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There's no perfect age to own a business - Interview with wedding florist Sophie Ayres
Episode 47th April 2022 • Wedding Pros who are ready to grow - with Becca Pountney • Becca Pountney
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Is there a perfect age to start your wedding business?

In today's episode I am interviewing successful wedding florist Sophie Ayres - who started her wedding business at just 21! We discuss the highs and the lows of owning your own business, and she shares the advice she wishes she knew sooner.

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Sophie:

For me, it really was the biggest fluke in the world

Sophie:

got into uni to study psychology.

Sophie:

And I decided actually, do you know what this isn't for me?

Sophie:

So literally on my first day of college, I had never arranged a

Sophie:

flower in my whole entire life.

Sophie:

And somehow I managed to find something that I was actually quite good at.

Sophie:

So it just went from there really

Becca:

I'm Becca Pountney, wedding business, marketing

Becca:

expert, speaker, and blogger.

Becca:

And you're listening to the wedding pros who are ready to grow podcast.

Becca:

I'm here to share with you actionable tips, strategies, and.

Becca:

Samples to help you take your wedding business to the next level.

Becca:

If you are an ambitious wedding business owner that wants to take your passion

Becca:

and use it to build a profitable, sustainable business, doing what you

Becca:

love, then you're in the right place.

Becca:

Let's get going with today's episode.

Becca:

In today's episode, I'm going to be talking to one of my incredible clients,

Becca:

Sophie hearing real stories of triumph success and of struggle from others.

Becca:

Just like you in the wedding industry can be so motivating.

Becca:

And I'm sure many of you are going to relate to her story.

Becca:

I first met Sophie in 2017 at a wedding pro networking event, I

Becca:

ran over the last five years, I've watched her business evolve and grow

Becca:

and I've seen the same in her too.

Becca:

I know you're going to absolutely love hearing from her.

Becca:

So let's get into it.

Becca:

So Sophie, why don't you start by telling people who you are and what you do?

Sophie:

So, Hey everyone, obviously I'm Sophie, I'm 25 year old floral designer,

Sophie:

animal lover, and a huge Disney fan.

Sophie:

Um, my business is essay floristry, where I specialize in weddings and events.

Sophie:

I'm based in Bedfordshire.

Sophie:

And I love working with creative couples and bringing their ideas to.

Becca:

So you're a wedding florist.

Becca:

You're in Bedfordshire so how did that come about?

Becca:

Where did it start?

Becca:

Where did that idea come from of being a wedding florist.

Becca:

Most people don't go to school and just wake up one day thinking

Becca:

that's going to be their job.

Becca:

So take us back to where that started.

Sophie:

Yeah.

Sophie:

So for me, it really was the biggest fluke in the world.

Sophie:

Um, so I was doing my A levels.

Sophie:

Um, I'd already always done quite sort of relatively academic stuff at school,

Sophie:

but I've always been quite creative.

Sophie:

Um, I like working with my hand sort of thing.

Sophie:

Um, and I'd got in to doing uni, so it really was the biggest I decided.

Sophie:

Um, and I was the first year that the tuition fees.

Sophie:

Which scared me a little bit as well.

Sophie:

Um, so obviously I decided what I was thinking, obviously I need, I

Sophie:

need to be doing something else.

Sophie:

And I was looking at college courses and floristry just sort of appeared.

Sophie:

And I thought, what do you know what that sounds really nice.

Sophie:

So literally on my first day of college, I had never arranged a

Sophie:

flower in my whole entire life.

Sophie:

And somehow I managed to find something that I was actually quite good at.

Sophie:

So it just went from there.

Becca:

Okay.

Becca:

So that's quite a big decision and you obviously were planning on going

Becca:

the normal route, going to university.

Becca:

How did your parents feel when you said actually change your mind?

Becca:

Don't want to go to university, want to go to college

Sophie:

I think they were both apprehensive and proud, I will say to

Sophie:

be fair, I'm quite, I'm quite lucky.

Sophie:

My parents are, uh, very supportive.

Sophie:

Um, so I think they were, they were quite understanding that

Sophie:

maybe university wasn't for me.

