, and we couldn't see microbes, and

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that we couldn't prove, but people believe people had

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intuitions and really, it's, it's intuition. It's thought,

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where science begins, someone has an idea, they think the

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seems like, and that's where hypotheses are generated. And

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that's what you test. And you know, and depending on how the

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test comes out, then you either admit it as as a fact or not,

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but it's really through the unseen, that we bring things

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into the realm of science. And so I've I really see the oneness

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between metaphysics and, and physics and the universal

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truths, that kind of that underlie both I mean, you know,

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people, again, you know, people think it's woowoo to talk about

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everything is energy, but actually, if you look at

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science, everything is energy, everything, everything is atoms,

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it's, it's all electricity, it's positive and, and negative

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charges. And so, so yeah, so maybe that's not so great. Yeah,

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it's just, to me, it's like, what's the argument? You know,

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well, and to when you talk about? Well, first of all, thank

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you for that all that connection of, wow, it starts with

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intuition or itself, it can start with a little ping from

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the universe. And that, that that thing that we call science

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two does go alongside facts, and what we learned in school and

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like, all these things being truth or, you know, for like

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social studies, yes, we can say that those events happened,

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right. So, so their truth. And I see, I think we still see a lot

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of conditioning, and people in that realm where it literally

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feels scary, it feels like to go over there is like wild, but

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what you're saying is it's really not it's, it's all one,

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right? And in both in both science and spirituality and

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academia, there's dogma, in both. And you know, I have a

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dear friend who's part of my sisterhood, and

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she's, she's, she calls herself an atheist, and, you know, is

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that, you know, science is, she lives and breathes by science

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and reason. And I just say, Well, you know, just make sure

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you don't make science or religion, you know, because

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there's as much dogma in the, in the academic and scientific

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realms as there is,

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you know, in in spiritual and religious

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belief systems. So

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it could be comfort zones, right. If you experienced

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something before, you don't know what it feels like. So yeah, but

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that's why these conversations are so good, because we can talk

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about it. I know, one of the questions I had positive to you

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that led to something else I wanted to ask you about was this

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idea because I think there are a lot of people who listen to

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mystical sisterhood, who are pivoting midlife to, you know,

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maybe they've stayed at home, maybe they've been in this one

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career and feel burnout. Maybe they're just starting to open up

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to GE what is my passion and purpose? But Are you a believer

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in pivoting at midlife? How do you feel about that? Well, you

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know, that was my path. That's my story. It's kind of a start

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up.

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So, you know, when people ask me, you know, is this possible?

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It's like, Well, absolutely. And

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and not only is it Poor

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possible, I truly believe that if, if you whatever you pursue

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if you do it with awareness, you know, I mean, my work is all

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about finding your authentic path. And that can look

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different at different points in life. And I mean, I, I made my

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change from, you know, science and administration and public

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policy to coaching at 52. And I am starting my 20th year in

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coaching. So it's amazing. Yes. So, yeah, I, you know, I'm a big

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believer in in following your heart, again, it's a rearview

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mirror wisdom. I didn't start out saying, I'm going to follow

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my heart. I just followed my inclinations. And I tell people

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follow your inclination if you have this yearning.

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To me, that's your heart's calling. And just allow it. And

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you don't have to second guess it or wonder or, you know,

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market test it or

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anything else if, if it is genuinely calling to you? It

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doesn't matter if anyone's done it before, it doesn't matter. In

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fact, I think I may have told you that story about

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when I was going through graduate school, you know,

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anytime you're in school, people are always asking you, what are

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you going to do when you get out? And for three years, I just

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told people, I said, Well, I'm preparing myself for a job that

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doesn't exist. This was long before anybody was talking about

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manifestation or anything. It was not in my consciousness at

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all. It was just something I was saying. I said, Well, I'm

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preparing myself for a job that doesn't exist. I want to be a

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wetland ecologist for the Department of Ecology. And at

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the end of that three years, I, I wrote a letter to the

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Department of Ecology, and I said, Hey, if you're looking for

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wetlands ecologist now or in the future, please give me a call.

