Unlock the secrets to building strong relationships with opposing counsel in this episode of the Classroom 2 Courtroom podcast. Discover how mastering basic communication can improve outcomes in legal negotiations and reduce conflict. Learn strategies to foster trust and lead conversations towards understanding, promoting a cooperative dynamic. 

Join us to enhance your legal toolbox with techniques that transform adversarial interactions into constructive dialogues. Perfect for anyone in the legal field aiming for more effective courtroom and negotiation practices.  Visit classroom2courtroom.com for more resources and information.

Scott Benton: Hi everyone. Scott Benton here. How are you? I am the host of the Classroom 2 Courtroom podcast, where we help you easily transition from a law school student into your professional career as an attorney and where we make the practice of law fun. And today we're going to look at building relationships with opposing counsel.

Scott Benton: Today in order to help assist your overall use of the success cycle where performing legal services is concerned, we're going to take a look at building relationships with opposing counsel. Now generally speaking, when you've got a client who wants to negotiate with another party, that means there's going to be two sides.

Two clients and usually two attorneys. This means, as an attorney for your client, you're going to be interacting with the opposing party's attorney as you go back and forth in filing complaints, or negotiations, or trying to form a settlement that everyone can live with.

Now, this type of communication will go on indefinitely, in theory, until the case is settled and you or your client are no longer have any reason to talk to the opposing party.

This kind of conversation is what is called advocacy because you're advocating for your client on their behalf. But in order to build a relationship with opposing counsel, advocacy can become a barrier. Not all conversations need to have an agenda or become a negotiation or a competition. In order to build relationships with opposing counsel, you instead want to use basic communication without advocacy.

Advocacy communication includes conversations where persuasion, arguing, and defending a client's position are involved. This kind of advocacy would likely be used in legal negotiations, or hearings, or trials. or between one attorney or another when they're talking about their clients. It would also be largely used in business negotiations of all varieties which would largely include attorneys once the deal points have been finalized and drawn up for signature.

Then there's basic communication without advocacy that's used as a tool for building relationships. That includes the use of understanding. and professional relationship building, and it's more of a form of a casual conversation.

Instead of using language to argue and dissect points for positional gain, you're using language to build a basic human connection with one another. These types of conversations can go a long, long way in creating an atmosphere of mutual respect as you show genuine interest in the other attorney's perspective.

At first, opposing counsel may still be speaking from an advocacy position during the break in our scenario, but your tone and your approach may reset that interaction. Opposing counsel will likely pick up on what you're doing and humanize the conversation as well, so you both have a lot to benefit from, such Such as coming to a settlement more quickly by using basic communication. Without advocacy.

Breaks that are taken during trials and hearings, as it turns out, can be incredibly effective. In terms of advancing a case forward and finding a mutually satisfactory resolution for both parties, which stems from knowing how and when to use basic communication without advocacy and to use it to connect on a human level and less on an attorney level. So the bottom line is that it's important to know that there's a difference between communicating as an advocate, and communicating as a non advocate through the use of basic communication without advocacy.

I'm Scott Benton. I'm the host of the Classroom 2 Courtroom podcast. Thank you so much for stopping by and checking out this episode. Now, if this is a podcast that you like and you'd like to get more information about us, you can always visit our website@classroomtwocourtroom.com. That's classroom, the number two, courtroom.

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