In today's episode of the Becoming the Big Me Podcast Djemilah dives into the power of defining your worth and the magic that ensues when you do. Are you owning your value?

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And here's the thing. Your ideal quantum clients will see your

worth. Your ideal quantum clients are going to be happy

and excited to invest in you and your business. Hello, fellow

Earthlings.

Welcome to the becoming

the big me podcast. I'm your host, Djemilah, Birnie. And

together, we will be stepping into our highest potential,

exploring all things mind, body, and soul. With justice, major

business, your spiritual badass solopreneur and a warrior for

change, you're ready to expand your impact and leave your old

self behind in order to raise your vibration so that you can

positively influence your business, your community, and

ultimately, the world. Without further ado, let's dive right

into it.

This episode was originally recorded as an online training.

So if you hear any clicks, or you hear me refer to homework,

that is why don't worry, there's no homework that you miss.

But the information is extremely powerful. So I decided to pop it

on to the podcast and I know that you will receive value from

this

episode,

defining your worth.

It all starts

with belief. What do you believe that you are worthy of when you

are dealing over with metaphysics when you are dealing

with the quantum hologram of our universe, every single thing

comes back to belief. What do you believe at your core to be

available to you? What do you believe that you are worthy of

having only you can define your worth you are the only person

who has the ability to define what you get to have out of this

human experience out of this life of yours. Only you get to

decide that I know that it can be hard when you You're coming

with price objections and people are going to question your

worth. But that is based on their own scarcity of mindset

that is based on their own perception of reality that is

based on their own beliefs of what they are worth. Stop

listening to the limiting beliefs of others. It has

nothing to do with you. Other people's opinion of you are none

of your business. It only matters what your beliefs are of

you. And here's the thing, your ideal quantum clients will see

your worth your ideal quantum clients are going to be happy

and excited to invest in you and your business. And you need to

set the standard of what your worth is you need to set the

standard of what you are worth. In money terms you are you need

to set the standard of what your time is worth and you also need

to set the standard of how you deserve to be treated. Your

quantum clients are going to treat you like the queen or king

that you are. They are going to be excited to work with you

they're not going to try and make you feel bad. Let's talk

about the crab pot syndrome. It can be hard when you are

stepping into a higher vibrational state when you are

changing your life when you are earning more income. It can be

hard because the people that have been around you up until

this point might not understand the changes that you're going

through. When there are people who have been around you since

high school, who have had a very Similar past experience to you,

and they start to watch you rise above and they start to watch,

you create more and more with your life. The typical response

is to try to pull you back down to their level, this is not a

conscious thing. This is a subconscious thing. Because the

higher that you climb the list they feel they can relate to

you. And it also triggers them subconsciously, about their own

self. If they see someone that came from the same background as

them doing more than them, then subconsciously, they're going to

start to feel a little bit bad about their own self. Now,

obviously, that is not the proper belief, the proper belief

is to think, Wow, if they can do it, then I can do it too. But in

this world, generally, that's not how it works. So what is the

crab pot syndrome? So the crab pot syndrome is an analogy used

by

I heard it first from my mom, actually, and what it is, I grew

up on an Indian reservation and on this reservation, crabbing

was huge. And when you go out and there people are crabbing,

you'll see that they have this little pot with crabs in it. You

know, the crabs can easily climb out of this pot, they could

easily climb back into safety out of this pot, but they don't.

And do you want to know why? When one crab starts to get this

wild, crazy idea that it can climb out of this pot, the other

Crabs will pull it back down into the pot, the other Crabs

will not allow that crab to leave the pot, even though being

in that pot is going to lead to their doom in their death, they

will pull it back down into the pot. And this is what happens in

our lives, with our relationships and with our

friendships. Sometimes people will try to pull you back down

to be with them with where they are at. Because that is how

they've always known you. That's where they are comfortable

having you. It is so important to define your worth when it

comes to your business. Because you only want to work with

people who also see your worth. If other people are questioning

your worth, and then your business your product, your

service is not for them. So what are you worth? What is your time

worth? What are you worthy of having only you get to decide

that only you get to choose what you are worthy of the moment

that you give up the belief that you aren't worthy is the moment

that everything becomes possible for you. You are literally

capable of creating anything that you want you are capable of

having the business of your desires, you are capable of

having the client of your desires, you are worth it. The

only thing that is holding you back is this glass ceiling that

you have built for yourself in your subconscious mind. The only

thing in the way of you and what you want

at the end of the day

is your beliefs about what you can have. This is why it is so

important. If you want to attract your ideal quantum

clients. If you want to have this profitable business where

you get to live your purpose where you get to do the work

that you love to do where you get to do what lights your soul

on

fire.

You need to start in side you need to start with what are your

beliefs about money do you believe you are worthy of having

it? What do you believe having a lot of money means what are

those internal programs They have been created throughout

your lifetime to bring you to those beliefs, and how can you

redefine them? How can you begin to make the shift to change your

beliefs. The first step is to decide to decide that you want

to change and decide that you are worthy and to decide that

you

can

have it all. That is the very, very first step. It is the

internal work that needs to be done first, so that you can

begin to make the changes in

your external

reality to make it come true. You cannot just sit back and

define your worth and say I'm worthy, and I am a millionaire.

And I have all of this money, you have to take the physical

actions as well. But it needs to start with the belief. And that

is why this first week has all been about money. What are your

beliefs about money? Where did they come from? How did they

show how has money showed up in your life up into this point?

And how are you showing up for money? When you begin to make

these changes when you begin to make these small shifts in your

belief, your external reality is going to change as well.

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