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The 3 Types of Boredom That Quietly Derail Midlife Careers
10th December 2025 • Joy At Work • Lucia Knight
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I want to talk about something I’ve been hearing over and over again from brilliant, experienced professionals: boredom at work. Not the low-level kind we all get from time to time—but chronic, energy-draining, soul-dimming boredom.

This episode is grounded in new research from the Midlife Work-Life Satisfaction Report, which drew insights from over 1,000 midlife professionals. And one thing was glaring: 97% said they want to do more meaningful work. That’s not a typo.

In this episode, I walk you through:

  • What chronic boredom really looks like at midlife
  • The 3 distinct types of boredom I uncovered in my research
  • How each type chips away at your joy, energy, and engagement
  • A more nuanced way to reconnect with work that matters more


You’ll also hear a bit about my own experience with boredom coma—and how I found my way out.


If any of this feels painfully familiar, you’re not broken. But you might be overdue for a redesign.


👉 Ready to do something about it? Work with me


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This is the Joy At Work podcast, and I'm Lucia Knight.

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Here is what I'm seeing and I really want you to see it too.

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Chronic boredom at work is at epidemic levels.

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This year, I conducted the biggest piece of research since I wrote my book, and

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from that research came a report called the Midlife Work Life Satisfaction Report.

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And it involved 1000 participants, each of whom completed a survey.

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And were also invited to a more in-depth interview.

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You can access the full report in the episode description.

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Here's one of the most shocking statistics from that report.

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97% of the 1000 professionals in their late thirties, forties,

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fifties, and sixties said they wanted to do more meaningful work.

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Let me say that again.

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97% wanted to do more meaningful work.

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Wow.

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In the in-depth interviews, I dug into that and the concept of being

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bored at work came up again and again.

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But they weren't talking about everyday boredom, you know, that sort of low level

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annoyance of being trapped somewhere without anything interesting to do.

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Mm-hmm.

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I was seeing too many midlife professionals suffering from

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chronic debilitating boredom at work and just accepting it.

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I'd hear things like, work's not supposed to be joyful.

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Lucia, is it?

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And that was like a red rag to a bull for someone who hosts

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a podcast called Joy At Work.

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I saw them make brave attempts to self-soothe, to quiet, a growing urgency

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to do something different, but over and over again, I saw brilliant, smart humans

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ignore this boredom for months, years.

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Sometimes even decades until it began to seriously impact their

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work life, happiness, their physical health and their mental wellbeing.

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Yet it was complicated.

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Not everyone was experiencing this same kind of boredom.

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So I kept digging, and what I discovered when I kept digging were three distinct,

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versions, types of chronic boredom, and these exist on a completely

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different level in a completely different planet to everyday boredom.

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Chronic boredom seemed to be a slow black fog that descends on your

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work week, leaving you sluggish, stale, and utterly exhausted.

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And over time it seemed to start to ooze into weekends.

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You know that Sunday night pissed offness way beyond Sunday Night Blues.

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That's boredom communicating.

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I heard people say there's nothing that can be done about it.

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Lucia works just work.

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It's boring, it's safe, but it pays the bills.

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And I know a little about this myself because I've lived it.

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I don't remember exactly when it started, but over the years, I

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slipped into a kind of boredom coma.

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I was working hard, but I'd stopped caring and I used to care a lot.

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I was just exhausted going through the motions with barely any energy left

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for the special people in my life.

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I lived that way for maybe two years.

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Then one morning I woke up and thought, I can't do this anymore, so I quit.

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Said goodbye to your 20 year career, spent my savings and went back to uni.

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It felt reckless, risky, and it was, I had two kids and a mortgage, but by that

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point I felt like I had no other choice.

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What I now know is this, when you understand your particular type of

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boredom, there are ways to bring joy back to your work so you don't have to burn

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everything to the ground and start over.

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So here's what I want you to know.

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I've identified three types of boredom that impact midlife professionals.

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If you experience one over time, it chips away at your work satisfaction.

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If you experience two, it's like a sledgehammer to your joy at work.

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And if you are living with three for a long time, it's like a wrecking

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ball crushing your happiness at work.

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Here they are.

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Number one, boredom from lack of novelty.

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You've been in the same spot for too long and you've grown stale.

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Sometimes that means you just need a new job.

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Or new people.

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Or new projects.

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Or new environments.

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Or new locations, yeah, this is the easiest and quickest type of

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boredom to fix if you catch it early.

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But the longer it goes on, the more attached you become to your comfort

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zone and the familiarity of it all.

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Two boredom from dissatisfaction.

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This type isn't about what work you do, it's about how you do your work.

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The day-to-day activities drain you.

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Even when you do a brilliant job, there's no sense of reward or energy.

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In my work, we shift that by discovering your superpowers.

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The three or four things that you do that feel great inside your body that

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you can do easily and lightly that give you a deep sense of inner satisfaction.

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And number three, boredom from meaninglessness.

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This shows up when the problems you are working on don't align.

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With what you find meaningful.

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I see this often in clients who want to do work that matters more,

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that feels more fulfilling or that makes more of a difference.

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But a word of warning, do not assume that this means you need to work for a charity

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or an NGO or to give it all up and.

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Become a volunteer.

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it's much more nuanced.

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It depends on your values, the problems that excite you and how you

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want to live your life now in the near future and in the far future.

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Here's the good news.

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It is possible to eliminate or radically reduce chronic boredom to reclaim

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your personal joy at work, to design a working life that fits you and feels

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meaningful, satisfying, and yes, even fun.

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Because work should add to the spice of life, not suck the joy from it.

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And the workplace is evolving and it needs experienced minds like

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yours, but fully engaged, solving important problems in ways that

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light you up with energy satisfaction and meaning potentially forever.

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And that sounds like joy at work to me.

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