This episode is my version of a “can I be mean for a sec?” text.
I’m sharing the types of Instagram posts that might look like a win because the algorithm loves them… but in reality, they can hurt your business, alienate your audience, and leave you wondering why the likes aren’t turning into sales.
Inside the episode, you’ll hear:
It’s a little ranty, a little “I’m not mad, just disappointed” mom-energy, but mostly? It’s a permission slip to stop chasing vanity metrics and start creating content that actually converts.
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Today's episode is gonna be a little bit different because
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:I'm feeling a little ranty.
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:I wanna share the posts that I
absolutely hate seeing on Instagram
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:that are just not helpful at all
for your business, even though they
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:might get you the vanity metrics
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:feel like it's reinforcing the effort
that people put into these posts, but in
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:fact hurt businesses and alienate leads.
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:Let's get into it.
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:So for the past couple of weeks on
the podcast and in the online space
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:in general, I have been talking a
bit about how buyer behavior has
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:changed and how Instagram strategy
has changed, especially if you are
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:an entrepreneur who is short on time.
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:Those changes just need to be made.
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:And today I wanna talk about
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:Instagram specific, well, social
media specific marketing trends.
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:It could be prevalent on
other platforms as well.
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:It's not something I super pay
attention to on other platforms.
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:Not that I'm on all platforms, but
I notice it a lot on Instagram.
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:And it's really, really gross.
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:So these are the posts that people
share because they get those vanity
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:metrics that you want for social media.
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:Like you get the views, you get the
engagement, but that doesn't mean they're
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:helpful for your business, especially
when they end up alienating audiences
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:instead of building the trust and the
connection that you need for it to
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:actually be helpful for your business.
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:And these things that we know we need
even more of now that buyer behavior
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:is changing and it's taking longer
for people to have that trust and they
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:need more and more of it before they're
ready to invest or buy something.
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:In general, yes, shifts
in content are normal.
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:The way we phrase things, the trends the
angles we use in our online marketing.
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:That's all part of how online
marketing works, right?
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:As an example, a few years ago, I
would've shared a carousel that said
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:three ways to get more followers, and
then listed 1, 2, 3, if I shared the
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:same content today, I would probably
start it by saying the three things I
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:swear by for getting 30 new followers a
day as a certified Instagram strategist.
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:Okay, so it's the same idea.
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:It's just dressed up differently.
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:That kind of shift is not new.
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:That's normal.
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:These shifts are normal, but some of these
newer trends that we are seeing are so
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:manipulative and harmful, and I hate them.
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:Okay.
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:They cross that line into flat
out manipulative, and it sucks.
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:So if this episode comes off as a little
ranty or gossipy, it's just because
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:I'm so annoyed and really disappointed,
which feels like such a mom thing to say.
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:Like, I'm not even angry.
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:I'm just disappointed.
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:But I literally am.
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:Consumers deserve better.
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:And we deserve better too.
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:'cause I'm seeing a lot of this in the B2B
space, specifically with bigger creators.
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:And because it is a trend, there
are smaller creators and smaller
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:businesses hopping on it too.
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:But I hate to see it.
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:I really do.
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:And I don't want us to copy these trends
thinking, you know, this is what I have
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:to share to kind of make a name for
myself on Instagram or wherever else,
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:or share content that actually helps my
business because you absolutely don't.
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:In fact, it can be harmful.
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:And let's get into why.
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:And I do, I understand
the why behind it, right?
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:Like these posts, they get views,
they get the engagement, and as
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:online business owners, part of
the goal of our marketing is always
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:to build awareness for our brand.
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:So these seem to be doing that.
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:So that part.
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:In theory is good, but the other goals
for online marketing are getting leads
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:for the brand, nurturing our audience.
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:So those leads turn into paying
clients or customers, right?
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:These posts don't do that.
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:They might get visibility because
of how they're worded, which
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:we'll get into in a minute.
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:But the end result, if it's not
leading to leads or clients, are
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:these the views that you want?
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:No.
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:No, they're not.
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:And honestly, these posts leave
such a bad taste in my mouth.
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:They give such a bad impression
of online marketing, and I hate
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:that I have seen more and more
of these, and it is so gross.
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:It's honestly one of the reasons,
not the only reason, but one of the
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:reasons that I'm stepping back from
Instagram more, spending less time
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:there, spending less personal time
there, like business time there.
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:It's taking definitely a.
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:Backseat as far as my online marketing
strategy grows, and it's, this is
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:one of the reasons why I don't want
to be in that kind of space anymore.