Sophie:

Um, and I think they sort of understood that I would quite like

Sophie:

to do something quite creative.

Sophie:

Um, they themselves have been, um, self-employed.

Sophie:

Since I was a baby.

Sophie:

So I think they sort of maybe knew that I was sort of heading in that direction.

Becca:

So you went to college, you obviously enjoyed it.

Becca:

there were no regrets about not going to university.

Becca:

So then what happened when you came out of college, did you go

Becca:

straight into self-employment or did you take a different route?

Sophie:

So, so with floristry, like lots of, sort of creative

Sophie:

industries, Basically it's all about, um, experience, experience is key.

Sophie:

So literally I think it was like six weeks into my college.

Sophie:

Cause although it was like a full-time course, I was only

Sophie:

in college two days a week.

Sophie:

I went and got myself a little job in a florist shop, we did a little bit of

Sophie:

everything from sort of gift flowers, funeral, flowers, everything like that.

Sophie:

So it worked through that when I did my first year of uni, I was working part-time

Sophie:

um, so my first year of college, and then I did my second year of college as well.

Sophie:

So I've got my level two and three, um, in my floristry.

Sophie:

Um, and then sort of it went from there.

Sophie:

And then I think I decided that actually, you know what, I loved working in

Sophie:

this, in this little shop for someone else, but I think I decided that.

Sophie:

Working for someone else actually wasn't for me.

Sophie:

And I really, really wanted to look at, you know, doing what my passion was

Sophie:

at the time, which was working on the weddings and working for someone else,

Sophie:

didn't allow me to have creative freedom.

Sophie:

And that's really what I wanted is to be able to use my own skills and to

Sophie:

create things that I love for couples that they love, if you know what I mean

Becca:

so you make it sound so easy.

Becca:

Is it make it sound like I worked for someone else?

Becca:

I wanted freedom.

Becca:

I went to work for myself and there's a lot of people are all

Becca:

sorts of ages and stages who are probably listening to this thinking.

Becca:

I feel like that, but I'm way too scared to do anything about it.

Becca:

So what surely there was some fear in that leaving the florist shop and

Becca:

going self-employed what fears did you.

Sophie:

A hundred percent.

Sophie:

So yeah, absolutely terrifying, but I think that's what drives you a little bit.

Sophie:

Um, it was definitely scary leaving the shop.

Sophie:

Um, and especially when, because obviously I wasn't particularly old

Sophie:

anyway and I, it's not like I had a huge.

Sophie:

Capital behind me.

Sophie:

So obviously you, you hear these startup businesses and they're

Sophie:

like, oh, in Dragon's den, can I have a hundred thousand pounds?

Sophie:

I didn't have a hundred thousand pounds.

Sophie:

Um, so, you know, it's, it's about being savvy when you're starting up.

Sophie:

Um, and just going for it.

Sophie:

Um, having a little bit of a plan is obviously massively helpful.

Sophie:

Um, but just going in.

Sophie:

Meeting people getting out there, talking to people, um,

Sophie:

is really, really important.

Sophie:

And the thing is, unless you start, you're not going to get anywhere.

Sophie:

So, you know, I said to myself, oh, maybe it might be better to do this

Sophie:

when I'm in, you know, 10 years time or whatever, but I don't know where

Sophie:

I'm going to be in 10 years time.

Sophie:

So maybe it was now or never sort of situation.

Sophie:

Uh, just because I'm, you know, 21.

Sophie:

Why, why can't I set up my own business?

Sophie:

Absolutely.

Becca:

And I think we've had a lot of discussions together about

Becca:

this subject and about age and how society kinds of tells us.

Becca:

You have to have done so many things first before you start a business, or

Becca:

you're too old to start a business.

Becca:

And I know you struggled with that a lot to start with

Becca:

feeling like you were too young.

Becca:

Not because you weren't good enough, but because you're worried about

Becca:

what people would think of you.

Becca:

So if there are people out there that are thinking, oh, I can't start business yet.

Becca:

I'm too young.

