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Episode 21st November 2022 • The Journey of You • Tonia D Benas
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In this episode, we sit down with Aerobics Instructor and nutrition guru, TD Watlington! TD talks about nutrition, your fitness journey, and how you can get started right now, even while still sitting on the couch. You can make little, subtle, lifestyle changes that can help you get in better shape over time.

She also tackles how to still go to all the upcoming holiday parties, have fun, eat and not have to feel bad doing so!

TD has been teaching fitness and nutrition for over 30 years! She specializes in fitness training for women over 40, veterans and beginners. You can connect with her in the following ways:

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC94bDOT78O4yQhI8Ulx6tnw/featured

IG: https://www.instagram.com/tightenupwithtd/

FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/729893914235061

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Tonia D Benas is the founder of The Journey of You. It is a lifestyle, a process and a community, where she teaches you to Love God, Love Yourself and Love Others with practical steps to Think, Act, and Live, With, In, and On Purpose, one mindset shift at a time.

You can connect with her on IG: www.instagram.com/toniadbenas

You can connect with her on Twitter: www.twitter.com/tbenas

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Yes, I'm so excited. We have a

special treat today. We're going

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to be talking with TD Washington

of Titan up with TD you. Welcome

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and good morning. How are you

today? Good morning. I'm fine.

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Thank you for having me.

Absolutely, absolutely. Can you

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just start by telling us a

little bit about you, especially

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for those who don't know you?

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Well, I'm TDD Watlington and I

have a aerobic YouTube channel

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that I teach fitness for women

that are over 40, for beginners

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and for veterans. I am a veteran

myself so I just decided, hey,

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let's just help somebody. So I

turned on the video one morning

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and.

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That's how it got started.

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I love it. I love it. How in

your journey did you know that

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aerobics was going to be like

your thing?

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Well, I went to an aerobics

class probably in the 90s when

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Jane Fonda and and Richard

Simmons were really just

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starting to get that platform

going and I was hooked. So I

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moved to Europe during my

military career and my next door

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neighbor invited me to Stephon.

That was five hours of doing

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step aerobics. I had never seen

that before and I just totally

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fell in love. They just happened

to be.

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Advertising for a fitness class

for you to become an aerobic

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instructor. And I totally was

sold. And I'm not an impromptu

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buyer, but I bought the book. I

laid out how I was going to take

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off 40 hours of leave so that I

could attend the class and how I

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was going to be able to pay for

the class. And I did that and it

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just took off. I did a testimony

at church and everybody in in

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church, all the women came up to

me after was hey, I want to

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join.

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To class, I don't even have a

class set up, but they wanted it

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so we started in an attic in one

of the high rise buildings in

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Dom stock, Germany.

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And it was so crowded. It really

was way past the limit of people

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that were supposed to be up

there. And so I went to one of

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the gyms on the concern and they

allowed me to set up my classes

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and then they made a position

for me. I still was in the

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military full-fledged soldier,

but I would teach class at

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night. So for five nights a week

I would teach class. I went from

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step aerobics to kickboxing to

water.

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Aerobics.

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And it just kept going. And so I

did that for a while while I was

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still in Germany. And then when

I got back to the states in

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Missouri, I did it a while. Oh

my goodness, I've done it in

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every state. And I actually

retired in Missouri. So I kept

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it going. And I did personal

training with clients while 9/11

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happened. And that shut down the

actual base. And so that made it

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a little difficult to get into.

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See the people. But

nevertheless, we still kept

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going. And then finally I got to

the East Coast and at my job in

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Walter Reed, I started

substituting for the aerobic

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instructor. If she couldn't get

on to Walter Reed, then she

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would call and say, can you, you

know, do my class?

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And I just have a love for it

because it's helping me for

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Oneness stay in shape because I

plan on being here till I'm 120

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or Jesus comes sooner. And I

just want to stay in shape. So

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one day I was on the treadmill

and I really just just felt it

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in my spirit that I could help

somebody with this. Just turn on

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the camera. I'm a talker, so I

can talk, I can show you how to

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do the exercise, and it holds me

accountable because I know that.

