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We get personal and sit down with our spouses to uncover the joys and challenges of marrying into the equestrian world. From late-night barn emergencies to weekend horse shows, they share the ups and downs about adjusting to life with a partner who lives and breathes horses.

Our legislative update includes a special update on the Horse Protection Act. Listen in as Julie and Emily discuss the regulation updates, where the rule stands, and how it may impact the industry. *It's important to note, since we recorded this segment, the President has signed an Executive Order which has paused all regulations yet to be enacted (including the Horse Protection Act) until a full review has been conducted. Currently, enforcement of the new HPA Rule is delayed for 60 days*.  Listen in...

HORSES IN THE MORNING Episode 3575 –Show Notes and Links:

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01:11 - Introduction to the Horse Spouse Experience

18:00 - The Challenges of Horse Ownership

23:55 - The Financial Reality of Horse Ownership

28:10 - The Joy of Horses: A Family Affair

35:30 - The Horse Protection Act: Changes and Concerns

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Host:

You are listening to the Horse Radio Network, part of the Equine Network Family.

Emily Stearns:

What a beautiful day for Horses in the morning.

Julie Broadway:

You are listening to the number one horse podcast in the world.

Julie Broadway:

Here is your entertaining look at the horse world and the people in it.

Tony Humphries:

Julie Broadway, president of the American Horse Council.

Emily Stearns:

And I'm Emily Stearns, health, welfare and regulatory affairs liaison for the American Horse Council.

Tony Humphries:

Radio Network for February of:

Tony Humphries:

Good morning, Horse world.

Tony Humphries:

It's time to hear from the American Horse Council in this monthly episode of Horses in the Morning.

Guest Speaker:

Well, folks, we had a great episode planned for this month, but unfortunately our guest speaker had to cancel at the last minute, so we're going to be rescheduling that for a future podcast.

Guest Speaker:

So as we scramble to figure out what we wanted to talk about today, Emily and I decided that a fun topic would be to talk about the qualities of a successful horse spouse.

Guest Speaker:

Now, some of them may know a little about the horse industry, others may not.

Guest Speaker:

Some may have learned when they married said spouse who is obsessed with horses and has the horse bug.

Guest Speaker:

So that's what we're going to explore today.

Guest Speaker:

But before we get into that, I want to give a shout out to Allison Grist.

Guest Speaker:

She's a freelance writer based in Texas and she wrote a fascinating article about this topic a few years ago for the horse.

Guest Speaker:

I thought she made some excellent points, so I'm going to run through those real quick and then we'll, we'll get to interviewing the guests that we have today.

Guest Speaker:

So number one rule she suggested was to accept your spouse's obsession.

Guest Speaker:

People outside of the horse world are often baffled at the price tag that accompanies our sport, so it's easy to understand.

Guest Speaker:

While many course spouses could question our spending habits, but we have found, she said, that if you look at it from the outside, it looks like a complete waste of time, energy and money.

Guest Speaker:

However, they get something from that.

Guest Speaker:

If you can't put a time or a dollar figure on that, the spouse that's participating really gets something out of this.

Guest Speaker:

So accept the obsession.

Guest Speaker:

Number two, work as a team.

Guest Speaker:

And the point she makes here is that while many elements of horse ownership may be a one person job, the concept of working out as a team makes it enjoyable for everyone.

Guest Speaker:

So we know as equestrians that we hate to juggle spending time between our spouse and our horse.

Guest Speaker:

Therefore, if your spouse will be part of your time with your horse, Everybody wins.

Guest Speaker:

And the third thing she commented on in her article was what she called rule number three, which was accept that you need to quote hurry up and wait.

Guest Speaker:

And she said that she found that this, you know, is often what happens when you have a spouse who is involved in the equestrian life, especially one that shows horses.

Guest Speaker:

So keep in mind that there's more than one way to support your spouse while they're in the arena.

Guest Speaker:

And it all depends on their goals as well as their personalities and your relationship.

Guest Speaker:

Some like to have support from afar, others like them to be around a little bit more and be engaged in what's going on and maybe even with their friends from the barn.

Guest Speaker:

So no matter how your spouse supports you, whether he's or she is helping to feed or take care of things at home, so you can go to the barn or standing reading side at a horse show, remember to let them know how much you appreciate them.

Guest Speaker:

So with that, our episode today has three guests that we are delighted to introduce to you.

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Tony Humphries:

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Emily Stearns:

So, gentle listeners, we wanted to introduce our non horse horse husbands to you all as we went ahead and interviewed them.

Host:

So.

Emily Stearns:

So I would say he is sitting next to me, but he is actually at his own spot.

Emily Stearns:

But I have my husband, David Stearns and we have our operation manager's husband, Joe Harkins, and we also have our president's husband, Tony Humphries.

Emily Stearns:

So welcome everybody and thank you for putting up with us for the next little bit.

Host:

Thanks for having us.

Emily Stearns:

So kicking this off, I think we wanted to start.

Emily Stearns:

You know, we all know how we met as we, we talk about it behind the scenes sometimes.

Emily Stearns:

But we wanted to get kind of the point of view from the horse partners.

Emily Stearns:

Dave, why don't you start?

Emily Stearns:

How did we meet?

Host:

I really hope my recollection matches what you've discussed previously.

Host:

But I believe we met through mutual friends in high school, I'm going to say the summer going into our junior year of high school, just through mutual friends during the summer we attended different high schools, but had the same friend groups and just kind of a natural meeting, if you will.

Host:

Does that.

Host:

Does that add up?

Host:

Does that jive with your story?

Emily Stearns:

Yeah, I would say it does.

Emily Stearns:

And would you.

Emily Stearns:

You know, we're all friends here.

