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In this episode of "A Changed Mind," our host David Bayer challenges traditional approaches to achieving goals and introduces a transformative formula: desire plus non-resistance equals desired result.

Drawing from neuroscience, spirituality, and teachings like Abraham Hicks and Neville Goddard, David Bayer explains how our problems are catalysts for our deepest desires and how most of the work needed to manifest change is already done at an unseen level. Instead of hustling or grinding, the key is to relax, align your beliefs and emotions, and let inspired action guide you.

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What We Explored This Episode

06:11 Desire + Non-Resistance: The New Formula

12:01 Contrast Creates Desire and Activates the Quantum Field

18:00 The Majority of Manifestation is Already Done For You

24:55 Internal & External Mechanisms of Manifestation

30:13 Instant Creation: Aligning with Your Desires

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“Everything you’ve been told about achieving your goals is backwards. Hustle harder. Wrong. Find the perfect strategy. Wrong. Get lucky. Wrong again. I’m about to show you a formula so simple it sounds illegal.”

“The new math is desire plus non-resistance equals desired result. Even more than that, the problems in your life are the seeds for the desires that you emanate immediately, without effort, and life immediately responds and organizes 99.9% of what’s required in order for you to make that a reality.”

“What doesn’t belong are your doubts, your fears, your resistances. There’s no reason to doubt, no reason to be afraid, no reason to be resistant when you understand how this all works.”

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Everything you've been told about achieving your goals is backwards.

Hustle harder. Wrong. Find the perfect strategy.

Wrong. Get lucky. Wrong again. I'm about to show

you a formula so simple it sounds illegal. It's how I

went from two homes in foreclosure and addicted to drugs and alcohol to building a

$40 million company. It's how ordinary people manifest

extraordinary wealth, perfect health, and dream

relationships while everyone else is grinding themselves into the ground. And

here's the part that'll blow your mind. 99.99% of the

work required to create what you want has already been done for you. And

the way to unlock it isn't for you to start doing something new. It's actually

for you to stop doing the one thing that's blocking it. So in

today's episode, I'm going to show you how everything that you ever wanted actually

already exists, right here, right now. Why most

people never materialize what they want, even though what they want

already exists. And I'm going to share with you the exact formula that makes

manifestation work. Not sometimes, but 100% of the

time. Without fail. What I'm about to share with you will go against

everything you've ever been taught about success. But it just makes sense.

So let's get into it. Welcome to A Changed

Mind, a journey into the topics that matter to you most. From the

neuroscience and spirituality of mindset and personal growth, to

groundbreaking strategies for health, wealth, and relationships, to open

and honest conversations about pressing global issues such as the

environment, censorship, corporate capture, and democracy.

Each and every episode reminds us of the certainty of the goodness of the future

and provides the teachings, tools, and timeless wisdom inspiring

you to create real, lasting change in your life and in the world.

If you've been desiring a sanctuary for your spirit, a place to go to

tune out the distraction, negativity, and doom and gloom so that you can

tap into the deep power, the vibrancy, and the potential you have

inside. You're in the right place. Welcome to

A Changed Mind. What I want to share with

you is a new lens, a very simple lens through which

you can actually understand how you're creating anything in your life right now. And

it's very oppositional to what we've been taught. What we've

been taught is that if you have a goal or a dream or a vision,

then if you hustle and grind your way to the outcome, you can produce the

desired result. Or what we've been told is if you have a goal or a

dream, an outcome, and you have a Certain amount of financial resources or

health resources or time resources, you can produce the desired result.

In other words, your desire is to make a million dollars. And some people say

it takes money to make money. So if you have enough money, then maybe you

can reinvest it or put it to work to make a million dollars. And if

you don't have enough money, then you can't produce the desired result. This is sort

of the old way of thinking, the old model. But if you look at it,

the old model is still the model that we're all applying to our lives right

now. So the old model said, if you're sick, find the right

doctor or the perfect medicine or the perfect practitioner, and you can.

That's what the old model said. The old model said, if you want to find

the man or woman of your dreams, go to the gym, workout, get your body

in shape, dress a particular way, use all these dating sites,

equals meet the man or one of your dreams. So just notice how

unconsciously addicted we become to these strategies being the

bridge between our desire and the desired result. Well, that's why

so few of us are actually achieving the desired result. Because the strategy is not

the bridge. The strategy is what you're believing, what you're thinking and what

you're feeling on a moment by moment basis. So the equation that

we teach people who actually want to control the

levers that are responsible for root cause changes in their

life. And you can go back to episode three where I talked about this,

you can watch a part of that on YouTube, and you can listen to the

full episode on Spotify or itunes. On Apple is this equation

desire plus non resistance equals desired result. It's really,

really simple. It's super, super elegant. But if you have a desire

right now, I want you to think about something that you want in your life

right now. Just think about it for a second. And you might be thinking about

it in terms of what you no longer want, but that's okay. That helps you

get clear on what you do want. Like, I don't want to be sick anymore.

