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Welcome to Barnyard Language.
Speaker:We are Katie and Arlene, an Iowa sheep farmer, and an Ontario dairy
Speaker:farmer with six kids, two husbands, and a whole lot of chaos between us.
Speaker:So kick off your boots, reheat your coffee, and join us for some
Speaker:barnyard language, honest talk about running farms and raising families.
Speaker:In case your kids haven't already learned all the swears from being in the barn,
Speaker:it might be a good idea to put on some headphones or turn down the volume.
Speaker:While many of our guests are professionals, they
Speaker:aren't your professionals.
Speaker:If you need personalized advice, consult your people.
Speaker:Welcome to another episode of Barnyard Language.
Speaker:It's Arlene and Katie here as usual.
Speaker:And Katie, what is going on on the farm in Iowa?
Speaker:What's the update?
Speaker:Well, Arlene, we're trying out some new recording software today, so if.
Speaker:This episode sounds way better.
Speaker:That's why.
Speaker:And if this episode sounds terrible, that's why.
Speaker:Um, yeah, it's new.
Speaker:It'll sound great.
Speaker:We'll see what happens.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:I have faith.
Speaker:Um, other than that, we moved the cows out on Cornstalks last week, so I got
Speaker:a lot of work done while I was not sleeping because we had, we, uh, weed
Speaker:some calves and there was a lot of noise.
Speaker:So I, uh, was able to get up extra early benefits of a flexible remote
Speaker:job and get some extra work done.
Speaker:Um, other than that, not a lot.
Speaker:It's cold, it's windy.
Speaker:Um, Thanksgiving happened.
Speaker:What's the update?
Speaker:Thanksgiving happened, um, there was a shit ton of food.
Speaker:And Are you still eating it?
Speaker:I, no, in a wasteful but beneficial twist of fate.
Speaker:The Turkey carcass got popped back in the oven to protect it from the cat.
Speaker:And then I had a migraine Thanksgiving afternoon and so the Turkey carcass
Speaker:was still in the oven the next day.
Speaker:Got it.
Speaker:Um, which really, so it went to the cats anyway.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:The barn cats really appreciated it.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Um, but yeah, so, uh, lots of food and I made another pumpkin pie this week
Speaker:because I only got one little slice on Thanksgiving and Oh, that is not enough.
Speaker:I freaking love pumpkin pie.
Speaker:So I just made it.
Speaker:Did you know there's like not a law that you can't make pumpkin
Speaker:pie whenever the hell you want.
Speaker:That is true.
Speaker:And it's a vegetable.
Speaker:It is.
Speaker:So you can eat it for breakfast because it's healthy.
Speaker:Yes, absolutely.
Speaker:Yeah, because if you put whipped cream on it, it's basically a complete meal.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:It's got basically all the food groups.
Speaker:It's got dairy, it's got, there's, yeah, there's eggs in it, there's
Speaker:protein, it's got eggs, it's got milk.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:It's nature's most complete food.
Speaker:It really is.
Speaker:I hope the pumpkin board is listening.
Speaker:Maybe they want to sponsor us there.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Is there a pumpkin board?
Speaker:You know, it's, it probably is.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:I'm sure there.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:Um, other than that, not much.
Speaker:Just getting ready for Christmas and the girl child's birthday is
Speaker:on the day this comes out actually.
Speaker:So she'll be six.
Speaker:And is the party happening before her birthday or after
Speaker:It's happening the day before.
Speaker:Oh, thank goodness.
Speaker:Then you don't have to wait now.
Speaker:Is it happening early in the day?
Speaker:Because that used to be over lunchtime.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:That's pretty good intentionally because I figured I can, like, I'm gonna do a, uh, a
Speaker:unicorn themed snack board with, you know, star shaped cheese and little sandwiches
Speaker:and, um, you can color powdered sugar with fruit coloring, which I didn't know.
Speaker:So I'm gonna make puppy chow, which is healthy because it has
Speaker:peanut butter and cereal in it.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:, it's a whole grain, right?
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:So it's, it's healthy.
Speaker:I mean, on the one hand, I don't really give a shit because A, it's
Speaker:a special event, and B, they're not my kids, not all of them.
Speaker:Uh, , but also I know what my kids are like if I crank 'em full of sugar and
Speaker:no protein and no, not no crazy, like sugar makes them hyper kind of way.
Speaker:But in a, if you spike their blood sugar and then their blood sugar tanks,
Speaker:that doesn't do anybody any good.
Speaker:Sure.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Um, so I spent an obscene amount of money on unicorn themed party supplies,
Speaker:and this better be the most magical fucking birthday this kid has ever had.
Speaker:And maybe she'll still be into unicorns next year and you can Yeah.
Speaker:Pull them all out again.
Speaker:I mean, in, in all of our defense, this is the first friend birthday we've
Speaker:been able to have because of Covid.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:. So, you know, we've got a couple, couple years to make up for.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:And I'll let you know how it goes.
Speaker:, I did hire our normal babysitter to come and help at the party.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:, which I think is a real stroke of genius.
Speaker:I'm feel very good about that.
Speaker:Yeah, that is definitely a good idea.
Speaker:We did that for very many years and it was a huge help.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Um, cuz they love her and she loves them and I mean obviously I love them, but
Speaker:they're loud and there's a lot of them.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:So it's nice to have an extra set of hands.
Speaker:Yeah, for sure.
Speaker:And if you're yeah.
Speaker:Putting out food or helping out someone else's kid or any of
Speaker:those types of things, it's always good to have extra adults around
Speaker:that you can tell what to do.
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:I mean, you might have parents stick around but you don't know for sure.
Speaker:Some people drop off, some people stick around you.
Speaker:That's, uh, kind of a toss up sometimes.
Speaker:Well, and um, because my kids are so close in age, a lot of the boy child's
Speaker:friends are coming as well because it's pretty common around here that there
Speaker:are siblings who are quite close in age.
Speaker:Um, and it seems really rude to be like one of your kids can come.
Speaker:the other one cannot come play with her friends.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:, because the kids are all about the same age.
Speaker:They're all friends.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Um, so we ended up with some extra kids that way too.
Speaker:And I just, you know, plus the babysitter's cool.
Speaker:She's not a mom, you know, she's really like 19.
Speaker:She's fun, you know, and she can tell 'em they can do whatever the hell they want.
Speaker:And it's not like I'm being that mom who's just like, do whatever.
Speaker:I don't care.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Now do, um, do barn tours end up part of birthday parties at your place,
Speaker:or I guess you don't know yet, but, uh, is that on the, on the schedule?
Speaker:Kind of doubt it with kids this age and it's very cold out.
Speaker:Um, so I'd be kind of surprised for the boy child's birthday.
Speaker:I think it will because there's tractors, but mm-hmm.
Speaker:for the girl child.
Speaker:I think with, um, unicorns and snacks and it being freaking cold out, I think
Speaker:they'll probably stay in the house.
Speaker:That's an interesting question.
Speaker:I didn't consider it.
Speaker:. Um, so what's happening at your place, Arlene?
Speaker:Well, we don't have Thanksgiving.
Speaker:Well, I mean, we already had Thanksgiving back in October, so it
Speaker:wasn't technically a long weekend for us, but then it kind of turned
Speaker:into one because our school had, uh, professional development day for teachers.
Speaker:So that means men's, the kids didn't go to school on Friday.
Speaker:So what would've been your Black Friday?
Speaker:Which in Canada ends up being kind of Black Friday people don't have
Speaker:the day off, but they put a bunch of stuff on sale because Americans do.
Speaker:I don't know.
Speaker:It's one of those weird hybrid Canadian things.
Speaker:So because we had an extra day off, um, my daughter and I had decided
Speaker:that we would go on a road trip.
Speaker:So we actually crossed the border for the first time in several years.
Speaker:Um, their restrictions.
Speaker:Gone and we knew that wait times wouldn't be as long as they were before.
Speaker:You didn't have to do any special paperwork or anything.
Speaker:So we went down to Syracuse, which is just under three hours away
Speaker:from us here in Eastern Ontario.
Speaker:So yeah, went down to New York State and started looking for a prom dress.
Speaker:So we actually stayed over two nights, drove down on Friday afternoon.
Speaker:I'd milked in the morning, then took a bit of a nap because I wanted to make sure
Speaker:that I was good to go for a longer drive.
Speaker:Um, yes, I had a couple appointments booked on Saturday to look at dresses,
Speaker:and actually picked and bought one by the end of that day, and then also went to the
Speaker:giant mall in Syracuse and looked around.
Speaker:We went to two different targets.
Speaker:Do you know the story of Canadian target?
Speaker:, I heard that it was a thing and then it stopped being a thing.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:So they brief, maybe it's just not love, cute shit.
Speaker:Or like, what's, what's your problem up there?
Speaker:So we had, we had a store called Zes and it was like a discount chain.
Speaker:It was, it was fine.