Becca:

I need to go to university first or I'm too old.

Becca:

What would you say.

Sophie:

Um, I think in life, I think life will always tell you.

Sophie:

And I think, and anyone will tell you, there is never a right moment

Sophie:

to do certain things in life.

Sophie:

Sometimes you just have to bite the bullet and just do it because no one,

Sophie:

especially when it comes to starting a business, no, one's doing this for you.

Sophie:

You're doing it for yourself.

Sophie:

Um, so yeah, and unless you take yourself out there and get that done,

Sophie:

then it's not going to get done.

Sophie:

You know, waiting a little bit longer, you're just going to keep

Sophie:

putting off and keep putting it off.

Sophie:

I decided to do it when I was, um, younger, just because

Sophie:

it was what I wanted to do.

Sophie:

It was my passion.

Sophie:

Um, and I, I had the motivation to go and do it.

Sophie:

You know, being in a creative industry, you get to the point where I was like,

Sophie:

you know, although I really liked working in the shop, was I going to

Sophie:

get burnt out, doing something that I'm not enjoying and then end up going, or

Sophie:

maybe actually floristry is not for me.

Sophie:

Whereas if I had control of it myself, I running my own business.

Sophie:

Um, I think it makes it a lot easier to do.

Sophie:

Yeah.

Sophie:

Do what you want to do.

Sophie:

What you're passionate.

Becca:

Yeah.

Becca:

And I think you should be incredibly proud of the fact that you did that at

Becca:

the age you did, because it does kind of go against what society tells us.

Becca:

It goes against what people at school tell us.

Becca:

And I know that you're a real advocate for wanting, uh, young people and

Becca:

people in school to be taught that there is another option don't you?

Becca:

Um, other than just going to university and that there is an

Becca:

option to go out there and start your own business and why not?

Becca:

So you've told us that.

Becca:

Decided to leave the shop.

Becca:

You're going to start this floristry business.

Becca:

You want to be brave, you going to step out on your own.

Becca:

So what happened next?

Becca:

Like what things did you do that you think helped that business

Becca:

to grow to where it is today?

Sophie:

Yeah, so I, a few things that sort of immediately, um, come to my head

Sophie:

is that obviously I needed a portfolio.

Sophie:

I wasn't doing much or if any work of my own at that point.

Sophie:

So I needed stuff to show.

Sophie:

So I did the smallest little photo shoot, not like one of these big

Sophie:

lavish style shoots that you see in.

Sophie:

I've done sort of relatively recently.

Sophie:

Um, just a really, really small little shoot.

Sophie:

I don't know.

Sophie:

I must've only spent like, Maybe 300 quid on flowers, max, something like that.

Sophie:

Just to be able to pop something on, on a website.

Sophie:

I got my website done and I invested in doing sort of like

Sophie:

two or three wedding fairs.

Sophie:

I think.

Sophie:

To get out there and then it was, do you know what I think I need to

Sophie:

start going, seeing other people cause obviously networking is a massive thing.

Sophie:

Um, so yeah, I got myself out there to one of your friends, obviously Becca and,

Sophie:

um, just got talking to people and that, that is one of the most important things

Sophie:

I think really is just getting out there, especially with just like-minded people.

Becca:

Yeah, and I love how you talked earlier about being savvy

Becca:

and when you're starting out and you don't have big money behind you.

Becca:

Uh, so what were some of the things you did to kind of save money and not feel

Becca:

like you, you had to splash the cash?

Sophie:

Yeah.

Sophie:

Um, that's a very good question.

Sophie:

Um, so.

Sophie:

And yes, at being savvy about money, especially when you're starting business

Sophie:

is really important and knowing what money's coming in and what money is coming

Sophie:

out for me, the business needed to start paying for itself at least quite quickly.

Sophie:

Um, and then start paying me a little bit again, relatively quickly.

Sophie:

Um, so for me, it was get as much exposure as possible, um, for.

Sophie:

As little.

Sophie:

So again, being really, really careful about what venues that

Sophie:

I'm going to be working at.

Sophie:

So venues that I personally really love and that I want to be working at.

