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Finding hope when everything feels heavy
Episode 31010th October 2025 • Let's Pod This • Let's Fix This
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Let's talk about hope - where to find it, and why we need it. And hey OKC - don't forget to vote on Oct 14th!

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Hello and welcome to Let's Pod this.

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My name is Andy Moore.

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Friends, listeners, welcome back.

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Uh, over the last few weeks we've

had some really great guests.

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We've, um, city council member,

Camal Pennington, uh, Keith Gaddie

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several times, uh, and some others.

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And we've got some more coming up

soon, but I feel like every few

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months we've gotta have a episode...

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kind of like this, where it's

just us, just you and me.

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Um, and I usually come to this

point when I realize there's like

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something that I need to hear myself.

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And I have found over the years

that it, if I'm feeling a certain

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way, it's likely that many of you

are feeling something similar.

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Um, and I right now, gosh.

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Everything just feels

so heavy and chaotic.

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I was at the store today and ran into a

friend and just said, Hey, how are you?

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And you could sense the

heaviness that both of us felt

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of just like, yeah, I'm good.

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And I'm like, we both are.

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Like I, I don't really mean that.

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Like things are hard and scary

and uncertain and exhausting

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and all of that's like.

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It kind of annoying too, right?

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So everything just feels

like one more thing.

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And I think over the last few weeks

as I've been thinking about this and

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talking with some of my friends and

mentors about how they're feeling,

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there's a lot of similarities there.

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Everyone kind of echoes the same

sentiments, but also I've noticed

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that a lot of it has to do with.

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Mindset, right?

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That we get what you

give, um, and that you

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are, if we get into a, I'll say a

habit, but really it's like we get

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conditioned to keep seeking out

certain types of nutrition, we'll

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call it news, news, nutrition.

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Um, and so you.

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We all kind of like collectively,

I think, get our brains in this

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mode of like, oh, we're all

exhausted and everything feels hard.

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And so like that's our common

language that we share.

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And so we talk a lot of, you know, like

a lot of the memes that I share with

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friends, I'm sure you are, are sometimes

a little or a lot sarcastic or like it's

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making, it's kind of like a dark humor

about politics today, but also like.

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Yeah, that's what a lot of the

content is, and I know that

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the algorithms perpetuate this.

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I think we all know that.

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I'm actually hoping to watch at least

two football games this weekend.

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And you know, the last time

I watched two football games,

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probably like 2007, um, I've.

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Just have not been a

big consumer of sports.

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And right now the idea of sitting

on my couch and watching two

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ball games, um, sounds luxurious.

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I mean, like an honest to God vacation.

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Uh, and so fortunately it's

OU Texas Weekend, and, uh,

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I'm a Dallas Cowboys fan.

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Sorry to everyone else out there.

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That's a lifelong thing for me.

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Um.

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I, I don't like Jerry Jones either.

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I think we all agree on that.

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Uh, but back in the, uh, Roger

Staubach days anyway, um, they're

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playing at noon on Sunday.

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So maybe I get to watch a couple of

games this weekend, and maybe you do too.

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Or you do whatever it is that you enjoy

and that nurtures your soul a little bit.

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And while we're there nurturing our souls,

I hope that we can share a sense of.

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Um, interest in dedication

to curiosity about

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the feeling of hope.

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Um, there's a lot of reasons In the

midst of all this shit, I think there's

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still a lot of reasons to be hopeful.

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One, pretty notably in the last

couple of weeks here in Oklahoma is

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that Ryan Walters resigned and has.

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Slowly faded from the news cycle.

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Not entirely like I

expect he'll come back.

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In the same way that Scott Pruitt

came back in the news cycle

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several times after he left.

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He was the first elected official

for whom we have, uh, theme music

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that we've used here on the podcast.

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And.

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Walters is another one that we've

had the music about, if that's

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an indication of what's to come.

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The third person is getting her Drummond.

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I think that's the music.

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And so that makes me a little bit

nervous about what the next, uh,

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few years might hold, uh, for him.

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Who knows?

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Uh, if he, you know, as

campaigning for governor,

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undoubtedly he'll be in the news.