Speaker:Anyway, it, it had been around for a long time and they went outta business,
Speaker:so they closed and then we'd never had Target, it had just never come to Canada.
Speaker:So Target ended up taking on a bunch of those Zeller's locations and they
Speaker:did a big expansion across Canada, kind of all in one foul swoop.
Speaker:You know, like they put a, I don't know how many, how many hundreds
Speaker:of locations, all kind of within a very short amount of time.
Speaker:Um, but due to supply issues and the way they had to purchase products and stuff,
Speaker:it was not as good as the American target.
Speaker:It was still pretty good.
Speaker:I mean, it was nice, but it was.
Speaker:More expensive than the stores that they had replaced.
Speaker:And it was new for a lot of people cuz if people didn't do cross-border
Speaker:shopping, they didn't know about Target.
Speaker:And so I think they just kind of got ahead of themselves in terms
Speaker:of like expanding really fast.
Speaker:And then the market didn't, didn't quite work out the way they thought.
Speaker:So it was here for a short time and then it went bankrupt so
Speaker:then they all closed again.
Speaker:So we actually had a Target like five minutes from my house
Speaker:for about two years and it was amazing and then it disappeared.
Speaker:And is there Walmart in Canada or not?
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:So we've had Walmart for quite a while.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:What can you tell me about, is it Canadian Tire, which is apparently not an auto
Speaker:parts store or, well, it has auto parts.
Speaker:The auto parts store.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:So Canadian Tire would.
Speaker:maybe kind of would be a competition for Target, I would say, because
Speaker:it has a little bit of food, but not like grocery items.
Speaker:Um, especially around Christmas, there's lots in terms of toys and
Speaker:games, it's all your garden stuff.
Speaker:In the summer there is like a garden center, plus there's all like your shovels
Speaker:and rakes and all that kind of stuff.
Speaker:That's where you would go for your Christmas lights.
Speaker:It's also where you go for your, your sports equipment, especially in small
Speaker:towns like your hockey sticks, skates, helmets, all that kind of stuff.
Speaker:You can get your things camping supplies is all at Canadian tire
Speaker:and kitchen stuff and pet stuff.
Speaker:And then lighting.
Speaker:Yeah, it's kind of like hardware, but also homeware.
Speaker:So, so it sounds like maybe it's more like, um, fleet Farmer, like
Speaker:Menards is here, that it's like maybe a little bit home improvement,
Speaker:but also some groceries and also.
Speaker:pet stuff.
Speaker:And also, yeah, so we have like clothing, like random other shit.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:Yeah, they, yeah.
Speaker:There is clothing in terms of more so like outdoor wear and
Speaker:sportswear, so like, yeah.
Speaker:Boots, coats, those types of things.
Speaker:But not too much more.
Speaker:You can get your hunting stuff there, hunting, fishing,
Speaker:all those types of things.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:I guess when I, I was in some Facebook group where somebody mentioned Canadian
Speaker:Tire, and to me that would be like an auto parts store, like mm-hmm.
Speaker:Auto Parts.
Speaker:And they were like, yeah, I'm gonna go buy a vacuum cleaner and some kitchen stuff.
Speaker:And I was like, yeah.
Speaker:All right.
Speaker:Yeah, they've actually got some really nice Christmas lines too.
Speaker:So this time of year they've got, yeah, all your Christmas
Speaker:decorations, like indoor and outdoor stuff, you're inflatable.
Speaker:How Christmas shopping do you have done?
Speaker:Um, I would say after this weekend there weren't a lot of deals in the states.
Speaker:The exchange rate is not great right now, but there is a lot
Speaker:of stuff that we can't get here.
Speaker:or you have to pay a lot to ship it.
Speaker:So it was worth going down in terms of finding some things that I knew would
Speaker:be more difficult to get in Canada.
Speaker:Um, so I've made some progress.
Speaker:It is always hard to figure out at this point how much I've bought for
Speaker:the, the remaining birthdays and what's actually going to be for Christmas.
Speaker:So I do need to do an inventory.
Speaker:But in terms of like the extended family, kind of like the name draws that we've
Speaker:done, grandparents, that kind of stuff.
Speaker:Definitely making progress.
Speaker:I have to say.
Speaker:I got the steal of a lifetime yesterday and I feel so good about it.
Speaker:The, the girl child, both kids love Gabby Katz.
Speaker:It's uh, Gabby's Dollhouse on Netflix.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:for folks with younger kids.
Speaker:It's um, actually a really cute show.
Speaker:It's about a girl who's got a dollhouse that she can like go inside of and.
Speaker:, you know, whatever.
Speaker:Yeah, it's cute.
Speaker:Every kid's dream.
Speaker:That's what you . Yeah.
Speaker:I mean, when I played with Dollhouse, that's what I was thinking of, right?
Speaker:The girl child's obsessed.
Speaker:I mean, the whole place is populated with little cats.
Speaker:It's cute, there's lots of music, it's fun, whatever.
Speaker:Um, Walmart yesterday had, she got a Gabby's dollhouse that was supposed to
Speaker:be for her birthday, and unfortunately the boy child accidentally told her
Speaker:about it, so that got out early.
Speaker:Um, but she's been playing with it quite obsessively and I saw there's,
Speaker:you know, a number of like add-on pieces and I was walking around looking for her
Speaker:birthday gift for her little friend whose birthday is tomorrow, and saw a Gabby's
Speaker:dollhouse tag that was marked down to $4.
Speaker:And I was like, well, now what is this?
Speaker:And there wasn't anything on the shelf.
Speaker:I was like, well, that's all right.
Speaker:Yeah, it's probably gone.
Speaker:And I look around and there is one like on the top shelf, like
Speaker:way back in there and it was.
Speaker:, an accessory piece that had been close to $40 was marked down to four bucks.
Speaker:Sweet.
Speaker:And I was showing it to Jim on my phone when I got home because I
Speaker:hadn't brought it in the house.
Speaker:And the girl child saw it and starts yelling, I want
Speaker:that for my birthday, please.
Speaker:Mommy, please, can I have that?
Speaker:That's the only thing I want.
Speaker:And I was like, maybe . I don't know where you might find that thing.
Speaker:We'll, tell the birthday fair.
Speaker:Uh, you know, and I never thought we'd be that family, but
Speaker:we're doing alpha on the shelf.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:. Except I didn't, I am not leaning hard into the hole.
Speaker:She's spying on you and gonna tell Santa and rat you out.
Speaker:Because that seems, I mean, the, the whole idea of Santa,
Speaker:like spying on kids is creepy.
Speaker:Um, Santa, like having a little, a little snitch in your home all month.
Speaker:It's creepier to me.
Speaker:. Yeah.
Speaker:But the girl chime, just ramp that ramp that, uh, fairytale all the way up.
Speaker:She's exactly the right age for this magic.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:And she is so hard into it.
Speaker:She made our alpha little crown.
Speaker:She's made her a little book.
Speaker:Oh, that's cute.
Speaker:It's, it's a whole thing.
Speaker:Uh, there's pictures on the Instagram if folks want to see.
Speaker:It's, it's pretty fucking cute.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Oh yeah.
Speaker:So, yeah, as much as a lot of it is more work for us when they're really
Speaker:into it and so excited about it, it does make it more fun most of the time.
Speaker:Except those mornings when you wake up and realize that you forgot to move it.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Well it's the, the upside of the insomnia again.
Speaker:That's what I'm already up anyway, so Yeah, there you go.
Speaker:And, uh, I will say I'm not putting much effort into setting up scenes.
Speaker:Like this morning, the Elf was riding one of the girl child's little toys around.
Speaker:It's, you know, It's not easy.
Speaker:An elaborate thing.
Speaker:Easy.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Just position it somewhere new.
Speaker:Yeah, she was plenty excited about that.
Speaker:So do we have anything else to talk about early?
Speaker:I don't think so.
Speaker:We will go ahead and lead into our guest for this week.
Speaker:All right.
Speaker:Today we're joined by Allison Weaver from Alberta, Canada.
Speaker:And Allison, we start each of our interviews with the same question
Speaker:and this is a way to introduce yourself to our listeners.
Speaker:So we ask what are you growing and for our farm guests that can cover crops in
Speaker:livestock, but it also covers families, businesses, and lots of other stuff.
Speaker:So Allison, what are you growing?
Speaker:Well, good morning ladies.
Speaker:Right now I'm not growing a whole heck of a lot.
Speaker:It's uh, minus 36 and Lloydminster, Alberta and we're covered in snow.
Speaker:But as a rule, what we grow on our farm is we go granola, uh, three
Speaker:different types of wheat bar.
Speaker:When we feel brave, we sow some peas.
Speaker:Uh, we have a small livestock hurt.
Speaker:My husband and I have grown four children on our farm and we're excited
Speaker:to support our daughter and husband as they now are, uh, nurturing and growing.
Speaker:Three grandchildren, three their children, our grandchildren on the farm.
Speaker:And for fun, I grow horses and I have a collection of dogs for
Speaker:our, uh, non Celsius listeners.
