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4 Types of Instagram Posts Your Business Should Never Share
Episode 1041st September 2025 • Mompreneur Mastery • Sydney OBrien
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This episode is my version of a “can I be mean for a sec?” text.

I’m sharing the types of Instagram posts that might look like a win because the algorithm loves them… but in reality, they can hurt your business, alienate your audience, and leave you wondering why the likes aren’t turning into sales.

Inside the episode, you’ll hear:

  • The 4 types of posts that do more harm than good (even if they get big engagement)
  • Why these trends are so tempting — and why they don’t actually work long-term
  • What to focus on instead if you want content that leads to trust, connection, and sales


It’s a little ranty, a little “I’m not mad, just disappointed” mom-energy, but mostly? It’s a permission slip to stop chasing vanity metrics and start creating content that actually converts.


MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

  • Content That Converts - multi-platform marketing strategy and messaging memberhsip
  • Buyer Journey Content Map - If you’re tired of chasing trends and vanity metrics, the Buyer Journey Content Map will show you what to share instead.

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Sydney:

Today's episode is gonna be a little bit different because

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I'm feeling a little ranty.

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I wanna share the posts that I

absolutely hate seeing on Instagram

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that are just not helpful at all

for your business, even though they

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might get you the vanity metrics

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feel like it's reinforcing the effort

that people put into these posts, but in

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fact hurt businesses and alienate leads.

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Let's get into it.

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So for the past couple of weeks on

the podcast and in the online space

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in general, I have been talking a

bit about how buyer behavior has

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changed and how Instagram strategy

has changed, especially if you are

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an entrepreneur who is short on time.

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Those changes just need to be made.

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And today I wanna talk about

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Instagram specific, well, social

media specific marketing trends.

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It could be prevalent on

other platforms as well.

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It's not something I super pay

attention to on other platforms.

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Not that I'm on all platforms, but

I notice it a lot on Instagram.

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And it's really, really gross.

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So these are the posts that people

share because they get those vanity

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metrics that you want for social media.

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Like you get the views, you get the

engagement, but that doesn't mean they're

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helpful for your business, especially

when they end up alienating audiences

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instead of building the trust and the

connection that you need for it to

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actually be helpful for your business.

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And these things that we know we need

even more of now that buyer behavior

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is changing and it's taking longer

for people to have that trust and they

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need more and more of it before they're

ready to invest or buy something.

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In general, yes, shifts

in content are normal.

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The way we phrase things, the trends the

angles we use in our online marketing.

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That's all part of how online

marketing works, right?

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As an example, a few years ago, I

would've shared a carousel that said

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three ways to get more followers, and

then listed 1, 2, 3, if I shared the

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same content today, I would probably

start it by saying the three things I

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swear by for getting 30 new followers a

day as a certified Instagram strategist.

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Okay, so it's the same idea.

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It's just dressed up differently.

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That kind of shift is not new.

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That's normal.

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These shifts are normal, but some of these

newer trends that we are seeing are so

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manipulative and harmful, and I hate them.

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Okay.

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They cross that line into flat

out manipulative, and it sucks.

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So if this episode comes off as a little

ranty or gossipy, it's just because

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I'm so annoyed and really disappointed,

which feels like such a mom thing to say.

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Like, I'm not even angry.

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I'm just disappointed.

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But I literally am.

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Consumers deserve better.

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And we deserve better too.

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'cause I'm seeing a lot of this in the B2B

space, specifically with bigger creators.

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And because it is a trend, there

are smaller creators and smaller

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businesses hopping on it too.

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But I hate to see it.

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I really do.

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And I don't want us to copy these trends

thinking, you know, this is what I have

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to share to kind of make a name for

myself on Instagram or wherever else,

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or share content that actually helps my

business because you absolutely don't.

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In fact, it can be harmful.

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And let's get into why.

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And I do, I understand

the why behind it, right?

