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Episode 35417th March 2026 • Relationships Rule • Janice Porter
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In this episode of Relationships Rule, I had the pleasure of speaking with Jimmy Page, leadership expert, author, and co-creator of the powerful One Word philosophy.

Jimmy has spent decades helping leaders, teams, and organizations improve culture, performance, and purpose. Through his work with athletes, businesses, and ministries around the world, he has trained more than 100,000 leaders and continues to inspire people to live what he calls an unstoppable life.

During our conversation, Jimmy shared how the simple idea of choosing one guiding word for the year can bring clarity and focus to every area of life. Instead of setting long lists of goals that often fade away, the One Word approach helps people align their decisions, habits, and relationships around a single intention.

We also talked about the importance of relationships in shaping our lives and leadership. One of my favorite moments in this conversation was the story involving my previous guest, Coach Jim Johnson. When Coach Jim recently reconnected with Jimmy, he realized Jimmy had actually been one of the high school basketball players he coached years earlier. It was a wonderful reminder that relationships often come full circle in unexpected and meaningful ways.

Jimmy’s message is simple but powerful: when you focus on what truly matters, you not only perform better, you build stronger relationships and live with greater purpose.

Key Takeaways

• A single guiding word can bring clarity and intention to your life and leadership.

• Simplifying your focus often leads to stronger results than chasing many goals.

• Purpose and performance are deeply connected to the relationships we build along the way.

• Leaders who focus on culture, mindset, and wellness create stronger teams.

• The right word can act as a compass for decisions throughout the year.

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https://beunstoppable.live/ and https://getoneword.com/


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Janice Porter:

So today we're talking about living with

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purpose, performing at a high level, and the relationships

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that shape our journey along the way. My guest is Jimmy Page, a

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leadership and human performance expert, speaker and author of

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several books, including one word he's, I think 10x his

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author status, so I know he's got a lot of books out there.

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Jimmy helps individuals and organizations live what he calls

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an unstoppable life by focusing on purpose, health, mindset and

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leadership. There's also a special relationship connection

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behind this conversation, as Jimmy was introduced to me by a

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previous guest, coach Jim Johnson, and when Coach Jim

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recently reconnected with Jimmy, he realized that Jimmy had once

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been one of the high school basketball players he had

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coached, that kind of full circle moment reminds us just

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how powerful and lasting relationships can be.

Jimmy Page:

Jimmy, welcome to the show. Oh Janice, great to be

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here. Thanks for having me My pleasure,

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it's always interesting to me how one leads

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to another, to another, to another, and I love that. And I

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don't know if you know that when Coach when I was introduced to

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coach Jim, there were so many parallels to my husband,

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although my husband never quite made the the provincial

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championship, he was that close, like Coach Jim was for a while,

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but, but as a high school coach, basketball coach, he was revered

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by a lot of kids, and that went on into adulthood. So it's

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really kind of special to see someone like that. So I'm so

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that, to me, was really, really an interesting connection that

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you have with him. But let's start with the idea that has

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impacted so many people. Your One Word philosophy. How did it

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begin? Tell me about that a little bit Sure.

Jimmy Page:

You know, about 27 years ago now, Dan Britton and

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I, my co author, and then our third co author, John Gordon. We

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were kind of doing life together. And at the time, we

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really wanted to maximize our life. You know, we knew, we knew

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intuitively, that you only get one shot at this, and we wanted

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to take advantage of it and make it the most productive, most

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impactful that it could be. And at the time, we were writing new

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year's resolutions every year, every single year, we create a

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game plan. And I you could, if you could see, I wish I had

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saved some of these, but we had lists upon lists of things that

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we were going to get done, you know, relate to this, right?