Speaker:Negative 36 degrees Celsius is negative 33 degrees Fahrenheit, which is much
Speaker:worse than I thought it was going to be.
Speaker:. So I guess for the Americans in the audience, because we're like the only
Speaker:ones who don't use everybody else does it.
Speaker:So since we, since we've got farmers in the listening crowd, what kind
Speaker:of cows are we talking about?
Speaker:Uh, I started out with a small herd of speckled parks, which was a breed
Speaker:that was developed right here, uh, in the region that, uh, we live.
Speaker:And then we also, we crossbreed them with Angus.
Speaker:So we have a commercial herd, a small commercial herd of speckles
Speaker:crossed with Black Angus I should say.
Speaker:But my daughter has three, four very large delve semial cross cows who think they're
Speaker:the queen of the fields and they're big, but she gets beautiful calves out of them.
Speaker:And, uh, I quite enjoy seeing those big gals out there.
Speaker:And since I know that people love to talk about their grandkids, how old are they?
Speaker:Oh, well they are five, three, and two.
Speaker:From the same parents.
Speaker:So sometimes my daughter needs a mental health break and her husband,
Speaker:actually, the two of them do.
Speaker:Yeah, Ben and three little boys, Ben Mason and Charlie, and yeah, they,
Speaker:that's a quite the little squad.
Speaker:Yeah, that's a good way to describe them.
Speaker:Arlene is a squad.
Speaker:And how many horses for the horse people in the, in the crowd.
Speaker:Oh.
Speaker:Uh, at the moment we have 11 horses.
Speaker:, uh, our farm is a lovely place for horses to live because you get to grow
Speaker:old here and have a wonderful life.
Speaker:My husband says they live a better life than him.
Speaker:They have a monthly massage appointment, they get pedicures, they get all
Speaker:sorts of great things the horses do.
Speaker:Um, but out of that crew of horses summer are definitely in their geriatric years.
Speaker:So we just enjoy having them.
Speaker:But we do have five riding horses.
Speaker:Um, and we do everything from moving cows to dressage with them.
Speaker:And I've decided my next goal for riding is I'm gonna learn how
Speaker:to do, uh, working equitation.
Speaker:And I'm quite excited about that.
Speaker:Uh, you get to carry a, okay.
Speaker:I need more details cuz I'm not a horse.
Speaker:Oh, working actation.
Speaker:I don't even know what that means.
Speaker:It's, it's, you, you gotta go through a whole bunch of obstacle.
Speaker:and you have to carry this great big pole with you.
Speaker:And it comes from the Spanish from Spain, and the Spaniards did it.
Speaker:And I think it originally came from bull fighting is where it came from.
Speaker:And you gotta carry this pole and you gotta put a pole in a barrel.
Speaker:And the pole, I think is 12, 14 feet long or something.
Speaker:So I have a young horse that I absolutely love.
Speaker:And so her and I, she doesn't know it yet, but this is what
Speaker:her and I are gonna learn next.
Speaker:So is it sort of like a pony club, Jim Kana for, for grownups?
Speaker:Is that what I'm hearing?
Speaker:That's what I, but also with the 14 foot long pole pool.
Speaker:Yes, yes.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:I can see not wanting little kids doing that, that seems No, no.
Speaker:And eventually qualifying accidents waiting to happen.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:But it is, it's like, um, so Allison is, as a grownup who deals with small
Speaker:children and horses, how do I convince my husband to let us have a horse?
Speaker:And by us I mean ostensibly for the kids and realistically, For me,
Speaker:when's his most busiest time of year?
Speaker:I probably shouldn't ask this, when he is like, I'm gonna listen to the show.
Speaker:Oh, probably no.
Speaker:Tipping my hand here.
Speaker:New horses arrive at our farm usually during seating or harvest
Speaker:time, cuz I can sneak out quickly, get the horse, bring it in.
Speaker:My husband does not even notice it.
Speaker:Usually tell Christmas time and, uh, we just bring 'em in.
Speaker:I tend to buy horses all the same color, so then nobody really
Speaker:knows if it's a new horse or not.
Speaker:Um, except we have a young girl who rides out here and they bought a horse that
Speaker:does not match the rest of the herd.
Speaker:So it's standing out like a, a sore thumb right now.
Speaker:But, uh, that's my goal, Katie, is I buy horses the same color
Speaker:and I bring them in in the night when nobody notices them coming.
Speaker:But the one that's a different color is hers, right?
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:So, I mean, you, you can't, yeah.
Speaker:I mean, that one's maybe you're getting rent or something.
Speaker:So I mean, that, that one's the real money maker in the in the group.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:I guess otherwise maybe you could split them between pastures and
Speaker:just pretend that you've moved them.
Speaker:Exactly.
Speaker:You know, because it's harder to get a total if they're all in different places.
Speaker:That's right.
Speaker:And I, when people always ask me how many horses I have, I
Speaker:go, well, I think a little bit.
Speaker:I count, oh, I have a couple in this pasture and I got a couple over here.
Speaker:And, and it's a moving target.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Well you can always get real philosophical too, and say, well, what
Speaker:does ownership really mean Exactly?
Speaker:Do I really own them?
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:You know, and, and then if you seem vague enough and like you might talk
Speaker:long enough, people leave you alone.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:And you know, um, that's basically my life like, Exactly plan.
Speaker:So that's working out pretty well.
Speaker:And our daughter doesn't live in the yard anymore, but her horses are here.
Speaker:So they're not really all of my horses because she has quite
Speaker:a fair collection herself.
Speaker:So out of the 11, I don't own all of them, is what I use.
Speaker:But on the other side of that, the more serious side of it, um, many, many years
Speaker:ago when our daughter was about three or four and had a very, already her
Speaker:horse passion for horses was, was there.
Speaker:And we read, oh, for God's sakes, the phone just keeps ringing.
Speaker:So anyway, so then, um, we had a great, uh, read an amazing article on why
Speaker:girls should have pets to nurture.
Speaker:And it was a really amazing article to talk, um, girl girls, it's better
Speaker:if they have a pony than a boyfriend.
Speaker:because that pony will fulfill the need to, to take care of something to nourish.
Speaker:And as they go into their teenage years, it's so important to have
Speaker:those things for your daughters and uh, so they're not maybe looking
Speaker:for love in the wrong places.
Speaker:And so my husband, whenever it came to Amanda, would like
Speaker:to try this on the horse.
Speaker:Amanda would really like a kitty.
Speaker:We should probably get a new puppy.
Speaker:He said, if that keeps the boys away, have as many horses as you Like.
Speaker:I tell you, I think too, you could, you could have a lot of ponies for what?
Speaker:Bail money or unexpected, you know, teen motherhood would set you back or
Speaker:ammunition when your husband's shooting at the guy who he doesn't want to
Speaker:come visit your son or your daughter.
Speaker:So there you go, Arlene, maybe you better buy your daughter another cat.
Speaker:I know she already has a boyfriend, but you know.
Speaker:Oh yeah.
Speaker:She'll have less time to cause problems.
Speaker:The, the heifer that we did buy her is, is due in March.
Speaker:So, so we'll, we'll wait and see.
Speaker:There you go.
Speaker:Cause then she'll need to do some generic, I was looking at the Jersey
Speaker:cows at Ion, they had them on display.
Speaker:Four lovely Jersey cows.
Speaker:That's what I grew up milking was two jersey cows named Fawn and Dawn.
Speaker:And, uh, yeah, so I've, I quite enjoy the Jersey cows.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:Yeah, we have a single one right now, but we'll see what happens in March
Speaker:who might have to, so I love that Arlene wrote this in here for me.
Speaker:Um, I am a big fan of planners because I really like the, uh, the,
Speaker:what's the word I'm looking for?
Speaker:The illusion of control over my life.
Speaker:Um, and so you've created a planner called Navigate, which is intended for ag folks.
Speaker:What's unique about your planner and can you describe some of
Speaker:the elements of it for us?
Speaker:Well, you know, the unique thing of the planner is I've, I've tried
Speaker:really hard to create it so that it works in everybody's life.
Speaker:Some people like to just look at the month at a glance.
Speaker:Other people wanna break down their week.
Speaker:And then we have the people maybe like myself, who like to break it
Speaker:down by the day and make those plans.
Speaker:But when making it, I wanted it to be a, but it also, I want it to be a tool.
Speaker:So just like our, um, drills that are a battery pack and
Speaker:we don't have to plug 'em in.
Speaker:I wanted the planner to be this tool that would help us, um, kind of clear
Speaker:some of the chaos out of our life, put our thoughts down so they're not
Speaker:totally rummaging around in our brain all the time, and using up excess space
Speaker:and energy that as anybody raising kids on a farm, not raising kids.
Speaker:The more we can save our energy to do the more important things, I think the better.
Speaker:The other thing that I really wanted to push out about the planner though,
Speaker:is to do some reflection on how last year went and give yourself
Speaker:gratitude for however it went.