Emily Stearns:

Would you say I was the weird horse girl back then?

Host:

Ooh, weird horse girl.

Host:

So not a lot of horse girls, if you will, in quotes, stereotypical horse girl in.

Host:

In the.

Host:

The high school that I attended.

Host:

I wouldn't say you were the weird horse girl.

Host:

I didn't even know really that you were into horses, if that's not a.

Host:

A negative way to spin on saying that you enjoy the equin lifestyle.

Host:

But I would say, no, not the.

Host:

Not the weird horse girl.

Emily Stearns:

So.

Emily Stearns:

So of the three horse girls, I was the least weird one for sure.

Host:

I didn't quite know the other two horse girls, perhaps because they were in fact horse girls.

Emily Stearns:

Okay, thank you.

Emily Stearns:

Thank you for that gentle description.

Emily Stearns:

So, Joe, moving on, how did you and Ashley Meet?

Julie Broadway:

We met December:

Emily Stearns:

Did you know she was a weird horse girl before you met for the first date?

Julie Broadway:

I knew she had a horse.

Julie Broadway:

I didn't know she was a weird horse girl.

Host:

I wouldn't describe her as that.

Emily Stearns:

But so.

Emily Stearns:

So two for two.

Emily Stearns:

We've managed to catfish both of you.

Emily Stearns:

Tony, how did you and Julie meet?

Joe Harkins:

We actually met through mutual friends.

Joe Harkins:

I'll throw some advertisement out here.

Joe Harkins:

Basically, Julie had a horse at Tara Farm, and I had a very good friend of mine that I worked with at Nortel at the time that showed horses, and I would go out and see her, show her horse.

Joe Harkins:

So I actually met Julie the first time in May at a horse show where Andre had just introduced us.

Joe Harkins:

And then unbeknownst to us, Terra Farm had a New Year's Eve party and the trainer at Terraform Dining.

Joe Harkins:

And Andre had connived and invited me to this New Year's Eve party and invited Julie.

Joe Harkins:

And like, we're the only two single people there, so they kind of put us together on a.

Joe Harkins:

A matchmaking.

Host:

So.

Emily Stearns:

So you knew what you were getting into from the beginning, Tony?

Joe Harkins:

Oh, yes.

Emily Stearns:

Julie, do you want to go next?

Emily Stearns:

Do you have more questions for our horse husbands?

Tony Humphries:

Yeah.

Tony Humphries:

So considering that Joe and David may not have known as much about what they were getting into, how long was it before you got to meet the horse?

Tony Humphries:

Figured out there's more obsession in our lives than maybe you suspected.

Tony Humphries:

So, Joe, what do you think?

Julie Broadway:

Okay.

Julie Broadway:

So I was.

Julie Broadway:

I was looking back at it because I actually kept the records of when we first Met.

Julie Broadway:

So I met Ashley's horse, Sam, about roughly a week after I got her on Match.

Julie Broadway:

I believe I was probably helping shovel the paddocks then, so we didn't waste any time.

Julie Broadway:

Yeah, we didn't.

Julie Broadway:

We didn't waste any time.

Julie Broadway:

She had me on a horse in a week.

Emily Stearns:

She had you mucking paddocks within a week?

Julie Broadway:

Yeah.

Emily Stearns:

Efficient.

Emily Stearns:

That's very efficient.

Julie Broadway:

I was thinking it was like three weeks or something, but then I was looking back, I was like, wow.

Julie Broadway:

It was actually just.

Julie Broadway:

Just a week she had me on a horse.

Julie Broadway:

Yep, she had me right away.

Tony Humphries:

So kudos to Ashley and to Joe for being willing to, like, step up and take that on after a week.

Emily Stearns:

That's.

Tony Humphries:

That's an amazing.

Tony Humphries:

David, how about you?

Host:

I'm just.

Host:

Well, I was just taking a note that Emily, quote, pretended to be shocked that it.

Host:

That.

Host:

That Joe was mucking a stall or in some way going to the bar.

Host:

I can't recall exactly how long was that.

Host:

I was introduced to horses in general.

Host:

So at that time, I don't think Emily owned.

Host:

No, I know she didn't own a horse at that.

Host:

The time that we met, when we were still in high school.

Emily Stearns:

I was leasing Camelot by then.

Host:

Yeah, Leasing ownership.

Host:

I don't.

Host:

That's the whole other thing that I'm not 100% on, but I would say that, you know, there were just some.

Host:

Some natural, not official dates that occurred where it was just, oh, before we do that, we just have to run over real quick to the barn, and I just have to do a couple things, know, 35, 45 minutes later, you know, after she's fully mucked a stall and done, you know, feeding and watering and hay and all that stuff.

Host:

And that's kind of my first introduction to the horse world with.

Host:

With a partner.

Host:

It was probably a while before I got on a horse.

Host:

I'm a very large person, and it's rare for an animal to be bigger than me, and it's rare for me to interact with an animal that is bigger than me at no previous dealings with any type of agriculture, livestock, anything like that in my life.

Host:

So I had a natural fear of horses, as I think everyone should have a natural fear of such a large animal.

Host:

So it took me a little while to get used to.

Host:

And I don't know exactly when I got on a horse, probably, I don't know, a couple months, if I had to.

Host:

If I had to throw a number out there.

Host:

And it wasn't the work that she was leasing.

Host:

I'm Much too large for that horse.

Host:

So.

Emily Stearns:

Oh, I got you on Camelot, I think, if I recall.

Emily Stearns:

Well, I'm glad you remember me indoctrinating you to the idea of barn time and the space time continuum as it exists in a stable.

Emily Stearns:

I think it took four or five months for you to pet the Shetland pony, if I recall correctly, Little Miss Muffet.