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Like these posts, they get views,

they get the engagement, and as

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online business owners, part of

the goal of our marketing is always

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to build awareness for our brand.

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So these seem to be doing that.

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So that part.

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In theory is good, but the other goals

for online marketing are getting leads

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for the brand, nurturing our audience.

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So those leads turn into paying

clients or customers, right?

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These posts don't do that.

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They might get visibility because

of how they're worded, which

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we'll get into in a minute.

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But the end result, if it's not

leading to leads or clients, are

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these the views that you want?

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No.

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No, they're not.

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And honestly, these posts leave

such a bad taste in my mouth.

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They give such a bad impression

of online marketing, and I hate

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that I have seen more and more

of these, and it is so gross.

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It's honestly one of the reasons,

not the only reason, but one of the

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reasons that I'm stepping back from

Instagram more, spending less time

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there, spending less personal time

there, like business time there.

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It's taking definitely a.

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Backseat as far as my online marketing

strategy grows, and it's, this is

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one of the reasons why I don't want

to be in that kind of space anymore.

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And like I mentioned before,

buyer behavior has changed.

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So we know we need more touchpoints

with our audiences, we need more

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trust, we need connection before

someone is ready to invest.

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So if you're considering hopping on one of

these trends of these posts that I'm gonna

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get into in just a minute, I swear I will.

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I think it is more important

than ever to double down on your.

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Own messaging, your unique selling

propositions, having that strong

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messaging for you so you don't have

to rely on these icky marketing trends

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that end up alienating people just

because other people are doing it.

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And just because you do get

those rewarding vanity metrics.

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But vanity metrics are

not the end goal here.

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Okay.

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So the first one that I wanna share that I

see so much of that I really, really hate.

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As the outrageous income claims, I

feel like you've probably seen these.

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Oh my gosh.

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Please make it stop.

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Okay, so you might be like

sydnee, why do you hate these?

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What's going on here?

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Let me tell you.

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Please, let me tell you one, they

are usually straight up lies and if

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they're not lies, they either leave out

so much information that it is still

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incredibly misleading and I hate it.

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And if you're thinking

Sidney, how do you know that?

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How could you possibly

know that they're lying?

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Actually, I have facts.

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You can look up the income for most

online business owners in America,

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and it is just under $60,000.

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I believe.

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I was talking with Maggie Patterson

about this a couple episodes ago.

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Listen to that episode.

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Read her book, staying solo.

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She has all the information

cited there, but again, you

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can just Google it yourself.

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For all of these people to be claiming

they are constantly having like

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20 K months hitting six figures.

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As online business owners, they're

either flat out lying, trying to sell you

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whatever system or template or whatever.

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Using this as like authority,

building content, trying to sell

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you this dream of what they have

because obviously we want the system

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or template to make more money or.

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They're leaving out so much information.

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Like when, when did they

start their business?

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Was it before like everyone and

their mom started an online business?

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And when it was really easy to

grow your list and convert leads,

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do you have a really big team?

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How much are they spending on ads?

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So much information is being left out.

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Drives me nuts.

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And it's so misleading.

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When people are sharing these

promotional posts trying to sell you

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their system, they're coaching their

templates saying, oh, I did this.

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You can do it too.

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You can reach your 20 K months

with my blueprint or whatever.

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They're either lying, you are

not giving the full picture and

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they're not telling you how much.

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And again, I get why they do it.

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It's authority building.

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They're selling you this dream.

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They're selling you that big

transformation like I did it.

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You can too.

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And obviously we're online business

owners, we want more sales,

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like, yes, please sign me up.

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I have things I need to pay

for and I need money to do it.

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But it's just so disingenuous and

I hate it because lies, lies, lies.

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And the amount of context and nuance

that is left out is kind of a theme

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you might pick up on with all of these

posts that I'm gonna get into here.

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The lack of consideration.

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The lack of nuance.

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The lack of context.

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Again, I'll get into that with

all of 'em, but yeah, you'll

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definitely pick up on it for sure.