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You're depending on me and then

you can depend on me. We can

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depend on each other. Hey, I

thought, well, that's a great

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collaboration and here I am. So,

so I turn on that camera every

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morning to do my exercise and

however many people are out

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there joining me on the YouTube,

that is fine by me. You're going

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to get a good workout. You're

going to have fun. Hey, you

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might get a inspirational minute

in there, but that's just what I

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do.

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Well, so let's talk about that,

because you talk about being

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able to turn the camera on every

morning. I'm sure the first time

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that you did that had to be

scary. How did you overcome that

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fear of, like, are people going

to be there? Who am I going to

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reach? Like, how did you work

through that? Well, I guess

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since I was a kid, I've always

had to get in front of people.

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So that part of the fear was not

there. The part that would get

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me riled up where I could get

bubble guts is like, am I going

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to?

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Talk loud enough and I gonna

remember the exercises that I

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planned on doing that day. So

you have to practice, you have

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to plan. OK, today I'm going to

do upper body. Well, what

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exercises really target that

upper body? So just planning it

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out, knowing the exercise and

what it does for you and how

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many minutes on the the the

clock am I dealing with. That's

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one reason why I don't use my

music when I was teaching

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classes.

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I did use music, but with this,

it's early in the morning so I

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don't have to worry about

counting the beats and all. We

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on the beat? No, we are

exercising. I was a drill

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Sergeant in the military at one

point and there was no music. It

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was capped:

we do. You can count with me.

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I'm either going to go to

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backwards:

thing. Just give me more. And

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that's to keep it simple.

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That's where the fun comes in.

Now, if you want music in your

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own background, you can do that

because you don't have to do it

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with me live, you can do it with

me.

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You know, afterwards, anytime

during the day. So if you hit

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that notification button, you

could turn me on and turn the

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music on and get fired up even

more. You know what I mean?

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Definitely, definitely. Well, as

you've gone through your

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certifications, and even as

you've been even in different

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regions and countries teaching

people in aerobics, what would

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you say has been your biggest

aha moment or the toughest part

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of that journey?

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Well, when I took the 40 hour

class and I met real

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professionals who were teaching

us, it was like, man, you know,

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this is just awesome. And just

the knowledge that they had and

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how simplistic the classes were

because they're just, they're

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teaching you and it's like,

well, you know, I compared it to

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being a drill Sergeant. We had

to learn the modules, they had

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to learn the models. They have

been doing it.

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Well while that experience is

there now, so it can happen. So

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I could see myself doing that

and preparing for the test. Now

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that was like the hard part

because they've changed over the

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years and I'm certified through

alpha and that's your your your

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fitness association that's all

of them on the world. I can go

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anywhere and and teach. So they

have a fitness theory and and

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practical type format.

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You have to get prepared for

taking the test. If you're not a

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good tape test taker, then you

might have a problem. But during

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the practical work it was like,

OK, they may call you and say,

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all right, you got a room full

of people and you got to do

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squats. Talk us through squats

while the music is playing, and

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you got to like, find out where

you are with the music. You

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never heard that music before,

but you got to do it. And then

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they say, OK, let's go, we're

going to do this, and you

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demonstrate exactly what you're

going to do. That was like the

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hardest part the first time.

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Over the years, keeping your

certifications up is pretty

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easy. You have to do 15 credit

hours. So each year, every two

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years you just go out and take

tests online. You can do that.

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And the good part about being in

COVID, everything was online, so

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you have to have your CPR and

first aid.

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Qualifications always, always up

to par and taking those tests.

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You also can attend classes like

an aerobics class or a yoga

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class that also gives you CU

points so you can continue your

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education with that. It's lots

of ways that you can do it, but

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it's it's fun because you're

meeting people, you're learning

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what they know how to do. It

also gives you letters behind

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your name. So if you want to be

a kickboxing expert, you know

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you go to all the kickboxing

classes.

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You want to do Pilates and you

want to do yoga. All of those

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types of trainings are out

there, and you take the classes,

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hey, now you're certified. Then

you can pass on that training to

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lay people and you earn your

clients like that. You know, you

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just have to advertise for that.

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And so you mentioned kickboxing,

Pilates, yoga, step aerobics.