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Yeah, these are all the things that we're going to get done

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this year. And inevitably, like most people, it didn't take very

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long to to lose focus and to have some frustration and

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failure, and then by the time you realized you, you know, you

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were off track. You had completely lost track of what

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you were going to accomplish for the year. So we were challenged

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by a friend to narrow our focus to one single word for the year,

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to kind of create a one word theme and to drive towards

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positive life change. You know, see how that word might change

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you from the inside out. And I was really intrigued by that

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Janice, because, you know, the to do list, everyone gets worn

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out by the to do list. And but boy, when you talk about a to be

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list, you know, let's say my word for the year was peace. I

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want to be a man of peace. I want to experience peace even in

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the middle of a storm. All of a sudden you're changing your own

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DNA. Yeah, that's Yeah. And what we discovered was we really

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focused more on who we were becoming, rather than what we

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were doing. And that was like a breath of fresh air for us, to

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be honest.

Janice Porter:

Yeah, it is, isn't it? Actually, it made you

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smile. It made me smile as soon as you started to talk about,

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oh, it's about being, not doing, and then the pressure is kind of

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different. It's, it, yes, feels like it takes the pressure off.

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I don't know that it actually does, but it's, you see it

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through different lenses, through a different lens, right?

Jimmy Page:

Oh, yeah. I mean, you enter the year with a

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positive expectation for the ways your life is going to

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change in a measurable way, you know. So for me, we talked about

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the six dimensions of life, you know, kind of your your mental,

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emotional, physical, relational, was a big one, spiritual and

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even financial. And we said, hey, what if this one single

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word could have broad impact on all aspects of our life? And

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then you start to look for it, right? You know, the power of

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your mindset. You know, I do a whole program called reset your

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mindset, and it talks about you. You find what you focus on. You

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know, you you actually get what you expect. So when we enter the

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new year with this positive expectation around a single

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word, which, by the way, remembering one word instead of

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15 resolutions.

Janice Porter:

Yes, for sure. You know, I did that for a

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while, and I'm just thinking I didn't do it this year, and I'm

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not sure why, but I remember last year's word. I did do that.

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It was rise, and yeah, and it was me wanting to rise. In

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different areas of my life and and I so I know exactly what

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you're talking about. I'm not sure why I didn't go with it

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this year with a word. I must have something. Must have been

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going on at the end of the year or something. I don't know. But

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so the other piece to that that I thought was really

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interesting, and I do want to, I think I have to get this book,

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and it's the one you did for children. Talk to me about that.

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How did that come to be? It's one word for kids, right? Is

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that?

Jimmy Page:

What the book's, yeah, one word for kids. And

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it's really it chronicles the story of a little boy in a in a

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school, and his journey to this, his journey, not only his, but

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his teachers and his classmates journey to find their words,

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their one word for the year. And, you know, these kids kind

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of go into the school year kind of, you know, wishing they were

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on summer break, yeah. And the teacher was like, hey, no, but

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we're going to have the greatest year ever, because you're going

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to pick a word for the year. It's going to help you be your

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best. And they all were like, well, what word is it? And we

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take them through the journey. It is absolutely my favorite

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book.

Janice Porter:

Oh, really, because, oh, my god, me, I'm a

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children's like I was a teacher, yeah, and I have my

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granddaughter now that I can bring into this fold. But what's

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what age group is that aimed at?

Jimmy Page:

It's really, I would say, kind of four to 10, four to

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four to nine, four to 10, you know. And so it's kind of that

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early school age, you know. And what we discovered was kids

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intuitively know what word they want for the really, really,

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maybe, you know, I think as adults, we've got a lot of lot

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of baggage in the way to destroy,

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yeah, there's so no filters, and it's, yeah,

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yeah, it's easier. I am going to test it with my granddaughter,

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because she's six and a half. But, yeah, so we'll see where it

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goes. But, you know, we did. We do a lot of the I am statements,

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the affirmations and things like that, but, but this, this, yeah,

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be interesting. Her birthday is in July, and I think that's

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probably a good time to do. It actually, is that perfect? Yeah.