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Um, anyway, with Ryan Walters gone, um,

there was like this immediate relief.

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Right.

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A lot of this is credit to interim

superintendent Lindell Fields and his

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transition team, um, the statements that

he has put out that the speeches he has

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given, heck, the statement that came from

his new interim comms director was such

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the antithesis of what we've heard over

the last three years from Ryan Walters.

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That it, it really felt like.

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You know, aloe vera on a sunburn.

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It was really, uh, we were really

burned by that guy and it hurt a lot.

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And this has been so cool and nice and

I don't know how this is gonna play out

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with, as far as his leadership style.

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From what I've read and heard from people

who know him, it sounds positive to me.

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History will tell.

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Um, but if nothing else

right now, in this moment.

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There's like a collective sigh of relief,

and I've seen this most from teachers

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and school staff who are really stressed

just about knowing that they're doing

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everything right and worried that someone.

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Namely Ryan Walters would find

something wrong anyway, or

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choose to see something wrong.

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And it's, it was actually in one

of those conversations with a

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teacher, um, where I first started

thinking about mindset, right?

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That for so many of our school staff and

parents and school board members, at every

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level, there was this, uh, understandable

anxiety about what's to happen, but.

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There we had gotten into a mindset,

um, because of his behavior,

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um, that everything was risky

and so we pulled back, right?

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And it was hard to find any iota of hope.

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I think, uh, in the, at least in the.

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News about the Department of Education.

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When we talk to individual

teachers or classrooms or kids,

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there's all kinds of hope, right?

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Of course, things are good and

happy and kids are still learning.

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Um, but it, it made what is

otherwise I think, should be a

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pretty joyous career path, right?

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That is a, I mean, everyone has a

positive story about teachers, everyone.

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Um, anyone who I think of merit points

back to a teacher in their life who

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made a difference, I think is such

an impactful career and an important

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like, uh, web of people throughout

our society that really kind of like

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knit us together as a community.

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I think we underestimate teachers in

all kinds of ways, uh, and realizing how

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hard it's been for me as just a parent.

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I can't imagine what it's been like

for teachers the last few years.

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So there's some hope there.

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That was a long way to

say there's some hope.

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Um, if you are worried about national

level stuff, federal policies,

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and you have good reason to, the

government is currently shut down.

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They Russ vote, who runs the Office of

Personnel Management, announced today that

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they're starting to, um, lay off people,

reduction in force, let people go during

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this, this has been part of the plan.

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This is part of Project 2025.

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Um.

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We talked about that some last year.

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The president who once distanced himself

from the plan is now embracing it and,

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you know, praising, uh, VO by name.

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And, uh, I think the last estimate

I saw was from August, um, where

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the people that are tracking.

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Project 2025 and all of its

elements pretty closely have said

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that as of August of this year,

it was about 47% implemented.

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Some parts of it are

hung up in court, right?

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And legal battles that will likely

play out over the next year or

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between now and the election.

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Um, but I think this is a good

point, America, or like we should

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definitely take notice, right?

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So if you.

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If you are someone who like knows that

project:

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really spend time like reading it or

looking into it or reading much about it.

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'cause you were like, well

that's like one more thing.

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I get it.

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And maybe that's fine.

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But if that's something you feel

compelled to read about, I think history

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is showing that, um, maybe some more

attention should have been paid to it.

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Uh, it also means very likely right,

that economically things are gonna get.

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Bumpier for most of us, if you're

someone who's super wealthy listening

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to this, you'll probably be okay.

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But for the rest of us, um,

it's probably gonna get a little

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bumpy over the next year or two.

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It's hard to predict week to week what's

happening, but, um, it hard to predict.

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That aside, there's no

reason for hope here though.

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Let me drag you down

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Polling, right?

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Tracking polls that

monitor the, OR survey.

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The president's approval rating

as well as like his approval

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rating on various issues.

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Um, I'm someone, we've talked about this

a lot on the pod over the last few years.

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That one poll is one poll.

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We really shouldn't put too

much weight on any one poll.

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They make headlines, um, today,

but they're gone tomorrow.

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What we should look at is like an

average of polls, uh, you know.

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Okay, Nate Silver for My Money

is still one of the best at this.

