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Ep.17 Playfulness. The key to deep connection, love, aliveness.
Episode 1720th February 2021 • The Borealis Experience • Aurora Eggert
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hey there,

yes yes yes... :)

Saying yes to play and being okay to suck at something when you first start with is so so good.

Get over yourself and try something new! 

You will see it is fun, humbling and gets you out of your habits and usual blabla thoughts and feelings.

Try it out this weekend :)


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Hello, and

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welcome to the Borealis experience. I'm your host

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Aurora. And I'm very happy to be spending some time with you

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today. Thank you so much for being here. It really means a

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lot to me to connect with people through my podcast from all over

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the world. And knowing that I can bring you peace and joy and

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just relaxation. That is so so precious to me. Today I want to

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talk about playfulness. Maybe you are very playful individual,

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you're very out there trying new things not scared of failing, or

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judgments of others. But maybe you're a little bit more like

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me. A couple years back, I remember I met friends who kept

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organizing game nights where we played card games or Cards

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Against Humanity, or board games. And the cynical inside of

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me was always like, no, that's not how I want to relate to

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people, I want to go for a hike, I want to go do yoga, I want to

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go to the bar, and dance and drink board game nights. That's

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nothing for me. But they convinced me to come that one

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night. And it was really fun. And it was really, really nice

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to meet people on a different level. And to be in an

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environment where it is okay to be a beginner again, and they

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can teach you tricks. It can help you to become a better

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player. It was a really cool experience. And then I moved to

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a different city and there was disc golf. It was actually

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golfing with frisbees. Actually, it's called frisbee golf. Sorry.

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And that was again something new to me very cool game where you

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just try yourself out and can be a kid again and I feel for

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romantic relationships but also for you as an individual if you

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are a single person right now. It is so so important to not

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forget about the play, playfulness. And as soon as you

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are more relaxed, when it comes to learning new things when it

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comes to be a little more adventurous and out there you

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will see on other levels, you'll be more confident and playful

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too. And that is a huge plus when it comes to your workplace

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when it comes to getting to know new people when it comes to

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relationships, that you have that kind of relaxed, confident,

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playful attitude. Because it makes you enjoy things so much

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more. I don't know you well enough, maybe you are a person

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who when you're invited to someone's place and they cook

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for you. You have to know every ingredient that is in there and

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not for dietary reasons but because you want to cook that

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same meal again at home and you keep asking questions about what

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is the recipe like what ingredients are in there? How

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did you cook this? Instead of just sitting there and enjoying

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the meal with your tastebuds. I feel we are way too often caught

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in our mind and rational mode. And we have to come back to a

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more sensual, playful way of living. It makes you enjoy life

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way more. And it makes the other people around you and joy you

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way more. So it is a win win on every level. All it needs is you

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being okay, failing and starting something new, where you suck at

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bye Everything that we try out is difficult for everybody. And

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the more you try it out, the better you get. And maybe you

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discover new talents, maybe you totally discover a new side and

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you that you never knew existed and so do people around you. So

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you will change internally if you go out there and are more

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playful, and that will affect your environment. So you'll have

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different outcomes, if that makes sense.

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playfulness is also a very good teacher, because you can see and

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get to know people in different ways. Maybe they are very

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competitive, maybe they're very caring about others and want you

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to succeed. Maybe you are very competitive. Or maybe you care

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about new people joining the group and helping them out how

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to practice that new game or new sport. So on a social level, it

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is also so important because it is not only children and puppies

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that play it is also adults. And when you know how to play when

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you know how to play fair, when you know how to reach your goal

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as a team is so enriching, it is incredibly enriching. So the

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message I'm sending out today is have a look at your life and see

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where you could try out new things. Is it music? Is it

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singing? Is it painting? Is it writing poems? Is it learning

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how to ride a bicycle or swimming or motorcycle? Try to

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do something that is outside of your box and be okay with

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failing at first and know that there's always someone out there

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who will support you and cheer for you and help you out. And if

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there's not, then there's always me. You can connect with me on

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Instagram On Facebook. Aurora Eggert does my name. And yeah,

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we can chat about it. If you have any requests for future

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episodes, also, don't be shy. And yeah, for this weekend or

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whenever you listen to that episode. If you have children,

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go play with them go raffles with them. If you have friends,

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then I don't know be the person who encourages a new activity.

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And if you have a partner, go get a card game a board game at

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the grocery store. Or try out a new hobby and see how it's

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awesome to get to know your partner on a new level. Thank

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you so much for listening to the Borealis experience. I'm your

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host Aurora and I'll be out there tomorrow again. Take care

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