Jimmy Page:

I mean, we've seen it done throughout the year. You

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know, I would say that the most intuitive times of year is

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around the New Year, yes. And then it's during the school year

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for sure. Oh, start of school, yeah. And then we've had just

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incredible success, kind of linking back to Coach Johnson,

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with teams. I mean, we've, we've rolled this out with literally

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1000s and 1000s of teams at every level, from middle school

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to high school, college professional all the way to

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Olympics. Love it. And that singular focus really gives

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people the the what they need to be really

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and you can draw them back by reminding them of

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that word, right? Yes, yeah, that's very cool. Well, on that

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note, do you have any like, one story that sticks out for you

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that with with a team or a company or whatever that you

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taught this process to, and that something major magic happened?

Jimmy Page:

I think one of the stories kind of at that at that

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collegiate level, that team level is at the University of

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Virginia, okay? And they, this was in probably, I think 2017

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the team was the best team in the country they were going into

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the was

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it basketball? It was basketball, okay, yes, best

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basketball team in the country. They were going

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into March Madness, which is the tournament here. And they were

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the number one seed. They played the number 16 seed in their

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bracket. A number one seed had never lost to a 16 seed ever,

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right, right? And they and they did, oh my goodness. And you

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know the coach, Tony Bennett, who's probably one of the

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greatest coaches that ever lived, just a great man cared

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about his players. Great man of God. He he knew he was at a

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crossroads, you know, like, hey, this team could fall apart. This

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is embarrassing. And everybody knew it was embarrassing. And he

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said, What are we going to do for next year? And he said, Hey,

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we're going to have all the players select their one word

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for the year, which they did every year. And then he said,

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Hey, let's, let's create a team word that will keep us together.

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And they all weighed in on this, and they chose the word family

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and and he, you know, you could see their their shirts, they had

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their warm up jerseys. Had had family across the front. And it

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really reminded them that, you know, listen, families go

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through hard times. And how do families respond to hard times?

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Well, they come together, they root for each other. They

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believe the best in each other. And then that season, 2018, you

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know that again, best team in the country playing the 16th

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seed in their bracket. This time they win. But not only do they

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win that game, but they win the entire tournament. And I think

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that shows the power of focus that creates unity.

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Unity. Were they playing in the final?

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I don't even remember we do matter because

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they want,

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no, it doesn't matter. But I'm just curious,

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because we do March Madness here. Oh yeah, yeah, we do, but,

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but yeah. Great story. Great story. Did the how many of those

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members of that team were, were coming, we're back in that year

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like. How many they

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had an event, I think the majority of their kids

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were back. Okay, yeah, the majority of their kids were

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back. And which was, you know, which was great because they had

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lived through the disappointment of that season and then had

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turned it around the next year, which is pretty cool.

Janice Porter:

Yeah, that's very cool story. Thank you for

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sharing that. So I love the story about Coach Jim Johnson

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realizing that he, or I think he was, you can tell me the story

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of how you two reconnected, because it was after what, 40

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years. 4030, years.

Jimmy Page:

It's hard to admit how long it's been. Yes,

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and I want to know what that moment meant to

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you and what it says about the long term impact of

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relationships. Yeah.

Jimmy Page:

Well, Coach Johnson, he was my, my JV coach in high

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school, okay? And then he was the assistant coach for our

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varsity program when I, when I moved up so and we won a couple

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championships during during that era, he, I remembered him early,

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you know, for years and years as just one of the best coaches

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that I had ever been around really cared about people.

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Wasn't your typical yelling, scream coach, you know, he was

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kind of a new, new style coach way back then, and we had not

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kept in touch at all. I had followed the Greece Athena

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program, which is where I went to school, and I had seen that

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he had had some notoriety around playing the one of his one of

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his players who had autism, Jay Mac, Jay Mac. It's a very famous

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story, and I'm sure you mentioned this 20 years ago this

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year, yeah, which is amazing. So I saw all of that, but we had

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never reconnected. And just recently, over the last three,

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four or five months, we reconnected. He he got in,

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introduced to the one word book, and then the person that

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introduced him to that connected him with my co author, Dan, and

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then, and then Jim was like, Wait a minute. He saw the book

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with Jimmy Page on. He goes, that's, is that the same guy. So

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then he reached out to me. We got reconnected, and then,

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honestly, it's been the highlight of it was definitely

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one of the highlights of 2025 was reconnecting with a coach

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after, after, really, 40 years.

