"Who will I be at the END of 2022?"

"Who will I help my kids become by the end of 2022?"

Your 365 days of 2022 started when the ball dropped and every day counts... even the restorative couch days because those are needed too!

What can we do?

1.     Go and grab the NEW YEAR FAMILY CHECK-IN at: www.nellieharden.com/happynewyear

2.     Now it is time to step in and build the habits that will make that happen with the 6570 FAMILY CHALLENGE!  www.nellieharden.com/challenge

These two small yeses (that are 100% free by the way) will change the course of your year and possibly (even probably) your life!  

Don’t miss out and grab them asap!

About the Host: (bio, personal links, resource links)

Nellie Harden is a wife of 20+ years, mom to 4 teen/tween daughters, dreamer, adventurer, servant, multipreneur, forever student, and a devoted teacher, but her ride-or-die passion is her work as a Family Life Coach & Mentor.  

Coming from a career background in marine mammal sciences, behavioral work, and a host of big life experiences, both great and not some not so great, she decided that designing a life of purpose and freedom was how she and her husband, along with their 4 daughters, wanted to live.  

Her work and passions exist in the realms of family and parent mentorship because she believes that a family filled with creativity, fun, laughter, challenge, adventure, problem-solving, hugs, good food, and learning can not only change a person’s life but is the best chance at positively changing the world.  

She helps families build Self-Led Discipline™ & Leadership Into their homes, sets their children up for a wildly successful life on their terms, and elevates the family experience with big joy, palpable peace, and everyday growth!

With a lifelong passion and curiosity in thought, choice, behavior, and growth she has found incredible joy in helping families shift perspective, find answers, and a path forward.

(Nellie has been coaching families for over 10 years and has degrees in Biology, Animal Behavior, and Psychology. )  

LINKS:

Family Success Vault- https://www.nellieharden.com/vault 

Website- https://www.nellieharden.com

Online Community- https://www.facebook.com/groups/the6570project

Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/nellieharden/    

Facebook- https://www.facebook.com/nellie.harden/

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Hello and welcome to the 6570 family project

podcast. If you are a parent of a tween teen or somewhere on the

way, this is exactly the place for you. This is the playground

for parents who want to raise their kids with intention,

strength and joy. Come in here all the discussions, get all the

tactics and have lots of laughs along the way. We will dive into

the real challenges in raising kids today how to show up as

parents and teach your kids how to show up as members of the

family and individuals of the world. My name is Mellie Hardin,

big city girl turn small town sipping iced tea on the front

porch mama, who loves igniting transformation in the hearts and

minds of families by helping them build self love, discipline

and leadership that elevates the family experience. And sets the

kids up with a rock solid foundation. They can launch

their life on all before they ever leave home. This is the

6570 family project. Let's go

Hello, hello, everybody in the 6570 family project world how

are you? I hope you are doing so. So well. If you are

listening to this near or close to the release date, Happy New

Year, you guys. I can't believe it is 2022. I I don't even know

honestly, I still feel like it's you know, back in 1999. Turning

into 2000 y2k world, right? High five to you. If you even were

alive during that time or know what I'm talking about. I was

talking to a friend of mine recently. And they were like,

oh, yeah, that happened before I was born. I was like, Oh, my

goodness, I was graduating college then. So that's cool.

That's fine. So anyway, Happy New Year. You guys. I'm so

excited for these this upcoming year. All that it has new year's

always gets me super jazzed. And it gets me asking questions

like, Who will I be by the end of 2022? Right? I have come so

far as a person we've come so far as a family. So many things

have happened in the world all these things in 2021. I want to

know who am I going to be at the end of 2022? Right? I'm always

constantly building just like you guys are too. And a bigger

question is Who am I going to help my kids be by the end of

2022? Right kids, especially within the 6570. That's the

first 18 years of their lives. That 6570 days for anyone that

is new to this podcast, and welcome, by the way, my name is

Nelly harden. I love coming to you every single week with talks

about what we can do in building our families and our kids toward

leadership and self led discipline so that we can build

that foundation for them to launch the rest of their life

with and have a heck of a great time along the way, by the way.