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The next post that I see a lot

of that I don't love at all.

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It is not really any specific

kind of post, it's just like

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this general recycled content.

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All right, and I debated including

this one because I feel like a

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lot of people might hate it, but,

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but please, please hear me out.

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Whether everyone's using the same hook,

because you know, those few influencers

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will say, you'll go disrespectfully,

viral, if you will, or telling you

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to hop on a trend before it blows up.

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All of these posts end up saying the same

thing, but also nothing at the same time.

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'cause they're all very

surface level and very fun.

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And while there's absolutely a

place for that, if your whole

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strategy revolves around copying

these hooks and trends and things,

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that's not a strategy And I get it.

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They're easy, they're fun.

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Those trends tend to get more reach and

more engagement, and it's a good time.

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And if you love doing

them, I love that for you.

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But please, please, please

make sure underneath that

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you have your own strategy.

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You have your solid messaging that makes

you stand out from everyone else using

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those same hooks and those same trends.

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And I'm not talking about generic

pain points in the surface level.

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Like I help whoever's statements, I

mean, dig deep kind of messaging you.

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you need to be building that authority.

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You need to be creating connection and

building trust if you want these to

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actually lead somewhere, I think these

are really great for top of the funnel

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kind of content, okay, for visibility.

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But with any kind of visibility, you still

have to make sure your messaging is there.

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So the visibility you're getting

is from the people you want to see

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it, the people who are most likely

to go towards the bottom of that

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funnel and actually buy from you.

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So it's not that these are horrible.

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But I think we tend to lean

on them a little too much.

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And the same goes for like AI generated

content as well when we just pop in

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like, oh, what should I post today?

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And again, I understand like part of it is

the hooks and trends and things are fun.

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And if you don't have a post planned,

it's so easy to pull up Instagram and

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find one of those and just like quickly

whip out a post so you can cross social

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media off your to-do list for that day.

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110% understand that we are stressed,

we are tired, we are overwhelmed.

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We wanna be able to make things

as simple as possible so we can

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address everything else that we have

to get done in any 24 hour period.

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It's a lot.

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And again, that applies to AI too.

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It's so easy to go to chat GPT and

be like, what should I post today?

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The thing is.

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That doesn't mean it's a whole strategy,

and that doesn't mean it's super helpful.

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I think doing less content more

intentionally is better than hopping

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on endless trends and reusing these

recycled hooks with sharing surface level

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kind of content that And like I said,

yes, these definitely have their place.

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I'm not saying never do them.

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I'm not saying you can't do them

i'm just saying be careful of

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how often you're doing them.

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Have the deeper messaging and

strategy behind it so that it actually

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works with everything else is all.

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Okay.

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You gotta have those differentiators.

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You gotta have that solid messaging.

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People rely a lot on AI

content, on these quick wins

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for content just to get it done.

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Just to have something to post.

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And I'm not trying to shame

anyone that does this.

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I completely understand why we do it.

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I've done it too for trends

and things and ai and it's that

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vanity metric payoff, right?

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For the trend specifically,

you know, it's right there

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calling to us and it's also fun.

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Like if you see a trend and you

wanna hop on it, if that's your vibe.

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Yes, absolutely do it.

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When it comes to AI specifically, I think

especially for my business owners who

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are non business owners, we again have

so much going on, why would we not take

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advantage of this tool that's sitting

right there that can just easily get some

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content done for us so we could move on

to whatever else we have to do today?

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I completely get that.

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It's so nice to have that

tool in your back pocket.

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It's so nice to have a post plan for

you either using AI or opening Instagram

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quickly, finding a trend and hopping on.

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I get it.

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I've done it.

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And fortunately this all comes back

to that foundation of messaging.

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If you don't have that deeper level

of messaging that understanding of

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it, it's just content fill in feeds.

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That's not actually saying anything.

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It's not bringing your audience anywhere.

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It's not.

