Join me for the forth episode in the Soul-Care Series for a ritual-like auditory journey through the fire element.
I took a few RISKS in this episode, as I embodied the fire through my creation process. I was honest, I was direct, and the last chunk of air time is dedicated to a somatic attunement to the fire itself. I invite you to light a candle on your altar with me before you listen...
and be prepared to DANCE.
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Welcome dreamers, seekers, empaths, and healers! My name is Amanda Lux of the Elevation Hive school and community membership for energy medicine and dreamwork. In this podcast, I share teachings, musings, poems, songs, and interviews with other amazing humans who walk the healer's path.
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fire.
Speaker:I am furious.
Speaker:Action, never tempted by distraction.
Speaker:My will, my bow, my arrow, my quill.
Speaker:I am the visionary master of my destiny.
Speaker:Sharp, loud, fast, strong.
Speaker:I long for new beginnings, spontaneity to live wild and free.
Speaker:Chaotically, crazed, and delicious.
Speaker:I am burning through the yearning.
Speaker:Flames, devouring, destroying, giving, taking with sparks that fly.
Speaker:I am the war cry, the eye of the storm.
Speaker:The gaze warm and bright as the sun.
Speaker:My power propelling my light, compelling and free.
Speaker:I devour and delight as you cower before me.
Speaker:I am the bow, the arrow, righteous action, never tempted by distraction or desire.
Speaker:I am fire.
Speaker:Welcome to a Lone Traveler's Guide to the Divine, a podcast for
Speaker:seekers, healers, dreamers, and anyone on their healer's journey.
Speaker:My name is Amanda Lux, and this episode is all about fire which
Speaker:relates to our third chakra.
Speaker:The emotional qualities, the energetic qualities associated with fire are anger
Speaker:and rage, as well as enthusiasm and action and focus, these kinds of energies
Speaker:can be both supportive and dangerous,
Speaker:so in this series we've been exploring the ways we can tend to ourselves,
Speaker:elementally, and the challenge points that each of the elements bring that offer us
Speaker:opportunities to grow and learn and heal.
Speaker:And so with the Ether element, we were talking about grief and bliss, and ether
Speaker:is that very first incarnation of energy into physical form, through sound,
Speaker:through inspiration, through spirit,
Speaker:and then as ether moves into air, it becomes thought and communication.
Speaker:And that's, you know, can take the form of anxiety and overwhelm, or it can take
Speaker:the form of judgment and envy, or it can be compassion and unconditional love.
Speaker:And as the air element moves down in its vibrational qualities, in
Speaker:its frequency, it becomes fire..
Speaker:In our body.
Speaker:That's the third chakra in the solar plexus, when we become embodied enough to
Speaker:take action in the world, in the physical.
Speaker:And so the fire has qualities of being very direct and very clear and very
Speaker:focused when it is in alignment and we're channeling fire in its purest
Speaker:sense, we are in our true power.
Speaker:We know what to do and how to do it, and we don't think about it.
Speaker:We just do it.
Speaker:We take the actions that need to be taken.
Speaker:We are about focus and direction, and we have that visionary.
Speaker:Capacity Through the eyes, the fire shows up in three different areas
Speaker:of the body and polarity, and one of them is, is through our eyes and our
Speaker:forehead in the Aries of the fire.
Speaker:And then as we move down it to the solar plexus, it's the Leo that shining sun.
Speaker:And then as we move down into the thighs of the Sagittarius, it's those large
Speaker:muscles that help us to run and to, to take forward momentum in our lives.
Speaker:To actually go out and accomplish, and achieve, and fire is incredibly, amazingly
Speaker:helpful as an ally for getting anything started or getting things initiat.
Speaker:we can use it to protect the boundaries that the earth holds.
Speaker:So the fire is the protector of our boundaries.
Speaker:Fire can be the, the most potent ingredient if we wanna
Speaker:organize and, , create change.
Speaker:If we wanna up rise, if we want to channel our anger and rage in a healthy way, we
Speaker:want to be in right relationship with fire
Speaker:you might remember, , the first time you encountered fire when you were little.