Janice Porter:

Yeah, isn't that lovely? That's so cool. So can I

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share a little story I'd like to on that same note, my daughter

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was going to Brazil on business to Sao. Paulo, however you say

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it, Paulo. And she said to us, do we know anybody there? And I

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said, I don't know. I think we do. I think a player that Vern

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used my dad, your dad used to coach, lives there. Let me

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check, and I looked on LinkedIn, and we were connected. And sure

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enough, he's in Sao Paulo, and we connected him and my

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daughter. And he then he said, Oh, have her call me when she

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gets here, because she was coming on the weekend. She

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didn't know anybody there before her meeting started, and he took

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her to amazing restaurant for lunch. They had a, you know,

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great picture taken so he could send it back to my husband. And

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he also said, because he had come from Brazil for one year to

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Canada in his grade 12 year, and he played basketball that year

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for my husband, and it was amazing. It was one of his best

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teams, and and, and he went to the school that my husband

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taught at, and so that was just one year, but those memories

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were so good for him that he wants his daughter, who's now in

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grade 12, to come to the same place. He's a volley she's a

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volleyball player. His son is a basketball player, but is

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younger, but that experience meant so much to him that he

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wants it to Yeah. So it was really cool and amazing, yeah.

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And it kind of speaks to the long term impact of

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relationships in your life, even though you don't see the person

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or maybe not even talk to them, it's there as soon as it's

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reconnected or rekindled, right? Which is so important, and I

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love that. Okay? I know that you also talk about living in an

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unstoppable life, and that's what you do in your coaching and

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your leadership training. What role would you say that health

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mindset and relationships play then in sustaining that kind of

Janice Porter:

unstoppable life. Well, I,

Jimmy Page:

you know, it's interesting. You were talking

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about generational connections, right? You're talking about year

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over year relationships. And I do think just to tie, tie that

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one point down, I think sport in particular. You know,

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participation in sport, the relationship with a coach is so

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unique. The relationship with your teammates is because you

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know you suffer together. You have you have shared suffering

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and shared success. And I think those are two ingredients,

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truthfully, that really forge the best relationships,

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regardless of whether it's in in team sports or. Whether it's in

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your family, you know the things that bind you are when you can

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go through hard things together, yeah, and emerge on the other

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side of that, or you can celebrate successes together.

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And you know, we have a saying in our family, like, hey, when

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one page wins, we all win. We celebrate a lot. So somebody put

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something in the group chat about success they've had. We

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will, we will say, every time, hey, when one page wins, we all

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win. We're celebrating, you know. And so I think there's

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something really important about the relationships, if you have a

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healthy mindset. And I talk a lot about mindset, right?

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Because real life transformation starts in your in your mind, if

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you you know, in fact, I believe that real transformation starts

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in the renewing of the way you think. So if you don't get

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control of your thinking, your thinking will control you.

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There's no, no doubt about it, you have to take control of the

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inner conversation that you have and make it serve you, rather

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than than you being controlled by that narrative. What we've

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learned is that 80% of of people's internal dialog is

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negative. According to science, that's that's pretty bad news.

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Person on your shoulder all the time. Yeah, yes, and it's almost

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always negative, and 95% of the conversation is repetitive, so

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you're essentially reinforcing negativity in your life over and

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over and over again. It's very hard to have healthy

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relationships if you don't fix your mindset, if you don't

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really work on the way you think, because your natural

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neurologically connected response is almost always

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negative, complaining, blaming somebody else, making excuses.

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So if you can go to work, you know you'll you'll make a big

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difference.