So that's what we're doing here. But I just want to ask myself,

where in the world are they going to be? Because they change

so fast, right? They change so fast. With COVID world and

everything happening? You know, we live very far away from any

extended family that we have, the closest family we have is

literally 1000 miles away. And so when we see them, you know,

once twice a year, there there's a lot of change that's happened

in my kids since that time, of course I see them every single

day. So I'm like a little bit of change, but they see them I'm

like, Oh yeah, they really have changed in the last six months,

you know? So where are your kids going to be? How are you going

to help them grow in 2022 And just like the personal and

family growth journey starts the day your kids were born, you

know, day one of 6570 starts the day they were born. Really the

six, the six, I'm sorry, the 365 days of 2022 started when that

cute little crystal ball dropped and Every Day Counts Every Day

Counts, even the ones you've already already had this year so

far. And even those restorative couch days because those are

definitely needed to you guys. If any of you follow me you know

I am a peloton, girl. I put it on a back burner for so long.

And then finally I was like you know it seems kind of cool. So I

got it. Last April we invested in it. It's definitely an

investment. And all we invested in it not for me not for my

husband. We invested in it as a family because moving is so

important. And so We thought that this would be a good family

investment. And we did. And all six of us are on that darn thing

every single day in one way, shape or form. But what I'm

getting at is when I do when I have my yoga days, there are

some restorative days in there, that you just literally lay on

the floor with a blanket over you. And you just you think, and

the music is going and you just zone out and you're stretching,

maybe a little bit in there. But it's this restorative day. And

you know what those are really, really important, just like

every day of your 365 days of 2022 cannot be going like

gangbusters, right? We need those restorative days, too. So

I just want to put that caveat in there. Because when I say

wake up with intention every day, I don't mean that you are

running at max effort every single day, your intention for

that day might be restorative. And that is a okay. And much

needed. So anyway, we are already into that 365 Day Count,

right, a new year's past us and we are already past that. And

hopefully, hopefully, hopefully, hopefully you have filled out

your New Year's family check in and if you haven't, it is still

available, it will be available for just a little while longer.

So go and grab it. It is over at Nellie Hardin comm slash Happy

New Year. And so that's an E ll ie H AR D n.com/happy. New Year,

no spaces in there. And what is this going to do for you it is

going to help you reflect on the past year and really build

forward in the year to come right you have goals and you

have vision for what you want. And you've put all the pieces

out on the table, you have prioritize you have organized,

you have strategize, and no, this does not take all day. In

fact, this New Year's family check in is only a 15 minute

exercise and it is so needed and warranted for especially in New

year coming up. Every day you guys every day you wake up New

Year's are not Monday or not whatever that is, is a new day

to make a change and be more intentional. But the new year

like it or not, is always this turning of the page turning of a

chapter really. And that's such a great opportunity to do these

family check ins. And I've been doing these for years now. And I

do I've done so many different people's versions of this. But

honestly, so many of them are entrepreneurship based, which is

cool. I'm an entrepreneur, you know, I've been doing business

and entrepreneurship for 2922 years now. But and many of them

are also like really like deep self development work,

especially made for adults, and I wanted to make one for you.

That is family centered. Because this is what your kids are doing

for the first 6570 days of their lives. Right you are their world

and you are developing their world and I wanted to make one

for you. So definitely go there and pick that up again.

Milliarden comm slash Happy New Year. Okay, so now that you have

filled that out, I'm pretending you already have if you haven't,

just pretend you already have go get it and do it tonight. Do it

tomorrow, this week sometime. But after you're done with that,

it is time to really step in and carry you through or carry

through these first few months of the year, first two, three

months of the year. Because let's face it, so many people

make goals and everything and then they drop them. Right. I've

done it. I'm sure you've done it. Your neighbors done it. Your

sister's done it, everyone's done it. You may have all these

grand visions for what you want for the upcoming year. And

you're like yes, yes, yes. And then there's no one there to be

your cheerleader. There's no one there to give you

accountability. And then you're like and that it died. Right?

Okay, so these first 70 days in particular, are pretty vital.

There is a huge study that was done. And it looked at habit

forming from all these different angles. And some people take

longer, some people take shorter and everything, but the average

was 66 days. And so I happen to love that because what are we

where the 6570 66 is right in between there. If you break up

the numbers, obviously. And so this is a 70 day Family

Challenge, you guys, it's a 17 day Family Challenge, my gift to

you to really amp up what you want to get done in this

upcoming year. Right. It's so easy to say we're going to do

something time slips away, and then we're like, Oh, oops, okay,

well, I'll try again next year. No, we can absolutely do it. And

I want to see your goals become a reality. Last year I do a word

Every year and last year, my word was a line, I actually have

it right here on my desk in a rock. So every year for the past

several years now, I have had my word etched into a rock because

I wanted it quote unquote, written in stone. And so I just

go on Etsy, there's some wonderful people on there that

take river rocks, and they etched them. And so, and then at

the end of the year, I have tray and all of my rocks are in

there. And it's kind of a history of all of my goals and

focuses over the last it's a little rock garden with all of

these words on it. Well, last year, my word was align. And I

looked at that, because I keep whatever current one is on my

desk. And I looked at that, and just really kind of took it my

hands on December 3 last year and said, Yes, I did that.