Okay, so your desire is to be well, I don't want to be anxious anymore.

Okay, so your desire is to be calm. I don't want to be overwhelmed anymore.

Okay, so your desire is for more help. I don't want to experience financial

insecurity anymore. Okay, well then your desire is for financial abundance and prosperity.

I don't want to be struggling with my business anymore. Okay, so your desire is

for new clients and maybe some new team members so you can Grow and scale

your business. My desire is to no longer, I don't want to any longer

work the job that I'm not passionate about. Okay, so your desire is to discover

your, your passion, your purpose in life. I'm feeling disconnected from spirit.

Okay, so your desire is to be more spiritually connected. Desire. You have a desire,

what's a desire? Right now notice that this master

equation says desire plus one thing will

equal the desired result. And that one thing is called non

resistance. So what I'm saying here is

the name of the game if you want to be super powerful in creating change,

if you want to become a master of the imaginative arts,

is to start working with the invisible forces, not the magic pill

strategies that are out there. Not the last mile of what we see, but the

root cause of what actually produces any type of goal or outcome or change in

your life. And that is to be non resistant

for your thoughts, for your emotions and for your belief systems to actually be in

alignment with, with the outcome that you want. A great, great,

great teacher right now has been for a while is Abraham.

And so I know if, by the way, if you're listening on YouTube and you're

one of my Abraham people, just give it a shout out in the comment box.

Esther Hicks is a woman who's been around for the last 30 years and she's

been channeling this intelligence known as Abraham.

And Abraham is just a name, but it's basically Esther Hicks is

able to get into a meditative state, a relaxed state, and she can tune in

to the information that all of us are able to tune in. Every time you

have a new idea, it's not your idea, it didn't come from your brain. You

got into vibrational or energetic alignment with an

idea that exists out there in consciousness, in the field of

energy that holds everything together and that is the original source of the

material world as we experience it. And you tune into that idea and you have

that idea and sometimes you speak that idea. So we all channel

information. None of the information is ours. It's all existing

in infinite intelligence. But Esther has developed a great capacity to

literally sit down and be able to have people ask her

questions. And for Abraham or for the information to respond,

you can check her out on YouTube. People put together great 15 minute clips of

Abraham Hicks. And what Abraham teaches is very in alignment with this

idea of desire plus non resistance equals desired result. And

I want to share with you Abraham's perspective. We'll give it a little bit of

David Bear flavor or explanation so that it doesn't sound too woo woo.

So that more people can actually buy into it and so that more people can

actually have what we would call powerful living experience and enjoy their lives. So you

can have a powerful living experience and more enjoy your life. What

Abraham says is basically you came into this physical body

to have physical experiences. And when you have an experience

that you don't like, you don't like the experience of financial insecurity, you don't

like the experience of being alone, you don't like the experience of having physical pain

in your body, you don't like the experience of feeling challenged to

grow and scale your business and impact. The moment that you are

aware of this contrasted

experience, this experience that you don't desire, immediately

you launch what Abraham calls a rocket of desire.

So the undesired experience, meaning the problems that we all experience

in our lives, they actually become catalysts

for a new focus of our energy and desire into what we want to

create. And that makes a lot of sense. Like if you look at your own

life, we don't always know what we want, but we tend to be very

aware of what we don't want. And then because we're so mind

focused and we don't know how to control our minds, the mind will then continue

to obsess around the absence of what we want. It's

not here. When is it going to be here? What if it never comes here?

How come it's not here? What does this mean about me? Me not being good

enough? How long I've tried to do this? Threats and fears that are

related to the absence of this thing that I want. That's what the mind does.

So we end up living in this kind of continual, let's call

it third dimensional five senses experience, meaning your current life.