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Even bringing the right people in for that

top of funnel content that I mentioned.

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And again, I really wanna stress this.

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I understand we are all

exhausted, we are overwhelmed.

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We just wanna get this done

to get other things done too.

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And the great way to do that is if

you have your messaging down, if you

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have a strategy down, if you have a

better plan of what to say and when,

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so that it actually leads somewhere

to the next step of the buyer journey.

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We don't want it to be the same old

thing everyone is sharing, especially

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right now when we know that buyers

need more connection and more trust

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and more touch points before they're

gonna be ready to work with you.

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And again, Instagram and the internet

in general is just a very loud place.

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And like I said, find a hop on trends.

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Find to use them.

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I'm not saying never use trends

or those hooks, but I'm saying

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that cannot be your whole strategy

if you want it to actually work.

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If you are doing it, make sure you're

somehow differentiating yourself,

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putting in your unique messaging in

there so you can draw your specific

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people into your online world.

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That's the most important piece

that I see constantly missing.

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And I don't want you to hear this

and think, oh my gosh, every post

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has to be absolutely perfect.

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It's strategized and so important.

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No, absolutely not.

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I've shared so many posts that

don't do that, and I think

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that's fine to do sometimes.

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Not everything has to be perfectly planned

and thought out and strategized, but I'm

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saying there has to be something somewhere

that ties most of your content together.

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So have the one-off posts that are fun

and just show your personality because

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it is fun to do those and it can generate

engagement and get you views, but don't

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rely on it as your whole online marketing

strategy is all I'm trying to say.

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The third type of post that I hate seeing.

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I was actually just talking to

a couple people last week about

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this type of post and how much we

hate it as well, and that is the.

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Kind of absolutist posts where someone

is saying that their offer, their

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framework, their blueprint is the

only way to reach whatever goal or

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transformation that they're selling.

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Straight up lies.

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There are so many ways to

get from point A to point B.

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All right.

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Like that's just silliness.

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As an example, I teach five

steps to sales on Instagram.

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Well, now it's just kind of five

steps to sales and online marketing,

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but that's not new and it's

not the only way to get there.\

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I'm sure you've all heard of the

know, like, and trust factors, right?

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You gotta have those three factors

before someone is ready to work with you.

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That's basically what I'm teaching.

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Just more drawn out when people

need so many touch points on social

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media because it's so short form.

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That's it.

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That's all it is.

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And even then, if you go person to

person, it's gonna look a little

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different for everyone and their different

audiences and their different offers.

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And there's so much nuance.

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There's no one specific path to get from

point A to point B with point B being

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whatever it is you are selling or whatever

someone else is trying to sell to you.

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Like think about it as

a parent, since this.

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Is mostly for mompreneurs.

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I have three kids.

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If each of them is having a

meltdown about the same thing.

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Say like turning off TV

time or something like that.

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Each of my kids are different.

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So while they're being upset

over the same thing and having

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a hard time dealing with it.

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I know that each of them is going to

need different things to help them

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move past it because they are all

different people with different needs

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and different ways of processing things.

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It's the same thing for

businesses or whatever else.

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There's no one way to get to a solution.

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There's so much nuance and so many

different considerations, resources,

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time, all the things, right?

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So.

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I hate when people are

absolutist about it.

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And again, I get why they do it

because that's kind of how everything

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is when you share it on social media.

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There is not a lot of room for nuance

when it is such short form content,

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but it still just feels gross.

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And it's just one of those incidents

again, where there's so much context

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being left out and it drives me nuts.

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Everyone's gonna be different.

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So seeing these posts is

just a huge red flag for me.

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But again, it is something that does

well because we are also stressed

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and overwhelmed and exhausted.

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And why would we not want

the simple answer that one?

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Blueprint, roadmap, template, whatever it

is that gets us that result that we want.

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We don't wanna have to think we're busy.

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We've got so many other

things to think about.

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Why would we not take the easy

way to get to the whatever win?