Emily Stearns:

And then I think I have a photo of you somewhere on Camelot.

Emily Stearns:

That was maybe at month six.

Tony Humphries:

So Tony said he met me at a horse show.

Tony Humphries:

He knew what he was getting himself into.

Tony Humphries:

He started hanging out with me at the barn.

Tony Humphries:

He would go with me to horse shows and it wasn't until he invited me to go to a football game that I found out how he felt about going to a horse show.

Tony Humphries:

So, Tony, do you want to tell them about our experience to going to the football game?

Joe Harkins:

Yeah.

Joe Harkins:

Well, that's many years ago.

Joe Harkins:

You know, Philip.

Joe Harkins:

Philip Rivers was a quarterback at NC State in the first year.

Joe Harkins:

Virginia Tech had joined the ACC and they were playing the opening game at Carter Finley Stadium.

Joe Harkins:

And I had some really good seats about the 35 yard line with a friend of mine.

Joe Harkins:

So we went out and we tailgated before the football game, of course, and we had a really good time tailgating.

Joe Harkins:

So we go into the game and it's, you know, first quarter, that's a really good game.

Joe Harkins:

Rivers is doing really well.

Joe Harkins:

And it's about the end of the first quarter.

Joe Harkins:

Julie, she looks over at me, she goes, oh, well, I'm ready to go anytime you are.

Joe Harkins:

And I says, oh.

Joe Harkins:

I said, well, you remember those horse shows where the horse goes around, around.

Joe Harkins:

Well, that's kind of what it's like for me.

Joe Harkins:

So she says, oh, okay.

Joe Harkins:

So then she just sat there the rest of the game and watched it.

Tony Humphries:

But I had no idea I was torturing him at a horse show the way he was torturing me at the.

Emily Stearns:

Football game and the hors show.

Emily Stearns:

They only get to watch you perform for three minutes at best.

Tony Humphries:

So yeah, yeah, well.

Tony Humphries:

But I'm also going to piggyback off of what Joe and David have said.

Tony Humphries:

It took me 20 years to get my husband to get on a horse.

Tony Humphries:

So last year I had to go speak at a conference.

Tony Humphries:

And it was in Arizona, Tucson.

Tony Humphries:

In Tucson.

Tony Humphries:

And we went over to a dude ranch because I had had the opportunity to interview a guy from White Stallion Ranch.

Tony Humphries:

And we got over there and they said, well, you definitely have to go out for a ride.

Tony Humphries:

And so my husband said, okay, I'm game.

Tony Humphries:

So we actually have photographic proof now that he has gotten on a horse.

Tony Humphries:

It only took me 20 years.

Emily Stearns:

Yeah, that's the trick.

Emily Stearns:

You have to document it, right?

Emily Stearns:

All those horse people out there.

Emily Stearns:

If your spouse gets on the horse, you must document it excessively because you never know when it's going to happen again.

Julie Broadway:

Yeah, it's time stamped on for me.

Emily Stearns:

So.

Tony Humphries:

Hey, Joe, so my question for you would be, what's your favorite part about being a horse husband?

Julie Broadway:

Always learning something new.

Julie Broadway:

Ash is always teaching me new things, telling me about all sorts of new things that I, whether I want to know them or not want to know them.

Julie Broadway:

Learning about, learning about just, I don't know, maintaining horses and what's involved with it.

Julie Broadway:

And then of course, you know, if they, you know, I could, I could take care of Gideon if she to go away.

Julie Broadway:

So that's always good.

Julie Broadway:

And having a little bit of a bond with them, that's, that's fun.

Julie Broadway:

Yeah, pretty much.

Tony Humphries:

David, what about you?

Tony Humphries:

What's your favorite part?

Host:

I'll piggyback off Joe there.

Host:

I definitely learned something new all the time and sometimes there it's, you know, just something wildly, just unbelievable or you know, something that I just would never have thought of.

Host:

But my favorite part, geez, probably just her Emily's like level of happiness, like with them and just kind of watching her kind of do her thing with them.

Host:

It's just such a stark difference between the things that I would consider doing myself to that that would make me happy compared to the things that she does herself that make her happy.

Host:

But being able to be a part of that is special and it brings me joy.

Host:

So.

Emily Stearns:

Yeah, that's such a sweet thing.

Emily Stearns:

Thanks, babe.

Emily Stearns:

What a good hubby.

Tony Humphries:

What about you, Tony?

Joe Harkins:

Well, I'll say we never owned horses, but growing up on a farm was very animal oriented and, you know, a very animal oriented person.

Joe Harkins:

But I mean, I really think that it's the, the interactions that you get with the, the majority of people that you meet in the horse world.

Joe Harkins:

You know, as we travel, go to shows or go to conventions and meet all the different people and they talk about, you know, their horses or describe the interactions that they have with the other people.

Joe Harkins:

You know, that's really an enlightening experience to see all of them and see how they care of them.

Joe Harkins:

And I've definitely learned that probably, you know, the one biggest fear that women have is not being able to own a horse.

Joe Harkins:

You know, it's they, they all just have to have them.

Joe Harkins:

It's.

Joe Harkins:

They're very driven that's it's so it's, it's a good interaction, the way they are when they're with their horse.

Joe Harkins:

I think that's a good thing to say.

Tony Humphries:

Yeah, he, he says this because he asked me to take a hiatus and so I don't have a horse right now and it's about to kill me.

Tony Humphries:

But that's just what it is.

Emily Stearns:

So I, I think it's.

Emily Stearns:

We have three very different living situations here.

