Pain is real, but it doesn’t have to define who you are.
Today on A Call for Love, host Linda Orsini is joined once again by psychologist Jacqui Morgan. Jacqui first appeared in Episode 52 to share her insights on embracing change, and now she returns to open up about her personal journey of living with chronic physical pain.
Together, Linda and Jacqui explore:
You will learn practical strategies and soulful insights for navigating chronic pain or supporting a loved one who is. It’s a reminder that no matter the challenges of the body, there is always more to who you are.
Embracing Change with Jacqui Morgan, Episode 53
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About our Guest
Jacqui Morgan is a psychologist with a master’s degree and over six years of experience in private practice and psychiatric care. She has a special interest in couples therapy and the role of attachment in relationships and the workplace.
Originally from Johannesburg, South Africa, Jacqui now lives in Owen Sound, Ontario, Canada where she continues to see South African clients online while preparing to open a local practice. Living with chronic back pain, she shares personal insights from her own journey alongside her professional expertise.
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You're going to learn about how to understand , your
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:physical pain, managing this pain,
and communicating with your pain.
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:Because when you realize and hold
space for the realization that you're
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:not defined by the pain that's going
through your body and that your pain
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:is more effective when you tune in.
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:Rather than tune out and push it away,
and it doesn't mean that you're damaged.
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:And so my guest today is a repeat
guest and she's also a dear friend
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:and her name is Jackie Morgan.
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:She is a psychologist with a master's
degree and has spent the last six years
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:working in a private practice and at.
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:Psychiatric care facility.
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:She has an interest in couples
therapy and the influence of
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:attachment styles on relationships
and functioning within the workplace.
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:Jackie and her husband moved
to Owen Sound, Ontario, Canada.
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:That's how I met her.
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:And she's been there
with us for two years.
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:She's come all the way from Johannesburg,
South Africa, and she continues to
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:consult with her South African clients
online and looks forward to opening
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:an in-person practice in Owen sound as
well, and living with chronic back pain.
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:Jackie shares with us what she has
found helpful along her pain journey.
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:So welcome Jackie.
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:Welcome back to A Call for Love, and
I wanna say you were on episode 52
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:when you had newly arrived in Canada
and we discussed embracing change.
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:So welcome back.
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:Thank
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:Speaker 2: you.
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:Wow.
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:Yes.
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:That was.
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:A long time ago.
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:Um, what feels like a long time
ago, and you know, what can be so
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:similar to that is our experience
and our journeys with pain.
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:Because although I've only lived
with chronic pain for the last
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:three years, it's a relatively.
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:Short history, but it feels
like the longest journey.
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:And so yeah, just a voice of encouragement
to all your listeners today, Linda, that
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:no matter if you've had pain for the last
few months or years, it feels long because
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:it really is testing, it is trying, and
I feel like I can connect with that.
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:And I've come a long way in my journey,
but I still have a long way to go.
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:So I hope that I can share some
of my insights with you today.
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:Speaker: Yeah, I think
it's really important.
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:I know that pain can just influence
every area of your life, your sleeping,
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:your eating, your, your relationships,
and how you relate to your body
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:and your self, and it's relentless.
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:Speaker 2: Hmm, absolutely.
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:It's all consuming.
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:Um, it, and it's complex and, you know,
there's this, uh, favorite saying of
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:mine from CS Lewis regarding pain.
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:He says, we can ignore even, but
pain insists upon being attended to.
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:And, and that for me just describes
so beautifully how pain arrests
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:our attention every day, all.
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:And so it, it can erode parts
of your life and relationships,
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:even your, even your work life.
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:I think it would be remiss of us to not
mention identity loss, uh, that one can go
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:through when it comes to a pain journey.
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:Speaker: Yeah, I think that.
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:What you're saying is
pain is all consuming.
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:You can't ignore it.
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:It's in your face and it's so
this is the journey, right?
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:Mm-hmm.
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:When you are faced with something that
is here in your life, for better or for
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:worse, what are you gonna do about it?
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:Speaker 2: Mm mm Exactly that.
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:As with all misfortunes, it can bring
out the worst or the best in us.
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:And, and so this has really been my
personal experience with Pain two.
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:Um, yeah, it really is a deeply
personal journey, so there isn't a
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:one size fits all, and, and I'm by
no means an expert on the subject.
