Hello and welcome to the Women Conquer Business Show.
Jen:I'm Jen McFarland, joined by Shelley Carney.
Jen:We're your go-to small business marketing show covering breaking marketing news
Jen:that affects you cool apps we found, and how to deep dive into a marketing topic
Jen:with a side of motivation and inspiration.
Jen:We'll also talk a little about our own entrepreneurial journeys as well.
Jen:Are you ready?
Jen:Let's get started.
Jen:Well, hello and welcome to Women Conquer Business.
Jen:I feel like it's been actually forever, since we've done this.
Jen:I like for those of you watching or listening, you're like, nothing.
Jen:This is normal.
Jen:But Shelley and I haven't seen each other for what, two weeks?
Jen:Two and a half.
Jen:Oh yeah.
Jen:It's been . I dunno, it's
Shelley:been forever.
Shelley:You Halloween, so it was before Halloween.
Shelley:, yeah,
Jen:I left on Halloween.
Jen:That's right.
Jen:Yeah.
Jen:Cause I
Shelley:opened up stream yard and there was this Halloween background.
Shelley:I'm like, oh yeah,
Jen:So today we're gonna talk about delegation and part of the reason for
Jen:that, as I've mentioned before, is I have an executive assistant now.
Jen:She's awesome.
Jen:And it made my vacation way better and more enjoyable.
Jen:So today we're gonna talk about the first five things you must stop doing now.
Jen:Must, uh, you know, it depends on what you like to do, what you do professionally.
Jen:There's so many must seems very harsh, even though I wrote that headline.
Jen:Delegating takes practice, but the benefits to your business are huge.
Jen:It allows you to grow your business without having to do everything yourself
Jen:and allows you to focus on the more important tasks like making Money . So
Jen:during this episode, we'll talk about the first five things that you really
Jen:need to consider delegating, including how to identify what will make the
Jen:biggest impact on your business.
Jen:But before we get started, How you doing Shelley?
Shelley:Hey . I'm doing pretty good.
Shelley:For the past two weeks, Toby and I have been taking our day trips and
Shelley:doing car content and he got a new computer and that's been giving us some
Shelley:fits and starts, but it's it's doing alright and things are coming along and
Shelley:I am preparing for a big Thanksgiving Black Friday event coming up next
Shelley:week where I'll be premiering my new signature course and implementation
Shelley:program called Livecast Lifestyle.
Shelley:So I'm excited about that cuz it took me all summer to
Shelley:build it and put it together.
Shelley:Oh, so you got it done while I was gone.
Shelley:It done
Shelley:. Jen: I'm so excited.
Shelley:You got it done while I was
Shelley:gone.
Shelley:Oh yeah.
Shelley:It's all set up now.
Shelley:And another fun thing was I, Toby and I did a a show about.
Shelley:HubSpot and the Tilt put out a report that we talked about on on one of our
Shelley:shows, and then I put out as a blog post.
Shelley:So the Tilt took that and put it in their newsletter and sh and said, go read this.
Shelley:It's very fun, and I was like,
Jen:exciting.
Jen:Oh wow.
Jen:That's awesome.
Jen:That's like exposure to what, 50,000 people or something like that?
Jen:Is that something like that . Huge newsletter.
Jen:That's amazing.
Jen:Congratulations.
Jen:Yeah.
Shelley:So we're excited.
Shelley:Hopefully something will come a bit
Shelley:. Jen: Aloha.
Shelley:I washa, I wanna hear about Hawaii.
Shelley:I was in Hawaii the last two weeks.
Shelley:I won't spend too much time talking about it except to say if you have
Shelley:the chance to go to a warm place with ocean and relaxation and time away from
Shelley:your phone, , take that opportunity.
Shelley:I will.
Shelley:I'll say we were gone for Island.
Shelley:Oh, which island?
Shelley:Oh, we were on Hawaii, the big island.
Shelley:Oh, big island.
Shelley:Uhhuh.
Shelley:. Yeah.
Shelley:And near Kona, about 30 miles from Kona.
Shelley:It was, so this is interesting because we recently had a show about burnout.
Shelley:Mm-hmm.
Shelley:, and then what Shelley knows, but most people listening to the show
Shelley:don't know is after that I had a massive meltdown, of burnout, because
Shelley:sometimes we talk about the things we know, and that's really what happens.
Shelley:And that was something that I knew.
Shelley:So let me describe that in a different way for you.
Shelley:So this vacation was really big for me for several reasons.
Shelley:One, I hired somebody to help me with managing the things that I don't
Shelley:like, which we're gonna talk about.
Shelley:That's one of the keys to delegation is finding out what
Shelley:it is that you don't like to do.
Shelley:And for me it's email, which is really unfortunate because that's what drives
Shelley:business, and I'm not talking about email marketing, I'm talking about Replying
Shelley:and scheduling and a lot of that stuff.
Shelley:If I spend all my time doing that, then it's really hard for
Shelley:me to do the more creative stuff.
Shelley:It's a whole big thing.
Shelley:Everybody has their things.
Shelley:Before I started my business, I was an executive at the City of Portland
Shelley:and one part of my role was to onboard this really large project that was
Shelley:a collaboration between the city of Portland and the Internal Revenue
Shelley:Service or the IRS tax agency.
Shelley:And I was on call 24 7, 365, starting in 2014.
Shelley:That was a long time ago.
Shelley:we're talking about, what is that now?
Shelley:Like six or seven years or something?
Shelley:I don't know, eight years.
Shelley:And so this vacation was the first time that I could put the phone down, be
Shelley:away from it for several days at a time.
Shelley:I did bring my work computer.
Shelley:I only needed to get on there for work purposes one time.
Shelley:So it was good that I brought it because that thing happened that
Shelley:can only be done from a computer.
Shelley:So it was a significant vacation for me because it was the first
Shelley:time I was able to delegate.
Shelley:It was the first time that I was able to truly take a break and get away and
Shelley:a hundred percent, put the business aside for a while and focus on the
Shelley:things that are more important to me, like my friends and my husband.
Shelley:And it was delightful, incredibly delightful and rewarding.
Shelley:And I think that's why when I was looking at we put together a schedule of shows
Shelley:that we're gonna talk about and we had something else and I was like, no, I
Shelley:really wanna move this up because it's been a significant event and change.
Shelley:So that's what I've been doing.
Shelley:I've been basking in this like post Hawaii, like state and like getting
Shelley:back into my business groove this week.
Shelley:We got back on Friday.
Shelley:Today's Thursday, I think I'm finally like, almost, I have a few tasks, but I'm
Shelley:pretty close to caught up at this point.
Shelley:Last night I went and saw Jagged Little Pill, the musical with
Shelley:my aunt, and we had a blast.
Shelley:It was a great show.
Shelley:And yeah, so that's me.
Shelley:Do you wanna, you're doing breaking news, so do you wanna do it
Shelley:? Shelley: All right.
Shelley:I don't know if this is exactly news, but I wanted to share it.
