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Failing Forward How to Create the Life You Desire After Failure with Lillian Victoria
Episode 343rd May 2023 • It Didn't Break Me • Bianca Hughes
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TRIGGER WARNING: In this episode, my guest and I dive into the following topic: Suicidal Ideation, Childhood Sexual Assault, and Domestic Violence. If you need to pause or stop listening to this episode, please honour that. Thank you.

What happens when your childhood fear comes true? Failure looks very different for alot of people. For Lillian, she was living the a life that looked good on paper; as she calls it a "resume life". She had everything that she was "supposed to have" but she extremely unhappy. Her sadness seeped its way into every aspect of her life and soon she found herself as a single mom who was homeless. The two things she never wanted to be. So, Lillian changed her thoughts and went after what she believed she deserved.

I invite you to join our conversation as Lillian and I discuss:

  • Fear-Driven
  • Victim Mindset
  • Depression
  • Low Self Image
  • Confidence
  • Therapy
  • Mantras
  • Harmony
  • Inspiration
  • Growth
  • Bob Proctor

Honourable Mentions

Share how YOU overcame a situation

You're Enough: Letting go the Pressure to be Perfect by Bianca Hughes, LPC

What Is Your Fear Archetype And How Does It Manifest In Your Life?

Fostering a Positive Self-Image

Science Behind Therapy

When It’s OK to Trust Your Gut on a Big Decision

Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill

You 2 by Price Pritchett

Where can you find Lillian Victoria?


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This podcast is hosted by Bianca Kesha Hughes. Known for authenticity and heart-work services, Bianca is the ultimate trailblazer in the mental health and wellness field as a therapist, coach, speaker, and podcast host, inspiring her audience to let go of the illusion of perfectionism. Ready to learn more? Contact her here!


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Song Credit: Encore by King Sis

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