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You've taught every single one

of those. How have you kind of

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stayed on top of those trends or

even as, OK, now everybody's

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kickboxing, now it's Pilates,

now it's yoga. How have you kind

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of stayed on top of that to know

what should I be doing now or

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how do I flex and, you know,

growing even more of an audience

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just in the interest alone when

people ask you, hey, do you

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provide that well, OK, if I

don't know anything.

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That is like, ohh, I don't know.

So I I do keep abreast of all of

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the latest things. There's some

trends that it's like, OK,

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that's a little too fast for me,

you know, so I I tend to keep

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grounded with some things that

as I age and progression, your

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ability to do things, if you

keep up with something, you

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actually can train your muscles

to do it. So if you want to do a

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lot of jumping and that kind of

thing, you know, you can train

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your body to do that.

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But as I get older and my focus

is how is this really helping

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me? You know, yes, I'm, I'm

popping in sweating, but is this

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really helping me? You have a

lot of clients who are suffering

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with knee and joint pains and

things like that. So they may

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not be able to do that. So I

want to cater to people who, you

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know, if they're having joint

pain, well then we're not going

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to do 50 squats today because

that person is looking for

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something that they can.

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Do it in a modified way. So I

want to show you can do it

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sitting down as long as you're

doing something. Then you you

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exercise and you increasing your

heart rate. The blood is

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flowing, you're toning your

muscles. So I try to cater to

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you know how the people of the

age group that are watching you

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know that they can get something

out of it? When you're sweating,

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sweating, sweating, and it's not

showing any difference, you're

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working so hard.

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I try to stay away from that

because I know my own body. I

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want to stay grounded and stay

in a maintenance stage. If

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that's the lazy way to do it,

you know? I know that I'm not

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alone, but I I want to get my

muscles where they're toned. I

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want to work hard, but there are

times when I just want to get my

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exercise out. I can check the

block. That's that's just how

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I'm trying to be human. But if

you want to be a beast.

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Then you know you can just add

another set to what we're doing,

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but to me.

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I just like to keep it simple.

So I'm I'm not a competitive

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person, if you will. I just

wanna do me. And if I can help

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you while I'm doing me, then

that's just how I like it. So I

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just try to keep up with all of

the the latest things, for

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Pilates, for kickboxing, for

yoga and step aerobics. So I

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keep it. That's my genre right

there, if you will. I love that

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you know your target audience,

but then you also are.

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Very self aware that you know

what's best for you and then

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you're able to use that to help

other people. And I know with

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aerobics and fitness a lot of

times nutrition comes into that

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too. So can you tell us a little

bit just about the nutrition

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side and what we can be doing to

stay healthy on that side of it

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as well? Good question, good

question. Well, for me I try to

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like keep it simple for I don't

calorie count. I I don't like

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the word diet. I try to eat

sensibly where I you know, stay

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away from a lot of fried foods

and.

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Don't get me wrong. Every now

and then I do have it and I try

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to tell my myself, OK?

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Have you ever heard of

intermittent fasting? So you

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have to break your fast sometime

during the day? It doesn't have

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to be early in the morning

because break fast actually

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means you're going to break from

fasting because you slept all

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night, couple of hours. So

whatever time you start eating

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during the course of the day,

you want to eat the right things

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for your body type. I know for

me my body type is what my

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androids is what?

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It's me going as far as eating

salty food, if that makes sense.

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OK, so I can get wrapped up

after eating peanut butter and

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or or a bag of chips. I'm ready

to go. I'm like, let's go, let's

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go, let's go. Well, that might

not be for you, you know what I

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mean? You might like sweet.

Well, sweets make me crash after

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eating them. OK, I like sweets,

but I know that I'm going to

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feel like blood, so you have to

know your own body type.

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You have to know, you know, what

gets you going. So once you find

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that out, then I think that

you'll stick with whatever

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program you come up with as far

as eating properly. I do eat my

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proteins with through meat,

eggs, that kind of thing. I have

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carbohydrates and now I really

like pasta and rice, but I know

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that I have to pull back from

that a couple of times during

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the week so that I can see my

abs, you know, or stay away from

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shrimp.