Emily Stearns:

So Tony, you grew up on a farm and you and Julie currently do not own, I mean you're, you're very active horse industry people still, but you currently do not own a horse and you live in the suburbs.

Emily Stearns:

Ashley and Joe.

Emily Stearns:

Joe, you were not a farm person growing up, right?

Emily Stearns:

Yeah, you were, you were a suburb guy.

Emily Stearns:

They have their little farmet with their goats and Gideon who comes and goes, they, they lease him out during the school year.

Emily Stearns:

And then I've somehow wrangled Dave into just full out buying the farm.

Emily Stearns:

So, so we have the full gamut of, of relationship situations, I think, in terms of how we're incorporating horses into our lives.

Tony Humphries:

So I think the next question that I had was, so we've talked about what's the, your favorite part, the best part of being a horse husband.

Tony Humphries:

But what is the hardest part?

Tony Humphries:

And I'm going to say something.

Tony Humphries:

I'm going to piggyback and start off something David said, which is time gets away from you.

Tony Humphries:

It doesn't matter if I'm going to the barn or I'm going to a horse show.

Tony Humphries:

I'll say I'll be right back.

Tony Humphries:

And inevitably he has to come and hunt me down because I've gotten sucked into a conversation.

Tony Humphries:

Somebody or something's happened.

Tony Humphries:

But Tony, what would you say is the hardest part?

Joe Harkins:

I'd say that's the two, two things.

Joe Harkins:

That's, that's one.

Joe Harkins:

And I'll go into that other one is to, unfortunately, when you own a horse and you don't have your barn and can go muck staples and stuff, will be paying that board and training bill because it is a, it's, you know, it's not a very inexpensive thing owning a horse if you're going to do it right.

Joe Harkins:

So you have to be committed and you really have to enjoy it.

Joe Harkins:

But the time getting away from you.

Joe Harkins:

My good examples there is, we would always go to the Morgan Grand National World Championship Horse show in Oklahoma City and Judy would go out there and we always have to show up before it starts.

Joe Harkins:

It's, you know, 6:00 so they have breaks during the time and we talk about getting dinner.

Joe Harkins:

And she'd go, oh, yes, in a minute.

Joe Harkins:

Okay, yes, in a minute.

Joe Harkins:

we end up eating dinner like:

Joe Harkins:

And it just kept going and going.

Joe Harkins:

So you got to be very flexible or you will not have a good time in the horse industry.

Emily Stearns:

But you got dinner, Tony.

Emily Stearns:

And that's the important part.

Joe Harkins:

Yes.

Tony Humphries:

Joe, what do you think is the hardest part?

Julie Broadway:

So when I met Ashley, she had her horse, Sam, and he was, he was getting up there and then when we had the opportunity to get the farm here and bring him home, he was kind of an old man.

Julie Broadway:

You know, he's still able to move around, but he needed some more, some more help to get through things.

Julie Broadway:

So it was, it was a little bit difficult.

Julie Broadway:

So, you know, you know, there's a lot more, you know, medical stops, you know, we, and then, you know, into the whole time management thing.

Julie Broadway:

So like for instance, you know, when we first moved into here, there wasn't very much good cell phone reception.

Julie Broadway:

They built a new cell tower since then.

Julie Broadway:

So if I tried to call her on the phone when she was in the barn, I couldn't get her or she couldn't get me or else we'd sound like robot people.

Julie Broadway:

And so the time management thing, like, she'd go over there and say, okay, I'm just gonna go hay and water the horses.

Julie Broadway:

I'll be back in a few minutes.

Julie Broadway:

And I'm here with the kids.

Julie Broadway:

The kids.

Julie Broadway:

The house is on fire and two hours have gone by and I, and I go to call her, where the heck is she?

Julie Broadway:

And then I had to go over there and find out.

Julie Broadway:

Oh yeah, no, this, this, this, this and this.

Julie Broadway:

I had this and this.

Julie Broadway:

And I gotta get the farrier and I gotta get the vet down here.

Julie Broadway:

And so it was just always a 15 minute walk over there.

Julie Broadway:

She was gone for two hours and she needs her barn time, you know.

Julie Broadway:

Yeah.

Tony Humphries:

Hey, David, I bet you've had a similar experience, haven't you?

Host:

To, to everything that's been said so far.

Host:

To, again to piggyback.

Host:

I'll piggyback Tony this time.

Host:

So the, the sheer financial shock when we first kind of were, were beginning to date and I started to learn a little bit more about what owning a horse could, would or could know does, does cost when, when Emily got her first horse Hardy.

Host:

We still have who's a, a pet at this point.

Host:

But just the, the financial shock was, was startling at first.

Host:

I, I joke with her to this day.

Host:

The concept of do you know what kind of boat I could have for a monthly payment for what, what is spent on, on stabling and, and the fees that we pay to barns and things like that.

Host:

But worst part, what's the hardest part?

Host:

But horse shows were, were difficult for me, specifically dress dressage shows.

Host:

She could explain it to me 782 times even today, and I, I still just don't understand it even conceptually.

Host:

They're super long.

Host:

It's either sweltering hot or frigid.

Host:

There's so much subjectivity and ambiguity and like what is happening in the dressage ring that I don't really understand it at all.

Host:

I don't understand a sport that is judged like that.

Host:

So that's really hard to do.

Host:

And she sees things that I just possibly can't possibly see.

Host:

And she'll point things out to me and it's like a foreign language.

Host:

So that's, it's a struggle there.

Host:

And obviously I try to be supportive, but she's made me, you know, she's allowed me to stop going to.

Host:

We've reached that point in our relationship.

Emily Stearns:

Where I don't have, I don't, I don't force it upon you.

Emily Stearns:

I know you support it in spirit.

Host:

Yes, exactly.