Sophie:

And therefore knowing that that's where my couples are going to be,

Sophie:

that was really important to me.

Sophie:

And again, showcasing work, um, that I wanted to be doing for my couples.

Sophie:

So getting the couples that I want to be working with through the door.

Sophie:

Um, and then for me, again, it was a little bit as well.

Sophie:

I knew.

Sophie:

With weddings, it can take a little bit while, a little while to get going.

Sophie:

Um, so maybe I need to do another little avenue to get going, um, as well.

Sophie:

And that's when I started doing some workshops as well.

Sophie:

So that year that I started, um, I also did a lot of Christmas wreath

Sophie:

workshops and that was, um, uh, quite a big, big thing for me to

Sophie:

get going, um, for sort of the next season to get really, really pushy.

Becca:

Yeah.

Becca:

So you basically did some other little things to bring in the income.

Becca:

In the meantime.

Becca:

And again, this is something that people forget that they can do, they think,

Becca:

well, I've got to just wait for the weddings to come in, but actually, yeah,

Becca:

if you've got something else you can sell in the meantime, it doesn't mean

Becca:

you have to be doing it forever, but.

Becca:

Cash is important in a business and too often, people in the

Becca:

wedding industry run their business like a hobby and not a business.

Becca:

So I think that's a really good reminder.

Becca:

Now you mentioned networking and obviously coming along to, um, my

Becca:

networking event and you're part of my members community as well.

Becca:

I think again, people neglect this part of their business.

Becca:

What is it that you think.

Becca:

Being part of that kind of community.

Becca:

What benefits does that have to you and your business?

Sophie:

Um, I think it's two fold as in it helps my business, but it

Sophie:

also helps me personally as well.

Sophie:

Um, business wise, obviously I'm out there networking with like-minded people.

Sophie:

Who can help me out if I need help.

Sophie:

Um, and also I'm going to be out there talking to their own couples.

Sophie:

So, um, you know, it might be a photographer and a

Sophie:

photographers are quite often.

Sophie:

One of the first suppliers booked in.

Sophie:

Um, so, you know, they might be asking their photographer,

Sophie:

oh, do you know any florists?

Sophie:

So for me, it's really important to be going out there making those,

Sophie:

those friends in the industry so we can all help each other by passing

Sophie:

on all our details, because word of mouth is huge in the wedding industry

Sophie:

um, and then I would say, yeah, there's the second string of it is personally

Sophie:

as well, actually having, again, those like-minded people that you can talk to

Sophie:

sometimes if you're stuck in a little bit of a rut or you're feeling a bit

Sophie:

down about everything or you just, yeah.

Sophie:

You just need to pick me up.

Sophie:

Um, it's great to have, you know, a few people that you know, that

Sophie:

you can just call up pop a text, put them in email and be like, Hey,

Sophie:

do you want to go and get coffee?

Sophie:

Um, I need to have a chat.

Sophie:

And that, that is.

Sophie:

Just as important really, because that's what keeps you

Sophie:

going and keeps you motivated.

Becca:

Yeah, and that is the reality, isn't it really, for most of us owning

Becca:

our own business, we spend a lot of time on our own making decisions on our own,

Becca:

having to face struggles on our own.

Becca:

And actually sometimes the people in our family, as much as they love

Becca:

us, they just don't understand.

Becca:

They don't understand the same struggles as we do.

Becca:

So if you're listening to this and you.

Becca:

Actually, I don't really have community.

Becca:

I really encourage you to go out there and find community.

Becca:

You're welcome to come and be part of my community.

Becca:

You can find the link to that in the show notes, but just find other

Becca:

like-minded people, either in your area or online that you can meet with.

Becca:

Talk with ask questions too, so that you don't feel like you're doing

Becca:

this business thing alone, because that really is a difficult thing.

Becca:

So while we're on the subject of struggle, What do you think has been the

Becca:

hardest things for you about owning your own business and being self-employed?

Sophie:

Um, so I think firstly, for me, it's definitely the it's all you part

Sophie:

of it at the end of the day, there's, you know, I don't have a boss man

Sophie:

behind me checking up that I'm doing my work, keeping myself accountable.