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:And like I mentioned before,
buyer behavior has changed.
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:So we know we need more touchpoints
with our audiences, we need more
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:trust, we need connection before
someone is ready to invest.
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:So if you're considering hopping on one of
these trends of these posts that I'm gonna
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:get into in just a minute, I swear I will.
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:I think it is more important
than ever to double down on your.
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:Own messaging, your unique selling
propositions, having that strong
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:messaging for you so you don't have
to rely on these icky marketing trends
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:that end up alienating people just
because other people are doing it.
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:And just because you do get
those rewarding vanity metrics.
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:But vanity metrics are
not the end goal here.
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:Okay.
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:So the first one that I wanna share that I
see so much of that I really, really hate.
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:As the outrageous income claims, I
feel like you've probably seen these.
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:Oh my gosh.
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:Please make it stop.
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:Okay, so you might be like
sydnee, why do you hate these?
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:What's going on here?
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:Let me tell you.
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:Please, let me tell you one, they
are usually straight up lies and if
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:they're not lies, they either leave out
so much information that it is still
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:incredibly misleading and I hate it.
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:And if you're thinking
Sidney, how do you know that?
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:How could you possibly
know that they're lying?
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:Actually, I have facts.
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:You can look up the income for most
online business owners in America,
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:and it is just under $60,000.
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:I believe.
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:I was talking with Maggie Patterson
about this a couple episodes ago.
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:Listen to that episode.
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:Read her book, staying solo.
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:She has all the information
cited there, but again, you
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:can just Google it yourself.
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:For all of these people to be claiming
they are constantly having like
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:20 K months hitting six figures.
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:As online business owners, they're
either flat out lying, trying to sell you
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:whatever system or template or whatever.
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:Using this as like authority,
building content, trying to sell
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:you this dream of what they have
because obviously we want the system
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:or template to make more money or.
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:They're leaving out so much information.
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:Like when, when did they
start their business?
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:Was it before like everyone and
their mom started an online business?
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:And when it was really easy to
grow your list and convert leads,
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:do you have a really big team?
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:How much are they spending on ads?
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:So much information is being left out.
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:Drives me nuts.
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:And it's so misleading.
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:When people are sharing these
promotional posts trying to sell you
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:their system, they're coaching their
templates saying, oh, I did this.
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:You can do it too.
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:You can reach your 20 K months
with my blueprint or whatever.
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:They're either lying, you are
not giving the full picture and
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:they're not telling you how much.
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:And again, I get why they do it.
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:It's authority building.
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:They're selling you this dream.
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:They're selling you that big
transformation like I did it.
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:You can too.
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:And obviously we're online business
owners, we want more sales,
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:like, yes, please sign me up.
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:I have things I need to pay
for and I need money to do it.
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:But it's just so disingenuous and
I hate it because lies, lies, lies.
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:And the amount of context and nuance
that is left out is kind of a theme
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:you might pick up on with all of these
posts that I'm gonna get into here.
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:The lack of consideration.
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:The lack of nuance.
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:The lack of context.
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:Again, I'll get into that with
all of 'em, but yeah, you'll
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:definitely pick up on it for sure.
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:The next post that I see a lot
of that I don't love at all.
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:It is not really any specific
kind of post, it's just like
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:this general recycled content.
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:All right, and I debated including
this one because I feel like a
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:lot of people might hate it, but,
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:but please, please hear me out.
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:Whether everyone's using the same hook,
because you know, those few influencers
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:will say, you'll go disrespectfully,
viral, if you will, or telling you
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:to hop on a trend before it blows up.
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:All of these posts end up saying the same
thing, but also nothing at the same time.
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:'cause they're all very
surface level and very fun.
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:And while there's absolutely a
place for that, if your whole
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:strategy revolves around copying
these hooks and trends and things,
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:that's not a strategy And I get it.
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:They're easy, they're fun.
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:Those trends tend to get more reach and
more engagement, and it's a good time.
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:And if you love doing
them, I love that for you.
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:But please, please, please
make sure underneath that
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:you have your own strategy.
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:You have your solid messaging that makes
you stand out from everyone else using
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:those same hooks and those same trends.
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:And I'm not talking about generic
pain points in the surface level.
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:Like I help whoever's statements, I
mean, dig deep kind of messaging you.
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:you need to be building that authority.
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:You need to be creating connection and
building trust if you want these to
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:actually lead somewhere, I think these
are really great for top of the funnel
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:kind of content, okay, for visibility.