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And like those posts do tend to do well on

social media because when you're online,

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you're in this mindset of just endlessly

scrolling, not really stopping and taking

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the time to think or read a whole bunch.

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So when we're doom scrolling

or mindlessly scrolling,

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it's different than sitting,

like listening to a podcast.

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You know your brain's in that mode

where you know you're gonna hear

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20 to 30 minutes of something,

you're gonna have to think about it.

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You're gonna have to process information

and learn something instead of just

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looking at like cat memes or whatever.

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So the short form content, you,

you gotta keep it short and sweet

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and simple for it to perform well.

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And the simpler you make that content,

the more views it's gonna get.

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But it's just still so misleading

and such a big red flag for me.

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And I'm not saying that like any

kind of promotional post, anyone

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that's selling a roadmap or

framework or strategy is doing this.

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I'm not saying like, look out

for all of those things or

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never sell roadmap, framework,

blueprint, or whatever I'm saying.

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Don't say it's the only way.

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It never is.

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And if someone is trying to sell

you something, saying, that's

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the only way Run for the hills.

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All right, this next one might actually

be my least favorite type of post.

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And unfortunately I see way, way,

way, way, way too much of it.

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I just hate it so much.

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I feel like I've said that about all of

these, but this one, it is really true.

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And this is mean girl marketing, alright?

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And if you're asking yourself,

what the heck is mean?

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Girl marketing, don't worry.

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I'm gonna tell you happy you asked.

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It is any kind of shame based marketing.

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Why in the world would I want to buy

coaching services from someone who shames

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me for trying something else first?

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That's not their services.

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I don't understand it, but I see it

all the time and I just don't get it.

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You can use pain points in marketing.

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Absolutely.

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Like why wouldn't you?

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But it has to come from this

place of validation and.

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To be like, I see you, I get you.

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I can help you.

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I understand you.

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But in mean girl marketing,

that's not what it is.

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In mean girl marketing, it's

shaming people for having problems.

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It's shaming people for trying these

other solutions to fix these problems

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that aren't the solution you are selling.

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And you know what's absolutely

insane to me about this?

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The thing that drives me the

most just cuckoo bananas.

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And I say that because I was

watching clips of Degrassi earlier.

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If you know, you know, but it drives

me so insane that when I see these

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types of posts, I'll go click over

to the profile of the person that

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posted it and eight times outta 10

in their bio says, empowering women

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to make more money or whatever.

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It's something about empowering

or helping their audience.

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And I'm like, what about

this is empowering?

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What about this is helpful?

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It's so gross and manipulative.

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I don't understand.

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I would love to see what the conversion

rates are for their marketing like that.

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I would love to see it because

that screams red flag to me.

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It bothers me to no end.

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And the reason that they make these

posts is because it's divisive

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posts like these hot take kind of

posts, they perform well, right?

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You start with that strong take something

that immediately catches people's

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attention and it gets engagement,

which means it gets views and they

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might get the vanity metrics from it.

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And when they get those vanity

metrics from it, it reinforces

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the idea that it's working.

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But it doesn't actually help your business

other than those Instagram vanity metrics

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there's no way that is building connection

and it's absolutely not building trust.

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All it does is foster shame and

alienation, and that is not what

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you should want as a business owner.

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That is not what you should want as a

human being in the world, and it's not

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something I ever wanna see in my feed.

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That is not the effect we

wanna have on our audience.

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And like I said, Instagram

is such short form content.

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People on there, they're not there to have

having like with long attention spans.

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So you're pulling it up to scroll,

you're not reading a novel, you're

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not really reading to learn.

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So you're in this mindset of

quick swipes, quick scrolls.

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So the stuff that is gonna do super

well is super simple and easy to

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consume because that's what our

brains want when we're on Instagram.

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So that leads to a lot of posts,

leaving out a lot of context.

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Wording things in these really

weird ways that come off as super

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divisive and super absolutist.