Speaker:I don't remember my own first encounter, but I remember my son,
Speaker:first time he touched a light bulb and he learned the word hot.
Speaker:That was an unpleasant experience, right?
Speaker:He got burned, his little tender fingers, and so I remember . That event.
Speaker:And it reminds me how Fire teaches us to be in touch with our humility.
Speaker:Because when we get too close, we get burned.
Speaker:Or when we let it get out of control or untended, when we ignore it, it can
Speaker:internally combust and when we, don't honor our fire, , in a healthy way.
Speaker:Then
Speaker:it can come out in outbursts.
Speaker:It can come out in unhealthy ways in violence,
Speaker:So it's good to have a healthy respect for fire, to be a little humble when we
Speaker:relate to it because again, , it does deal with our power, our personal power.
Speaker:And to be in right relationship with our power is to know the
Speaker:difference between our authentic truth and our ego, and to be able.
Speaker:Really discern between the two, when we talk about soul care and how we
Speaker:can tend to our fire elementally and to the fire of the world, right?
Speaker:This question of what does it really mean to be in right
Speaker:relationship with the fire.
Speaker:And I think that's a really important thing for us to contemplate
Speaker:in this episode, and what I would like to explore with you
Speaker:As we invoke the energies of fire as an ally and a wise teacher.
Speaker:This being human is a guest house every morning, a new arrival, a joy, a
Speaker:depression, a meanness, some momentary awareness comes as an unexpected visitor.
Speaker:Welcome and entertain them.
Speaker:Even if they're a crowd of sorrows, who violently sweep your
Speaker:house, empty of its furniture, still treat each guest honorably.
Speaker:He may be clearing you out for some new delight.
Speaker:The dark thought, the shame, the malice.
Speaker:Meet them at the door laughing and invite them in.
Speaker:Be grateful for whoever comes because each has been sent as a guide from beyond.
Speaker:As I was contemplating how I wanted to approach talking about the fire
Speaker:element, this, in this episode, I came across that poem in two
Speaker:different ways in two days, and.
Speaker:It's a beautiful poem by Rumi that I've heard many times.
Speaker:I'm sure you have probably as well.
Speaker:And I thought it was just absolutely perfect for sitting around the
Speaker:fire of this discussion and kind of looking at how we can relate to
Speaker:fire in the healthiest way possible.
Speaker:How we can invite its lessons in a way that, that doesn't burn, or
Speaker:at least not too harshly, right?
Speaker:That can keep us warm and alive and vibrant without, you know,
Speaker:burning our, our house down.
Speaker:The way that I think this poem speaks to that is, is.
Speaker:The invitation to treat each of our emotions and the, uh, conditions that,
Speaker:that greet us in life as guests and to.
Speaker:Acknowledge and honor them for their wisdom and the teachings
Speaker:that they come to offer us.
Speaker:We can recognize that these visitors are not us.
Speaker:They are not the home we live in.
Speaker:They are just passing through.
Speaker:And when we relate to each of these energetic qualities as honorable guests,
Speaker:as wise visitors, as teachers, and we take the time to get to know them.
Speaker:To invite them to our table for tea and to ask them questions or to maybe go
Speaker:on a walk fire would probably rather walk than sit or maybe dance it out.
Speaker:But it has something for us always, something that either in the
Speaker:energies of our lives or in the energies of ourselves that need to
Speaker:be witnessed, that need to be heard.
Speaker:So in answer to that question, how do we create a relationship with
Speaker:the fire, with our anger, with our rage and our enthusiasm, with our
Speaker:gumption to to do and take action?
Speaker:How do we create a healthy relationship with our fire?
Speaker:I think that really comes down to how can we observe with curiosity, listen.
Speaker:Be willing to be courageous and sit down and hear what our
Speaker:energies have to say to us.
Speaker:Take the time to get to know them and to not be so overly identified.
Speaker:Dr.
Speaker:Stone has this great section.
Speaker:He's the creator of polarity therapy in one of his volumes.
Speaker:Where he's discussing the fivefold combinations and it's, it's in a piece
Speaker:called Inquiry into the Gross Body.
Speaker:. So , there's five elements and each element contains all the other elements.
