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Episode 28 - Choosing a Powerful Vision for Change
Episode 2828th December 2021 • Choosing Happy • Heather Masters
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It's said that a vision comes before any creation.

Holding a positive vision of the future has never been so important.

Why is vision so important?

What difference would it make if you had a clear and detailed vision for each area of your life?

How do you create a vision anyway?

These questions and more are answered in today's episode of the Choosing Happy Podcast.

Topics include:

  • The vital importance of having a vision?
  • What impact having a clear vision can have.
  • Creating a vision of your future

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It could be sad that everything begins with a vision.

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Uh, seed.

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Of insight.

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Something that we want hope for or aspire to.

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Comes to us as efficient.

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We either get a picture.

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Or a sense of how it will be, what it will look and feel like

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to manifest it into reality.

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What we do is division.

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Determines our future.

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Do we embrace it and follow through by paying attention to our

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Intuition.

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And intaking inspired knowing action.

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Or do we immediately list all of the reasons we can't do it?

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It can't happen.

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It's not possible.

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Most often we are our own dream killers

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Consciously.

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unconsciously.

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We put out the spark before it gets a chance to take hold and flaming to life.

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How do you create a vision that's meaningful, compelling, and rich enough?

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To get you out of

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But each.

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day

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that's what I'm.

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Covering today.

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If you find this podcast useful, please do share it.

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With those who might find it helpful.

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And I'd be grateful.

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If you could leave a review.

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And subscribe.

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Every little bit helps the podcast to keep going.

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I am Heather masters, and this is the choosing happy podcast.

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Hello and welcome to the choosing.

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Happy podcast at this time of year, many of us are getting ready to set.

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Goals and resolutions for the new year.

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We're looking to change our lives.

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Make commitments

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we're getting ready.

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To smash those goals.

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To hit the gym to give.

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Give up our call . To do dry January and many, many more.

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But how much time do we take?

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To really commit to setting those goals and how much time.

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Do we take to visualizing the results and visualizing how we want.

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Our lives to be.

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Before we set goals.

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We should really spend time going deep on visualizing what we want for our

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lives, what we want for our families, for our careers, for our relationships.

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For our finances.

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Because it only wants we have a vision.

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Can we really deep into our goals and understand the why behind them.

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Once we have a why on our goals, we're more motivated.

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We have meaning.

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And if we have a vision of them being complete, We know what we're

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working towards or you know, how we're going to feel we've already

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assessed what the impact will be.

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We already have decided that that's what we want.

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I do fear that we've all got a bit complacent and familiar.

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I was.

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Going through the motions of setting goals, especially this time of year.

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The go.

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No longer has an emotional pole.

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We've decided even before we begin.

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That will fail.

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And given.

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It's absolutely fine to fail.

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On the way to.

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Your goal.

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As long as you're willing to.

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To learn from it and get up and continue.

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High performers and highly successful people really get

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detailed on their visions.

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Visions are just so impulse.

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Portant.

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Create visions of how they want their lives to be in all areas of their life.

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Uh, collective.

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Can have immense power and can create a collective shift

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in the world and in humanity.

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For instance, a great leader who shares the vision.

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The others commit to, can bring about massive change.

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For example, Martin Luther.

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The king or Nelson Mandela.

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All manifesting begins with a vision.

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The vision is the why?

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For most of us, the meaning behind those.

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Miraculous things that we do.

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When we go beyond the boundaries of our comfort zone, it's because

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we have a vision that we can.

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Entrepreneurs and business people hold visions of how they wants their

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businesses to grow of what they can achieve and what they can create.

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And they use those visions to empower and encourage.

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And inspire staff.

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To follow.

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Vision is the why for extra.

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Extraordinary people.

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Who continue against the arts, because they've already seen it done.

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They've seen it complete.

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They know they can do it irrespective of all of the opposition.

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Vision is intrinsically tied to identity.

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If you have a vision of.

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Being a fit person.

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You live into that.

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If you have a vision of being a writer.

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Of feeling.

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What it is to write every day and to have a book published.

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You'll commit and live into that.

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Fishing trumps everything.

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How precise are you being with your vision for your life, for your career?

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For your relationships.

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For your kids for your health.

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For your business.

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How specific.

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Is.

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Is your vision for your career?