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:But with any kind of visibility, you still
have to make sure your messaging is there.
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:So the visibility you're getting
is from the people you want to see
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:it, the people who are most likely
to go towards the bottom of that
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:funnel and actually buy from you.
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:So it's not that these are horrible.
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:But I think we tend to lean
on them a little too much.
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:And the same goes for like AI generated
content as well when we just pop in
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:like, oh, what should I post today?
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:And again, I understand like part of it is
the hooks and trends and things are fun.
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:And if you don't have a post planned,
it's so easy to pull up Instagram and
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:find one of those and just like quickly
whip out a post so you can cross social
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:media off your to-do list for that day.
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:110% understand that we are stressed,
we are tired, we are overwhelmed.
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:We wanna be able to make things
as simple as possible so we can
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:address everything else that we have
to get done in any 24 hour period.
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:It's a lot.
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:And again, that applies to AI too.
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:It's so easy to go to chat GPT and
be like, what should I post today?
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:The thing is.
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:That doesn't mean it's a whole strategy,
and that doesn't mean it's super helpful.
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:I think doing less content more
intentionally is better than hopping
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:on endless trends and reusing these
recycled hooks with sharing surface level
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:kind of content that And like I said,
yes, these definitely have their place.
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:I'm not saying never do them.
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:I'm not saying you can't do them
i'm just saying be careful of
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:how often you're doing them.
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:Have the deeper messaging and
strategy behind it so that it actually
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:works with everything else is all.
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:Okay.
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:You gotta have those differentiators.
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:You gotta have that solid messaging.
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:People rely a lot on AI
content, on these quick wins
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:for content just to get it done.
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:Just to have something to post.
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:And I'm not trying to shame
anyone that does this.
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:I completely understand why we do it.
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:I've done it too for trends
and things and ai and it's that
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:vanity metric payoff, right?
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:For the trend specifically,
you know, it's right there
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:calling to us and it's also fun.
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:Like if you see a trend and you
wanna hop on it, if that's your vibe.
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:Yes, absolutely do it.
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:When it comes to AI specifically, I think
especially for my business owners who
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:are non business owners, we again have
so much going on, why would we not take
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:advantage of this tool that's sitting
right there that can just easily get some
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:content done for us so we could move on
to whatever else we have to do today?
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:I completely get that.
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:It's so nice to have that
tool in your back pocket.
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:It's so nice to have a post plan for
you either using AI or opening Instagram
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:quickly, finding a trend and hopping on.
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:I get it.
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:I've done it.
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:And fortunately this all comes back
to that foundation of messaging.
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:If you don't have that deeper level
of messaging that understanding of
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:it, it's just content fill in feeds.
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:That's not actually saying anything.
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:It's not bringing your audience anywhere.
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:It's not.
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:Even bringing the right people in for that
top of funnel content that I mentioned.
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:And again, I really wanna stress this.
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:I understand we are all
exhausted, we are overwhelmed.
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:We just wanna get this done
to get other things done too.
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:And the great way to do that is if
you have your messaging down, if you
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:have a strategy down, if you have a
better plan of what to say and when,
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:so that it actually leads somewhere
to the next step of the buyer journey.
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:We don't want it to be the same old
thing everyone is sharing, especially
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:right now when we know that buyers
need more connection and more trust
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:and more touch points before they're
gonna be ready to work with you.
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:And again, Instagram and the internet
in general is just a very loud place.
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:And like I said, find a hop on trends.
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:Find to use them.
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:I'm not saying never use trends
or those hooks, but I'm saying
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:that cannot be your whole strategy
if you want it to actually work.
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:If you are doing it, make sure you're
somehow differentiating yourself,
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:putting in your unique messaging in
there so you can draw your specific
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:people into your online world.
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:That's the most important piece
that I see constantly missing.
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:And I don't want you to hear this
and think, oh my gosh, every post
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:has to be absolutely perfect.
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:It's strategized and so important.
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:No, absolutely not.
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:I've shared so many posts that
don't do that, and I think
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:that's fine to do sometimes.
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:Not everything has to be perfectly planned
and thought out and strategized, but I'm
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:saying there has to be something somewhere
that ties most of your content together.
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:So have the one-off posts that are fun
and just show your personality because
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:it is fun to do those and it can generate
engagement and get you views, but don't
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:rely on it as your whole online marketing
strategy is all I'm trying to say.
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:The third type of post that I hate seeing.