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And two weeks later, I got a phone call. And that said, Well,

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as a matter of fact, we're starting up a brand new wetlands

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program. And the first thing we need to do is hire well.

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So I just walked into the job of my dreams. And I didn't get it

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at that point, that that's how it works. Well, it's actually I

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believe, how it works. Yes, that we set an intention. And it's a

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pure intention. And then all we don't have to figure out how

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it's going to come together. All we're responsible for doing is

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taking the actions that only we can take. Yes, yes. I love the

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story. I love and I and, you know, you told me the other day,

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too, about how a little bit of that got seated. And again, I

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was blown away by your age, when like the stage in life, I should

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say, not your age, when you told me that you read the works of a

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nice man. And you said that I think it was like bringing

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dreams into reality. So something even then was sparking

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in view to back in my late teens. Yeah, I mean, my college

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roommates introduced me to her diaries, and that was really, I

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think the beginning. Okay, yeah. I mean, other than my, you know,

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my my childhood upbringing, but that, that idea that we could

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bring our dreams into our waking life. And, you know, she was

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focused a lot on psychoanalysis. But she also did you know, she,

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she dressed her dreams, she painted her rooms. According to

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her dream, she dreamed of living on a houseboat. And she created

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that as

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a period in her life. And I just, it had a huge impact on

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me. And I just in little ways like that I would consciously

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create my life. And you know, that was sort of my looking

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back. Yes. Oh, and I even looked at you. And I thought, like, Oh,

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for sure. You've lived in the Denver area for such a long

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time. And I asked you one day, and you're like, No, I haven't

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been there that long. But I didn't know that that shift that

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you had created for yourself. It was the job before the move. But

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then the move and I just know what magical kind of worlds were

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opened just from the you know, you being in the business group

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of Kelly. And,

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and I wholeheartedly, I want the audience to hear that because I

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know that you always were attracting clients through

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there. You've, you know, when we did our work together, you often

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I think that you used to refer to it as baby steps. Was that

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right? Yeah. And just that idea of putting those dreams into

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reality, speaking them into reality and

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backing them up with the Align to action. And I think that

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that's a super important part of it. And that's one that I

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revisit with myself all the time. It is I mean, vision

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boards are incredibly powerful.

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And if all you do is create a vision board and stick it up on

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your wall, and then just kind of say, well, I wonder why it's not

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happening, you know, but we don't have to that. And the

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thing is, and Mike Dooley says this so well, in all of his

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books, it's

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it's just, it's it's take, we don't have to figure out all the

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house, he calls them the cursive house, all we have to do is take

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action in the general direction of our dreams, and, and the rest

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will come together. I love it. And I've seen it again and again

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and again.

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And actually, it was it was in my former job that I, I was

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brought to coaching. When I was

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I was asked to move and from directing the Toxics cleanup

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program to taking over the air quality program. And then I'm I

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agreed and in doing that, I apologies to anyone who's

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listening to this, who might have been on my management team,

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but I inherited a dysfunctional managing,

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as did my counterpart at the Federal Environmental Protection

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Agency, who was our oversight agency. But she had come from

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EPA Office of Innovation, and she knew about coaching. And she

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suggested that we hire a team of coaches and and work with our,

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to work with our teams independently, and then bring

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them together once they had a common language. And I had

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always been interested in personal development and

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organizational development. But I'll tell you, the

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transformation that I saw in our organizational culture, and the

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animosity that those coaches had been greeted with the first time

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we got together. And then a year later, one of my managers saying

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to one of the coaches, Katherine, can you stay on the

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line? I need you was like, wow. So yeah, you know, when it when

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I got to the point where my my dream job was no longer my dream

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job.

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her looking at everything I thought I ever thought I might

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want to do, and came down to coaching and it was just another

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one of those, you know, rear view or rear view mirror things

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were just, I can see how you know, it all. Yeah, together.