Shelley:Understanding your audience, how to age down or grow up.
Shelley:And this is all about using YouTube in a way that is focused on bringing the kind
Shelley:of content that the different age groups enjoy, to life and understanding what it
Shelley:is that each age group is looking for.
Shelley:And it talks about Gen Z and what they're looking for.
Shelley:They're the first digital native generation.
Shelley:They don't know a world without the internet , which is like, oh wow.
Shelley:People wouldn't know what to do if the internet shut off, would you
Shelley:? Jen: Yeah.
Shelley:But it's amazing because they see possibilities.
Shelley:Okay.
Shelley:Yeah.
Shelley:They have their advantages, disadvantage, absolutely.
Shelley:And my son is a Gen Z, so I have nothing against them, but it is
Shelley:funny that they just have never known life without the internet.
Shelley:So they give you tactics and insights about Gen Z and it says
Shelley:84% of Gen Zers are overwhelmed by their work and activities.
Shelley:So they want something that's going to allow them to decompress
Shelley:and just relax and zone out.
Shelley:So I'm like, okay, great.
Shelley:I've got some meditation videos on my channel, . Right.
Shelley:Maybe that'll.
Shelley:And then we talk about millennials 1977 to 1995.
Shelley:Is that a huge generation?
Shelley:That is huge.
Shelley:And they talk about millennials.
Shelley:They grew up with YouTube 1977 . They didn't have internet until the
Shelley:mid nineties, so I don't know.
Shelley:And but they understand what YouTube is.
Shelley:But they're looking for life lessons.
Shelley:How to adult, how to be a good dad.
Shelley:You know what dads know how to do, they know how to fix the lawnmower.
Shelley:They know how to change a tire on the bike, and these things that
Shelley:your dad knew how to do that you're like, when you get to be an adult.
Shelley:I don't know how to do that
Shelley:. Jen: Cause that just shows like
Shelley:that they wanna learn how to adult.
Shelley:That would be the people that are in the born, in the nineties.
Shelley:Exactly.
Shelley:You know, because my, my friends who are in the earlier part of
Shelley:that cohort are like, have they been adulting for a long time?
Shelley:Yeah.
Shelley:, Shelley: they are dad.
Shelley:And they're,
Jen:they get it.
Jen:They're like, they get it.
Jen:Yeah.
Jen:So that's interesting.
Jen:Oh yeah.
Jen:Gen Z wants to stay hip.
Jen:Oh,
Shelley:you feel that?
Shelley:And X wants to stay hip, right?
Shelley:Yeah.
Shelley:Gen X wants to stay hip again.
Shelley:65 to 76.
Shelley:At least.
Shelley:That's a smaller age
Jen:gap.
Jen:Our group everybody forgets about us.
Jen:Nobody loves us.
Jen:Oh,
Jen:, Shelley: you think that about you?
Jen:What about me?
Jen:I.
Jen:I'm not exactly a boomer because when I we'll get into boomers in just a
Jen:moment, but Gen X wants to stay hip.
Jen:They wanna know what's going on in the world.
Jen:What is happening, what does this new lingo that the kids are
Jen:speaking, what does that mean?
Jen:my God.
Jen:So these are the kinds of information that they're looking for on YouTube and.
Jen:1946 to 1964.
Jen:Another huge bunch of years, which is why I said that I'm in Generation Jones, which
Jen:is from 57 to 64 which is that because I'm not, I don't consider myself a boomer.
Jen:Boomer is from baby boom, which means after people came back from the war
Jen:in 19, and you're not part of that, before war, they started having.
Jen:Yeah, you're not part of that.
Jen:Yeah.
Jen:I'm like, I'm not a war baby.
Jen:my dad was in the Navy during peace time.
Jen:It was, there was no war going on when I was around and born.
Jen:And so boomers is not really an accurate name for my generation, but this I
Jen:found interesting and condescending.
Jen:They said Boomers use the internet too.
Jen:Like duh, we invented how many things, and you want wanna
Jen:say, oh, we use the internet.
Jen:Like we don't know how or something.
Jen:to be fair,
Jen:not all boomers use the internet of them.
Jen:Don't get it.
Shelley:You're correct.
Shelley:One in three boomers use YouTube to learn about products or services.
Shelley:So they also talk about being adaptive for boomers because they're getting older.
Shelley:You wanna think about what kind of information they might need.
Shelley:For instance, I, when Toby and I talk about our day trips, I like to include if
Shelley:you are in a, in a wheelchair or if you are using a walker or a cane, here's what
Shelley:you need to think about when you go here.
Shelley:I try to be more inclusive, and that's all happened in the last year because my mom
Shelley:is now in a wheelchair having a stroke.
Shelley:So I think more about that, what people might,
Jen:yeah.
Jen:And the thing about that, and it's, it go, it goes and it speaks
Jen:to the other part of this, right?
Jen:So what you're talking about when you talk about being more inclusive,
Jen:you're talking about it in, in terms of age, but it's also being more
Jen:inclusive in terms of, People of other abilities, and those are it's values.
Jen:And so we look at cohorts, and I learned a lot of this from David Allison.
Jen:He owns a company and speaks to the importance of values in marketing.
Jen:So a lot of times people talk about cohorts, age cohorts, but then you take
Jen:that and you infuse that with values.
Jen:So the younger especially Gen Z they want to be as inclusive as possible, inclusive
Jen:of people using canes and walkers and people of all genders, more inclusivity.
Jen:So you're actually crossing over into another cohort when
Jen:you start talking about values.
Jen:And I think that that's the thing that like really grounds us in what is it that
Jen:we offer people that are both in our age group, and share our values, and those
Jen:are the people that we wanna connect with.
Jen:You don't wanna talk to just any old boomer or any old Gen
Jen:X, or, you wanna talk to your people that are in that cohort.
Jen:So when I look at this, I always look at it from the perspective of, yes, this
Jen:is what in general, this is what people of different age demographics want.
Jen:And then you go, okay, but what is it that my people value?
Jen:What is it that my people need that also fits within that framework?
Jen:And that's how I think we can all be more inclusive of what, of what will connect.
Jen:How do you feel about that, Shelley?
Jen:Does that make sense?
Shelley:Oh, absolutely.
Shelley:And I, and you have to think about, okay, each platform kind of caters
Shelley:to an age group or a cohort as you say, but YouTube pride itself on.
Shelley:Catering to all ages.
Shelley:Yes.
Shelley:Crosses over no little kids, all the way up to old people.
Shelley:Everybody can find something that they enjoy on YouTube.
Shelley:Unlike, with TikTok, it's I don't get it.
Shelley:I don't, what?
Shelley:No And if you didn't start out with Instagram than, you don't use it.
Shelley:If you started off with Facebook, you didn't change over to Instagram.
Shelley:If you started off with Instagram, you didn't change over to TikTok.
Shelley:If you started out with TikTok, you're not gonna change over to whatever comes next.
Shelley:It's just you stick with that thing that was popular when you were a teenager.