Janice Porter:

Okay, so you go in front of groups of people and

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you talk about that, or you work with people one on one and you

Janice Porter:

talk about that, but you can talk till you're blue in the

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face. Something has to snap for them. It has to be, is it, is it

Janice Porter:

when they're at their lowest, or is it just, they're tired, you

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know? They're just sick and tired of being sick and tired,

Janice Porter:

is it? Do you ever like, do you know? Do you notice when the

Janice Porter:

light goes on for someone and what's usually happening?

Jimmy Page:

Yeah, I do exercises in in my workshops and keynotes,

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so people can experience the power of their mind, the power

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of focus. And so they they see it, they feel it right away, and

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they laugh about it, because they're like, Wow, okay, I knew

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that, but now I know it. And you know, if I ask people, Hey, how

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many of you think that over half of your internal dialog is

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positive, I want you to stand up. I will tell you most people

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stand Yeah, okay. And then when I prove it to them that most of

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their dialog is negative, they're like, Okay, I'm going to

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listen to this guy, because they overestimate their own

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positivity. But what we know is the people that are most

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successful in life, that are most successful in

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relationships, that that enjoy life, most are the ones that

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actually work on their mental game as much as they do any

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other aspect of their game. So if it's in business, you know,

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we're all growing in some way, shape or form, right? We're

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reading leadership books and we're working on that we also,

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if we're in any kind of physical competition, will train our

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bodies to be healthy. But very, very few people actually work on

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rewiring their brain, right? And so when I take them through

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exercises that actually will rewire their brain, and I show

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them neurologically how it happens, like you can't help but

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have light bulbs go on now whether or not you're going to

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do the work, and by the way, I give them tools and exercises

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that if they do them, I guarantee you their mindset and

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their way of thinking will change over time, because

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neurologically, they're rewiring their brain, and once they can,

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if they can get a little momentum, do it for a week, do

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it for two weeks, they see a little momentum, then they

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become believers, pretty quickly.

Janice Porter:

So who do you generally work with?

Jimmy Page:

Well, I work with companies, large and small. I

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work with executive teams. I work with leadership teams. I

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work with any sports related teams, of course, coaches and

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athletes, but any any business of any side, so anything from

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entrepreneurs to seasoned business vets. I, you know, if I

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gave you my, you know, some people on my client list, you

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go, I know them. Oh, I know them. You know, because I really

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like to work with high performers, because they get it

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and they will implement what you're telling them right away,

Jimmy Page:

and they get better fast. You know, a lot of times, if you

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have an underperforming group, people that chronically

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underperform are generally, oh boy, they don't have the

Jimmy Page:

toughness to. Stick it out. Yeah, yeah. And so you have, and

Jimmy Page:

I'm not there to motivate him beyond that, but if you can

Jimmy Page:

change the culture of the organization, then you've got a

Jimmy Page:

real chance at transforming individual lives, for sure, and

Janice Porter:

the team. So you have to start at the top. No,

Janice Porter:

not

Jimmy Page:

necessarily, okay, that's like, it's like any other

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relationship, or any other leadership you know, you might

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find yourself at the bottom of the ladder, so to speak, and and

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you may find yourself even frustrated by the people that

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you're reporting to. Maybe they're not great leaders. Maybe

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they're they manipulate, or maybe they're passive

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aggressive, whatever. But what we teach people at the bottom of

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the ladder, so to speak, is you can lead up, and the best way to

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lead up is to lead by example and to continue to bring your

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very, very best, regardless of the leadership that's above you.

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So you know, for me, you know I will never blame someone else

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for my inability to become my best. They don't hold that

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power. They don't

Janice Porter:

hold you know, what you've got to package that

Janice Porter:

like and, yeah, that's the thing right there. Because, yeah, I

Janice Porter:

know when I talk to people that long, I'm thinking of somebody

Janice Porter:

in particular that you want to help to get over that negativity

Janice Porter:

that's constant, and you can't do it for them. Yeah, it's very

Janice Porter:

frustrating, and you want to help, but you can't, yeah, you

Janice Porter:

know, except to model something different, I suppose, yeah.