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Yeah, those are my ideal foods

that I really like to eat. But I

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noticed that when I eat them

then I don't have my little 6

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pack, if you will. So you have

to know your own body type. So

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in preparing meals, I try to

prepare meals that are sensible,

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where I get my fruit in there, I

get my carbs, my fats and my

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protein. So I kind of like stick

to that daily, you know, chart

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if you will, but nothing hard

and the amount of food.

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I try to portion it where, you

know my meat and I can eat a

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steak this big, but I know that

since we're just eat maybe 6

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ounces or less, that kind of

thing. I don't do three meals a

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day.

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It's just how I feel if I can

get all my food in at lunchtime

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because I do eat fast.

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Then that's what I do. And then

I'll eat something light for

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dinner, maybe a salad or

something like that. But there's

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no real real regiment. I just

try not to cook the old

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fashioned way. Like I was

brought up on with the Butters

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and the grease and that kind of

thing. So I may do more

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grilling, I may do more baking

than the fried, but it's the

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same foods. I'm just preparing

it a different way. I do add

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more turmeric to my food cumin.

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Had.

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Was that other than cayenne

pepper? Because I do know those

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type of ingredients will burn

calories, so that's the kind of

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stuff that I'm interested in.

How am I going to burn calories

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while I'm still sitting still?

So if my body is still revved up

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and.

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You know, burning calories, then

I know that I'm going to lose

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inches. I know that I'm going to

be more toned, so I just keep it

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simple like that and that's just

me knowing me. But for helping

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clients know their their bodies

and stuff, I do go in a little

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bit more in depth individually

because it's an individual

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thing. One size doesn't fit all

and you just have to know that

cbe:

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people can't just blindly say

well what what can I do? Because

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you need to know you do you know

your body? Do you listen to your

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muscles? When we.

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I'm doing stretches and things

like that, you know, did you

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eat, you know, a plate full of

pasta the night before you know

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did this make you feel sluggish

and bloated and or does this

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grab you up? You ready to go?

You can tighten up with TV, you

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know, come on, give me more,

give me more kind of thing. You

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have to know your own body and

if you're just starting out.

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The good thing about it is.

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Write down what what it is you

like to eat, if you like to eat

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bread, if you like to drink

sodas and things like that. And

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I say, OK you guys, we're going

to, you know, pull away from

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drinking soda today, where if

you drink 5 sodas a day or

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::

later, then maybe don't drink

the whole liter. Start little by

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little, you know, don't just

throw everything away because

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you're not going to stick to

that. So just maybe if you drink

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3 glasses of soda, then maybe

only drink.

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2 1/2 That's a win right there

because you can check the block.

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Well, I didn't drink all three,

you know, so whatever it takes

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to motivate you, then that's

what you're going to stick with.

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You don't have to blame anybody.

You just know, hey, I know that

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I did less today of that and

then tomorrow, hey, do even less

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treat yourself, you know? So.

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Whatever it takes for you to

stick to a program and you find

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your niche in it, I just say,

hey, let's go for it. If eating

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is is a problem for you, just

take a little bit of weight at a

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time, get out and walk a little

bit more. Walking is the most

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simplest.

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Type of exercise that you can

do. You can walk around in the

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house, so if it's raining,

there's no excuse. You know if

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it's snowing, there's no excuse.

Walk around in the room. When I

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say use your room, use your room

and walk around. Move your arms.

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Whatever it takes. You're

burning calories. You will see

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results.

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I love that. I love that. It

sounds like it's more of a

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lifestyle change. It's not

overnight success or things are

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just gonna change. Today you

make a decision, tomorrow it's

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different. You gotta take that

one day at a time, which really

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makes me want to ask you, with

us getting ready to go into the

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holidays. There's parties and

everybody's got cookies and

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treats and so many different

foods that are right in front of

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you. What would be your

suggestion of how we are able to

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go through the holidays and

still have those lifestyle

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changes where we're eating

healthy, but we can still enjoy

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the parties and all the things

that are going to be before us?

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Over the next couple of months.