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And it was from one thing to another. Yeah, that's really

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beautiful. And I think that everything is in that divine

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timing.

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Because I did work around even, you know, I have a gifted friend

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around purpose. And I know that it was seen it was seeding

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who I would become, but I think I wanted, I wanted it at the

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time to turn into something, Let's even say this is five

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years ago or something. And that I would have a lot of self

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frustration, because I couldn't alchemize it. Like, I think I

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was probably thinking about it too much. I was exerting too

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much control about it. And in that rearview mirror, now I can

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see, well, no, that occurred at that time on purpose for you.

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And, and it was an element in your path. So now I understand

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that at the time, I used to, I've said this before, but I

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think in my path.

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I stayed home so many years with the kids that I always was

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feeling it wasn't enough. And I have to say, I just saw, you

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know, my teacher was Dr. Shefali. And she just did an

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Instagram video on this the other day. And it was just such

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affirmation for those who make that choice. Because there is I

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it's just that's probably a testament to the shame that can

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come for any of our choices, right? And not trusting them and

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not but now I can now I can look in trust and if anything, it's

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just like, like a little more aligned action worrying a little

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bit more. So yeah, and you know, I mean, when we tell these

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stories, when, you know, we pick out the themes and it sounds

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like it's all all was just all ones Yeah, Brittany right.

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Without any of these fits and starts and obstacles and bumps

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and

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you know, and

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it hasn't been like that. And

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and I do find Well, a couple things one, I will go through

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these dark periods where where I feel lost.

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Because I've always I don't know why but I've always been someone

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who's had not a good

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All, but some kind of vision of the future that's evolved. And,

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but there are times when I find myself without that, and I feel

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lost. And the first time this happened for me in a really big

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way was actually right before I came to the horses

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and just stopped like I was at the bottom of a dark well.

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And

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I was working with a friend of mine who is a shaman and an

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amazing man. And I was telling him this whole completely lost,

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I felt that he just chuckled. And he said, Neeraj, you're not

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going to think your way out of

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Yeah. And what Yeah, what do you know about that now? Or what do

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you Well, yeah, well, what I learned about that, then is that

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now I still have those dark periods where and I don't mean

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dark necessarily. I, I have also struggled with depression on and

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off my whole life. But when I say dark, I really just mean

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like, black. No, no vision, no sense of where next and yeah,

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like, it's not this, but I don't have a sense of where to go

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next. Well, that that time really kind of taught me that

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that a darkness is not being lost. It's more like being in

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the womb. It's something's gestating. Okay, yeah. And it

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isn't clear what it is yet. So now I can relax more. And just

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know that whatever it is, that's just hating, will eventually

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make itself known. And what you were saying a minute ago, it's

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when I tried to force it.

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That I'm so unhappy. Yeah, I've got that imagery of like, trying

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to fight yourself our way out of that paper bag. Yeah. And that.

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It's a remembering of when we get to those places. I

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appreciate you sharing that. Because I think I think that's

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the human experience. And, you know, you and I have learned

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over the years, the things that we reach for to bring that

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vibration higher. And that's not always possible to access when

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we're lower. But that that what you're sharing is, is is the

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human experience, whatever form that comes for people, and we

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all are human. So Right. Yeah, yeah.

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And it's hard to see that things are for us at times. But we, you

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know, often need to get through that that darkness or the

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density to get to the light again, good work.

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Yeah. So you said that was a dark period before you got into

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your work with horses? First of all, that was

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we've already had this amazing conversation about the work that

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you do, and just the parts of your life are here to be shared.

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And when I reached out to you just a few weeks ago, it was the

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horses I was thinking about, too. So there's just it is the

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both and everything that you're sharing today, which I'm so

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excited about. But I'm utterly fascinated by the work that you

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do with horses. So Mary, how did you get into this work? And

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where would you begin? Oh, gosh, well, that was actually another

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very mystical experience.

