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168 | How to Get Coaching Clients Without Social Media
Episode 1687th May 2026 • Women in The Coaching Arena • Joanna Lott
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Joanna shares a clear and practical approach to building a coaching business without relying on social media, focusing on visibility, trust, and meaningful conversations. She walks through the routes that actually lead to clients - from your existing network and speaking opportunities to partnerships, long-form content, and email, so you can grow your business in a way that feels more sustainable and aligned.

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[01:00] Visibility, trust, conversations

[02:00] Start with your existing network

[03:00] Relationships and referrals

[04:00] Speaking builds trust faster

[05:00] Partnerships that work

[06:00] Long-form content that lasts

[07:00] Email and staying top of mind

This episode will be valuable for coaches who feel drained by social media or aren’t seeing results, because it shows a clearer, more sustainable way to build trust and attract clients.

If social media isn’t your path, your business can still grow - as long as you choose where and how you’ll be visible, and commit to it consistently.

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If you are trying to grow your coaching

business and you are either tired

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of social media or you are posting

regularly and not seeing results, you

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might be wondering, is it actually

possible to get coaching clients

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without relying on social media?

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The answer is yes, but not in

the way that most people think.

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If we haven't met before, I'm

Joe Lott, a business coach, and

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I help qualified coaches get

clients with honesty, not hype.

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I have built my own coaching business over

the last six years, and I have supported

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hundreds of coaches to do the same through

my program, the Business of Coaching.

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Did you know this podcast

is now on YouTube?

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I.

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Really appreciate you heading

over to my channel Joanna lot

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coaching and subscribing, liking

and commenting on a video.

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In return, I will put your name into a

draw to win a one-on-one session with me.

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Let me start with this.

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You don't need social media to get

clients, but you do need visibility.

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You need to build trust, and

you need to have conversations.

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Social media is just one way of doing

that, and it's not the only way,

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actually, for many coaches, it's not

even the most effective way in the

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first few years of your business.

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The first place I always look with

clients is their existing network.

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And I know this can feel uncomfortable

because often we are worried about

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friends, family, former colleagues

seeing us and thinking who do they think

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they are or all this kind of thing.

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And we are far more afraid of that

than what strangers think online.

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But here is what I see again and again.

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People haven't always told their network

really clearly what they do, who they

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help, or how they can help you, and

that is really a missed opportunity

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because your network already knows you,

so you have built that trust already.

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One of the first things I advise

clients to do is to really explain

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simply and clearly what they do now,

and we're not talking just as a list

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of services, but really through their

story, why this matters to them.

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Why have they have chosen this path,

but also really tangibly what they can

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help with in problem and results terms.

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That is really what

people will connect with.

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And beyond that, relationships grow your

business, not just one-off messages,

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thoughtful, ongoing connection.

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I met somebody around six years ago

now who would regularly send me useful

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resources, the things he genuinely

thought I might be interested in.

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He didn't ask me to buy

his services, he just.

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Kept in touch with me and not in a

sleazy way, but because of sending

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thoughtful articles and different

things that he did over those years,

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he has always stayed top of mind.

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And whenever an opportunity comes up,

I always think of him straight away.

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'cause essentially he has paid into the

value bank of me and evidence shows that

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we feel this reciprocity to pay that

back, and that is how referrals happen.

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Not through harassment and pressure,

but through genuine care and really

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keeping in touch with people.

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The second big area you

can focus on is speaking.

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This is one of the fastest

ways to build trust.

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Instead of someone seeing one

post on social media, they

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really get to experience you.

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They hear how you think, they understand

how you work, and they get a sense of

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what it would be like to be coached

by you and to hang out with you.

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I have spoken at events and training

organizations and groups, and often

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a large percentage of people who

contact you afterwards are genuinely

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interested in working together.

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This is because the trust has

already been built, and I've

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seen this with clients too.

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One of my clients built a

six figure coaching business

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without any social media at all.

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She focused on networking,

speaking, and being known in

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the right rooms consistently.

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This wasn't a magic pill.

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This was over a year or two of

her showing up all of the time

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and building those relationships.

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Another powerful route is partnerships.

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So who already has access to

your ideal clients and how

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can you maybe work together?

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This might be speaking to their audience,

maybe running a joint session together.

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Referring clients to each other, and

I have seen this work really well

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when it's done with consideration

that it's a win-win for both parties.

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So a genuine collaborative relationship

between the two of you, where both of

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you are likely to refer the other person.

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Then there is content, and this isn't

always the kind that most people think of.

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I'm talking about long form content here.

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So things like blogs, podcast, YouTube.

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Content that really allows people

to understand how you think, because

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that is what builds depth and social

media can be quite surface level.

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Things move quickly, post disappear.

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You get their attention for one second

or two if you're lucky, whereas long

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form content stays for so much longer.

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Someone can find a podcast episode

or a blog post or YouTube video years

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later and still connect with it.

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A lot of my business has come from a blog

post I wrote maybe four or five years ago

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now, and it now is number one on Google

for how to start a coaching business, and

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that is because it was an amazing piece.

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That is really, really helpful.

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I didn't even know about SEO

when I created that blog post,

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so really think about what do

people really want to know about.

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Share that in your long form content, then

people will be able to trust you because

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they have spent more time with you and

you have helped them to make progress.

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Finally, let's talk about email.

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Your email list is one of the most

valuable things that you can build because

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these people have chosen to hear from you.

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They have taken a step to opt in.

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Therefore they are more engaged

and when you share something,

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they are more likely to respond.

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But of course, you do need a

way to grow that email list that

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can come from speaking events.

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Content partnerships.

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It doesn't only have to

come from social media.

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So if I step back and simplify all of

this, getting clients without social

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media comes down to being known.

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Being trusted and being remembered.

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So keep asking yourself, what

are the ways that I can do that?

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And they all require one thing,

which is consistency and a plan.

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Not doing something once or

being told that you can grow your

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business without social media.

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Without telling you what else you

need to be doing, but whatever you

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choose, you do need to go into it with

full energy and real enthusiasm to

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build those relationships over time.

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What doesn't tend to work is trying lots

of different things without sticking

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to any of them for long enough for

them to work or avoiding visibility

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altogether because it feels uncomfortable.

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Waiting until everything feels

ready before putting yourself out

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there, because that moment rarely

comes when everything is ticked off.

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So if social media doesn't feel

like your path, that is okay, but

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the question then becomes how are

you going to be visible instead?

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Where are your people already gathering?

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How are you intending to build trust and

how are you going to stay top of mind

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because that is what leads to clients.

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If you would like help with this and

you are planning your next quarter, you

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can download my free Coaches planner,

which will take you step by step through

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the steps of clarity and visibility.

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You'll find the link to the free

digital version in the show notes, and

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you can also buy it on Amazon as well.

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You will also find the link to the

Amazon version in the show notes.

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It is designed to help you to take action

straight away and start building momentum.

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Thank you for listening to

today's episode, and like I always

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say, trust yourself, believe in

yourself, and be the wise gardener

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who keeps on watering the seed.

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