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:I was actually just talking to
a couple people last week about
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:this type of post and how much we
hate it as well, and that is the.
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:Kind of absolutist posts where someone
is saying that their offer, their
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:framework, their blueprint is the
only way to reach whatever goal or
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:transformation that they're selling.
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:Straight up lies.
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:There are so many ways to
get from point A to point B.
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:All right.
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:Like that's just silliness.
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:As an example, I teach five
steps to sales on Instagram.
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:Well, now it's just kind of five
steps to sales and online marketing,
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:but that's not new and it's
not the only way to get there.\
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:I'm sure you've all heard of the
know, like, and trust factors, right?
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:You gotta have those three factors
before someone is ready to work with you.
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:That's basically what I'm teaching.
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:Just more drawn out when people
need so many touch points on social
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:media because it's so short form.
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:That's it.
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:That's all it is.
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:And even then, if you go person to
person, it's gonna look a little
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:different for everyone and their different
audiences and their different offers.
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:And there's so much nuance.
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:There's no one specific path to get from
point A to point B with point B being
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:whatever it is you are selling or whatever
someone else is trying to sell to you.
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:Like think about it as
a parent, since this.
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:Is mostly for mompreneurs.
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:I have three kids.
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:If each of them is having a
meltdown about the same thing.
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:Say like turning off TV
time or something like that.
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:Each of my kids are different.
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:So while they're being upset
over the same thing and having
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:a hard time dealing with it.
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:I know that each of them is going to
need different things to help them
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:move past it because they are all
different people with different needs
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:and different ways of processing things.
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:It's the same thing for
businesses or whatever else.
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:There's no one way to get to a solution.
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:There's so much nuance and so many
different considerations, resources,
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:time, all the things, right?
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:So.
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:I hate when people are
absolutist about it.
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:And again, I get why they do it
because that's kind of how everything
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:is when you share it on social media.
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:There is not a lot of room for nuance
when it is such short form content,
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:but it still just feels gross.
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:And it's just one of those incidents
again, where there's so much context
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:being left out and it drives me nuts.
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:Everyone's gonna be different.
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:So seeing these posts is
just a huge red flag for me.
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:But again, it is something that does
well because we are also stressed
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:and overwhelmed and exhausted.
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:And why would we not want
the simple answer that one?
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:Blueprint, roadmap, template, whatever it
is that gets us that result that we want.
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:We don't wanna have to think we're busy.
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:We've got so many other
things to think about.
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:Why would we not take the easy
way to get to the whatever win?
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:And like those posts do tend to do well on
social media because when you're online,
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:you're in this mindset of just endlessly
scrolling, not really stopping and taking
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:the time to think or read a whole bunch.
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:So when we're doom scrolling
or mindlessly scrolling,
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:it's different than sitting,
like listening to a podcast.
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:You know your brain's in that mode
where you know you're gonna hear
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:20 to 30 minutes of something,
you're gonna have to think about it.
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:You're gonna have to process information
and learn something instead of just
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:looking at like cat memes or whatever.
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:So the short form content, you,
you gotta keep it short and sweet
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:and simple for it to perform well.
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:And the simpler you make that content,
the more views it's gonna get.
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:But it's just still so misleading
and such a big red flag for me.
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:And I'm not saying that like any
kind of promotional post, anyone
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:that's selling a roadmap or
framework or strategy is doing this.
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:I'm not saying like, look out
for all of those things or
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:never sell roadmap, framework,
blueprint, or whatever I'm saying.
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:Don't say it's the only way.
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:It never is.
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:And if someone is trying to sell
you something, saying, that's
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:the only way Run for the hills.
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:All right, this next one might actually
be my least favorite type of post.
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:And unfortunately I see way, way,
way, way, way too much of it.
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:I just hate it so much.
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:I feel like I've said that about all of
these, but this one, it is really true.
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:And this is mean girl marketing, alright?
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:And if you're asking yourself,
what the heck is mean?
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:Girl marketing, don't worry.
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:I'm gonna tell you happy you asked.
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:It is any kind of shame based marketing.
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:Why in the world would I want to buy
coaching services from someone who shames
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:me for trying something else first?
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:That's not their services.
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:I don't understand it, but I see it
all the time and I just don't get it.
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:You can use pain points in marketing.
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:Absolutely.
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:Like why wouldn't you?
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:But it has to come from this
place of validation and.
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:To be like, I see you, I get you.
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:I can help you.
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:I understand you.
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:But in mean girl marketing,
that's not what it is.