Speaker:The other thing I wanted to really push out though is priorities.
Speaker:And Arlene's heard me talk about priorities before and I wanted to,
Speaker:um, tell people that your to-do list is not your priority list.
Speaker:So two priorities a day is what I was, what what I really wanna push people
Speaker:to take that pressure off themselves.
Speaker:And then the other idea the planner was let's put it all together in one book.
Speaker:So you've got the records there, you have, um, all the ag records
Speaker:in the back from your gardening map to what to have in your pantry.
Speaker:If you're terrified to go grocery shopping, the stuff's
Speaker:there to help you out.
Speaker:So I wanted a book all in one.
Speaker:Put all your Post-it notes in one spot, put all your,
Speaker:whatever you need in one spot.
Speaker:So you're not got five books sitting on your desk and you're
Speaker:only writing in none of them.
Speaker:I feel really judged right now.
Speaker:I'm, I'm not gonna lie, um, cuz there's, uh, four planners and like 12
Speaker:post-it notes on my desk at this moment.
Speaker:Um, and I still have no idea what the hell's going on, but she can't see that.
Speaker:I can't see that.
Speaker:No.
Speaker:But she's obviously been listening to our show.
Speaker:If she knew , how many planners were likely to be on my desk being unused.
Speaker:Oh, and there's two under my desk, but those aren't all from news here.
Speaker:So, um, Allison, have you always been interested in planning and
Speaker:productivity and efficiency, or, I have.
Speaker:Did you used to be one of us?
Speaker:Um, I hate to say it, but I wasn't one of you.
Speaker:Uh, . But, uh, I asked my mom this actually when I started the idea of
Speaker:creating the planner, and she said, from the time you could write, you've carried
Speaker:a notebook around to organize yourself.
Speaker:She said, you were the girl who before school, the night before
Speaker:school, you had your clothes laid out so you knew what to wear.
Speaker:It didn't mean my bedroom didn't get messy.
Speaker:I was every bit of a typical teenager, but I had a bed with drawers under
Speaker:it, and my mom and dad said I could store more crap in those drawers than
Speaker:anybody to make my room look neat.
Speaker:So, uh, but I did, I've always liked to have my to-do lists.
Speaker:Uh, I'm a person who checks off her to-do list, and I hate to say it,
Speaker:I'm also the person who will write something on my to-do list if I've
Speaker:already done it and check it off.
Speaker:Um, well that's just satisfying.
Speaker:I mean, if you don't do that, then yeah.
Speaker:Why have a experience?
Speaker:Exactly.
Speaker:It is, I like to think of that as being a, a life hack.
Speaker:That some days you put really, really basic shit on your to-do list because
Speaker:it feels good to cross it off.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:. And you know what, it's not like there's to-do list police that
Speaker:are gonna come around and be like, oh, you had already done that.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:You can't write it.
Speaker:Done that.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:That, that wasn't a big enough task to put on the list Exactly.
Speaker:To help with you.
Speaker:It's my list.
Speaker:Exactly.
Speaker:Exactly.
Speaker:It's your list and, and you need to do with it.
Speaker:And, and it hopefully, I hope it helps you, support you to
Speaker:live the life you wanna live to.
Speaker:Not the life that you think other people want you to live, but
Speaker:the life that you want to live.
Speaker:So Allison, can you give us, and, uh, sorry.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Our listeners too.
Speaker:Um, some tips on being more productive that the time, with the time that we
Speaker:do have, I know sometimes it feels like I'm working really hard and yet nothing
Speaker:ever really gets finished or you don't feel that sense of accomplishment.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:Um, I really suggest to people to pick your priorities.
Speaker:Uh, Actually for each day and be kind to yourself when you pick your priorities.
Speaker:Uh, like for some reason you're planning to say, do a huge walking trek somewhere.
Speaker:You know, you've gotta build your priorities to build up to that.
Speaker:But other thing is, if you're on survival mode, if you are a mom with
Speaker:young children, if you're a mom with teenage children, if you're not a mom
Speaker:and you're just trying to keep the farm going or your business going, pick
Speaker:two, like I said, two priorities a day.
Speaker:And I've shared this in workshops and I have women go, how can you
Speaker:only do two priorities in a day?
Speaker:And I said, and this is, and I said to them, well, and we practice it.
Speaker:So for me, and I always share this, the podcast today was my number one.
Speaker:. So, um, the podcast is gonna happen over our lunchtime here in Western Canada.
Speaker:So I made sure that there's some lunch ready upstairs.
Speaker:Uh, doors are closed.
Speaker:I forgot to unplug the phone.
Speaker:So my, so my priority is the podcast.
Speaker:My to-do list is to do A, B, C, and D so that I can sit here, relaxed,
Speaker:enjoy my, my visit and my conversation with, with you two wonderful
Speaker:women and not feel any stress.
Speaker:And actually my mind is not even thinking about, uh, anything else
Speaker:that I think I might need to do.
Speaker:And then I've made a priority this afternoon.
Speaker:Our farrier is coming.
Speaker:So after lunch to be kind to our failure, I gotta go bring in the horses, put 'em
Speaker:in the barn so their feet can warm up.
Speaker:And that's my other priority today.
Speaker:Um, and I, I've worked really hard to get there to those two priorities.
Speaker:And when we're in the busy harvest mode, seating mode, uh, , there actually maybe
Speaker:is not any priorities for some of those days because we go into what we, you
Speaker:know, into your harvest routine, your harvest habit, uh, that you get into.
Speaker:And as we know, in the busy season on any farm, you get the
Speaker:call, the combine's on fire.
Speaker:Well, guess what the priority is right there.
Speaker:Those priorities change.
Speaker:Like you're, you're on it and you're going, and I don't know about your
Speaker:guys' farm, but things, the plan when we all walk out the door at 7 30, 8
Speaker:o'clock in the morning can by eight 30 in the morning, the whole plan
Speaker:can change because either it's rained or holy crap, the weed is ready to
Speaker:go and we don't have the bins ready.
Speaker:And there's, you know, things happen.
Speaker:Doesn't matter if you've farmed for 40 years, you, you are not always ready.
Speaker:So in the busy times, so you're saying the number one tip is
Speaker:that anything that is actively, legitimately on fire, Is top priority.
Speaker:I would put it as top priority.
Speaker:Cadence things.
Speaker:They're not actively on fire or below that.
Speaker:Yeah, exactly.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Is that correct?
Speaker:I I like that.
Speaker:I'm gonna write that in my book for harvest time.
Speaker:Next, for next year.
Speaker:If you're actively on fire, you're my number one priority.
Speaker:Like that.
Speaker:You just put it right in the front of the planner.
Speaker:Yeah, that right on the car, right, right on the cover.
Speaker:I, I might Oh, you wait to see what 2024 brings.
Speaker:There might be something that reflects that.
Speaker:Uh, I'm waiting for the special barnyard language edition of this planner.
Speaker:Oh, I was just gonna say, step one, put out things that are literally on fire.
Speaker:Step two, say fuck it to everything else.
Speaker:. Step three, eat snacks.
Speaker:Katie's to-do list.
Speaker:Don.
Speaker:Oh, there you go.
Speaker:I, I have to say Alison, as someone who does, um, I tend to write to-do lists
Speaker:and that pretty compulsively just to.
Speaker:to get them out of my head and help with the anxiety.
Speaker:So good.
Speaker:Giving myself permission to prioritize sleep over basically anything
Speaker:except stuff that is literally on fire has been the a plus.
Speaker:Number one thing, if I'm not taking my medication and sleeping,
Speaker:nothing else is gonna happen.
Speaker:It doesn't matter how many lists I make or how well I organize or how well I
Speaker:prioritize or whatever else, you know?
Speaker:And it's critical that we give ourselves permission, and I hate
Speaker:that we have to give ourselves permission to not die, but we do.
Speaker:Yeah, we do.
Speaker:And, and you know what, Katie, I think you, you hit it on the head
Speaker:right there, the nail on the head right there with that, by saying, I
Speaker:hate that we have to give ourselves permission, but you know what we do?
Speaker:We have to give ourselves permission.
Speaker:I have a friend who started a new business and she took a.
Speaker:Uh, screenshot of her planner for the month of March, so March, 2022.
Speaker:Her f and, and when you look in the planner on the month
Speaker:it has, what's your focus?
Speaker:Her focus was Kathy will sleep and she gave herself, Kathy has her priorities
Speaker:straight for the month of March.
Speaker:She gave herself the permission that I need to, I need to regenerate, I
Speaker:need to sleep, I just need to relax.
Speaker:And we know when we start anything new, uh, you know, there's all that pressure
Speaker:that will come with that, but the moment we physically write it down, we've already
Speaker:given ourselves the permission then.
Speaker:So if Katie's priority, if you have that every day sleep, No, I say thank
Speaker:you for doing that, Katie, because that is your number one priority
Speaker:I have put down for this Saturday.
