In this episode, we have a special guest, Luisa Valentin, discussing The Dark Side of People Pleasing and some of her experiences with always wanting to please others. We go into how many women engage in this behavior and the why, which is not to exclude men who can do similar. How people pleasing can move us away from our true soul self and keep us off balance in feeling unfulfilled and connected to our authentic self, and the best way(s) to embrace strength in vulnerability.
About the Guest:
Louisa Valentin, owner of Louisa Valentin LLC, is a certified Empowerment Wellness Coach, a BSN Registered Nurse, a cofounder of a nonprofit, aimed at healing and spirituality as well as a fitness enthusiast.
Louisa empowers women to discover their strength to achieve their optimal state of mental, physical, and spiritual health, by enabling them to prioritize themselves, create real lifestyle changes to have lasting transformations and change the world’s perception of who they are.
Louisa thrives on helping women overcome their barriers of negative self-talk and lack of prioritizing self, to become the healthiest version of themselves.
https://www.facebook.com/CoachingWithLouisa/
Twitter: coachingwLouisa
Instagram: coaching_with_Louisa
https://www.linkedin.com/in/coachingwithlouisa/
About the Host:
Dr. Judith Holder’s passion is empowering people to be their best selves! Dr. Holder is the founder and executive director of Unique Pathways™ (www.uniquepathwayscoaching.com). She is a leadership coach-psychologist, facilitator, consultant, and author.
Our paths are filled with many adventures in which Judith believes can be seen as growth opportunities, even during challenging times. She likes to think about, discover, and discuss personal and professional life’s circumstances as you journey through life, through the lens of Christian values, Buddhist precepts, Ascended Master teachings and Esoteric Principles to gain greater clarity and mastery in daily living.
Dr. Holder is the author of Mastering Life’s Adventures: On the Beam – Essential Insights for Growth and Self-Mastery, and an e-book, Opening Up to Your Divinity: Practical Strategies and Practices for Soul Growth.
On a personal note, Dr. Holder sees herself as a perpetual student/seeker learning from her everyday adventures, which she considers as a part her ongoing growth and evolution of her SOUL. The fun part is we are all walking similar journeys together!
Judith enjoys spending time with family, vacationing at beaches and mountains sides, reading, walking, partaking in mindfulness practices, and is a certified yoga instructor.
Dr. Holder’s books on Mastering Life’s Adventures: On the Beam and Opening Up to Your Divinity: Practical Strategies and Practices for Soul Growth can be found at -
https://www.uniquepathwayscoaching.com/services/spiritual-inquisitiveness/
Mastering Life’s Adventures “How to” Downloadable Courses at www.uniquepathwayscoaching.com under the Tab “Offerings”
- Course 1: Mastering Life’s Adventures mini-course
- Course 2: Opening Up to Your Divinity mini-course
Learn more about “Mental Fitness for Busy People”, at www.uniquepathwayscoaching.com under the Tab, “Offerings”
You can also check out Dr. Holder’s at
LinkedIn page: https://www.linkedin.com/in/judith-c-holder-phd-ms-pcc-bcc-a1a4a57/
Executive and Leadership Coaching website: www.uniquepathwayscoaching.com
Speaking Engagements (for Women New to Leading): www.drjudithholder.com
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