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What type of.

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Area.

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Do you want to work in, what do you want to create?

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What legacy do you want to leave behind?

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Was that a vision we can get comfortable.

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We can stay stuck.

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Uh, vision challenges.

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Reach for more.

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What's the vision for your relationship with your spouse.

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Do you know how you want to feel when you're around them?

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What's that vision for your kids?

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What legacy do you want to leave?

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How would you like them to remember you?

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How would you like them to grow?

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What opportunities and perspective on life would you like them to have.

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What's your vision for your physical health?

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What's your vision for your mental health?

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What's your vision for your social life or your travel for your experiences?

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What outcomes do you want?

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How specific are you guessing?

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Visualizing, you can do something.

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Which is achievable, has been proven to increase performance.

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I watched a national geographic program recently on vacation, about

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a young boy who had a brain tumor and had been given 10 days to live.

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And the doctors had sent him home to die.

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He refused to accept less than you visualized as immune system

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as a scene out of star wars movie.

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Where the good cells.

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With small ships attacking the one large enemy ship, the tumor.

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I was in a week, the tumor.

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Tumor had drastically reduced in size.

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And then about a month they had completely gone.

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Vision, coupled with belief can be powerful.

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Uh, vision provides us with the bigger picture, the overall goal.

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Where we want to be in a.

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A life and in our business.

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It drives and motivates us if the vision's clear and achievable, it'll provide

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clarity, not just for ourselves, but for.

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Uh, businesses.

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Uh, our family.

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Uh, clients and customers.

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For a business.

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Getting employees to buy into your vision.

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And for them to clearly understand their part and its achievement is a

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key to success and we'll often see them performing beyond expectations.

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Uh, long-term objective for an organization.

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But also for India.

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Individual and their life.

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So when you wake up on a rainy gray day at 4:00 AM, and you know, you have a long

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flight and a meeting, you don't want.

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To attend.

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Kids are complaining and the dog is ill and the car won't start.

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And you ask yourself, what am I doing this for?

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Your vision is the why?

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It's where your motivation comes from.

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From the anticipation of how you feel when you've achieved your vision, but.

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Also knowing that it has greater meaning.

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And just for yourself.

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We can produce an bending self-belief and determination.

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It can motivate your everyday.

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It can be powerful.

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Powerful and passionate.

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For a vision to work.

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For you and with you, a vision needs to be aligned with who you are.

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With your authentic self for it to be truly impactful.

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Are your values, beliefs, and what you stand for.

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Congruent to your vision for your business and for your life.

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If not.

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Then you will find the achiever.

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of your vision difficult and may struggle to make it work.

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So, how do you come up with vision?

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There are a number of ways to generate a vision.

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There's.

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What do I want process where you enlist the help of a friend?

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Or a coach.

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Who asks you?

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What.

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You want you write your immediate response down, they

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ask again, what do you want?

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And they ask again and again.

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Uh, until he can't come up with any more answers.

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The idea is to keep going, even when you're struggling for ideas, because

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often those last few things that come.

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Up or the call to what you really want in your vision.

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They come from your unconscious, from the deepest part of you.

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When you go through the list and filter out, what's important to you in your

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picture of success and achievement.

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Unless the message is.

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To begin with the end nine.

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Uh, Steve Covey tells us in his book, the seven habits.

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Of highly effective people.

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I think of your own eulogy.

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What would you have liked to have achieved for your business and for

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your life and for the people around you and for the relationships?

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What are the key things you want to be remembered for?

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What difference did you make?

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What impact?

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What meaning did you bring to the world?

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How many people did you help?

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Another method is to ask yourself, what would you do or achieve.

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If he couldn't fail.

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If you had one wish.

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What would that be?

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If there was only one thing you could do with your life.

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What would you do?

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What is the thing you would continue to do?

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If money didn't matter.

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Once you've a strong idea for your vision.

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Then you're ready for the next step.

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The next step is to write your vision down.

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Write it for now, the near and far.

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So write it for this moment in time.

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Maybe the next month, then take it six months out and then take a year out and

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maybe three to five years and use all of your senses to describe your visions,

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make it vivid and as real as possible.

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Write it in the present tense.

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As if you've already achieved it.

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And again, make it very specific.

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I think about all angles, whether you're doing the vision for your career.