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:I just hope to be really be sharing
my personal lived experience with you.
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:And so I, I just wanted to
mention to everybody that.
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:It has been confusing at times along
the way with all the different types
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:of interventions that there are
out there, but that not any single
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:one of them I would safely say
that I could do, have done without.
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:Uh, I, I honestly can see the
benefit of having gone through.
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:All the layers and of all the dimensions
because as pain infiltrates our lives
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:on many dimensions, so it is with the
interventions that we need to consider.
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:So another encouragement just for people
to keep learning about their pain and
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:keep trying to understand what there
is available for them out there to do
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:to alleviate some of their suffering.
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:Speaker: All right.
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:Why don't you just give a brief
explanation of what pain you've
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:gone through, and then we're going
to discuss how you have begun to
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:understand the concept of pain in
your physical body and managing it.
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:Speaker 2: Hmm.
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:So I have lower back pain.
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:It's due to a bulging disc, which
is incredibly common around L four,
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:L five, S one, s two, around that
region due to various reasons, whether
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:it's the aging process or actual
injury or a combination of, of both.
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:Uh, I experience a lot
of pain in my lower back.
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:It has confused me at times when I've
looked at images of my MRI and gone.
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:Wow, that's not a bad looking MRI,
you know, so it's, it's difficult
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:to understand that what you see on
an X-ray is not equal to what you're
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:experiencing per se in your body.
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:That my experience of pain is different
to somebody else's experiences of pain.
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:Mm-hmm.
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:My physiotherapists tell me that
some patients have terrible x-rays
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:or MRIs and experience no pain.
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:But for me, I know that every day,
at several times during the day,
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:my pain stops me from doing the
activities that I would like to do.
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:And it also inhibits me from doing
some of the sporting activities
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:that I used to be able to do and
that I still hope to be able to do.
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:Um, and so there is, uh, a real
tendency to want to have to.
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:To want to sit back and, and try to
manage pain by not doing anything
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:because of that fear response.
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:But what I've had to do is
go, wow, no matter what I do.
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:Or how little I do, my
pain stays the same.
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:Speaker 3: Mm.
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:Speaker 2: And so it's caused me to
have it, it's caused me to really
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:dig down into what it is that I'm
experiencing and to talk to different
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:medical professionals and to reach out
to different resources out there, uh,
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:to be able to understand it a whole lot
better and come at it from a new angle.
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:So this is some of what
I'll be sharing with you.
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:Speaker: I agree.
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:The thing about pain is you look fine.
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:So people can't see underneath
what you're experiencing, and that
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:becomes a challenge because you look
fine, but you're not feeling well.
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:Speaker 3: Mm-hmm.
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:Speaker 2: A hundred percent.
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:And, and also to be a, a younger person
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:Speaker 3: mm-hmm.
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:Speaker 2: With invisible pain.
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:And people say, but you're too
young to be experiencing that.
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:It, it also, I think, just throws you into
another category of feeling very isolated.
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:Speaker 3: Mm.
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:Speaker 2: Um, and, and that people
can't really identify with you.
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:And, and that's the danger in the mental
health field is that people will feel
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:isolation, that they'll start to feel
hopeless, um, and start to feel like
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:I think that's the risk with pain.
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:It really does erode your mental health.
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:So we, we need to speak about pain
and we need to speak about all its
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:different tactics so that we can
claim some of that victory back
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:and some of that control back.
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:Speaker: That's so fascinating because
I think that it's a double end sword.
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:What happens is, is you're experiencing
the pain and you want to, um.
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:Not completely identify yourself
as pain, but explaining to others
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:that you're experiencing pain,
you're almost reinforcing the pain.
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:Yeah.
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:Speaker 2: You couldn't
have said it any better.
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:Um, I remember that at that
there just was a time when all my
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:conversations would lead with how
I was doing in my pain journey.
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:Um, and I both needed people to
ask me how I was doing, but I also
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:didn't wanna be defined by it.
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:So there was that real point of
tension and conflict within me that
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:needed to be seen, but that also
wanted to remain invisible so that I
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:So it really is, uh, a, a, a tricky
double-edged sword like you say.
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:Yes, there's so much more to us
than our pain and, and so much
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:more to our bodies than, than the
experience of pain within them.
