Have you ever felt like no matter how much you give to your work, you’re still running behind—constantly deciding everything for your team and ending each day exhausted?

If you’re an NGO or humanitarian leader who feels overworked, overwhelmed, or stuck in the daily grind, this episode will help you shift from burnout to balance. You’ll learn a simple, powerful framework designed specifically for leaders like you—those who want to make a bigger impact without losing themselves in the process.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• How to gain crystal-clear direction so you and your team know exactly where you’re headed.
• Why letting go of control can actually make you a stronger, more effective leader.
• The secret to building a resilient mindset that helps you manage stress, stay grounded, and thrive in demanding environments.

Press play now to uncover the CLEAR Leadership Model and start leading with more focus, trust, and energy today.

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This podcast empowers international development and humanitarian NGO UN leaders to achieve high performance teams, fostering diversity, inclusion, and wellbeing, overcoming burnout and overwhelm, while maximizing impact and productivity.

Imagine having a simple model that helps you to manage stress, empower your team,

and stay focused on what matters most.

This is what you're going to learn today on today's episode.

Welcome to the Modern Humanitarian and Development Leader podcast.

The podcast helping humanitarian and development supervisors make a

greater impact by taking control of your time, leading more inclusively

and empowering your team all the while avoiding stress, burnout and overwhelm.

I'm your host, leadership coach and former aid worker, Torrey Peace.

Are you ready?

Let's get started.

Hello, my aspiring modern NGO leader.

I hope you're having a wonderful week.

And have you ever felt like no matter how hard you work, you're still behind

or maybe your team keeps waiting for you to decide everything and

you end up exhausted and frustrated?

If that sounds familiar, you're not alone.

I've coached dozens of NGO supervisors who feel the same way.

But after working with leaders across the globe, I've noticed

five common areas that determine whether leaders burn out or thrive.

Today I'm going to share the framework I developed from these lessons.

That is, the CLEAR Leadership Model.

Alright, you ready?

Let's get started.

So in my early years as a leader in the humanitarian development sector,

I really struggled with overwork, unclear priorities and micromanaging.

And later when I started to coach my team, I kept seeing the same

patterns - people who are so driven and motivated by the mission, and very

intelligent, but also overwhelmed by time, struggling to empower their teams

and constantly reacting to crises.

This was the same when I started coaching NGO leaders after I left my own INGO.

I realized there were certain patterns that were really holding NGO leaders

back, and that's why I created CLEAR.

So the CLEAR Model is basically an acronym for Clarity, Letting go,

Empowerment, Alignment and Resilience.

And it is what I've found that if you have all of these together as a modern NGO

leader, you will be successful in managing your time and creating impactful results.

Alright, so let me walk through a few examples.

So C is for Clarity, that is clear vision, values and goals.

So for example, leaders who know who they are and are very clear on what

they want to achieve, the type of impact they want as a leader, they have a

vision that they are working toward.

One of the most powerful things that I have done as a leader is creating a

vision when I was a country manager on the type of impact that I wanted to create.

It allowed me to understand where I was headed and how to really

rally together both myself and my team in order to get there.

So clarity, very important.

The next one, L, Letting go.

That is stop micromanaging, stop feeling like as the leader you

need to know all the answers.

An example of this was one of my former students who started by feeling like

he had to answer everyone's questions and tell them what to do all the time.

This resulted in him becoming a bottleneck.

Basically, he was a productivity bottleneck for his team.

Everything had to go through him.

It slowed him down.

It prevented him from working on more important things.

And so when he learned how to use coaching and how to ask better questions and

empower his team instead, he was able to really help free up so much of his time

and also remove himself as the bottleneck.

So less micromanaging, less having to know what everyone is doing and more trusting

that our teams mostly know what to do.

Then there's E, Empowerment, so coach and not direct.

So for example, I've had leaders who come into the course and they're

telling their teams what to do.

They are not really fully understanding what coaching means - that coaching is

not giving advice, it's not telling others what to do - like many people think it is.

It's actually asking them questions so that they can get out of their

own way and solve their problem.

So by empowering our team, we can allow them to confidently handle their

roles and become more independent and reduce reliance on our support.

This allows them to become more efficient on what they do and us

to become more efficient as well.

A, Alignment.

Leaders who go through the day-to-day motions and get pulled along by

the most urgent-like types of tasks are those who usually don't have a

clear vision of the impact they want to create, and are usually those

being led by other people's agendas.

One thing that's so powerful is when we have a vision, like we said, clarity

around our vision, we're able to align our actions and take actions every day

in order to head toward that vision.

And this can be very powerful in terms of understanding what is truly

productive versus what is just being busy.

And then finally, R is for Resilience.

So managing your energy, your emotions, and your mindset.

For example, when we have a certain unchecked thoughts, we're not aware of

how our thinking can actually lead to our higher stress levels and burnout.

Our beliefs, the way that we work, and very common beliefs

such as the ones that drive what I call high performance syndrome.

For example, as a leader, I need to be available all the time.

These types of thoughts can get in the way of us being truly motivated and aspire to

do our best work, and they can actually lead to the opposite, which is burnout.

So resilience and building resilience also very important.

So if you've been listening to this podcast for a while, you'll recognize

pieces of this CLEAR Model, like when we talked about stress during

uncertain times, or how to empower teams instead of controlling them.

What I'm doing now is bringing it all together into one model

that you can use every day.

So this week I want you to ask yourself, which letter of CLEAR

do I need the most right now?

Clarity, Letting go, Empowerment, Alignment, or Resilience?

Start with that one and see how it goes.

And my mission is to help you thrive as a Modern Humanitarian

and Development Leader.

So CLEAR is the roadmap to get there.

Are you ready to step into it?

Let's get started.

I'll be talking more about this over the coming weeks.

Alright, until then, keep evolving.

Bye for now.

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