Jimmy Page:

And in that case, you know, like, part of it is

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you can't help everybody, like you said, you know, I've been

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around people that I've given them the tools, tried to hold

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them accountable, and they just for one reason or another, self

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sabotage, yeah, generally, people like that need to bottom

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out before they can be resurrected, so to speak. Yeah,

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that's true, and I don't spend a lot of time with people like

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that anymore, because I want to spend 99.9% of my time with

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people that are actually going to do things and become the type

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of man or woman that they're made to be, because then you

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have multiplication effect, you know, when people are actually

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making forward progress? Yeah.

Janice Porter:

So I also noticed in your bio that you have been a

Janice Porter:

Spartan racer. Yeah? Tell me about that, because that takes a

Janice Porter:

lot of, a lot of a lot.

Jimmy Page:

Yeah, it's, it's a great it's for those who aren't

Jimmy Page:

familiar with it. Spartan racing is obstacle course racing

Janice Porter:

with a lot of mud. I think, no, oh yeah, oh

Janice Porter:

yeah, there's a lot of mud.

Jimmy Page:

Yeah, the mud is the mud is more for the mental

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fatigue than anything else. It is a physical barrier. But boy,

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oh boy. So I would say that the you know, Spartan racing,

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obstacle course racing, like that, is really designed for

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mental toughness, physical toughness, and then I would say

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relational community for sure. Okay, and so for me, it's a way

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to continue to get outside of my comfort zone, to push far beyond

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my limits, or the the limiting beliefs that I may have to

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continue as I get older, to prove what I'm made of and what

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I have inside of me to create tests that make me better. You

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know, you can't forge steel without really hot fire. So I

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like putting myself in environments that are really

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super hard, challenging myself in that way, and then getting

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other people to do it as well. Well, I think that

Janice Porter:

kind of speaks to you walking the walk, because

Janice Porter:

you're testing yourself and your limits, and as you try to teach

Janice Porter:

others to do the same, yeah, yeah. Do you have children?

Jimmy Page:

Yes, yeah, yeah. I've got four kids. They're all

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grown.

Janice Porter:

Yeah. And did they did? Did they would you say

Janice Porter:

they're a chip off the old block, or would you say that you

Janice Porter:

they're still works in progress?

Jimmy Page:

Oh, man. I mean, they're each uniquely amazing in

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in the way that they've been created, you know? So I would

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say that if you if you ask people that know my kids, they

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would say they would tell you exactly the qualities that they

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got from me and from their mom, and we'd have a good laugh about

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it, you know, I think for them, I'm really proud of each one of

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them. They're four, three boys and a girl. Yeah, my daughter's

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the baby. She's 23 okay? And my oldest son is 31 then 2926 so,

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you know, they have, I think they've kind of, they've learned

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that that they're made with a purpose, you know, we were a

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family of faith, you know, we we raised our kids in a Christian

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home. So we've got very, very deep, abiding faith. We believe

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that God created them with incredible purpose, and part of

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their life is to discover the unique ways that they're made,

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and then do things that they're passionate about, that they love

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doing. And if they can do that, they're going to live a life

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that's rich and satisfying and meaningful. So I think each one

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of them knows that, hey, you've got one shot at this. Make the

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most of it, and along the way, you know, if you're if you're

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honoring God, then you're probably going to. Hit the

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target with people relationally as well.

Janice Porter:

Okay, I'll accept that you have grandkids.

Jimmy Page:

Any grandkids? No grandkids, yeah. Well, that's

Janice Porter:

a whole different story I gotta tell you, and it's

Janice Porter:

the best for someone who's listening, who feels scattered

Janice Porter:

or pulled in too many directions. How would you

Janice Porter:

suggest they begin discovering their word. I'm going to go back

Janice Porter:

to the one word. How do they find a way to discover their one

Janice Porter:

word?