Speaker:My priority is to embrace myself in the Christmas season because I
Speaker:love Christmas, so the Christmas decorations are coming out.
Speaker:I'm gonna make ginger snaps, and I'm just, I'm just gonna enjoy it.
Speaker:And, uh, it's gonna be minus 35 again probably.
Speaker:So it's a great time for that.
Speaker:But, uh, it is, and I'm gonna write it in my book cuz I'm, I'm as bad as anybody.
Speaker:Someone will call me.
Speaker:Alison, could you help us with this today?
Speaker:And I look in my book and then I say, no, I've wrote this down.
Speaker:I said, sorry, today I cannot come help you today.
Speaker:Today is actually all about Allison.
Speaker:I know it's sort of a, a continuing theme on this show, but this movement
Speaker:towards calling it self-care to prioritize showering or sleeping or.
Speaker:anything for ourselves is bullshit.
Speaker:You know, I, I heard somebody refer to it as self maintenance, which I think
Speaker:makes a lot more sense because you don't call, you know, changing oil in your
Speaker:car to be a, a benefit little perk that you do to, you know, to treat it nice.
Speaker:It's something you do because it keeps things running and sleeping and eating
Speaker:and showering and putting up your damn Christmas decorations all fall under
Speaker:that category of yes, things you do because you're a human and you deserve
Speaker:it, not because it's some special Yes.
Speaker:Special treats.
Speaker:Exactly.
Speaker:And, you know, I, um, and I do say sometimes there are things that
Speaker:should be your routine or your habit.
Speaker:So you, in my world, if you're a person who needs to make your bed every day,
Speaker:you do not need to write that down.
Speaker:I don't put having sleep in there as the same category as making your bed and.
Speaker:Putting in the first little laundry or whatever your morning routine will be.
Speaker:Your day routine.
Speaker:Because as we read more and know more if you're trying to keep anxiety at
Speaker:bay or just try trying to keep an even plane sleep, drink water, and
Speaker:some physical exercise, those are the three things we, we need to have.
Speaker:And if those are three things you're struggling with, by all means get
Speaker:it written down and that gives you the permission to do those things.
Speaker:And I just feel in this world right now, just give yourself permission
Speaker:to do whatever you need to do.
Speaker:Um, Alison, the, the thing that really drove it home for me was the amount of
Speaker:research that's coming out about how sleep deprivation compares to driving
Speaker:drunk or other things of that nature.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:Um, just realizing the, the literal physical toll, that it's not just, oh,
Speaker:I don't feel great if I don't sleep.
Speaker:It really seriously impacts your ability to function.
Speaker:It does.
Speaker:And you know, this harvest, we, I kept a pretty close eye on, um, on
Speaker:everybody because, uh, we had a lovely harvest where we could go and go and
Speaker:go and go, but because you could go and go and go and go, we got tired.
Speaker:And my nephew, who was part of our harvest crew has an, uh, a new, him
Speaker:and his wife have a year old baby.
Speaker:And there were maybe nights where she didn't wanna sleep
Speaker:and, and dad was a little tired.
Speaker:So we took note of that saying, okay, you know what, guys, we're, we're
Speaker:gonna be done at 11 o'clock tonight so everybody can get a good night's
Speaker:sleep and, and don't anybody else show up here till nine in the morning.
Speaker:And I know for some farmers that would maybe cause them a lot of stress to not.
Speaker:You know, go till two o'clock in the morning, but we all have to take
Speaker:care of ourselves because we only have this crew to do our harvest.
Speaker:We don't have a big crew who can come in and take over.
Speaker:So that's sleep.
Speaker:We're handling big equipment.
Speaker:We need the sleep, we need the rest.
Speaker:As a parent of young children, I really want to thank you for enabling people
Speaker:to take that rest too, because I know especially it seems like when it comes
Speaker:to fathers and sons, it can be very, very difficult for one to say to the
Speaker:other, either, either direction that they need that rest and nothing good
Speaker:happens when people get that tired.
Speaker:So, no, and like you said, when we have those stretches of, of decent
Speaker:weather, I mean, if you could look in the forecast and say, you know what the
Speaker:next couple of days look like, we're gonna be able to make a lot of progress.
Speaker:Oh, why kill your, why kill yourself today?
Speaker:When you know that you've got three or four days, you know, weather forecasting
Speaker:is pretty good, that we could hopefully be able to look ahead and say, you
Speaker:know what, if we stagger ourselves a little bit, take some time to sleep
Speaker:tonight, this is gonna get done.
Speaker:Exactly.
Speaker:And we don't have to race the neighbors or race ourselves or get the best, you
Speaker:know, the best record we've ever had in terms of time and, and risk, our
Speaker:risk, our health and our lives to do it.
Speaker:It doesn't make sense.
Speaker:That's right, Arlene.
Speaker:Totally.
Speaker:You know, and I mean, we stop also for supper and I know a lot of families are
Speaker:going away from that cause I, but it's something I hope we never go away from.
Speaker:First of all, I just love it when we can all check in with each other.
Speaker:Everybody gets out of that combine and has a stretch.
Speaker:And I mean, our combining crew is from the age of, uh, 20, late twenties up to an 80.
Speaker:Our uncle who's an 80 year old.
Speaker:So we've got a wide gamut of ages and, and you know what?
Speaker:, we have fun at our family separate, and we don't stop for an hour.
Speaker:It's not like we're stopping, you know, and having a party, but it's
Speaker:just really great to get out and stretch those legs and enjoy the f the
Speaker:food that has been created for them.
Speaker:Yeah, that's a valid point too, even to, yeah.
Speaker:And then you, someone gets the dishes back at the end of the meal.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:makes, it, makes it easier on the person who probably, uh, provided
Speaker:the food too, that then you're not, uh, going through equipment later.
Speaker:It's Oh, later on looking for Totally.
Speaker:Oh, I say if you don't bring back a dish, you don't get to eat tomorrow.
Speaker:I'm pretty strict on that.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Well, and you know, breaking bread together, uh, is so important because as
Speaker:soon as we take that moment, , uh, that might sound a little weird, but take
Speaker:that moment and we just, our jaw relaxes.
Speaker:The moment we start eating our food, it relaxes our, you know, on
Speaker:your head, across your forehead.
Speaker:And then it also gives everybody time maybe to ask some questions.
Speaker:Simple as my combine setting doesn't seem to be working as well.
Speaker:Or, you know, cuz then you've relaxed a little bit and you're
Speaker:thinking about how things are going.
Speaker:But I truly believe in anything we do in life.
Speaker:It is so important to sit down, share some nourishment together because it
Speaker:nourishes your physical being, but it also nourishes your mental being.
Speaker:So Allison, I had the privilege of meeting you and hearing you speak at
Speaker:an event here in Ontario a while ago, and one of the things you talked about
Speaker:there was writing a personal vision statement and defining your core values.
Speaker:Now, when you talk about eating together, that seems to kind of reflect
Speaker:some of some of your feelings on that.
Speaker:But can you tell us a bit about this process and why you think
Speaker:it's important to have a personal personal vision statement?
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:I think we all need our personal vision statement because it keeps us
Speaker:accountable for when people or ourselves think that we need to try something
Speaker:new or we need to change things.
Speaker:So when we create our find our core values and mine, our family
Speaker:community and connection, and from there we take our core values and
Speaker:use it to help us create our vision.
Speaker:So then when something new comes to us, we can be, we can use that as our check-in.
Speaker:, is this part of my core values?
Speaker:Uh, is this new opportunity to me?
Speaker:Does it, does it cover things?
Speaker:My family, my community, my connection?
Speaker:And as I tell everybody, Arlene and Katie, you're now part of my family
Speaker:because we've connected, we've built community, and we're family.
Speaker:And then does it check in with my personal, my personal vision statement?
Speaker:You know, my vision statement is to, to share stories, to give strengths
Speaker:to other people in, in, I, I used to say in the world of agriculture,
Speaker:but I said in the world to know that they too can do whatever they want.
Speaker:as long as you're supporting your core values that you want to live.
Speaker:And it's just so important.
Speaker:I was just talking to a, a young woman about this the other day.
Speaker:She wants to do this, this and this.
Speaker:And I said, does it check in with your core values?
Speaker:Is this your core values?
Speaker:And she looked at me and she said, I don't even know what my core values are.
Speaker:And I said, before you venture off into another new business, take the
Speaker:time to figure out your core values so that you know where you're going.
Speaker:And I wish in my late twenties, early thirties, I would've known that because
Speaker:when I was 30, it was probably the roughest year of my life, um, because I.
Speaker:I wasn't really sure what my vision was and what I should
Speaker:do, and I was hard on myself.
Speaker:I was farming with my husband, we were raising our children.
Speaker:But did I really have a career because I didn't give myself permission that what
Speaker:I was doing was my career at that time?
Speaker:Cause I truly don't think I had my values in, I don't think
Speaker:I knew what my values were.
