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Hello, and welcome to the Borealis experience. I'm
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your host Aurora, life coach and companion on this beautiful path
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called life. I hope you're doing well. And I'm very excited to
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Yeah, spend a couple moments with you. I just want to give
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you a fair warning that my head is all over the place right now.
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I was originally going to talk about your daily habits, the
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little habits that you engage in the little habits that compound
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that make up the you, your identity, your life the way you
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think. Then I came across a beautiful podcast the other day
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where they talked about the Moxie inner strength, the strong
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passion of existing, the strong passion of feeling alive. And
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then I came across the topic of discipline. What is your
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relationship with discipline? Is it kind of a swear word? Do you
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cringe when you hear that word? Or do you have very positive
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association associations with discipline? The word or the
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meaning. So as you can see it as three very loaded important
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topics that are very, yeah. Interesting to talk about and
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interesting to explore what do people associate with those
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three topics and what resonates the most. And for today, I
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decided to talk about your inner strength. I feel called to that
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topic today. And I will for sure address the other two topics
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here in coming episodes. It is with great curiosity that I
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approached this topic because inner strength can look pretty
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differently when it comes to Yeah, people from all kinds of
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situations like all walks of life, they can feel a different
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degree of inner strength. And whenever I'm passionate about a
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topic, the next time I go out the next time I interact with
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people, I will keep an eye on this. I will ask myself Okay,
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I'm going to talk to this personnel or I see this other
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person over there and what is their inner strength like? So
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what is inner strength? Is it confidence? Is it Yeah, a
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passion I willingness to be seen? Is it a person who knows
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his or her worth? Is it a person who is arrogant? Is that a
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person who is kind of elbow II and super competitive? How do
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you imagine would it feel to be in the presence of a person who
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has inner strength? Would it feel intimidating? Would it feel
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very good and warm and welcoming? Would you feel like
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you have to compete would it feel like something new that
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something that you've never experienced in your life? Take a
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moment now and try to describe for yourself. What means in a
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straight Thanks to you is it resilience is that love?
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Respect. When was the last time you felt very strong from the
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inside out? What were you doing? Who were you with
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I feel that inner strength can be seen in the eyes of a person.
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And maybe it's just me experiencing that way. it that
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way. I can also imagine feeling this in a person, because of the
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way they speak and choose their words.
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I feel I could sense inner strength in another person, and
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the way they're moving. The way they breathe and the vibe they
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give off, kind of assertive and clear. But at the same time,
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warmth and great empathy
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I can also imagine a person with inner strength will influence
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other people around him or her think a person with inner
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strength will deal with less bullshit, less pain, less
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suffering. Because they know how to set clear boundaries with
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their body language. They know how to communicate clearly to
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people what and who they are. When and where. All this to say
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they have a clear image, a clearer sense of self. And
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they're not trying to fulfill an image. They just feel that
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picture out. They have a very strong sense of who they are,
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what they want in life. Now if you're listening to this
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episode, and right now you don't really know what you want in
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life, you don't really know what your calling and your purposes,
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and you don't really quite figure out yet who you are.
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Don't despair, my friend. This is what we are here for. This is
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what we exploring. This is part of the human experience. And we
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can learn to get closer and closer and closer to that inner
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strength that I'm trying to describe today. The beautiful
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episode that I have listened to the other day was a story from
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years ago, I think 2013 And it was a woman telling her story
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about how she went home after a yoga lesson one night and a man
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then appeared behind her and started talking and she was
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listening to something on her phone. She had her earbuds and
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just noticed that yeah, there was somebody walking behind her
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and she just turned around, saw him and then kept walking didn't
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really react. And two, three more times he started talking to
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her and she just kept walking and the fourth time he grabbed
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her shoulder and turned her around. And it's only then that
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she saw that he had a gun and he wanted her phone in her wallet
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and at that moment, and she realized that he had a gun She
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stared him dead in the eyes. And she said she could feel her
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whole body she could. She felt so alive in such a weird
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situation, she felt so alive and it came shining through her
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eyes. And this guy just kept talking, and she didn't really
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like couldn't really hear because she was like in a, in a
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trance. And then he turned around and left. And of course,
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he described way more vividly than I just did. But what I want
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to come down to is that her batteries were fully charged,
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she totally knew who she was. She totally knew how much she
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wants to be on this planet, how much she wants to be alive. And
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she didn't cave. She didn't melt. She didn't freak out.
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When he was standing there with his gun. She just stood there
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with her energy facing him. And it made him crawl away. And then
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she turned around and walked home, as if nothing ever
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happened. And it's only after that she realized what just
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happened.
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But if she had done a wrong movement if she had started to
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you know, ask questions, start a conversation. Cave that
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situation could have turned out really differently. So it has
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that Moxie that aliveness, that passion to exist. Where you can
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start, you can start to know that you are so unique. Is
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nobody like you on this planet earth and we want to see you
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shine. The people who don't want to see your shine are actually
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intimidated by you. We need you to find out who you are. We need
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you to find out what you're calling us your purposes. And
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then we want you to recklessly share it with the people. With
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all of us. Your inner strength is something that you need to
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nurture every day. There will be situations in your daily life
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where you feel self doubt where you are not very clear. Hey,
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that person just attacked me that person just judged me. Is
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it really about me? Or is it about them? Did I really make a
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mistake and have to adjust and reflect and change for the
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better? Or is it other people protecting their shit onto me?
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You see, inner strength is not only about shining your light
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and being confident and knowing who you are. It's also knowing
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the difference. Now you fucked up. Now, another person is
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projecting it, their pain onto you and you don't need to take
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that shit. I'm going to leave you with that. If you have any
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questions if you want to know more about it. I'm totally
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excited to do another episode about this topic. And I'm always
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Yeah, so passionate, so curious to know where you guys are
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listening from. Maybe you want to drop me a line. Maybe you
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want to connect with me on Facebook and let me know your
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thoughts. And yeah, I'm gonna go and enjoy a snow day today. It's
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really cold in Canada again. take really good care of
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yourself and be on the quest of your inner strength and then
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enjoy it, feel it protected.
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Let other people see it was lots of love and respect. I will be
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out there for you very soon again. Bye bye