Speaker:And he's saying roughly fire is only about half fire.
Speaker:And then it's also made up.
Speaker:Of water and earth and air and ether.
Speaker:Those are the other four parts.
Speaker:And the fifth part would be making up half of the hole, which is fire itself.
Speaker:So within each element are all the elements.
Speaker:And he goes through the fivefold combinations of each of these elements
Speaker:and how they show up for each other and in the negative pull or the
Speaker:challenge points of the fire as it, uh, manifests through the other elements.
Speaker:He writes this hunger, sleep, thirst, luster, laziness.
Speaker:Hunger is the main quality of fire.
Speaker:Sleep is produced by the combination of space with fire.
Speaker:Thirst is produced by the combination of wind with fire.
Speaker:Luster is produced by the combination of water with fire.
Speaker:Laziness is produced by the combination of earth with fire hunger.
Speaker:Thirst, luster and laziness.
Speaker:I am not.
Speaker:These are objects and I am able to see they are not mine.
Speaker:They belong to the elements noted above,
Speaker:I just think it's fascinating that the way that he describes the qualities of
Speaker:fire and how they show up in the gross body, right in the densest versions of
Speaker:themselves and of our physical experience.
Speaker:And my favorite part is he lists all of these qualities
Speaker:and he says, I am not these.
Speaker:I am not these things, these are objects that I am able to see and
Speaker:observe and be in relationship with.
Speaker:They belong to the elements.
Speaker:They don't belong to me.
Speaker:They are visitors, they are guests, and yet we are made of all of these
Speaker:things, but they are not us at the same.
Speaker:One of my favorite references to this is in the Hawaiian.
Speaker:Tradition.
Speaker:The idea that what we truly are is spirit greatness, and they have a
Speaker:way of describing our emotions as opposed to saying, I am angry.
Speaker:You would say, , I am spirit greatness, having an experience with anger.
Speaker:And this is one of my favorite ways to approach the challenging
Speaker:experiences that life has to offer is with this kind of observation.
Speaker:And usually in order to get there for myself personally, I
Speaker:start out in the midst of it.
Speaker:I, I always start out in the forgetting place.
Speaker:Otherwise, I wouldn't be challenged at all.
Speaker:And sometimes for me, the way that my challenge with fire shows
Speaker:up is I push too hard, too fast in the beginning and I burn out.
Speaker:And even when I was preparing to record this, I lit a candle.
Speaker:I have this little beautiful.
Speaker:Oil lamp candle that I lit, and the flame was huge, and I'm like, this is perfect.
Speaker:I have this giant flame to inspire me for this episode.
Speaker:And sure enough, it, it just burned itself out within minutes
Speaker:and I thought, this is hilarious.
Speaker:It's just completely demonstrating, you know, my own issue with fire.
Speaker:And so I went and I got a different candle.
Speaker:That a friend of mine made, and I lit this candle, but the flame was so small,
Speaker:and even now it barely looks lit.
Speaker:It is just a glowing orange wick, really.
Speaker:There's no actual flame to it, but it's not completely extinguished.
Speaker:It's just the tiniest flame.
Speaker:So the contrast to me, Absolutely hilarious, and I thought, well, this
Speaker:is perfect because this candle, even though it barely has any light coming
Speaker:off of it, will, will last through the whole episode, if not longer.
Speaker:It's, it's not going anywhere.
Speaker:Whereas the really big flame burned itself out.
Speaker:It, it ate up all that oil right away.
Speaker:It was so hungry, it needed a lot of energy and it consumed
Speaker:itself really quickly.
Speaker:And I, I tend to have that experience in my life where I just have all this gusto
Speaker:and ambition and excitement and I dive in and then I get kind of burned out.
Speaker:And it really can be, that can be my negative pull experience where
Speaker:I'm like exhausted and frustrated.
Speaker:And inevitably, that often tends to.
Speaker:Initiate a feeling of failure or a lack of confidence will start to come in.
Speaker:This comes up for me.
Speaker:And I, I meet it in different ways, listening to my own, , patterns,
Speaker:observing them and being willing to learn and to get burned a little
Speaker:bit, yet to like, just honor it.
