Relationship Anarchy. 

Have you heard of such a thing? 

Well this concept got right down deep into the potent magic and had me musing on relationships past and dreaming up relationship potential and ways.

My guest on November 21st 2023 introduced me to the idea of Relationship Anarchy and it opened up a depth, invited in the trickster and shifted my view. The most creative people will do that. There are many ways to lead a life. 

In my human connections, I observe and am often invited into the ways that people have relationships. How people uncouple. How people couple. How they navigate family, community and professional relationships. How it can look when anarchic love or relationship is in play. How people reinvent and redesign relationships as time goes by. 

Co-regulation

Also Co-regulation - jeez I had forgotten this. How many days have I sat at home, white-knuckling some anxious feelings, some nervous system hijack or something that rattled me and trying to work it out on my own with my intellectual toolkit, with my call to rugged individualism and my erroneous belief that there is something deficient in me if I can’t stop spiralling on my own, even after walks, lies down, music dancing, a cold shower or reading. I’m a human. Sometimes I NEED A HUMAN with whom to co-regulate. 

Finding deeply aligned community and culture. More co-creation and connection. My guest moves cities. My current phase of this story is on the inside and on the edges. Yet also what is finding its way to me. I looked at my inbox the other day and almost everything was people with whom I feel a deep connection.

In this Creative Musing, you will hear a lot of musings on relationships that I am in constellation with. Past and present.

In this episode you’ll hear:

• Sarah musing on Relationship Anarchy
• Musings on queer hetero relationships
• Co-regulation - a deep reminder of the need for people with whom to regulate our nervous systems
• Deeper connections, access to culture, and what that might sound like 
• Stories from real life and real-time self-coaching

Read the full essay on the Sarah Furuya Blog 

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