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Have you ever considered the delicate dance of dynamics that dictates the strength and balance within your relationship? Join me, David Bayer, as we journey into the heart of what it takes for men to truly stand in their power as protectors and providers, and how women can play a pivotal role in that process.
Together, we'll explore the vision of an empowering partnership, decoding the archetypes of men and understanding how to navigate the dance between control and support to foster a connection where both partners thrive. In a tale as old as time, control and resentment have been silent saboteurs in the waltz of love, often leading couples down a path of criticism and disempowerment.
This episode peels back the layers on these destructive patterns, offering a mirror for self-reflection and a roadmap for recalibration. Join us as we discuss how to break free from the grip of negativity and set the stage for a relationship that elevates both individuals, where men reclaim their role not just as participants, but as equal partners in a dance of mutual respect and admiration.
Communication, the silent symphony behind any successful relationship, is an art form we dissect with care. Learn how to conduct a conversation that builds instead of breaks, fostering self-confidence in your partner and nurturing an environment ripe for growth.
We'll share strategies on how to cherish and support each other, turning the ordinary into extraordinary. Whether you're looking to reignite the spark or simply enhance the flame that already burns brightly, this episode is a beacon for those navigating the journey of partnership, shining a light on the path to a future filled with understanding, support, and love.
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What We Explored This Episode
(00:00) Understanding Manhood in Relationships
(10:29) Understanding and Reversing Unhealthy Relationship Dynamics
(22:00) How to Communicate With Your Husband
(26:22) Supporting and Improving Relationships
Memorable Quotes
"Every woman wants a provider in a relationship. They want a protector, they want certainty, they want safety, they want security, and they want to get that from their man. You want to feel like you can just relax, that your man will be able to take care of things."
"So stop criticizing and start acknowledging. Start acknowledging the things that he is doing. The energy that you bring to a situation is everything. Are you asking from a loving place? Are you using kind words? Is it loving energy?"
"We would never talk to our husband or our wife, hopefully and ideally, like we would talk to our children, and again, you could have a reaction which is well, why do I have to talk to my husband with my kid gloves on? Well, because it's called love, and you're in the process right now of helping him to rebuild his self-confidence, and this is a great way to do it."
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Hey, it's David. Welcome back. Change of mind. Spirit. Goodness. Future. Friend. Co-cited. For this episode is part one, where I'm going to be talking about ship. How they, why they, killer. Today's episode, I'm going to be talking about when you're a man and what you're doing. Now, not I'm. You can. You're doing. Want. Then, so are they too. Because every woman wants a safe curity. You want to feel like lax. It doesn't. You want to be the king. You want a prince. You want a man who is, who is bold. Who's tough. Who feels work. And when a man do the of the cure help outright. When a man doesn't care about self-hate, cisgen thing, no one wants. But unfortunately, many you have found man be over the neck. And there's a flip side, which is what a man within the relationship. Ladies, you. So, there are three of the first type is protect, provide a man who is curing a man that all good be. Now, the, this manly man, all the, you know, fairly being, being bold, Civ, inverted, got a lot of different, very, very quiet, really good. Who stuff hit fan, their woman knows and always house here for them. Now, fortunately, type you and far too is, and there's a second type and second type resembles man. Except really, it is the, who seem gruff, rough man, who is bad boy. The man who's self-confident, self-confident here, hurt other women, off day, true, good, vider, man, getting really, they self-hurt, good, round, you is woman, hard, cuz gal. And then there's a third type and great role, bold, probably. And there's a high probability that, but he's not showing up man relation. So, I'm gonna talk to you about why, what you can do, help or his, her, sport self. And you may be to point your relation, really, remember a woman, husband, met, but not proact, household, bills, children, life. The three children have man, who's, and, inevitably, I ask same question, what was he like? And answer, very revealing, cuz, each and every, the man, more or less, so, somewhere along the way, I wanna, bout, step, that occur, with, cause, to, lose. So, step one is, when, when you first, you, being, wanted, her, so, there were a lot of meals, started to, pick out, clothes, you were, mall, he liked to, cuz, it felt good, that have, evolved, really, what, your, or your, should, wear, clause, it may have evolved to, you doing, clothes. 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there's, that, as, that, resent, bill, anger, those, things, he, is, doing, you, begin, and, you'll, notice, a, just, hate, which, is, well, do, oh, does, do, way, but, as, this, this, out, that, it, is, hills, and, so, now, you, know, the, there's, I, heard, out, most, kid, home, late, parent, down, late, does, them, right, and, so, there's, a, conditioning, with, man, training, and, challenge, good, out, because, number, one, they, want, be, to, most, good, own, wound, so, there, their, lack, self, rather, than, leash, building, up, now, what, so, them, their, they, want, us, every, feel, do, so, this, to, them, where, now, they're, more, may, see, that, actually, what, going, on, is, he's, in, an, inner, arc, wanting, help, wanting, to, help, motivate, loving, where, leash, does, no, do, or, so, his,his old ways do anymore the new ways learn and he tries so this moves in stage where your man come for all pleat pleat nude where now he's or you don't want it you wanted who was troll charred now you've got him who you darted out who you love who had some certain build of work and now he has no skuzz he outsource his prove you love work really well and living doesn't feel like everything does and still has a trauma relive a trauma bearing a child his mother he would every would do exactly the way that he would do everything or his father or mother now none of this is an excuse for your man right this is a this conversation a is women under their troll order to help recall a balance you're not aware this is then you just walk and I'm gonna record another video did it or another so watch YouTube comment below I will record other video when there was building women good news new order so that you build of your help hello King he's a he okay step one is that way he doesn't broke genuinely wrong with good and important part of that off both on you but also for your so that no long number two oh by the way very very men this is not an episode okay women you close to your 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