Always focusing on the absence of the thing that we want. That's what we really,

really notice. But what Abraham suggests is that

simultaneously when we have an experience that we don't like,

what we've created in another dimension

is what we do want. So you've created

in another dimension. You with extraordinary vibrant health, you've created in

another dimension, you with a massively grown business, you've created in

another dimension an incredible soulmate relationship you've created in

another dimension. A you that is so incredibly

crystal clear on your spiritual purpose and vision and taking consistent

action towards it and making massive impact in the world. You've created that in

another dimension. So what is this other dimension? Well, Neville

Goddard, one of the great new Thought movement teachers,

along with Florence Scovel Shin and I want to give Florence Goble Shin a great

shout out. She's got a book called the Game of Life and collected works that

have had a real impact on me. Both she and Neville

interpret scripture, Biblical scripture as an

explanation for how all the laws of consciousness, or law of attraction or

the physics of manifestation work. Two really, really great teachers.

And what Neville Goddard says is, well, this other dimension is what we'd call the

fourth dimension. It's the quantum field, if

we were going to put it in the language of modern quantum theory.

So the moment that you experience something that you

don't like, even though you're not aware of it, you put

off a vibration, which is basically an asking

for what you do want, which is the opposite of the thing you don't want.

So again, if you're bullied at like five years old,

you experience being bullied. And then you and your physical body start

paying attention to all the evidence that you could be bullied and that bullies are

out there. But what also happened at an unconscious level was this

vibratory output from your nervous system

of confidence, strength and safety. It was

also created, it was like a boomerang effect. And that you

being confident, strong and safe and

unbullyable, that vibration became

activated in the quantum field. And so what Neville Goddard

talks about is everything that we're experiencing in our third

dimensional reality actually began in the fourth dimension of imagination.

So everything comes from the fourth dimension, the quantum

field, the energy of potential.

And if we're putting enough consistent attention

towards that idea or feeling the emotions

of that idea through the power of manifestation or

materialization, we will make that idea a reality.

The ideas are alive and they become material through our

consistent attention and focus on them. And so some people say, yeah, but

my life never changes. And it's like, yeah, because you continue to imagine

your current reality over and over and over again. So even

though new present moments are flowing into your lifestream and

into your life, they seem to be the same thing, because that's what

you continue to imagine. In other words, you become too addicted to the way your

life currently is. And you've given up imagining

or putting your attention on the vibrational potential

that actually exists. It came into existence when you

experienced the problem or the thing that you didn't want in the first place. But

you're not giving that enough love, you're not getting of giving it enough nurturing. You're

just continuing to focus on your now moment and the

problems that you have. And so you Just continue to give birth to those problems

over and over and over again. And that in sequence becomes your life. I like

how Abraham talks about it. She says, you got to realize the present moment is

old news. So the name of the game is

exist in your present moment, knowing it's just an echo of the past,

and direct your attention towards the future

that you actually want. Now, Abraham makes this really, really

simple. So she says, hey, step one is you had experiences that you didn't

like when you were a child, or you're having experiences that you don't like right

now. And those experiences which you

are problems or there are things that you don't want, they are the

contrast. They are invoking within you a

desire. It's focusing your energy, even if you're not aware of it,

towards what you do want. And you're activating

the vibration or energy that's held in the quantum field

or in consciousness to begin organizing all of the cooperative

components in order to make that a future reality for you, in order order

to bring into your third dimensional five sense

reality that which you are imagining or feeling

in the fourth dimension, right? You put your attention on it, it begins to

coalesce. And through the power of materialization, which I'll get into in a moment, it

becomes your reality. And one of the cool things that Abraham says is you

got to realize so far you haven't actually done anything. You haven't had to do

anything consciously. You're going through life, you have an experience that you

don't like. Someone cuts you off on the road, you get terminated from your

job, you get a medical bill that you didn't expect, you've got a new acre,

continued ache in your body. The boyfriend you had or the girlfriend you had leaves

you. These aren't experiences that we necessarily quote, unquote, want.

But as you experience that contrast, you

launch what she calls a rocket of desire. And you begin to

activate through the power of the vibration of your nervous system,

creating the opposite of the problem, which is actually the preferred experience.

It's the dream, it's the outcome, it's the vision that you have, have. But no,

you haven't done any of this consciously. Your nervous system just operates this way. How

amazing is that? Our Creator, however

you want to describe it, right? For me, in recovery, it was a higher power

of my own understanding to me that then became like the universe. And then eventually

I developed a relationship with God. And now I'm exploring sort of this idea of

Jesus or Christ consciousness. That's me and my Journey, right? It could be

Allah, it could be nature, it could be mathematics. But it's just this idea

that there is a cooperative, collective, omniscient,

omnipotent intelligence that is governing our

bodies, it's governing our societies in a sense, and our interactivity.