Jimmy Page:

You know, that's the beauty of the process. So in the

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book, we map out three steps. And the first step is to look in

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right? And what we coach people to do is unplug from all the

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noise in the business. Leave your phone behind. You know,

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unplug. Find a quiet place, a contemplate a place. Go for a

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run or walk, unplug from the chaos of life, and during that

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time, contemplate a handful of questions, first starting with,

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hey, what do I need most? You know, if there was one word that

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would capture what I need most to be my best, what would it be,

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what are some things that are in the way? What are some things

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that probably need to go or need to get refined out of my life?

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And then, once you start answering these questions, words

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come to mind, you know, because you if you learn that, hey, what

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I really need is x, you know, I need to be brave. I need more

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courage. I need more peace or patience, whatever those things

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are, words start to bubble to the surface in this process,

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okay? And in then what we tell people is to journal them, you

Jimmy Page:

know, write them down, put them on paper, let it sit for a

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couple days. And then I think in that process, you're asking the

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question, if there was one single word for the year that I

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could focus on, they would have the greatest positive impact on

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who I am as a person and the impact I can have on others.

Jimmy Page:

What would it be and just unplugging long enough? Like,

Jimmy Page:

the discipline of unplugging for people is very hard,

Janice Porter:

yeah, yes, it is very it's especially for people

Janice Porter:

like me who like to multitask.

Jimmy Page:

Oh yeah, yeah. And multitask. You know, the

Jimmy Page:

definition of multitasking is just the ability to screw up

Jimmy Page:

more than one thing at the same time. Yeah?

Janice Porter:

And I believe there really isn't such a thing.

Janice Porter:

It's really sequential. So I know that. But yeah, that's

Janice Porter:

good. So okay, that makes me actually want to ask. So I

Janice Porter:

didn't pick a word this year, so it's not too late, is it?

Jimmy Page:

No, absolutely not. I mean, you think about it,

Jimmy Page:

you've got, what, nine or 10 more months left. So I think

Jimmy Page:

that

Janice Porter:

process, I will do that. Yeah, absolutely yeah.

Janice Porter:

I like that. All right. Last question on this, if listeners

Janice Porter:

took one step today toward living with more purpose and

Janice Porter:

stronger relationships, what would you encourage them to do

Jimmy Page:

that's great. One step, I think there's, there's

Jimmy Page:

an old proverb that says, Consider other people as more

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important than yourself considering their needs. And I

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think relationally, when I can consider the needs of my spouse,

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of my family as as really important, you know, because

Jimmy Page:

honestly, Janice, I am, like most people, a desperately

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selfish person left to my own devices, to be honest. You know,

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I think about the things I need to do, what I want, all these,

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all these things, when you can consider some other people in

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your life as at least equally important to you, but I would

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argue, even more important, then you walk with some humility. You

Jimmy Page:

are always curious about what you can do to make their day.

Jimmy Page:

You know? I mean, you know, I heard it said I watched a couple

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on social media. I'm not a big fan of social media, but for a

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number of reasons, but I think it can be helpful. And there was

Jimmy Page:

this couple on they said, What's the secret? You seem so happy

Jimmy Page:

how long you've been married? And they said, Oh, we've been

Jimmy Page:

married for 40 years, and they were vibrantly healthy and happy

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and obviously loved each other. And they said, you know, the man

Jimmy Page:

said, hey, you know, I woke up in the morning thinking, what's

Jimmy Page:

something I can do to make her day? And she said, I do the same

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thing. I get up and I say, what's something I can do to

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make my husband's day? And if they're both doing that, boy,

Jimmy Page:

that results in an incredible relationship over time.

Jimmy Page:

You know, not perfect rare birds, but, yeah, beautiful,

Jimmy Page:

right? But you think

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about it, Janice, it's a decision, right? Yes, they're

Jimmy Page:

rare birds only because very few people choose to do it, but all

Jimmy Page:

of us could choose to do that. How easy? How easy is that?

