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Episode 9510th May 2023 • Breaking Chains • Christine Jewell
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Are you finding yourself running to ALL the wrong things to get your emotional needs met?

Are you constantly beating yourself up mentally, ridden with guilt that you ‘should’ be doing better?

Some of us are used to operating in the place of anxiety, living in the place of TURMOIL inside that we don’t know HOW do I get out from under this. At times, we may even find ourselves being crippled by the hold these things have on our life!  Unable to think clearly, execute on decisions we know we must make, we instead become paralyzed second guessing ourselves or simply stay in one place - spinning our wheels. 

Growing more frustrated and more anxious by the day, the guilt keeps piling on. 

In today’s episode we are talking about why we keep SELLING OUT.

Yup. As humans - we will sell out our core values, the CORE of who we are, to get our primal human needs met - every time - if you don’t have things right on the inside.

God designed a beautiful experience for us, one with healthy, life-giving variety. But too many of us are addicted to short-term fixes and constant distractions. An INNER CIVIL WAR rages when we satiate your desires with superficial fixes and dopamine hits one after the other. It’s like a crumb when you’re starving or a bandaid on a bullet wound. 

We may recognize the toll these short-term solutions take on our souls, yet a spirit of FEAR holds us back from breaking the cycle. Fear of judgment, of time running out, and of pain itself. But operating from a place of fear means a lack of trust in God, ourselves, and others. God did not design us to operate from a place of darkness, so how do we realign? 

We have to get clear on what matters to us so we know what we’re fighting for.

In this episode, we’ll touch on these vital aspects of realigning your values to get off the grind and out of the trenches:

  • The 6 human needs we all have
  • How WHERE we get these needs met can cause more friction or flow in our lives
  • Are you Creating from FEAR or LOVE?
  • The importance of clear values and defining them
  • The two areas we must evaluate within ourselves to create change

We can learn to operate from a place of genuine contentment and alignment with our God-given gifts and genius, instead of chasing after fleeting fulfillment. If you are struggling to do this on your own, working with a coach or mentor like myself can be the perfect next step.

If you want to wake up with a clear mind and be able to get through your days feeling charged,  without the constant guilt and pressure, I invite you to learn more about 1:1 Mentorship or Group Coaching -  Fill out this Short Application and we will reach out with the next step!

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Episode 96 Resources:

  • Tony Robbins - 6 Human Needs





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