If setting a boundary leaves you flooded with guilt, this conversation is for you. Boundaries coach Barb Nangle joins host Swati to explore what a healing mindset really means, and why it isn't about fixing yourself.
Barb shares how a codependent bottom at 52 led her into twelve-step recovery, where boundaries became a byproduct of healing, not a task. You'll learn why discomfort doesn't mean danger, and how internal safety, not other people's approval, is what real change is built on.
ABOUT THE GUEST:
Barb Nangle is a boundaries coach who hit a codependent bottom at 52 while working at Yale University. Through twelve-step recovery, she learned to build healthy boundaries and now supports professional women who say yes when they mean no. She hosts Fragmented to Whole: Life Lessons from Twelve-Step Recovery.
KEY TAKEAWAYS:
- Treat hard self-discoveries as info, not ammo, for growth.
- Practice boundaries of self-containment: catch rumination and negative self-talk early.
- Remember discomfort doesn't mean danger, just unfamiliar new patterns.
- Notice constant blaming, then brainstorm the choices still available to you.
CONNECT WITH THE GUEST:
Podcast: Fragmented to Whole
Website: higherpowercc.com
Instagram: @higherpowercoaching
LinkedIn: Barb Nangle
EPISODE CHAPTERS:
[00:00] Welcome to The Healing Mindset (approx.)
[02:00] Barb's Codependent Bottom at Yale (approx.)
[06:00] Finding Recovery Through Co-Dependents Anonymous and ACA (approx.)
[11:00] What People Get Wrong About Healing (approx.)
[16:00] Boundaries of Self-Containment in Everyday Life (approx.)
[22:00] Discomfort Doesn't Mean Danger (approx.)
[27:00] Where to Find Barb and Her Internal Safety Pack (approx.)
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