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The PERFECT Way to Start Your New Year!!
Episode 235th January 2022 • The 6570 Family Project • Nellie Harden
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"Who will I be at the END of 2022?"

"Who will I help my kids become by the end of 2022?"

Your 365 days of 2022 started when the ball dropped and every day counts... even the restorative couch days because those are needed too!

What can we do?

1.     Go and grab the NEW YEAR FAMILY CHECK-IN at: www.nellieharden.com/happynewyear

2.     Now it is time to step in and build the habits that will make that happen with the 6570 FAMILY CHALLENGE!  www.nellieharden.com/challenge

These two small yeses (that are 100% free by the way) will change the course of your year and possibly (even probably) your life!  

Don’t miss out and grab them asap!

About the Host: (bio, personal links, resource links)

Nellie Harden is a wife of 20+ years, mom to 4 teen/tween daughters, dreamer, adventurer, servant, multipreneur, forever student, and a devoted teacher, but her ride-or-die passion is her work as a Family Life Coach & Mentor.  

Coming from a career background in marine mammal sciences, behavioral work, and a host of big life experiences, both great and not some not so great, she decided that designing a life of purpose and freedom was how she and her husband, along with their 4 daughters, wanted to live.  

Her work and passions exist in the realms of family and parent mentorship because she believes that a family filled with creativity, fun, laughter, challenge, adventure, problem-solving, hugs, good food, and learning can not only change a person’s life but is the best chance at positively changing the world.  

She helps families build Self-Led Discipline™ & Leadership Into their homes, sets their children up for a wildly successful life on their terms, and elevates the family experience with big joy, palpable peace, and everyday growth!

With a lifelong passion and curiosity in thought, choice, behavior, and growth she has found incredible joy in helping families shift perspective, find answers, and a path forward.

(Nellie has been coaching families for over 10 years and has degrees in Biology, Animal Behavior, and Psychology. )  

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Online Community- https://www.facebook.com/groups/the6570project

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Nellie Harden:

Hello and welcome to the 6570 family project

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podcast. If you are a parent of a tween teen or somewhere on the

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way, this is exactly the place for you. This is the playground

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for parents who want to raise their kids with intention,

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strength and joy. Come in here all the discussions, get all the

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tactics and have lots of laughs along the way. We will dive into

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the real challenges in raising kids today how to show up as

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parents and teach your kids how to show up as members of the

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family and individuals of the world. My name is Mellie Hardin,

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big city girl turn small town sipping iced tea on the front

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porch mama, who loves igniting transformation in the hearts and

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minds of families by helping them build self love, discipline

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and leadership that elevates the family experience. And sets the

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kids up with a rock solid foundation. They can launch

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their life on all before they ever leave home. This is the

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6570 family project. Let's go

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Hello, hello, everybody in the 6570 family project world how

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are you? I hope you are doing so. So well. If you are

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listening to this near or close to the release date, Happy New

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Year, you guys. I can't believe it is 2022. I I don't even know

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honestly, I still feel like it's you know, back in 1999. Turning

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into 2000 y2k world, right? High five to you. If you even were

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alive during that time or know what I'm talking about. I was

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talking to a friend of mine recently. And they were like,

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oh, yeah, that happened before I was born. I was like, Oh, my

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goodness, I was graduating college then. So that's cool.

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That's fine. So anyway, Happy New Year. You guys. I'm so

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excited for these this upcoming year. All that it has new year's

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always gets me super jazzed. And it gets me asking questions

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like, Who will I be by the end of 2022? Right? I have come so

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far as a person we've come so far as a family. So many things

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have happened in the world all these things in 2021. I want to

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know who am I going to be at the end of 2022? Right? I'm always

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constantly building just like you guys are too. And a bigger

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question is Who am I going to help my kids be by the end of

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2022? Right kids, especially within the 6570. That's the

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first 18 years of their lives. That 6570 days for anyone that

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is new to this podcast, and welcome, by the way, my name is

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Nelly harden. I love coming to you every single week with talks

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about what we can do in building our families and our kids toward

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leadership and self led discipline so that we can build

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that foundation for them to launch the rest of their life

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with and have a heck of a great time along the way, by the way.

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So that's what we're doing here. But I just want to ask myself,

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where in the world are they going to be? Because they change

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so fast, right? They change so fast. With COVID world and

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everything happening? You know, we live very far away from any

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extended family that we have, the closest family we have is

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literally 1000 miles away. And so when we see them, you know,

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once twice a year, there there's a lot of change that's happened

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in my kids since that time, of course I see them every single

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day. So I'm like a little bit of change, but they see them I'm

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like, Oh yeah, they really have changed in the last six months,

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you know? So where are your kids going to be? How are you going

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to help them grow in 2022 And just like the personal and

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family growth journey starts the day your kids were born, you

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know, day one of 6570 starts the day they were born. Really the

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six, the six, I'm sorry, the 365 days of 2022 started when that

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cute little crystal ball dropped and Every Day Counts Every Day

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Counts, even the ones you've already already had this year so

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far. And even those restorative couch days because those are

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definitely needed to you guys. If any of you follow me you know

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I am a peloton, girl. I put it on a back burner for so long.