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I was in that period of I don't know what's next. And I had had

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a series of experiences of guided meditations where the

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animals were calling. I was not busy telling my friends, the

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animals are calling me because I thought somebody would put me in

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a straitjacket. You know, like, What do you mean, the animals

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are calling you? They were saying you need to me you and I

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would be in conversation with them. And I say, Well, what do

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you mean? Like,

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save your habitat? Like, no, that's important, but that's not

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it. Okay, like, SPCA? No, that's important, but that's not it.

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Okay. Like animal communication, finding. No, that's important,

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but that's not it. And finally, what they said was, No, we have

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wisdom that your kind need. And you get us. We're going to speak

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through you it's not about you know, it's not you adding

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something it's you just being the the vehicle for our wisdom

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to come through. It's like Oh, cool.

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We're live that yeah, you're the conduit. But

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yeah, don't wait that great yet.

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And

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I had gotten reintroduced to horses, it just so happens that

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my, my grandfather, my great grandfather, were harness

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makers, and my dad raised me to love horses. So it just so

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happened.

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So my dad raised me to love horses, but we lived in Chicago.

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And, you know, unless you belong to a country club, really, and

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we didn't.

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That's, that's how I would have written horses. And so I, you

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know, had a few experiences at summer camp of riding horses,

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but I never really got to be with horses.

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And then my first coaching partner bred horses, and

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and so I got to be present for the births of the horses and got

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to be around them and

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but I still didn't put that together with my work or, or

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this, these messages I was getting. And

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so my coach at the time, had just had a miscarriage. And she

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was telling me that she was working with a somatic coach to

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process that experience. And I thought, somatic coaching.

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That's interesting. I wonder what that's about. So I googled

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somatic coaching. And up comes Arianna strazi. At sky horse

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ranch, she's a biologist, she's a horse woman. And she has

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found that

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horses are incredible coaching partners in personal

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development, and that they have wisdom to share with people. And

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I felt like I was at a slot machine and you know, had just

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pulled the arm down and it came up cherries, it's like, you

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know, so I called her and I said, you know, okay, this is

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gonna sound weird, but the animals are calling me and she

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said, Well, that doesn't sound weird to me. The animals are

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calling a lot of people right now. And I said, Okay. And I

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said, Well, could I come down to the ranch, you know, and just

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explore this with you. And I did. And I hope this isn't too

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long a story, but it's,

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um, so I got down there. And the first day, she told me the third

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rules of engagement, which was you can't be mean to the horses.

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And you have to say, whatever it is, you're thinking, because the

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horses demand that whatever is going on inside be apparent on

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the outside you don't you don't they? They demand authenticity,

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they, they require that you'd be congruent inside and outside. So

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what would be an example of that? That if you're scared, so

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you're scared?

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If you're sad, say you're sad. Don't try to pretend. Because to

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a horse, they don't have any judgment. If you're scared,

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you're scared. That's okay. They understand fear. That's amazing.

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So they don't what they can't What's dangerous is if you're

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pretending, because a predator pretense.

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And so any, if you're pretending you're dangerous, and they would

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just assume not be with you. Okay. And they're also very,

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they're incredibly perceptive. I mean, they can read us like a

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book, because it, you know, their survival requires on being

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able to read the energy and the intention of other beings. And

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they're also very opinionated. They're not in a judgmental way,

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but they have they have opinions. And if you pause and

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slow down and actually tune in and listen, they will, they will

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absolutely tell you what they think through

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through their actions.

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And it's, it's hard to explain it's not like we G horse. Yeah,

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this it means that right?

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But in context, it's so clear. Yeah, I'm, I'm wondering, do the

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horses pick the individuals to do this work? I mean, you are

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getting the messages that you had decode. Yeah, but like, and

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do you see

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the qualities of the horses you're describing? Do you see

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any similarities to the way you see the world? Um, well, in

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terms of who chooses who, you know, I, well, I don't know

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about in personal development, whether the

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well, when we're operating in a personal development situation,

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if there's more than one horse, we like to have

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know whatever horse wants to work with the person come

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forward volunteer. And, and if there's only one horse and the

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horse isn't interested, then it's a no thank you, you know,

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and we just don't.