Speaker:So that is why I think it's so important for us to have
Speaker:those core values at all age.
Speaker:And this isn't something, if you're 80, you shouldn't have.
Speaker:I think we should always have our core values, uh, at all times of our life.
Speaker:I think that's really helpful too.
Speaker:Like you talked earlier about setting your priorities.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:, right?
Speaker:Where, where if there are those days where you have that request or someone
Speaker:asks for your help with something and there's, you know, there's a question
Speaker:there whether, what is the priority?
Speaker:If you can reflect then back to what have I said my priorities are?
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:Then.
Speaker:You can, you can make some decisions and hopefully not feel guilty about it.
Speaker:I mean, we all feel guilty about lots of stuff, but it doesn't
Speaker:always have to be that way.
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:We we're allowed to say no as hard as Exactly Arlene.
Speaker:And that's what I really hope by uh, me supporting people to find
Speaker:their core values and their vision is that they don't carry that guilt.
Speaker:Uh, and you know, I do, uh, I share stories of the farm and it's called
Speaker:the Marathon, called life, uh, leaving you know how to manage it all and
Speaker:leaving the guilt behind be cuz we do, we need to leave the guilt behind.
Speaker:We all live our own lives and whatever works best for me.
Speaker:I am still a highly busy people, brey person.
Speaker:I get a hard time for that sometimes, but that's who I am.
Speaker:And, and I really like that and that's where it comes under
Speaker:my core value of connection.
Speaker:And I live for that.
Speaker:I love connection.
Speaker:I think that's important for us to remember too.
Speaker:You know, like you said, you, you thrive on connection and that's
Speaker:one of your core values for people who are more introverted, that
Speaker:doesn't have to be your priority.
Speaker:No.
Speaker:And that doesn't mean that Allison is doing it better.
Speaker:No, and like you said, it, it, you know, it's just what, what your
Speaker:priorities want to, what you want your priorities to be and what, what fills
Speaker:your soul and what what drives you Yes.
Speaker:Are gonna be different for everybody.
Speaker:And that doesn't have to mean that one person's doing it
Speaker:better than somebody else.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:And when you're creating that vision statement, uh, it's
Speaker:okay that it evolves too.
Speaker:It cuz you know, it's not something easy to do because you
Speaker:gotta dig deep into yourself.
Speaker:And, and I have a like a six step process of how to go through that.
Speaker:You know, it takes time to do that.
Speaker:Like if you were in the workplace, you wouldn't sit down one afternoon and
Speaker:just have that vision statement done up.
Speaker:So same with your personal life.
Speaker:So I, I've given permission to a lot of people to say it's okay if it takes
Speaker:you a year to correct your vision or to create your vision statement.
Speaker:Well, the looks on some of their faces, who's got a year?
Speaker:And I said, you do, you do take a year to create your vision.
Speaker:Uh, cuz that'll give you a chance to see where the curve balls or how the balls get
Speaker:thrown at you and where you want it and where you are at that time of your life.
Speaker:Cuz we're all at different points of our life too.
Speaker:I think Alison, one thing that gets missed too is how much stress it can relieve to
Speaker:have your priorities laid out so clearly.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:, um, my husband and I went to a.
Speaker:Uh, farmer retreat several years ago and talked about, you know, what is
Speaker:the very highest priority for us?
Speaker:And for us it was to keep our family together.
Speaker:Ah, so keeping the farmland in the family does not for us come
Speaker:above keeping the family together.
Speaker:Hmm.
Speaker:And so then, you know, the second priority is keeping the
Speaker:farmland owned by the family.
Speaker:The third highest priority is keeping the farm operation in the family
Speaker:there and, you know, so on from there.
Speaker:And that took so much stress off because, you know, keeping x number of cattle is
Speaker:so far down the list at that point, right.
Speaker:That it loses so much of the, the stress around it.
Speaker:And for myself, I know with, with priority setting and goal setting and that I
Speaker:feel like if I approach it straight on to, you know, set some serious goals.
Speaker:serious things.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:my brain, just nope.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:done.
Speaker:Um, but, you know, if I, if I set a priority like didn't get smallpox
Speaker:this year, you know, pretty easy, you know, house didn't get taken over by
Speaker:rabbit raccoons pretty easy, you know, and from there I can kind of set like
Speaker:increasingly realistic goals and visions and statements and things, you know?
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:You know, because it's hard to be serious.
Speaker:It is about this stuff and, you know, but Katie, I appreciate how you broke that up.
Speaker:So really, you guys did some life priorities and life priorities are so
Speaker:different than our daily priorities, but hopefully then your daily priorities,
Speaker:uh, support and lift up those life priorities that you've created.
Speaker:And as, as farmers, it's so important that we create.
Speaker:Those, the life priorities and have those conversations with our families.
Speaker:Well, and for us it was such a big thing to have that conversation
Speaker:about what if our kids don't want to take over the farm mm-hmm.
Speaker:when they were babies instead of when they're, you know mm-hmm.
Speaker:25 and we're pushing 70 and nobody wants to take over.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:You know, and if that happens, that happens fine.
Speaker:But it felt so relieving in my own brain to have that conversation.
Speaker:Ah, yes.
Speaker:You know, because so many folks, I think, you know, we don't know what
Speaker:to, what to do, so we just won't talk about it and then it won't happen.
Speaker:Exactly.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:You know?
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:No, it's interestingly not how it works.
Speaker:Nope.
Speaker:No, it doesn't work that way, does it?
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:So another topic that you're really passionate about is
Speaker:resilience, which seems to be a.
Speaker:A buzzword.
Speaker:Is it ever, you know, I'm sure if you, I was just, if you put it in Pinterest,
Speaker:it's probably right up there with, yeah.
Speaker:See, I thought I was so creative.
Speaker:A, you know, about a year ago when I was creating my resilience with a plan
Speaker:and now it's, maybe I'll take credit for creating it to be a buzzword.
Speaker:Uh, no ego on my end here, girls.
Speaker:So, um, hey, resilience is very important to me and, um, why
Speaker:resilience is important, uh, is.
Speaker:. Well, in farming, in agriculture, you, you really have to learn how to
Speaker:be resilient because unfortunately we can do all the best we can.
Speaker:And then mother nature, depending on what mood she is in, she can change it
Speaker:within 10 seconds of what's going on.
Speaker:So, but I think to be resilient, and I've done more reading on this lately and
Speaker:I'm a big fan of Brene Brown and she's done a lot of research on resilience,
Speaker:but after all my reading and everything I've done, I think the number one most
Speaker:important thing you need to be resilient is you need to love yourself first.
Speaker:That doesn't mean you're egotistical.
Speaker:It doesn't mean you're full of yourself.
Speaker:It means that you truly know yourself.
Speaker:You're gonna know how to reach out to find that team.
Speaker:You need to support you.
Speaker:You are gonna create a team.
Speaker:to lift up when it needs to be lifted up.
Speaker:And when you truly love yourself, you glow and you share that
Speaker:with the people around you.
Speaker:And I think that strength is absolutely amazing.
Speaker:How do we support our kids being more resilient?
Speaker:I know it's a, it's a learned skill, but what are some of the kind of
Speaker:the steps to becoming resilient?
Speaker:What are the steps to becoming resilient?
Speaker:Well, you know, I think one of the first things to becoming reil, helping your
Speaker:children to become resilient is you need to, uh, helicopter less as a parent.
Speaker:And I think the first step is to give your children, set them up to succeed
Speaker:by giving them small tasks so when they're little, starting with small
Speaker:tasks that they can actually do.
Speaker:Doesn't mean they did them right, but they can do and they feel really,
Speaker:really, really, really good about it.
Speaker:So maybe that right now my grandsons come and help me collect the eggs
Speaker:in, in my chicken house, and I don't care if they drop the eggs.
Speaker:I don't, you know, that's not the point.
Speaker:The point is they're brave enough to go in that chicken house and go get
Speaker:an egg and bring it back out again.
Speaker:And you know, and when we were raising our kids, I tried hard to give them tasks.
Speaker:And I read a book once that said, if your child makes their bed, don't you
Speaker:dare go in there and make it look better.
Speaker:And that was the best set of words and that I'd ever read about parenting.
Speaker:So if your kids, you know, if you get them to do the dishes or if they make the meal.
Speaker:My mo, my mother-in-law always shares the story.
Speaker:She was sick in bed and her, my husband and his younger brother,
Speaker:they're just six months apart in age and they were probably five and four.
Speaker:They made her toast and brought it to her in bed while the bread was moldy.
Speaker:And I think they might have burnt it, but she smiled, she appreciated
Speaker:it and she nibbled on that toast.
Speaker:And she never criticized them once that it was burnt or moldy.
Speaker:And I think as parents, we need to get back to, we gotta let our kids try it.
Speaker:We gotta let them, maybe they're gonna fail at it and
Speaker:then we'll help pick them up.
Speaker:But I think that's how we build resiliency and, and the joy
Speaker:of raising kids on the farm.