It's governing the planet, it's governing the solar system, it's governing the

cosmos at a macroscopic level and a microscopic level.

There is an intelligence out there. And what Abraham is

saying is, step one, the intelligence of your nervous system,

boom. All of a sudden imprints into the quantum field

of information what it is that you want. And you didn't have to do

anything to do it. You didn't have to sit around and pray on it. You

didn't have to sit around and ask for it a hundred times. You didn't have

to do a bunch of incantations or jumping jacks, or you didn't have to keep

placing the order over and over and over again. It happened. Once you had an

experience that you didn't like, and shazam, all of a sudden

you activated the opposite of it, which is what you do want.

Just as a footnote to this, what's really cool is the degree of the

discomfort equals the degree of what you've created

in the quantum field and that is waiting for you in your

very near future. In other words, if you're super, super, super, super

sick, you created super, super, super super super health.

If you're super, super, super, super broke, you just created an

extraordinary capacity to materialize wealth.

By the way, this is why we see so many people who have

created extraordinary things, whether it's wealth, impact,

creative arts, scientific arts had extraordinarily

difficult experiences in their life. They went from no money,

homeless, living onto a bridge into billions. They went from

absolute ridicule and being made fun of for their thoughts to now being

considered one of the greatest geniuses in the history of the world. Why?

Because those contrasted experiences are actually

life's really interesting way of invoking from inside

of you the desire and the vibration for the opposite of it.

In fact, some people believe that you come into this life knowing exactly what you

want to experience and exactly what you want to create. And then life sets you

up with sort of these stepping stones to activate within you the desire.

So in many ways, these challenges that you're having. Neville calls them

the bridge of incidences. They show up as problems.

And for many of us, it was like childhood trauma, sexual abuse, alcoholism,

drug addiction. We go through these things or being orphaned.

But that created this Desire within us so that we could become extraordinary human

beings. In fact, it's kind of interesting if you look at like most of the

superheroes, like they were all orphaned, they didn't have parents. And so

then they became kind of like protectors of all children,

meaning humanity. Out of the contrast came this extraordinary desire.

Step one, you're just going along with life and you're experiencing things that you call

problems that aren't really problems. They're just activating a vibration inside of you.

That vibration then begins to activate all the

cooperative components within consciousness in order to

materialize the dream, the vision, the desired outcome that is the

opposite of the problem or the contrast. You didn't have to do anything for it.

You're just going along through life and boom, these vibrations are responding inside of you.

Abraham would say step two is also not your job. Step two

is that 99.99999%

of what's required to create

that now new focused desire in your reality

is already done. It's done at the non physical level.

And so what does that mean? Well, it means that the ideas that

you would now need to have access to in order to make this new

desire reality, they've been activated and you now have. They may

not come all immediately, but they're on their way. You're going to have the thoughts,

you're going to have the ideas, the other people

who you will meet along the way. What we would look back on and see

in terms of the coincidences or the synchronicities, they become

activated too. So all of the moving pieces at conscious

and subconscious levels, at physical and non physical levels

immediately go into motion in order to produce the

desired result. In order for you to become the next Prime Minister of Canada,

in order for you to be able to create a new method of

education for young people that is much better than the public school system. For you

to be able to become a thought leader, teaching people

tools and techniques so that they can return to the natural

restorative power of their own bodies. As, for example, an

alternative way to, let's say, the traditional medical system. You had an

experience that you didn't like. It created the opposite

of that in the field. And now all of the cooperative

components are being organized. And 99.9 plus percent

of the heavy lifting is already done. By the way, that happened the

moment that you experienced the problem. So

so far, no quote, unquote, time has passed. And almost

instantaneously, the moment that you experience something that you don't like,

you broadcast a Desire in extreme focus

and clarity around what you do want to create. And all of the cooperative

components necessary for the materialization or the experiencing that in your

real life reality for other people to see have been activated. Pretty

amazing, isn't it? I share this with you because I want you to relax a

little bit. Because the next step in all of this is actually

relaxation. It's that non resistance part of the equation I gave you. Remember,

desire plus non resistance equals desired result.