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:In mean girl marketing, it's
shaming people for having problems.
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:It's shaming people for trying these
other solutions to fix these problems
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:that aren't the solution you are selling.
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:And you know what's absolutely
insane to me about this?
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:The thing that drives me the
most just cuckoo bananas.
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:And I say that because I was
watching clips of Degrassi earlier.
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:If you know, you know, but it drives
me so insane that when I see these
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:types of posts, I'll go click over
to the profile of the person that
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:posted it and eight times outta 10
in their bio says, empowering women
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:to make more money or whatever.
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:It's something about empowering
or helping their audience.
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:And I'm like, what about
this is empowering?
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:What about this is helpful?
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:It's so gross and manipulative.
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:I don't understand.
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:I would love to see what the conversion
rates are for their marketing like that.
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:I would love to see it because
that screams red flag to me.
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:It bothers me to no end.
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:And the reason that they make these
posts is because it's divisive
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:posts like these hot take kind of
posts, they perform well, right?
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:You start with that strong take something
that immediately catches people's
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:attention and it gets engagement,
which means it gets views and they
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:might get the vanity metrics from it.
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:And when they get those vanity
metrics from it, it reinforces
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:the idea that it's working.
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:But it doesn't actually help your business
other than those Instagram vanity metrics
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:there's no way that is building connection
and it's absolutely not building trust.
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:All it does is foster shame and
alienation, and that is not what
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:you should want as a business owner.
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:That is not what you should want as a
human being in the world, and it's not
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:something I ever wanna see in my feed.
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:That is not the effect we
wanna have on our audience.
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:And like I said, Instagram
is such short form content.
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:People on there, they're not there to have
having like with long attention spans.
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:So you're pulling it up to scroll,
you're not reading a novel, you're
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:So you're in this mindset of
quick swipes, quick scrolls.
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:So the stuff that is gonna do super
well is super simple and easy to
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:consume because that's what our
brains want when we're on Instagram.
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:So that leads to a lot of posts,
leaving out a lot of context.
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:Wording things in these really
weird ways that come off as super
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:divisive and super absolutist.
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:And it just takes out so much
nuance and it leads to marketing
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:that is just flat out misleading.
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:Like when people promise, oh,
do these three steps and you'll
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:have 10 K months just like me.
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:No, actually, I'm willing to bet
it takes a lot more steps and a
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:lot of time and a lot more work
than you're making it sound like.
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:But that's not what works on Instagram.
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:So why would you share all of that?
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:But people are gonna read that and.
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:You know, want it because who the
heck wouldn't want simple three
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:steps to 10 K months, right?
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:We all want those quick wins
and again, completely get it.
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:Everyone is so stressed and exhausted.
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:The economy is wild.
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:The world is wild.
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:So much is going on, and I get that.
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:That doesn't make it any less misleading
for the marketer of those things.
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can't share all of that context and all of
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relying on that type of style of content
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:It's just not right.
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:I am not saying that all of these posts
or all of these hooks are misleading.
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:You know, the rest of the posts,
they might include some information.
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:I'm saying if you are a consumer,
read it through and make sure that it
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and worrying about posts you've
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:Share the content in a
meaningful and accurate way.
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:And I honestly believe people are getting
so sick of the random, like surface level.
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:Everyone's saying the same stuff,
whether it's with the recycled hooks
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with the AI kind of word salad, where
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:What is this post doing?
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:It lacks connection and we know we
need way more of that, both in the
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and business in the B2B space.
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:You know, we need way more of that
because we can see the shift in
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about in the past couple of episodes.
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:I've been talking about it there too.
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:It's shown that we need that.
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:Buyers are taking their time
to buy as they should be with
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:Of course, they need more trust and they
need more connection, so they need to know
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:that this is worth their time and their
energy and effort before they buy it and.
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:The way we get that as the
business wanting their money is
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:not through the type of post that
I just shared in this episode.
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:It is by having solid messaging, knowing
what you are saying, knowing your mission
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:sharing it in a way that conveys that,
and then knowing when to say it so you
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:can help the people you wanna help with
your services, and so you can get all
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:of those touch points that you need in
order to have the trust and the connection
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:so people are ready to invest with you.
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:But like I said, these posts do well
on social media because they cater to
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:vanity metrics rather than connection.
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:Then they try to frame these big ideas
and big promises as so simple because
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:we crave simplicity 'cause we're just
so exhausted and life is so stressful.
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:We want the quick wins
and the big results.