Speaker:We need to let them explore without mom and dad following
Speaker:them every single step they make.
Speaker:Uh, we, we gotta, we gotta encourage the children growing up in this world
Speaker:to, uh, go and explore and not always be organized, uh, 24 hours a day.
Speaker:I'm hearing you.
Speaker:That's a hard one for me, but I I, I hear you.
Speaker:Oh, and you know, it's harder now, Arlene, than even when we raised our kids.
Speaker:Cuz there's all this, like the phone and the social media and they're, they're
Speaker:always, everybody's expected to be on all the time, including our kids, but
Speaker:including parents raising their kids, you're expected to be on all the time.
Speaker:Like, this is the newest thing happening, or this is this or this
Speaker:is that, or, you know, I'm like, let the kids run around the rink.
Speaker:Let them, yeah.
Speaker:You're gonna hover from somewhere to keep an eye where they might be, but
Speaker:let them think they're adventuring.
Speaker:Let your kids believe they're on an adventure right now in their
Speaker:life and maybe they're gonna get a little lost and they gotta figure
Speaker:out how to get themselves back.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:. Yeah, that's a good one to remember.
Speaker:I think for, for me, some of that, and I, I try not to be too much of a
Speaker:haru, but especially around the farm.
Speaker:, that farm safety aspect is, is a hard one, right?
Speaker:Where you're like, I wanna keep them safe.
Speaker:I know there's so many dangers, and yet I also want them to
Speaker:have fun and have adventures.
Speaker:Right?
Speaker:You know, like the, the line between not getting too hurt when you Yes.
Speaker:Work in a place with large equipment and livestock and all those types of things.
Speaker:It's well, our knowing when knowing when they're ready and when you're
Speaker:ready to let them go is, is a Arlene hard thing to figure out.
Speaker:Sometimes I worry way more about my grandsons than I ever, ever did my own
Speaker:children, when they bounce, when our grandsons bounce in our trampoline,
Speaker:I'm like, who my God, And our kids, I don't even think I watched them.
Speaker:I said, well, if you hit the ground, let me know and we'll
Speaker:get you to the hospital, I guess.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:But yeah, it is, and it's hard.
Speaker:You're right.
Speaker:And farm safety, uh, you know, and watching them, but we, it's also
Speaker:teaching your kids that they have to be aware and, and pay attention.
Speaker:And you don't want anything big to happen.
Speaker:But every once in a while, I think the odd squished finger.
Speaker:Teaches kids more than anything.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Yeah, that's true.
Speaker:So that does lead me into my next question.
Speaker:What are some of the things that you value most when it came to raising
Speaker:kids on the farm or, or watching your grandsons grow up on the farm?
Speaker:Mm oh, sometimes I get a little emotional when I talk about this.
Speaker:I think it was, um, I feel truly, uh, blessed that we could
Speaker:raise our children on the farm.
Speaker:I was raised on a farm and the freedom that I felt by being raised on the
Speaker:farm, that you could walk anywhere you wanted to be and you could explore.
Speaker:You could also watch food being growing.
Speaker:Uh, so then, I was fortunate enough to marry my wonderful husband,
Speaker:and we were able to raise our children then who could live.
Speaker:I call it a true life of freedom.
Speaker:Living on the farm, uh, the your boundaries are, are endless because
Speaker:you have the opportunity to be one with nature and, and watch, uh,
Speaker:calves being born, watching, uh, plants come out of the ground, seeing
Speaker:the birds come back every year.
Speaker:Uh, I mean, in the last few years here we've got a mama moose that has
Speaker:decided to kind of live in our backyard.
Speaker:So we get to watch her and her calves, and I think we forget sometimes in agriculture
Speaker:that we take this for grant and there are people, you know, living in high
Speaker:rises that would probably give anything to walk on a 10 by 10 piece of grass.
Speaker:And most of us have.
Speaker:You know, a hundred plus acres to 5,000 acres to 10,000 acres where we
Speaker:can explore and, and see the world.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:So the next question I had is kind of leads out of that, but we'll skip
Speaker:over the nail polish on this one.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:But this is a question that can sometimes annoy parents of young kids
Speaker:who are in the trenches in the moment.
Speaker:Right?
Speaker:Or feeling overwhelmed every day.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:But if you could give yourself any advice for when your kids were little, other than
Speaker:not paint your nails , what would it be?
Speaker:Um, not to take anything too seriously.
Speaker:Not to put so much pressure to look like it's all, all together,
Speaker:because it's not all together and it's not going to be all together.
Speaker:So I think that's what I'd give myself permission.
Speaker:And the other thing I'd give myself permission to do.
Speaker:Is it's okay to take a break as a mom.
Speaker:Uh, it's okay if that break means to go ride your horse or, uh, read a book.
Speaker:You know what, and it's even okay to hire a babysitter.
Speaker:If you're the mighty stay-at-home mom, it is absolutely fine to hire
Speaker:a babysitter just so you could go have a little bit of a break.
Speaker:Yes, yes, yes, yes.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:The, the feeling like you have to justify a break when you're raising
Speaker:kids should not be a thing, right?
Speaker:I mean, what, in what other job would you be expected to, to be on call?
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:24 hours a day.
Speaker:Well, maybe farming, I suppose, but even at that, you know, there are, there are
Speaker:times you can walk away from the barn and you can walk away from the tractor.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:But.
Speaker:When you're, when you've got young kids, you are literally on call 24 7.
Speaker:So if you need to hire a babysitter to take a nap or wash your hair Yes.
Speaker:Do anything to not have someone crying outside the door
Speaker:while you're having a shower.
Speaker:Exactly.
Speaker:If that's the gift you need for yourself.
Speaker:And don't call it self-care.
Speaker:No.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Like Katie said, self-preservation.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:If that, if that's what you need, that's okay.
Speaker:And you know, as women, you know, when I was raising our kids, uh, you
Speaker:know, it was women hard on women.
Speaker:That was the tough part.
Speaker:Oh, you're not a working mom.
Speaker:And I looked going, yeah, I work every single day.
Speaker:I just chose to do it from home.
Speaker:But, you know, and it was that there was such a definition, well, you don't
Speaker:know what it's like to be a working mom or to have a babysitter all the
Speaker:time, or what to do when your children were sick or, and that sort of thing.
Speaker:And, and, you know, once in a while, uh, I looked at one person
Speaker:and I said, I'll switch ya.
Speaker:Because right now, let me tell you, I think it's way easier to drop your
Speaker:kid at the babysitter and go to town.
Speaker:But that was, you know, and may, but it probably is not either.
Speaker:But it was the life we lived in and as women we get so hard on each other
Speaker:cause we gotta define everything and define the role and, and you
Speaker:know, we had to categorize it.
Speaker:While you're a stay-at-home mom, you're the working mom.
Speaker:And, and I just, we just shouldn't do that.
Speaker:We should just celebrate what we all do and support each other for
Speaker:what we all do and how we do it.
Speaker:And just because you're the stay-at-home mom doesn't mean you're the mom who
Speaker:has to drive the volleyball team every night to volleyball games.
Speaker:Either or you're, I also say, cuz you know how it, if you're a farm
Speaker:mom and a stay-at-home mom, of course you have fresh muffins and cookies
Speaker:ready for the school all the time.
Speaker:or you go down to the co-op, you take 'em out of their plastic container, put
Speaker:it in your Tupperware and drop it off.
Speaker:And nobody knows the difference.
Speaker:Well, and of course you're always just available to, to drop everything
Speaker:to go get cows in or whatever.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Too.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:You know, um, there's a very good reason that I pay for daycare mm-hmm.
Speaker:. Um, because Yeah.
Speaker:It's, you know, if it was that easy, daycare would be free.
Speaker:Yes, exactly.
Speaker:And that was, oh, sorry, Arlene, that was, I was just gonna say,
Speaker:like you said earlier, it, it's not a competition about any of it.
Speaker:No.
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:You know, we, we all, we all have to make different decisions for what
Speaker:works for us and our families and Yeah.
Speaker:You don't have to justify yourself, but you also don't need to tear
Speaker:other people down because they're doing it different than you.
Speaker:No, they're not judging you because they're doing it differently.
Speaker:No.
Speaker:Well, hope.
Speaker:Hopefully they're not.
Speaker:Hopefully they're not.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Hopefully they're not.
Speaker:Those of us on this podcast today are definitely not judging you
Speaker:for any of your choices, so just.
Speaker:Do what you need to do.
Speaker:All right, so Allison, we ask all of our guests, if you were going
Speaker:to dominate a category at the county fair, what would it be?
Speaker:And categories can be real or made up to ensure that you win.
Speaker:I know I've been thinking about the whole categories at the fair, uh, but I love
Speaker:making salsa and I have several recipes and so I decided I am gonna dominate
Speaker:the salsa making category at the fair.
Speaker:I like it.
Speaker:I think that's a new one.
Speaker:Are you going to.