Shelley:Yeah.
Shelley:Yeah.
Shelley:It's good to know.
Jen:It's all very interesting, and that's what's so cool and you know
Jen:all this from growing a channel before, like you found something that
Jen:everybody, searching for treasure.
Jen:Everybody liked that.
Jen:And it probably at some points didn't matter how old anybody was, cuz they
Jen:were all out searching for treasure.
Jen:That's right.
Jen:Yeah.
Shelley:Yeah.
Shelley:So cool.
Shelley:And the main guy who has hidden the treasure was 80 when he hit it.
Shelley:So everybody you know would say, oh, it's probably up this mountain.
Shelley:And we'd have to say, no.
Shelley:He climb a mountain, he's 80 . Yeah.
Jen:So yeah.
Jen:That's really, that's cool.
Jen:I appreciate that Breaking news.
Jen:Yeah, I like
Shelley:that.
Shelley:Yeah.
Shelley:So we'll have that link in the description box and that came from Tube Buddy,
Shelley:so they have all the statistics so they know what they're talking about.
Shelley:Woo.
Shelley:. Are we ready to move forward?
Shelley:I'm
Jen:ready.
Jen:Okay.
Jen:So today we're gonna talk about how to identify what to delegate that will make
Jen:the biggest impact on your business.
Jen:And this is something that a lot of people talk about.
Jen:I will share what I, hot tip, like what I tell everybody in
Jen:my marketing presentations.
Jen:At the beginning.
Jen:And because I teach marketing to lots of groups of business owners,
Jen:many people who are at the beginning of their business, but really
Jen:this advice works for everybody.
Jen:Regardless of how far along you are in your business, because we're always
Jen:in a state of change and growth.
Jen:So you have to think about what you need to delegate, and you have to
Jen:think about the things that never get done, . So when I talk about
Jen:marketing in particular, I say you have to have an honest conversation with
Jen:yourself about what do you like to do?
Jen:What do you not like to do?
Jen:And then line that up with like your business goals.
Jen:And if there are things that you actually need to do that will help you meet your
Jen:business goals, then, and you're never gonna do them , then these are the
Jen:things that you have to hire somebody.
Jen:And that's the case with all of these things.
Jen:When you look at your business and you're like, okay, I don't like X, Y, Z.
Jen:, you have to hire somebody for that.
Jen:If you don't like doing finance, you have to hire somebody for that.
Jen:So the caveat to what we're gonna talk about is always looking inward, looking
Jen:at your business, looking at your goals, and being able, as a business leader
Jen:or business owner, whether you have a staff or you're one person, whether
Jen:you're working at home or not, is you have to have that honest conversation
Jen:about what are my blind spots, , that I'm not good at, that I need help with?
Jen:And then those are the gaps that you have to start closing.
Jen:Because if you don't, then those things aren't being tended to and there are
Jen:certain pillars of business that need to be tended to, or it really stifles.
Shelley:Yeah.
Shelley:Although I think sales and marketing is kind of inherent in any business.
Shelley:I know there's a lot of people who are just like me who are just like,
Shelley:I'd just rather create content.
Shelley:Can't that just happen magically,
Shelley:. Jen: It can, but , you have to
Shelley:to keep the lights on until you tip over into content full time.
Shelley:You know what I mean?
Shelley:And, but if you don't have time, say to do collaborations or you don't have
Shelley:time to do all of the things, you really do need to get some help in some areas
Shelley:that will help you grow until that magic time one year content is sustaining you.
Shelley:They say, I remember that from the.
Shelley:that report, it takes what, like 18 months?
Shelley:Isn't that what that said?
Shelley:Yes, mm-hmm.
Shelley:. So you've gotta do, if you're gonna, if you're embarking on a full-time
Shelley:creator concept, whatever that looks like for you, then you gotta
Shelley:keep the lights on for 18 months.
Shelley:That's right.
Shelley:And it doesn't hurt to delegate some things that will help you in the interim,
Shelley:because those pillars are gonna help you when you do become a creator as well.
Shelley:You know what I mean?
Shelley:So first things, so let's talk about some of the five things that really
Shelley:most people need to delegate because they're wildly different from each other.
Shelley:Nobody can do everything as I've learned.
Shelley:And I think we all learn.
Shelley:We don't, nobody can do everything.
Shelley:Some things are always gonna get missed.
Shelley:Mm-hmm.
Shelley:. So the first one on our list is finance.
Shelley:Do you like doing
Shelley:finance?
Shelley:No, that's why I have a partner who takes care of all the finances,
Shelley:. Jen: I don't like doing finance either.
Shelley:But then when I wanna get something, a piece of software
Shelley:or something, I have to ask him now, he says I don't, but I do.
Shelley:I it's his money and he's in charge of the finances and I'm not just
Shelley:gonna take money out of the bucket.
Shelley:Cuz that would mess him up.
Shelley:If he's in charge of the finances, he's in charge of all of it.
Shelley:And that even includes if we're gonna buy something, he
Shelley:needs to be in charge of that.
Shelley:Yeah.
Jen:Yeah.
Jen:And so what I did, I don't like finance either.
Jen:And I identified that as one of the first things probably
Jen:because my dad is an accountant, was an auditor and all of that.
Jen:And I worked at the finance bureau at the City of Portland and I was,
Jen:and everybody always thought it was so hilarious cuz I don't like
Jen:finance . So but that wasn't my job.
Jen:My job wasn't to like process taxes.
Jen:My job was to.
Jen:Find the best apps, streamline processes, manage large projects.
Jen:That was what my job was.
Jen:So I was very good at my job, but I also stayed out of my lane.
Jen:Like I wasn't there to oversee like any sort of finance.
Jen:That's not my job.
Jen:My job was to make sure all the pieces worked that would support making those
Jen:financial apps and technology, making sure that supported the people who were
Jen:managing taxes and tax accounts, that it all worked properly, calculated correctly.
Jen:Mm-hmm.
Jen:, which as a person who pays taxes, you want that . So it was very important work, but
Jen:it was not, I never touched a calculator.
Shelley:Yeah.
Shelley:In my day work.
Shelley:Yeah.
Shelley:If you're bringing in money, you gotta do taxes.
Shelley:So you get some help if
Jen:you're no longer.
Jen:Yeah.
Jen:So when we talk about getting help with finance, we're talking about bookkeeping.
Jen:Taxes.
Jen:If you're gonna take on, like Shelley said, if you're gonna take
Jen:on additional expenses, somebody who can be like, I, I know, I don't know.
Jen:But I will say this about hiring somebody to help support your business.
Jen:You may not always feel like you have the money for that, but
Jen:sometimes you need to do it because it's what allows you to grow.
Jen:And so these are tough decisions, but having somebody who can support
Jen:you with finance, I have for a long time I used bench for my
Jen:accounting and bookkeeping and taxes.