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:It just takes, doesn't take so much
into consideration lacks so much
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:context and just ends up being so
misleading and manipulative and generally
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:And I really wanna stress this.
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:I completely understand why people
hop on these marketing trends.
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:I'm sure I have done some of them too.
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:And if I have, I apologize if you
have, and you're feeling bad right now.
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:I'm not trying to call you out.
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and say, we can do better.
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:Again, these vanity metrics
reinforcing the idea that these
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:I mean, when I said before I wanna
see the conversion rates for the
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:mean girl marketing posts, I don't
mean the follows in the comments.
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:I mean, how many actual leads
are people getting from this?
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:How many dollars are they making
when they share these posts?
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:I cannot imagine it is much.
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:So it might be working for the algorithm,
but not necessarily for the business.
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:And also, like I said, when.
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:We barely have time to think about what
to make for dinner because there's so much
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:going on having these very easy trends
to hop on or just kind of copying what
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:other businesses are doing online or.
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:Turning to AI for content help, it's easy.
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:Why would we not take advantage of
those tools when it feels like an easy
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:win when we are drowning in task lists?
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:But I do know that if you are still
listening I know you feel it too, we
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:can do better for ourselves and for
our businesses and for our audiences.
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:And I know I'm not alone in this
because like I said, I've been talking
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weeks and I have been getting so.
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other entrepreneurs telling me
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feel the same way, telling me they
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:have been noticing the same things.
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the changes that I have been making
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business and in my membership.
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:So if you are listening to
this and wondering, well,
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:Then what happens to my audience know
that people are getting pretty sick of it.
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:I feel like if we focus more on
connection based marketing as we should
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:be given the buyer behavior there's
just so much content out there that
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:might be flashy but says a
whole lot of nothing or is
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:based in shame and absolutist.
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:Things that are just like gross
people crave that connection,
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really be bringing to our content.
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:And all of this is why I'm making
changes in my own business.
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:I mean, among other things, this isn't the
only reason, but opening it up to online
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:marketing in general, not just Instagram.
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:I talked about that a couple episodes
back, so if you missed it, check it out.
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:So I'm making some big
changes in my membership.
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:It is now called Content that Converts.
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marketing and making sure.
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is all working together with a strong
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:messaging foundation to bring you
leads and sales in a way that works for
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:you in a voice that sounds like you.
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:And I'm doing that by really leaning
into this connection piece, both in,
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:teaching, connection based marketing, but
also in my membership I will be having.
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:Content planning calls so that I, 'cause
everyone's plan is gonna be different.
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:It doesn't make sense to follow some
generic blueprint or roadmap or whatever,
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:Everyone's different.
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:Your business is different, your time
is different, your resources, your
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:So leaning into that to get more
personalized support with that and in a
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:dedicated Slack channel, we're gonna be
planning content, we're gonna be working.
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messaging so that we can stand out and
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:attract like our absolute ideal clients.
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:And just making sure marketing works for
us and not for any specific algorithm.
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:Because again, I get that we're
stressed and exhausted and it's a lot
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:easier to rely too heavily on these
tools, the templates, the ai, the
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:Instead of making sure that our content
is aligning with our messaging and our
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:mission the members that were in Post
with Purpose all stayed as I announced
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:the changes to them and gave them the
option, and they're excited about the
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:changes and I've been getting good
feedback and I absolutely love it.
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:It's been going really well.
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:So, like I said, focusing more on
one-on-one support with the planning and
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:Bringing in guest trainings
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:from different platforms and different
backgrounds, but the whole goal is
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:connection based marketing in a time
where we know buyers are needing
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:more and more trust and more and more
connection to be ready to invest.
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:And I honestly think with all of
these aI content, the overused
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:hooks and trends that just fills
feeds, but don't say a whole lot.
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:People are really craving that personal
connection, and that's what I'm hearing
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:in replies to my emails as well.
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:So honing in on that messaging,
however you're ready to do
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:that, is gonna be super, super
important now, more than ever.
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:And if you do wanna do that in
content that converts, I will
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:link details in the show notes.
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:Feel free to check it out.
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:If you have questions to see if it's a
good fit for you, please send me a dm.
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:But as you create any
content, think about.
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:Who you're sharing it for and why
before you hop on the next trend,
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:before you use a hook, that everyone
else is telling you to use think about
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:what feels right for you and what
your audience needs to hear from you.
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:And if you're not sure what that
might be, send me a message on
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:My handle has changed.
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