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And it just takes out so much

nuance and it leads to marketing

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that is just flat out misleading.

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Like when people promise, oh,

do these three steps and you'll

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have 10 K months just like me.

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No, actually, I'm willing to bet

it takes a lot more steps and a

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lot of time and a lot more work

than you're making it sound like.

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But that's not what works on Instagram.

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So why would you share all of that?

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But people are gonna read that and.

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You know, want it because who the

heck wouldn't want simple three

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steps to 10 K months, right?

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We all want those quick wins

and again, completely get it.

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Everyone is so stressed and exhausted.

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The economy is wild.

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The world is wild.

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So much is going on, and I get that.

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That doesn't make it any less misleading

for the marketer of those things.

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And of course, in short form content, you

can't share all of that context and all of

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that nuance, which is why we should not be

relying on that type of style of content

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as business owners and as marketers.

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It's just not right.

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I am not saying that all of these posts

or all of these hooks are misleading.

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You know, the rest of the posts,

they might include some information.

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I'm saying if you are a consumer,

read it through and make sure that it

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does before you work with that person.

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And if you are hearing this

and worrying about posts you've

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made, just keep that in mind.

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Share the content in a

meaningful and accurate way.

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And I honestly believe people are getting

so sick of the random, like surface level.

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Everyone's saying the same stuff,

whether it's with the recycled hooks

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and trends that absolutely say nothing

with the AI kind of word salad, where

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it is just like a whole bunch of words.

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But what does it really mean?

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It's just words on a, on a feed.

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What is this post doing?

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No one knows.

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It lacks connection and we know we

need way more of that, both in the

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online space and as people in general

and business in the B2B space.

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You know, we need way more of that

because we can see the shift in

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buyer behavior that I've been talking

about in the past couple of episodes.

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And a, you're on my email list.

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I've been talking about it there too.

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It's shown that we need that.

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Buyers are taking their time

to buy as they should be with

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all of this nonsense out here.

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Of course, they need more trust and they

need more connection, so they need to know

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that this is worth their time and their

energy and effort before they buy it and.

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The way we get that as the

business wanting their money is

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not through the type of post that

I just shared in this episode.

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It is by having solid messaging, knowing

what you are saying, knowing your mission

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sharing it in a way that conveys that,

and then knowing when to say it so you

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can help the people you wanna help with

your services, and so you can get all

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of those touch points that you need in

order to have the trust and the connection

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so people are ready to invest with you.

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But like I said, these posts do well

on social media because they cater to

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vanity metrics rather than connection.

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Then they try to frame these big ideas

and big promises as so simple because

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we crave simplicity 'cause we're just

so exhausted and life is so stressful.

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And of course we want the easy way.

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Of course.

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We want the quick wins

and the big results.

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Like, why wouldn't we?

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It just takes, doesn't take so much

into consideration lacks so much

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context and just ends up being so

misleading and manipulative and generally

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harmful for a number of reasons.

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And I really wanna stress this.

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I completely understand why people

hop on these marketing trends.

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I'm sure I have done some of them too.

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And if I have, I apologize if you

have, and you're feeling bad right now.

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I'm not trying to call you out.

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I'm trying to call you in

and say, we can do better.

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And I get why they get shared.

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Honestly.

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Again, these vanity metrics

reinforcing the idea that these

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kinds of posts are working, but.

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Are they really?

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I mean, when I said before I wanna

see the conversion rates for the

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mean girl marketing posts, I don't

mean the follows in the comments.

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I mean, how many actual leads

are people getting from this?

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How many dollars are they making

when they share these posts?

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I cannot imagine it is much.

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So it might be working for the algorithm,

but not necessarily for the business.

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And also, like I said, when.

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We barely have time to think about what

to make for dinner because there's so much

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going on having these very easy trends

to hop on or just kind of copying what

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other businesses are doing online or.

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Turning to AI for content help, it's easy.

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It gets something off of our to-do list.