1,000,000%. Yes, it was awesome. It was celebrated. And you guys,

I want you to experience that too. And I have words for

myself, we have words for our family. And yes, both of them

are written in stone or family one is downstairs in this one is

up on my desk. And so I want you to experience that not just in

2022, but year after year after year, I want to see you be able

to put an intention down and nail it. Right. Why? Because

what is if we're growing forward, right, we have these

intentions, we have these ideas, and we want to be able to get

there. And in the bigger picture. I know that you have

these goals and intentions and amazing dreams for your kids to

have at the end of the 6570. And I want you to get there too. And

so the first step was the family check in. And the next step you

guys is the challenge. So this is the 70 Day Challenge. And

you're like, Well, why? Tell me tell me why I should do this?

Well, because it will keep you accountable to the underlying

tasks needed to do what you said you wanted to do. And then I

would ask this, if if you are out there, you're you're

probably asking, so I know I would. How do you know this

challenge will help with what I want to do because you have no

idea what I want to do Nellie? Oh, but I do because the daily

and weekly tasks in this challenge are the blocks to

making everything else work in the family. Right? We go through

time for family time for you. Fun, gratitude, new adventures

connecting, really having time to sit eyeball to eyeball

exploring, using respect, right, all of it is formulated into

this daily and weekly, very, very, very doable task list that

was created to help you develop the habits to actually get

things done. Everything that you want to get done, every

intention and goal that you have for your family is going to be

able to be magnified in such an awesome way with this challenge.

And I'm telling you things connection, communication,

clarity, thriving positivity, right, all of those things in

here. And you're not just living out the 6570, right, you're not

just sitting there in front of a clock I'm looking around. Yep,

my clocks right in front of me. You're not just sitting around,

watching these seconds tick down, right? You are there to

thrive as a parent and help your kids thrive as kids and honestly

the young adults that they are right, they're getting closer

and closer to their own launch date. And setting them up for a

future because of the foundation that you are giving them is

vital. So you guys, this challenge takes your family

through 70 days that will honestly change the course of

your year. And maybe even I might go as far as to say

probably even change the course of their 6570 and their lives.

Yep, I am making that claim right here right now. So

parenting is a journey and this is the next step to help you

accomplish everything you are looking for in your unique

family story. Every family is different. I say it all the time

your family has a different fingerprint than any other

family. Not only right now but ever in existence and I want to

see whatever your family potential is that you want to

bring out and set out into the world I want to see that happen

for you. So do the family check in if you haven't already and

then move on over to the challenge and that is over at

Milliarden comm slash challenge Nelly herten.com/challenge and

get started today you guys as soon as you're done with that

family check in. You get everything on the table. You

know what you want to do for the year you Now you're going to get

the start to develop the habits in order to get that done. Okay,

you guys,

I can't wait to see what is happening out of here. I can't

wait to see what goals that you have, and how you are going to

be moving the world with your incredible family and what you

do out there. Okay, you guys have a wonderful beginning of

2022. And, as always, Happy building you guys. Alright, bye

bye. Thank you so much for listening today. And I hope

you're able to take something from our discussion that you can

use to build the foundation of self love leadership in your own

family. If you are a parent with children, 17 or younger, and

especially those around nine and up, I would love to extend an

invitation to you to the best club in town. The family

architects Club is a private club where intentional parents

go that want to love support, connect or reconnect and really

truly help guide their kids and teach them how to self lead in

discipline and leadership. This is an online community and you

are welcome to it. Parenting is a project and you are the

architect of this one. You plan you design and oversee the

construction of the beginning of someone else's life. And that's

what goes into these first 6570 days. And it will be the

foundation for the rest of their lives. So come join the club.

You can find your invitation on the front page of my website

Nelly hardin.com. That is N E ll ie H AR D n.com. Thank you again

for being a part of this conversation today. And if

something really resonated with you, or if you have a question,

please don't hesitate to connect with me. You can find me on

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thank you so much. Happy building you guys and I'll see