Host:

And then, yeah, she does, she disappears.

Host:

So, you know what I assume would take 30 minutes.

Host:

You know, I'll go out and I'll be like, I just make sure you're alive.

Host:

You know, it's dark out.

Host:

It's, you know, currently 8:30 at night.

Host:

Did you realize that type of thing?

Host:

And I don't want to sound like I'm reining her back home.

Host:

It's just time disappears or does ceases to, to keep running when you're in the barn.

Emily Stearns:

So sometimes my, my other folks out there, horse folks out there will get it.

Emily Stearns:

Especially when you have the horses at home.

Emily Stearns:

Sometimes you just make the mistake of sitting down maybe on your tack trunk or something.

Emily Stearns:

And it's so, and in the dark.

Emily Stearns:

My favorite time in the Barn is like 6:30, 7:00 at night.

Emily Stearns:

It's dark out, everything's quiet.

Emily Stearns:

The horses are just eating and you just sit down for a second and then it like, I don't know, that black hole that, that wormhole just opens up and suddenly everybody's asking you if you want to eat dinner, if you're hungry.

Tony Humphries:

Before Tony and I married, I managed all my own, you know, finances as far as my horse ownership was concerned.

Tony Humphries:

But when Tony and I got married, he decided that he wanted to keep an Excel spreadsheet.

Tony Humphries:

I have to tell you, I don't look at that Excel spreadsheet that.

Tony Humphries:

That takes the joy out of all of this.

Tony Humphries:

I don't want anything to do with that.

Tony Humphries:

I'm like, if you want to talk to me about what I'm spending, feel free, but don't show me that spreadsheet.

Tony Humphries:

I interested in seeing what those numbers look like, and I.

Tony Humphries:

I have a feeling that Emily and Ashley would probably agree.

Emily Stearns:

And.

Emily Stearns:

And I would say so.

Emily Stearns:

Dave mentioned my horse, Hardy, that I got in college, and Dave has at least got a very, very immediate crash course.

Emily Stearns:

He has seen the worst of the worst in terms of medical bills with that horse.

Emily Stearns:

When he talks about his ability to have a nice boat, Hardy could have been a very nice BO in terms of his medical bills.

Emily Stearns:

And honestly, it's almost been a blessing because he makes the other two in our herd look very cheap and.

Emily Stearns:

And very economical.

Emily Stearns:

So, you know, that.

Emily Stearns:

That might be some of my advice as a horse spouse.

Emily Stearns:

The horse person in the horse relationship, you know, really make it as bad as you can as quickly as possible financially.

Emily Stearns:

So when the non expensive, you know, non expensive things I put in quotes, they don't look so bad.

Emily Stearns:

You know, I can appreciate the good ones.

Emily Stearns:

Yeah, yeah.

Emily Stearns:

The spring shots really aren't that expensive when your horse just came out of seven days of isolation at the Tufts Medical Hospital.

Tony Humphries:

Yeah, indeed.

Tony Humphries:

So I'm gonna say one other thing for David's benefit.

Tony Humphries:

So I'm.

Tony Humphries:

He's been with me, seen me show horses tons and tons of times.

Tony Humphries:

He says the same thing.

Tony Humphries:

The trainer will say, more leg.

Tony Humphries:

And he says, good.

Tony Humphries:

That's good, that's good.

Tony Humphries:

Antonio's like, I didn't see anything.

Tony Humphries:

What's he talking about?

Tony Humphries:

I don't get it.

Tony Humphries:

But the tables got turned, David, when my husband bought a really nice dog, and he decided he wanted to show this dog.

Tony Humphries:

So he went to his first dog handling class, and he goes in and he picks up the.

Tony Humphries:

The leash of the dog, and he starts around the ring, and the instructor says, stop right there.

Tony Humphries:

Wait a minute.

Tony Humphries:

Let me tell you.

Tony Humphries:

And she's geared and she's grilling him.

Tony Humphries:

And when he was done with the class, sweat was pouring off his brow, and he was like, oh, my gosh.

Tony Humphries:

I said, this is what it's like when you ride a horse.

Tony Humphries:

It's the same exact concept there.

Joe Harkins:

Same.

Joe Harkins:

Same instructions.

Joe Harkins:

You got to look ahead.

Joe Harkins:

You don't need to look at the dog.

Joe Harkins:

He'll go where you're going.

Joe Harkins:

You got to hold your hand here.

Host:

I've picked up a few things, you know, things I've heard at horse shows and things I've heard instructors, you know, shouting out things I've heard Emily say just in the back when giving a lesson or something.

Host:

And every now and again we'll be watching something or, you know, well, it was the Olympics most recently, I think during the turn, the summer.

Host:

And she's watching the, the beautiful cross country course in France there.

Host:

And sometimes I'll just.

Host:

I'll try to say.

Host:

I'll just say things that I've heard her say.

Host:

I don't know if they apply, right.

Host:

I have no idea if they apply or that.

Host:

But sometimes they do apply or she'll.

Host:

It'll land and she'll kind of turn to me and she'll be like, wow.

Host:

And that brings me such, such a boost to my, to my ego or to my happiness level.

Host:

You know, something just simple to like, keep those heels down.

Host:

Something like that.

Host:

Like it, like that's something.

Host:

I know what that means.

Host:

But if it, if it actually is true, in that, in that case, it's.

Host:

I, I just, I love doing stuff like that and making her think that I, I know something that I have just.

Host:

No, no, nothing, nothing about you.

Host:

You.

Emily Stearns:

To give yourself credit, you know, enough that I routinely abandon you with the farm to travel and trust that everybody will still be alive when I come back.

Host:

Sure, sure, sure.