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In the bigger context, I think that one of the reasons that

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horse that makes horses so special to me at least is that

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these are wild beings. I mean, we do have domestic horses, but

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you know, they're originally wild beings. And somewhere in

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our history together,

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a horse decided that a human was worth partnering with her. Yeah,

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I mean, there are other equine zebras don't do you don't

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domesticate a zebra zebras have absolutely no desire to partner

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with a human being. But for whatever reason? Yes. Horses, I

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do believe have chosen us who? Wow.

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You were talking about when we were talking last week about

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this about their biology and the science, some of the science

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roughly that's been done around their hearts? Yeah, there's a

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group called the Heart Math, Heart Math Institute, that.

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And they don't just look at horses. I mean, it's mainly

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looking at humans. And they've done a lot of really excellent

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science, and found that

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the,

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the electromagnetic

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generation of the heart is much more powerful than the brain,

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that there's more

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messages going from the heart to the brain than from the brain to

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the heart. That's for the horses or for No, for humans, for

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humans. Yeah. For humans and, and horses. And so that,

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and the,

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and I'm not I'm not a Heart Math expert. Let me just say that

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right now. But my, how I understand it is that

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one of the aims of Heart Math is to bring our hearts into a

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coherent rhythm. Because there's a certain rhythm that brings

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about is associated with calm and joy, and well being lowered

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heart rate,

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increased endorphins, all kinds of things. Well, that's so

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happens that

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the human heart can be measured about eight or 10 feet, all the

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way around us. A horse's heart, energy, electromagnetic energy,

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if you hook them up to an EKG, is about five times ours. And

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horses just so happen to

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have a congruent heart. Rhythm. Oh, wow. So imagine when you

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put, you know, imagine a human's standing next to a horse, we're

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really standing heart to heart.

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And there's this enormously powerful heart energy that is in

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this congruent rhythm. Yes. And when humans come in contact with

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that rhythm, we tend to be we are influenced by it.

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And I've so many times. And before I knew about Heart Math,

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I would always just be amazed because I've seen men and women

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walk into a round pen with a horse. And tears start flowing

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from their eyes, or it's just like this heart opening. So

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there's that in terms of, you know, what makes them great

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learning partners is just getting us out of our heads and

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into our hearts. I always say that, for the first 40 years of

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my life, I live from the head up, it was all the the reward

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was all in having the right answer and using your powerful

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brain and all that. And that coaching got me into my heart.

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It got me in in dialogue with my heart to actually where it was

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actually something that I could say, Okay, tell me, and I could,

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yes, and it was the horses that got me into my entire body as a

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place of wisdom. Yeah, that's amazing that they taught you.

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Right and, and there's somatic beings I mean, they experienced

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the world with their entire

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being and you know, one of the things that you you learn if you

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train to work partner with them in

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And

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in any kind of human development, you mentioned

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equine therapy. The horses are the same no matter what the

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modality the horses just are, who they are. And the wonderful

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thing about it is that

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in partnering with them, you can take it into any domain, whether

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it's horsemanship or

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psychology, therapy, even physical healing hippotherapy,

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or coaching. And the particular

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brand of training that I had was called equine guided education.

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Where the horse is the guide, the horse is not a tool, the

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horse is a partner and not just a partner dog guide.

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Where you really look to them for for their insight. Okay.

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Yeah, would you be able to break down for me and the listener?

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Like, who comes to you to then engage in the equine guided

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therapy? And what is it? What does it look like when you're

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actually working in a session? I'm really the same people who

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would come to you for coaching anyone who's interested in

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personal spiritual development.

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Now, let me just say, I wish I were offering it right now.