Sophie:

Um, it's really difficult.

Sophie:

Um, especially when you know, you, you may be having a bad month and

Sophie:

things aren't quite going your way.

Sophie:

It's really difficult to pick yourself up and be.

Sophie:

Next month better.

Sophie:

Let's get going sort of thing.

Sophie:

Um, so yeah, definitely holding yourself accountable to what you, what you're

Sophie:

doing and what you want to be doing.

Sophie:

And again, it's sort of the idea that you, you needing when you're running business.

Sophie:

You're always needing to push, keep pushing, keep pushing, especially

Sophie:

with weddings to a certain extent, because you're not necessarily

Sophie:

getting that repeat custom, although you're getting the word of mouth,

Sophie:

um, because you're not getting that.

Sophie:

a repeat customer coming back and coming back, hopefully coming back,

Sophie:

um, it's, you know, it's, it's really difficult to, you know, your, your

Sophie:

foot is always on the gas basically.

Sophie:

Um, so keeping that momentum up and keeping yourself accountable

Sophie:

to, you know, keeping up, um, yeah, I would say that's sort of one of

Sophie:

the most difficult things I think.

Becca:

On the other side of that, what do you think are the best things

Becca:

about owning your own business?

Becca:

So for someone who's now listening to that and thinking, well, maybe she

Becca:

should have stayed in the flower shop.

Becca:

Like what are the best things about owning your own business?

Sophie:

So for me, it's the flexibility that I've given myself.

Sophie:

Um, and that's actually one of the big reasons why, um, I set up the

Sophie:

business in the first place and actually why I run the business.

Sophie:

Um, so I, for example, don't have my own floristry shop because I don't want to

Sophie:

be stuck in a shop from nine to five.

Sophie:

Um, for me, I'm actually, I'm quite a night owl.

Sophie:

Um, so for me, quite often I will get quite a lot of my work done in an evening.

Sophie:

And again, there's nothing wrong.

Sophie:

And it just allows me to be able to work in my own time

Sophie:

when, and whenever works for me.

Sophie:

And that, that for me is sort of the most, the most helpful.

Sophie:

And the thing that I, I enjoy the most.

Sophie:

Um, and again, like if I know I'm not feeling particularly well,

Sophie:

I don't need to beat myself up.

Sophie:

I can give myself the afternoon off.

Sophie:

Um, and yeah, I that's, that to me is sort of the most, the

Sophie:

most important thing about.

Becca:

And it's funny, isn't it?

Becca:

Because you're saying one of the hardest things about owning your own business

Becca:

is not having that big boss man behind you, but actually one of the best things

Becca:

about owning your own business is also not having that big boss man behind you.

Becca:

And I definitely find that myself, it swings and roundabouts.

Becca:

I don't want anyone telling me what to do, but then sometimes I

Becca:

find it hard when there's no one

Sophie:

telling me what to do.

Sophie:

I don't, I don't like people telling me what to do.

Becca:

Honest with ourselves.

Becca:

That is a trait of a lot of entrepreneurs.

Becca:

And I always say to people I'm probably now the most unemployable

Becca:

person, because I just can't see how I could ever work for anyone else.

Becca:

Ever again, because I make my own rules.

Becca:

I make my own schedule.

Becca:

And if I want to stop for coffee, I don't have to ask anyone.

Becca:

I can just go and do it now again, I think it's interesting to think about this

Becca:

kind of journey of being an entrepreneur, because often when we start out, we

Becca:

have this idea in our heads about right.

Becca:

When I get to this point in my business, I'm successful and

Becca:

I'm happy and I've reached it.

Becca:

And I think actually that's not really true because what happens is

Becca:

our thought about success or what we actually want evolves over time.

Becca:

And for you, you started this journey really early.

Becca:

And so you're still really young and you've already kind of got to

Becca:

that initial point of success of, I want to have a wedding business.

Becca:

I want to have clients, I want to be working in those venues and

Becca:

you kind of achieve that already.

Becca:

Haven't you?