Host:

I can, I can keep the animals alive.

Host:

I just like the weird niche horse knowledge that nobody else would know unless they were horse people or road horses.

Host:

You know, she's got to give him his head.

Host:

What?

Tony Humphries:

Perfect.

Tony Humphries:

Perfect.

Emily Stearns:

No, no, it's 10 out of 10.

Tony Humphries:

Yeah.

Tony Humphries:

I was going to say we could all make a list of phrases to give you, David, that will apply to every situation.

Host:

I like that, that niche knowledge, that subculture knowledge.

Host:

It's hyper specific and it's.

Host:

If I tried to explain woodworking things to Emily or, you know, very specific, weird niche things and my hobbies, it's.

Host:

It's the same type of thing, but cars.

Emily Stearns:

I do my best to follow your car knowledge, but it.

Emily Stearns:

I feel very stupid when you talk to me about cars.

Tony Humphries:

So here's my question.

Tony Humphries:

Now, Tony and I don't have children.

Tony Humphries:

I know.

Tony Humphries:

Joe and Ashley do.

Tony Humphries:

So has this mutation, this gene been passed on to your children, Joe?

Julie Broadway:

Oh, yeah, absolutely.

Julie Broadway:

They love the horses.

Julie Broadway:

They love helping Ellie goes out and she'll muck paddocks.

Julie Broadway:

She's.

Julie Broadway:

She's not afraid of anything.

Julie Broadway:

Evie's a little more skittish about it.

Julie Broadway:

And Sam, he just goes right in there.

Julie Broadway:

He.

Julie Broadway:

He's going to be the one who gets, you know, heart.

Emily Stearns:

Yeah, he's fearless.

Emily Stearns:

Oh, my God.

Emily Stearns:

We're gonna need to start another savings account.

Emily Stearns:

They've been bitten by the bug.

Julie Broadway:

So of course, when we go in the barn, you know, I gotta act like, yeah, oh, yeah.

Julie Broadway:

I do this all the time.

Julie Broadway:

Yeah, I'll help you with that.

Julie Broadway:

Yeah.

Julie Broadway:

This is the way.

Julie Broadway:

This is the right way, right, Ashley?

Julie Broadway:

This is the right way.

Tony Humphries:

Emily, are you.

Tony Humphries:

Are you planning to.

Tony Humphries:

To pass on this, this obsession to.

Emily Stearns:

Future, you know, I mean, since we live on the farm, you hope they at least want to help.

Emily Stearns:

Dave, I don't want to speak for you, but part of me is terrified that we are going to get sucked into a second horse person life of, of horse showing and ribbons and bows and pleasure classes and, and finding the right pony and all that.

Emily Stearns:

But, you know, part of you, part of you wants someone else to find as much joy in them as, as you do.

Tony Humphries:

Okay, Emily, what's our wrap up question for today's episode?

Emily Stearns:

Okay, so we'll start with Dave.

Emily Stearns:

What is the best advice you have for other horse spouses out in the world?

Host:

Jeez.

Host:

I'll start with don't get a thoroughbred.

Host:

That's the horse.

Host:

First one.

Tony Humphries:

An off the track.

Host:

Yeah, especially an off track.

Joe Harkins:

Thor.

Host:

Jeez.

Host:

Open your.

Host:

Your view of what horses are if you didn't grow up around them or didn't.

Host:

Don't know anything about them like I did.

Host:

They're much more than.

Host:

This might sound silly, like a, a privileged, elite sporting type thing for just the privileged and elite people.

Host:

I would even argue now with the experience that I have now that I would argue or posit that they're, they are a special animal.

Host:

And they, they evoke emotions and, and actions in people that I don't think they would otherwise have ever evoked, if that makes any sense at all.

Host:

Especially when I see people that haven't necessarily ever been near a horse, get near a horse, or just have an interaction or an experience with a horse.

Host:

That little magic spark that, that I think Emily can see in their eye when they have an experience.

Host:

I think a lot of people aren't ever going to experience.

Host:

And I also think perhaps they won't experience with an animal other than a horse, if that makes, if that makes sense.

Host:

It's.

Host:

It's hard to.

Host:

I lack the vocabulary To.

Host:

To really explain this, but I hope you get the sentiment.

Emily Stearns:

I.

Emily Stearns:

I feel like I need to clarify.

Emily Stearns:

I did not bribe him to say any of this, that he.

Emily Stearns:

He just came up with that on his own.

Emily Stearns:

So if you need, you know, a spokesperson for the horse industry, I think we just found one.

Host:

Blink twice for.

Tony Humphries:

Joe.

Tony Humphries:

What about you?

Julie Broadway:

Okay, so there's.

Julie Broadway:

There's a lot of positive, negative things to.

Julie Broadway:

To having wife who's big on horses.

Julie Broadway:

I mean, this is, of course, the.

Julie Broadway:

The financial things that we discussed earlier, and there's time management, but all in all, I mean, it's.

Julie Broadway:

It's more positives than negative things.

Julie Broadway:

You know, the horse industry is a.

Julie Broadway:

It's a tough place full of tough people.

Julie Broadway:

You know, I mean, my wife's probably one of the toughest people that I know, but one of the most loving people that I know.

Julie Broadway:

And, and, you know, there's a whole.

Julie Broadway:

But there's a whole magical thing with horses too.

Julie Broadway:

You know, like, for instance, if we have birthday parties and take the horses out, you know, and then the kids love seeing the.

Julie Broadway:

Love seeing the horses and going for little rides and that's.

Julie Broadway:

That's.

Julie Broadway:

That's always nice to see.

Julie Broadway:

And, you know, seeing the look of wonder on their faces, I think that's pretty cool, you know, and it's.