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You can go to his website.

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It's called The Silver Bulletin.

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It's like a Substack.

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Um, but he, it's probably nate silver.com.

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I don't know.

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Google, Nate Silver.

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It'll be the first thing.

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He has, um, a process of

tracking these kind of approval

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polls for years and years, and.

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I think it's pretty smart how he does it

and intelligent and it tells us something.

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And when last I checked, uh, Trump was

roughly at 53% disapprove, 47% approve.

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It may be lower than that.

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Um, but it's been this way for a while

and it's, the trends are continuing.

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Um, where's the basement on approval?

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I don't know.

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Right.

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It seems like somewhere

between 30 and 40% likely.

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But it's hard to say.

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But we're getting, you know, there's

like that element in the middle where

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it's all kind of the same, but we're

getting outside that now we're getting

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into the part where he is losing

popular opinion, um, pretty soon,

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you know, almost like a two to one.

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And when that starts to

happen, big changes are afoot.

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I think we'll see this next

year in the election, right?

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It's a little over a year from now.

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And if these trends continue even for half

that time, um, it's gonna get real dicey,

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not for the president because he is not

in the ballot, but for all these members

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of Congress in every district, right?

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There are more and more candidates who

are eyeing races, who are considering

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jumping in, um, not even for partisan

reasons, but for like governance reasons.

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And so I think that is

reason for hope, right?

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When things get rough.

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Americans show up truly in 2018 here in

Oklahoma, when we were in the midst of

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the teacher walkout, things were dire.

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The budget was a mess.

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Um, and it had been in a mess for

several years, or these like major

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shortfalls, all these teachers got laid

off and the teacher walkout happened,

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and candidate filing was that same week.

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And it was a record where the most

candidates file for state and federal

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office that year of any time in

history, 794 candidates, I think filed.

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Um, it was wild.

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I hope that happens.

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Again, we need more

people to run for office.

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Last election, uh, half of the

legislature was elected by default

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because no one filed against him.

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Not of the opposite party,

not even of their same party.

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No one.

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But when you ask people how satisfied

they are in the legislature or with

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Congress, so few f, so few folks run,

and I understand like that it's a lot.

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Um, it can be really difficult, um,

and time consuming and expensive, and

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now folks are worried about violence.

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Like I, I get it.

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Um, I am not running this year either,

although I love my representation, um,

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at the state level, and I'm honestly.

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Oh, mostly okay with it on the federal

level with my member of Congress,

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but I, I know that it's hard.

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Um, so I'm not saying this flippantly,

but I also suspect that given the size of

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our listenership, that there are those of

you who are listening, uh, or watching us

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on YouTube who are considering it, who've

been thinking about it and are unsure.

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Um.

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But every day that goes by, you

think about it a little bit more.

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That's good.

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I hope you do talk to somebody

like maybe you know, someone who

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you think would be great and they

haven't brought it up themself.

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They maybe they're waiting for you to

ask them if they've ever considered it.

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Right.

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This is how it happens.

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Anyway, reason for hope there.

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Um, lemme look at my notes.

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I, uh, even wrote down some of this stuff.

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I think, um, the other thing

that gives me hope is that we've

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been here before as a country.

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Abraham Lincoln gave his second

inaugural address, uh, in

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the midst of the Civil War.

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Right.

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And every time I go to Washington,

DC almost every time I go, I make a

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pilgrimage to the Lincoln Memorial.

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You walk up the steps to say hi to.

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Then on the right side is his

second inaugural was inscribed the

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left side, the south side is the

Emancipation Proclamation, which

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is certainly worth your time.

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But that second inaugural,

it's not very long.

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Um, but it hits me like a gut punch every

time, and especially these last few years.

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Um, and like the last decade, I guess.

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Um.

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So if you haven't read it

recently, Google it link.

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Just Google Lincoln's second inaugural

and it'll take you three minutes to read.

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It's not that long.

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Um, and sit with the weight of,

of that conversation at that

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time and what that would be like.

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We're not there, right?

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We're not, we don't have.

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Two armies, you know, states have

not, um, seceded, we don't have

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two armies battling each other.

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Are we at war with ourselves?