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I completely understand that.

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Why would we not take advantage of

those tools when it feels like an easy

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win when we are drowning in task lists?

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But I do know that if you are still

listening I know you feel it too, we

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can do better for ourselves and for

our businesses and for our audiences.

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And I know I'm not alone in this

because like I said, I've been talking

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about it in my emails the past couple

weeks and I have been getting so.

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Many responses from other entrepreneurs,

other entrepreneurs telling me

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they feel seen, telling me they

feel the same way, telling me they

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have been noticing the same things.

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And for me, that really validated

the changes that I have been making

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in my own strategy and my own whole

business and in my membership.

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So if you are listening to

this and wondering, well,

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how, what am I gonna share?

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Then what happens to my audience know

that people are getting pretty sick of it.

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I feel like if we focus more on

connection based marketing as we should

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be given the buyer behavior there's

just so much content out there that

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might be flashy but says a

whole lot of nothing or is

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based in shame and absolutist.

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Things that are just like gross

people crave that connection,

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that reality that we should

really be bringing to our content.

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And all of this is why I'm making

changes in my own business.

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I mean, among other things, this isn't the

only reason, but opening it up to online

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marketing in general, not just Instagram.

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I talked about that a couple episodes

back, so if you missed it, check it out.

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So I'm making some big

changes in my membership.

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It used to be called Post With Purpose.

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It is now called Content that Converts.

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It is not Instagram specific anymore.

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It is all online

marketing and making sure.

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Your marketing across multiple platforms

is all working together with a strong

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messaging foundation to bring you

leads and sales in a way that works for

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you in a voice that sounds like you.

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And I'm doing that by really leaning

into this connection piece, both in,

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teaching, connection based marketing, but

also in my membership I will be having.

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Content planning calls so that I, 'cause

everyone's plan is gonna be different.

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It doesn't make sense to follow some

generic blueprint or roadmap or whatever,

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and just be told to like, here, post this.

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Everyone's different.

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Your business is different, your time

is different, your resources, your

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offers, audiences, all the things.

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So leaning into that to get more

personalized support with that and in a

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dedicated Slack channel, we're gonna be

planning content, we're gonna be working.

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On really digging deep into the right

messaging so that we can stand out and

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attract like our absolute ideal clients.

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And just making sure marketing works for

us and not for any specific algorithm.

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Because again, I get that we're

stressed and exhausted and it's a lot

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easier to rely too heavily on these

tools, the templates, the ai, the

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hooks, the trending reels and say.

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Instead of making sure that our content

is aligning with our messaging and our

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mission the members that were in Post

with Purpose all stayed as I announced

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the changes to them and gave them the

option, and they're excited about the

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changes and I've been getting good

feedback and I absolutely love it.

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It's been going really well.

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So, like I said, focusing more on

one-on-one support with the planning and

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the deeper understanding of messaging.

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Bringing in guest trainings

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from different platforms and different

backgrounds, but the whole goal is

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connection based marketing in a time

where we know buyers are needing

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more and more trust and more and more

connection to be ready to invest.

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And I honestly think with all of

these aI content, the overused

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hooks and trends that just fills

feeds, but don't say a whole lot.

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People are really craving that personal

connection, and that's what I'm hearing

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in replies to my emails as well.

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So honing in on that messaging,

however you're ready to do

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that, is gonna be super, super

important now, more than ever.

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And if you do wanna do that in

content that converts, I will

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link details in the show notes.

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Feel free to check it out.

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If you have questions to see if it's a

good fit for you, please send me a dm.

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But as you create any

content, think about.

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Who you're sharing it for and why

before you hop on the next trend,

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before you use a hook, that everyone

else is telling you to use think about

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what feels right for you and what

your audience needs to hear from you.

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And if you're not sure what that

might be, send me a message on

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Instagram and we can talk through it.

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My handle has changed.

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It is actually at Sydney O'Brien dot co.

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I would love to hear from you.

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