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What will your career mean to you?

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If you're doing it from relation.

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how will your relationship be?

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How will you be interacting?

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What will you be expecting?

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What will they be expecting?

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Keep it positive and keep it personal.

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This is yours.

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Describe the colors, the sounds, the smells or tastes, how you

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feel, what you'll be doing.

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And how

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Well, you know, you've achieved.

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And Your vision.

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Make it real, make it compelling.

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Make it tangible and make it yours.

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And then test your vision.

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Is it realistic and achievable?

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Only in, you know, if this is true.

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Often what others see.

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Unrealistic.

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We have it within us to achieve.

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So for example, the three minute mile.

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It was said to be physically impossible for a human to run a three minute mile.

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But once it was done, many people followed.

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for your business vision and for your life.

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They should

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check that your goals and your vision.

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Much your business reality.

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So for instance, if you're dreaming of starting a spa, who are the

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customers that you're going to serve?

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And are those the customers you're serving now?

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What are the problems you're solving for them?

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Do you have experience in solving that now?

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What industry are you in?

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Are you in that industry?

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Industry now.

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These aren't barriers to your vision.

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It's identifying the steps.

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That will be needed.

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In order to achieve.

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It.

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What are the barriers to entry?

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What are the benefits you bring?

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What are your unique selling points?

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Your differentiator.

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Your gifts, your talents.

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How will you sell, how much will customers pay?

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How much.

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Will it cost to produce your.

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Product or service, do you know?

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How you will achieve it.

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And right at this moment.

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It probably doesn't matter for your longterm vision

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that you have these answers.

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Answers.

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But it will help in terms of finding.

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Finding out the first steps you need to take.

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And moving towards your vision.

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And identify the quick wins and the low hanging fruit.

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What are the things he can do?

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To start moving at that direction.

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And are you willing to make this vision a reality?

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Are you willing to put your social life to one side, if it's needed.

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Are you willing?

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Willing to.

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Change your lifestyle if required.

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And what are your motivators?

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When you look at that vision.

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What is the motivation behind achieving it?

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Is it.

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Vision.

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That's serving a service greater than you.

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Or is it something that is purely for you?

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And it's self motivated.

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Are you flexible?

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Can you ride the waves of change, especially at the moment.

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Can you be resilient?

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Can you.

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Overcome all of the obstacles that may come your way, especially

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in chaos, we're living through.

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And the extraordinary times.

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Can you keep.

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Your eye on the goal.

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Are you contributing to a new tomorrow?

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To a great purpose.

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Or all you.

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Contributing to your family.

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To your friends, to yourself.

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Are you creating a legacy for your children?

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Identify all of this be.

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Be honest with yourself.

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From your vision, you can derive your strategy and goals for

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your business and your life.

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The vision is the main deal.

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It's the driver.

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It's your, why?

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It's the overarching reason.

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For your passion, your purpose.

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You're meaning.

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In life and business.

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And often for your business's existence.

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The strategy is the overall plan on how you'll achieve your vision.

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It's dynamic and can be visited.

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Should.

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Should be revisited.

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It's a living documents.

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Everything is changing.

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Your vision may be way out in the future and all you need to know to begin.

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The first few.

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Two steps.

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The goals or the milestones within the plan.

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It's what you need to do.

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So what are the first couple of goals that you could achieve that movie?

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Toward your greater vision.

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They may even be small goals just to get you started.

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To begin the momentum.

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To keep the vision.

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fresh and alive.

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Once you've written it out.

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Keep it close.

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Read every morning.

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Visualize every morning, breathe life into it, experience it every morning.

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Keep it front of mind.

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So that inspires you.

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It keeps.

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You going.

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Through all of the obstacles and the challenges ahead.

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There's so much more I could go into on vision.

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And on how to create it.

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But for now.

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I hope this has really given you a taste.

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Of how important vision is especially, and the times that we're facing.

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To be able to create a vision of a way forward for yourself and your family.

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Family and these extraordinary times.

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Thank you so much for listening.

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If you found this episode valuable, I'd be grateful if you could

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share it, if you could subscribe.

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And even if you could write a review.

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Every little helps.

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It's me continue with this.

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This podcast.

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. I wish you all the best.

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And I look forward to seeing you on the next episode of

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