I'm just explaining the physics or metaphysics of it to you. What happens, where does

this, what happens when you have the desire, the vibration, how it goes out there,

how it starts to interact with everything else that's conscious. All the pieces

begin to move. There's a collective organization. And the

process of this desire you have materializing or

becoming matter or becoming physical in the physical world

is almost all complete. Your last job

is to actually just not be in vibrational opposition to it,

to not be in thought opposition to it, to not be in emotional

opposition to it. If you are in thought or emotion or

vibrational opposition to it, then it cannot

materialize for you, or certainly cannot materialize as

easily or in as perfect a way as it is being

designed. So the key is for you to begin to relax. And

that's one of the reasons why I'm explaining this to you so that you can

relax now. Notice the process isn't. You have some

experience that you don't like. That helps you get clarity maybe on what you do

want to create. Now hustle and grind and work your ass off to go create

it. That wasn't part of this equation. It wasn't. Hey, you became

aware of your financial insecurity. And so now what you want is financial and

abundance. And so now you have to desperately go seek and find

the perfect wealth creation strategy and have a ton of luck in

order for you to be able to create financial security for yourself. No, that's

not what this formula or equation said. But just notice that these examples that

I'm giving you, that's how we all think, because we are thinking unintelligently

because we don't understand the physics, we don't understand the root cause of how all

of this works, how we are powerful creators and how our thoughts and

emotions interact with the field of creation itself, and how that

coordinates through ourselves and through others, timing

and coincidences and synchronicities and resources

that in incredibly magical and miraculous ways we're able to

look back on and go like, holy. That I had this idea and it

became a reality. What else do I want to share with you about this? Because

there's so much here. So the important thing now is for you to be in

non resistance. The important thing is for you to know that the

thing is on its way. Now that doesn't mean that you do nothing.

That's not what I'm saying. A lot of people make the mistake of thinking metaphysics

or law of attraction is about doing nothing. No. Remember,

ideas have been activated in consciousness. You will be the

recipients of recipient of some of those ideas. And now it's

your job to take action on those ideas, hunches, inspirations,

people to call, things to do. We'll look back and probably go,

wow, like if we added all up, that was a lot of hard work. But

you would say, but it wasn't hard work because I wasn't pushing, I wasn't

grinding, I was just following the hunches and the inspirations.

See, whatever is held in the fourth dimension, the dimension of

imagination comes into the third dimension by way of a couple of

mechanisms. So I'm going to explain to you right now about how thoughts become things.

The first way that a thought becomes a thing is what I would call the

internal mechanism and that's explained by behavioral psychology.

So a thought becomes a thing because you've had this contrasted

experience, you don't want to be broke anymore, you want to have

financial abundance. And now if you can be in

non resistance, meaning that money is not difficult to make,

money is easy to make, that you are capable of being wealthy and

abundant, that wealth and abundance are your birthright, that wealth and abundance are

ways that you can contribute to the world versus for example, being the root of

all evil. If your belief systems can be in alignment with you being

financially abundant, you will start to have thoughts in alignment with making

money and making money easily. Now if you believe, and this is why

it comes back to non resistance and your belief systems, if you believe that in

order to be financially abundant you have to sacrifice other important things

in your life, like your health or your family, and you don't want to sacrifice

your health or your family, then you're not going to have access to thoughts and

ideas that are going to lend to you becoming financially abundant, there's an inner conflict

there, there's an incongruence, there's resistance. But if you believe, for

example, and I hope you do, based on how I'm explaining to you, the nature

of reality works, that you don't have to hustle or grind or sacrifice, that's not

part of the equation. Then what will happen is the internal mechanism

will kick in and you'll start to have thoughts. You'll start to have thoughts about

making money that'll be congruent with things that you're interested in

that will take advantage of the opportunities that are already around you that you

haven't necessarily been paying attention to. And

you'll have emotions that feel good. You'll be excited about making money versus thinking that

you can't make money. You'll take excited, inspired

action related to the belief you have that money is easy

to make and the vision that you've activated around financial abundance.

And then you'll produce results. And as long as you don't

begin to doubt or move back into resistance when those

results aren't exactly what you expected them to be the first time around, and you

continue with the process, then eventually 100% of

the time, automatically, consistently and predictably, you

will, over time and a short period of time, get out of financial

insecurity and into financial abundance. The mistake people make

is they take score too quickly. I've been believing this thing for 30 days and

I'm still not rich. So therefore money must be hard to make. So you have

to give enough time. It's not a lot of time, but just notice when

you've decided to have some new decision or empowering belief around something

because you've been in personal growth for a while and started doing incantations

or affirmations and it lasts seven to 10 days and your situation hasn't changed or

something shows up that seems to be in direct opposition to this new belief system

that you're trying to establish. And so you give up and you go back to

beating the drum of the old limiting belief system.