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And then finally I was like you know it seems kind of cool. So I

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got it. Last April we invested in it. It's definitely an

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investment. And all we invested in it not for me not for my

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husband. We invested in it as a family because moving is so

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important. And so We thought that this would be a good family

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investment. And we did. And all six of us are on that darn thing

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every single day in one way, shape or form. But what I'm

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getting at is when I do when I have my yoga days, there are

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some restorative days in there, that you just literally lay on

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the floor with a blanket over you. And you just you think, and

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the music is going and you just zone out and you're stretching,

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maybe a little bit in there. But it's this restorative day. And

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you know what those are really, really important, just like

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every day of your 365 days of 2022 cannot be going like

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gangbusters, right? We need those restorative days, too. So

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I just want to put that caveat in there. Because when I say

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wake up with intention every day, I don't mean that you are

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running at max effort every single day, your intention for

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that day might be restorative. And that is a okay. And much

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needed. So anyway, we are already into that 365 Day Count,

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right, a new year's past us and we are already past that. And

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hopefully, hopefully, hopefully, hopefully you have filled out

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your New Year's family check in and if you haven't, it is still

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available, it will be available for just a little while longer.

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So go and grab it. It is over at Nellie Hardin comm slash Happy

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New Year. And so that's an E ll ie H AR D n.com/happy. New Year,

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no spaces in there. And what is this going to do for you it is

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going to help you reflect on the past year and really build

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forward in the year to come right you have goals and you

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have vision for what you want. And you've put all the pieces

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out on the table, you have prioritize you have organized,

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you have strategize, and no, this does not take all day. In

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fact, this New Year's family check in is only a 15 minute

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exercise and it is so needed and warranted for especially in New

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year coming up. Every day you guys every day you wake up New

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Year's are not Monday or not whatever that is, is a new day

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to make a change and be more intentional. But the new year

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like it or not, is always this turning of the page turning of a

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chapter really. And that's such a great opportunity to do these

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family check ins. And I've been doing these for years now. And I

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do I've done so many different people's versions of this. But

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honestly, so many of them are entrepreneurship based, which is

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cool. I'm an entrepreneur, you know, I've been doing business

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and entrepreneurship for 2922 years now. But and many of them

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are also like really like deep self development work,

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especially made for adults, and I wanted to make one for you.

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That is family centered. Because this is what your kids are doing

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for the first 6570 days of their lives. Right you are their world

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and you are developing their world and I wanted to make one

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for you. So definitely go there and pick that up again.

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Milliarden comm slash Happy New Year. Okay, so now that you have

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filled that out, I'm pretending you already have if you haven't,

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just pretend you already have go get it and do it tonight. Do it

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tomorrow, this week sometime. But after you're done with that,

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it is time to really step in and carry you through or carry

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through these first few months of the year, first two, three

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months of the year. Because let's face it, so many people

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make goals and everything and then they drop them. Right. I've

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done it. I'm sure you've done it. Your neighbors done it. Your

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sister's done it, everyone's done it. You may have all these

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grand visions for what you want for the upcoming year. And

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you're like yes, yes, yes. And then there's no one there to be

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your cheerleader. There's no one there to give you

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accountability. And then you're like and that it died. Right?

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Okay, so these first 70 days in particular, are pretty vital.

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There is a huge study that was done. And it looked at habit

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forming from all these different angles. And some people take

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longer, some people take shorter and everything, but the average

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was 66 days. And so I happen to love that because what are we

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where the 6570 66 is right in between there. If you break up

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the numbers, obviously. And so this is a 70 day Family

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Challenge, you guys, it's a 17 day Family Challenge, my gift to

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you to really amp up what you want to get done in this

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upcoming year. Right. It's so easy to say we're going to do

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something time slips away, and then we're like, Oh, oops, okay,

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well, I'll try again next year. No, we can absolutely do it. And

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I want to see your goals become a reality. Last year I do a word

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Every year and last year, my word was a line, I actually have

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it right here on my desk in a rock. So every year for the past

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several years now, I have had my word etched into a rock because

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I wanted it quote unquote, written in stone. And so I just

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go on Etsy, there's some wonderful people on there that

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take river rocks, and they etched them. And so, and then at

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the end of the year, I have tray and all of my rocks are in

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there. And it's kind of a history of all of my goals and

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focuses over the last it's a little rock garden with all of

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these words on it. Well, last year, my word was align. And I

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looked at that, because I keep whatever current one is on my

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desk. And I looked at that, and just really kind of took it my

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hands on December 3 last year and said, Yes, I did that.