Jen:I have now taken my information off of Bench and I have Gail Bendert who's a
Jen:colleague and dear friend of mine, my business partner for Epiphany, she's
Jen:helping me with all of that , and she's been my person that've been
Jen:like I wanna this, and she's like, no.
Jen:And.
Jen:Yes.
Jen:, but we have these conversations and that's, that
Shelley:is how it goes.
Shelley:Yeah.
Shelley:You gotta have somebody to run those things back past, or you're gonna
Shelley:buy everything and run outta money.
Shelley:run outta
Jen:money.
Jen:Nobody has infinite funds.
Jen:Right?
Jen:So that's the reasons.
Jen:So if you don't if you're allergic to numbers, , then you need to find somebody
Jen:who can help you with finance, somebody that you trust infinitely because mm-hmm.
Jen:Financial malfeasance is also something that does happen.
Jen:So you need to make sure that this is somebody who you can entrust with
Jen:the money, which without revenue and without money, there's no business.
Jen:So it's critical that you have somebody helping you.
Jen:You got anything else on?
Shelley:Well, and if you feel comfortable with it, you can do it
Shelley:like Jen did on your own, QuickBooks or whatever program that you put your
Shelley:information into, and then it helps you with your taxes at the end of the year.
Shelley:But if you just hate it, hate it, hate it, then find somebody and talked with
Shelley:them about what it is that you need and what you know, what you need to be
Shelley:setting up and inputting throughout the year so that when you bring your taxes
Shelley:to them at the end of the year, then they have, all the information laid
Shelley:out in a way that's easy to work with.
Shelley:But start right, right away.
Shelley:As soon as you plan on making any money at all you need to
Shelley:get that set up and get started.
Shelley:So it stays organized and easy to work with for whoever you handed off
Jen:to.
Jen:Absolutely.
Jen:And I'll be honest, when I had QuickBooks, I didn't.
Jen:and this was my red flag.
Jen:I was like, I'm not putting this stuff in.
Jen:And then it's the end of the year and it's like, surprise, you made this much money.
Jen:And it's you can't operate a business like that.
Jen:So I moved to Bench where I had people that I could ask questions
Jen:to and do things, but they weren't somebody I could sit next to,
Jen:and like really talk it through.
Jen:And I found that I needed more high touch.
Jen:I liked somebody else who understood QuickBooks.
Jen:Bench gave me year end reports.
Jen:I had reports on an ongoing basis but it was very expensive and they
Jen:were gonna raise the price even more.
Jen:And I was like, can't do it.
Jen:I can't, might as well hire somebody then.
Jen:Right.
Jen:, hiring somebody and having somebody as a colleague, the trusted advisor
Jen:was really much more useful to me and meaningful to me in my business.
Jen:If you find that, and that's what I mean when I say if there are things
Jen:you're never doing that you need to do.
Jen:Yeah.
Jen:Like I was overlooking my QuickBooks.
Jen:That's a signal that you need some help with it.
Jen:The second thing that you need to delegate is legal.
Jen:And I will intro this by saying I am married to an attorney.
Jen:He is not my business attorney.
Jen:He's not, he doesn't do business law.
Jen:He's uncomfortable with being the person charged with it.
Jen:. He wants to be the husband,
Jen:He doesn't wanna be the business attorney.
Jen:And I love, love, love my attorney, Michael Jonas at
Jen:Rational Unicorn Legal Services.
Jen:Fantastic, phenomenal, great, helps people in Washington, Oregon, and California.
Jen:I'm a huge advocate for him.
Jen:He specializes in small business creators, all of that stuff.
Jen:So you need to find, and it's like a flat fee, , so you know
Jen:how you don't have to pay for a retainer, which is really powerful.
Jen:Everyone needs to find their own.
Jen:Michael Jonas, things come up.
Jen:You may need to have, if you have a podcast, it's really good to
Jen:have a trademark of that show name so that you're protecting
Jen:that, that ip, your information.
Jen:So you have things that you need help with.
Jen:Everybody has, if you're serving people, if you're a service based
Jen:business, you have contracts.
Jen:If you're not a service based business, but you have vendors, you have contracts,
Jen:, it's good to have those legally reviewed and understand what you can change
Jen:in there legally as a business owner.
Jen:So that's my spiel.
Jen:There's also an episode, it was before I hired him as my attorney.
Jen:There's actually really great episode with Michael Jonas.
Jen:We'll put the link to that in the show notes so that you can hear
Jen:from him exactly what legal things a business owner needs to have.
Jen:And it will of guide you in how to make those legal.
Jen:Decisions what a, what an attorney can do to support your small business.
Jen:And we'll do that.
Jen:What have you found, Shelley?
Jen:Do you have an attorney or somebody that you talked to about legal stuff
Jen:or have you not run into anything?
Shelley:So far we haven't needed much.
Shelley:What we have done is I have, there's an attorney who is online, she's
Shelley:like a coach and she does, workshops and that sort of thing, and she
Shelley:has a library of contracts and that sort of thing that you can access.
Shelley:Yeah, that cover things specifically related to like online coaching and
Shelley:memberships and things of that nature.
Shelley:I have access to that library of content for contracts and that sort of thing.
Jen:Oh, that's great.
Jen:Yeah.
Jen:I know that there's a few, there's Andrea Sager.
Jen:Preneur and like some other people.
Jen:Michael Jonas, part of what I like is that they do a lot of online,
Jen:community based learning around webinars and stuff that will help creators
Jen:so you can ask questions mm-hmm.
Jen:. I think that's what's important for small businesses is to have somebody
Jen:who is hands on and maybe provides you with resources so you can really wrap
Jen:your head around it without having to pay , thousands of dollars to go call
Jen:somebody up or something like that.
Jen:I think it's really important.
Jen:Yeah.
Jen:Yeah, that's really good.
Jen:I don't have anything else on legal do you?
Jen:Nope.
Jen:Okay.
Shelley:Just don't get yourself into contracts or if you got brand deals
Shelley:coming your way or contracts of any kind.
Shelley:Don't sign anything unless you get some professional advice first,
Shelley:because you don't want to, get into a corner and end up, on the
Shelley:short end of the stick basically.
Jen:It's really important.
Jen:I have outsourced content on other platforms, and I've had my attorney
Jen:review it to make sure that I'm not actually like giving away my intellectual
Jen:property, your ip, it's just important to protect yourself and that's really
Jen:what an attorney can do for you.
Jen:Yes, legal support.
Jen:If you're not an attorney, legal support is very helpful.
Jen:Yeah, so the third one and I feel like these first three are just not sexy.
Jen:Finance.
Jen:Legal.
Jen:And finally, insurance . Not sexy.
Jen:These are not sexy, but they will protect you and help you.
Jen:So I recently got a new insurance agent, very helpful, laid everything out for
Jen:me, helped me and it was interesting because there's actually insurance that
Jen:can protect you if you do online courses.
Jen:Also important, not something that people talk about.
Jen:, there are a lot of coaches and consultants out there that
Jen:also provide online courses.