Janice Porter:

Yeah, exactly, yeah, very, yeah. That's very

Janice Porter:

cool. So thank you for those words of wisdom. Before we go, I

Janice Porter:

just want to ask a couple of quick questions. So one is, how

Janice Porter:

do you mostly get your information these days? Do you

Janice Porter:

read it? Do you do it off the internet? Do you listen to it?

Janice Porter:

Do you watch stuff? What's your favorite?

Jimmy Page:

Well, I'm an avid reader, and I don't, I don't, I

Jimmy Page:

read an actual book, right? So studies, studies will show you

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that you don't remember anything that you read online, very

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little. In fact, all, almost all, online learning is, I hate

Jimmy Page:

to say it, but a waste of time. Most learning has to take place

Jimmy Page:

in dimensional in. Attention. So your brain files information

Jimmy Page:

according to tactile experience. So you have to have a physical

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thing. So for me, I read books. You know, I'm reading several.

Jimmy Page:

Part of thing is I read several books at the same time. Yes, I

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do listen to podcasts, and I take notes from those podcasts

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of really respected leaders in my life that really, that I know

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are what I would consider ahead ahead of me, thought leaders

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that you know, or people that communicate so clearly and so

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simply that I can implement it and those things you know,

Jimmy Page:

there's one guy in particular. His name is Craig Groeschel. He

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has a leadership podcast. I think he's one of the world's

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preeminent communicators. And I listen to his stuff all the

Jimmy Page:

time, always great content. And then I read books from authors

Jimmy Page:

who have lived lives that I that I admire.

Janice Porter:

Yeah, that's cool. There's so much out there

Janice Porter:

nowadays. I mean, it's, you're inundated, and you, you. I think

Janice Porter:

for me, I love books, but I don't read fast enough. I don't

Janice Porter:

read. I don't sit down and read. I've got to be doing two things

Janice Porter:

at once, or I'll fall asleep or something. But like, I don't

Janice Porter:

know, I watched something. I actually, I went downstairs

Janice Porter:

after working yesterday, and I had to go out for dinner. I had

Janice Porter:

to, I chose to go out for dinner. It was lovely, but I

Janice Porter:

wasn't feeling well, and I said to my husband, I just want to

Janice Porter:

watch something on TV so I can fall asleep for five minutes,

Janice Porter:

right? Which, that's what it does for me when I'm not, you

Janice Porter:

know, doing knitting or or doing a puzzle or doing something at

Janice Porter:

the same time. So it worked, but not for very long, but maybe

Janice Porter:

five minutes. But it just refreshed me. So that was good.

Janice Porter:

Yeah, so, but I'm also a curious person, and so I love to meet

Janice Porter:

new people. I love to talk to new people, and that's, I think,

Janice Porter:

where I'm getting my stimulation, as opposed to

Janice Porter:

trying to read a book that I'll fall asleep in the middle of.

Janice Porter:

But I do love books, and I will get the one word book, I'm

Janice Porter:

definitely going to deal with that the next of the while. So

Janice Porter:

thank you. Thank you for your insights, and thank you for

Janice Porter:

reminding us that clarity of purpose and strong relationships

Janice Porter:

are powerful forces in both life and business. Where can people

Janice Porter:

find you? I'm I will put it in the show notes, and so they can

Janice Porter:

learn more about you and and and your one word philosophy and the

Janice Porter:

work that you do.

Jimmy Page:

Yes, easiest way to reach me is at my website. It's

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be unstoppable. Dot live, all spelled out, B, E, unstoppable,

Jimmy Page:

dot live. And there's ways to connect with me directly, right

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through the website. And we also have a website called get one

Jimmy Page:

word.com and that has all things related to the one word process.

Jimmy Page:

Yeah, one

Janice Porter:

word.com Okay, perfect. And thank you to my

Janice Porter:

listeners, and remember that success in business and in life

Janice Porter:

is always built on relationships. So remember to

Janice Porter:

stay connected and be remembered. You.

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