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:And so I would just like us to try and
claim some of that real estate back,
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:some of that emotional real estate back.
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:Speaker: That's our first point.
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:You are not defined by your pain,
but what do you do so that you're
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:not defined by it, even though
you're experiencing it acutely?
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:Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
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:So I think the first, the first
quiver in your bur should be that
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:there is an understanding of pain
that has to be had with, with all.
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:Challenges that we meet a, a
firm understanding of something
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:is half the battle one.
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:And so what I wanna just explain
today is that pain is a result
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:of many different factors.
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:It is not one plus one equals two per se,
and that pain does not equate to damage.
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:But that pain is something that your body.
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:Send signals from your pain receptors,
which are your, your nociceptors.
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:Whether there is a pressure or a burning
or a chemical threat on your body,
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:those chemical signals are sent via your
spinal cord up to your brain for your
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:brain to then receive that signal and.
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:Anticipate some kind of a threat and
then initiate a protective response.
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:So that's
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:Speaker: a physiological response to pain.
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:Speaker 2: Yes.
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:It's physiological and.
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:The two other mechanisms that, that
there are is an an emotional component.
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:So your emotional part of your brain
then receives those signals that have
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:been interpreted and further goes on to
process and say, well, let's think about
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:how we process this in our fear centers
of our brain and in our, um, centers of.
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:Appraising it.
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:Do we like it or don't we, you
know, all those judgment zones.
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:So all of that is handled in the Amy,
the, um, emotional centers of our
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:brain and, and then cognitively our
frontal lobe comes online and says.
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:Speaker 3: Hmm,
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:Speaker 2: well, what should we
pay attention to now and how do we
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:further interpret this information
and how do we contextualize it
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:and, and how do we make decisions
based on this incoming information?
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:And so there's, there's the
conversation that's happening
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:And so this is why I'm so pleased to have
come across that thoughts and emotions.
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:It can directly influence
how we perceive pain.
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:So pain is a physiological response.
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:The pain is real.
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:I'm not saying it's not, it definitely is.
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:I know it is.
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:But there is also a perception Yes.
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:Zone that's happening at the same time.
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:And that is where we can intercept
this very unhelpful pain cycle.
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:And so that's, that's
where we'll go to next.
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:Is how to intersect at those points.
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:Speaker: Yeah.
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:Turning into your pain as
opposed to pushing it away.
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:Yes.
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:Speaker 2: I think the real temptation
for me was to try and use distraction
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:as a technique because I didn't know
what else to do along my journey.
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:Um, and distraction can work up
to a certain point and it can
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:And so what I needed to do was
find a way of working with my pain
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:because distraction inherently had
something quite resentful about
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:it, or even repressing about it.
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:And it, it introduced
conflict within my own body.
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:There was a split in my mind
in how I could be present.
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:And so I needed to try something
different, and so I started to tune
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:into my pain and exercise certain
pain management techniques that way.
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:And that was tremendously helpful
because then what I found was that I
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:was intercepting those factors that
involve the immune system and the
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:nervous system's response to pain.
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:And so.
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:Even if you hear something during your day
or smell something, taste something, touch
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:it, something that you hear, something
that you do, something that you believe,
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:um, people in your life, anything can
set your, your nervous system on edge
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:and it can start to create something
of an inflammatory process, which can
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:tell your brain that there is a threat.
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:Your brain is gonna fire off these pain
signals into various parts of your body.
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:You become infused with them.
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:So as I started experimenting
with meditative techniques on pain
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:management, I found that I could
calm my entire nervous system down.
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:Um, another way that I, I got a bit of
distance from my pain was to think of it.
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:A voice, so still a voice within me,
but there's still a little bit of
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:distance was to ask pain that if it
were to be able to tell me something
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:now, what would it be telling me?
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:Speaker: Oh, that's interesting.
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:Speaker 2: Yeah, it, it, it's helpful
because then, um, you know, at
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:times pain would be saying to me,
uh, that I need to have a boundary.
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:Somebody, perhaps there's something
that I didn't really want to be doing
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:or something that I felt I couldn't
really be saying, um, that I would
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:then ask this very helpful voice.
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:I was starting to use pain as a signal to
me for protection, which is what pain was
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:invented for, was there to keep us alive.
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:And it still is, but it's been
misinterpreted along the way.
