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Hello, and

welcome to the Borealis experience. I'm your host

Aurora. And I'm very happy to be spending some time with you

today. I hope you had a good day so far, I hope it's flowing and

you feel good about yourself and you can be in the present and

just feel good. If you don't feel great, no worries we have

all those days. And this little episode might cheer you up, make

you feel better about yourself, but circumstances about other

people. Today, I want to talk about second chances. I think we

have to talk more about second chances. Because we are way too

hard with ourselves when it comes to mistakes that we've

made in the past disappointment that we created in other

people's universe. And we have to learn to forgive ourselves.

First, we have to let go of regret, we have to believe that

we can be better people. In this moment From today on, from this

second on, it is a choice, a very simple choice that you

make. Letting go of your past and being a different, better

person today. Without being dishonest with your soul and

your purpose. You can still be on your path, you can still be

chasing money chasing that job chasing that relationship, but

you can be that better person and still be authentic. That is

what I meant. And when it comes to other people, I learned that

there's no other way than forgiving, and forgetting. And

knowing that other people change to they grow. They fear regret.

They feel fear of having resentment from others, chasing

them, you know, like bad karma.

So what I invite you to do today is just play with the idea that

you could be that forgiving person that you could be totally

forgiven and start a new with a clean slate. Do you say clean

slate clean shirt. I know you know what I mean. And I know you

know I'm not native English, so you're not going to harshly

judge me here. So let's get back to the topic. forgiving others

is what we have to do in order to live a free, happy content

life. If you still cling on to resentment, if you still think

that person deserves punishment, that person deserve to suffer,

because they hurt you in the past, then you will never be

free you will never live a life that fields good to your soul.

Think about the pine cone, a little metaphor here. We have

plants, trees seeds out here that need fire to start the

ignition of growth. So these seeds have to go through a

forest fire in order to grow a tree. And I love to use that

metaphor. I love to use it when it comes to people because

there's people out there who like flowers, just glow grow

from a seed and then glow. might as well use the word that

slipped out. And they have a very simple life, a

straightforward life an easy life. And there's people out

there who have so much energy and sometimes Even with good

intentions, they pave their way into a criminal life and then

end up in prison and have to, yeah, digest the consequences

and consequences and everything. And there's people who are,

yeah, constantly making mistakes. And you just think,

why is that person not stopping this? And why can they not just

be straightforward and not making those mistakes anymore.

And I include myself 100%, there is people out there, excuse me,

that need to make certain experiences, they have to go

through trauma, they have to go through pain, in order to become

better people in order to become who they're meant to be. It's

just like the butterfly, you know, the little worm, or sorry,

the caterpillar, who then transitions into a butterfly,

it's a dramatic change. It's a beautiful change for an

outsider. But for that Caterpillar, it's certainly very

scary and uncomfortable. And there's so many caterpillars out

there, who go through pain and transformation, but still not

see, the butterfly that they became, they still cling to the

pain, they still cling to the past, and are so sad and even

pity themselves for having to go through that pain. And I'm not

looking down to these people, because I've been that person

before. I didn't understand why me Why did I always have to go

through intense heartbreak, intense feelings and

disappointment and disappointment with with people.

And now I understand now I get it, and I'm okay, I'm resilient

enough, I can handle this pain, I can move on, I can forgive.

And I can inspire other people to never give up and to,

especially when the going gets tough to believe that this is

for a good reason. Even though you don't see the good reason

yet, it is for a good reason to go through pain at times because

it will unlock energy that we need out here in this world, it

will start ignite healing inside of yourself that you can then

use to support other people out there who are maybe at a stage

before you like earlier than you. You can be a leader when

you went through pain. And now I touch the microphone. Sorry, if

that was disturbing for your ears. When you went through

pain, and you were able to see the light at the end of the

tunnel, you can guide people through that tunnel know and

give them all the support and everything they need to make it

through. So we have to forgive the sinners, we have to forgive

people that hurt us in the past. Because we're all just a shitty

experience a shitty decision away from being a criminal from

being a bad person, right? It's all a choice that we make. And

some people make very bad decisions, shitty choices, but

we can't keep beating them up. Because it's exactly those

people who can at a later stage maybe help us go through stuff.

We're all in this together. And I want you to look at yourself

today. And see if you cannot forgive yourself just a little

more. Even if it was a slight meaning less mistake for others

that you've made in the past, but you still cling to it you

still define yourself by in, try to let go more and more. Every

time you judge yourself for that mistake. Just let it go. You are

forgiven from the outsiders. So forgive yourself now. Thank you

so much for listening. And I'm very, very, very grateful to

have you here. You don't even know

and I'll be out there.