Jen:There's just a lot of information out there that in terms of insurance protects
Jen:you if something goes horribly, terribly wrong, like something gets hacked, , all
Jen:the passwords are gone or whatever.
Jen:So these things are very important.
Jen:It's important to protect your business.
Jen:Yes.
Jen:It, I think I pay like $50 a month for insurance.
Jen:I've done that.
Jen:Since the beginning, since I registered my business and started, and I remember
Jen:when I did it, I was like, oh, $50.
Jen:Oof.
Jen:If I can afford that , I've never needed it.
Jen:Knock on wood , but I have it.
Jen:If something happens, it's your first line of defense.
Jen:It's,
Shelley:yes.
Shelley:Having an LLC is I think also one of those lines of defense, which you can,
Shelley:work through a lawyer or your local, city , they can walk you through these things as
Jen:well.
Jen:Yeah, I registered with the city, the state.
Jen:Yeah.
Jen:I did all of that myself cuz I, because of where I worked,
Jen:I knew that needed to happen.
Jen:Mm-hmm.
Jen:, your finance person also knows a lot about business formation.
Jen:Gail is amazing.
Jen:Insurance People know a lot.
Jen:Legal people know a lot.
Jen:That's why these three things, they may not be sexy, but they
Jen:can really help you with forming your business, doing it right, and
Jen:protecting yourself and your assets.
Jen:Especially if you're a solopreneur.
Jen:You don't want somebody to sue you , and then have the ability to go
Jen:after your personal effects as well.
Jen:Your house, your car, your savings.
Jen:Mm-hmm.
Jen:. So that's one of the reasons why you do that, is you educate yourself so
Jen:that you are protecting yourself.
Jen:That's the whole reason of for doing it.
Shelley:Yeah.
Shelley:If you're setting up a business and you reach out to the small business
Shelley:association, these are the three things that they will tell you that
Shelley:you need to have in place is your your legal, your insurance, and the
Shelley:finances and, to make sure that's all set up properly before you get started.
Shelley:Moving money around.
Jen:Yeah.
Jen:And these aren't people you need every day.
Jen:But these are things that give you that peace of mind so you
Jen:can sleep . I like to sleep
Shelley:and you dunno what you d know, so make sure that you get educated about it.
Shelley:Yeah.
Shelley:Yeah.
Jen:Oh, okay.
Jen:Can we talk about some fun stuff Now,
Jen:I know if like we do or like clapping or something.
Jen:I don't know, like something to kinda let's get bumped.
Jen:Let's talk about
Jen:fun
Shelley:stuff.
Shelley:Oh, ok.
Shelley:Well, I'll just do retraining again.
Shelley:. Jen: I know, I like sprung it on.
Shelley:She, I'm like, let's do this.
Shelley:She's like, oh, come on Jen.
Shelley:What button do I push?
Shelley:So the next one is marketing.
Shelley:Okay?
Shelley:Mm-hmm.
Shelley:, that's important to outsource.
Shelley:And I'm not saying this to like, so come work with me.
Shelley:Like that's not what this is about.
Shelley:This is about understanding that if.
Shelley:People don't know you're out there and you're gonna have a
Shelley:hard time spreading the word, especially with online marketing.
Shelley:Since Covid, not as many in-person events, even still here
Shelley:in Portland, that's the case.
Shelley:Everybody needs to have some sort of online presence and some sort of offline
Shelley:presence so people know that you exist.
Shelley:And fundamentally, marketing is getting the word out.
Shelley:Sharing what you care about, telling people who you are and what you do.
Shelley:And we all do it without knowing it.
Shelley:And we have to really get in touch with our business goals and find
Shelley:the ways to get the word out based on those goals that we set up.
Shelley:And sometimes we find that we need.
Shelley:Help with that , including me as a marketer, I need help too.
Shelley:I worked about two, I think it was two years ago, I worked
Shelley:with somebody about messaging.
Shelley:I just talked through everything.
Shelley:It's part of this is like when you bring other people into the
Shelley:room, you can really learn so much.
Shelley:One of the things Shelley and I talked about before the show today is how
Shelley:much we've learned from each other by having done this show for 11 months now
Shelley:together, it's, we've learned a lot.
Shelley:We've grown a lot, we've changed, we've done things because just having
Shelley:somebody else in the room is so valuable.
Shelley:So do it with your marketing too.
Shelley:Talk to people about where you're gonna name a product.
Shelley:If everybody's I don't even know what that is.
Shelley:, you need some guidance, you need to talk to people.
Shelley:You need to bring other people in.
Shelley:And I tend to be the person.
Shelley:It's like I'm the marketing whisperer for people who don't like social media . Cuz
Shelley:I tell people, you need to diversify your marketing and you still need to
Shelley:do some social media, but if you don't like it, then that's something that you
Shelley:need to find somebody to help you with.
Shelley:It's the same with like other aspects of your marketing.
Shelley:If there are products, if there's old blog posts that never get shared,
Shelley:if there's blog posts that need to be written or posted that never seem
Shelley:to get out there, there's so many aspects and elements to marketing.
Shelley:It's good to have some support.
Shelley:It's good to have a sounding board, somebody you can talk to about that.
Shelley:Yes.
Shelley:Even if you're Shelley and you like doing everything, I love that part.
Shelley:But there are times when I do get behind and that's
Shelley:why I have my minimums, right?
Shelley:I have to get this, this, and this.
Shelley:Done.
Shelley:If I get this other thing done, that's gravy.
Shelley:That's great.
Shelley:But it's not a have to thing.
Shelley:Exactly.
Shelley:I don't know, marketing is a little bit more easy for me, but maybe
Shelley:for other people, they're like, I don't wanna deal with that.
Shelley:Bring the people to me and I'll sell them whatever I have.
Shelley:They're great at sales, but they don't want to go out and
Shelley:share about their product or
Jen:service.
Jen:marketing and sales bump up against each other.
Jen:There are a lot of people who conflate the two, but they are
Jen:actually separate functions.
Jen:Like you, there's a sales, like if you go to a big company, there's a sales
Jen:department and a marketing department.
Jen:Now there are times where there's crossover and they have to communicate
Jen:with one another within a company.
Jen:And certainly if you're a solo printer, you're like, I do all the things.
Jen:I know sales and marketing are all the same.
Jen:But fundamentally these are like, oh, Jeep girl, Jody, nice to see ya.
Jen:Hey, how you doing?
Jen:So if These two things are fundamentally tied together at different points.
Jen:I would say if you're like I can handle the marketing, then you
Jen:may need somebody to help you with sales or even just bringing people
Jen:into your world, so I, marketing tends to be aka Treasure Princess.
Jen:That's great.
Jen:That's me.
Jen:, that's, that's Shelley.
Jen:Treasure Princess.
Jen:I use
Shelley:my Crown
Shelley:. Jen: You of course you have a crown.
Shelley:I'm
Shelley:gonna wear it under my headset cuz it's just, it hurts
Jen:So yeah, you need someone maybe who brings people to you and you
Jen:can have those sales conversations.
