In this episode, we're joined by Jay Paterno — former D1 coach, author, and advocate for the future of college athletics. Son of coaching legend Joe Paterno and author of BLITZED!, Jay brings a rare perspective that bridges tradition and transformation in the world of recruiting.

Together, we unpack what most families are missing when it comes to choosing the right school — and why chasing offers, rankings, or money first leads to burnout, disappointment, and regret.

You’ll learn:

• Why the most successful programs recruit values first, not stats
• The #1 thing players need to hear from parents after games
• How mental performance and leadership actually get kids recruited
• The real toll NIL, early commitments, and the transfer portal are taking
• Why most families are spending money backward — and what to do instead

Whether you're a parent, coach, or athlete navigating the recruiting chaos, this episode is your permission to slow down, zoom out, and lead with clarity.