Julie Broadway:

It's.

Julie Broadway:

This is a whole, Whole different world.

Julie Broadway:

And it's in.

Julie Broadway:

And like David said, it's.

Julie Broadway:

It's good to keep an open mind with all that.

Julie Broadway:

It's because this.

Julie Broadway:

This.

Julie Broadway:

It's a.

Julie Broadway:

It's a whole other world and it's.

Julie Broadway:

And it's really cool.

Julie Broadway:

It's really cool.

Tony Humphries:

Okay, Tony, wrap us up.

Joe Harkins:

Okay, I.

Joe Harkins:

I think have an open mind is really one of the biggest things to have, but I think you need to go in with horses as anything.

Joe Harkins:

I mean, Julie lasts with the spreadsheet and all that we did.

Joe Harkins:

But the.

Joe Harkins:

What it allowed me to do from that perspective of, you know, our horse world is see everything.

Joe Harkins:

So, you know, a lot of times you forget you.

Joe Harkins:

The little things that's involved.

Joe Harkins:

You remember the big things.

Joe Harkins:

Oh, yeah.

Joe Harkins:

Buying the horse and all that.

Joe Harkins:

But then when you look and you track everything, you see all the vet bills and the food bills and the supplement bills and this.

Joe Harkins:

And it's the same thing when you own one, that, yes, it's nice to have it, but you have to remember, yes, you got to clean your stall, yes, you got to feed them.

Joe Harkins:

Yes, you have to keep up with this.

Joe Harkins:

You have to give them time, exercise, and, and all of those little things.

Joe Harkins:

But as a horse person or somebody is just coming into it, I think that open mind that there's so many things that are involved with being associated with horses that you can always find something that you can relate to and bond to and enjoy.

Joe Harkins:

You know, you can't just look at a big picture and say, well, I don't like that.

Joe Harkins:

You know, it's either the interfacing with all the people that you come across or actually the interaction with the animal itself that, you know, can bring you lots of joy and entertainment as well.

Joe Harkins:

So I think you just need to be open and enjoy everything that's involved with it.

Tony Humphries:

Well, I want to thank David and Joe and Tony for playing along with us to get today.

Tony Humphries:

They've been great guests and we really appreciate them carving out a little bit of their time to help us with this episode today.

Tony Humphries:

So thanks everyone.

Tony Humphries:

So the last segment of our episode today is brought to you by Merck.

Tony Humphries:

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Tony Humphries:

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Tony Humphries:

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Tony Humphries:

And you can learn more about Merck by going to merck animal health usa.com so today's legislative and regulatory update is on the Horse Protection Act.

Tony Humphries:

ction act went into effect in:

Tony Humphries:

It's gone through several revisions over the course of the last, what is that, 50 years?

Tony Humphries:

st of:

Tony Humphries:

So if you're listening to this episode, the first Tuesday of February, they've already possibly gone into effect, or maybe not.

Tony Humphries:

And the reason I say that is that we are operating in a very fast changing and unstable environment.

Tony Humphries:

And that's partially due because the American Horse Council and a lot of members of the industry still have outstanding questions about the regulations.

Tony Humphries:

And we're trying to get clarity and some greater insights as to how some of this process is going to work.

Tony Humphries:

But we're not getting a lot of answers back from USDA right now.

Tony Humphries:

And we also are having a changeover in our leadership in the US So with incoming new President and changes in top level people in all the agencies in Washington.

Tony Humphries:

We just don't know exactly if this is going to take effect on February 1st or not.

Tony Humphries:

And in addition to that, the American Horse Council has formally requested USDA to delay the implementation because we don't think they're ready and we don't have all the information that we need in order to move forward.

Tony Humphries:

So having said that, I will also say to you that we have more questions than we have answers right now.

Tony Humphries:

They range from what events are covered and included under the regulations.

Tony Humphries:

We still don't have clarity around that.

Tony Humphries:

We don't have clarity around some of the new reporting requirements.

Tony Humphries:

There's some new inspectors that are going to be used for the Horse Protection act and we don't believe that they have announced who those individuals are or how to contact them or find that kind of information.

Tony Humphries:

So just a whole lot of questions and concerns that have not been addressed and the information is not forthcoming.

Tony Humphries:

So we're really, really at the American Horse Council carefully considering and consulting with our members to determine how we want to proceed about this.

Tony Humphries:

Emily and I just came back from speaking to the League of Ag and Equine Centers and we did a whole presentation on the Horse Protection Act.

Tony Humphries:

So if you've got questions about the Horse Protection act, by all mean, drop us a note@infoorscouncil.org we'll add that to the laundry list of things that we're trying to give the USDA to address and help us figure out how to proceed with all of this.

Tony Humphries:

I also would like to add that the one thing that I keep telling folks about the Horse Protection act is this was codified into law.

Tony Humphries:

And so what that means is that the only thing that the leadership at USDA has the purview to do themselves is to delay the implementation.

Tony Humphries:

They cannot overturn the rule.

Tony Humphries:

So we're working a lot of different angles to try to figure out how to proceed.

Tony Humphries:

So the only thing the American Horse Council could do at this point was to ask for a delay.

Tony Humphries:

We asked for a 60 day delay, but we haven't given up on trying to make some vast changes to these regulations.

Tony Humphries:

So we'll see how that kind of continues to, to play out.

Emily Stearns:

Julie, I've seen a lot of stuff floating around on the Internet, as we all do, and some things like, you know, the new regulation is going to require any therapeutic item, such as massage or chiropractic to come with a veterinary letter saying it's an approved therapy.

Emily Stearns:

Is, is that true?

Emily Stearns:

Is that the whole story.