Speaker:So I think for myself, I would say, how do I meet the negative pole of any element?
Speaker:How do I greet these unwanted visitors, these guests as as honorable teachers?
Speaker:And how do I make them allies for myself and my soul on my path?
Speaker:And I think what I would say, Is just through curiosity and through
Speaker:attention, just being willing to listen and to hear what they have to say.
Speaker:Fire is also about embodiment . The fire element is that third chakra place
Speaker:of power where we come into physical manifestation, where we get to be form.
Speaker:And flesh and muscle where we get to actually take our ideas and our
Speaker:inspirations and do something with them.
Speaker:And for me, fire is my greatest teacher around embodiment and how
Speaker:to really be in relationship with the chaos and our life energy
Speaker:So I wanted to offer a.
Speaker:Exercise around meeting our fire in our body and exploring how that feels to be
Speaker:in relationship with it in a visceral way, and not necessarily in a heady
Speaker:way, cuz fire is about experiencing things in the physical realm, right?
Speaker:So I'm gonna use my voice to express this, but I wanna invite you to listen,
Speaker:not with your head, , but more with your body to just let the words move
Speaker:through and into your body, and ideally allowing yourself to move with them.
Speaker:So wherever you are and whatever you're doing in the moment, you can multitask
Speaker:if you want to, or you could just put that down and you could intend to
Speaker:have an experience with your own fire.
Speaker:And that begins by just.
Speaker:Having a little sort of body scan or check-in a little somatic attunement
Speaker:where you bring your attention from your thoughts or your mind, or from
Speaker:the external world into the realm of your own physical geography.
Speaker:Noticing the universe that exists within.
Speaker:Noticing that there is as much known as there is mystery here,
Speaker:probably way more mystery actually.
Speaker:And to just bring your attention with curiosity and playfulness and openness
Speaker:into the realm of your own fire, your own third chakra, your solar plexus, and
Speaker:noticing that you have this light within.
Speaker:That burns hot sometimes and dim at other times, and noticing just
Speaker:how it feels in the moment without judgment, without needing to change it.
Speaker:There's no right or wrong way.
Speaker:It's just an invitation to become acquainted with where your fire
Speaker:is at right now, I invite you to treat it as an honored guest
Speaker:to acknowledge that it's ever changing, ever responding,
Speaker:ever evolving, you are the.
Speaker:. You are the master of your own domain.
Speaker:And this guest here, the fire that lives within you in this
Speaker:moment is just passing through.
Speaker:And so how can you honor this guest by giving it your attention?
Speaker:Noticing how it feels to behold this elemental quality
Speaker:and maybe even becoming curious about how that fire wants to move through you.
Speaker:What is the movement or the motion or the gesture or the posture that
Speaker:comes forth as you make relationship with this energy within you with this.
Speaker:How does it flicker?
Speaker:What is its heat like?
Speaker:How does it breathe?
Speaker:How does it move your lungs and your diap?
Speaker:How does it ignite your muscles?
Speaker:And if you're so inclined to take this inquiry into motion, I invite
Speaker:you to dance it out, whether that's dancing in your chair or dancing in
Speaker:your living room, or dancing on the sidewalk, wherever you are, whatever
Speaker:that movement, whether it's subtle.
Speaker:Or whether it's total wild abandonment.
Speaker:I invite you to explore how the fire moves through you today, and if there's
Speaker:a place that you have felt particularly uncomfortable with fire, either with anger
Speaker:or with boundaries, or in needing to.
Speaker:Learn how to better focus or discern or take action in your life or to
Speaker:face things that need to be faced
Speaker:To step into your full power.
Speaker:Even if it's uncomfortable at first, even if it's strange and awkward, to just be
Speaker:willing to dance that dance with fire,
Speaker:and to see what can be created, what, alchemical marriage can be formed from
Speaker:this allyship, and how can your life possibly benefit from more empowerment
Speaker:and clarity and discernment and agency,
Speaker:How can you dance that dance?
Speaker:Thank you so much for listening to this episode of Alone
Speaker:Traveler's Guide to the Divine.
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Speaker:Thank you so, so much.
Speaker:It's such an honor to be in sacred community with you.