Becca:

So what what's next?

Becca:

Like what does success mean to you now?

Becca:

Um, do you feel like, yeah, I'm happy here.

Becca:

I'm just going to sit doing this the rest of my life, or

Becca:

have you changed your motives

Sophie:

yeah.

Sophie:

So I think, I think a hundred percent I've changed my motives and dare, dare.

Sophie:

I mentioned the big word.

Sophie:

Um, for me COVID was, uh, you know, a massive thing that happened in

Sophie:

our industry, um, and was awful.

Sophie:

And I think it's put a lot of things in perspective.

Sophie:

Um, so for me, although I love doing the weddings and I

Sophie:

want to carry on doing them.

Sophie:

I think it has made me realize that.

Sophie:

That's not what I want to do forever and ever.

Sophie:

It's very long hours.

Sophie:

And especially with flowers, obviously they only last so

Sophie:

long and very early mornings.

Sophie:

Um, and for me, I'm ready to start diversifying a little bit.

Sophie:

Um, as I said, I love being creative and making things, um, I

Sophie:

love helping other people do that.

Sophie:

Um, so as I said before, I already do a lot of like Christmas wreath

Sophie:

workshops and stuff like that.

Sophie:

Um, and I'm wanting to sort of push that online a little bit, but

Sophie:

I think it's definitely allowing yourself to change is a good thing.

Sophie:

And that's yeah.

Sophie:

There's no, no problem in, in wanting to change.

Becca:

Yeah, absolutely.

Becca:

And kind of on that same theme then how do you suggest people stay

Becca:

motivated, keep their ideas fresh?

Becca:

Like what sort of things practically do you do to not just

Becca:

end up stuck in your own rut?

Becca:

What do you do to keep yourself motivated?

Sophie:

Um, so for me, a lot of it is keeping in touch

Sophie:

with people, so I always find.

Sophie:

Chatting to people in the industry, but be that someone who I know through weddings,

Sophie:

or it might just be someone who does something similar to me that I'm friendly

Sophie:

with, or it might even be someone who does something totally unrelated business wise.

Sophie:

I think it's really nice to have someone that you sort of can regularly talk to

Sophie:

about how things are going and just bounce ideas off because I think motivation.

Sophie:

Or tends to get squashed mostly by like imposter syndrome.

Sophie:

So if you can like push that down, that really helps the motivation keep going.

Sophie:

So by making sure, like, if you have an idea, I don't feel like

Sophie:

you need to keep it to yourself.

Sophie:

There's nothing wrong with, um, wanting to discuss things.

Sophie:

I'm quite lucky that my partner and my boyfriend's very, very supportive.

Sophie:

Um, so I know if I ever have an idea that I think is absolutely crazy.

Sophie:

Um, quite often the first person I bounce it off.

Sophie:

Him.

Sophie:

And he'll be quite honest, whether he's like thinks that's a really

Sophie:

good idea or whether maybe it needs a little bit of a tweak.

Sophie:

Um, but yeah, I always find bouncing ideas off other people and not

Sophie:

necessarily feeling like I have to hold everything in to myself.

Sophie:

Um, actually is the most motivating thing.

Sophie:

Cause if someone else is saying actually, do you know what I actually

Sophie:

think that's a really good idea.

Sophie:

Then you're going to take that idea.

Sophie:

run with it.

Becca:

Yeah, absolutely.

Becca:

And I think sometimes we get locked inside our own head don't we, because

Becca:

we think of this idea and then we get frightened about telling anyone

Becca:

because we think they might steal our idea or they might not like our idea.

Becca:

And so then we keep our idea locked up inside and actually talking

Becca:

about it and telling people can be one of the most freeing things.

Becca:

So on that note then, and I don't know what you're going to say now,

Becca:

so we'll, we'll see what happens.

Becca:

What is next for you?

Becca:

Where are you taking your business?

Becca:

What are you going to do next?

Becca:

And what are you brave enough to commit to and tell us is happening next?

Sophie:

Very good question.

Sophie:

Um, well, at the moment, as I sort of said before, for me, COVID was a big

Sophie:

turning point, um, in my business.