So this is Neville Goddard talks about. He says stay loyal

to the fourth dimension. Stay loyal to the idea that this is how it

works. And so if you're willing to do that, then given

enough time, and not a lot of time, you will experience financial abundance and

prosperity as a result of the thoughts you have, the emotions that they contribute to

the action that you take. And as long as you stay in non resistance. Now,

simultaneous to that, what's so amazing is that there's an external factor

that's taking place. So it's not just your own effort

producing these results. In this case, in this example that we're talking about, which

is financial abundance, there's an external component. And the external

component is that the moment you have this desire,

other people's unconscious minds become affected

and they become driven to do

things that create coincidences and synchronicities and

timing in your life to also contribute to this new

realization of financial abundance and prosperity for you.

This is where all of a sudden a company puts out a job posting and

lo and behold, it's perfect for you. And even though they have 3,000 candid,

somehow someone got yours and you connected with them and went to the same college

and believe in the same things. And so even though maybe you weren't even the

most qualified candidate, you got the job. Now you're making more money than you've ever

made before. So there is an organization.

The reason why we call it Infinite Intelligence is because when you think about it,

it's operating for everyone simultaneously and

coordinating all of our lives, matching our vibrations and our thoughts, the

realities that we're producing. But other people

and external resources become activated in

consciousness to help coordinate or co create

the results that you're looking for. In fact, this is probably

99.9% of it. If you look at anything that you've ever

created, of course you had to take some action, you had to do some things

and sometimes you'd look back on it and go, man, but I was very disciplined.

I put in a lot of time, energy and effort. But if you actually look

at all the things external to you that needed to happen in order for that

result to be produced, it's far greater than the action that you took.

I look at how I met my wife. I met my wife, I GUESS it

was 13 years ago now in Sarasota, Florida and I had made a

decision two weeks before I met my wife. I had been single for almost 10

years. So that was the contrasted experience. Out of that contrasted experience

I had a desire to meet the woman of my dreams. I added a little

extra ingredient to it, which was around December 27,

towards the end of the year I decided, yeah, you know, in this new year

I'm going to meet a woman of my dreams. I feel like I'm ready. Note

by the way, the congruent belief systems. I've done a lot of work on myself.

I'm capable of attracting somebody who would be amazing, who's intelligent, who's beautiful, and

man, I would love it if she were Colombian. I thought Colombian women were some

of the most beautiful women in the world. So at that time I'd been going

back and forth to Sarasota, Florida, which was a two hour drive from

Orlando, getting injections in my arm because I had torn

my rotator cuff for the second time and I didn't want to have another surgery.

About six months prior, I ran into a girl that I had dated a few

years before who was going through her own health challenges and said, you should go

check out this guy Zane in Sarasota, Florida. So six months I'm going back and

forth, driving every week. The two hour drive from Orlando to

Sarasota. And one weekend, it's Zane's birthday and so I

decided to stay for the weekend. And I brought a buddy of mine down with

me, just said, hey, you want to go to Sarasota with me? I'm going to

stay there for the weekend. It's this acupuncturist birthday. My buddy gets in the car,

goes with me. I said, where do you want to go for dinner? Zane says,

well, let's check out this one restaurant. They were full, we couldn't go in. Let's

check out the second restaurant. They had a 15 minute wait. So we're hanging out

in the bar while we're waiting, and my buddy says, man, look at the group

of beautiful women over there. So those are really beautiful women. He said, I

get so nervous talking to women now. I had always gotten really nervous talking to

women too. But it was like one of those things where I was kind of

like one upping him. I'm like, oh man, really, it's no big deal. Come on.

So like I grabbed him by the arm and we walked across the bar and

we started talking to these three women, three beautiful

Colombian women, one of whom I made my wife.

Now if you look at that, there are thoughts and ideas and actions that I

have to take. If I say, yeah, man, I'm too nervous to go talk to

women too. And we stayed across the bar. Perhaps I never would have met Carol

Gutierrez Bayer. But if you look at all the things that happened external to

me, man, that's 99.99999% of it.

And so going back to what Abraham talks about, you have these experiences in

your life that you don't prefer, that invoke desires within you. That happens

automatically. There's nothing that you have to do. That's step one. Step two happens

instantaneously. @ the same time, you activate all of the cooperative

components, the ideas, the vibrations, the people who are

coordinated not through your own doing, but by the doing of infinite intelligence to

actually do all the external work, which is most of the work, in order for

what it is that you envision or dream of to materialize into your reality.