Tony Humphries:

We have read and read and read, Emily, and we don't see that in the regs.

Tony Humphries:

But I too have seen that sort of floating around.

Tony Humphries:

I would offer that people should really do their due diligence about what's included in the regulations and what's not, because there are those kinds of misstatements.

Tony Humphries:

There are some really, I don't know, false narratives, I guess is the right word being pushed around out there.

Tony Humphries:

And I actually had a woman call me recently and she said, you know, my little, my little club, local club, is quite concerned about some of the things they read online.

Tony Humphries:

And I said, fair enough, need those, but don't take them for fact.

Tony Humphries:

Be sure to do your due diligence and make sure you've gotten the full picture.

Emily Stearns:

And, and we can help you out there.

Emily Stearns:

If you're trying to read the regulation on your own and you're confused by it or have questions, Julie and Bridget, our Legislative affairs staffer and I, we have read it front to back several times over the last two years.

Emily Stearns:

So we are happy to help you walk through it.

Emily Stearns:

Things like.

Emily Stearns:

Julie, can you clarify?

Emily Stearns:

So it says now it applies to all breeds and disciplines, and it's never applied to all breeds and disciplines.

Emily Stearns:

How, you know, if we go to from Totally false to 100% True, how does that statement kind of stack up?

Tony Humphries:

Okay, this is one of those questions I get frequently, Emily.

Tony Humphries:

tions were put into effect in:

Tony Humphries:

The introduction does not specify that this applies only to Tennessee walking horses or racking horses.

Tony Humphries:

It says that it's put into place to look out for the health and well being of horses, period.

Tony Humphries:

So to a certain extent, even from the very beginning, it's had a rather broad umbrella.

Tony Humphries:

But as it has been implemented, it has focused strictly on soaring, which takes place amongst the walking horses and the racking horses.

Tony Humphries:

And I'm not going to make the mistake I made in Vegas.

Tony Humphries:

Emily, not everybody knows what soaring is.

Tony Humphries:

So soaring is when a caustic chemical is applied to the front limbs of a horse or other types of devices are applied to the horse to cause them to have a very sensitive touch with their feet.

Tony Humphries:

And so it makes for a very exaggerated gait, very exaggerated gait.

Tony Humphries:

And so it's a very harmful practice for these horses.

Tony Humphries:

They look so uncomfortable to me.

Tony Humphries:

And so, you know, that's what the law has really focused on.

Tony Humphries:

But what we have seen in these new regulations, Emily, is that there are certain parts of the regulations that this time USDA is applying to all breeds and all disciplines.

Tony Humphries:

And one of Those is a 30 day notice for all horse shows in the US and that means they have to send in a email to USDA that tells them they're having an event and how many horses they're going to have and what kind of breeds they're going to have and answer a few questions for them.

Tony Humphries:

And that's caused quite a bit of concern across the entire horse industry because everybody's like, wait a minute, that's another thing I've got to, I've got to fill out.

Tony Humphries:

So you're.

Tony Humphries:

Because that question, Emily, I'm sorry to kind of cut the knife a little fine here.

Emily Stearns:

No, I think that does.

Emily Stearns:

So long story short, since:

Emily Stearns:

And in terms of show reporting, they are enforcing it against all breeds.

Emily Stearns:

More clearly, they clarified the language and the updated regulation I think is the best way to explain it.

Tony Humphries:

Yeah, yeah, that's a good way to explain it.

Tony Humphries:

Well, I do want to say it's interesting.

Tony Humphries:

The American Horse Council put out a special bulletin a couple of weeks ago because we weren't getting cooperation from USDA and said that we had formally requested this 60 day extension, but that we wanted to be clear that we still supported the original intention of the Horse Protection act, which was to prohibit soaring.

Tony Humphries:

And some people have, I think maybe misinterpreted that statement to mean that we are in agreement with all aspects of this new regulation.

Tony Humphries:

And I can honestly say the American Horse Council is not in agreement with all aspects of this regulation, far from it, but we are still committed to the prohibition of soaring.

Tony Humphries:

And so we are continuing to have internal discussions, discussions amongst our committees, discussions amongst our board of trustees about whether or not we're going to put out a follow up statement to kind of clarify what our position is or exactly how we want to proceed.

Tony Humphries:

I will tell you that we asked USDA to respond to our request for a delay and we have not had a response from them.

Tony Humphries:

So there could be more information forthcoming folks, about where we're at with this.

Emily Stearns:

And I think the easiest answer is always, especially with the changeover in administration, which we're already seeing staffing changes within usda, which is not uncommon when there's a new president coming in, it doesn't matter who it is, who knows how everything's going to move forward.

Emily Stearns:

And, and if anybody has a crystal ball, we would love to know, but that, that will have an impact on enforcement.

Emily Stearns:

We just don't know how that will impact things.

Tony Humphries:

So folks, stay tuned if you have questions.

Tony Humphries:

As Emily said, feel free to reach out to any of us.

Tony Humphries:

We'll try to do our best to address them and give you as much insight as we can.

Tony Humphries:

Unfortunately, in some places we're going to tell you what we've been told and what we haven't been told, and we might not be able to get you everything you need, but we're happy to chat with you about it.

Tony Humphries:

And please know that we have as much anxiety and consternation about all this as probably all of you do we.

Emily Stearns:

We are fellow horse people and fellow horse showers.

Emily Stearns:

So we get it, folks.

Tony Humphries:

Yeah, we do.

Tony Humphries:

So thanks Emily for helping me out with that.

Tony Humphries:

Again, reach out to us if you have any questions, folks.

Tony Humphries:

Thank you for joining us today.

Tony Humphries:

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Emily Stearns:

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Tony Humphries:

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