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1,000,000%. Yes, it was awesome. It was celebrated. And you guys,

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I want you to experience that too. And I have words for

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myself, we have words for our family. And yes, both of them

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are written in stone or family one is downstairs in this one is

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up on my desk. And so I want you to experience that not just in

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2022, but year after year after year, I want to see you be able

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to put an intention down and nail it. Right. Why? Because

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what is if we're growing forward, right, we have these

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intentions, we have these ideas, and we want to be able to get

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there. And in the bigger picture. I know that you have

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these goals and intentions and amazing dreams for your kids to

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have at the end of the 6570. And I want you to get there too. And

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so the first step was the family check in. And the next step you

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guys is the challenge. So this is the 70 Day Challenge. And

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you're like, Well, why? Tell me tell me why I should do this?

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Well, because it will keep you accountable to the underlying

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tasks needed to do what you said you wanted to do. And then I

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would ask this, if if you are out there, you're you're

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probably asking, so I know I would. How do you know this

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challenge will help with what I want to do because you have no

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idea what I want to do Nellie? Oh, but I do because the daily

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and weekly tasks in this challenge are the blocks to

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making everything else work in the family. Right? We go through

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time for family time for you. Fun, gratitude, new adventures

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connecting, really having time to sit eyeball to eyeball

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exploring, using respect, right, all of it is formulated into

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this daily and weekly, very, very, very doable task list that

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was created to help you develop the habits to actually get

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things done. Everything that you want to get done, every

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intention and goal that you have for your family is going to be

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able to be magnified in such an awesome way with this challenge.

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And I'm telling you things connection, communication,

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clarity, thriving positivity, right, all of those things in

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here. And you're not just living out the 6570, right, you're not

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just sitting there in front of a clock I'm looking around. Yep,

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my clocks right in front of me. You're not just sitting around,

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watching these seconds tick down, right? You are there to

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thrive as a parent and help your kids thrive as kids and honestly

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the young adults that they are right, they're getting closer

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and closer to their own launch date. And setting them up for a

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future because of the foundation that you are giving them is

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vital. So you guys, this challenge takes your family

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through 70 days that will honestly change the course of

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your year. And maybe even I might go as far as to say

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probably even change the course of their 6570 and their lives.

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Yep, I am making that claim right here right now. So

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parenting is a journey and this is the next step to help you

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accomplish everything you are looking for in your unique

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family story. Every family is different. I say it all the time

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your family has a different fingerprint than any other

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family. Not only right now but ever in existence and I want to

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see whatever your family potential is that you want to

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bring out and set out into the world I want to see that happen

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for you. So do the family check in if you haven't already and

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then move on over to the challenge and that is over at

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Milliarden comm slash challenge Nelly herten.com/challenge and

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get started today you guys as soon as you're done with that

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family check in. You get everything on the table. You

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know what you want to do for the year you Now you're going to get

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the start to develop the habits in order to get that done. Okay,

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you guys,

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I can't wait to see what is happening out of here. I can't

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wait to see what goals that you have, and how you are going to

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be moving the world with your incredible family and what you

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do out there. Okay, you guys have a wonderful beginning of

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2022. And, as always, Happy building you guys. Alright, bye

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bye. Thank you so much for listening today. And I hope

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you're able to take something from our discussion that you can

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use to build the foundation of self love leadership in your own

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family. If you are a parent with children, 17 or younger, and

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especially those around nine and up, I would love to extend an

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invitation to you to the best club in town. The family

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architects Club is a private club where intentional parents

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go that want to love support, connect or reconnect and really

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truly help guide their kids and teach them how to self lead in

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discipline and leadership. This is an online community and you

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are welcome to it. Parenting is a project and you are the

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architect of this one. You plan you design and oversee the

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construction of the beginning of someone else's life. And that's

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what goes into these first 6570 days. And it will be the

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foundation for the rest of their lives. So come join the club.

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You can find your invitation on the front page of my website

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Nelly hardin.com. That is N E ll ie H AR D n.com. Thank you again

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for being a part of this conversation today. And if

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something really resonated with you, or if you have a question,

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please don't hesitate to connect with me. You can find me on

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Instagram at Nelly hardens. And lastly, if you love the

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information, please please leave a five star review and a comment

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so more and more families can be impacted by harnessing the

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strength of these ideas and tools in their own families. So

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thank you so much. Happy building you guys and I'll see

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