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That's a bit more of a

sticky wicket, I think.

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But um, still knowing that we've

been here before, perhaps worse,

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even in the 1960s, right when they

assassinated JFK and Bobby Kennedy,

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and Martin Luther King and Malcolm X.

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Um.

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Uh, you know, Americans were showing

up at airports to jeer US troops as

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they deployed or returned from Vietnam.

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Um, you know, we didn't

have social media back then.

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If we did, would it have

looked as bad as it does now?

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Maybe.

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My point is that we made it

through those times and I am.

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I am becoming more confident in

the resilience of Americans, right?

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our country, despite its shortcomings

and its failures is still pretty great.

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Like, we're not perfect.

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We will never be perfect.

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We are continually in the

process of becoming a more

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perfect union, and it is hard.

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It's hard work.

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It has not come easy.

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If we take it for granted, it slides away.

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If we give up on it, it slides away.

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If we don't show up, it slides away.

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The reason that America became

America over the last 249 years

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is because millions and millions

and millions of regular people

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gave a shit.

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About something, right?

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About making their quarter

of the world better.

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Some of them ran for office, some of them

are, you know, municipal auditors, right?

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They look at numbers all day, and it's

a job that maybe I don't want, but it's

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an important job to ensure that we're

spending tax dollars correctly, right?

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And when we, and that's why it's so hard

right now, I think when we see people.

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Flaunt in a way that almost mocks the

commitment that hundreds of millions of

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Americans have given to this country.

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It does get under our skin, and

I am choosing to shift my mindset

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to stop dwelling on those who are doing

harm, but to think and find inspiration

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in the millions who have gone before us.

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Who have put in the work to get us to

where we are today and by god far be

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it from us to drop the ball right now.

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I was thinking the other day about next

year being America's 250th birthday

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and what can we do as an organization

and you know, civics Con is gonna be

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really centered on that next April.

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And just kind of really trying

to soak in the weight of like,

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this is a big birthday for us.

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Like, and realizing like it's.

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Uh, so many of us, like are exhausted and

want to give up, and there's times that

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I'm like, man, it'd be a lot easier if my

job didn't involve, like, paying attention

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to the news cycle and trying to strategize

how to build a more perfect union.

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How to improve our democracy.

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Um, but what a blessing, right?

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What if even before this was my job,

this is what I did with my time, this

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was, I participated in civic life.

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Served on boards.

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I worked to make my corner

of the world a bit better.

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And that's what so many

of us do too, right?

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So anyway, I, I think

there's reason for hope here.

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I think that there is a precedent, a

victory that we don't talk about enough.

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It is hard, and it's hard because

when the storm is, is thundering

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around you and the clouds are dark.

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It's easy to focus on that and forget that

beyond the clouds, the sun still shines.

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So don't forget that.

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Um, and why we need it on a personal

level, friends, like hope is the

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thing that allows us to keep going.

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If you lose hope, you

lose resilience yourself.

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When we lose hope, we like

physiologically have fewer resources

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to devote to making things better.

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So I'm.

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I am both instructing you, uh, as best I

can and begging you as a fellow American.

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Don't give up.

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We need you.

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We need you in whatever capacity

you can, but I need you, Oklahoma.

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Need, you need United

States of America, need you.

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What can you do?

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I have, uh, three actionable

things you can take this month.

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The first, uh, if you live in

Oklahoma City, this coming Tuesday,

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October 14th is an election day.

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We'll be voting on, um, issuing

a new general obligation

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bond, right, the Go Bond.

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Um.

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It's, we had a episode of a

couple weeks ago with City

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Council member Camal Pennington.

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Hopefully you listened or watched that.

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If you haven't, please do.

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If you have questions, you

can also go to vision.okc.gov.

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Um, and there's some information on there.

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Um, I think okc.gov/bond25

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also gets you there anyway.

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If you Google, "Oklahoma City

Bond," you'll find it and,

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uh, you should read about it.

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And you should post about it,

and you should remind your

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friends to go vote, right?

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Choosing to do it ourselves is step

one, but we can't just leave it there.

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Like we've got to invite

and encourage others.