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:And sometimes along the way we get so
used to the pain that we've developed,
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:habits of feeling our pain, connecting
with our pain, and coping with our pain.
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:And so we entrench old neural
systems, neural pathways within us.
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:That keeps us going along, what
can sometimes be very unhelpful
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:ways of dealing with it.
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:You know, for instance,
just turning to medication.
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:Uh, and I'm, I'm not advocating for
turning away from medication because we
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:know, uh, that medication is medically
appropriate as, uh, a course of treatment
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:sometimes for a, for a person's lifetime,
sometimes just for the acute stage.
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:But we also have to be
mindful of its effects on us.
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:And, and how and when we use it and
it, it, it's got to be prescriptive and
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:it's got to be, um, managed responsibly.
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:Speaker: Well, I think we're, when
we're in the throes of deep pain,
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:certainly that's the time for, you
know, that intervention of medicine.
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:I do wanna share though, that, I mean,
I've been fortunate I haven't had a
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:lot of pain in my life, but when I do.
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:I do seek a doctor's opinion and
possibly medicine if it requires it.
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:And then I also go the psychological
and the spiritual route.
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:I, I would be amiss not to mention
that Louise Hay has the book.
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:You can Hear Your Life.
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:So for every part of the body that kind
of breaks down, she says emotionally what
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:it's connected to on an energetic sense.
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:And so I would, in my circumstances,
um, very simple, very little example.
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:I had a style in my eye
and, uh, so I got the drops.
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:This is not a huge thing, but it's
just an example and I looked in
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:Louise Hayes book and it's like.
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:What are you seeing?
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:What are you perceiving in your life?
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:So then I did both.
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:Mm-hmm.
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:I did the soulful work, the
energetic work, and then I did the,
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:the conventional medical route.
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:Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
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:Interesting.
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:Yeah, absolutely.
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:Um, and, and I think the more that
we can become more melted dimensional
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:in our approach to illness and
pain, the better often and the more
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:balance we achieve through doing.
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:So, I don't think there's any one of
those dimensions that, that we should
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:minimize or discredit because I think
they're all incredibly valid and helpful.
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:So this, you know, usually I, I don't know
that I would've turned to a meditative
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:source, uh, outside of something as robust
as our biomedical model, which I, I can't
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:do without, but it touched, it touched a
nerve that the biomedical model couldn't.
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:For instance, it just went somewhere
else in my body that my medication wasn't
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:doing for me and still isn't doing for me.
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:And so I'm finding that that balance
between taking, taking pain management
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:meds and doing other mindfulness
meditation practices and continuing
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:with moving my body and exercising,
because I noticed that not moving.
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:Leads to other problems.
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:Yes.
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:Not moving creates it, its own pain.
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:Um, and, and so I'm trying to do a
little bit of, of everything that's
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:helpful, including consulting with
a pain coach from South Africa.
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:And, and so there's a little piece
of advice that comes either from a
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:family member who's had pain, like
my, my, my cousin in the states.
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:Who can share some of her gold nuggets
with me, or it's my physiotherapist,
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:or it's my pain coach, or it's my
neuro, you know, I've got a whole
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:team of people that are helping
me to manage what I'm experiencing
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:Speaker: Yeah, and I, I think
what you said is very important.
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:I went to Sri Lanka and some healers,
Ayurvedic practitioners work on my
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had told them to stop moving, like,
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:Of course, we cannot do those same things
to the same degree, but even as a yoga
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:teacher doing one 20th of it and just
even feeling a little bit into your body.
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:Is really good for, for your
psychological wellbeing too.
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:And, and it does bring energy because
if, if you think about our energy
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:system, we could have stuck dis-ease.
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:It's, it's the, the energy's not
flowing well and a bulging disc.
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:'cause you said the energy is not going
up and down your spine really well.
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:Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly.
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:And, and what you're saying
there is the, um, the helpful and
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:beneficial release of brain chemicals
that we get when we exercise.
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:And so they are really, uh, really
important for our overall wellbeing.
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:And there's all, there's also
something quite psychologically
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:positive that happens once we've moved
our bodies and we've survived it.
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:That goes into a little bit of an
unconscious memory that, oh, we
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:are not broken and our bodies are
inherently strong, and that there is.