Speaker:Are you gonna enter multiple salsas and see which one the judge looks express?
Speaker:I am, that's what I was thinking because I, yeah, that's a good plan.
Speaker:I like trying out a few different kind of recipes and, uh, so not just tomato
Speaker:salsa, but maybe a little bit of mango salsa and some mango, black bean salsa.
Speaker:And so yeah, I thought I'd enter quite a few categories to see how that would
Speaker:go, but I thought, yeah, salsa category at the fair is what I'm gonna go after.
Speaker:Delicious.
Speaker:I love it.
Speaker:Alison, I had one other question too.
Speaker:How do you bribe your fairer not to tell your husband how many horses there are?
Speaker:We have a deal.
Speaker:He doesn't tell his wife how many horses he has and um, then that way
Speaker:he doesn't tell, we just keep that a secret between all of us because him and
Speaker:I may deal back and forth with horses.
Speaker:Like my latest horse I bought, I just bought it from my farrier.
Speaker:So yeah, it's like the, uh, doctor patient confidentiality.
Speaker:Totally.
Speaker:Fair.
Speaker:Totally confidentiality.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:Good to know that.
Speaker:That's a good plan.
Speaker:All right.
Speaker:We'll move into our cussing and discussing segment.
Speaker:We've registered for an online platform called SpeakPipe, where you can leave
Speaker:your cussing and discussing entries for us and we'll play them on the show.
Speaker:So go to speakpipe.com/barnyard language and leave us a voice memo.
Speaker:Or you can always send us an email@barnyardlanguagegmail.com
Speaker:and we will read it out for you.
Speaker:Katie, what you're going to cuss and discuss this week.
Speaker:So I was having coffee with some friends earlier this week and one of my friends
Speaker:mentioned this, so thank you Rachel.
Speaker:I'm stealing it.
Speaker:Um, the fact that her husband can put jeans on his Christmas list
Speaker:and because men's clothing actually goes by sizes, he gets pants that
Speaker:fit, that makes sense in the world.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:Sizes based on math.
Speaker:Yes, on real numbers that have some correlation with
Speaker:anything else in the universe.
Speaker:the actual size of the clothes that result from the number Yeah.
Speaker:That he can just, yeah, write them on a list and someone can just go,
Speaker:oh, this number here is this thing.
Speaker:And I was thinking about it even with shoes, that men's shoes, if you
Speaker:buy, you know, X size are, I mean, like, maybe they'll fit a little
Speaker:differently, but definitely not the way women's shoes do anyway.
Speaker:Uncool.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Wo, yeah.
Speaker:Women's clothing is just a, an imaginary fairyland that
Speaker:the, the numbers mean nothing.
Speaker:Yeah, exactly.
Speaker:It's like, you might as well just use letters or something because
Speaker:it doesn't make any sense anyway.
Speaker:No, none.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Yeah, that's right.
Speaker:All right, so Allison, what do you have deka and discussed this week?
Speaker:Ratchet straps.
Speaker:I hate ratchet straps and I don't even like using the word hate, but, uh, we
Speaker:use a lot of ratchet straps on our farm.
Speaker:and my husband lives for ratchet straps and I'm quite often the
Speaker:one left at home to load something and then ratchet them down.
Speaker:I never get them threaded the right way.
Speaker:I have them backwards.
Speaker:So then I'm ratcheting against the trailer and it never works.
Speaker:I have maybe been known to throw a ratchet strap across the yard cuz I
Speaker:can't get it threaded through properly.
Speaker:So you know what's wrong with good old yellow rope that you could
Speaker:just put over your load and tie it down with a good old square knot.
Speaker:That's what I wanna know.
Speaker:I will say when they were correctly, they're immensely satisfying.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:But getting them to the point that they will work correctly or being on the
Speaker:other side of the load from a person who just tosses the ratchet end over to you.
Speaker:Oh yeah.
Speaker:Well I didn't need my face.
Speaker:It's all right
Speaker:It's not doing anything anyway.
Speaker:Exactly.
Speaker:Script like I, yeah, they're obnoxious.
Speaker:I feel like this is another one of those.
Speaker:Things that people assume women are bad at because we're women
Speaker:and not because we just don't have the brain space to maintain which
Speaker:way to thread a ratchet strap.
Speaker:Like I'm sorry that it's not on my list of things to devote energy to.
Speaker:No, but I say then people assume that it's cuz you're a girl, I'm awesome at a
Speaker:whole lot of things and I have no problem bringing up what I'm not awesome at.
Speaker:And ratchet straps are one of those things I am not awesome at.
Speaker:Plus you're in good company . So Arlene, what do you have to custom discuss?
Speaker:So I have joined a few different egg women's groups on the Facebook and
Speaker:sometimes they can be very supportive places and sometimes they can't.
Speaker:And um, if you want a really supportive one, you can join the barnyard language
Speaker:Facebook community because we are awesome.
Speaker:And it's not just for women.
Speaker:But the comments that get me the most are when you have someone make a post about,
Speaker:you know, a challenge in their life and they're wanting their partner to step up.
Speaker:Typically it's a man, and the other women will tell them,
Speaker:basically, suck it up buttercup.
Speaker:He's a farmer, he's busy, and you'll just have to figure it out without him.
Speaker:Like, why are we expecting so little from our partners that we would tell
Speaker:another person to also expect so little from their partner that they
Speaker:shouldn't be expected to do the basics of putting their own children to bed.
Speaker:You know, it's, it's not big stuff here.
Speaker:Like we're talking about things like coming home every once in a while so
Speaker:you can put their, their own kids to bed, giving their kids a bath, you
Speaker:know, like cleaning up after themselves.
Speaker:Like, these women are not asking for the world.
Speaker:They're asking for basic.
Speaker:Partner Yes.
Speaker:Skills and, and other women are saying, oh, that's, you're asking too much.
Speaker:I'm sorry.
Speaker:That is not, that's not asking too much.
Speaker:No.
Speaker:If you're in a part, if you're in a partnered relationship and you decided
Speaker:to have children together, even if you didn't decide to have children,
Speaker:if you have children together, this is something you're doing together.
Speaker:And just because you're a man doesn't mean you don't need to participate.
Speaker:And women don't need to be telling other women that, that is asking too much.
Speaker:And has anybody ever asked the man, like they truly enjoy most, just as much
Speaker:as women to come put their kids to bed at night and be part of all of that?
Speaker:And I think sometimes people just assume they don't wanna be there.
Speaker:And that's not true.
Speaker:They, they're part of the deal.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:They wanna be there.
Speaker:Yeah, exactly.
Speaker:I'm gonna go ahead and point out too that, especially with infants, A lot
Speaker:of dads don't get the practice with the babies, and then people give them a hard
Speaker:time for not being good with the baby.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:Well, I'm spending 24 hours a day with the kid and he's spending, you
Speaker:know, two hours a day with the kid because nobody's cutting him any
Speaker:slack to spend more time with the kid.
Speaker:And then, you know, you can't be mad that he doesn't know how to do X,
Speaker:Y, and Z because he doesn't do it.
Speaker:I mean, it's, you know, and then when they say it's so nice that
Speaker:dad is babysitting his children,
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:That, that should not be No.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Hire a baby.
Speaker:We talked earlier.
Speaker:Yes, go ahead and hire a babysitter.
Speaker:But, uh, yeah, dad, dads dads are not babysitters.
Speaker:Dads or dads, unless they're babysitting somebody else's kids.
Speaker:There you go.
Speaker:Oh yeah.
Speaker:They can babysit it up.
Speaker:. Yeah.
Speaker:That's, maybe we should just, that's a different arrangement.
Speaker:Agree to all expect a reasonable amount from each other.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Because mm-hmm.
Speaker:, we expect.
Speaker:. I think that's the problem, is that it's so random of when and who we
Speaker:expect way too much of and when and who we don't expect anything of.
Speaker:And you know, maybe we could just expect a normal amount
Speaker:from everybody and, uh, exactly.
Speaker:you know, if there's stuff we still can't do, maybe we just shouldn't do it.
Speaker:No.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Or ask someone else for help who has Exactly.
Speaker:And don't be scared to do that.
Speaker:We don't, we don't need to have all the skills.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Well we've solved the entire world's, all of the problems, so I, yes.
Speaker:I think Yeah.
Speaker:From ratchets straps to, uh, exactly.
Speaker:Marriages.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:We're, we're good to go.
Speaker:Thank you so much, Allison, for joining us on the podcast today.
Speaker:If people want to connect with you online to order a Navigate 2023 planner,
Speaker:where can they uh, they can find me on Allison Weaver, her story with Instagram
Speaker:and Facebook, or you can go to allison weaver.com and hit the shop button
Speaker:and you can order a Navigate 2023.
Speaker:Oh, perfect.
Speaker:Thank you so much for joining us.
Speaker:It was great.
Speaker:Was fun.
Speaker:Thank you.
Speaker:It's been fun.
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