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Yeah, I, I, I offered it until we moved here to Colorado. And I

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hope to do it again, starting in 2024.

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And it looks like any other coaching session, except that

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the, the client is in an enclosure with a horse with a

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little bit of training in how to be safe around the horse and how

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to, and that's also, you know, I'm looking out to make sure

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that that that person is safe, I'm trained to know when, you

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know, the horse is concerned.

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And, you know, when it could,

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when there could be a safety issue,

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although it's rarely anything dramatic, but um, and so it's

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really a three way conversation. The horses there for the client,

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the horse is there with me. And

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you would ask the same questions that you would ask in a in a

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coaching session, what the person, you know, wants to work

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on. Yeah, and, and there's just an exchange, and the horse

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has a lot of different responses to the conversation. And I

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really think that what they're tuning into is that the energy

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and the intention and the emotion and the feeling. And I

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do have to say, though, that there are times when I'm, I just

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have to sit, they understand what we're saying, yes. They

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understand exactly what we're saying. I mean, they speak

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English, I don't know how they do. They speak whatever language

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we're, whatever it is, they understand what we're talking

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about, and more. Wow. And, yeah. So that's why they're so

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valuable, because they pick up on stuff that a client might not

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reveal to me in a coaching conversation. For months, it

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might take us weeks, to really get to what's really going on

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for them.

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A horse just cuts right

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through it. And and humans tend to respond. I think it's partly

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this, the Heart Math aspect of things, but also, you know, the

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whole archetype of the horses, they're beautiful, they're

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powerful, they're fast, they're graceful.

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They're soft, they're beautiful, they're yummy. And who, who

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doesn't want the horse to be accepted by a horse and have

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them come up? And, you know,

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and so,

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and the only way you're going to get that from a horse is if you

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are authentic. Yes, yes. And I always say horses have laser

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bullshit detectors for them. And so, and they don't have any

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judgment, they just want you to be real. They don't care what it

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is. They just want you to be real about whatever it is. Yes.

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And so so people respond by just dropping their masks and getting

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to the heart of the matter so much faster than they would

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without your presence that I can do your description and teaching

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around this. I can really hear that.

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That

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people

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because they

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And visually see, like, as if we're just meeting human to

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human person to person. And we're not ready to reveal yet

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the other person was okay, you know, will afford you some time

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and how many sessions it takes you to feel safe or

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what have you. But I could hear that, like, the client in this

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situation, they drop into the heart space really, really

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quickly. And I get like it's a resonance in a coherence. And

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you know, the very amazing yeah. And they do have an uncanny

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sense for actual

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circumstances that are going on in a person's life that are not

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present in the internet space or not, at the time,

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I think I may have shared with you about the client who asked

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me to come and work with her with her horses, about her

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business, she had a business decision, there was a colleague

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who wanted to go into business with her. And she, and that's

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how she presented it to me with as a decision. Well, horses are

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really great when you're, when you're at a choice point,

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to partner with them. Because, again, you know, we tend to make

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decisions on what we think we should do, or what we're afraid

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of, or, you know, all these other different things and, and

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to deliberate in the presence of a horse is to get really clear

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on what it is your heart is calling you to do. In this case,

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it went into a whole different realm, which is, you know,

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she's, I have to make this decision about my business. And

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she she had two horses, and she wanted to work with both of

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them. And

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one was to her left, and one was to her right one was a buckskin.

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And he was just there, steady Eddy holding the space. And the

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horse. To her left was a bay. And so she's talking to me about

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her business and the choices that she has to make. And I'm

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asking her questions about this than that. And, and the buckskin

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is just standing there while the bay is pulling the scrunchie out

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of her hair and pulling on her.

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undressing her and very intimate, very intimate, very

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intimate, and I'm looking at this and I'm going wow, okay.

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And again, it's not lychee horror. So I say you know what's

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going on with your bay horse? Oh, he's just mouthing. And I

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said, well, over here. It's like he's undressing you.