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Fabulous question. The thing

that I say to do, if you have a

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lot of parties, eat before you

go to the party so you're not

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starving, OK? And it's OK to

purchase your clothes a little

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bit bigger than what you

normally wear. So say for

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instance, I always say, hey, I'm

a size 6, I'm not buying a size

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8. But sometimes the the

designer of the clothes, you

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know, maybe cut them small. So

you have to take that into

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consideration.

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So if you're gonna wear

something that's just Uber

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tight, you know, then you need

to start eating a little bit

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earlier in the day so that you

can eliminate that, because you

df:

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should be eliminating every

meal, you know, if you're eating

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the right consistency of fiber

and things of that nature. So if

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you're going to be going to big

parties two or three times a

df:

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week, plan ahead by either

eating or a smaller meal so

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you're not famished by the time

you get to that.

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Body so you know remember to

exercise so that you can burn

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those calories and you'll have a

little bit of deficit there

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where you can kind of like

alright well I can eat some more

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beans if you will. You know you

got to have fun with it can't be

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so rigid that you just got to

count at least not for me. I

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just try to think about OK well

where are we going what when was

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the last time that I ate you

know and my full am I just

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famished I I can eat it.

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Horse kind of thing, which I

never say that, but I'm just

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using that as an example. You

know, you don't want to go there

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and try to pick out, you want to

eat just small portions. So if

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they do have some really

delectable foods, then just take

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a small amount of each thing,

take your time chewing, you

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know, if you chew 20 times, you

know, then you can get full fast

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and your brain will be, you

know, OK, well we are full, you

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know, we don't need to eat

anymore, that kind of thing. So

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you hear me.

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Tell your brain, you know,

always say that because there's

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a purpose behind that. You know,

you just don't eat just to be

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eating, you know, for comfort.

I've been there. Or or you eat

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so fast like I do, that I could

eat everything that's on the

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table presented to me. No, I'm

in control. The food doesn't

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control me. So it's a whole game

with me. And it is, you said the

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right thing. It is a lifestyle.

OK, so it being a lifestyle,

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this means that this is going to

be with you.

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Often. And you gonna have to pay

attention to your body, you

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know, something that you eat may

make you feel like, oh, you

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know, I shouldn't ate that.

Well, how you going to know if

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you eating everything around? So

take your time, sit down and

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think about well, what is it

that I really really like to eat

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those things that you really

really like to eat probably or

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the things that's doing you the

most harm. I named peanut butter

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shrimp. Those types of things is

really what makes me feel

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bloated.

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But I like them, but I don't eat

it all the time. So when I do

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want it, you know, I have to eat

it in moderation so that I can

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enjoy it. So I try to slow down

and chew it so my brain and say,

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OK, you've had enough, you know,

but I'm like a bit more, you

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know.

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At one point, my mind used to be

like, I could see myself, you

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know, I'm, I'm thin, 17% body

fat. But my mind still saw me

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heavy. So I had to change my

mindset when it came to that.

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You know, you have to be

transformed by renewing your

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mind. So I did have to read a

lot of books. I had to, you

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know, think about what I was

doing and then I was able to

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overcome it. Plus, I was still

in the military and I had to

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take what they called PT test.

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And you had to be a certain

weight. So it wasn't hard for me

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to snap back. You know, I I've

been.

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Overweight, too, from going from

1:30 to 150. I've done that. And

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that was from stress from work

because I maintained my body

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weight. I went in the military

as A at 123. When I separated or

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retired from the military, I was

126. So you tell me I was doing

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something right. I only gained 3

pounds. And then after I got out

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of military, which has been 20

years, then I gained, you know,

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all of this weight. And it was

before.

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Solve it. And so when we went

into COVID, that snapped me

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back, hey, I'm up to 150. I've

never been this even, you know,

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at my pregnant weight. So I got

busy. I was like, OK, I did me a

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dream board. And I was like, I'm

going to be 133 pounds, you

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know, by this time frame. And I

had to do the work. So I went

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back and I got certified in my

aerobics, and I started, you

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know, getting on that treadmill,

doing my 10,000 steps a day,

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every day.

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I was drinking my 8 ounces of

water. I took my weight and

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divided it in half. That's how

many ounces of water I would

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drink a day. I mean, I did the

work because I wanted to see the

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results. And so if that works

for me, then hey, then I can

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help somebody else do that. But

you just got to know what works

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for you and do it, stick to it.