Sophie:

And I think personally, I think it made me totally, um, look at my business and

Sophie:

evaluate what I currently like about it.

Sophie:

I don't like about it and why I want to change because at the end

Sophie:

of the day, nothing's perfect.

Sophie:

Um, as we've sort of mentioned before, working for yourself

Sophie:

can be quite stressful.

Sophie:

Um, which is again, it's just part and parcel of, of what we do.

Sophie:

So for me now, I'm currently looking at, um, doing a rebrand of SA Floristry

Sophie:

um, which I'm really, really excited.

Sophie:

Um, that is all looking really good, very excited to share everyone.

Sophie:

Um, and then I'm going to be opening up an online store to

Sophie:

go along with that as well.

Sophie:

So as long as well as running sort of the wedding and event side of things, and

Sophie:

that, that won't necessarily change, that will just be under a new little name.

Sophie:

Um, but that will all be quite similar to what it already is.

Sophie:

Um, I will have, um, yeah, an online shops selling nice, um, sort of relatively

Sophie:

high-end, uh, gift home and gift wear

Becca:

exciting, well, I can't wait to see what you do next Sophie, and I

Becca:

think it's so inspirational for people to hear from you because I feel like

Becca:

you've done more in the last five years than some people do in a lifetime.

Becca:

When it comes to changing path, starting a new business, evolving

Becca:

that business, thinking of new ideas.

Becca:

Advocating for young people as well.

Becca:

I think you've just done so many great things, uh, before

Becca:

we go on to my quickfire quiz, which is coming up very shortly.

Becca:

I just want to take you back to Sophie who was just starting out in their wedding

Becca:

business, because I know there'll be people listening who are maybe florists

Becca:

or maybe other parts of the industry that are just starting and are feeling.

Becca:

Will I ever get any customers, will anyone ever reply to my emails

Becca:

and kind of feeling desperate?

Becca:

If you take yourself back to that moment, what can you tell those people to help

Becca:

them realize it will happen for them?

Sophie:

Yeah.

Sophie:

I, yeah, I've been there.

Sophie:

It's scary.

Sophie:

Um, yeah, sitting there waiting for emails to come in is nerve wracking.

Sophie:

Um, I always think the best thing to do and try to do is

Sophie:

to be as helpful as possible.

Sophie:

So even if you get a really, really light inquiry of someone, who's not really sure

Sophie:

what they're talking about, you know, go out of your way to answer their questions.

Sophie:

And then.

Sophie:

If that makes sense.

Sophie:

Um, and again, it might be industry friends.

Sophie:

It might be that someone needs help, uh, setting up a wedding

Sophie:

fair, offered offer to help them.

Sophie:

The more you get your name out there, the more that you're seen, the more that

Sophie:

people will want to pass on your details.

Sophie:

So definitely don't just sit there on your computer, waiting for inquiries.

Sophie:

Your best bet is again, to keep motivated and just to take your mind

Sophie:

off things, get out there, get helping people and get talking to people.

Sophie:

And it might even be, um, you contact a venue who again, is having, having

Sophie:

an open evening or something like that.

Sophie:

Pop them a message pop over and see them, you know, is there

Sophie:

any way that I can help you?

Sophie:

Um, Anything like that it might be for florists like, can I offer you

Sophie:

a bouquet of flowers for a raffle or can I, um, offer you sort of to set

Sophie:

up a table or something like that to showcase, um, for, for it to look nice.

Sophie:

in your venue for your couples.

Becca:

A hundred percent be proactive.

Becca:

So if you're out there and you're sat behind your computer waiting for inquiries

Becca:

to come in, stop stressing and get out there and do something proactive.

Becca:

Okay, we're going to go on to my quickfire quiz.

Becca:

So I've designed this quiz.

Becca:

Sophie has absolutely no idea what I'm going to ask her, but I'm going

Becca:

to be using this quiz on everyone that I interview so that we can

Becca:

get more of an insight into the person I'm interviewing and get to

Becca:

know Sophie a little bit better.