And it happens instantaneously. I Want you to get this. Every time you

experience something that you don't like, what is immediately instantaneously

created is a thing that you do like. And what is immediately instantaneously

organized are all of the cooperative components. In order for it to make it happen,

the only thing left for you to do is make sure that you don't have

any resistance and that you are in alignment with your thoughts, your beliefs, and

your emotions with that desired outcome. There's a beautiful

scripture. It's written about this in Isaiah

65, 24, before they call, I will answer.

While they are still speaking, I will hear. That's how instantaneously God

or the field hears you, even before you're actually saying it. Just when you're

feeling it, the answer is coming. So I want to

share this with you because I think it gives great depth of clarity. In a

world that can feel chaotic, in a world that can feel

oppressed, in a world that can feel unfair, in a world that

feels confusing. Like, if you don't understand how this

game works, how can you create any change? I think there are a lot of

people out there who are achieving certain things, transforming their health, creating big businesses,

making an impact in the world, maybe positive, maybe negative, depending on your

viewpoint. You know, who are in relationship, who are becoming more spiritually aware.

It's not that we're not achieving things, but. But I think most people aren't aware

of the mechanism by which they're actually producing results. This is the mechanism,

and it's really that simple. Now you can go deeper into some other

episodes that I have again, I reference again episode three, where I talk about how

thoughts become things. And I teach the formula of desire plus non resistance equals

desired result. And I go into the four types of resistance that we actually

take our clients through through a program we have called the Whole Human Framework. You're

limiting beliefs, your resentments, the core program, and the absence of self

love. Those are the resistances that are inside of you that actually

prevent life from coordinating and operating in the

efficient way that it is meant to do in order to support you in producing

the results that you want, you're the only one who can muck it up.

And, but that's a good thing because if you can become educated and then you

can actually integrate that education into a changed mind, and you can get into

a practice of continuing to grow your consciousness and drop the

resistance and start to surround yourself with other people who are in the. The practice

as well. Man, I mean, there isn't anything that you can't create. No matter where

you are in your life right now, no matter how long the problem has been

going on, no matter how someone has diagnosed it as chronic disease or

a childhood trauma. I mean, listen, I know some people,

they're in my programs. I have some friends who've gone through things I would not

wish on anyone. I mean, some people might view that around some of the things

I experienced in my own life. But all of those things are just

contrasted experiences that were meant to set you up for extraordinary victory

in a masterpiece life. And it's important that you start transforming or

translating the meaning that you're giving those experiences. They aren't reasons

why you can't achieve greatness. They are the seeds for your greatness.

So you have already created so much clarity

and so much activation and so much support in the fourth dimension.

It's all swirling right now. And it doesn't matter how long it's been

swirling. It's ready to materialize for you if you can actually drop the

resistance. But it's very difficult to do that if you're just continually addicted to your

third dimensional experience. Yeah, but where is it? Yeah, I've been wanting it for a

while. Yeah, but it's still not here. Yeah, it's still not here because you keep

focusing on the fact that it's still not here. You're in resistance. You're not

tuning the beautiful nervous system you have that has the ability to

call forth new opportunities and new ideas and new

individuals and new circumstances and new situations. You have to tune that

dial. That's what your nervous system is. You're an electrical, mechanical, vibrational being.

And the way that you can tune it is, again, by

understanding the root cause of how we're creating. Therefore,

you might give yourself permission to relax a little bit. And it's kind of wild.

It's like, Dave, you're telling me that, like, the key to creating more of what

I want is to actually relax more and not try so hard. The key to

creating what I want is to actually stop paying attention to my problems in the

absence of the things that I want, which, by the way, will make me feel

better, because I don't enjoy paying attention to the problems or the things that I

don't want. And then the things that I want will actually materialize. And yeah,

that's what I'm saying. Like creation, the universe, infinite

intelligence. God is kind of encouraging you to say, hey, hey, let me handle it.

I got it. You just chill. If you look at the first three steps of

Alcoholics Anonymous. It basically says, I realized that I was powerless

over my addiction and my life had become unmanageable. I realized that

there was a power greater than myself that could restore me to sanity. That's

step two. And step three is I decided to allow that power to take

over my life, to put my life and my will in the care of God.

As I understand God, the first three steps are basically, I can't.

He or it can. I'll let him. And that's it.