You got to stick to the plan

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that you're going to choose

whatever niche that is that

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haven't necessarily would

tighten up with TD.

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You may come up with your own

things because exercise is

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universal. So if you're doing

your biceps this way, you know,

b:

00:24:32.664 --> 00:24:35.959

and you like that, then you

could teach somebody this way,

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or you can take it down by your

waistline. Whatever. Nobody can

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be insulted, you know? Or you

doing that like me, because it's

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universal and that's a

compliment. If somebody's doing

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the same thing that you're doing

and they want to teach it, go

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for it. There's room, all right?

There's room out here, and

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there's no limit to the type of

exercises that can be done.

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So I always say go and have fun,

tighten up with TD. I'm would

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you like come on in. Alright,

come on. I love that.

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Alright, cool. You mentioned

quite a few things in there that

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made me think about, you talked

about emotional eating. You

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talked about, you know, the

fluctuating of weight. And for

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you, the military was a really

big factor in the beginning of

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staying in shape until you were

able to bounce back. But then

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after the military, it was like

you had that wake up call. What

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would you say would be like the

first step for someone who maybe

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they're like, this isn't the way

that I want to be and I want to

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get healthier, but they don't

have the military behind them

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driving them to get it done.

What would be like that?

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1st next step because I mean you

talking about the emotional

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mindset that you've got to get

in check as well. What would

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they do to get started and then

be able to keep going from

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there?

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First of all, you gotta love

yourself so.

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Just knowing that you are enough

that you matter that.

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You are important enough to take

care of yourself. Even though

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you're taking care of other

people, yourself matters. So you

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have to give yourself

affirmations, looking at mirror

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and say girl, you look good. You

know, that kind of thing. You

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have to motivate yourself. So if

if you've been sitting on the

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couch for the last 20 years, you

haven't been doing anything,

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just really just nothing.

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Now is the time to just say I'm

tired of being tired and let me

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do something about myself. So if

nothing else, pick up a pencil

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or pick up your phone and go to

that little note section and

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just start saying, hey, I'm

matter, I want to lose this

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amount of weight so you're not

going to lose £50 in three days

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unless you had surgery. OK,

let's just be real. So if if you

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are £400.

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Then just say, OK, I'm going to

lose £2.00 this week. Well, how

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do you lose £2.00? That means if

I can sit here, hold my arms up

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like this, I can't get out of

bed. But I can hold my arms up

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like this. Can I bring them

forward like this? Maybe do that

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four times today? Well, if you

do it three times in one day for

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10 minutes.

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Then that's 30 minutes of

exercise. OK, so let's just

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break it down even more. If the

10 minutes is too much and it's

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stressing you out, then just do

it for 30 seconds.

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OK.

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30 seconds rest 2 hours, come

back 230 seconds more. You know,

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whatever it takes. My main point

in saying all this is little by

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little.

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Just do little by little. You

will see the results because

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you're going to get stronger. If

you consistently do something,

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it's gonna work for you. So

consistently doing the right

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things, not the wrong thing.

Consistently doing the right

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things, which means raise those

arms up because raising it above

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your head, that's going to make

your heart rate speed up. OK,

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now OK, that's a start because

now you're burning calories

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because your heart rate is going

up. Simple, right? Just keep it

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00:28:12.628 --> 00:28:15.439

simple. Now can I raise my arms

a little bit more?

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A little bit more. Little bit

more. Look at that. Alright, now

a:

00:28:19.941 --> 00:28:23.810

bring it down. OK. Now you just

did that with me. Look.

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Alright. And I'm getting

stronger, so little things like

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that. And just reward yourself

by just saying, oh, you are

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awesome. You know, pick that

knee up, just just push back

a-:

00:28:35.384 --> 00:28:39.014

from the table, lift your knee

up one knee at a time, just

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squeeze as you lift, little

bitty things like that. I

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promise you you'll start seeing

the results and pretty soon you

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can get up off that couch, you

can use your room, you can walk

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around.