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If you're listening to this podcast,

there's a good chance that you're

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a gold star voter every time.

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Good for you.

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Like I'm genuinely thrilled about that.

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And now you have to do a little bit more.

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You have to make sure one other

person votes you are, you are each

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responsible for one more person.

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So you write down a piece of paper who

that person is, and then you text them

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or you call them and you say, Hey, like

I am choosing to help one person vote.

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You are my person.

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Here's what's happening next Tuesday.

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If you don't live in Oklahoma City,

you probably know someone who does.

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So call them, make, make that your person.

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Uh, secondly, on October

24th, that's a Friday.

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We're having our monthly

democracy drinks happy hour.

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You might say, well, that's not

a high impact action like voting.

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Andy.

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Uh, I would argue it's, it's

still showing up, right?

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We've averaged around 30 to 40 people at.

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Um, our last several, four

or so, um, happy hours.

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It's been growing.

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Um, this month, the weather

by the 24th should be lovely.

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You should come and you should

bring a friend, whoever it is,

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you get to vote, invite them to

come to this happy hour, right?

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Don't bribe them with

a drink that's illegal.

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You can't incentivize them to vote.

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Uh, you can remind them and then you can.

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Reward them for being your friend by

inviting them to come to Skydance Brewing,

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uh, here in Midtown on October 24th from

four to 6:00 PM It's such a good time.

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Honestly, if you only come for

30 minutes, like that's fine.

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Um, but come and say hi and recognize

that you are not alone and that.

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If nothing else, we can

be hopeful together.

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And we always are.

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It's always a really upbeat gathering.

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Um, I meet new people every time.

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I've seen old friends from 10

years ago who came and I'm like,

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do I know you from Twitter?

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Back when?

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It was cool.

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Yes.

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Okay, great.

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Uh, I think like those kinds

of relationships are important.

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And so I'm hoping, I'm

asking you, I'm inviting you.

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Join us on October 24th,

four to 6:00 PM at Skydance.

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And then third, um, there's a campaign

for open primaries in Oklahoma that

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is an issue that we strongly support

and we have supported it since.

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The beginning since I became aware of it.

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I think it was on our

policy agenda in:

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I know, 'cause that was the first year we

had a policy agenda and it's still there.

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Um, open primaries, there's a campaign

for this if you are interested in this,

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if you're interested in helping collect

signatures, they will be starting

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signature collection, uh, on October 29th.

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Uh, I believe they have a

training you have to do.

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Um.

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That is available online.

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It's real easy and quick.

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And, uh, again, the forms have changed.

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It's like a little, it's like a

refresher course for those of you who

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have collected signatures in the past.

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Um, you can go, if you just

Google Oklahoma Open primaries,

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I'm sure you'll find it.

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Um, I forget what the exact website

is, but, um, that's a big deal.

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We need volunteers everywhere.

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Um, if you think about this as like.

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It's like selling candy bars for your

kit or wrapping paper or whatever, right?

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Like you can take the form, you can get

a clipboard and you can, your job is

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to just talk to your friends, right?

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Think of 20 friends that

you can get to sign that.

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If we all did that, we could

get this done real quick.

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We need more than that.

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But if everyone thought of 20 friends

that they could get to sign it, text

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'em, and say, Hey, I'm collecting

signatures for this campaign.

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Can I swing by your house

and get your signature?

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Do the pop in every, who

doesn't love a pop in?

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Lots of people don't love pop anyway.

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You can do it.

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You can text your friends.

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You can just say, Hey, let's

go get a cup of coffee.

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I wanna get your signature.

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Uh, and you go to them Too often we

wait for them to come to us and that's,

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uh, that's not how it always works.

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Sometimes we have to be proactive.

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Right.

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We can't just sit around and

wait for democracy to happen.

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We've gotta do something.

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And that's why like every week we

end with the statement Decisions are

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made by those who show up friends.

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Here's three options to show up.

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If you want to find out more,

you can go to our website.

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Let's fix this.org.

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Um, there's event page there

with all of our events.

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Uh, but please click in the show

notes, get the links, and uh, and

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find a way to show up this week.

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Okay.

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Have a good weekend.

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Enjoy your football.

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