Jen:Advanced businesses may have people who are like the first line of sales
Jen:conversations to like warm somebody up and bring in some good leads.
Jen:There are all different aspects to marketing and then they bleed.
Jen:It bleeds over sometimes into sales.
Jen:Typically at some point you'll need some support with this, whether it's a
Jen:marketing agency or some sales support.
Jen:But these are things that without doing it, it will inhibit growth at some point.
Jen:Yeah.
Shelley:We had a client who he had us, who we did our, we did production for him.
Shelley:So he would come on and we would record his presentation and then we'd take the
Shelley:audio and put it up as a podcast for him.
Shelley:And then we would provide him a transcript to give to his
Shelley:marketing agency meant social.
Shelley:And they would take all of these pieces and they would create
Shelley:more they would create a blog.
Shelley:They would have short videos that they would take out of the longer ones.
Shelley:They would do all of that for him.
Shelley:He wanted nothing to do with it.
Shelley:Now, he loved sales, but he did not wanna do the marketing.
Shelley:So he hired people to do that for him.
Jen:Exactly, yeah.
Jen:So I.
Jen:I don't really have a lot else to add on the marketing bit.
Jen:It's again, it's about looking in and seeing what it is that you're not doing
Jen:that you're not interested in doing, but may be essential to growth, especially
Jen:when you look out at the landscape at all the other folks who do what you do.
Jen:. So you need to close those gaps and you probably need some help to do that.
Jen:Yeah.
Jen:Yeah.
Jen:Last but certainly not least get some sort of admin support, administrative support.
Jen:I have an executive assistant.
Jen:That is, that's like several steps above a VA or a virtual assistant.
Jen:She's somebody who's taking charge of certain parts of my business,
Jen:so I can be this like, jolly happy gal that's floating around, show
Jen:up and you're told to be there.
Jen:Showing up.
Jen:Yeah, giving me peace of mind.
Jen:So that may not be what you want.
Jen:Maybe you want a virtual assistant who can do more data entry.
Jen:I want somebody who can do scheduling, invoicing, streamlining my processes,
Jen:light social media, different things.
Jen:So find somebody who can lighten your load, give you
Jen:peace of mind, help you out.
Jen:I found Freedom Makers to be the perfect solution for me because
Jen:they were vetting people for me.
Jen:I was, like I said, before I left on vacation, I was super burned out, so I
Jen:needed somebody to make it easy for me.
Jen:But there are a lot of solutions out there, a lot of different ways that you
Jen:can find somebody to really support you.
Jen:But there are certain tasks that you need to ask yourself.
Jen:Is, is this what I should be doing that's going to help me grow my business?
Jen:And those are, that's one of the questions that you need to ask yourself, is
Jen:this what I need to be doing to grow?
Jen:If it's not, it's an, it's a hint.
Jen:You need some help
Shelley:with it.
Shelley:Yeah, absolutely.
Shelley:The things that are falling between the cracks and not getting done, and
Shelley:then a quarter goes by and you're like, why didn't this get done?
Shelley:I guess I need some help to get it done.
Shelley:I'm not going to do it myself.
Shelley:I see that now,
Shelley:. Jen: Yeah.
Shelley:But it takes time.
Shelley:These are not things that in the first year or two of your business,
Shelley:you may even be aware of or you might not know that you need it.
Shelley:And especially if you're bootstrapping, self-funding, that kind of thing.
Shelley:Your business, it.
Shelley:you might be like I have to do everything.
Shelley:And what I just wanna encourage you to do is start making that wishlist.
Shelley:My top wishlist item for years when I started my business was
Shelley:somebody to manage my email.
Shelley:And everybody thought I was crazy.
Shelley:And I'm like, no, we're realsies, . This is what I need.
Shelley:Cuz I just knew that if I could get my head out of email all the time,
Shelley:I could be a lot more productive.
Shelley:Yeah.
Shelley:And less eh, about the things I don't like to do.
Shelley:I don't wanna spend too much time cuz we still have to go through
Shelley:tweaks of the week and stuff.
Shelley:But I will say if you are going down the creator path, you might
Shelley:think about editing, repurposing collaborations and outreach blogging.
Shelley:There's a lot of different things that you might be looking at on the
Shelley:production side of your creator business that you might need support with.
Shelley:That frees up hours of time for you to create more.
Shelley:These things tend to be expensive , but it might be necessary to advance.
Shelley:Your career.
Shelley:Yeah.
Shelley:Or if you have adult children and they, can take on something even part-time
Shelley:and you can feel good about giving them money because they need the money.
Shelley:that's what I do.
Shelley:I look at, is this something that my daughter could handle or my
Shelley:son and could, could we hire him?
Shelley:Toby and I hired our son-in-law a couple of years ago when we
Shelley:were putting a website together to promote our own treasure hunt.
Shelley:If there's somebody in your family that you can support and
Shelley:they can support you, awesome.
Shelley:But get that help.
Jen:Yeah.
Jen:Yeah.
Jen:I really love this comment we have here from Jeep Girl, Jody.
Jen:That's what I do, basically, office admin, accounting,
Jen:sales for a business from home.
Jen:So I am invisible.
Jen:I think it's supposed to be proof, but poof through a poof meet.
Jen:Maybe she meets.
Jen:Poof.
Jen:But I do think, yeah, I think that.
Jen:This is, this is what we're talking about.
Jen:This is helpful for people.
Jen:This is essential work for people.
Jen:It's important work.
Jen:And there are people who want to do it.
Jen:Yep.
Jen:And they're there to be hired.
Jen:I will say this, and I feel very strongly about this, pay for the people that you're
Jen:using and pay them a fair and living wage.
Jen:I hate it when I go on in the marketing groups or all of these business groups,
Jen:and people are like, hiring somebody for five, $2 an hour to be a va.
Jen:Pay people, pay people for what they are doing.
Jen:And even if it takes you longer to hire somebody that's very important.
Jen:This is important work.
Jen:And you get what you pay for.
Jen:And you also need to value people and value the work that they're doing.
Shelley:All right, . Yeah, that's all right.
Shelley:And yeah, and Jen is doing this and it took her a while to get to this point.
Shelley:If this is something you were thinking about, sometimes you don't
Shelley:have to hire a person, you can hire an agency or a small entrepreneur
Shelley:business that does this type of work.
Shelley:Somebody like Jeep Girl, Jody, somebody like us who does your production for you.
Shelley:Somebody like Jen who can set up your marketing so that, it's
Shelley:easier for you to take care of.
Shelley:Or you can at that point bring in somebody who's just going to follow
Shelley:Jen's, , here's what Recommendations
Jen:step.
Jen:Recommendations and steps.
Jen:Yeah.
Jen:It's all good.
Jen:Yeah.
Jen:Oh, I like what girl, Jody said, I could not do what you two do.
Jen:So it's all about being a team.
Jen:And that's exactly it.
Jen:Value your team, build a team.