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This might not work for

everybody, but it's just that

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simple. So when I say in the

morning, OK, everybody, you know

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what we do? We got to give God

all the glory. I believe in

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keeping him first because he's

the one that's going to be in

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that room with me. If nobody

turns on that site to look at,

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tighten up the TV, I'm still

doing this for me and I'm doing

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it to the glory of him. So he's

giving me the strength to do it.

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Then I'm honoring him because,

Lord, I'm doing this to the

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glory of you, because I.

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Know that I know I heard him say

turtleneck camera and do this

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so.

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Bottom line, to answer your

question, it's to start little

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by little.

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And just do what you can do.

Write down what it is you want.

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Those are your goals, your

vision. You got to make it

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plain, because successful people

get up early in the morning.

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They do their exercise, they

write down their ideas, they

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read their ideas over and over

again and they pray. So those

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are the things that I do and

that helps me. So I pass that on

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to you. I love that. I love

that. And you really just drove

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home the message of love.

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Love yourself and love others.

And you have to do it in that

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order. And so I don't know about

everybody else, but I'm like, I

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wanna join. I want to tighten

up. How can they join or follow

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you in order to tighten up with

TV? OK. I'm on YouTube and it's

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the tighten up with TD, TD, like

in touchdown. All right. And I'm

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also on Instagram. Tighten up

with TD. And I'm also on

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Facebook as Tonya Watlington, so

you can follow me.

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I'm on every morning, five days

a week at 5:30 AM Eastern

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Standard Time, OK? And so five

days a week. Are we doing the

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same thing every day? Is it a

little bit different or what's

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kind of how is that set up?

Well, I try to have a little

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schedule so that I can get toned

in the right muscles and all. So

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I on Mondays I do upper body. On

Wednesday it's cardio Tuesday.

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Thursday, no deck, skip one.

Tuesday is cardio Tuesday,

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Wednesday is lower body,

Thursday is relaxing Thursday,

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and then Friday is full body. So

we're going to bring everything

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that we learned during the

course of the week. We read all

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in on Friday. Sometimes I'll

have a chair in there, sometimes

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I'll have weights, sometimes

I'll have a step in there. Who

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knows? But sometimes it's just

our own muscles, and you have to

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know that these muscles can be

heavy if you do a repetition.

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A couple of times you gonna get

to that muscle failure. You're

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like, I can't do no more. So

that's the beauty of it all. And

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you know, if you keep doing this

for, say, five to six weeks,

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then you can increase your

weights. If you start out with

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no weight, then you can increase

it to £2.00 to £5 to six pounds,

e:

00:31:47.769 --> 00:31:51.373

whatever, because you're getting

stronger, all right. Or if you

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00:31:51.373 --> 00:31:54.188

just rather do it without

weights, all of that is

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incorporated. So we do it. Just

just come on and join us and

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have a good time.

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11 What I hear you saying is we

don't have to wait until January

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to become a better version of

ourselves. We can start right

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now, right now. That's the

beauty of you don't have to

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wait. So even after we get off

the podcast, you can start

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walking around in your room. You

can start thinking about, well,

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00:32:17.942 --> 00:32:21.720

OK, how many glasses of water do

I need to drink? How? How much

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00:32:21.720 --> 00:32:25.438

fiber do I need in my body? OK,

go eat a apple. And if there's

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any allergies or anything like

that, don't worry about it. Use

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a substitute, OK?

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But do something because you're

doing it for yourself. If you

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don't take care of you, how can

you take care of anybody else?

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So just keep it simple and just

make a plan. And the plan is to

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get started. Love yourself.

You're worth it.

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I love it. I love it. TV, thank

you so much for coming on the

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podcast today. You have truly

got me motivated. I'm like, I

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have my Fitbit on. I'm ready to

go walk around and get my stuff

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and start taking better care of

myself as well. So thank you

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very much. We appreciate it

guys. For any more information,

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please go. To tighten up with

TV, you can check with her on

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YouTube, Instagram and on

Facebook 5:30 in the morning.

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00:33:08.129 --> 00:33:10.940

Then you don't want to get up

that early. You can TuneIn

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anytime throughout the day. So

thank you guys so much. We hope

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you all have a great rest of

your day.

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Thank you so much. Alright, bye,

bye.

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