And so if you haven't been able to create the change that you're looking for,

maybe it's time for you to surrender. You know, maybe it's time for you to

find a 12 step program or just apply the principles that we're talking about

here on a changed mind. I mean, we've got so many episodes that help

you reorient yourself to right thinking and right perception around the

laws of creation and understanding who you are. Just go, go,

go, go deeper. Whether it's me or whether with someone else. And then get your

hands into it. Get around a community that's doing it. Get into some processes, get

into, begin to embody it. Because if you're

listening to this episode and you're still here 44 minutes in, I

know you're a seeker. I know you're a desire. I know that there's so much

bigger for you in your life right now. And I know that you're right on

the doorstep of it. You're right on the doorstep of it. The

scripture again tells us, ask and you shall what? Receive. Seek and you shall find.

Knock and it shall be answered to you. You know what? It's even more powerful

than that. You don't even have to ask. The asking happen automatically and the

giving to you happens automatically too. The rest of it is called just enjoy your

life. And when you become inspired, yes, you take action. And if

you're receiving inspiration and not taking action, well, guess what? There's some resistance

there, right? Well, what if it doesn't go right? What if I'm not the right

person? What if I. So this just became a game not of trying to figure

things out. It becomes a game of understanding when you're in resistance and then letting

the resistance go. It's very much like the sculptor with his

masterpiece. The sculptor doesn't like, take a bunch of blocks of clay and

stack them together in a Mr. Potato Head type of face. The sculptor

creates a masterpiece by taking a block of clay. In removing what doesn't belong. What

doesn't belong Are your doubts, your fears, your resistances? Because there's no

reason to doubt, there's no reason to be afraid, there's no reason to be resistant.

When you understand how this all works. This is the new mathematics, the better

mathematics, that we're all. Not all of us, but some of us. If you're here,

you're starting to live your life according to this. And this foundational mathematics is what's

going to change the world. I did an episode on the New World Order, which

you're welcome to check out. It was a really cool episode on how I explained

that everything that we're seeing in terms of chaos in the world or control in

the world, or censorship in the world, or the financial cartel, the medical

cartels, the division that we see within the political environment, the wars, the

military industrial complex, that's all a creation of what's inside

of us. Those are our fears, those are our doubts, those are our

angers. That's thousands of years of unmetabolized,

unprocessed trauma that is materializing itself. Just

like we create in our own lives, we're creating collectively as a society into

a bunch of external shit that we don't want. Well, the way forward is to

actually not try to change that. It's to. To detoxify ourselves of

fear. Realign yourself with the truth that the Garden of

Eden wasn't something from a long time ago. You were born into it. In most

places in the world, all you have to do is look outside. I happen to

live in a beautiful place in Puerto Rico, which was my vision. It was my

dream home. I have a mountaintop retreat where I do retreats with my private clients

and entertain family and friends. And I get to raise my child in nature with

chickens and ducks and jungle. That was my vision.

Here I am. But I can look outside. I know I was born into the

Garden of Eden. So everything is working for us in our life

right now. When we see all the chaos out there, that's a representation

of the chaos that's inside of us. And so that's the work to do. You

want to eliminate the chaos in your life, eliminate the chaotic

misunderstanding inside of you and align with what I'm talking about in this episode

and others you want to support eliminating the chaos in the world. Eliminate the chaos

that's inside of you. If we do this one person at a time, we start

producing these extraordinary individual lives around each of us.

And then when all those add up, guess what? What? You get an amazing world.

But it's time for a new mathematics. You know, in the early 1500s,

they believed that the Earth was the center of the solar system.

So all the scientists came together and they said, well, this is the math. And

then people went, well, this is the math. And so we'll start like, doing the

math this way. And they were getting all kinds of bad calculations, and they were

fudging the math to kind of make up for things. And because, of course, at

this point in time, we know that the Earth was not the center of the

solar system. It was bad math. Kind of like so much of the bad math

we're seeing right now in the medical world. But

along came Copernicus around 1540, and he goes, hey,

there's a better equation here. The equation says the sun

is the center of the solar system. And now all of a sudden, all the

physics worked. And so what I'm saying is that we've all been living according to

bad math. The bad math is there's this chaotic external

reality, and we've got to figure out a way to control it and hustle and

grind our way to creating the things that we want in our life. No, that's

the bad math. The new math is desire plus non

resistance equals desired result. That's the new

math. And even more than that, the problems in your life are

the seeds for the desires that you

emanate immediately without effort. And life

immediately responds and organizes 99.9% of what's

required in order for you to make that a reality. The last

0.00001% is you relaxing into it.

And hopefully this episode gives you some support

for relaxing because you actually now understand how it all

works. And you can start migrating from the bad math to the

good math and start having a powerful living experience. I love

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