Jen:And support each other.
Jen:That's
Shelley:right.
Shelley:And that's what we like to do.
Shelley:Toby and I, we are, complimentary.
Shelley:He takes care of the tasks that I have no interest in.
Shelley:I don't wanna do the money.
Shelley:I hate the money stuff.
Shelley:He takes care of it.
Shelley:He's got no problem with that, enjoys it.
Shelley:And I take care of all of the writing stuff.
Shelley:He hates the writing stuff.
Shelley:He doesn't wanna deal with blogs and posts and all of that.
Shelley:And I take care of all that.
Shelley:And you can find a partner like that who you each work to your strengths.
Shelley:It's amazing how much you can get done.
Shelley:Absolutely.
Shelley:Yeah.
Shelley:Hundred percent.
Shelley:So if you're interested in learning more about your marketing and getting
Shelley:a free marketing self-assessment from Jen at Women Conquer
Shelley:Business, go to send fox.com/wcb.
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Shelley:That is right.
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Jen:Go get it.
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Jen:So if you're listening, this is your last chance
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Jen:You can get it at any time, but you can't get it free after tomorrow.
Jen:Yeah.
Jen:Tomorrow's the last day.
Jen:Tomorrow's the last day for free.
Jen:Yeah, and I will say also, if you're new to the show and you've enjoyed it,
Jen:please do subscribe, follow, like, comment really helps us share it with a friend.
Jen:That's
Shelley:right.
Shelley:Well, Jodie won't have to feel so alone.
Jen:But we like cheat girl, Jodie.
Jen:I
Shelley:know when we need more of more people like her to have conversations.
Jen:Conversations.
Jen:That's right.
Jen:So now I'm gonna hand the rest of the show over to Shelley.
Jen:Oh boy.
Jen:. Shelley: Okay, so we're gonna
Jen:Descript has just come out with their full suite that they've had in beta
Jen:for a while, and I have been using the beta and it's a little bit frustrating
Jen:when you're in beta version because they'll make changes and things
Jen:move from over here, over here, and you're like, wait, where did it go?
Jen:And you have to find it.
Jen:But now it's done and it's ready and it's open to the public.
Jen:And I'm just gonna show you what that looks like.
Jen:This is their pricing and what they offer.
Jen:These are their plans.
Jen:You can get started for free and they offer transcription
Jen:of your audio and video.
Jen:They offer watermark free video, export video.
Jen:Export resolution starts at seven 20 and goes up to 4k.
Jen:So amazing.
Jen:They offer filler word removal, so all the ums and a's and repeats.
Jen:And when I go, yeah, yeah, Uhhuh.
Jen:Yeah.
Jen:They take that out . So some people aren't like, you're so
Jen:annoying, that out for you.
Jen:They have overdub, which clones your voice.
Jen:So if you made a mistake, if you're like, oh, I really meant to say
Jen:November 18th, not November 8th.
Jen:So let me go in.
Jen:With my clone voice, I can change the word eighth to 18th and it doesn't,
Jen:people don't even know that you did that.
Jen:So it's super to do, be able to do that.
Jen:They have Did you test that?
Jen:Have you done it?
Jen:Oh, oh yeah.
Jen:Oh yeah, I have.
Jen:Oh,
Jen:that's awesome.
Jen:It is.
Jen:I've used it.
Jen:Yeah.
Shelley:Yeah.
Shelley:It helps.
Shelley:It's saves you.
Shelley:It's I don't wanna re-record this stupid thing.
Shelley:I forgot to say this.
Shelley:I'll stick it in there.
Shelley:That's so awesome.
Shelley:Filler word re oh.
Shelley:Did over to AI green screen.
Shelley:This is something new.
Shelley:Where they, you can, they can take out your background if your background
Shelley:is ugly and you don't want it.
Shelley:On there, you can change the background, which is super cool.
Shelley:And they offer studio sound.
Shelley:So if, for instance, Jen and I were having a conversation and suddenly
Shelley:her audio went wonky and we needed to fix that studio sound takes care of
Shelley:that automatically when you apply it.
Shelley:And then they have a stock library of videos, images and gifts that you can
Shelley:add to your whatever you're creating.
Shelley:Super, super fun.
Shelley:Yeah, definitely check it out.
Shelley:They also have multi-language transcription.
Shelley:The, they detect speakers.
Shelley:So if I put something in there and it's got like for instance, that
Shelley:panel that we did last year where we had Toby plus six guests, it will.
Shelley:Separate out the people, and you can label them with their names.
Shelley:And once you've labeled, this is, they'll let you listen to the
Shelley:voice and you go, oh, that's Jen.
Shelley:Oh, that's Shelley.
Shelley:Oh
Jen:yeah.
Jen:I love that.
Jen:Yeah, I love that feature.
Jen:I do that with our show.
Jen:I'm excited.
Jen:I ha so in the beta, aside from the updates, have you enjoyed it?
Jen:Do you like the updates?
Shelley:I do.
Shelley:You know what's great about it is that, let me stop sharing here, is that you
Shelley:can take and put your video up in there and it transcribes it, and then you go,
Shelley:here's a clip, a quote that I really like.
Shelley:And you can take the quote out, make a new composition with just that quote.
Shelley:You can change it to a different shape.
Shelley:So if you want it to be a real, or you want it to be a square
Shelley:you can change the shape.
Shelley:Then you can caption it, you can throw in a couple of gift stickers that
Shelley:are like, woo, whatever you want.
Shelley:And it's.
Shelley:It doesn't require any editing knowledge.
Shelley:So although I know how to edit and I do have editing programs, there are
Shelley:times when this is so much easier and faster and more simple because
Shelley:it's specifically set up for this.
Shelley:But if you've never edited anything, all you have to do is go in and
Shelley:change the words and it changes the audio and the video at the same time.
Shelley:Now your mouth isn't gonna change.
Shelley:If you're saying one word, your mouth's still gonna be moving, but unless people
Shelley:can read lips, they're not gonna know
Shelley:Yeah.
Shelley:So I love it.
Shelley:It's super cool.
Jen:Highly I'm a pro user.
Jen:I will admit, I don't use everything because I just haven't
Jen:put in the time to learn it.
Jen:But I lo I love, love.
Jen:Love the script.
Jen:Like almost to the point where if I could marry a script, I'm
Shelley:just
Jen:So I think we're just dating and
Shelley:they're always updating it and making it better and listening to
Shelley:people's input about what they want and they see if they can make that happen.
Shelley:So it's a very responsive platform.
Shelley:It's not super cheap, but it's not super expensive either for what you're getting.
Shelley:It is super reasonable.
Shelley:If you were, for instance subscribing to Adobe products for editing,
Shelley:this is cheaper than that and it's much easier to use and there's
Shelley:no real big learning curve.
Shelley:So it's,
Jen:yeah, it's real cool.
Jen:No, and if my little plugins that I use in Garage Band would go into the script,
Jen:which they may be working on, then I wouldn't even use Garage Band anymore
Jen:because I use some plugins in Garage Band to boost the sound and make it.