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:A wisdom about our bodies that
knows what it needs to heal and
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:And we come back to ourselves and
we also find enjoyment in our bodies
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away from us and our enjoyment of
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:our daily lives and our bodies,
and, and so exercising in a graded.
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:Activity, fashion can really
help you to take those little
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:Um, and, and my physiotherapist, I
could not have done this without him.
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:He helped me to see and to look back
and go, Ooh, three months ago we were
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:only walking for 10 minutes and now
we're up to walking for 45 and this
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and walking with somebody.
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:Um, to babysit you, if you like for
a better word, because otherwise, you
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much too soon or to not do enough.
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profile, it's really helpful to,
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what they're talking about.
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:Speaker: Yes, this is a beautiful
conversation because we've
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does not mean we're damaged.
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:I was.
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:In Cuba and a barracuda bit through
my foot, sliced through my big toe.
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and they were stitching my toe
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:My heart, my spirit, the love I have for
the people around me and for life is not
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:in pain, is not hurt, is not damaged.
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:It's my body.
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:I kind of created a little bit of a
separation and I was like nurturing,
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:and I kind of talked to my body.
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:I said, you know, you are really hurt.
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:They're taking care of you.
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:They're stitching you up,
but you're okay inside.
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could kind of separate the two, and
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in the midst of this fully conscious,
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really, really helpful.
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:Speaker 2: So what you said there
is so good because there's that
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:self-compassion that we've got
to have when we are experiencing
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slightly separate or buffer yourself.
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still think about our feeling selves and
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:then we become observers of our pain.
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:Speaker 3: Yes.
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:Speaker 2: Not saying that the pain
is not part of us because it's so
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:intricately part of us, um, but we,
we can then allow this pain in its
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:own way to talk to us, which helps us
further our acceptance of that pain.
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:So when we can notice whether it's a
burning or an aching or a stinging,
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:whether it's um, flittering around
or whether it's stabbing, uh, you
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:know, when we just allow ourselves
to notice something without judging
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:the pain and where it's coming
from and blaming ourselves or that
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:car accident or whatever it was to
cause it, we just kind of go into.
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pain, and then we can welcome
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:And it's interesting to note that it's
in that leg and not the other leg.
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that isn't experiencing a pain and
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:we notice how that's feeling, our
brain starts to interpret not only
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but also what positive feels like.
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soothing, whether it's cooling or
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sending it a lot of love and care
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with yourself, um, around reminding
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overwhelmed by the pain, but that you
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this is a call for love.
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is caused by pushing away or grasping,
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is an awareness without judgment,
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being heard and you don't identify
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going through in the moment,
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and it doesn't have to overwhelm you.
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the stance with my pain, that it reduces.
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uh, techniques that I still engage in
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and I'll run through what the pain
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that doing laundry is a five, 'cause
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level five worth activities Oh, I see.
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take some control back and it, it
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myself and not against myself.
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account you don't wanna overspend.
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and how much effort in one day when
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don't wanna overspend because then
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you probably will pay the next day.
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the price the next day, and so you've
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about your activities and wonder
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with what I said earlier on,
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confidence back in your body.
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be too stingy in life and you
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bodies and I, I know that even, okay.
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move a little bit of my legs.
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I'm still shifting my energy.
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and getting those successes.
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helpful resources through medical
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out there, um, you know, bioness and.
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to think about how best to mobilize
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still protecting that injured area.
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good idea to improve your core, um, legs,
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you've still gotta pick up grocery
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still got to clean your house and, and.
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the things that you wanna do.
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can do, and the stronger you feel
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your area of vulnerability feels,
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communicating one's pain, I found it
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and to help others to understand one
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because it's so fluctuating and we all
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a good day, is not a good back day, but.
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to give it a number.
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quite helpful also when talking
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no, I'm on zero pain with no pain at
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think right now, I'm in so much pain.
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have a look at that pain rating scale
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day based on that and to work within it.
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we're honoring our body.
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in, and then we can hold space for it.
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just, just in the mode of healing.
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think that we're healing.
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we can hold space for it.
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:So I really thank you for joining a
call for love and sharing about the pain
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:body because we're going to have pain in
and out through our life and navigating
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can make that journey a lot smoother.
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:So thank you for listening, everyone.
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:You can reach out to Jackie.
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:I have her links in the show notes,
and just wishing everyone peace and
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