Becca:

So Sophie, I'm going to give you two choices and you just need to give me

Becca:

your answer as quickly as possible.

Becca:

I think so.

Becca:

Okay.

Becca:

I quiz, would you rather get married in a barn or a manor house?

Becca:

Barn.

Becca:

Live music, or have a DJ

Sophie:

DJ?

Becca:

Are you light and airy or dark and

Sophie:

moody, light and airy.

Becca:

Would you prefer a summer wedding or a winter wedding?

Becca:

Summer chocolate cake or lemon cake?

Becca:

Chocolate cake, Instagram or Facebook?

Sophie:

Definitely.

Sophie:

Instagram.

Becca:

Would you prefer to be at a wedding fair or in a wedding directory?

Becca:

Wedding fair.

Becca:

Are you an early riser or a night owl?

Becca:

Definitely.

Becca:

Night Owl.

Becca:

And are you a work too hard person or an always get distracted person

Sophie:

work too hard

Becca:

or a little bit of both.

Becca:

I think a little bit.

Becca:

Sophie, you pass a quiz and I feel like we know you a little

Becca:

bit better before we let you go.

Becca:

I'd love you to finish by just sharing one piece of advice that you wish

Becca:

you knew earlier on in your wedding.

Sophie:

Yeah.

Sophie:

So, so for me, I think it was to, um, be really savvy.

Sophie:

And again, it goes back to sort of a monetary thing for me.

Sophie:

Um, at the end of the day, running a business is all about making money.

Sophie:

Um, so for me, it's, when you start your business, don't be scared to make

Sophie:

sure you've got that spreadsheet and everything's coming in and out, or make

Sophie:

sure you have yourself a bookkeeping, um, a bit of software and don't be

Sophie:

afraid to go and talk to an accountant.

Sophie:

Um, quite often accountants will have, um, Free meetings and stuff like that.

Sophie:

Um, and get that advice because actually going, um, I think one

Sophie:

of the fears is actually being, self-employed, is really complicated.

Sophie:

It's really not, it's actually quite simple.

Sophie:

Um, or at least sort of the sole trader side of things, um, and putting

Sophie:

through, um, your taxes and stuff like.

Sophie:

I think definitely keeping on top of all of that is really, really important.

Sophie:

And don't be afraid to get started with that, because that is what

Sophie:

will show you your growth as well.

Sophie:

That's the biggest thing that you can look on a piece of paper and go, oh

Sophie:

look, how much money I've made and that that to me is actually one of my big

Sophie:

motivators is that I can look at graph and go, oh, look how much money I've made.

Sophie:

I must be doing it.

Sophie:

Right.

Sophie:

Um, so a hundred percent, don't be afraid when you start start, your business is

Sophie:

just be really clever with your money and just make sure your keeping in touch and

Sophie:

knowing sort of what's coming in and out.

Becca:

Amazing.

Becca:

Sophie, you've been so inspiring.

Becca:

If people want to connect with you, find out more about you.

Becca:

Where's the best place for them to find you?

Sophie:

So for me, the best place is probably Instagram, um, at SA Floristry..

Sophie:

Um, and I'm also on Facebook

Becca:

as well.

Becca:

Amazing.

Becca:

and Sophie, we can't wait to see your rebrand.

Becca:

We can't wait to see your new launch of everything.

Becca:

So keep us posted and thanks for your time.

Sophie:

Thank you so much, Becca

Sophie:

it's lovely to have a chat with you.

Sophie:

With.

Becca:

I hope you enjoyed that interview with Sophie.

Becca:

As much as I did, Sophie is a fabulous client and it's been amazing to watch

Becca:

her go from being a 21 year old, starting her own business on to being

Becca:

a really successful florist and with more great projects in the pipeline.

Becca:

If you've been inspired by anything that Sophie said do reach out to her,

Becca:

or if you realize you want to be part of a community, just like she is in

Becca:

my wedding, pro members lounge, then you can find all the details about

Becca:

how to be part of that community.

Becca:

In the show notes, I would love to welcome you and support you on

Becca:

your own wedding business journey.

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