Jen:For a podcast.
Jen:Mm-hmm.
Jen:. So it sounds better than if you're watching on YouTube.
Jen:There's just different settings and things.
Jen:But I'll go, then I go back into script and take out like some of the stuff
Jen:that, that I say that I'm like, no,
Jen:. Shelley: Yeah.
Jen:And it's really easy, just, you just highlight the words, delete,
Jen:and it takes it out, out of the audio, outta the video, everything.
Jen:Yeah.
Jen:But these, and then it adjusts so it sounds right.
Jen:So it's not like a big put it back together.
Jen:That's awesome.
Jen:I didn't know about making clips for reels or social media.
Jen:That's phenomenal.
Jen:Yeah,
Shelley:I used it yesterday for that.
Shelley:I made it a square one, but you can also make them the real shape.
Shelley:Yeah.
Shelley:Super cool.
Shelley:Awesome.
Shelley:So I'm gonna be doing more of that now that I've figured it out.
Shelley:. Jen: Hmm.
Shelley:Yeah, maybe you'll do it for this show.
Shelley:Maybe I
Shelley:will . Maybe I will.
Shelley:That's awesome.
Shelley:Yeah.
Shelley:Okay.
Shelley:Now we're gonna talk inspiration.
Shelley:Oh, sorry.
Shelley:Let's go back.
Shelley:I forgot this.
Shelley:Yeah.
Shelley:. There is something that I learned how to do on my phone this week.
Shelley:It's called Remix.
Shelley:When you have your own YouTube channel and you go to the YouTube app on
Shelley:your phone, and then you go to your channel and then you pick a video,
Shelley:and then you look below the video, you'll see something that says remix.
Shelley:If you tap on that, it will let you make shorts in the
Shelley:correct shape, for your YouTube.
Shelley:It's oh I said this really cool thing.
Shelley:It was about 15 seconds long.
Shelley:Let me just highlight that.
Shelley:Make it into a short, sends it up, puts the original link from the original
Shelley:video, the long form video on there.
Shelley:So cool.
Shelley:So easy to use.
Shelley:So check that out.
Shelley:If you have a YouTube channel and you wanna make sure it's out of your long form
Shelley:content, that is super easy way to do it.
Jen:I need the link for that.
Jen:Oh,
Jen:, Shelley: I just told you what to do.
Jen:Oh wait, we'll put it in the show notes.
Jen:Oh, then I'll read about it in the show notes.
Jen:That's right
Shelley:about it in the show notes.
Shelley:So it's called Remix and it's on your phone in the YouTube app.
Shelley:That's awesome.
Shelley:Got it.
Shelley:How exciting.
Shelley:All right, now we can move forward.
Shelley:, Jen: I don't know, I found
Shelley:ahead.
Shelley:Oh, all right.
Shelley:That was inspiring to me.
Shelley:Yes.
Shelley:So this is from Marcus Aureus.
Shelley:When you are distressed by an external thing, it's not the
Shelley:thing itself that troubles you, but only your judgment of it.
Shelley:And you can wipe this out in a moment's notice what false
Shelley:judgment can I wipe away today?
Shelley:Basically, anything that happens isn't a good thing, isn't a bad thing.
Shelley:It is what you say it is.
Shelley:If you think it's good, it's good.
Shelley:If you think it's bad, it's bad.
Shelley:But you can change your mind on it too.
Shelley:So that's just a little inspirational nugget that I want you to think
Shelley:about throughout the week.
Shelley:If something happens and you immediately knee jerk say, oh no, that's horrible.
Shelley:Try to turn that around and say, how is this a good thing?
Shelley:How could this be perceived as a good thing?
Shelley:And that's gonna help lift you up and keep you from getting too anxious
Shelley:or worried about every little thing that's gonna come up in your life.
Shelley:What do you think, Jen?
Jen:Is that like self-talk?
Shelley:It is, but it's about understanding that your
Shelley:perception is changeable.
Jen:Oh, that's, yeah.
Jen:Yeah.
Jen:I love
Shelley:that.
Shelley:Yeah.
Shelley:You can always change what you think about something.
Shelley:I could tell you a story about that.
Shelley:Yeah.
Shelley:So there was this, it's a story.
Shelley:There was a farmer and he struggled for many, many years to save
Shelley:some money to buy a stallion.
Shelley:So that he could make money off of stud fees and and raise horses.
Shelley:And everybody said, oh, well, that, that must have been really hard for you.
Shelley:What a great thing you've done.
Shelley:And he say, good thing, bad thing.
Shelley:Who knows?
Shelley:Well, one day the stallion jumped over the fence and ran away
Shelley:and everybody was like, oh no.
Shelley:Oh no.
Shelley:What a horrible thing.
Shelley:And the man said, good thing, bad thing.
Shelley:Who knows?
Shelley:About a week later, the stallion came back and he brought with him a herd of horses
Shelley:that he was the alpha male, and he brought his harem, his herd of horses with him.
Shelley:They put them all in the corral.
Shelley:Now he had a.
Shelley:Bunch of horses and everybody's like, wow, what a great thing.
Shelley:And he'd say, good thing, bad thing.
Shelley:Who knows?
Shelley:One day the son, his son was working with the horse, and the horse
Shelley:kicked him and and it broke his leg and he had to have in the cast.
Shelley:And everybody's like, oh no, that was horrible.
Shelley:What a sad thing.
Shelley:And he's good thing, bad thing.
Shelley:Who knows?
Shelley:The army came through and they were recruiting and drafting, actually drafting
Shelley:young men for the army to go off to war.
Shelley:And they couldn't take him because he had a broken leg.
Shelley:So the moral of the story is good thing, bad thing.
Shelley:Who knows?
Shelley:Don't judge it right away.
Shelley:Wait and see.
Shelley:Yeah.
Shelley:Yeah.
Shelley:Love it.
Jen:Hard to.
Jen:Hard to do.
Jen:So necessary.
Jen:, . Shelley: But the less you attach
Jen:more calm you'll be able to be.
Jen:Yeah.
Jen:Accepting for true.
Jen:Yeah.
Jen:Thank you.
Jen:Yeah.
Jen:I hope that was helpful for people and you'll think about
Jen:that throughout the week.
Jen:Jen and I are going to be recording an episode soon for our Thanksgiving show.
Jen:So we will have a show for Thanksgiving, but it won't be live.
Jen:That's right.
Jen:I'll be a different show, but
Jen:I won't be live.
Jen:We're pre-recording this.
Jen:Yeah.
Jen:And so everybody have a great week.
Jen:I hope you have so much fun with your families and friends.
Jen:If you're celebrating Thanksgiving, I know not everybody does.
Jen:So let's love and support one of each other and share as much
Jen:gratitude as we can with others.
Shelley:Yes, and I'm thankful for you, Jen.
Shelley:I'm thankful for you too, Shelley, have a great week.
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