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And she was like, Oh, okay. Now, what she's willing to share is

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that this business decision that she's working through is

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actually a romantic decision.

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And it's about whether to leave the buckskin, who represents her

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husband, for the business associate, who wants to be in a

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romantic relationship with?

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Well, she had no intention of sharing that with me. That's

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incredible. You just want to you know, she was making it about a

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business decision. Yeah, I was taking that at face value. And,

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but in the presence of the horse, it's like, Whoo, yeah.

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Now, I can't explain to you how that came about. That's

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incredible. Mystery. That's why this I know, this is part

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because we've never really talked deeply about your work

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with the horses. And the, that's the magical aspect of it is just

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there's some deep knowing and intuition and they will do

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whatever it takes to somehow Express reflect to you what the

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real issue is. I love it. And it's just staggering,

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right? Because you were saying the thing about zebras, but you

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said the other day, no one's domesticated them. So yeah,

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there is a magic here and doing the full circle to our puzzle

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pieces. The horses certainly get a few. Yeah, yeah. Yeah.

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Who knows how it works, but I know I know. That's a mystery

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and that's it to me. It's okay. That it's a mystery. It's a

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magical experience to witness and be a part of, yeah, kind of

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as we we finish up today. What is it that you feel when you

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finish this session? For the for the most part with the horses

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like is your heart so full? Do you just feel just it's

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otherworldly

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gratitude, just

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that I that I've just experienced that it's just a

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horrible one once in a lifetime kind of experience and they're

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never this

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ain and I think the other is just before a session, I always,

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you know, I have a little anxiety, you know, I hope, I

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hope it all comes together. And all you have to do is just trust

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and be open and just step back. And you know, the horse has got

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this is like, you know all.

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Absolutely. And for the time that you've that you've had to

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take off or have taken off.

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I'm sure you miss it. I do. Yeah, I do. It's very, very

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special. And I just wish everyone could experience that.

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Oh, me too. I know. I go. Yeah, it sounds it sounds magical. And

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it's on my, I don't always use the word bucket list, but I'm

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gonna put it on that list for sure. There you go.

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As we finish up today, Mary, is there anything else that you

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want to share with the audience or that comes to mind for you? I

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guess just that

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what I, what I see as sort of my, what my role in terms of my

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path is to be an ally, with people to discover our infinite

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creative power. That, that, for me, it's one of the great

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lessons that we get to learn here in Earth school is

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how very powerful we are. And, you know, I feel like a neophyte

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I feel like a kindergarten in this regard in terms of really

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understanding how energy how to harness energy, and, you know,

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but this idea that we are divine beings, that we are powerful

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creators, that that's what you know, that's one of the things

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there is to explore is really, how, how infinite our

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possibility is that there really are, are no limits. If, if, if

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we're willing to do the work, and take the action and all the

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rest. Yeah, that that we're just incredibly Yeah.

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Powerful, and that there's really, so much more that's

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available to us than than we normally allow ourselves to

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believe. Now, I think that's true. And I And I'm grateful for

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your ability to be such a clear channel for that message. That

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adds, I really, I do think you, you really

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say it so clearly.

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That it just, I don't know, it rings true to my ears. And it's

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so full of possibility and hope for what what is to come in our

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lives. I mean, the shifts that you've taken in the last 20

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years is just like, it's, it's all so incredible. And you're

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only just beginning.

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absolutely. And I was good before you share where to find

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you is that I really appreciate your sense of playfulness, too.

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that conversation, and that field of infinite possibilities.

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It becomes the playground and it becomes I think Heather Hansen

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the levity, and yes, it's another gift of Mike Dooley as

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universe from taught. So yes. Okay. Well, Mary, where can

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listeners find you? Mary berg.com. Okay. All right. Yeah.

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Great. Thank you so much for being here. Thank you so much

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for having me. Maureen. You're well, I Yeah. I love to be with

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you. Yes, me too. And thank you to the listeners for being here.

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